The Minor Problem at Furry Cons.

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  • @JoltJackelope
    @JoltJackelope Рік тому +720

    I agree with The comment section, I think that furry cons should be for EVERYONE. But can still have 18+ sections that you can’t get into without a license verifying your age.
    But COMPLETELY blocking minors from fur cons only feeds the Stupid “All Furries Are Sex Freaks” stereotype. And I think it’s EXTREMELY Harmful to young furries who are just getting their start in the fandom.

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  Рік тому +83

      Everyone should be able to go

    • @swetuski
      @swetuski 11 місяців тому +28

      Yes thank you, many furry conventions are accommodating and welcome young fursuiters, I’ve seen kids as young as 10 participate in Furry parades and my gosh many of them I’ve seen just come out of their shy little shells and embrace their fursona’s. Its just so adorable seeing a kid shyly waving suddenly start bounding and hopping around like a puppy with a new toy

    • @blueberrypitbull87
      @blueberrypitbull87 11 місяців тому +22

      There is nothing wrong with the adult side. Religion has warped America's view on Sex.

    • @swetuski
      @swetuski 11 місяців тому +2

      @@blueberrypitbull87 agreed

    • @NebulaHasADigBick
      @NebulaHasADigBick 11 місяців тому +1

      i see you in EVERY video and i agree

  • @JoyfulNerd400
    @JoyfulNerd400 Рік тому +757

    I think there just should be minor specific areas, just as there are adult specific spaces (obviously parents would be allowed into the minor specific areas to protect their kids)

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  Рік тому +49

      Even during the day?

    • @JoyfulNerd400
      @JoyfulNerd400 Рік тому +75

      @@SpamBoar I think so, yeah. Because minors should have their sleep lol

    • @goobert5485
      @goobert5485 Рік тому +100

      iirc, Anthrocon or another large-scale furry con, collaborated with the Moms of Furries group to create “youngfur spaces” that were like headless lounges but for kids under 18 and their families only. I thought that was a genius idea, not only do minors have their own safe and respected area, they have space away from the adults. Which, even at a completely sfw con, is definitely necessary

    • @JoyfulNerd400
      @JoyfulNerd400 Рік тому +20

      @@goobert5485 fair enough. I’ve never been to a US con and I’m from Europe 🤷‍♂️ nothing like that here

    • @arvurebantra7639
      @arvurebantra7639 Рік тому +5

      "Minor specific areas"? My brother in christ, furry conventions happen in public spaces mostly. What the hell do mean by that? Just ban kids from the hotels/streets nearby/ con space that may have other things going too? Stop and think about that.

  • @cadberry1461
    @cadberry1461 11 місяців тому +101

    I went to megaplex 2023 and I felt substantially more comfortable knowing there weren't minors experiencing certain aspects of the fandom/people/badly disguised fetishes (only small amounts witnessed), but at the same time upset that people under 18 couldn't experience the normal and friendly parts that dominated the scene. It's a tricky situation that can only be solved with restrictions, in my opinion.

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  11 місяців тому +9

      Yeah intend to agree with you

    • @Arkiasis
      @Arkiasis 11 місяців тому

      I think it's more so the circumstances as to why people under 18 weren't allowed is what concerns me. If a con itself labels itself as 18+ and markets itself as for adults then that's their own choice and that's cool, no problem there. But if it was forced by a government that's explicitly anti-lgbt and claims all lgbt people are "pedophiles" then that's very concerning. None of that has to do with "protecting children" and all to do with attacking lgbt people and removing their rights. Soon enough adults will be banned from doing things and gay marriage and adoption will be prohibited. It goes far far far beyond "kids at conventions".

    • @Leo-zk9rd
      @Leo-zk9rd 10 місяців тому +2

      I saw only two children at megaplex which i don’t even know how they got in honestly

    • @cadberry1461
      @cadberry1461 10 місяців тому

      probably the hotel area/hotel convention area, my fursuiter friend was asked to take a photo with a kid while he was dressed in thigh highs for dead dog on the last night @@Leo-zk9rd

    • @TheBluePony3
      @TheBluePony3 10 місяців тому +3

      I think cons have gotten way too relaxed about letting fetish gear be worn just because said fetish stuff doesnt explicitly show nudity

  • @HELLOFELLAZ
    @HELLOFELLAZ 11 місяців тому +136

    Some adult conventions don’t allow minors not because it isn’t kid friendly, but because a lot of adults don’t like being around kids💀

    • @SmokeystarOriginal
      @SmokeystarOriginal 11 місяців тому +25

      Yeah but the problem is this only serves to feed the mainstream belief that all furries do this as a sex thing

    • @cozycavern
      @cozycavern 11 місяців тому +1

      I dont think thats why but i see where you're coming from

    • @trashyraccoon2615
      @trashyraccoon2615 11 місяців тому +5

      That would be me

    • @HELLOFELLAZ
      @HELLOFELLAZ 10 місяців тому +10

      @@SmokeystarOriginal So? They can believe what they want. Why are furries trying to impress the public or prove a point? We aren’t going to not enjoy ourselves like we want to just do we can “look good” for the public.

    • @SmokeystarOriginal
      @SmokeystarOriginal 10 місяців тому +1

      @@HELLOFELLAZ i want to be able to enjoy this without all my friends and family thinking me to be a freak, personally.

  • @EefIronclad-zz4vm
    @EefIronclad-zz4vm Рік тому +55

    Should have signs clearly placed outside adult only areas, as well as a sort of bouncer. Another idea is two curtains placed one behind the other, and only one curtain is allowed to be open, so that no-one catches a glimpse inside. I do not know, just spitballing here. Not a Furry so I do not know how things work, but I hope I contributed somehow. All you Furries have a good day, and keep it kool.

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  Рік тому +21

      They do keep the adults only stuff behind closed doors or curtains with security

    • @EefIronclad-zz4vm
      @EefIronclad-zz4vm Рік тому +5

      Well then it should not really be a problem, but there is always going to be that one person who crashes the party.

    • @RTMonitor
      @RTMonitor 11 місяців тому +1

      Do you think it's a good idea to have a separation of whether if the ticket can be said "Minor" and "Adult" before registering the ticket and carry with it as a form of information that is to know anyone that you're an adult or not? Kind of like bringing two or three resources to know if you're an adult or not. And also, that number has to be matched with the ticket, in order to further process making sure that it's the same person, same age, and same order number.

    • @EefIronclad-zz4vm
      @EefIronclad-zz4vm 11 місяців тому +3

      @@RTMonitor You do realise they have identification lanyards, in addition to having all the info you described, they have info on the fursuit as well.

    • @RTMonitor
      @RTMonitor 10 місяців тому +2

      @@EefIronclad-zz4vm actually, I have never went into a con before, so that's new to me. Thanks for the info 😊

  • @Taygooner
    @Taygooner Рік тому +20

    I like the way that it is handled at Eurofurence. The convention is 18+ no exception, the good part about this is that as a minor you don’t need to go to the convention. They had a really big lobby area and another big area outside before the lobby, this was accessible by everyone and a lot of suiters would just go there to take pics and talk to others, so it was perfect, you could get to know the convention, you could get to know the feeling of the convention and you could take pictures with all the suiters. As a 17 year old, with this being my first convention, I am extremely happy and still had so much more fun than I could’ve ever expected and now I know that getting tickets for the con the next year is absolutely worth it, you definitely don’t want to spend that money and then not like it.

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  Рік тому +5

      Yeah I have been to EF was very different but awesome!

  • @26mutty
    @26mutty 11 місяців тому +6

    i agree, i was 12 year's old when i started looking in to been a furry, i'm now about to turn 18, in under 4 months, and making my first own suit, i have been furry at home, bcs i was too young to be to any cons at the age of 17, i played vrchat when i was 15 and was my first furry in there, and sense knew it was who i am, but i'm sadly "too young" to even try it out irl with friends, so in the waiting time, i'm making my own suit, to be ready as soon as i turn 18 so poeple can't say i'm not old enough -
    sorry bad english but i'm from Denmark so is not great 🥴

  • @GojiHusky
    @GojiHusky Рік тому +14

    These videos you have done are so awesome!! The quality really shows, and I truly believe you have an amazing future ahead of you with this!

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  Рік тому +3

      I appreciate that I’m definitely trying my best to make decent content. Thank you!

  • @Codydafloof
    @Codydafloof 8 місяців тому +4

    glad to have someone standing up for us young-ins

  • @shastawolfamute2203
    @shastawolfamute2203 11 місяців тому +3

    I know the main ussue with megaplex waa that florida rolled out laws that deemed lgbtq spaces non friendly for minors, so essentially they had to choose between no lgbt expression, or no minors, and they went with no minors. Befirehand, it was minor friendly.

  • @pinkdarkman
    @pinkdarkman 11 місяців тому +4

    Conservatives: We want less government interference in our lives!
    Also Conservatives: PLEASE, GOVERNMENT, MANDATE HOW I'M ALLOWED TO RAISE MY KIDS!!
    Shit's wild. Also, I'm not sure how we can define "adult entertainment" cuz I know quite a few adults who enjoy Bluey and I mean bronies were big for a long time, so are MLP and Bluey now adult entertainment?? Just another conservative law that doesn't make any sense and had absolutely no thought put into it.
    I've never been to a furry con, but I've been to anime cons and they usually have 18+ vendors and panels that only happen at night. I don't see a reason to outright ban children unless you're worried about the costumes people will wear, but honestly we need to stop acting like female nipples are inappropriate for children to see when they are literally made for children to use for milk, so the only real issue would be costumes with exposed genitalia, and "no costumes/ outfits with genitals out" seems like a pretty easy rule to enforce in non 18+ areas.

  • @Chihirolee3
    @Chihirolee3 10 місяців тому +1

    I am not in the furry fandom, mostly curious here tho because I saw video about fursuit inflation and have seen many neat designs. Anyways, My Little Pony conventions have all been child friendly, with 18+ areas. The venues and constaff make children more than welcome and safe with their families.

  • @taylerkolin3075
    @taylerkolin3075 10 місяців тому +1

    I'd bet that today alone at least 7 suburban parents in the U.S. got absolutely trashed at a kids birthday party and exposed some minors to things they shouldn't have to deal with. Doesn't mean kids birthday parties are the problem.
    And adult stuff is always going to happen at any congregation of enough adults. The most boring/straight lace/"normal" corporate convention has some adult stuff going on. It just happens behind closed doors and at after parties. But nobody would think kids don't belong at those things because of the adult content they might be exposed to.

  • @jadesidhe2634
    @jadesidhe2634 7 місяців тому +1

    Honestly, i vend Renaissance faires for a living and i see this as no different. People in costumes, families walking around and an 18+ night event. Just have well colored wristbands for everyone so you can tell who is a minor and who isnt.

  • @colfy3961
    @colfy3961 10 місяців тому +1

    as a minor, my first and (so far) only convention was at megaplex coincidentally the year before it became 18+
    im so so glad i was able to be there before it was made into an adult only convention but im so sad that i might not be able to go back until im 18 since its the closest convention to my area :(

  • @davidellis4084
    @davidellis4084 Рік тому +4

    At MFM, we have no problems with minors.

  • @maelstromeyre9062
    @maelstromeyre9062 6 місяців тому

    It's been many years, but I recall going to DragonCon in Atlanta, GA in the nineties. I was a teenager then, maybe a month shy of being 18, and it was my first time experiencing anything like that. It was big, it was wild and fun and definitely eye-opening for a kid raised in the suburbs whose parents weren't really into that kind of thing.
    The common areas and panels were generally suitable for all ages. I recall some events or panels or vendor areas being off limits to minors, though. I guess, as a kid, it didn't bother me at all because I'd grown up with the understanding that kids don't need to be EVERYWHERE. As I got a bit older I realized just how much NSFW art and content there is for the sci-fi/fantasy genre. I'd say it's probably just as prevalent as what you'd find in the furry fandom, but it doesn't DEFINE sci-fi/fantasy.
    I think the same applies to furry cons, and I don't understand why this is seen as a "problem" for some. If a con wants to make itself open to all ages, that's awesome. I would have LOVED to be able to go to something as a kid where I was surrounded by other people, of all ages, who loved "animal characters" like I did. I've seen videos about cons that offer workshops or smaller events for young attendees, where they can do crafts or learn how to make ears or tails or draw in certain styles, and that's fantastic. A furry con with daytime events specifically for younger fans is probably a lot safer than a minor going online by themselves looking for furry art, tutorials, and videos.
    If they want to make it open to all ages BUT with areas or times or events set aside for adults-only, that's awesome, too. . .as long as the con management and staff and volunteers are able and willing to enforce those policies. Kids don't need to be everywhere, all the time. That's not just a furry con thing, that's just life in general.

  • @Tsum3f4n
    @Tsum3f4n 11 місяців тому +1

    How are the laws in other countries on the topic of child protection? I heard from some local organizers (dances and smaller events), that allowing minors is some extra work. Like, children under 18 at a dance event would only be allowed to stay till midnight when they are without an adult and some other stuff. That would be the responsibility of the organizers and might risk a fine if not followed. So it's too much legal overhead for the amount of people that would join for them to be worthwhile.

  • @trixipper
    @trixipper 11 місяців тому +3

    I do agree. I believe minors should be allowed at conventions. I went to MFF 2018 and MFF 2019 as a minor still. I never had any bad experiences personally. I know friends who did have bad experiences when they were a minor. For MFF and similar cons you must have a guardian with you, and my aunt was by my side pretty much the whole time. I think it’s important from my friend that was affected wasn’t around their trusted adult like they were supposed to be.
    I don’t think that’s saying that is really the fault of anyone but the furry who was at the con that harmed him.
    Minor safe spaces exist at some cons, and I think making them a little more known and easier for a younger audience to find is good. I went to an under 18 meet up at MFF 2018, and I do think now, I would want to have the person hosting an event with a lot younger ages around to have some kind of background check to be around a large chunk of children.
    I’m 21 now. I’m going into education and I’m a big advocate for minor safety. I am able to drink and do 18+ adult things at cons, and I think in general most people aren’t being too sexual in the middle of the convention space, but mostly in hotel rooms or 18+ events.
    Heavy moderation of attendees and checking IDs is a highly important part of making it a safe space for everyone

    • @pokemonbrickbronze5947
      @pokemonbrickbronze5947 11 місяців тому +2

      I don’t normally read like 100 lines in one go, but I did this time, and I agree with you

  • @Valshara_
    @Valshara_ 11 місяців тому +1

    I don't like the idea of all furry conventions being 18+ since like someone else in the comments said, it just feeds into the idea that this community is only capable of being sexual. I much prefer to just keeping certain zones being 18+. Not to mention, sexual acts or other indecent things are already prohibited for the general public space. Related to this, the other thing I worry is that people who would partake in that kind of thing might get the notion that going to an 18+ convention will now no longer have restrictions to certain spaces. Which would make conventions very uncomfortable for me. I want furry conventions to stay a space safe for everyone

  • @mattwolf7698
    @mattwolf7698 7 місяців тому

    I was at Furry Weekend Atlanta for a day, it was mostly wholesome, I did see like three pup masks in the main lobby during the day though which I wasn't a fan of. Really the cons should make sure all kink gear is either saved for adult areas or doesn't come out before 9 PM.
    That said though, I saw under a dozen kids there anyway.

  • @UrdnotChuckles
    @UrdnotChuckles 11 місяців тому

    Gotta love seeing your local con show up as a random video recommendation. Glad you enjoyed yourself. :)

  • @Nestss
    @Nestss 11 місяців тому +1

    Spam, we'd love to see you again at Fur-Eh! I hope you had fun.

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  11 місяців тому

      I’ll most likely be back!

  • @fenixpony7921
    @fenixpony7921 11 місяців тому

    Ay its nice to see my old car get some screen time!

  • @MadMaz_0
    @MadMaz_0 Рік тому +5

    Very nice video! Wish you the best on your channel 😄

  • @kcwolfechild
    @kcwolfechild 11 місяців тому +1

    This moment was from another con, I was a minor at the time and I entered in floor wars, and my song was unfortunately a risky song….😅 I didn’t feel comfortable to the song so all the sexual bits I just stopped dancing to. But I tried my best, I didn’t get into the second round because some parts of the song I stopped dancing too. Was kinda surprised they played a very inappropriate song there was a lot of minors and kids in the by stands watching. 😅

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  11 місяців тому +1

      Hmmm that does seem odd…

  • @VagabondTE
    @VagabondTE 10 місяців тому +2

    I'm not a furry but I was a vendor at a furry convention once and I saw a puppy play room with children in it. That was way over the line for me. There is a large difference between being in character and performing a public scene where you are occupying a feral headspace. Honestly, if you're even using the words "headspace" or "play" then you probably shouldn't be doing it in public and certainly not with minors.
    This is similar to the kink at at pride discussion. It's actually an obvious answer when you look at the right way.. Kink belongs at pride. It should be represented. But the active "play" sessions should not be. Just like sexuality should be a pride, but active sex should not. It sounds pretty simple when you say it like that.
    I know it's unfortunate because puppy play falls into an area where it feels like a safe activity, but I don't think it is. At its core it is a power dynamic. Children should not be scratching an adult behind the ears while they are on all fours shaking their leg. This is a very important line that the furry community needs get a hold of.

  • @reptillicus4753
    @reptillicus4753 10 місяців тому

    Just have people to check IDs in certain places and have certain areas that are adults only. I think older people do tend to forget they were younger once. I was 14 when I joined the furry fandom and I’m in my mid 20’s now. It is a mistreatment to exclude young people, who do you think inherits the fandom and all its aspects when you get older and die???? Who do you think continues the craft of fursuit making after the older wiser more experienced makers retire or pass away? We are born, we grow, we die. That is the way of things.

    • @mattwolf7698
      @mattwolf7698 7 місяців тому

      The fandom was started by adults though and I actually didn't join it until my early 20's. It would definitely still be around with kids excluded, granted it would certainly be smaller.

  • @pixelpawzgaming
    @pixelpawzgaming 11 місяців тому +1

    They should have days were its 18+ depending of times of the day as my arcade club on Friday nights after 6pm is adults only.
    Plus not everyone has kids and its not everyone’s cuppa tea especially with kids over pestering fursuiters as the suits in general are chuffing expensive and the last thing you want is your suit getting dirtied up by foody kiddy hands or even worse the suit ends up damaged like its a cheap toy.
    But yes have a couple of days where it’s minor and kid friendly.

  • @cecil5164
    @cecil5164 11 місяців тому +2

    majority of cons are all ages, with some adult panelling at night, which is totally fine. LVFC (las vegas fur con) decided to be 21+ for next year which i think is a better decision than 18+. Not that the con is allowing open nudity or anything like that, but because it reduces the risk of underage drinking which cons have a lot of regardless of what goes on in the main con space. ANW (Anthro Northwest) is a strict PG con with stricter rules..but there are still parties, there are still adult happenings in the hotel rooms.
    With most cons being all ages, this new trend of being upset over a small number of cons being 18+ is wild to me. Some of us just don't want to be around underaged people and having spaces for that is great. Megaplex becoming 18+ is just because of laws in the state, but other 18+ cons like MCFC isnt because it's a huge sex fest...it's just because there aren't many cons that are just for adults.

  • @jadestudios5424
    @jadestudios5424 10 місяців тому

    Ah so THATS what was going on when I went by at Kingsway

  • @jyoats7959
    @jyoats7959 11 місяців тому +1

    Furry is for everyone. I’m very adamant about this and this is why I push for cons to be for everybody. I have been dreaming of going to a furry convention since I was 11 years old, and truth be told I didn’t get to go until I was 18, but I know that any time before that I would’ve loved it so much. nothing I engaged with at the convention was adult oriented at all. So I see no reason why a minor couldn’t enjoy that experience as well. People need to realize that if we make every space 18+ that there’s just going to be less furries in the future. people don’t just automatically become Furries the day they turn 18. minors are the future of the fandom. They are the future artists and fursuit and suit makers, the future performers and convention organizers. for me and many others it’s a lifelong passion. At its core furry is all about loving and appreciating Anthro animals, and that’s a joy and a passion that should not be gate kept to a certain age. a furry can be 4 years old or 94 years old. We are all the same with our love and enjoyment for these characters. I truly believe furry is going to outlive us. It’s a new subculture sure, but I think it’s one that’s going to span out through generations of people. We should keep that momentum going, and let everybody enjoy it.

  • @poppy7740
    @poppy7740 10 місяців тому

    as a furry who is is a teenager that cant go to conventions in the uk because there aren't any in the uk that allow under 18s (idk if its law in the uk or just how it is) but it is quite disappointing since it's hard to meet local furries, i think if they still want over 18 areas at cons they should have certain rooms or like an over 18 after party like a lot of others do including anime/cosplay cons (but i still believe that certain cons should be 18 plus but not all of them because like it or not there are minors in the fandom and a lot of furries got into the fandom as minors)

    • @adriatorres2918
      @adriatorres2918 8 місяців тому

      LondonFurs, MancFurs, LeedsFurs... All of those are 16+ furmeets. Enjoy!

    • @poppy7740
      @poppy7740 8 місяців тому

      @@adriatorres2918 im 14, and all of those are no where near me, guess ill just have to wait lol

    • @adriatorres2918
      @adriatorres2918 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@@poppy7740Oh alright. Then yes, you have to wait unfortunately..

  • @toxobasenova1772
    @toxobasenova1772 11 місяців тому +2

    Hello.
    You asked why Furry conventions are 18+.
    Find out for yourself and start your own convention.
    Tell us after ten years or even live how the project is going.
    I would be interested to hear about. x3

    • @pokemonbrickbronze5947
      @pokemonbrickbronze5947 11 місяців тому

      Yeah, I heard it’s probably bcuz smaller conventions have less ppl in or sumthin, so they don’t have enough money to let minors in or whatever, idk tbh

  • @yourfriendlysubaruoutback
    @yourfriendlysubaruoutback 11 місяців тому +1

    Furcons shouldn't be exclusive to adults. Instead, there should be restricted areas that minor shouldn't be able to access (like how they can't go into a bar). The furry community isn't an NSFW community. Yes, it has a percentage of people that do adult things. Every community does. But that shouldn't ruin the reputation of the rest of the community.

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  11 місяців тому

      I agree shouldn’t paint everyone with same brush

  • @deleted_handle
    @deleted_handle 10 місяців тому +1

    Why want children there? Don't they ruin everything...

  • @charvisaur4184
    @charvisaur4184 10 місяців тому

    Furry cons are no different from gaming or anime cons. Some events are minor friendly. Some aren't. In anime cons you have people who are just there to support their favorite games and dress up as their favorite characters. You also have a few individuals who REALLY just want to smash some sexy fantasy elves, and that might be expressed in 18+ venues. As with any convention. it's up to the adults to discern which events are kid friendly and which aren't.
    Singling out furry cons is silly really. But we all know what this is really about. Furries are statistically far more likely to be lgbt+, non binary, queer, ect. The panic about us queer folk trying to groom kids is still alive and well, and this is merely an extension of that. Thinly veiled bigotry is all it is.

  • @landonharris7822
    @landonharris7822 11 місяців тому

    I'm 19 so I qualify. Plus if I come to a convention im taking my 72 skylark 4 door!

  • @rachelwilcox52
    @rachelwilcox52 11 місяців тому

    I want to watch that musical 😭
    Can anyone tell where I can watch it full?

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  11 місяців тому

      The Fur-eh UA-cam page

  • @ArthurTheMorgan1444
    @ArthurTheMorgan1444 Рік тому +3

    Ur underrated asf

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  Рік тому +2

      I appreciate the support! Loved making this vid

  • @BruscoTheBoar
    @BruscoTheBoar 11 місяців тому

    Oh hello, a fellow Boar :3

  • @lunamariahawke9320
    @lunamariahawke9320 11 місяців тому

    No, the cons should be for everyone.
    We here have these rules: For example, only allowing people of a certain age be at the convention at a later time.
    Like, if you´re under 14 yrs, you´ll need an adult with you. If you´re between 14/15, you´e only allowed to be at the con until 10pm and from 16/18 yrs old you´re only allowed to be there until midnight (without an adult). And you´ll need to take you ID with you anytime and they´ll check them occasionally.
    I haven´t been to a Furry convention yet, but normal Anime/Manga Cons are usually for everyone. Just in the past year there have been some 18+ panels/workshops and also a kids area (but the parents need to keep watch on their children).

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  11 місяців тому

      I agree all good points

    • @southparticle
      @southparticle 11 місяців тому

      I agree with this comment fully and hope it becomes real

    • @UnboxingAlyss
      @UnboxingAlyss 10 місяців тому +1

      Most cons (furry or not) do this anyway. Most require a parent/guardian excort when the child is 15. At 16, the attendee can attend unaccompanied with a notarized slip signed by a parent. Usually 17 and up, you are good. Both MFF and GFM also have coded badges so one glance can tell you id someone is over 18 or not. This is what badge checkers are for. They will ensure that only attendees are in com event spaces, bt they also check badges (nd sometimes ID) in 18+ panels and other adult events. Vendors must also keep their explicit artwork out of site and clearly marked.

  • @stephaniecarlson1068
    @stephaniecarlson1068 Рік тому +1

    Fully agree with this.

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  Рік тому +1

      Thank you, is a tough topic.

    • @stephaniecarlson1068
      @stephaniecarlson1068 Рік тому +1

      @@SpamBoar I've also heard some cons at a certain time allow suiters with more adult looking figures could come out. But still, I think minors should be allowed to come to cons. I wish I could of when I was their age. But cons put so much effort to make sure minors don't see that adult stuff as you pointed out in your video. I still have yet to experience a furcon.

  • @beetledog5990
    @beetledog5990 11 місяців тому +1

    Nahhhh not the midnight howl💀

  • @amnesiastudios2467
    @amnesiastudios2467 11 місяців тому

    I'm 15 and I go to the same convention you're in

  • @Blossomthegreatandamazing
    @Blossomthegreatandamazing 11 місяців тому

    And that’s why I can’t go to furry cons:(

  • @quantumangel
    @quantumangel 10 місяців тому

    I disagree.
    Not a furry, don't have kids, and it's none of my business.
    But I'm still gonna everything to support a dumb uninformed opinion because tv said so, or something.

  • @Evienv
    @Evienv 2 місяці тому

    Did people not see the child in that one clip

  • @silviahdez2950
    @silviahdez2950 10 місяців тому

    I'm good I like being 🇬🇧🇺🇸

  • @glamrockfoxy6667
    @glamrockfoxy6667 11 місяців тому

    Furries rule

  • @BluecarKing
    @BluecarKing 9 місяців тому

    Honestly, minors not being allowed is probably for the best. Cause there are certain furries that will do unexplainable things.

  • @jupreindeer
    @jupreindeer 10 місяців тому

    How many Furries these days are under 18? *Mic drop*

  • @astronomytiger
    @astronomytiger 11 місяців тому

    Bait

  • @Idfk017
    @Idfk017 11 місяців тому +2

    Most furries are nsfw, so I honestly think children shouldn’t be allowed

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  11 місяців тому +6

      Hmmmm you’ve been to a furry con?

  • @Yourmumspookie
    @Yourmumspookie 5 місяців тому

    Ig I have to wait 4 years to go then 😔

  • @rflyf90
    @rflyf90 11 місяців тому

    by2002 referencia 🙀🙀🙀

  • @Pixel_Goober
    @Pixel_Goober 11 місяців тому

    one day

  • @arvurebantra7639
    @arvurebantra7639 Рік тому +198

    I am a furry but I am also very uncomfortable around sexual situations and people I don't know acting that way around me. Making a furry convention adults only would also leave out people like me and others who may have had trauma due to sexual assault. The point is, as an adult, we should recognize when it's approrpiate and when it isn't, and so many furries seem to have trouble with boundaries like that. And there are a LOT who still view it in a fetishy way. It isn't, people of all types like cartoon animals, and if you don't like a minor friendly con existing, get over it.
    The government should not be forcing it either. It's not their place to decide what is right for others.

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  Рік тому +24

      I echo everything you’re saying and thanks for saying it.

    • @arvurebantra7639
      @arvurebantra7639 Рік тому +12

      @@SpamBoar I'm glad you spoke up too. This is something I feel a lot of furries really don't want to talk about in a civil way.

    • @cozycavern
      @cozycavern 11 місяців тому +29

      @@schwnnchester touching people inappropriately without their consent is sexual assault. No matter how it's done. Also trying to minimize the trauma of sa victims is gross. Do better.

    • @TheBluePony3
      @TheBluePony3 10 місяців тому +7

      I feel the exact same way and I get so much hate from other furries for it. I get called prudish, karen, etc. The only adults who seem to actually understand me are ace people. You're totally right about the no boundaries thing. I could be trying to make small talk with someone and then they change the topic to something sexual. Like uhhh bro if I was at work that would count as sexual harassment. Its not fair that work is the only place where boundaries are respected and enforced. Like, I wouldnt talk like that with any stranger, but they do it so often with other furries who are okay with that, that so much of them have forgotten that not everyone is okay with that. There are legit some people who do treat conventions as sex parties and so many times I get called a prude or hater or karen for pointing that out.

    • @arvurebantra7639
      @arvurebantra7639 10 місяців тому +7

      @@TheBluePony3 For real though, I used to hang out with a lot of furries in VRChat, would stream it, and had to stop because people actively tried to make comments about having sex with my avatar. I can't hang out in large groups on there because someone ALWAYS randomly pulls out an avatar dick or makes jokes about "milk" and it gets so bad I just end up logging off and feeling like I'm not wanted around.
      I remember once someone I didn't know coming to my Twitch stream, seeing my avatar had a collar, and them asking if they could be the one to collar me, like "BRO WHAT THE ACTUAL HELL?" Come on... just... stop...

  • @GRUBBJUICE
    @GRUBBJUICE 11 місяців тому +109

    When I was unsupervised running around conventions as a 14 year old. I was a huge target for predators and being 25 now Im a huge advocate for protecting our youth. First hand there's a lot of inappropriate things and creepy people who go here. Not saying everyone is but I know I wouldn't leave my child out of my sight . All children should be accompanied by an adult and conventions do not enforce that rule whatsoever

    • @cozycavern
      @cozycavern 11 місяців тому +14

      Thats not why they're making it 18+ but yeah those things should definitely be enforced. But I feel like banning anyone who is underage isnt the solution.

    • @jyoats7959
      @jyoats7959 11 місяців тому +9

      I think anybody under 16 should have to be accompanied. I had a 17 yo friend that went with me when I was 18, and she had to get a parental consent form to be there on her own. So I think that they are pretty good about enforcing the rules. This was AC though I bet there’s other ones that could be better.

    • @erebosthemogoreg
      @erebosthemogoreg 10 місяців тому +2

      ​@@jyoats7959I'm literally a mostly vulnerable person no matter my age... Mainly due to my disability that creeps come to try taking advantage over me. I was 19 and I actually didn't even realize what was actually happening and my parents had TO PULL ME AWAY cause they saw I was being pushed around and I didn't even realize it... Me now as 25 years old I now am more aware of disgusting behavior. I still have to have someone keep an eye me often cause I really am that blind at times to understand certain concepts.

  • @deaddawgz
    @deaddawgz Рік тому +152

    cons should absolutely NOT be 18+ with some exceptions obviously but i don’t think it should be the norm. i went to a con in 2019 when i was still a minor and it was a truly special experience for me!! i did the dance comp, i met people i had known online for years, i even got congratulated after the dance comp by an artist i truly admire!! all were incredibly special experiences i hold near and dear to my heart and i would hate for others to not have a similar experience. :[

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  Рік тому +17

      I agree would definitely ruin things as a whole

  • @batphantoms
    @batphantoms Рік тому +398

    As a minor myself I feel very excluded from the fandom in various ways. I feel like the adults here don't see me as human- so I appreciate the message you are spreading! Conventions should ALWAYS be for everyone. Awesome quality video, you're really underrated.

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  Рік тому +70

      Thank you and that sucks you feel that way. I agree they are for everyone. I appreciate the kind words!

    • @maxncheese5216
      @maxncheese5216 11 місяців тому +21

      Try not to think so dramatically. You won't forever be a minor, everyone was in your shoes in their lifetime.

    • @beeficulousdogmatica
      @beeficulousdogmatica 11 місяців тому +13

      nobody wants to deal with little kids so i mean

    • @sillypiled
      @sillypiled 11 місяців тому +18

      @@beeficulousdogmaticai mean tbf, minor is until you’re 18 so what about the teenagers?

    • @beeficulousdogmatica
      @beeficulousdogmatica 11 місяців тому +12

      @@sillypiled none of em wants to deal with annoying teenagers either man idk what to tell ya, it’s the maturity difference between 20 year olds and 16 year olds

  • @xBloodxFangx
    @xBloodxFangx Рік тому +90

    I was at Megaplex and there really isnt anything not for kids there. Yes there is an 18+ dealers area with more risqué things but they double check IDs, even though we had to be 18+ to get in in the first place, and its so well hidden we had to ask where it even was. Few people running around in pup masks but 1. kids wont know what that is other then its a dog mask and 2. if its a problem ban pup masks then. Ive honestly seen worse things at Spooky Empire, a florida horror convention, than I did at Megaplex for kids.

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  Рік тому +6

      Thanks for letting me know how Megaplex was!

    • @Iuventius
      @Iuventius 11 місяців тому +7

      I completely agree. I brought my whole family, so that they could get a good first impression of the community, and they think it's so cool. I really wish I could've taken my sister with me. But from the things I did, 18+ content outside of slightly suggestive clothing was quite tame.

    • @nonpondo_
      @nonpondo_ 11 місяців тому +6

      ​@@Iuventiusyeah, like if you make it 18+, make it 18+ for a reason content wise, otherwise it's like having a regular-ass carnival but not allowing kids, like come on man let my kid ride the ferris wheel

    • @Arkiasis
      @Arkiasis 11 місяців тому +10

      @@nonpondo_ Megaplex wasn't marketed as 18+ it was forced to by Florida's anti-lgbt laws. Since ANY fursuit can be considered "drag". Like if you're a male and you wear a fursuit that portrays a feminine figure, bam that's drag and now it's illegal to be around kids. You literally CANNOT cosplay the opposite sex if anyone under 18 is around. And if you're trans at all? Can't be around kids at all. If you're just wearing a normal suit, have a tag that you're trans and a kid walks by, that's illegal in Florida. None of this is about any sort of 18+ content, it's all about Florida's Fascist nonsense, and why I don't visit that shithole of a state anymore.

    • @TokonF
      @TokonF 11 місяців тому

      @@ArkiasisThey also made it 18+ because the anti-trans laws make so that they can take your kids if they even suspect the child might be “trans influenced.” Megaplex has always been an all ages con and the staff hated that they had to make that choice to protect kids from the states laws.

  • @maxncheese5216
    @maxncheese5216 11 місяців тому +37

    I like that some conventions are 18+ only, for the sole fact me and many others that are adults aren't fully comfortable befriending minors. I know a few popular fursuiters feel the same. You don't know who you're talking to behind the mask, and my humor isnt always child friendly. It sucks being excluded from things when you're under age, but they have to remember this isn't forever. They *will* get older. We were all children once. It's better safe than sorry, imo.

    • @ItzzzBeamo
      @ItzzzBeamo 11 місяців тому +8

      Very much worth noting. Surprised it took a decent while of scrolling to see someone state the fact that being a kid isn’t forever. Gives ya something to look forward to when you grow up, and, once the maturity is gained and the access granted, the hype hopefully pays off.

    • @Jaspy-Alue_KittyKode
      @Jaspy-Alue_KittyKode 10 місяців тому +4

      I totally agree with this, I wanna add on that I think everyone, AND 18+ cons only should exist. It shouldn't be one or the other, because even the current everyone cons (most of them I've known) do a good job making an 18+ section, and keeping it secured for said 18+ only. I think there's a benefit to having both, people get to chose what they prefer! And minors can still get a con experience without being subjected to NSFW. NOW- Attire,. at an everyone con? THAT could use some work imo, what people are allowed to wear on their fursuits/as a whole in the public spaces at a con like that

    • @erebosthemogoreg
      @erebosthemogoreg 8 місяців тому +1

      @@Jaspy-Alue_KittyKode honestly... While the 18+ only is a nice concept, me as a 25 year old, my mind has more of a childish nature and it's very easy to mistaken me for a child due to my overall appearance and behavior, speech included. I have a very difficult time with speaking with other adults as the concepts are too... Idk, hard to grasp but when I talk to minors, I am able to have an actual conversation... Maybe it's due to mt cognitive learning disability? I do not quite know... I just feel like I'm the alien in 18+ only spaces cause I have different concepts of what I am interested in....

    • @Jaspy-Alue_KittyKode
      @Jaspy-Alue_KittyKode 8 місяців тому +2

      @erebosthegengar I can understand, I haven't been to ANY convention but I can say I'm not nearly as... Open, and comfortable as a lot of attendees would be at an 18+ con. Some things I would still be uncomfortable being in the middle of, even it being specifically a con that allows such- So.. Either way not exactly anything perfect? ♡

    • @maxncheese5216
      @maxncheese5216 8 місяців тому +1

      @@erebosthemogoreg just know as a 25 year old, you really shouldn't be seeking friendship with minors. Maybe it's something you need to work towards, being more relaxed around people your age. I'm autistic myself and have a couple minors who I'm friendly with too but there is definitely a line

  • @Catinthecosmos155
    @Catinthecosmos155 11 місяців тому +58

    I’ve been in this fandom for around ten years now so since I was seven. I adore this fandom so much but it definitely does have some issues with his minors can be excluded or treated different at cons. After dark is for only adults so if you don’t like having minors around then just chill in the convention at night. The furry fandom is a place of wonder and love and happiness and should be for everyone no matter the skin size shape gender or sexuality, the furry fandom is built on excepting everyone so it’s sad that people are being left out and treated like lesser furries just for being a minor. Thanks for making this video i love how much care and research you put into it

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  11 місяців тому +4

      I appreciate the kind words and agree with your sentiments.

  • @KiaFursuits
    @KiaFursuits 11 місяців тому +24

    Such a great video! I’m the silly kitty at 2:01 :) I appreciate your thoughts and agree completely! There is so much to do that isn’t NSFW at our conventions! But we adults do need our fun time as well. It is important that we find a way for both aspects of the fandom to work!

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  11 місяців тому +5

      I agree and thanks for being in the video :)

  • @SeaSwine9
    @SeaSwine9 Рік тому +30

    By default, UK furry cons ( and meets) are 16+ for insurance reasons more than anyway. But the furry/anime cons we do have are very drinking (and drugs) heavy, so having younger people have to wait a bit is good.
    General media conventions are usually suitable for ( and tailored towards) kids and families.
    It was 'interesting' going to a horror convention that allowed kids but had very nasty sexually-violent artwork out on display for anyone too see. :[

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  Рік тому +6

      I didn’t know that about UK cons. I’ve only been to EF.

    • @jennifercoulter3341
      @jennifercoulter3341 Рік тому +11

      Yeah the big 2 cons Confuzzled and Scotiacon are 18+, I think it's mainly for alcohol and insurance reasons. I've also seen most meets be 16+. I think it just works out much more expensive for the con holders to allow all ages.

    • @adriatorres2918
      @adriatorres2918 8 місяців тому +1

      ​​​​@@SpamBoarSwitzerland also has 16+ meets (Furmeet Bern for example, I've traveled from my country Spain to attend it).
      I'm starting to think this might be related to a stupid rule/law that only exists in the European Union...

    • @MyBroSux24
      @MyBroSux24 3 місяці тому

      @@adriatorres2918 nah it also has to do with parenting. in germany from 16-18 for example you have to get permits from your parents that person xy looks after you or you have to leave to go home at midnight. it's much easier if everyone is 18+ anyway.

  • @avian.shmavian
    @avian.shmavian 11 місяців тому +19

    a lot of people outside of the fandom just think of furries as sex-fiends. if word gets out that cons have started to not allow minors, it's just gonna feed that stereotype, and I’m sure that nobody wants that to happen. I sure do hope that different con organizers actually think about it first and not just go with what everybody says they want.

  • @troistheotter
    @troistheotter Рік тому +63

    Great video! Conventions shouldn't be 18+. I wouldn't want to leave the younger ones out of the fun!
    I've seen parents guiding their kids around the con and it's sweet! I wish my parents would've been supported like that! x3
    Make the events 18+ if they call for it, but let their parents do the parenting. :3

    • @troistheotter
      @troistheotter Рік тому +1

      (Ayyye I'm the 200th subscriber! :D)

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  Рік тому +2

      Good point!

    • @JoltJackelope
      @JoltJackelope Рік тому +3

      I can imagine parents allowing their children to wonder in “Adult” sections of the con, and then blame the “Furries” for it, even though it was the PARENTS Fault. 🤦‍♀️

    • @troistheotter
      @troistheotter Рік тому +5

      ​@@JoltJackelope Every con I went too has had someone checking ID's for this reason.

    • @Taygooner
      @Taygooner Рік тому

      I think it worked out great at Eurofurence, massive public convention area in and out of the building, so anyone without a ticket could come and take pictures and decide if it’s worth it to go to the actual convention the next year or when they are 18. I did this this year and it honestly was amazing

  • @swetuski
    @swetuski Рік тому +14

    I totally agree, hell at FurSquared I literally watched a toddler play patty cake with someone (in full fur suit with the parents right there) these things can be tailored to everyone. Many furry cons do make sure kids under 18 are accompanied by their guardian or parent. It’s not perfect but it’s something

  • @sheepthingg
    @sheepthingg Рік тому +16

    This is a really nice video.
    I think after dark hours for risque costumes and events, and/or sectioned off areas like in dealers dens, and some conventions themselves being 18+ would be a fine solution. And its kindof what we have now, but it would be better if most cons were more organized in this way.
    Everything else can be left up to the parents discretion.

  • @3amhellbeast
    @3amhellbeast Рік тому +12

    This was such a fun con! 💕
    I wanted to add that there definitely should be cons that are all ages, and this is one of the best ones Ive seen for it. It's disappointing that Megaplex had no choice but to be 18+, but most other cons are still minor friendly.
    That being said, there really needs to be more 18+ only furcons for those of us who don't necessarily want to be around kids. That doesn’t mean that it has to be all nsfw cons either, just something fun where adults can relax a bit more and not have to worry about kids being around. There are enough all ages cons at this point that having a few new ones pop up just for adults would only be a good thing for the fandom!

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  Рік тому +2

      Well you’ve got LVFC now and it’s a great con!

  • @00Skyfox
    @00Skyfox 11 місяців тому +5

    Absolutely furry conventions should be for everybody of all ages! Sure, there are certain areas and events that are best left 18+ such as the adult area of the art show and the “after dark” versions of panels and performances, but there is soooo much at a con for kids and teens. One of my favorite photos, from my first furry con ever, was a little girl ago 5 years old surrounded by a a circle of several fursuiters like giant living plushies (and her mom right nearby taking pictures of the moment). I have seen furry parents pushing babies in strollers, a 14 year old hosting a panel with his ~8 year old sister sitting in the front row (their mom sitting off to the side), kids in freakin’ wheelchairs brought to the con by their parents to smile no forget about the troubles of life for a while, young teens with “minor” badges bouncing around in fursuits and having a total blast. If I had kids (it’ll never happen, but if) I would absolutely take them to furry cons. The encouragement to express themselves, enjoy imagination and fantasy, and be their most real selves would be unlike anything they could ever experience in mundane everyday life and school where people tell them what to be and what to think.

  • @corranfox
    @corranfox Рік тому +16

    Dig the sentiment here, i think media has tarnished the image of furry and making conventions 18+ seems to me like feeding into that stigma. Furry is for everybody, of all ages and it should be a safe and welcoming space for all.

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  Рік тому +4

      I can’t agree more with you.

  • @brylythhighlights4335
    @brylythhighlights4335 10 місяців тому +3

    I'm gonna be honest, I'm of the opinion that *any* establishment is more enjoyable if there aren't minors present.
    It doesn't matter if it's a convention or a grocery store, they're just annoying.
    Doesn't help when you've got a reduced field of vision and they're short with very little to no situational awareness.

  • @Z3r0_g
    @Z3r0_g 11 місяців тому +8

    I generally think people of all ages should be welcome, but there should definitely be 18+ spaces too. And I’m not even necessarily thinking that all of these 18+ spaces should be NSFW (I’m aroace anyway), sometimes I think adults (myself for example) just need a regular space where they can get away from people’s obnoxious children and screaming babies. I also think this applies to any con that isn’t fully NSFW, not just furry cons.

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  11 місяців тому +1

      Hello Aroace, yeah 18+ spaces seem to make sense.

    • @wolfalotle5357
      @wolfalotle5357 11 місяців тому

      Honestly it makes me mad that babies attend these conventions I heard a baby crying at a furry convention and yes some kids can be annoying some kids 1 year younger were screaming and yelling it’s so annoying but it’s true certain spaces should be adults only , but still allow kids in with the fun but only certain ages

    • @Z3r0_g
      @Z3r0_g 11 місяців тому

      @@wolfalotle5357 Why should kids be let in adult only spaces? (I’m autistic and might’ve misread this or took it the wrong way.) And I’m honestly not a fan of babies and little kids anywhere.

    • @wolfalotle5357
      @wolfalotle5357 11 місяців тому

      Yeah you did miss read it I said that that it annoys me with babies I heard one crying at the convention and it made me so annoyed but anyways I meant that adults should have their space to but kids should be allowed to still join parts of the convention like I did

    • @wolfalotle5357
      @wolfalotle5357 11 місяців тому

      It’s ok if you don’t understand what I was trying to say but I promise you I do not think it’s ok for kids to be allowed in only adult areas

  • @Freckris
    @Freckris 10 місяців тому +3

    yeah, we had to be safe here in Florida because of DeSantis' vague law. We didn't want to exclude the kids, but because of the simple nature of Fursonas not always matching up to the human inside, we had to play it safe so that we can continue having Megaplex at all. The general sentiment was we were sad that the restriction had to happen, but hopefully in the future we can bring the new furs back in when the dust settles.

  • @termitesc.aardwolf3644
    @termitesc.aardwolf3644 10 місяців тому +2

    I attended Fur Eh back in 2022. It was my first time visiting Canada. From what I recall, it was a pretty chill mid-sized convention. Then again, I'm an asexual introvert who goes to bed by 10PM so I likely missed out on a lot of after dark stuff.

  • @johnnydragon
    @johnnydragon Рік тому +8

    Loved how you went in between clips from the con and a proper seat down to discuss the topic.
    Your doing an awesome job, truly. 😊A very well put together video! ^^

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  Рік тому +4

      I appreciate the feedback! Worked my tail off on this video XD

    • @johnnydragon
      @johnnydragon Рік тому +1

      @@SpamBoar Well, I say your work shows ^^
      And another well done 👍

  • @ninjaone1
    @ninjaone1 11 місяців тому +3

    I don't think there's anything *at all* wrong with some conventions making themselves adult only. It allows for certain levels of freedom that you wouldn't otherwise have in those spaces. And you don't have to deal with the "there could be minors/kids around" debacle in an adult only space, and conventions are one of the few spaces that can have strict registration to enforce it.

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  11 місяців тому +2

      I agree there should be a range of options.

  • @foxitoxal
    @foxitoxal 11 місяців тому +2

    I personally see no problem with minors at furry conventions, as long as they stay out of adult spaces

  • @woofnuggiez
    @woofnuggiez 11 місяців тому +5

    this is 50/50 for me. I think there should be specific furcons for adults and children. And that some furcons should sometimes be 18+ every once in awhile. Like for instance the furries who can't afford to go out of state and can only go to cons in their area, I know some cons are always all ages and some cons are extremely limitied because of minors and I think it would be nice to go to every once in a while where there are no children that take you out of peoples comfort zones and limit some enjoyment. But there should still be all age cons for kids to experience and have fun interacting with fursuiters and have fun.

  • @boomerang_dutchie
    @boomerang_dutchie Рік тому +4

    Yoo how am I just seeing this footage ?? I’m Kōdō btw, the angry yellow feline who won the comp ! This is awesome, hope you had a great experience with FurEh !💪⚡️

    • @SpamBoar
      @SpamBoar  Рік тому +2

      Ohhh awesome, I hoped you would see it. You’re performance was phenomenal! FurEh was awesome.

  • @DragonWithAWagon
    @DragonWithAWagon 11 місяців тому +4

    Honestly 21+ only Furcons would rule, even 18/19 year olds give me the heebeegeebeez 90%. Of the time. Parties, hanging out with people without having to deal with high school drama would be killer. Minors should have their own conventions too but adults that are fighting tooth and nail to be allowed to hang out with literal children in furry spaces are kinda freaks

    • @leech9460
      @leech9460 11 місяців тому

      I mean I fight for minors to be welcomed at furry conventions bc my little cousin wants to go to one.
      So I'm hoping most Furry conventions will stay for all ages and just have extra spaces for 18+ or 21+ crowds with extra security in place to make sure no one can get in without an ID.

    • @BucceesFan2004
      @BucceesFan2004 11 місяців тому

      I think most local furry meetups tend to be 21+ since they’re usually hosted in bars or someone’s backyard 💀
      at least in my experience lmao

  • @blackqweenmars
    @blackqweenmars 11 місяців тому +2

    I feel like they should make minor and adult through conventions, as well as family, friendly conventions. There doesn’t have to be anything sexual about Furrys. We see Furrys in movies all the time and nobody complains.

  • @isyamzocken1452
    @isyamzocken1452 11 місяців тому +4

    as a minor im rlly sad to not be able to go to cons. I hope that maybe one day minor cons will exist. I would go to fur meets, but all fur meets in my erea are 18+ too. But im also a bit too scared somebody i know would see me then.

    • @UnboxingAlyss
      @UnboxingAlyss 10 місяців тому +2

      There are quite a few family-friendly cons on the States. Midwest Furfest and gateway Gurmeet are just 2. You will have to be accompanied by a parent at all times, but you are definitely allowed to attend.

    • @isyamzocken1452
      @isyamzocken1452 10 місяців тому

      ​@@UnboxingAlysstysm! I Hope i will he able to go There soon!

  • @ARBCOOL07
    @ARBCOOL07 11 місяців тому +3

    Great vid! I will use this to help show my Mother that Furry Conventions and the Fandom in general can be for everyone, even those under 18.

  • @w31rd_dragon
    @w31rd_dragon Рік тому +3

    furry conventions should be for everyone regardless of age. OC there should also bc adult only areas too like most cons. Sucks that megapex had to change their policy.........

  • @SceneBarlowe
    @SceneBarlowe 10 місяців тому +2

    This fandom is for everyone. That said, 18+ conventions are not a problem, as well as having 18+ sections in cons. Though, I feel like there has been a push recently that minors are not allowed in this fandom, or are treated as lesser than. Just because an individual is under 18 does not necessarily mean they are annoying or a problem. Not wanting to interact with them does not mean they are not welcome.

  • @kevinfischer4869
    @kevinfischer4869 11 місяців тому +2

    It probably makes a difference which con you go to. There was a lot of kink at Further Confusion for example. Lots of pup and latex. Some dude got off an elevator with a binky in his mouth lol. Even in the dealers den, there was lots of suggestive artwork, and even explicit artwork that was barely censored. It’s my only con so far, so I can’t say that the whole con scene isn’t for kids, and I didn’t actually see any kids there anyway so maybe that particular con isn’t open for that.
    Anyway, I would be more comfortable not seeing kids and kink in the same venue; it needs to be one or the other. The potential presence of kids turns us all into “mandated reporters” always watching to make sure that no exploitation is happening around us, and it casts anyone in kink into immediate suspicion.

  • @dumbfanta3873
    @dumbfanta3873 11 місяців тому +2

    I JUST turned 18 a few days ago and like being a furry as a minor (I rlly don’t feel like an adult yet it’s so weird omg) has been so strange at times because people would be telling me I can’t be uncomfortable with some things because like I’m a minor and don’t understand??? Like uhhh no I should be able to have a voice and not be excluded, I mean ofc now that I’m 18 that shouldn’t happen anymore but still

  • @IndieTimberStudio
    @IndieTimberStudio Рік тому +3

    I was at Fur-Eh! that year. It was fun. I did have to wait for the perfect time to wear my latex suit.
    The down side is that my parody concert got delay so it did screw my audience up (at least DenFur made it up). The two biggest highlights were people get to try my inflatable ball suit for the first time and first time being confident at the dance party.
    As for your video, I agree about what furry cons should be. I do enjoy either being kid-friendly and being mature which it's good to know what is safe for them. I did help out the musical which I did lend my backing voices.
    Also, "I like furry art." (Shiro 2023)

  • @LaikaBeachbird-vv8lu
    @LaikaBeachbird-vv8lu 11 місяців тому +2

    Everyone should be allowed at furcons! But there shall be some limits for younger minors and I’m 13 myself saying this.

  • @RoxanneManedWolf
    @RoxanneManedWolf 10 місяців тому +1

    There are adults only stuff on convetions too
    Cuz yk- like we are ppl too😭 its not my fault that Im a minor

  • @ColdOsburn
    @ColdOsburn 11 місяців тому +2

    now here's something quite amusing there was a Furry Convention that I went to a while back where it was meant for family and friends of all ages to go to it and it actually went pretty well I've seen some really cool people and one of my favorite parts about it was seen some of the young furries getting involved like they had a full fursuit for some of these kids it was pretty cool I haven't seen one showed up for a while now but I would like to see one pop up again I can't remember the name of it it was so long ago.

  • @typhonplume9374
    @typhonplume9374 11 місяців тому +2

    I agree with it, and I have seen various cons like AnthroCon for a example, try to keep minor and adult areas seperate. Even offering badges that help denote who is and who isn't a minor. Now mind you I been in the fandom for a very long time, 40 years long, and only attended 4 different cons in my life time, and 3 furmeets. So I don't consider myself a expert on the subject, and can only speak from my own experince.

  • @eggdog3147
    @eggdog3147 11 місяців тому +1

    Vice Canada lied about Fur-Eh! to get clicks on an article to stigmatize an already stigmatized fandom? This is completely unprecedented! /s

  • @peterotremba8980
    @peterotremba8980 11 місяців тому +2

    I have that same shirt!!!

  • @TheBluePony3
    @TheBluePony3 10 місяців тому +1

    Everyone should be able to go but people always get so mad at me when I say that if you're gonna allow kids at a con, you should enforce a family friendly attire/behavior/props rule. Someone walked around in a shirt that said "cum" on it during the last year that Megaplex allowed children, walked by several children, and nobody did anything about it. The most anyone said was "thats kinda weird" but didnt decide to report that person. That wouldn't be allowed at Disneyland or Chuck E Cheese and yet I have so many furries who get mad at me when I say that cons that allow kids should actually bother to enforce the family friendliness. There are some things that people walk around with at cons that just dont count. Like sorry but those big Horny Jail prop hammers still have a word that wouldn't be allowed in something family friendly like a kids movie. Part of the reason furries get so much stigma is because people on the outside see shit like that and people on the inside just say "so?"

  • @livfraser6902
    @livfraser6902 10 місяців тому +1

    I think some conventions are 18+ bc people don’t want to deal with dumb children like me-

  • @Mr_Erutrot
    @Mr_Erutrot 11 місяців тому +1

    idk, Hooters isn't 18+ and I don't think you can get a ton worse than that