My Emergency C Section Story | this was difficult to talk about || advocating for yourself
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As Labor and Delivery Nurse, thank you for sharing your story. Great advice. This is my daily life in Level 3 high risk maternity. It’s so hard to explain to mothers what’s going on.. our whole motive is move fast, our mind is literally “GET BABY OUT”… Goal is, mom will be holding her baby..
I have never been pregnant nor am I a mom. But the comment about having to make a choice resonated with me. When my mom was having me there were complications and they told my dad he might have to make a choice. They knocked my mom out and 52 years later we are both here !
I’m so happy you advocated for you and my internet nephew! And that you listened to the spirit speaking to you! ❤ I’ve been following you for about 2 years and I’m so happy for you.
I was trying NOT to comment!! My child is now 25. I noticed during the latter part of my pregnancy that my baby didn't move as much. He came 3 weeks early and the CORD was wrapped around his neck. Listen to Alicia and listen to your body.
Alicia
I knew a few years ago there was something about you. ... This Alycia has been THERE!! When I tell you emotionally mentally and spiritually I felt ALL OF THIS!! Its something about these BOYS🤦🏾♀️😂
CJ WAS DUE DEC 2ND
BORN 8/16!!
Every part of your journey every part of the raw emotion I felt!!!
Thank you for this moment!! Never fear your tears especially when it comes to YOUR SON!! HUNNY YOU ARE WOMAN!! YOUR TEARS ONLY MAKE YOU STONGER💪🏾!! HE LOOKS JUST LIKE DAD😂🤣 ALL THAT HELL THE KIDS PUT US THRU ONLY TO COME OUT LOOKING LIKE THEY DADDY 🙄.... BUT IT'S SO WORTH IT!!!
HUNNY MUCH LOVE FROM MOBILE AL!! AND MERRY CHRISTMAS
I don't have any kids and I have a fear of giving birth. The "what if's" scare me so much. You are admirably strong and your vulnerability to share your journey with us is appreciated...This makeup is GORGEOUS! This reminds me of no makeup look. What lippy is this?!
Your story had me in tears, I never been pregnant I am so happy you and your husband was blessed with a beautiful baby boy
Praise Him Almighty!! I wish so many “mothers to be” could hear your story. Your intuition and your doctor listening. Sadly I know of a mother who had intuition and her doctor “blew her concerns off”--if she had changed doctors perhaps she would be here today yet her husband is raising their daughter without her.
At 22mins I started crying. I appreciate you sharing your story. I recently had an Abdominal myomectomy only because of trusting my intuition and getting a 3rd opinion. I learned after surgery one of my fibroids was larger than human brain and reason unable to conceive. I'm so happy for you and your journey. Love on your beautiful baby❤️💚
22:21 Alicia your test was a testimony. As a single birth mom of a 23 yo boy, your perspective was not only heartfelt but humanly. I don’t like to cry period. I still haven’t emotionally responded to my only son, moving out while I was on vacation. Pray fully you continue to be observant and H.O.T(honest,open,transparent)
Your womanly/motherly intuition kicked in!!! We are such POWERFUL vessels and your son is so blessed to have you as his Mother and William as his Father. I'm sure this experience has also brought you and hubby closer than ever 🙏🏾💜
Sidebar: There are several negative connotations toward C-sections. Some doctors and hospitals push them on mothers, who dont actually need them. Also some of these establishments, don't take very good care of black women, when performing the procedure. What I'm confused by, is anyone who knows you or watches you. Should know you are a VERY informed and intelligent woman. Not some young, uninformed and naive little girl. Please keep your comments and your experiences to yourself!!! Unless some is seeking that from you.
Good for you trusting your intuition! I’m a labor and delivery nurse and I tell my patients all the time never brush your intuition aside. You know your baby better than anybody.
Thank you for sharing your story ❤
Hey Kelsi O. I remember when you started. I worked on the 6th floor.
First god is so good. Your story will definitely help someone else who may be going through the same thing. My first child was a C-section and she was breech and premature. It was a scary time but as I said god is good. ❤congratulations again
It’s OK, go on and cry…. I’m crying with you! This is so emotional, bless your intuition, praise God!
Thank u for sharing this very personal and scary experience because women need 2 hear this especially black women we need 2 speak up and be heard I had complications with 2 of my 3 births and advocating 4 myself really made the difference between life and death 4 me and my children. 🙌
THANKS FOR SHARING YOUR STORY, GREATLY APPRECIATED. IT IS REALLY IMPORTANT TO MAKE SURE YOU ARE UP AND OUT OF BED AND MOVING AROUND AFTER SURGERY AND TO HAVE THE CATHETER TAKEN OUT AS SOON AS POSSIBLE TO MINIMIZE THE RISK OF BLOOD CLOTS AND INFECTION. YOUR STORY IS GOING TO HELP SOMEONE 🙏🏽
25:34 Giiiiiiiiiiiirl 😅I am about as emotional as you watching this video❤ Thank you so much for sharing your experience and personal journey with us. Stories are so powerful and there is always someone who can relate to it. We are so blessed that you ALLOW us to be his internet auntie🥹
Praise God for a healthy, handsome and thriving baby boy!
I am so happy for your beautiful growing family
Alicia!! I cried this whole video with you!! Im so thankful you followed your first mind.....and look at our nephew.....he is just PERFECT! Thank God!!
Wow….thank you for sharing😊 waking up @ 415 and immediately going to the hospital 4min away…to luckily having your doctor arrive just in time…😢❤ ❤❤ Thank you again 🥰🙏🏾
Very courageous generous of you to share your very personal experience. My first child was an emergency Co section because the umbilical cord slipped around the baby's neck. God was so merciful and blessed both of us to come through that ordeal successfully. Thank you for sharing, be blessed.
Thank you for sharing your story with us 🙏🏾 During your pregnancy you came to us with a complete plan. I hated you had so much unsolicited advice during that time as well. It's invasive and rude.
Pregnancy is scary, especially for Us. Kudos to you for pushing through this video.
Alicia you are so strong! While you were telling your story I could feel how intense the situation must have been for you and your husband. I’m so glad you listen your intuition. I’m so glad you and your bundle of joy is well.
Thank you sooooooo much for sharing
This, personally, scares me ... probably why at almost 50... I don't have kids...
God Bless You 💕
I NEVER comment on anything, even though you're my fav BUT I wanted to say thank you for sharing your story. I just had my baby almost 4 weeks ago and you have inspired me to post my pregnancy journey/l&d for the same reason - to inspire people to advocate for themselves. I too am a first time mom and the journey can be scary. I am glad you and your baby boy are safe and healthy.
I am so glad that you made that choice to go to the hospital. Saved baby boys life...Such a blessing. I can understand why this was hard to relive...You will def have to tell kiddo the story when he is old enough to understand.
I am a believer God a purpose(s) for everyone, including you and this beautiful boy you were allowed to bring into this world to love and steward. You lived through this and someone needed this bless you for sharing. Thank you for your courage to share and bless others. Blessings to you and your household. Looking forward to seeing what God has in store for you and this blessed gift you birthed. Praise God for His Goodness. 😊
First, Glory to God! Second, congratulations. Motherly intuition at its finest.
Thank you for sharing your story!
Yeah it’s tough delivering when your team that you have been with for 40 weeks isn’t there. Thank you for sharing❤️
Thanks for sharing your story, I’m so glad that you both are doing well.
Thank you for your vulnerability in sharing your story. Sending so much love and prayers! 🙏🏾💕
Alicia, I’m so glad you and baby boy are here and safe! Thank you for sharing! I’m glad you trusted your self and advocating for yourself! ❤❤❤❤
Oh my God, I’m here crying. I’m so glad both of you are well❤
You got me hollering😢😢😢 so sorry you had to deal with this. I can’t imagine. Thank you for sharing.
Hello Alicia,
Thank you for making this video so that it can help others! I’m happy that the kiddo and you made it safely through the process!! Take care!!
I’m literally crying listening to you tell your story! God is good!!!💞
Thank you for sharing 🤍 🙏🏾
Thank you for sharing your story. God Bless you and your beautiful family! he’s absolutely beautiful
Thank you for sharing! I thank God that all is well with you and the family. God’s continued blessings. ❤🙏
Thank you Alicia for sharing. May God bless you all🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank you for sharing your story Alicia! My heart was in my throat when you were talking about your experience in the ER. I’m so glad that you and baby both are well and healthy. Sending lots of love and blessings to you and your family. 🙏🏿❤
Thank you so much for sharing your story and being so vulnerable. Thank you for pulling on the strength and courage it took for you to film this. You really touched me with this.
God bless you, Alicia! You have such a beautiful family. Thank you so much for sharing.
I thank God that he woke you up and that you listened. This is a wonderful testimony. Thank you for sharing 💙
Many Blessings to you, the baby boy and daddy. Have a baby is such a beautiful blessing and I'm so glad that everything worked out. As a mother anytime you think something could be wrong with your baby it nerve wrecking. My first son was like that every day I had to tap my stomach for him to move. Thanks be to God. Enjoy your bundle of joy.
Thank you for sharing 😢 that’s the 1st I ever heard of such. You had me crying. Thanks once again. Happy Holidays to you and your family ❤
Thank you so much for sharing this and I’m so glad you and the kiddo are doing well
OMG Alicia! Your story is so similar to mine with my second child! I was having contractions all day...get to the hospital, I was six centimeters...hours go by...by doctor checks me...I went from 6 to 0 centimeters!!! I was so upset because I wanted to push my baby out, mind you, I had a c-section with my first baby, due to complications... about an hour later, my doctors comes in and says, your baby is in distress...her heart rate is dropping drastically , we have to take her now! Chelsi is now 26 years old...had I not went to the hospital, Chelsi would probably not be here. Fast forward, to my son, my doctor...I expressed how bad I wanted a natural birth...my doctor immediately told me NO...due to my past issues, she just didn't feel comfortable with it and didn't want my husband in a position where he had to choose a life, because I had a tubal pregnancy a year before I was pregnant with my son, then the complications with both my daughters. When I tell you I feel you! I know what you went through and how you felt at that moment! I'm so happy you and baby are alive and healthy! I'm so glad you shared this for other moms to be!
I don’t know you and you got me crying! Bless GOD the family is whole and OKAY! 💚💚💚
vulnerability =Strength ❤️🫶🏾
Thank you for sharing your experience with us! I’m glad little man is healthy and thriving! A very special gift to enjoy for years to come !❤️
Thank you for sharing such a personal story with us. I thank God that you and baby are okay🙏🏾
So glad that both you and your son are healthy and thriving. Thank you for sharing🙏🏾♥️
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so glad you listened to your intuition. Thanks for sharing the tips for recovery.
Thank you so much for sharing . Intuition is really something especially during pregnancy ! Glad you and your baby boy are safe and well.
Thank you for sharing your journey with the world. I cried the whole time and had to take breaks with you. ❤
Hello Alicia, thanks for sharing your story. I know it will help someone. Now you have a beautiful bundle of Joy.💜🌷
Love you. Love hearing your journey to motherhood. Nice to see a not so perfect world. It just seems like everyone and everything is so perfect on social media. It’s just nice to see real life. Glad that you and the kid are ok.
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I appreciate your vulnerability and allowing yourself to get through it to possibly save a child’s life and keep a family from possible heartbreak. You are awesome. Your tips on prepping for and recovering from c-section are invaluable. Who would think that walking after surgery would help but it does make sense that it would help recover quicker. Thanks again 🥹🥹
Thank you for sharing your story mama. Made me cry, cry! But I'm so glad you got your happy ending. ☺️🙏🏾💕
Thank you for sharing this…I had an emergency C-Section and can relate. God bless you for being open and vulnerable.
Whew! The tears😭 I just shared with you! Praise God for the shield of protection over you and Alexander…as well as Will. I am so glad you followed your HEART! ❤
Omg Alicia I can’t stop crying right now!! Thank God that you are both healthy and here. And thank God that Willam had not left yet and you followed your intuition and listened to your body. I don’t care what it is. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Bless you for sharing.
I can empathize with you as I had an emergency c section as well. Thanks for sharing your story. ❤
Thank you so much for sharing!
Thank you so much for sharing your story. ❤More Blessings and love to you and your family.
Thank you so much for sharing your story. My ex-husband and I went through this with my daughter. It is definitely a traumatic experience. This was needed.
Thank you for sharing your story, I pray that god continues to cover your family with grace and abundance and love. Thank you for being you
Omg!!
I'm crying. Thank God you followed your motherly instincts. Thanks for sharing your story. 😍🙏🙏
Thank you God for the ability to make it through the times where we may feel we may not have the strength. Alicia, I'm so glad you shared your testimony. My sister had a similar situation with her 1st born. It is so scary and I completely understand why you hesitated to tell us your journey. This will definitely help other women and you're right, the slightest indication of doubt, tell someone or ask! Thank God you and baby are here and healthy 🙏🏾
Thanking god for blessing you to have a positive experience, thank you for sharing your story. I worked in L & D for years so I am happy you. are telling your viewers to TELL TELL TELL your doctor what is going on . PLEASE TELL because you know your body and if you tell we can go straight to the problem , which can save lives . Not only in labor but in other health issues . So again thank you
Glad you and baby came through with flying colors.Your family is so cute.
Thank you so much for sharing…I know this story will help someone
I appreciate your transparency in telling your story. You are extremely strong in sharing this with us. Thank god for your beautiful baby boy.
I normally don’t comment. Thank you for sharing your experience. ❤
Thank you for sharing. I know it was hard. God bless you and your family.
thank you so much for sharing and letting baby boy have a cameo 🌞. I'm also a first time mom to a 7 month old who was delivered via c section due to a high risk pregnancy. I was terrified of having surgery but recovery was way better than I expected.
I’m a new subscriber. I totally understand the craziness and the blessing. Thank God everything was so successful. I had about the same experience in May with my lil boo boo. It’s intuition but it’s very heavy on but God.
I appreciate you video. I also had a Emergency C- Section. My contraction was coming so fast and they slow it down. The Potassium was slowing down my heart rate and my son. I was lucky that my doctor regular gynecologists' delivered my baby. Praise God that you and the baby are ok. I was a much older mom, I was 41 yrs a the time. I am well and have a active 8 yr old son. My body recovered well and I had to go back to the doctor for my son check up three days after delivery. I honestly wasn't down , I was up and moving around. I didn't leave the house for 6 weeks but I was able to get up and move around plus I nursed my son. Blessings to you and your son
Thank you for sharing your story. ❤️
Thank you for sharing your journey with us.
Thank you for sharing. I am a mom of 4 and I felt every second of this video.😭😭😭😭. Im so happy you and baby are happy and healthy 🙌🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾👏🏾
Thank you, Alicia, for sharing such a personal experience with us. I was moved by your story and so thankful your beautiful baby is here. I celebrate with you, William, your family, and your friends the joy of his birth. I haven't birthed any children (by choice), yet there is a lesson in your experience for me and for everyone, which is: trust the power of your intuition because it is the Spirit at work - guiding, leading, and protecting. Prayers for Baby Boy for God's protection and direction. 🙏
Thank you for sharing your story. I’ve had two c-sections and I was always told there was no reason I couldn’t have a vaginal birth. My second one was an emergency c-section. I give God all the glory for pulling us through.🌹❤️
Alicia, I am so proud of you sharing your story. It is really important in life for women to hear their bodies and trust their heart and intuition. I am happy for your family and may God continue to bless you throughout the journey we call life. I remember being pregnant years ago and telling my doctor something is wierd going on, not sure what it is but I'm feeling wierd. Well, just as God would have it I had surprise twins in the delivery room. The boy was hiding behind the girl! Today, they are 37 years old and such a blessing to our family. You are truly a blessing to new moms. Congratulations!
Alicia, I’m so sorry you went through that. You do know God doesn’t give us nothing we can’t handle. You are a blessed mother and wife from your success and the birth of your beautiful son. This was so heart felt. Your only human to cry my sister. May God continue to bless you and your family.
Good morning, Alicia. Thank you for your story. I've never had a C-Section but, the two things you said were listen to your body and get medical advice when you suspect anything...anything may not be right. The result is beautiful Alexander. Be blessed and Merry Christmas.
Amazing Testimony! Always trust your first instinct! Nobody but God!!!
Your story made me took me back 9 years ago when I was admitted in my 2nd trimester at week 26 given steroids' to help boost my daughter lungs and to prepare to have her BUT GOD...I stayed in the hospital and every morning my doctor would come into the room and just remind me as the weeks went by how blessed I am. We had even talked about NICU babies and the things we would test when she come early. My daughter came at week 35. My daughter heartrate started dropping and next thing I know same exact thing doctors, nurses, everyone started running into the room... Talk about being scared and nervous!!!! I remember looking at the monitor watching the heart rate drop and rise and drop and rise BUT GOD!!!! I ended up getting pregnant again with my son and my pregnancy with him was totally opposite with not complication, but the whole pregnancy I was a nervous wreck thinking something was going to happen with him. Congrats again!!!
Wow. Our birth stories are very similar. You’re so strong. Thanks for sharing.🤍
I'm not a mom, but thanks for sharing this very vulnerable story. Just know you are using your platform to help someone and know that there is healing in sharing and talking. God was with you all this time and with hubby and the baby. God gives us the strength we need in these trying and scary times. Now your beautiful baby is here and only love and covering from now on. Stay blessed and thank you
Glad everything turned out okay ❤️
19:25 get your tissues...
I am Sooo glad y'all are well today. Continued blessings to you, William and Baby A.
Thanks for sharing your story. I am so glad you and the baby are okay. I had a emergency c section in 2013 because I was five days over due and they tried to induce my labor. However during the induction process my baby heart rate started to drop so immediately I had to have a emergency c-section.
Whenever they tell you "countdown from 10" for anesthesia, 90% of the population is out before 8. 😊
Congratulations! You made it through and had a good outcome. Hope your healing continues to go well also.
Thank you for sharing ❤
Thank you for sharing❤
Thank you for sharing your story. 😢😢😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤
Hey sis, thanks for sharing!!!🙋🏿♀️‼️‼️‼️ have a safe holiday season with the family!!! Stay Bless🎬🏡😊😊🤗🎆🎆🎆🔛🔛🔊🔊🔊
Congratulations on your baby . . C-Sections are not easy but to a healthy baby . . ❤