👦 scared boy asking people to walk down a dark alley with him | social experiment
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- Опубліковано 18 лис 2019
- 👦 scared boy asking people to walk him home down a dark alley | social experiment
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“A man doesn’t get scared” Fear is an emotion. It has nothing to do with genders. Everyone can be scared.
he is african. he was raised that way.
@@yohlahGo "he was raised that way" doesn't make it right. And he being african or wtv is irrelevant. People used to think alot that a woman's place was in the kitchen and making babies. Because it was alot of people, its okay to think and have certain behaviers? No. I hope he growns up mentally.
@@girlstrangerlove you don't decide whether that type of thinking is wrong or not the man was probably raised that way and he isn't scared of the dark so I say he's raised correctly
@@tbitw3374 he didn't say "the dark isn't scary" he said "a man doesn't get scared". he's using the reasoning by gender. he may be raised that way, but it doesn't need to be correct. culture doesn't excuse anything. you can see it everyday in so cultures that tell their kids to oppress their feelings and be strong instead of encouraging discussion.
tbitw 33 nope. If he is raised to judge others for being scared then he was raised shittt
I disagree with the guy who said men shouldn't get scared.
100% I am scared of many things. Who isn't?
Yeah I wanted to tell him to shut up 😂
He said to take the boy safely and encourage him that he shouldn't be scared.
He didn't try to blame the boy, he's just an old man.- Google Translator
Me too 😪😪
Nothing is scary when you carry a gun on your hip but I’m from Texas. I think guns are prohibited in Korea but not sure.
If this happened to me I’d assume he’s trying to lure me into a trap
Tristan Knarr exactly what a bizarre experiment 🤷🏽♂️
Me to
Same 😭
Same
I live in UK and if someone asked me this, I'm running
He’s acting but he looks so tiny and scared, I just want to protect him :’(
samee :((
민Dayanna
Sheet, same... :(((
Fr tho if a kid like him comes asking me for help imma protecc him with my life eve if I’m smol myself
@@yellowcherry686 lol when a kid like that lures you into a ambush😂😂keep that same energy simpleton
FatherGrim. Haha sure sexual violence is so funny haha keep going haha
the people who rejected are actually scared themselves or might be thinking it as a trap
Yeah I thought the same, a very good trap at that, there could be someone bigger and stronger waiting to knock them out in the dark alley 😶, still don't like the last guy tho. And the girl was in a similar environment and there weren't that many people rejected escorting her from what I remember.
I think people feel the urge to protect and trust girls more. But maybe not as much for a boy., idk But it was still good to see that many people were still courageous and kind to walk with him through the alley. I personally don't know many people who would do that in America
@@kentubuchi6899 yeah.. exactly
@@Imokayluv its not about America or Korea or India its depends on the person's mentality
So you can read minds then.
The guy telling him not to be scared cause he’s a man is mean I felt sorry for the kid :(
Kid should’ve just responded with “Ok boomer.”
Lol its ok to say that to a boy so when he grow up he'll never be afraid again😆
@RainbowCat GamerXD coz alot of you are acting like gays, all i can see here is a man trying to encourage a boy to be a better man.😄
@RainbowCat GamerXD coz alot of you are acting like gays, all i can see here is a man trying to encourage a boy to be a better man.😄
He wasn't mean. The boy acted as a pussy. In life, you can't rely on people always to get over your fears, least of all a dark alley which scares no one tbh.
이건 사회가 정이 없다기보다는 그만큼 세상이 무서워진거지. 막말로 어린 학생으로 어두운 골목길에 유인한다음에 뒤통수 가격해서 강간하거나 장기매매라도 당하면...
아 물런 저거 여자로 실험했을때는 모두 외면안했지만 쿨럭
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우리나라 사람들이 중국 뭐라하는거 이해안됨
혹시 살X서버 산타님 이신가요 ?
같은실험 여자는 다 같이가줌 ㅋㅋ
I'd be more scared to walk a random schoolboy down a dark alley, alone lol
that's why some rejected
Honestly though this is one of the only videos I don’t like. It’s portraying the people who declined to be heartless but in reality a young teen asking a random stranger by themselves in the middle of the night to “go down a dark alley” with him. There’s nothing wrong with them not wanting to get jumped lol
@Karina Peters
Oh same with my country
Pussssiesss
I don't like when people ignore this kid is so sad! :(
Because a suspicious man at night (possibly him) could lead you down an alley and kill you. That’s why.
Mew Meow I mean he is obviously a kid not a “man at night”
it's a gender problem.
@@chileeeeee sometimes killers use kids as baits. No one can be blamed here. Ppl who helped him are probably taking risk or just clueless of what could happen. Don't judge ppl too easily if you don't know what they're thinking
Bella yeah, not attacking you but people are using kids a lot more frequently in my area for human trafficking...pretty scary
“men don’t get scared, be a man.”
me: ok boomer
bruh lol😂💀
I'M CRACKING. AHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA
Truueeeeeeeeee, freaking boomers oml
rofl
Lel
근데 저상황이면 나도 같이 안가줄듯 일단 나도 혼자 돌아오기 무섭고 들어갔다가 고등학생들 우르르 몰려있을까봐ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ
2019 and gender stereotypes are still in play? come on.
invalidated how they assume gender ?
I read that with bambam's voice
Where did u see gender stereotypes lol. A lot of girls get rejected too you know. Its cuz the boy looked like he was in high school and by high school, a lot of students, including both girls and boys, should be able to walk through dark alleys especially if it's not past midnight
@@EricSonVlogs hs students are literally the most susceptible to being abducted or assaulted in situations like this, dark alley ways in such dark hours?? i'm just eyeing that man who told the kid to "be a man" and that "a man doesn't get scared"... that didn't sound like it had much to do with him being a school student
@@Iamsiwan how that dude told him that because he's a man he shouldn't get scared.
솔직히 나같아도 안감.. 저 밤에 남학생이 저 골목 같이 가달라고하면 인신매매 장기털릴까봐 못가겠음
요즘 약자들 미끼로 도와달라고 해서 사람 유인하는 일화들을 많이 접해서 그런지...
난 절대 못갑니다...
저도 그 생각함,,
가면 일진들 여럿이 서있을거 같음
@tourdemonde 가는 새끼들 꼭있음 ㅋㅋ
그런데 그렇다고 하기에는 여학생이 나온 영상에서는 모든 시민들이 친절하게 도와주는데요.
효빈 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅇㅈ 어림도 없지
Lol in America theyd either kidnap you or abandon you and your question
@@sarasbai3341 lol, I'd bring twenty flashlight
lmao in nyc its dark and they aint nobody u HAUL UR ASS tf home no matter how dark it is and keep your keys on u to stab a bitch lmao
@@crazyformyseIf lmao 1 flashlight to use, 19 to throw if needed.
@@casspurrwaspurr4716 bdnxjsndjs
@ILoveAss do both
it warms my heart that so many people decided to help, but it also breaks my heart by the fact that a lot just ignored him, but thank you again for making experiments like these :) much support!
남자애라서가 아니라 요즘 세상이 너무 무섭고 더러위져서 혹시나하는 마음에 같이 못 갈 줄든...
윤윤윤 여자애 영상을 봤는데 왜 같은 생각이 드나요?
여자애 영상은 다 나서서 도와주더만
남자애 영상은 사회를 더럽히는 잠재적 장기밀매범취급하고
@@user-ce9ei9ot8j 남자들은 뭐만하면 잠재적 범죄자 취급부터 받는 나라인데 뭐..이런 걸 가지고 놀라시면 안됨
nobilime 그걸 이 사람들한테 물어보면 어찌앎?ㅋㅋ 강력범죄 성별 통계율을 봐야 알지
@@user-ui4pm1nw5d 낮다고 없는건 아닌거자나ㅠㅠ
혹시 모르는거지 범인이 그걸 노려서 한걸수도 있고..애초에 둘다 학생인데
nobilime 여자애 동영상 댓글에도 장기털릴까봐 못가겠다는 말이 대부분인데 ㅋㅋㅋ 왜 이렇게 피해의식에 똘똘 뭉쳐있음?
“A man doesn’t get scared” we’re all human, everyone gets scared. It really upsets me that guys have to live up to these standards because they are men
Edit: Omg I’ve never had this many likes 😂
The world is filled with sick standards... It is just so stupid...
It upset me, too.
i know right! plus he’s literally a kid, young children aren’t always going to be able to defend themselves ESPECIALLY in the dark. if a kid ever asked me to walk them i’d probably make them go on my back (lol) and i’d make sure their guardian(s) know they’re home safe.
Shay Aflague What’s wrong with that statement, dude meant no harm, he was trying to help him build his confidence.
@@uverworldtenshouz Someone telling me that men don't get scared would honestly make me lose self confidence.
@@fairyparadise I don't know about you but that would hurt my pride more than anything and make me less scared
약간 유인책인가? 싶어서 망설일수도 있을것 같음 무서운 세상이니
주블리 맞아요 ㅠ 저도 보면서 그런 생각했어요.. 미안하지만..
저도 그런 이유때문에 저 상황이였으면 가기 꺼렸을거같아요...
아무래도 그래서 몇몇 사람들이 도와주지 않은 거 같아요ㅠㅠ
근데 여학생이 같이 가달라고 할때는 거의다 같이 가줬음
저도..
men shouldn’t get scared?
who created this stupid rule ?
the stupid fuckin society
It was made a while back when men thought genders weren’t equal. You cant really blame the old generations for still thinking this way, its how they grew up. But this isnt to say its right- its a very stupid rule (● ˃̶͈̀ロ˂̶͈́)੭ꠥ⁾⁾
I think it was great of him to tell him that. He is saying to not get scared and be confident, to grow up. I dont understand why females are acting like boys arent supposed to grow up? That guy is pretty wise, he helped the boy, and taught him a lesson, to not be afraid.
Eric Son yes, but he said “man shouldn’t be scared” that’s total wrong ! Man or woman we are all human beings, and we can’t control our feelings. And ofc he will grow,but not with that kind of thinking.
@@frostmain9578 man should not be scared. I doubt he meant it in a masculine way, but he 99% probably meant it as a way to allow a way for a growing experience. Really. A lot of people say this, especially fathers to sons.
When the guy told him “to be a man” i don’t think he said it in a stereotyped way I guess he was just giving him courage, whats bad in telling a guy or a girl to be a little courageous.
Maybe he could have said be braver? Instead of saying “be a MAN”
Minsung has Jimin’s jams , Hyngwon meme queen ,, but its not wrong to say be a MAN!
Finally someone gets it, I don't think he was saying it in a toxic way I think he was just trying to give him some courage.
There’s nothing wrong by giving someone courage. But by saying “You’re a Man, you shouldn’t be afraid” you give a different meaning. He could have said something along the lines of “you’re old enough now” or “you’re all grown up now”? Idk but what he said sounded that way. And I’m pretty sure if it was a girl he wouldn’t have said the same
@@georgeoust Man are protectors by nature. They can handle it. You are a woman and so am I so we cannot understand♡ let it be.
같이가면 불량배들 있을까봐 안가준것도 있을듯
같이 가달라하는 순간 인신매매같아서 절대 같이 못갈듯
그리고 남자는 왜 무서워하면 안됨? 여자든 남자든 무서운건 무서운거지
ㅇㅈ
남자도 남자 무서워해요;;
hi oh ㅇㅈ이요
특히 그가 당신이 어린 소년에게 이것을 말했다고 생각한다면. 나쁜 한국어 일명 구글 번역 죄송합니다
@미로 미국인이 아니라 다른 나라인일수도 있음 영어 쓴다고 꼭 미국인은 아니잖아요?
나였으면 진짜 무서워서 못갈듯한데 여자뷴들도 남자분들도 같이가주시는 분들 많다.. ㅜㅜ 끝까지 지켜봐주는사람도있고 말엄청걸어주시는 여자분도 쏘스윗
ㅜㅜ 이런 설정 위험합니다. 실제 조선족 장기매매단이 저런식으로 데리고 가면 봉고차에서 동료들 우르르 나와서 순식간에 차에 태워서 납치합니다. 요즘 세상 을매나 무서운데...
긍게요 요즘밤늧게가아니더라도 대낮에도무서운세상이죠
yikes. a TON of toxic masculinity from the guy saying that “men shouldn’t be scared.” men can do whatever and feel whatever they want lmao. but everyone else was so nice and helpful!!!
He was probably raised that way and he probably tells that to himself as well 😐
@ILoveAss thats also toxic
@Notre Aira you understand
Ellie T he was actually kind to help the kid then he just had to open his mouth to share his toxic masculinity...
toxic feminism is worse but ok
The guy who said a men should'nt get scared really bothers me
Nalimo LiYa Because you're a pussy
@@glocklesnar7468 Says the otaku..Grow the fuck up and be an atual man that doesn't need to talk shit to feel good about himself
Lmao@ILoveAss this is ironic because you accused Nalimo LiYa of being a "pussy boi" when you don't even know him in real life while you yourself go around calling out people doing the same thing
@ILoveAss LOOL I like anime too, you can call me a otaku anytime i won't be offended like some people🤣 You just gonna comment about the otaku shit and ignore the DEBATE in this comments, stupid bitch?
@@StrawberryCola2097 Ahahah i guess @ILoveAss is a hypo trash
i just loooove how jakeeouts videos are so...good and on point. like he literally just shows us how our own word is without forcing his opinion, which i think is smart bc nowadays everyone’s so quick to start a fight. you can just see his opinion in the way he chooses the topics or stops the bgm when that man made the comment about not being scared... i. love. it.
"men don't get scared"
Of course we do
I'm still afraid of the one missed call ringtone
Men are allowed to be afraid,we are allowed to cry
It doesn't make us any less of a man
At first I was really heartbroken by the people that just walked pass by him and the other guy just straight out asked him "what's scary" in a mocking tone.. I kinda understand some of them might've felt that this was some kind of ambush plan or something, that they might get jumped on or something but I'm still so glad that there were still some people who helped him.. 😭😭
@ILoveAss well they did the same with a girl around the same age and guess what the result was? Guys get mocked, girls get helped. Thats how society rolls.
I just hope it would be better to have a streetlamp in every dark alley💡
I'm subscribed to your channel man👍
I live in a place where there's no streetlights and literally pitch black like in a butt hole, so that place actually looks like full of light to me 😂
Agree. I see in a lot Korean movie or drama or videos like this, that there are many dark alleys in south korea where people mostly walk going places. Why don't they have a street lamp? Is it about money?
Ohh hes so cute im melting ... if HE would ask me i would definally say yes
도와주는 분들 너무 감동이다유ㅠ 못도와주시는 분도 이해 되여ㅠㅠㅠㅠ
한국인댓글을 찾는다,,,
후다닥 한국인 brings me here!
나도
앗 드디어 ㅠㅠ..
저두요 ㅋㅋ
저도요!!
It kinda annoyed me that the last guy told him to be a man. He's in middle school he has all the right to be scared of a dark Alley way especially if his phone didn't have battery.
even if he was older.
@@user-pq3kx7oo1r Right
Celeste Rivera I remember being in middle school and running down the hallway cause I was late and it was mega creepy being alone even with the lights. I can’t imagine me walking home alone at night at that age. Props to anyone who does.
anything could happen in a dark alley too so i get why he's scared
@Angel actually the crime rate in Korea is next to zero, same more or less as Japan and Singapore, so for a kid to be scared of a darkish alley is a bit unusual.
Yes! It was really interesting to see how (compared to another video you did) when gender roles are switched people are a little more hesitant to help a young boy, and it's sad because whether you're a girl or a boy or in between everyone should help, but it's also difficult as right now we're in such a dangerous era that we don't know if by being kind we'll commit a mistake. Anyways, great video as always.
Being scared is an emotion just like being happy. You can’t tell a man to not be scared because that is just like saying they can’t be happy.
말투가 너무 인위적이라 오히려 무섭게 느껴짐 ㅠ 오히려 좀더 자연스럽게 말하면 같이 가줄수도 있을거같은데 수상하게 느껴질거같아요
긴장하면 충분히 저렇게 나올것같아요..ㅠㅠ
엥 연기잘한다고생각했는데....
다른버젼과 대비되서 조금은 씁쓸하지만 그래도 도와주시는 분들이 있어 다행이네요
두려움은 누군 느껴야하고 누군 느끼면 안되는게 아닙니다 공통의 감정이죠ㅠ 덜무서운 사람이 더무서운 사람을 끌어안고 같이 갑시다!
구름구름 멋진말이네여
If a teenage boy approached me to walk with him into a dark alleyway because he's "scared", I would 100000% believe it's a set-up to get jumped.
I'd shine my torch down the alley first
NO I disAgReE to the guy who said “men shouldn’t get scared” Fear is an emotion and gender HaS nOthIng tO Do WiTh bEiNG scArEd
your comment confused me because people usually use the random capitalisation for sarcasm or mockery
June C Lol No I just do that a lot. It’s a habit especially when I talk to friends. In this case I just did it because when I was typing that comment I just felt like doing that ;))
@@_cherrychi_ well it still means sarcasm and mockery.
らびあです ? little confused about the comment, but Just sayin that comment I made wasn’t being sarcastic^^
@@_cherrychi_ yes I understand that, but the technique used only means sarcasm and mockery
3:20 Men can get scared too they're not robots smh
@@elytrumi needledick fsjfisjgsigj
he is african. he was raised that way.
ILoveAss you sound mad bro.....
I LOVE the people checking if he's safe at the end!
Everyone have something that their scare of. No matter its a man or a woman
it feel so good to have a good persons out there..
these social experiments always make me happy that there are so many kind people in this world :))
Yea but it also pisses me off at the same time cus some people have mindsets from the 18th century :(
@@Mirato_07 true
분명 저런 거리나 상황에 여성이 남성보다 더 위험에 노출되어있는것은 사실이예요. 하지만 남성도 충분히 두려움을 느낄수 있다는점, 그것을 사회적으로 규정한 ‘남자다움’으로 덮어서는 안된다는것도 사실입니다.
여자이지만 영상을 보면서 굉장히 안타까움을 느꼈어요. 영상에선 단지 연기하는것뿐이지만 만약 실제 상황이라면? 정말 두려워한것이라면.. 사회가 강요하는 ‘남자’라는 이미지에 묶여 도움을 요청하고싶어도 쉽사리 요청하지 못하겠죠. 그리고 마지막분이 말한것처럼 ‘남자는 강해야한다’는 말을 되새기며 자신을 자책하는 결론이 날 수도 있어요.
괜히 속상하고 안타깝네요 영상 잘봤습니다
동감합니다 기분 나쁘지않게 말을 조리 있게 잘하시네요
차고 넘치던 쿵쾅이들 이런거는 관심도 없지 이런거 보고 좀 깨달았으면 싶다 댓쓴이가 올바른 마인드지
따봉 이 와중에 여혐 못잃어 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 지가 하는 말이 모순인지도 모르네 쯧
@@user-jq4pc9dr1t 에휴.. 그만해라 쫌 그와중에도찾냐 뇌에 지분이 굉장한가보네
쿵쾅이들 욕하는게 왜 여혐이냐?? 걔네가 여자야? 니네 동질감 느끼지? 괜히 찔리지? 쿵쾅이들이 여자로살기힘들다고 불평불만놓는데 이런거에 조용하다는거
틀린말없구만 왜 ㅂㄷㅂㄷ하지?
Seeing the people help the kid is so overwhelming
I Love These Social experiments😭😍😍 and especially if it’s from jaykeeout🙏🏽
Its sad that some guys feel like they have to act tough and suppress all of their negative emotions while using the excuse that women will think less of them if they don't. As this video shows women were the most readily willing to help this kid out and did so without judgement.
@Notre Aira No one dismisses anything. That's basically a blanket false accusation. They are just talking about making things right with all victims of violent crimes not just the ones in vogue due to the prevailing societal conditions. For eg: slaves never got justice then, men now. It's emotionally unacceptable to people and so they point it out. P.S.: No crimes against men ever makes it to prime time media unless they are perpetrator or they "deserved" it or as a joke for others to laugh at them which makes the situation worse.
I get why people are upset about the guy that told him not to be scared, but I think he was just trying to give him some confidence. People complain when foreigners don't understand Korean culture, but what if it's part of that guy's culture that men should be brave. At least he walked with him..
Seriously, like, I understand where people are coming from, but he was just trying to be kind and give him confidence, and he was sweet too for walking him down the alley in the first place
culture is one thing but culture shouldnt equal sexism. imo i deffo think he meant it to be empowering or something like "you can do it, youre brave, dont worry" n stuff like that but by placing the label that he should just because he's a guy is sexist, no culture no matter how deep rooted should promote things like that in my mind, of course that could be easily disagreeable but i just wanted to say my own opinion too
culture or not. sexism is sexism!
sexism:
boys should not be scared. never show emotions/feelings. should only wear dark colors.
girls: should always smile. should only wear pink/bright colors. should learn how to take care of children, do the laundry, cook and serve the men!
hah! nope. toxic masculinity needs to go. starting with u & me!
Completely agree!
@@nafisahrania3723 I never said I liked or accepted it, just pointing out the fact that guy was at least willing to help him. Pretty sure the guy was just trying to cheer him up and you guys all just shit on him. Why is it okay to criticize this guy but if someone has a problem with burkas they're an Islamophobe and a bigot? Genuine question, no hate
I love how they check if its the right place too
the guy in leather jacket came back to check on that boy, my heart is soft
“Men don’t get scared, be a man”
Ok listen here u little son of a bitc-
he is african. he was raised that way. People who type without knowing another person lol
@@yohlahGo Yeah, sure. Using your way: Tap all racists in the back and let them hate on black people just because they were raised like that LMAO
Don’t mess with Momo’s Jokbal he pissed me off like it’s a human emotion, just like anger sadness, etc. gender doesn’t matter. Everyone is allowed to feel the same emotions 🙄🙄🙄
@@yohlahGo
A lot of men have been raised like that all over the world.....not just Africans.....
@@yohlahGo
Look at how India and Japan treats women......
i like that you did it was a different gender this time! love you
Thanks for the kind people who make the world better ❤️
I was bout to comment regarding the guy who said " a man shouldn't be scared" but the comments made me so happy of how conscious many people are 💜
“Men shouldn’t get scared”
Ur damn right.. When we say “men shouldn’t be scared” we mean “even if ur afraid, you push forward and get over that fear.”
Men get scared but we’re trained to keep it under control so that way we can protect the ones we love and that’s something you females should understand before you start criticizing someone. yeah we get it you like when a guy is in touch with his feminine side, but do you want someone who would run and leave you behind if something happened? Or someone who would put their life at risk for yours even if they are afraid.
I understood what he was saying. The women are speaking from a place of confusion. These will be the same women screaming "men wont protect us" when danger pops up and the men starts acting scared.
차라리 대낮에 배가 너무 고픈데 사달라고 했으면 사줄 수 있다. 근데 밤에 으쓱한 골목에 같이 가자고 하는데 최악의 경우 납치가 될 수도 있는 거고 나였어도 이 경우는 망설일 거 같다.
the foreigner lady was so sweet and her korean was amazing. so cool to see that in korea especially :)
Finally I had been waiting for your video .. plz upload more videos ...
If I were there I would DEFINITELY help him even though I’m scared of the dark lol
But those people who helped him BLESS THEIR SOULS
I understand the hate to the "A man doesn't get scared" comment from the guy, but I honestly heard that as an encouragement to the kid, not as a judgement or anything. Freaking chill guys, not everything should be corrected.
Same
I'm glad that guy and the lady actually waited for him
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Kudos to everyone who walked with the boy down the street INCLUDING the man with the encouraging words of wisdom to put fear aside. SHAME on those men who DIDN'T walk down the alley with him.
A lot of you need to get out of your feelings.
이거 전 편에 나온 여학생과는 확실히 온도 차이가 크네요.. 남학생도 아직은 학생인데ㅜ
나 같아도 같이 안 간다 요즘 의심이 진짜 많아져서 누가 그냥 말만 걸어도 본능적으로 경계하고 인상 찌푸려서 나 지금 많이 불쾌하다고 티 존나 팍팍냄 어쩔 수 없는 게 세상이 너무 무서워져서 그래
"A man don't get scared" words from a true legend
우와 외국인?분도 도와주시구 우리나라
사람들중에서도 도와주싯블들이 있으시다니
따뜻한세상인거같네여!!
Everyone hating on the old man for giving him advice but forget to see the fact that *he still walked the kid to his destination*
He's so cute ♥️
“Oh come with me” that made me smile😭😭
That guy that acts like he don’t care but actually comes back to see if it’s the right place 😂😂 adorable
random dude: ‘you are a man okay, a man doesn’t get scared’
me: okay so if i come with 3 other people trying to kidnap you, you won’t get scared 🤔
What will being scared do for him. If he let's his fear get to him, he will be viciously attacked and die. But if he stays calm and either runs away or fight, he has a chance of survival. This boy was not in any real danger, he is just scared of the dark. The man took time to walk with the boy. He meant no harm to the boy when he said what he said. He is telling him the truth. Men have to stay strong and control their fears so they can protect themselves and those they love.
everyone who is hating on the man is rude bc he was trying to give hime advice and its not like he said dont cry, he just wanted him to not be scared bc being scared isnt a nice feeling so maybe he was trying to reassure him in a simple way that there is not much to be scared of. plus why do u hate on a man u dont know. some ppl that do that disgust me. dont call ppl boomers for an unecessary reason.
Yes I am 100% agree with you
The one who said "what's scary?" And the people who didn't even bother to help this kid. Someday they will experience more than this that their entire life will change.
도와주신분들 진짜 대단하심
근데 사실 세상이 워낙 험해서 저렇게 어두운데서 학생처럼 보여도 아무나 따라가다...
깜깜한 밤에 모르는 사람이 불쑥 나와서 같이가달라하면 대체 누가 가주겠냐 솔직히..
'man shouldn't get scared'
As a man, I like his motivational speech👏👏
Fear is an emotion. I think it’s a normal for a human not only for a girl but a man also have this feeling. Thank you jay for showing us people like him 👍🏻. I think that guy doesn’t intend to demean the boy but makes him more enthusiastic and be brave for his future. 🤔🤔
“ a man doesn’t get scared” BROOOO ITS 2019 stop that nonsense we all are humans and we all have feelings and emotions and it’s alright to feel them as long as u r not hurting anyone
"it's 2019" I genuinely hope that everyone that says that unironically dies
It just american stupid rule. Not "its 2019"
yeah, its 2019, the age of gender fluid, safe space seeking, waiting to get offended pussies
@@the20hunk fr dude 😂
어릴때 엘리베이터에 갇혔던 기억때문에 사방이 막히거나 어두운곳을 무서워하는데..남자라고 무서워하면안된다 라는건 너무 불평등해요 남자던 여자던 무서운건 있을수 있는데...남자다운게 머라고 무서워 떨고있는 남학생한테 남자다움을 강요하거나 남자가 머 그런걸 무서워하냐고하는건 바뀌어야할 사고방식인거 같아요
*BIG RESPECT TO THOSE MARRIAGE COUPLE*
마음이 따뜻해지는 영상 ..♡
The old man: wants the boy to have confidence.
The internet: men should be scared! Everybody gets scared! Im scared! Wants the boy to be scared shitless of the dark
Exactly they don’t understand that he was simply gassing him up
In fact i scare myself 25 hours of the day
Factsss
And most of it is women smh they don't know what it's like to be a guy.
Telling a child to not be scared because he's a "man" isn't gonna magically make him gain confidence Steven. Being scared is a natural human emotion and telling a child to suppress it because of his gender is gonna do more damage than good. At least that one woman comforted him in a non toxic way by reassuring him the neighborhood was safe so why couldn't he do the same?
Ppl arent encouraging him to be "scared shitless ", we just don't want to see yet another boy grow up with toxic masculinity ashamed to express his emotions...
People are hating on the guy who said men shouldnt be scared, and as much as i completely hate that mindset, let's give him the benefit of the doubt and say cuz of his bad english he may have not meant it that way and instead just wanted to empower the boy to feeling better and less scared. Lets be good people
I think majority of these commenters are toxic themselves that they chose to focus on the negative and pretend like they're some social justice warriors while going on and on about how "toxic" his comment was. That's the most annoying,. But sadly, to be a social justice warrior is like some trend in America right now 🙄 Like why not focus on the fact that there are still so many people who would suck up their own fears or questions of their own safety in a dark alley for the sake of a scared little boy?
@@Imokayluv we need more people who think like you do
I like the guy who goes to walk away and is like 'let me make sure....'.
How amazing he acts.😍
"don't be scared. be a man."
Me: "-YOU MUST BE SWIFT AS A COURSING RIVEREEER"
Lmaooo me 😂
1:45 I hope if I needed help, I'd meet a kind lady like that. Straight away she understood
thanks for coming back to check him
"A man doesn't get scared"
Oh yeah, I forgot man was human
"a man doesn't get scared"
**Fragile masculinity has entered the chat**
* an easily offended, safespace seeking pussy has entered the chat *
@@the20hunk here is the fragile masculinity 🤣
@@Leo-zo4up how is it fragile masculinity you're telling me just because a guy tells a kid that cant walk through a dark alley dont be scared be a man is fragile masculinity? Lmfaoo
I understood what the grandpa was trying to say, however it came off a little rough. The fact that he walked the boy means he cared for him. He now wants him to be strong enough to conquer his fear to be able to walk himself down a dark alley.
One day this little boy will grow up to be a man and have a family. If he gets scared so easily, it will put his family in danger if he cant stand up for himself. I feel that's where grandpa was coming from. Of course it sounds bitter but at the end of the day, it's to help the little boy
they were so kind 😭😭
A man does not tell a boy or child there an adult. A man does not ask a boy or child a dumb question that has no answer nor deserves one. If he was a real man he would of walked with him quietly or even hold the boys hand if he asked, and walked him to his front door and smiled while bidding him fair well. Perhaps the man was saying be tough your a guy or a boy, but that is a lie no one should tell a boy or child. I was told not to cry as a boy, and when my step father would hit me if I laughed he would grab things to hit me with until I cried. I would love to see a culture embrace this like south korea has where people are loving kind and show respect to all, and are not intimidated to ask for help. This is a wholesome video.
If someone asked me to walk them down a dark alley way in the middle of the night my first thought would be, if I do this I’m gonna get robbed and killed. No way in hell would I say yes.
I'd probably be more scared of contronting people and talking to them then to go down that street;;;
He didn't confront anyone. Why would he start a fight when he is scared?
What sweethearts! 😳❤️❤️❤️
요즘 세상이 험해서 친절함이 범죄의 대상이 될수 있는 세상이기 때문에ㅜ
3:21 okay then