It is very moving hearing about your life and experiences. It is very hard to be positive sometimes. But hearing your story and the way you reacted to experiences is very uplifting. It would have been so easy to become bitter and cynical and scared of life. Many of us are nowadays without having the bad experiences. Not always easy to smile in the face of life when so much is there to frustrate. So thanks for the honesty and the story. You have done a power of good telling your story as always.
Lisa: The beauty of your story is that even thou you were raised in an abusive family your past never dictated your mental frame of mind. That alone is amazing in itself. Best wishes to you and your husband.
Hi Lisa, thank you for sharing your story. You and my wife's early life experience are very similar, her father used to beat her, but never her younger twin sister or brother, just her, he once hit her so hard that he knocked her out and when she woke up the hole right side of her face was swollen and bruised. I know the cultures grown up are very different, and at that time it as normal to hit your children but i cant believe that no other family members would not try to stop it. Another thing I'm amazed about my wife's childhood is that she was born in 1983 and can remember her grandmother having bound feet, i had thought that had stopped long before that and there would be no people living with bound feet at the time she was born, it really shocked me when she told me.
Hello Lisa, that was a very moving account of your childhood. It is marvelous that you have managed to overcome such a difficult start in life. It makes me realize how lucky I have been. You are a such a wonderful role model that your story needs to be heard by many more people, as it is so inspirational. So, I hope that you get many more subscribers to your channel. Finally, I am really happy that you have found happiness in the UK and that you are enjoying life here, you are a big asset to the UK.
I am sorry that you grew up in a abusive family, and I am glad that you did not inherit or learn the abuses your father gave. Thank you for sharing and keep smiling, keep positive, in all things.
Lisa, your story brought tears to my eyes. You are a strong and amazing lady, what you had to endure has made you into the beautiful lady you are today. Thank you for sharing your private story, and may God bless you always 🙏
Hi Lisa. It was very brave of you to post this. Abuse of any sort-physical and mental-should not be tolerated. I know parents who have raised very successful children, without any physical or mental abuse. Children need to be nurtured and supported, not abused. You should be very proud about what you have achieved. You have turned out to be totally opposite to what your father was.
Sorry to hear you had to go through such a troubled childhood. Glad to see you didn't hold on to the experiences and let it control your future. You're a good daughter. Hope you're doing better now.
I’m proud of you, Lisa you’re very successful, and helping other people. You are rich because of the love that you and your husband have together. You have broken the circle of your parents and the relationship they had. Now, many people can learn what it takes to make relationship work the love understanding, compromise and communication. Love and respect to you and your husband. I hope your husband is getting stronger every day. 🙏💕😉
Lisa, I too grew up getting punished a lot by my mother when we lived in a third world country. My family used to say that it was because I was a bad kid who always made trouble for other people. After we came to the US in 1977 at the age of 9, the punishment stopped because now we lived with my father. Me getting punished like I did made me become a very independent person who all of my family looked to for help because I learned how to do many things by myself. My parents never expressed their love for us either until about 15 years ago.
It may not be only what you inherited from your mother. In abusive situations it is often that the child has some kind of 'refuge' - a relative or activity group of whatever. Was that part of the story for you?
Thankyou for telling us about your life it's very interesting and you are a very friendly person and your stories are about overcoming. It seems you don't have children of your own Could you talk to us about that. Certainly that is a duificuilty many face.
Do you go to visit your family in China Lisa? They may know little about Britain and I'm sure they know that whatever you tell them would be the truth. Not all good, not all bad. I think you are a truthful person.
Lisa, thank you for sharing with us. 🙏。你是个好人！
It is very moving hearing about your life and experiences. It is very hard to be positive sometimes. But hearing your story and the way you reacted to experiences is very uplifting. It would have been so easy to become bitter and cynical and scared of life. Many of us are nowadays without having the bad experiences. Not always easy to smile in the face of life when so much is there to frustrate. So thanks for the honesty and the story. You have done a power of good telling your story as always.
Thank you 😊
Lisa, it's amazing that you turned out the way you did and that makes all of your fans happy
you are a sweet and kind person!
Thank you
You are a success. You are happy with your husband. That much is obvious. You have won the game of life❤
Thank you
@GobbyLisa99 my pleasure
Lisa:
The beauty of your story is that even thou you were raised in an abusive family your past never dictated your mental frame of mind. That alone is amazing in itself.
Best wishes to you and your husband.
Thank you
Hi Lisa, thank you for sharing your story. You and my wife's early life experience are very similar, her father used to beat her, but never her younger twin sister or brother, just her, he once hit her so hard that he knocked her out and when she woke up the hole right side of her face was swollen and bruised. I know the cultures grown up are very different, and at that time it as normal to hit your children but i cant believe that no other family members would not try to stop it.
Another thing I'm amazed about my wife's childhood is that she was born in 1983 and can remember her grandmother having bound feet, i had thought that had stopped long before that and there would be no people living with bound feet at the time she was born, it really shocked me when she told me.
Please give your wife a hug for me.. 🫂 When I was a kid, I was always beaten by my father because I protected my mother
Hello Lisa, that was a very moving account of your childhood. It is marvelous that you have managed to overcome such a difficult start in life. It makes me realize how lucky I have been. You are a such a wonderful role model that your story needs to be heard by many more people, as it is so inspirational. So, I hope that you get many more subscribers to your channel. Finally, I am really happy that you have found happiness in the UK and that you are enjoying life here, you are a big asset to the UK.
Thank you ❤
I am so sorry, Lisa. I have friends from Guangzhou that describe similar circumstances. You are amazing, thank you for sharing with us!
I am sorry that you grew up in a abusive family, and I am glad that you did not inherit or learn the abuses your father gave. Thank you for sharing and keep smiling, keep positive, in all things.
That’s a beautiful story and you are a beautiful person.
Thank you
Lisa, your story brought tears to my eyes. You are a strong and amazing lady, what you had to endure has made you into the beautiful lady you are today. Thank you for sharing your private story, and may God bless you always 🙏
Thank you. Have a great weekend
Hi Lisa. It was very brave of you to post this. Abuse of any sort-physical and mental-should not be tolerated. I know parents who have raised very successful children, without any physical or mental abuse. Children need to be nurtured and supported, not abused. You should be very proud about what you have achieved. You have turned out to be totally opposite to what your father was.
Thank you
Sorry to hear you had to go through such a troubled childhood.
Glad to see you didn't hold on to the experiences and let it control your future. You're a good daughter.
Hope you're doing better now.
Thank you
great video thank you
Thank you for sharing your story. It is inspiring. We enjoy your insightful stories. 👍
Thank you.
YOU BECAME A GREAT PERSON. WE LOVE YOU LISA
Thank you
I’m proud of you, Lisa you’re very successful, and helping other people. You are rich because of the love that you and your husband have together. You have broken the circle of your parents and the relationship they had. Now, many people can learn what it takes to make relationship work the love understanding, compromise and communication. Love and respect to you and your husband. I hope your husband is getting stronger every day. 🙏💕😉
Thank you 😊
That’s a lovely story, Lisa, thanks for sharing. You’re a very good positive person..
Thank you
God bless you Lisa.
I am glad you can be happy now. ♥
Lisa, I too grew up getting punished a lot by my mother when we lived in a third world country. My family used to say that it was because I was a bad kid who always made trouble for other people. After we came to the US in 1977 at the age of 9, the punishment stopped because now we lived with my father. Me getting punished like I did made me become a very independent person who all of my family looked to for help because I learned how to do many things by myself. My parents never expressed their love for us either until about 15 years ago.
Give you a hug. 🫂
Lisa well done for standing up to your father
Thanks for sharing this Lisa.
It may not be only what you inherited from your mother. In abusive situations it is often that the child has some kind of 'refuge' - a relative or activity group of whatever. Was that part of the story for you?
i LOVED THIS vIDEO , LISA
Sorry to hear about your life situation with your father. Now you are a loving mother and wife with wonderful blessings.
😊😊😊😊😊😊
Thank you, I have let go of the past, I don't have any sadness😊
Where is your mother today. Do you see her. You never had Children? You would be a great Mom❤🇨🇦
Haha. 😂 I feel like I haven't grown up yet.So I don’t think I’m a good mum
@@GobbyLisa99 I definitely haven't grown up, Wǒ shì dúshēngzǐ 😉
Thankyou for telling us about your life it's very interesting and you are a very friendly person and your stories are about overcoming. It seems you don't have children of your own Could you talk to us about that. Certainly that is a duificuilty many face.
Thank you. My husband and I don’t have children.
Bless you Lisa
Thank you
Thanks
Thank you 😊😊
❤️❤️❤️🌹🥰
Do you go to visit your family in China Lisa? They may know little about Britain and I'm sure they know that whatever you tell them would be the truth. Not all good, not all bad. I think you are a truthful person.
I back to China six years ago. I didn’t tell my family any bad things about Britain. Because I don’t want them worried about me.
You smile, but it’s not at all funny. It’s so sad. I’m sorry to hear your story.
Thank you, I'm really fine, I'm really relaxed talking about the past, things that have passed, it's been so long, I can't remember many things
it's opposite day!
it sucked!
let's laugh about it!!
Hi Lisa
Hi Steve
Your father was like my father
Give you a hug