It even makes me annoyed bc it reminds me of teachers when they try to comfort someone. It doesn't even need to be the same language it still sounds exactly like teachers.
When I got broken up with I was sobbing in class. My English teacher saw me when I walked in (I wasn’t crying right now) and asked how my days going. I told her horrible I got broken up with. Then immediately started crying again. She hugged me and gave me chocolate from her desk and let me just chill for that class. In the middle of the hour I find out something my ex did right after he broke up with me and I started sobbing again. My teacher took me out of her class and we just roamed the halls talking about it. She helped me so much. She’s leaving though to go teach at another school. They’re really lucky to have her. Something she said to me “remember to always do your best and don’t let any dusty boy dull your shine” I love her
Lindsay-. How lovely-. the way that your teacher helped you, and what she said. Great that you took the time to model what great human-to-human communication can look like 😁🤗😊✌️ online...
@Louis Kingsta nah you’re not cold hearted. Some people are just stronger than others emotionally. I tend to be very weak when it comes to that subject and I don’t know why. If can be good and it can be bad but I’ve lived with it.
i was crying at school cuz of something my mom said and my teacher comforted me but then later i figured out she emailed my parents and they were mad because i was crying at school 💔😭
Well the teacher had the right to bc it could've been something serious . Ur parents are the problem bc they shouldn't be mad at u . They should've talked to u
@@Graceroadto3k It doesn’t matter if it’s something serious or not, the child has a right to confidentiality. Besides, the teacher knew what the matter was, and that it involves the parents, and yet she still emailed them anyway. That is negligence, and the opposite of a teacher caring about something which could be serious.
I was a teacher for awhile and one of my kids broke down like this (she had her reasons) and we were indeed doing a test. I told her she could ask to go home and be with her guardian instead because a test can be done another time when she would be ready for it. It's not that hard to be nice to a kid even if they aren't as nice to you.
Yea! By the way, congratulations and thanks for that! Many days we don't have good days and we simply have to give up everything, but when teachers do things like what you did, makes us feel MUCH better
As a student that has done this in a test (silently), thank you so much. That little bit of understanding can go a long way into their life, and not reinforce past trauma they may have. (Not sure how me-specific this is but meh)
I have great hope for teachers being trained now. I'm working on a master's in secondary ed and there are entire units dedicated to social and emotional education and caring for the whole child not just their academics.
While that's wonderful, I actually prefer the teacher in this video's approach more. I'd feel validated and heard and could still get something done. Such a situation occurs many a time in our professional life. Just a little bit of validation and concern would do loads for me!
My mom was in the hospital and I got a message from the office saying that I needed to come and my dad had sent me a message that it was about my mom and I needed to come asap, and the teacher tryed to make me take a 18 question test before I could go
@@evieveenhof9552 WHAT ur mum could have died or smth (idk if she did and if she did sorry for ur loss if not them (if she is safe) I'm glad she's safe bc no-one diserves to die but unfortunately it happens) and ur teacher wanted u to do a test thats just not right like u could do the test another day
TW: MENTION OF SU*CIDE this reminds me of a time in high school when one of my closest online friends told me she was attempting to k*ll herself as we spoke. I was desperately saying everything I could think of to get her to stop. I remember being at lunch during this and straight-up sobbing because I couldn’t do anything else. Then, to make matters worse, my phone died. I thankfully had a charger with me and was able to charge my phone in my next class. Maybe an hour or so of silence, she messaged again to let me know that she hadn’t gone through with it. I asked to go to the bathroom and ended up pacing the halls for like 10 minutes repeating to my self “she’s alive, everything’s okay. She’s alive.” I was still so torn up about it that my 6th hour teacher noticed and sent me to the counselor’s office. He was a homie
I had a friend who messaged me that she was on the roof and ready to jump. I spoke to her via MSN, during computerclass (I'd already finished my assignment.) While I tried convincing her to calm down and that she should not kill herself, she kept posting that she wanted to die. Then my teacher suddenly shouted through the classroom; "EMMA what the hell are you talking about online?!" I said; What do you mean, I've finished my assignment, I'm allowed to chat with friends" and in front of my (bullies) classroom, she shouted; "You are saying all sorts of weird things about wanting to die and killing yourself and suïcide and I will not have those sortof things being discussed in this class!" I answered; "My friend is the one that is saying that, I'm trying to help her. Why are you spying in my screen and reading my conversation?!" And she said: "You should be focussed on your work or watch a movie or play a game, not talk about these sortof issues." I said: "So I just have to let her kill herself then?" And she argued that if I had ignored her text and hadn't gone online, that the whole issue would've been fine and that nothing would have happened. The girl was fine btw, but yhe bullies decided it was more interesting to stick with teacher's story, so for the rest of the year, the gossip about me was that I wanted to die.
@@Widdekuu91 wtf is with this teacher's awful logic? Her saying, if you hadn't gotten on MSN to chat then this wouldn't be happening and everything would be fine...? How does she figure that? If someone is feeling like ending their life and cannot even reach a friend to talk to, I am sure that would only make them feel 100x more lonely and worthless. It's possible that you got MSN chat at just the right time and saved your friend by showing them that someone cares.
I had a panic attack at school one day and an administrator kept insisting that I speak to the dean and I kept saying I just wanted to be by myself. Then while that was going on a teacher came and gave me a hug and asked if I wanted to talk and I said no I want to he alone so she walked away then the dean got called in and I was trying to walk out and he’s telling me to go to his office while I m still in full blown panic mode. Then he stuck me in his office and walked out to get someone to he with us and I almost ran. Like out of the office out of the school just dip cuz I didn’t feel safe or comfortable there in that moment . It wasn’t great
This one time in fifth grade I was really upset in the morning before going to my science class. MIND YOU MY TEACHER IS SO NICE. She took me out in the hall and asked me if anything was wrong and my trust issues said "I'm fine" when I was on the verge of tears and my teacher hugged me and man that made my whole day
I worked at a teen shelter and my favorite kid was at the school office -he insisted they called the main house and asked me to come pick him up from school. But the school was like “well really he doesn’t seem that sick and we don’t like him missing quizzes…I could see he was about to crack when I picked him up but he had told them he was sick…However he was stone faced but I saw panic in his eyes! I got him in the van and pulled away and then pulled over and said “What happened?-really you can tell me!”. He started freakin out because his class had a tv and they watched the news daily and then did a report and discussion. He was looking at the tv and a mugshot of his Dad was on there and the news said he’d just been arrested for first degree murder! He told me he was freaking out cuz he was sure his dad had done it as he was a very violent man and tjis kid also knew the victim somewhat and he was mainly freaking because he was afraid that inside himself was a version of his own dad…of course there was also the fear that even tho they had different last names that someone might put the two together-altho no one there had seemed to. He ended up just bawling and I sat there totally understanding his trauma but slowly trying to convince him he WAS a different person altogether and that I only ever sensed good things in him..Told him I loved him bunches and had great hopes for him and his future. This society may not have supported that but I hope his determination in life held him well. I wished I could rescue him and so many other ones myself.
I remember crying during a test once because my grandmother had passed away that morning and they told me how I should get over it and my grandmother on my mothers side had passed the week before 😀👍🏽
@@lucyleroux8001 yep but it didn’t go well for them because then I called my dad crying and told him and he cussed every single teacher out to the point where they left the room crying
A couple days after a friend of mine committed suicide my friend and I were packing up things from my locker to leave school early. Our parents called us out for the rest of the day because we were having a hard time. So just me and her in the hallway and the principal see us from across the hall. He decided it was a good idea to go out of his way and tell us that he has a job to focus on all the students here and not just the ones going through a hard time. He was saying this with a serious attitude. My friend was livid and wouldn't look at him. He straight up got in her face and demanded she look at him while he is speaking to her. We were going through the hardest time in our lives at that point and this grown ass man thought it'd be a good time to have a power trip and tell us he doesn't give a shit about us. Asshole shows up to my friend funeral a couple days later like nothing happened. Weird for him to show up. I thought he couldn't focus on the students going through a hard time? I still can't believe he went to it after disrespecting us like that. It made me feel sick to see him talking with her parents at the funeral and then look over to us as he walked away from them... fucking sick human being.
@@3.D.L Thanks! Yea, were all doing okay now. This happened 15 years ago. It still bothers me this happened though. Lol hope you have a good day as well.
@@lucyleroux8001 Honestly, there were a few people who were assholes about the whole thing. Off the top of my head i can think of 5 people, 2 of those is school staff. My friend who committed suicide was bullied A LOT in school and had emotional problems from it. I guess a few of us got a taste of what that was like for her in a way. Very sad.
@@yumbunny2566 thanks, I appreciate people actually giving a shit. I honestly don't talk about that part of it very often. It totally was an abuse of power.
I had a teacher friend at school from year 11-13. He was absolutely amazing. I would go chill with him nearly everyday in year 11 and then in 12 and 13 we basically scheduled a day a week I’d come and chill with him at lunch. It was so great to have that and if I was feeling down I always would just go chill with him and I’d feel better. Even if we don’t discuss anything about me feeling down or panicky, just chilling was great. We shared the same humour and you always laughed when you were with him. He wasn’t my teacher in a levels but I was doing his subject and even though he didn’t teach me, he helped me wherever he could with understanding. It’s been nearly 3 years since I left school - I miss him.
I remember once my French teacher completely ignored me when I was sobbing in her class. I set out for the next 3 years to always ignore her. Didn’t do homework, chatting in class, disrupting any moment I got. Never underestimate a grudge a 12 year old can keep
@@xAstroverse_ "F" is like some kind of expression that came from an online post "press F to pay respects in the chat". so it's basically a "stay strong buddy" expression to a story of something bad that happened to a person.
if I were a teacher I would ask if she wants me to take her somewhere private, then after we got there I would hug her and tell her that I had to go to the classroom because there is a test and I have to look at the students, I would say that I would pass the test to her again another day when she was better, and I would say that when she feels comfortable to come back, she will come back. I say this as a student who plans to be a teacher, no student should go through the humiliation of taking a test feeling vulnerable and crying! She doesn't eat well and is not in MINIMUM conditions of thinking! In my opinion, teachers shouldn't do this, the student's health comes first, and in this situation their thoughts are not even close to healthy!We should always consider We should always consider the person's mental state at the moment!Just the thought of this happening fills me with rage! These teachers seem to have no common sense!
When something traumatic was happening in my life, I’d often break down in lessons and this one particular teacher always helped me and gave me stuff from staff room, the receptionist always helped too
Here I go, So I had this teacher, she somewhat just graduated college and she was new, so I only had her in the school for a year, but she was the literal best teacher I could ever wish for. We made a handshake, we laughed and talked in lunch, she encouraged me all the time, she would ALWAYS be there for me when I was sad and I loved her more than I can say. She was never like any other teacher with all the stereotypes, she was the literal best. cuz she had a huge young heart, and a amazing personality, we got along so well. She was absolutely gorgeous too, sadly , I left that school, and I was in absolute tears hugging her all day and I really miss her. Love u.
One teacher told me that keeping the halls clear was more important than my emotions, and to go cry somewhere else. My boyfriend was cheating on me with my sister and my Mum had a heart attack and was being rushed to hospital.
When I was crying in the bathroom at school because I was going through a really rough breakup, the teacher came and asked me how I was doing and she actually gave me her blanket. I remember how cold it was in japan. She told me she’d be waiting for me in the room which no one uses anymore, with a heater on and some chocolates… we just talked about what I was going through while everyone else was in the class… I miss her so much😭
My teacher, when I was crying.. like full on streaming tears, she called out in front of the class - stopping her sentence: " are you alright??" Couple seconds later, "Right, I need you to focus on the lesson, you are distracting the whole class." Bitch, just do your lesson. No one even knew I was crying until she got everyone to turn and stare! Everyone turned around
ikr like its fricking pointless and humiliating to bring attention to someone when there cryin then not even bother to help them like thx so much teach xx
Nah my English teacher said I had to work on her stupid paragraph assignment after being told my dog was being PUT DOWN IN LESS THAN 2 HOURS! I sat their, crying still, not being able to think on anything but my dog. She also told my friends they weren’t aloud to comfort me. One had known my dog for 4-5 years.
The snarky smile at the end like they won an argument is extremely accurate. I had a teacher tell me that grandma died 6 months ago and I needed to get over it. My mom was in a depression so bad she really should have been hospitalized and my sisters and I were dealing with severe neglect. We weren't doing our school work because we had no one to help us with fending for ourselves for just about everything including food and hygiene products.
This reminded me of sth similar 😅 A close uncle of mine passed away when I was in hs, and I had to travel back home to attend his funeral, so I missed an important maths exam. When I came back just the day after, my math teacher asked me about my absence and I guess I wasn't all cried out yet because I ended up crying a little bit. He was like oh well so sorry, here's the make up test, you have to take it today. But nah, jokes aside he was real nice about it and even made me a cup of tea to drink during the exam.
I'm so glad my chemistry teacher was not like this. I came in sobbing because of something that happened the previous period and the teacher was absolutely no help and was not empathetic the only help she gave me was a late pass. My chemistry teacher on the other hand recognized me crying, told me to grab my desk partner and go out in the hall (we didn't end up going out but my partner was helpful and told me to sit down and helped out) to calm me down. I had a test that period too by the way and I forced myself to take it because I felt the need to and I was stable enough to take it. I made an A on it but the point is my chemistry teacher helped me by finding a way to get me help (if that makes sense) and that's what matters and that shows how wonderful of a teacher she is
My theatre teacher in my freshmen year: you good? you wanna talk about it? you can go in the grotto (the office space that was instead filled with books, fidgets, soft lights, a chair, and pillows). don't worry about anything else right now
Honestly, thank you. I’m making a book, and that “grotto” thing gave me an idea for a place that Stan (main character) can go whenever he’s not doing to well. Tysm for writing this comment tbh
Last year in sixth grade, two weeks before the school year ended, I started crying at the end of class ( everyone had already finished packing up and left, except my teacher) and I had just found out the night before thta my granny had stage four terminal cancer and she has two-three months to live, but she lives on the other side of the world and my dad doesn’t have a visa for thta country so we might not be able to see her, and my tecaher hugged me and comforted me and basically said I can cry to her o folks to her whenever I want…she was such a nice tecaher. I also cried Infront of her on the last day of school when saying bye to her, because we were very close. She was such a nice teacher Ps: we did get flights to see my grandmother, this was two and a half months after finding out she had cancer, but she died threee days before we got there
My cousin broke up with a girl named Ellie at lunch around 5 months ago when everyone was in school it’s so weird cause this story is basically what happened between them
That's horrible. Bottling your emotions up can have detrimental consequences. I hate it when people act like others are not allowed to cry. It is only human to do so.
I second what kirijunx said. I have a councillor, and I’ve had a therapist, a homeopath and seen a social worker. All of them look horrified at the whole bottled emotions thing. It’s absolutely sh*t for your mental health and how you show emotion further down the line and your teachers actively telling you to do that is ridiculous
the whole “don’t cry, its weak” thing makes no sense to me at all and hasn’t before…in year 3 i was comforting a friend who was having a breakdown for some reason (i forgot why) then some of our girl classmates came up to us and were all like “ *I* never cried even when i hit my head on a table!” (or something like that) and i was just like, “nothing is wrong with crying. its a normal thing so please just go away for now?” (damn i was so respectful those times). although even though i disagree with bottling your emotion i still do it myself?? i have no idea why and im very confused by it…lol
I’m obsessed with your vids lol - remind me of secondary school so much 😆 also exhausting watching you being so “on” like the teachers are in English secondary schools lmao 🤣 your eyebrows must ache like mad lol
Ha, i was upset during a test once, my teacher didnt say anything. But then with a different teacher, when i was crying, she sent me outside to calm down, and i completex the test next lesson. Best teacher
Well she tried to comfort in whatever way she can even if it is fake. It’s better than my math teacher that called me to solve an exercise ignoring that i was crying. Usually teacher would just ignore at least mine so i guess this is fine
Could be worse & have a teacher that use to mock students about their weight. From personal experience dealing with a teacher who my son had many years back in primary school she go round the class mocking the children's weight. Absolutely disgusting can you imagine how the kids felt!
You know in elementary school, we were 12. My classmate was crying and his friends were comforting him, and our teacher just said ‘tf you doing get back to your seats we are in the middle of the lesson’ without at all batting an eye at the crying student
I had a really good math teacher who was really concerned because I would ace my math worksheet then go to the test and fail the test ( I didn't cheat). She actually helped me figure it out I have test anxiety. I don't do good with all the numbers, it made me really anxious. She was a great teacher. The ony teacher who actually cared about the students passing.
Bruh this hits a lil too close to home. A teacher caught me crying during lunchtime (I was being bullied for being gay, the joys of growing up in remote southern England) and sent me to the ‘school councillor’ who asked why I was feeling sad, and when I told her what was happening she ignored pretty much everything and said “make a box of things that make you happy and look at them when you’re feeling sad” and sent me straight to class from there, like???
I actually had a teacher who helped me so freshman year of high school I was doing really bad in science and I had that class very last so if I had a bad day then a test I wasn’t prepared for then Id cry this only happened three times but all three times my teacher reassured me and always help me calm down before and even checked on me afterwards ended up passing the class with a high d but I definitely wouldn’t have passed without that teacher
As a teacher, I hate this type of teachers. Tests/Exams can be flexible, but a full emotional problem SHOULD always get first. Just by telling them to go outside and wash can help…or (depending on the topic) give them the Option of retaking another day. Taking a test under emotional distress will not show an acqurate results
My health teacher did little ice breaker question things at the start of every class, and when we got back from thanksgiving break (I live in America) she asked the simple question of “what was the best part of your vacation” the problem was that before break my friend left to go to a mental hospital but I wasn’t allowed to actually be told that because it was confidential and her mother doesn’t like me even though we’ve never met so she just told me “____ is fine but will be unavailable for two weeks, stop blowing up her phone” after I freaked out because I though she committed suicide. Anyway the end of two weeks was during the break so I messaged her and she didn’t respond so I assumed her mom just decided to not let her have her phone back because that’s the kind of terrible parent she is, I had convinced myself that she was now back and feeling better and I’d see her on Monday after break, I didn’t see her Monday so I just told myself that the schools huge and I’ll see her tomorrow since we have health together, my vacation sucked other then the thought that I’d finally calm down knowing she’s safe after break when I see her so that was the best part of my vacation the thought of seeing her again. When it got to my turn my throat felt clogged up I couldn’t talk and then I started crying, the teacher let me go for a walk I saw my friend again the week after that and I hugged her immediately and she told me she told me she would have texted me but her mother was keeping her phone for a while (like I thought she would because cutting off communication will totally help a kid feel better 🙄)
I got robbed and was held at knifepoint. I thought I was going to die, and because I was surrounded by +10 guys I also feared worse . But they only took my phone right before a performance for my school and when the teacher asked me why I was crying and I was traumatized and told her what happened and she said "I know that's terrible but the performing will distract you🥺." She didn't want the schedule of the performance to be disturbed because I was a bit disturbed by fearing for my life 10 mins ago😃
i remember the one and only time a teacher really comforted me at school, i was trying to hide my crying during a lesson once because my mum had texted me (we were allowed our phones) about a family member that had died in 2010 (we r very spiritual) and it made me cry so once the lesson ended, the teacher actually came up and asked if i was ok, i told her i was fine but she gave me a really big hug and 😭😭💔 next day (i had her every day that year) i told her what was going on and she was so understanding, and she didn't make a big deal out of my feelings (i didn't want it to be a big deal) and i still miss her man, she was like my second mum
My teachers are luckily not like this. I’ve seen several students in my class cry at different occasions in front of different teachers, and they all have handled it pretty good in my opinion. Whenever a student has broken down during a test the teacher has been like “You can leave if you want to. Some it’s just to hard”. I’m really thankful for that😊
Omg if a teacher talked to me like that I would tell them to F off and actually my feelings are the most important. If a child is to upset to concentrate it’s ok to let them take a test later.
My mom died when I was nine and I was crying in class a week or two after she died. The teacher yelled at me "stop crying for your mom! Your mother is deceased!"
Teachers always overestimate the importance of their tests, huh? Once you've been out of school for a few years you realize how little they and homework mattered. It's not even an exam, just a test! this was spot on lol
Tbh this made me realize and say something Your feelings are important but they should never stop you from achieving what you should be So save those tears, do whatever the fuck it is that makes you want to cry and after doing it then you can cry. Because after doing it you’re either 1. Crying because it was too hard Or 2. Crying tears of joy So do whatever the fuck that frustrates you or is hard for you because then you’ll at least have tried
I was having a panic attack and a teacher thought I was crying because “the math work was to hard” and then she took me outside even though I was having a panic attack
oh my gosh this is so accurate! i was bullied a lot in school and one day i just broke and at the end of class i just couldnt stop sobbing, i had a male teacher and he literally just left the room, and then i went to see support and all they cared about was that i got back to class, they didnt even punish the people responsible. and i had to sit near them in my next class it was honestly the worst
God wish this was like my teachers in school- had a massive fear of pubic speaking, when ever I had to do a presentation I got up to the front of the class, started speaking, burst into tears and the teacher just didn't give a fuck 🤣 failed me
the way she validated her then just broke her down💀
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lol right?!
It is actually a bit less important at that moment 🤭
😭😭😭
Lmaooo yuppp
why does nobody talk about the way she speaks is so true to a teachers voice.
It's the facial expressions too!
IK!
accurate all the way down to the hand actions😆
Ik she speaks like one of my teachers that I hate
It even makes me annoyed bc it reminds me of teachers when they try to comfort someone. It doesn't even need to be the same language it still sounds exactly like teachers.
When I got broken up with I was sobbing in class. My English teacher saw me when I walked in (I wasn’t crying right now) and asked how my days going. I told her horrible I got broken up with. Then immediately started crying again. She hugged me and gave me chocolate from her desk and let me just chill for that class. In the middle of the hour I find out something my ex did right after he broke up with me and I started sobbing again. My teacher took me out of her class and we just roamed the halls talking about it. She helped me so much. She’s leaving though to go teach at another school. They’re really lucky to have her. Something she said to me “remember to always do your best and don’t let any dusty boy dull your shine”
I love her
Lindsay-. How lovely-. the way that your teacher helped you, and what she said. Great that you took the time to model what great human-to-human communication can look like 😁🤗😊✌️ online...
Thats such a nice teacher
@@jbfluffypingu185 yeah she was the best. I’m going to miss her so much
@Louis Kingsta nah you’re not cold hearted. Some people are just stronger than others emotionally. I tend to be very weak when it comes to that subject and I don’t know why. If can be good and it can be bad but I’ve lived with it.
It's always the good teachers that leave it's rlly sad but it's also nice to know that someone else will get the same nice treatment you got.
my band director once told me to schedule my panic attacks better💀
Gooble... pretty Cold! 😔
I can't help if u have panic attacks tho- what ur band director said isn't right
*U can't
wow just- wow
"sorry anxiety not right now, maybe at like 3:45 PM perhaps-"
LMAOOO 😭✋
i was crying at school cuz of something my mom said and my teacher comforted me but then later i figured out she emailed my parents and they were mad because i was crying at school 💔😭
OMG nooo !! That’s top tier betrayal
Well the teacher had the right to bc it could've been something serious . Ur parents are the problem bc they shouldn't be mad at u . They should've talked to u
@@Graceroadto3k Exactly, they shouldn’t have been angry :((
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My mum threw away my still working Xbox and DVD/VCR player. I feel your pain.
@@Graceroadto3k It doesn’t matter if it’s something serious or not, the child has a right to confidentiality. Besides, the teacher knew what the matter was, and that it involves the parents, and yet she still emailed them anyway. That is negligence, and the opposite of a teacher caring about something which could be serious.
I was a teacher for awhile and one of my kids broke down like this (she had her reasons) and we were indeed doing a test. I told her she could ask to go home and be with her guardian instead because a test can be done another time when she would be ready for it. It's not that hard to be nice to a kid even if they aren't as nice to you.
Yea! By the way, congratulations and thanks for that! Many days we don't have good days and we simply have to give up everything, but when teachers do things like what you did, makes us feel MUCH better
As a student that has done this in a test (silently), thank you so much. That little bit of understanding can go a long way into their life, and not reinforce past trauma they may have. (Not sure how me-specific this is but meh)
teacher goals 🥲
I have great hope for teachers being trained now. I'm working on a master's in secondary ed and there are entire units dedicated to social and emotional education and caring for the whole child not just their academics.
While that's wonderful, I actually prefer the teacher in this video's approach more. I'd feel validated and heard and could still get something done. Such a situation occurs many a time in our professional life. Just a little bit of validation and concern would do loads for me!
Schools: We care about you and your feelings!
Also schools: Actually feelings are number 2 test is number 1!
My mom was in the hospital and I got a message from the office saying that I needed to come and my dad had sent me a message that it was about my mom and I needed to come asap, and the teacher tryed to make me take a 18 question test before I could go
@@evieveenhof9552 WHAT ur mum could have died or smth (idk if she did and if she did sorry for ur loss if not them (if she is safe) I'm glad she's safe bc no-one diserves to die but unfortunately it happens) and ur teacher wanted u to do a test thats just not right like u could do the test another day
@@Tikkithekwami she is fine now but we had a scare
@@evieveenhof9552 that's good that she's fine and I hope that u and ur family live ur lives to the fullest that u can
feelings is number 2 and test number 1
Helpp!! She looks soo EVIL when she walks away at the end 😭😂
She should enter the Olympics representing every teacher out there- her acting and voice skills r just ✨❤️
The passive aggressiveness in this is insane. And feels so familiar…
TW: MENTION OF SU*CIDE
this reminds me of a time in high school when one of my closest online friends told me she was attempting to k*ll herself as we spoke. I was desperately saying everything I could think of to get her to stop. I remember being at lunch during this and straight-up sobbing because I couldn’t do anything else. Then, to make matters worse, my phone died. I thankfully had a charger with me and was able to charge my phone in my next class. Maybe an hour or so of silence, she messaged again to let me know that she hadn’t gone through with it. I asked to go to the bathroom and ended up pacing the halls for like 10 minutes repeating to my self “she’s alive, everything’s okay. She’s alive.” I was still so torn up about it that my 6th hour teacher noticed and sent me to the counselor’s office. He was a homie
I had a friend who messaged me that she was on the roof and ready to jump. I spoke to her via MSN, during computerclass (I'd already finished my assignment.)
While I tried convincing her to calm down and that she should not kill herself, she kept posting that she wanted to die.
Then my teacher suddenly shouted through the classroom; "EMMA what the hell are you talking about online?!"
I said; What do you mean, I've finished my assignment, I'm allowed to chat with friends" and in front of my (bullies) classroom, she shouted; "You are saying all sorts of weird things about wanting to die and killing yourself and suïcide and I will not have those sortof things being discussed in this class!"
I answered; "My friend is the one that is saying that, I'm trying to help her. Why are you spying in my screen and reading my conversation?!"
And she said: "You should be focussed on your work or watch a movie or play a game, not talk about these sortof issues."
I said: "So I just have to let her kill herself then?" And she argued that if I had ignored her text and hadn't gone online, that the whole issue would've been fine and that nothing would have happened.
The girl was fine btw, but yhe bullies decided it was more interesting to stick with teacher's story, so for the rest of the year, the gossip about me was that I wanted to die.
@@Widdekuu91 I’m so sorry that happened. High school can be so cruel. I’m glad your friend is okay
@@Widdekuu91 glad everyone is ok. But that teacher is sick to the core. Like how can you be that ignorant.
@@Widdekuu91 wtf is with this teacher's awful logic? Her saying, if you hadn't gotten on MSN to chat then this wouldn't be happening and everything would be fine...? How does she figure that? If someone is feeling like ending their life and cannot even reach a friend to talk to, I am sure that would only make them feel 100x more lonely and worthless. It's possible that you got MSN chat at just the right time and saved your friend by showing them that someone cares.
Teachers really know how to make you feel worse on a bad day!😅🤗
Tysm for the likes❤️ you are the best and have an amazing rest of ur life❤️
She plays this role so well!? I have to breath, unclench my fists and remember that she's just acting
I had a panic attack at school one day and an administrator kept insisting that I speak to the dean and I kept saying I just wanted to be by myself. Then while that was going on a teacher came and gave me a hug and asked if I wanted to talk and I said no I want to he alone so she walked away then the dean got called in and I was trying to walk out and he’s telling me to go to his office while I m still in full blown panic mode. Then he stuck me in his office and walked out to get someone to he with us and I almost ran. Like out of the office out of the school just dip cuz I didn’t feel safe or comfortable there in that moment . It wasn’t great
istfg, schools don’t care about your health or feelings 🙄
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That sounds bad :( I hate that schools don't take mental health seriously
thats terrible, the dean should have asked you and given you time to be alone. :((
Sorry I am not a native speaker pls excuse me.
Is Dean a kind of priest? I just googled it and I really wanna know
I love how she's like, "your feelings are important!" and then is like, "well actually, they're not very important." 🤣😭
This one time in fifth grade I was really upset in the morning before going to my science class. MIND YOU MY TEACHER IS SO NICE. She took me out in the hall and asked me if anything was wrong and my trust issues said "I'm fine" when I was on the verge of tears and my teacher hugged me and man that made my whole day
"You look really really upset because you're crying a lot" well no kidding if I'm crying I'm gonna look upset bruh💀
I worked at a teen shelter and my favorite kid was at the school office -he insisted they called the main house and asked me to come pick him up from school. But the school was like “well really he doesn’t seem that sick and we don’t like him missing quizzes…I could see he was about to crack when I picked him up but he had told them he was sick…However he was stone faced but I saw panic in his eyes! I got him in the van and pulled away and then pulled over and said “What happened?-really you can tell me!”. He started freakin out because his class had a tv and they watched the news daily and then did a report and discussion. He was looking at the tv and a mugshot of his Dad was on there and the news said he’d just been arrested for first degree murder! He told me he was freaking out cuz he was sure his dad had done it as he was a very violent man and tjis kid also knew the victim somewhat and he was mainly freaking because he was afraid that inside himself was a version of his own dad…of course there was also the fear that even tho they had different last names that someone might put the two together-altho no one there had seemed to. He ended up just bawling and I sat there totally understanding his trauma but slowly trying to convince him he WAS a different person altogether and that I only ever sensed good things in him..Told him I loved him bunches and had great hopes for him and his future. This society may not have supported that but I hope his determination in life held him well. I wished I could rescue him and so many other ones myself.
I remember crying during a test once because my grandmother had passed away that morning and they told me how I should get over it and my grandmother on my mothers side had passed the week before 😀👍🏽
@@lucyleroux8001 yep but it didn’t go well for them because then I called my dad crying and told him and he cussed every single teacher out to the point where they left the room crying
@@NoImNotOkayGood the teachers deserve it
A couple days after a friend of mine committed suicide my friend and I were packing up things from my locker to leave school early. Our parents called us out for the rest of the day because we were having a hard time. So just me and her in the hallway and the principal see us from across the hall. He decided it was a good idea to go out of his way and tell us that he has a job to focus on all the students here and not just the ones going through a hard time. He was saying this with a serious attitude. My friend was livid and wouldn't look at him. He straight up got in her face and demanded she look at him while he is speaking to her. We were going through the hardest time in our lives at that point and this grown ass man thought it'd be a good time to have a power trip and tell us he doesn't give a shit about us.
Asshole shows up to my friend funeral a couple days later like nothing happened. Weird for him to show up. I thought he couldn't focus on the students going through a hard time? I still can't believe he went to it after disrespecting us like that. It made me feel sick to see him talking with her parents at the funeral and then look over to us as he walked away from them... fucking sick human being.
Omg that is awful. Hope everyone has recovered now and hope ur living the best you can 👍. Have a nice day!
@@3.D.L Thanks! Yea, were all doing okay now. This happened 15 years ago. It still bothers me this happened though. Lol hope you have a good day as well.
@@lucyleroux8001 Honestly, there were a few people who were assholes about the whole thing. Off the top of my head i can think of 5 people, 2 of those is school staff. My friend who committed suicide was bullied A LOT in school and had emotional problems from it. I guess a few of us got a taste of what that was like for her in a way. Very sad.
That's disgusting. It's horrible how teachers abuse their position. I'm so sorry ❤️❤️❤️
@@yumbunny2566 thanks, I appreciate people actually giving a shit. I honestly don't talk about that part of it very often. It totally was an abuse of power.
I had a teacher friend at school from year 11-13. He was absolutely amazing. I would go chill with him nearly everyday in year 11 and then in 12 and 13 we basically scheduled a day a week I’d come and chill with him at lunch. It was so great to have that and if I was feeling down I always would just go chill with him and I’d feel better. Even if we don’t discuss anything about me feeling down or panicky, just chilling was great. We shared the same humour and you always laughed when you were with him. He wasn’t my teacher in a levels but I was doing his subject and even though he didn’t teach me, he helped me wherever he could with understanding. It’s been nearly 3 years since I left school - I miss him.
That’s so nice you should definitely meet him what are you at university now lad ?
We all knew that relationship wasn't gonna last
When you realise she isn’t actually a teacher 💀
I remember once my French teacher completely ignored me when I was sobbing in her class. I set out for the next 3 years to always ignore her. Didn’t do homework, chatting in class, disrupting any moment I got. Never underestimate a grudge a 12 year old can keep
If a teacher said this to me I would start crying even more
my boyfriend was sent out for half the lesson cuz he had a breakdown over his mother and then he had to do an exam 💀
F.
@@moonshinershonor202 L + Bozo + Don't Care + Ratio + Fatherless
@@xAstroverse_ I ain't mean it like that. Its rough buddy.
@@xAstroverse_ "F" is like some kind of expression that came from an online post "press F to pay respects in the chat". so it's basically a "stay strong buddy" expression to a story of something bad that happened to a person.
Schools act like mental health is sooo important, when in reality they don’t give a crap about mental health at all
if I were a teacher I would ask if she wants me to take her somewhere private, then after we got there I would hug her and tell her that I had to go to the classroom because there is a test and I have to look at the students, I would say that I would pass the test to her again another day when she was better, and I would say that when she feels comfortable to come back, she will come back. I say this as a student who plans to be a teacher, no student should go through the humiliation of taking a test feeling vulnerable and crying! She doesn't eat well and is not in MINIMUM conditions of thinking! In my opinion, teachers shouldn't do this, the student's health comes first, and in this situation their thoughts are not even close to healthy!We should always consider We should always consider the person's mental state at the moment!Just the thought of this happening fills me with rage! These teachers seem to have no common sense!
This actress is so good she's triggering my PTSD
When something traumatic was happening in my life, I’d often break down in lessons and this one particular teacher always helped me and gave me stuff from staff room, the receptionist always helped too
Here I go,
So I had this teacher, she somewhat just graduated college and she was new, so I only had her in the school for a year, but she was the literal best teacher I could ever wish for. We made a handshake, we laughed and talked in lunch, she encouraged me all the time, she would ALWAYS be there for me when I was sad and I loved her more than I can say. She was never like any other teacher with all the stereotypes, she was the literal best. cuz she had a huge young heart, and a amazing personality, we got along so well. She was absolutely gorgeous too, sadly , I left that school, and I was in absolute tears hugging her all day and I really miss her. Love u.
One teacher told me that keeping the halls clear was more important than my emotions, and to go cry somewhere else.
My boyfriend was cheating on me with my sister and my Mum had a heart attack and was being rushed to hospital.
When I was crying in the bathroom at school because I was going through a really rough breakup, the teacher came and asked me how I was doing and she actually gave me her blanket. I remember how cold it was in japan. She told me she’d be waiting for me in the room which no one uses anymore, with a heater on and some chocolates… we just talked about what I was going through while everyone else was in the class… I miss her so much😭
My teacher, when I was crying.. like full on streaming tears, she called out in front of the class - stopping her sentence:
" are you alright??" Couple seconds later, "Right, I need you to focus on the lesson, you are distracting the whole class."
Bitch, just do your lesson. No one even knew I was crying until she got everyone to turn and stare!
Everyone turned around
ikr like its fricking pointless and humiliating to bring attention to someone when there cryin then not even bother to help them like thx so much teach xx
THATS A NICE BLOODY TEACHER
they’re basically telling us to shut up and get on with the damn test 😂
how to make a crying student cry harder: a guide
Nah my English teacher said I had to work on her stupid paragraph assignment after being told my dog was being PUT DOWN IN LESS THAN 2 HOURS! I sat their, crying still, not being able to think on anything but my dog. She also told my friends they weren’t aloud to comfort me. One had known my dog for 4-5 years.
Love to hear that teacher's voice of dominance. Makes me feel great inside.
The snarky smile at the end like they won an argument is extremely accurate. I had a teacher tell me that grandma died 6 months ago and I needed to get over it. My mom was in a depression so bad she really should have been hospitalized and my sisters and I were dealing with severe neglect. We weren't doing our school work because we had no one to help us with fending for ourselves for just about everything including food and hygiene products.
Monica is seriously one of the funniest people on this planet. CONSISTENCY
I'm sorting out books and listening to her and when I hear "Ellie" my head turned thinking someone said my name but it was actually her 😂
This reminded me of sth similar 😅
A close uncle of mine passed away when I was in hs, and I had to travel back home to attend his funeral, so I missed an important maths exam.
When I came back just the day after, my math teacher asked me about my absence and I guess I wasn't all cried out yet because I ended up crying a little bit. He was like oh well so sorry, here's the make up test, you have to take it today.
But nah, jokes aside he was real nice about it and even made me a cup of tea to drink during the exam.
I'm so glad my chemistry teacher was not like this. I came in sobbing because of something that happened the previous period and the teacher was absolutely no help and was not empathetic the only help she gave me was a late pass. My chemistry teacher on the other hand recognized me crying, told me to grab my desk partner and go out in the hall (we didn't end up going out but my partner was helpful and told me to sit down and helped out) to calm me down. I had a test that period too by the way and I forced myself to take it because I felt the need to and I was stable enough to take it. I made an A on it but the point is my chemistry teacher helped me by finding a way to get me help (if that makes sense) and that's what matters and that shows how wonderful of a teacher she is
my teacher saw me being sad and sent me straight to weekly counseling...
I swear this is actually relatable- 💀
GOD THIS MAKES ME SO ANGRY UR TOO GOOD AT THIS
My theatre teacher in my freshmen year: you good? you wanna talk about it? you can go in the grotto (the office space that was instead filled with books, fidgets, soft lights, a chair, and pillows). don't worry about anything else right now
Honestly, thank you. I’m making a book, and that “grotto” thing gave me an idea for a place that Stan (main character) can go whenever he’s not doing to well. Tysm for writing this comment tbh
“Crack on” in the classic British teacher line 😂
My school literally told us our feelings don't matter as much as exam results 💀💀
I was so lucky that my teacher would just let me chill in the library when I was upset during a test or lesson
Last year in sixth grade, two weeks before the school year ended, I started crying at the end of class ( everyone had already finished packing up and left, except my teacher) and I had just found out the night before thta my granny had stage four terminal cancer and she has two-three months to live, but she lives on the other side of the world and my dad doesn’t have a visa for thta country so we might not be able to see her, and my tecaher hugged me and comforted me and basically said I can cry to her o folks to her whenever I want…she was such a nice tecaher. I also cried Infront of her on the last day of school when saying bye to her, because we were very close. She was such a nice teacher
Ps: we did get flights to see my grandmother, this was two and a half months after finding out she had cancer, but she died threee days before we got there
My cousin broke up with a girl named Ellie at lunch around 5 months ago when everyone was in school it’s so weird cause this story is basically what happened between them
All my teachers said was “grow up youre too old to cry”
That's horrible. Bottling your emotions up can have detrimental consequences. I hate it when people act like others are not allowed to cry. It is only human to do so.
I second what kirijunx said. I have a councillor, and I’ve had a therapist, a homeopath and seen a social worker. All of them look horrified at the whole bottled emotions thing. It’s absolutely sh*t for your mental health and how you show emotion further down the line and your teachers actively telling you to do that is ridiculous
the whole “don’t cry, its weak” thing makes no sense to me at all and hasn’t before…in year 3 i was comforting a friend who was having a breakdown for some reason (i forgot why) then some of our girl classmates came up to us and were all like “ *I* never cried even when i hit my head on a table!” (or something like that)
and i was just like, “nothing is wrong with crying. its a normal thing so please just go away for now?” (damn i was so respectful those times). although even though i disagree with bottling your emotion i still do it myself?? i have no idea why and im very confused by it…lol
Right after she said that her feelings were important I knew there was a catch
Feelings are more important than tests lol
I’m obsessed with your vids lol - remind me of secondary school so much 😆 also exhausting watching you being so “on” like the teachers are in English secondary schools lmao 🤣 your eyebrows must ache like mad lol
What do you mean by "on"?
Ha, i was upset during a test once, my teacher didnt say anything. But then with a different teacher, when i was crying, she sent me outside to calm down, and i completex the test next lesson. Best teacher
Well she tried to comfort in whatever way she can even if it is fake. It’s better than my math teacher that called me to solve an exercise ignoring that i was crying. Usually teacher would just ignore at least mine so i guess this is fine
Could be worse & have a teacher that use to mock students about their weight. From personal experience dealing with a teacher who my son had many years back in primary school she go round the class mocking the children's weight. Absolutely disgusting can you imagine how the kids felt!
You know in elementary school, we were 12. My classmate was crying and his friends were comforting him, and our teacher just said ‘tf you doing get back to your seats we are in the middle of the lesson’ without at all batting an eye at the crying student
I had a really good math teacher who was really concerned because I would ace my math worksheet then go to the test and fail the test ( I didn't cheat). She actually helped me figure it out I have test anxiety. I don't do good with all the numbers, it made me really anxious. She was a great teacher. The ony teacher who actually cared about the students passing.
Love your pfp I’m poly too ^^
Love this so much!!! You are so good!
Bruh this hits a lil too close to home. A teacher caught me crying during lunchtime (I was being bullied for being gay, the joys of growing up in remote southern England) and sent me to the ‘school councillor’ who asked why I was feeling sad, and when I told her what was happening she ignored pretty much everything and said “make a box of things that make you happy and look at them when you’re feeling sad” and sent me straight to class from there, like???
THE CRACK ON 😭😭
In 4th grade my dog passed and my mom told my teacher and she told me if i need to step out for a moment to just and tail she was a great teacher
Oh my gosh I was bamboozled. I totally thought this was going to be like the wonderful lunch lady vids and then she smacked me 😭
Teachers are always like this and I HATE it. Crying isn't voluntary I can't just STOP
I actually had a teacher who helped me so freshman year of high school I was doing really bad in science and I had that class very last so if I had a bad day then a test I wasn’t prepared for then Id cry this only happened three times but all three times my teacher reassured me and always help me calm down before and even checked on me afterwards ended up passing the class with a high d but I definitely wouldn’t have passed without that teacher
At the start i was like “wow, this teacher is pretty great”
then she pulled a full 180
Her face impressions remind me when I first discovered the saturation slide on that old Sony at the age of 13
My performing arts teacher really helped me when I had a massive panic attack and she let me stay in her classroom during another lesson ❤
The whiplash I got is serious 😂
As a teacher, I hate this type of teachers.
Tests/Exams can be flexible, but a full emotional problem SHOULD always get first. Just by telling them to go outside and wash can help…or (depending on the topic) give them the Option of retaking another day.
Taking a test under emotional distress will not show an acqurate results
This has ASMR written all over it! Your voice is super relaxing 😌
Had me in the first half ngl
teachers like this are (part of) the reason my depression and anxiety got so bad i missed a month of school bc of panic attacks
Me, watching the front half: Okay...you're being too nice...I'm suspicious...
*Second half plays*
Me: And there we go.
My health teacher did little ice breaker question things at the start of every class, and when we got back from thanksgiving break (I live in America) she asked the simple question of “what was the best part of your vacation” the problem was that before break my friend left to go to a mental hospital but I wasn’t allowed to actually be told that because it was confidential and her mother doesn’t like me even though we’ve never met so she just told me “____ is fine but will be unavailable for two weeks, stop blowing up her phone” after I freaked out because I though she committed suicide. Anyway the end of two weeks was during the break so I messaged her and she didn’t respond so I assumed her mom just decided to not let her have her phone back because that’s the kind of terrible parent she is, I had convinced myself that she was now back and feeling better and I’d see her on Monday after break, I didn’t see her Monday so I just told myself that the schools huge and I’ll see her tomorrow since we have health together, my vacation sucked other then the thought that I’d finally calm down knowing she’s safe after break when I see her so that was the best part of my vacation the thought of seeing her again. When it got to my turn my throat felt clogged up I couldn’t talk and then I started crying, the teacher let me go for a walk I saw my friend again the week after that and I hugged her immediately and she told me she told me she would have texted me but her mother was keeping her phone for a while (like I thought she would because cutting off communication will totally help a kid feel better 🙄)
this would make me not only crying with sadness but with anger
I got robbed and was held at knifepoint. I thought I was going to die, and because I was surrounded by +10 guys I also feared worse . But they only took my phone right before a performance for my school and when the teacher asked me why I was crying and I was traumatized and told her what happened and she said "I know that's terrible but the performing will distract you🥺."
She didn't want the schedule of the performance to be disturbed because I was a bit disturbed by fearing for my life 10 mins ago😃
Early xx teachers in my school would take you to the staff room and give you water and a million tissues lol❤️💛💞
Ikr they always say ' do u want ur water bottle?
But honestly i adore these vids, pls make more crying ones in different scenarios 🙏
i remember the one and only time a teacher really comforted me at school, i was trying to hide my crying during a lesson once because my mum had texted me (we were allowed our phones) about a family member that had died in 2010 (we r very spiritual) and it made me cry so once the lesson ended, the teacher actually came up and asked if i was ok, i told her i was fine but she gave me a really big hug and 😭😭💔
next day (i had her every day that year) i told her what was going on and she was so understanding, and she didn't make a big deal out of my feelings (i didn't want it to be a big deal) and i still miss her man, she was like my second mum
My teachers are luckily not like this. I’ve seen several students in my class cry at different occasions in front of different teachers, and they all have handled it pretty good in my opinion. Whenever a student has broken down during a test the teacher has been like “You can leave if you want to. Some it’s just to hard”. I’m really thankful for that😊
the lip smacks are so true omll 😭😭
Omg if a teacher talked to me like that I would tell them to F off and actually my feelings are the most important. If a child is to upset to concentrate it’s ok to let them take a test later.
“And you can just be upset later”
Ohh yeah your right I’ll just save my tear in my eye sockets don’t worry😂
How did this woman just encapsulate my last however many years at school in one short??
My mom died when I was nine and I was crying in class a week or two after she died. The teacher yelled at me "stop crying for your mom! Your mother is deceased!"
bro that is so heartless of ur teacher to say I hope ur alr
That teacher would make an✨ *excellent* ✨ therapist
Teachers always overestimate the importance of their tests, huh? Once you've been out of school for a few years you realize how little they and homework mattered. It's not even an exam, just a test!
this was spot on lol
She broke her heart more than her ex-boyfriend did.
Break his... nuzzz zz
Is the teacher supposed to be the villain here? She is absolutely correct
Tbh this made me realize and say something
Your feelings are important but they should never stop you from achieving what you should be
So save those tears, do whatever the fuck it is that makes you want to cry and after doing it then you can cry.
Because after doing it you’re either
1. Crying because it was too hard
Or
2. Crying tears of joy
So do whatever the fuck that frustrates you or is hard for you because then you’ll at least have tried
Can you all Hear the Moment when her crying intensifies?
This is scarily spot on
You literally remind me of a teacher in my school so much!
I was having a panic attack and a teacher thought I was crying because “the math work was to hard” and then she took me outside even though I was having a panic attack
oh my gosh this is so accurate! i was bullied a lot in school and one day i just broke and at the end of class i just couldnt stop sobbing, i had a male teacher and he literally just left the room, and then i went to see support and all they cared about was that i got back to class, they didnt even punish the people responsible. and i had to sit near them in my next class it was honestly the worst
God wish this was like my teachers in school- had a massive fear of pubic speaking, when ever I had to do a presentation I got up to the front of the class, started speaking, burst into tears and the teacher just didn't give a fuck 🤣 failed me
And they’re not properly whispering but not properly yelling but it’s enough for everyone to hear