“If you’re not happy already, and someone comes in your life, and they make you happy, you’re still not happy. Because you didn’t figure out a way to be happy on your own.” So real.
MARKICHA DENIS why? She probably just focusing on how she’s gonna word everything and would feel awkward to stare into the camera without talking.. just how I saw it lol
@@angelinalopez9344 but i kinda think that she's ashamed that she hasn't been active as she used to and that her depression has gotten the best of her. Idk shower thoughts.. I guess
I feel so sad, she a beautiful soul ; yet so unhappy. She even lost weight so quick after they broke up . You can see it in her eyes I’ll be praying for you love. God bless
I don’t think she lost weight cause of not taking her birth control. Because after they broke up she was publicly saying on snap about how she wasn’t eating and stuff.
A lot of y’all don’t understand what she’s saying. The break up definitely pushed her sadness a bit, as it should, but it was not the root of her sadness. I’ve been following Yas for a while now and I truly believe She and Kobe had a good relationship, but they were on different levels. It’s clear to see that Kobe was more comfortable with himself, meanwhile Yasmeen was not, and that has nothing to do with Kobe at all. Yasmeen has a lot of pain stemming way before Kobe that’s just now being brought to the surface because she’s seeking to grow herself. As she said, they need time apart to grow. Kobe made her happy but it was like a temporary fix for her sadness. She needs time alone to heal her wounds and herself, and with time, she will. The best thing we all can do is let her go through her sadness because that’s the only way she can learn about herself and truly heal. We just have to support her until she’s ready❤️
Seeing her arms break my heart because I know you have to have a deep deep pain to self harm, the emotional pain gets so bad to the point where you have to make it physically, I’m 4 months clean but even sometimes I feel like I’ll fall back into it. Depression is very real therapy is a great thing to look into or just finding something to make you happy will make things better but I’m honestly trying not to cry because I know exactly how she feels that shit is hard man I pray she finds true happiness because she deserves it she has a great heart and mind I pray she realizes how amazing she is
Mame Amar I had the âme thing with my ex boyfriend he was and still is the right guy but I’m not confortable with myself so I was asking him all the time am I beautiful ? Do you love ? While I knew that he loves me but yes I hate myself 😭😭😭
Jadore Raquel i believe that it is true because my brother and his girlfriend started dating when they were both freshman and they broke up because of issues they were having and they were really young and they started dating again their senior year and now they’re in love and married with 2 kids
@@mystical333goddess there is a such thing. if u have mental issues and u meet the right person u have not learned to love urself so how can u love another person? she needs time to herself they both do. and once they have done that maybe they'll try again.
the first person you meet will probably break your heart you can’t be afraid of that it’s inevitable to avoid.. it’s okay to go through that everyone heals
It sad and it hurts but sometimes you have to go through heart break to find the one you love. I found the one I love and went through heart break... you always pull through it in the end
I noticed from her snaps she’s been self harming and I seen it more after her and Kobe broke up... I really hope she’s ok man ... I wasn’t gonna comment this cause it’s a touchy subject but I feel like she needs guidance and love from her fans more than ever ... :: edit I didn’t expect all these likes ... add my snap arii_roobz
everybody watching this video .. notice yasmeens arm on 4:25 , we need to help yas as much as we possibly can 🥺🥺 be there for her and support her throughout everything .. it would hurt so much to lose her.
aiyana onfroy If you seek, you shall find. Everyone can have a relationship with god, like you can have one with ur mom or therapist, but better. He is the best option. He is real and the truth. AND he is coming VERY soon.
Jasmine Henderson I see what your saying and that’s amazing but no everyone believes in him and they have a right to not , we don’t know if Yas believes in him so it’s good to give other options
You’re depressed and that’s OKAY! We all go through things and you’ll eventually grow from it on your OWN time. Take as much as you need, there’s no time limit on healing yourself, I too was depressed one point in my life and it took a lot of time and it takes time, just start with acknowledgement and it’ll get better, day by day. Try to seek help if you can, if not talk to someone you trust. It’ll get better 🙏🏾❤️
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth on him should not perish, but have eternal life. - John 3:16 God loves us and He has a plan for our lives. He knows everything about us, all our struggles and hurt. “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.” - Jeremiah 1:5 You are NOT seeing this message by accident. God loves you and wants you to be a part of His kingdom. “Therefore repent and be converted, that your sins may be wiped away, that times of refreshing may come from the presence of the Lord,” - Acts 3:19 If you would like to get saved, please pray this prayer. Dear Heavenly Father, Thank you for awakening me to realize that I need you in my life. Father, I believe that you sent Jesus Christ to earth to preach your word, be an example for us, die on the cross and rise up from the dead on the third day so that people and I may be forgiven of our sins and have it payed for us by Jesus blood. So that we may enter Heaven and not perish. Thank you for allowing me to understand this. Thank you for loving me. I acknowledge that I am a sinner and I repent of my sins and turn away from them. I forgive those that have done me wrong. I pray that you come into my life and take control of every single thing. I put my life in your hands and I trust your process. I ask you to please save me and write my name in the Lamb’s Book of Life. I love you and pray that you allow me to have a stronger relationship with You. I pray you give me a spirit of faith, patience, forgiveness, happiness, and self control. I believe and receive everything that I have prayed in the precious name of Jesus Christ, Amen I believe that you are saved and God loves you. The angels of the Lord are rejoicing that you are saved and have repented of your sins. See my other comment on what to do next. God bless and God loves you and I love you too❤️. Welcome to the Family of God!❤️ The devil will try to tempt you and get you to not trust God because if the devil knows that God can do everything but he doesn’t want you to know that. Regardless, stay strong and believe you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you.If you have any questions feel free to ask.😊 Luke 15:10 "In the same way, I tell you, there is joy in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents." Repent of your sins, ask Jesus to come into your life, turn from your sins, trust God and put him first, pray, worship, and believe Jesus died on the Cross for your sins and that He rose on the third day to pay the price for you so that you can live in Eternal Heaven and not perish. I also suggest that you download the Bible Youversion app the brown bible app. They have devotions that you can read everyday on pretty much any topic. I find these helpful as they bring me closer to God and have a lot of amazing lessons that you can learn from. God bless your journey!❤️
sunday candy I came across this just now and it was definitely something I needed to hear. I’m not sure if you’ll respond to this but thank you for writing this. This has touched something in my spirit. God bless you🙏🏾✨
Melanie Solari Hello beautiful person, I am so glad this helped. I almost forgot that I posted this comment here. I am so glad you saw it because God wants you to know He loves you no matter what. Nothing you can do will stop His love. God is always there for you. Please pursue a relationship with Jesus, He has so much planned for your life. He is just waiting for you to take His hand and do life with Him. Trust Him. Don’t thank me, thank God. I appreciate you thanking me, it means a lot. God bless you love.❤️❤️❤️
im literally hurting so back bc of my own situation. The fact that i relate & get what your saying just breaks my heart cause im just hurting. the tears mane i can’t finish this video 💔
You’re lacking an emotional connection with yourself. It’s not about you loving him it’s about you being so connected and being one with your partner you truly forget what’s it like being yourself as an individual And what it’s like to live life for yourself. It’s not easy I struggle daily finding myself, but I pray to god to give me strength and surround me with loving and supportive people. But in 2020 I’m trying to identify what makes me happy and what makes me feel whole as a women, and I’m realizing I lack an emotional connection with myself. I lack confidence because I don’t know who I am, I have a hard time feeling motivated or even building relationships with people because I’m lacking and to make up for the areas I’m lacking in, I expect my partner to love or make up what I’m missing but I’m realizing the only person that can make you feel whole is you. You have to have the confidence, strength, courage,love, and desire to pour into yourself.
That’s great and all but rn the most important thing is her loving and accepting herself, otherwise they’ll break up all over again and it might even make her feel worse. Based on this video this girl is smart and she knows or at least has an idea on what she needs to do to better herself and be happy. So no hate but I feel like instead of focusing on what her and Kobe could potentially still be, we should focus on trying our best to uplift her. Again, no hate lol there’s nothing wrong w ur comment
yasmeen I don’t want you to think that I’m trying to hurt your feelings but I think you should try therapy I felt in my spirit like your crying for help. Maybe therapy can help you manage and cope with your feelings because we love you and you have potential 💖🥺
Marcus Lopez Fr Fr I said the same thing I think she’s depressed I had the same signs and I was diagnosed. Seeing her arm like that so fresh breaks my heart
Crazy thing is .. I get that same exact feeling. I’ve also been sad for very long time , I also get so sad to a point where I start questioning the point of life .. and that’s low key suicidal , I think I need help. But at the same time I think I’ll be okay . I just need to be more strong
Girl when I broke up with my bf, weeks back I had to FORCE myself to eat. Love is most definitely a beautiful thing and sometimes things don’t work out and it’s life; we’ll get over it
God has something BEAUTIFUL planned for you, Yasmeen! I believe it. You’ve always had a glow and still do. This touched my heart so thank you for that. I can totally relate with a lot of the things that you said such as how you try to help others but don’t take your own advice because I do the same thing and it gets really hard so I understand. I want you to know that you can ALWAYS come talk to us and tell us what you’re going through. You are not obligated to be happy all of the time, you are human sweetheart. Never forget: “Tears are prayers too. They travel to God when we can’t speak” Psalm 56:8 God is always with you, you are never alone. God made you based off of the divine purpose that He had for your life and He thought it was important enough to make ONLY one of you in his image. I am praying for you and everyone around you and in these comments. Stay blessed!💞❤️
You don’t need any medication or anything Pray, make a plan NOW and take ACTION Mon- school, gym, Starbucks run etc Tues - 2 videos edit and post, gym etc And follow this plan have discipline
Thats naive. You can't love another person while having problems within yourself, you have to make that decision to change and be open. There is such a thing as a "wrong time", because not everything can be fixed within you by the "right person"
I can also tell Kobe is also going through some things since the breakup. He seems very different. I wish y’all the best and the best in the new year! Love y’all!💚💚
im tired truly i feel as if the "prettiest" females get treated the worst and it takes a huge toll on us because we start to think what if im not pretty what if im not enough what if its me what if and it turns into to so much we question everything and overthink everything and it hurts everything hurts getting up hurts smiling when you really wanna have a breakdown hurts your mom telling you oh you should've cleaned up hurts you losing one friend you NEVER thought in a million years you would lose HURTS you start to think when someone actually tries to love you that you don't deserve it bc you've put yourself in this mindset and now you're stuck in that mindset that you're not good enough that no matter what you do you want be and this is where you miss out on so much bc sometimes those people who try really want to but you won't let them and that's ok yes it okay to be alone its okay to be comfortable being alone but its NEVER okay to be TO COMFORTABLE BEING ALONE this is where i am i've been stuck in this mindset for years bc i've never felt enough i've worked hard to get where i am today and im still not where i want to be i will get there maybe not today or tomorrow or next year but i will and i can't say you'll be fine i cannot promise you'll be fine bc one day there will be no tears the next day there will be a river one day you'll love yourself the next you'll wish the fastest car swipes you off your feet and it finally all over but please be strong and its not east it never is but i'm still here and i've tried so many times to die to live to be happy to love to start over but i stayed strong so please try. Amoig: NicolesLexington Amosc:NicoleLasHay4
Pretty girls also go through a lot when that’s ALL people see you as! You start to think that that’s all that matters and you start to lose sense of self. Eventually you start comparing yourself, and feeling less than. Eventually you start to believe that the only thing you have to offer are your looks. EVERYTHING begins to circle around how you look! You get hate from almost everybody. Males think you’re stuck-up, females think you’re full of yourself. Not to mention you get hate from other pretty girls who feel like they’re in competition with you. It’s harder than people think and when you say “it’s hard being pretty” people shut you down.
Sorry but this is not a pretty girl problem it is a every girl problem people get dumped and wonder why they got dumped is it because im not or enough etc
She’s young she made the right decision on ending the relationship she knows her mental health is struggling I’ve been following her since 2017 and you can see the difference that’s happened she went from being confident to being insecure my heart breaks for her 🥺💔 We’re here for you Yassss ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I really felt the part about you saying you have to love yourself and be happy yourself before your in a relationship because yes some one can make you happy but if your on your own and your not happy then you can't be really happy in a relationship. I thought I was the only one who felt that kinda way.
she seems so sad im literally crying fro you yas, i love you so much and so many people respect you for the way you and kobe are handling this situation
Solitude is good for you. Especially when you’re young. Because you’re still learning so much about relationships about life and about yourself. In solitude you grow and learn so much about yourself about how strong you are, about your worth, about what you like and dislike and so on. It’s honestly amazing. I hope you find your higher self soon and embody and embrace her and love her with all your might. Stay up and stay blessed Yas. I believe in you girl and you right gotta keep the faith always🤞🏼
release the pain beautiful. find yourself and love yourself. you’re so young you got time. feel your emotions but don’t attach to them. change “i’m sad” to “I’m feeling sad” and you’ll see that emotions come and go and as we grow from teenagers to adults we fluctuate thru these emotions and it takes time to gain emotional maturity but thru situations like this , you grow and become stronger. this will pass and be another lesson to help you grow
“you can’t love other people if you don’t love yourself” --->”you can’t help other people if you didn’t help yourself” ❤️.yas your beautiful. Your talented. Embrace that Beauty that so many females wish for.pray girl pray pray pray just cry out to god and tell him to come in your life. I’ll pray for you 😘.
I've been where you're at. I still have my off days, but I am getting better. Sadness comes from overthinking. Get out of your head. If you feel you're about to over think yourself into sadness, meditate, learn breathing techniques (you'll be surprised at how much breathing in and out deeply can help put you in a better mood. Basic breathing technique is take a deep breath in slowly, hold for 2 secs, release. Repeat for a few minutes. Try it when you feel a urge of sadness coming on, I promise you'll feel a bit better. There are many breathing techniques that are good just to know for relieving anxiety, panic attacks, sadness. Look it up if you're interested.) Listen to self help audios before you sleep, there are even hypnosis audios you can listen to that helps you to think more positively. Try to stay away from melancholy music. Most ppl will tell you surround yourself w ppl who love you to cope, but that wasn't an option for me cause I'm very to myself, cause seeking comfort in other ppl always made me feel needy, and that made it worse. So I tried to find comfort within myself, these things I've listed has helped me. Hopefully it can help someone else too.
we love you Yasmeen 💓 I just recently got out of a 6 month relationship with my ex. He is a good person and I know he has good intentions but he was SO insecure. He made me feel like I had to be a water down version of myself to make him feel better about HIS SELF. I would be scared to say hello to a male clerk just because i didn’t want to get into an argument or looking at the ground in the mall because i didn’t want him to think i was looking at anyone for too long. I should never have to dissect my every action to make someone else to feel comfortable with their self. I am a loving, happy, and positive person and I finally said enough is a enough and ended it. LADIES if you see this and you’re going through it or uncertain if you should end a toxic relationship, DO IT 🗣 This is your sign, do not ignore the red flags and waste more of your time, energy, and effort on someone, just because you Love them.. when there is sooo many people out there who can treat you 10x better. 7 billion people on this earth and you guys feel stuck to settle with someone from your hometown or state. Please take time to love yourself and find yourself. The right one will come. I love you all!! 💓💓 follow me on ig if you need to talk erica.mitchell
when u said “ if someone comes in your life and MAKES you happy , ur not happy “, I really did understand that, sometimes you don’t know who you are when the person who makes you happy isint there , you feel lost and just confused . Being in love at a young age is kinda difficult because at the same time your finding yourself, Yas I hope u see this and I hope yk there’s millions and millions of people who are probably going through the same , ur not alone, sometimes in order for you to learn how to be happy on your own takes loneliness ,confidence , and a lot of thinking . I hope this made a litttleeee sense❤️we love u
0:04 ugh that hurts to see, keep ya head up high and at your worst moments just remember the best. things happen like you say but don’t harm yourself to feel better.. if you need guidance seek god and remember that things will end up being okay. so sad to see such a beautiful, outgoing soul without words. we love you stay strong❤️❤️
When she said "if you're not already happy and someone comes into your life and makes you happy you're still not happy cause you never figured out a way to be happy on your own" that hit me. I felt that so much 😢💔
I can’t explain how much I know what she is talking about. She is definitely not alone. I’m going through close to the exact same thing. We are going to get through it.💕
yas i love you forever and will support you through everything. you’re so talented and beautiful just keep doing you baby 🤍 dont worry about no boys, no drama no NOTHING !! you’re amazing !! get you a group of nice genuine female friends and stay out the way ma 💓 you gon keep doing big things. i love you. god giving you these obstacles to see you overcome and watch you shine at the end. keep your head up
Yas, I would never wanna hurt you or anything else. But at 4:25 I saw your wrist. Just know that you’re an amazing beautiful soul. If you need help don’t be afraid to ask for it. We love you so much and wouldn’t want anything to happen to you. You’re loved honey❤️
it hurts me to see how she cant even look at the camera without breaking down. love that strong will stay that strong, no matter the cause. youll get through this yas. you’re beautiful. you guys were beautiful beings in the strongest state of love possible. its okay to be depressed. it okay to feel pressured. you are beautiful yasmeen. people grow separately. and i feel your pain. i do. love is its okay yasmeen. you are strong. you guys got this.
I really recommend investing in healing stones, sage and tarot cards to take away the negative thoughts. They really help bring positivity into your life, calming anxiety and helps with meditation. We love you, yas. Feel better soon, luv.
I can’t wait to see where you are in a couple years from now. You’re an amazing young girl who needs to begin understanding her WORTH. We all love you, you have a lot of supporters rooting for you. Your self worth is beaming and you’re gonna make it. You’re an inspiration to us all. Love from London🇬🇧💗
Raylyn did you even LISTEN to the video? She's depressed. She doesn't need to do anything right now except take care and love herself. She's young, she needs to focus on school and herself mostly. She's lost, and it's our job to just support her in anything she decides to do. Stop telling her to keep herself busy because that'll make her fall even deeper.
@@destinyturner5235 Your absolutely incorrect. Just like with time you get over things. Same thing she needs to throw herself into something that will consume her time instead of laying in bed "loving herself" feeling bad for herself. Shell get depressed even more
Raylyn no. distracting yourself is far more easier than healing yourself. they are not the same. she needs to heal herself. finding something that consumes all of her time will bury her hurt temporarily, not get rid of it permanently.
I needed to hear this I recently got out of a relationship 🥺💔 & I’ve been depressed for about a Week 😞 & for me to hear you talk about “ Love “ within people , it really helped me feel better so thank you Yasmeen 🥺😩❤️
I cried watching this because I’m through the exact same thing. I didn’t know how to be myself and I was hurt myself and found happiness in him without finding it in myself first. I was very dependent on him and we took a break to work on ourselves during quarantine but that ended up being a break up because we couldn’t see eye to eye anymore. It cried so much, I’m still crying and it’s definitely hard leaving someone you love
“If you’re not happy already, and someone comes in your life, and they make you happy, you’re still not happy. Because you didn’t figure out a way to be happy on your own.” So real.
i lowkey need this 😂😂
Yes that part
Damnn🙏🏼
Yesss
that’s gone be a big ass t shirt
People don’t realize it, but *crying* is a solid way to cope.
True
That's some wisdom right there 🙌
yea , *crying* is also , a way to express your emotions , when your mouth can’t explain the pain :)
yelp; I seriously hate when l cry but after a good cry I feel so much better
zakiya holman SOLIDDDD
When you said " people get involved in relationships so soon, they don't even fully know love or what they're capable of" I felt that
Me fucking too :’ (
You so damn humble girl if I looked like you I would show tf out lol that’s why God made me ugly
Sausy Harrington wtf I’m weak 😂😂😂😂😂
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Sausy Harrington 😂😂😂😂😂 I’m dead
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It breaks my heart that she can't even look at the camera😭😭
MARKICHA DENIS why? She probably just focusing on how she’s gonna word everything and would feel awkward to stare into the camera without talking.. just how I saw it lol
@@angelinalopez9344 but i kinda think that she's ashamed that she hasn't been active as she used to and that her depression has gotten the best of her. Idk shower thoughts.. I guess
skinnylegend#3 eh maybe she just wasn’t ready to talk abt the situation but got in the camera anyways to film this
I feel so sad, she a beautiful soul ; yet so unhappy. She even lost weight so quick after they broke up . You can see it in her eyes I’ll be praying for you love. God bless
Britt Bratt i agree 100% but on the weight topic, its because she stopped taking her birth control
Britt Bratt ik I’ll be praying for her too 🙏🏽❤️
Kayla Davis i think she wanted to lose weight
pisces yeah she talked about it on her insta
I don’t think she lost weight cause of not taking her birth control. Because after they broke up she was publicly saying on snap about how she wasn’t eating and stuff.
A lot of y’all don’t understand what she’s saying. The break up definitely pushed her sadness a bit, as it should, but it was not the root of her sadness. I’ve been following Yas for a while now and I truly believe She and Kobe had a good relationship, but they were on different levels. It’s clear to see that Kobe was more comfortable with himself, meanwhile Yasmeen was not, and that has nothing to do with Kobe at all. Yasmeen has a lot of pain stemming way before Kobe that’s just now being brought to the surface because she’s seeking to grow herself. As she said, they need time apart to grow. Kobe made her happy but it was like a temporary fix for her sadness. She needs time alone to heal her wounds and herself, and with time, she will. The best thing we all can do is let her go through her sadness because that’s the only way she can learn about herself and truly heal. We just have to support her until she’s ready❤️
well said
777 very well said
what happened before ?
777 this is such a well said comment
well said
*stops doing the 16 missing assignments i need to do for this video*
mulatto mimi I have to do a 7 page essay for one of my high school classes 😩😩
My strange addiction to twice god bless u
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nay felt
SAME
Seeing her arms break my heart because I know you have to have a deep deep pain to self harm, the emotional pain gets so bad to the point where you have to make it physically, I’m 4 months clean but even sometimes I feel like I’ll fall back into it. Depression is very real therapy is a great thing to look into or just finding something to make you happy will make things better but I’m honestly trying not to cry because I know exactly how she feels that shit is hard man I pray she finds true happiness because she deserves it she has a great heart and mind I pray she realizes how amazing she is
Lexie Rodriguez This is the purest comment section ever praying for u girl stay strong 🙏🏽💙
I know.. I am now 2 years clean.. sometimes i had a really bad break down. But keep strong. Cutting is not the answer
lamyae xx Woah that’s amazing you should be very very proud of yourself you are so strong mentally .
@@savannah6496 Thank you😢❤❤
Lexie Rodriguez thank you love❤️
“Right people, at the wrong time”😓
Mame Amar it’s the worst 🥺
Mame Amar I had the âme thing with my ex boyfriend he was and still is the right guy but I’m not confortable with myself so I was asking him all the time am I beautiful ? Do you love ? While I knew that he loves me but yes I hate myself 😭😭😭
There’s no such thing, if it was the right person it wouldn’t be the wrong time. Because if it was true love you can’t mess it up.
Jadore Raquel i believe that it is true because my brother and his girlfriend started dating when they were both freshman and they broke up because of issues they were having and they were really young and they started dating again their senior year and now they’re in love and married with 2 kids
@@mystical333goddess there is a such thing. if u have mental issues and u meet the right person u have not learned to love urself so how can u love another person? she needs time to herself they both do. and once they have done that maybe they'll try again.
the amount of respect they have for each other is so beautiful in itself.
She sound so sad😩 I hope she’s ok
idcimalysia look at her wrist at 4:25. I’m the only one who noticed, she’s not ok, it’s gotten to a point where she cuts herself and that’s not ok
ItsssMariah G. I don’t see it
AriFTW1312 her left wrist has several cuts on it
ItsssMariah G. Yea girl on Snapchat I seen sum cut marks and on Instagram😩 and I screenshoted if y’all wanna see IG@ idcimalysia
Same thing that happend to Ashley love lace😭
Yasmeen you are the strongest most beautiful girl. We’re all here for you💖
Nisrene Dannaoui Look at her wrist at 4:25 y’all need to tell her how much y’all appreciate her
I know I'm gonna try to be here for her .
Truss
Moral of the story make sure you’re happy with being by yourself before you entertain “ANY” relationship
she was happy. but during it she started losing herself.
sure whatever no she wasn’t happy before Kobe.
Liyah Aireal ok but that’s the reason why they aren’t together anymore lmfao
This why i don't want to be in a relationship im scared of heart break.
Mr. Burns what you doin on UA-cam man focus on the plant mann
@@kailah1688 I need a break.
Don't be scared you gotta experience things.
the first person you meet will probably break your heart you can’t be afraid of that it’s inevitable to avoid.. it’s okay to go through that everyone heals
It sad and it hurts but sometimes you have to go through heart break to find the one you love. I found the one I love and went through heart break... you always pull through it in the end
I noticed from her snaps she’s been self harming and I seen it more after her and Kobe broke up... I really hope she’s ok man ... I wasn’t gonna comment this cause it’s a touchy subject but I feel like she needs guidance and love from her fans more than ever ... :: edit I didn’t expect all these likes ... add my snap arii_roobz
awww 🥰 i hope she is okay love her sm
arianna rubillo what do u mean I follow her on snap as well Nd I didn’t see anything like tht
Lenani Guteriez look at her wrist at 4:25☹️
Acacia Reed oh yea I seen it they look like they healing tho
I peeped it
Please please please consider going to a good therapist you connect with in person. The cutting has me worried about you
I'm also worried about her I hope she feels better, even though it may take time.
@Kayla Davis yes I like it when she's happy and when she's laughing in her videos.
it has me worried too :/
where?
MamiVerlex see at 4:25 :(
everybody watching this video .. notice yasmeens arm on 4:25 , we need to help yas as much as we possibly can 🥺🥺 be there for her and support her throughout everything .. it would hurt so much to lose her.
KCL....wow yea ur right....that’s so sad🥺🥺🥺
Honestly! I noticed it too😢
Damn I just saw that
Soo sad 😭
i noticed it on an instagram post she posted.
The answer is JESUS. He ❤️ u. He saves.
not everyone believes in him though , the best option is going to a good therapist
aiyana onfroy If you seek, you shall find. Everyone can have a relationship with god, like you can have one with ur mom or therapist, but better. He is the best option. He is real and the truth. AND he is coming VERY soon.
Jasmine Henderson I see what your saying and that’s amazing but no everyone believes in him and they have a right to not , we don’t know if Yas believes in him so it’s good to give other options
aiyana onfroy True. Which is why I said seek. If she does that then she will begin to know that he is real.
Jasmine Henderson bitch if they don’t Believe then seeking for some shit that ain’t real ain’t gon change their mind dumbass
She said “Love isn’t a lot of things people are doing” and I needed to hear that...
I deadass started crying bc im literally going through the same thing at the moment .
Same. I felt this on a very personal level.🥺
Fucking same
Summer Roberts time heals all I’m wishing the best for you ❤️
Same and nobody seems to understand . To my mom I’m “choosing” to feel like this
I V Y ughh thank you so much !!! yesterday took everything in me to block him 🥺
pain isn’t forever, i hope you feel better soon love . you trying is what counts . ❤️❤️
I am seriously going through the same thing as you .. sadness just takes over you and it’s not okay but we’re going to do bigger and better things
listen to Jhené Aiko & cry , I PROMISE IT HELPS
Tiffany Duran literally!!!! cry as much as you need
wasted love!!! hits.
“None of Your Concern” hits soooo mf hard
Cry let it all out
Frank ocean aswell 😔
You’re depressed and that’s OKAY! We all go through things and you’ll eventually grow from it on your OWN time. Take as much as you need, there’s no time limit on healing yourself, I too was depressed one point in my life and it took a lot of time and it takes time, just start with acknowledgement and it’ll get better, day by day. Try to seek help if you can, if not talk to someone you trust. It’ll get better 🙏🏾❤️
4:25 💔 take care of yourself i love you and i cant wait to see how big you will get one day. dont lose yourself
Leila Hukic was it on her wrist? I can’t see anything on her srms
Valiriea Royalty look really closely to her forearm of the hand that she is touching her hair with. she said they’re old scars but im worried
U can’t rely on someone else to make you happy and that’s the first wrong move
I have learned that.
Honestly yeah I do believe that too
To all young girls going through a breakup.. This pain is temporary! 💕 focus on nothing else but YOURSELF! Solitude is important!
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth on him should not perish, but have eternal life. - John 3:16 God loves us and He has a plan for our lives. He knows everything about us, all our struggles and hurt. “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.” - Jeremiah 1:5 You are NOT seeing this message by accident. God loves you and wants you to be a part of His kingdom. “Therefore repent and be converted, that your sins may be wiped away, that times of refreshing may come from the presence of the Lord,” - Acts 3:19
If you would like to get saved, please pray this prayer.
Dear Heavenly Father,
Thank you for awakening me to realize that I need you in my life. Father, I believe that you sent Jesus Christ to earth to preach your word, be an example for us, die on the cross and rise up from the dead on the third day so that people and I may be forgiven of our sins and have it payed for us by Jesus blood. So that we may enter Heaven and not perish. Thank you for allowing me to understand this. Thank you for loving me. I acknowledge that I am a sinner and I repent of my sins and turn away from them. I forgive those that have done me wrong. I pray that you come into my life and take control of every single thing. I put my life in your hands and I trust your process. I ask you to please save me and write my name in the Lamb’s Book of Life. I love you and pray that you allow me to have a stronger relationship with You. I pray you give me a spirit of faith, patience, forgiveness, happiness, and self control. I believe and receive everything that I have prayed in the precious name of Jesus Christ, Amen
I believe that you are saved and God loves you. The angels of the Lord are rejoicing that you are saved and have repented of your sins. See my other comment on what to do next. God bless and God loves you and I love you too❤️. Welcome to the Family of God!❤️ The devil will try to tempt you and get you to not trust God because if the devil knows that God can do everything but he doesn’t want you to know that. Regardless, stay strong and believe you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you.If you have any questions feel free to ask.😊
Luke 15:10
"In the same way, I tell you, there is joy in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents."
Repent of your sins, ask Jesus to come into your life, turn from your sins, trust God and put him first, pray, worship, and believe Jesus died on the Cross for your sins and that He rose on the third day to pay the price for you so that you can live in Eternal Heaven and not perish. I also suggest that you download the Bible Youversion app the brown bible app. They have devotions that you can read everyday on pretty much any topic. I find these helpful as they bring me closer to God and have a lot of amazing lessons that you can learn from. God bless your journey!❤️
sunday candy I came across this just now and it was definitely something I needed to hear. I’m not sure if you’ll respond to this but thank you for writing this. This has touched something in my spirit. God bless you🙏🏾✨
Melanie Solari Hello beautiful person, I am so glad this helped. I almost forgot that I posted this comment here. I am so glad you saw it because God wants you to know He loves you no matter what. Nothing you can do will stop His love. God is always there for you. Please pursue a relationship with Jesus, He has so much planned for your life. He is just waiting for you to take His hand and do life with Him. Trust Him. Don’t thank me, thank God. I appreciate you thanking me, it means a lot. God bless you love.❤️❤️❤️
Amen praise Jesus!!!
Repent.❤
False gospel 💔
It’s always the prettiest that’s the saddest inside. Hope shit goes well for her😭💘
Looks ain’t got shit to do with feeling emotions..tf🙄 Everybody is human, no matter if they cute or ugly. Honestly just a dumbass comment.
girl everyone’s cute. don’t trip. 🥰✨
@@lanim.6826 That doesn't change my comment. I said what I said.
Kiss Kiss ok and?
@@lanim.6826 So the point of your comment was irrevelant. Next caller.
God has a plan in store🙏🏽everything’s gonna be alright🤗
im literally hurting so back bc of my own situation. The fact that i relate & get what your saying just breaks my heart cause im just hurting. the tears mane i can’t finish this video 💔
savannah mendez same i got really emotional watching her talk it capitalized my own hurt 💔
She’s sooo smart to be so young. She’s fantastic
Don’t mess up your beautiful skin. Harming isn’t the way. Don’t give up. Let’s things out ❤️
You’re lacking an emotional connection with yourself. It’s not about you loving him it’s about you being so connected and being one with your partner you truly forget what’s it like being yourself as an individual And what it’s like to live life for yourself. It’s not easy I struggle daily finding myself, but I pray to god to give me strength and surround me with loving and supportive people. But in 2020 I’m trying to identify what makes me happy and what makes me feel whole as a women, and I’m realizing I lack an emotional connection with myself. I lack confidence because I don’t know who I am, I have a hard time feeling motivated or even building relationships with people because I’m lacking and to make up for the areas I’m lacking in, I expect my partner to love or make up what I’m missing but I’m realizing the only person that can make you feel whole is you. You have to have the confidence, strength, courage,love, and desire to pour into yourself.
❤️
balling my eyes out bc this is literally me & what I’m going through rn. i couldn’t put into words how I felt but she did it for me.
A relationship is either a blessing or a lesson. It’s all a learning experience. Everything happens for a reason
^ thisssss!
You’re so sincere frfr, we love u 🖤
Nitika m
“Had to let go of us to show myself what I could do “ -Drake
I honestly feel like y’all are going to get back together love this strong just can’t be broken
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That’s great and all but rn the most important thing is her loving and accepting herself, otherwise they’ll break up all over again and it might even make her feel worse. Based on this video this girl is smart and she knows or at least has an idea on what she needs to do to better herself and be happy. So no hate but I feel like instead of focusing on what her and Kobe could potentially still be, we should focus on trying our best to uplift her. Again, no hate lol there’s nothing wrong w ur comment
yasmeen I don’t want you to think that I’m trying to hurt your feelings but I think you should try therapy I felt in my spirit like your crying for help. Maybe therapy can help you manage and cope with your feelings because we love you and you have potential 💖🥺
Marcus Lopez Fr Fr I said the same thing I think she’s depressed I had the same signs and I was diagnosed. Seeing her arm like that so fresh breaks my heart
Marcus Lopez she just needs to get out of this damn pity party mood she’s in🤦🏾♂️😂
Kasari Shelton and that’s funny?
Kasari Shelton you sound slow.
Kasari Shelton bitch you sound dumb.
Crazy thing is .. I get that same exact feeling. I’ve also been sad for very long time , I also get so sad to a point where I start questioning the point of life .. and that’s low key suicidal , I think I need help. But at the same time I think I’ll be okay . I just need to be more strong
Bre Baby you got this 💕 just remember it does get better
you are so strong bby i love you 😭😭 you have helped me with my confidence 😭😭😭
Madison Bruner Look at her wrist at 4:25 y’all need to tell her how much y’all appreciate her
ItsssMariah G. yes omg poor thing
She’s so beautiful and she’s strong enough to get over the hurt.
Girl when I broke up with my bf, weeks back I had to FORCE myself to eat. Love is most definitely a beautiful thing and sometimes things don’t work out and it’s life; we’ll get over it
God has something BEAUTIFUL planned for you, Yasmeen! I believe it. You’ve always had a glow and still do. This touched my heart so thank you for that. I can totally relate with a lot of the things that you said such as how you try to help others but don’t take your own advice because I do the same thing and it gets really hard so I understand. I want you to know that you can ALWAYS come talk to us and tell us what you’re going through. You are not obligated to be happy all of the time, you are human sweetheart. Never forget: “Tears are prayers too. They travel to God when we can’t speak” Psalm 56:8 God is always with you, you are never alone. God made you based off of the divine purpose that He had for your life and He thought it was important enough to make ONLY one of you in his image. I am praying for you and everyone around you and in these comments. Stay blessed!💞❤️
I’m just glad she’s telling the truth 💜💜 we love you Yaz💜💜🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
You don’t need any medication or anything
Pray, make a plan NOW and take ACTION
Mon- school, gym, Starbucks run etc
Tues - 2 videos edit and post, gym etc
And follow this plan have discipline
Raylyn 👏🏾
I mostly bealive it comes from the soul I think you need to have God to have yourself & know yourself
some people need medication. obviously it’s not a permanent fix but a lot of ppl need it like myself
It’s never “right person wrong time” because the right people are timeless
Gabby M cap
Thats not true......
Thats naive. You can't love another person while having problems within yourself, you have to make that decision to change and be open. There is such a thing as a "wrong time", because not everything can be fixed within you by the "right person"
I can also tell Kobe is also going through some things since the breakup. He seems very different. I wish y’all the best and the best in the new year! Love y’all!💚💚
Prayer is key baby, go to him , he got you . Do something that make you happy(: get better rluvvvv
im tired truly i feel as if the "prettiest" females get treated the worst and it takes a huge toll on us because we start to think what if im not pretty what if im not enough what if its me what if and it turns into to so much we question everything and overthink everything and it hurts everything hurts getting up hurts smiling when you really wanna have a breakdown hurts your mom telling you oh you should've cleaned up hurts you losing one friend you NEVER thought in a million years you would lose HURTS you start to think when someone actually tries to love you that you don't deserve it bc you've put yourself in this mindset and now you're stuck in that mindset that you're not good enough that no matter what you do you want be and this is where you miss out on so much bc sometimes those people who try really want to but you won't let them and that's ok yes it okay to be alone its okay to be comfortable being alone but its NEVER okay to be TO COMFORTABLE BEING ALONE this is where i am i've been stuck in this mindset for years bc i've never felt enough i've worked hard to get where i am today and im still not where i want to be i will get there maybe not today or tomorrow or next year but i will and i can't say you'll be fine i cannot promise you'll be fine bc one day there will be no tears the next day there will be a river one day you'll love yourself the next you'll wish the fastest car swipes you off your feet and it finally all over but please be strong and its not east it never is but i'm still here and i've tried so many times to die to live to be happy to love to start over but i stayed strong so please try.
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kehlani riveraa ‼️
kehlani riveraa change starts NOW. Just be true to yourself and be gentle and considerate to yourself. The rest will fall into place
i’m lowkey glad to be ugly after reading that :(( y’all don’t deserve that
Pretty girls also go through a lot when that’s ALL people see you as! You start to think that that’s all that matters and you start to lose sense of self. Eventually you start comparing yourself, and feeling less than. Eventually you start to believe that the only thing you have to offer are your looks. EVERYTHING begins to circle around how you look! You get hate from almost everybody. Males think you’re stuck-up, females think you’re full of yourself. Not to mention you get hate from other pretty girls who feel like they’re in competition with you. It’s harder than people think and when you say “it’s hard being pretty” people shut you down.
Sorry but this is not a pretty girl problem it is a every girl problem people get dumped and wonder why they got dumped is it because im not or enough etc
For awhile I thought I was the only one who took breakups really really hard.. so glad to know there’s girls like me out there who understand..
Serenity Dominique me too girl :/
judy H we live and we learn but we’ll get through it 💫🤍 even though it feels otherwise
i feel like i know how she feels just looking at her eyes you can see how depressed she is even seeing her self harm scars makes me feel so sad
She’s young she made the right decision on ending the relationship she knows her mental health is struggling I’ve been following her since 2017 and you can see the difference that’s happened she went from being confident to being insecure my heart breaks for her 🥺💔 We’re here for you Yassss ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I really felt the part about you saying you have to love yourself and be happy yourself before your in a relationship because yes some one can make you happy but if your on your own and your not happy then you can't be really happy in a relationship. I thought I was the only one who felt that kinda way.
I clicked so fast 🥺 , hi pretty baby
I see your comments everywhere but I love your videos sm lol 💜
K A Y pretty girls commit suicide all the time looks really aren’t everything
she seems so sad im literally crying fro you yas, i love you so much and so many people respect you for the way you and kobe are handling this situation
Off topic but she is literally so beautiful
Solitude is good for you. Especially when you’re young. Because you’re still learning so much about relationships about life and about yourself. In solitude you grow and learn so much about yourself about how strong you are, about your worth, about what you like and dislike and so on. It’s honestly amazing. I hope you find your higher self soon and embody and embrace her and love her with all your might. Stay up and stay blessed Yas. I believe in you girl and you right gotta keep the faith always🤞🏼
This is straight facts. I wish I had this advice when I was young it would of made a big difference
release the pain beautiful. find yourself and love yourself. you’re so young you got time. feel your emotions but don’t attach to them. change “i’m sad” to “I’m feeling sad” and you’ll see that emotions come and go and as we grow from teenagers to adults we fluctuate thru these emotions and it takes time to gain emotional maturity but thru situations like this , you grow and become stronger. this will pass and be another lesson to help you grow
Sweetheart you need to pray & maybe look into therapy, Everything gonna be alright God is great 🙏
“you can’t love other people if you don’t love yourself” --->”you can’t help other people if you didn’t help yourself” ❤️.yas your beautiful. Your talented. Embrace that Beauty that so many females wish for.pray girl pray pray pray just cry out to god and tell him to come in your life. I’ll pray for you 😘.
you can tell how hard she’s trying to keep her tears back🥺 stay strong girl just look towards the future❤️
Everything will be ok, just pray, God is the only one that will give you true happines believe me, God is the solution
I feel like yous need to understand being pretty doesn’t mean you can’t b sad.
I've been where you're at. I still have my off days, but I am getting better. Sadness comes from overthinking. Get out of your head. If you feel you're about to over think yourself into sadness, meditate, learn breathing techniques (you'll be surprised at how much breathing in and out deeply can help put you in a better mood. Basic breathing technique is take a deep breath in slowly, hold for 2 secs, release. Repeat for a few minutes. Try it when you feel a urge of sadness coming on, I promise you'll feel a bit better. There are many breathing techniques that are good just to know for relieving anxiety, panic attacks, sadness. Look it up if you're interested.) Listen to self help audios before you sleep, there are even hypnosis audios you can listen to that helps you to think more positively. Try to stay away from melancholy music.
Most ppl will tell you surround yourself w ppl who love you to cope, but that wasn't an option for me cause I'm very to myself, cause seeking comfort in other ppl always made me feel needy, and that made it worse. So I tried to find comfort within myself, these things I've listed has helped me. Hopefully it can help someone else too.
I HOPE THIS IS WHAT WE ARE ALL THINKING ❤️
You look so beautiful 😭😭😭😍😍😍😍😍😍
we love you Yasmeen 💓 I just recently got out of a 6 month relationship with my ex. He is a good person and I know he has good intentions but he was SO insecure. He made me feel like I had to be a water down version of myself to make him feel better about HIS SELF. I would be scared to say hello to a male clerk just because i didn’t want to get into an argument or looking at the ground in the mall because i didn’t want him to think i was looking at anyone for too long. I should never have to dissect my every action to make someone else to feel comfortable with their self. I am a loving, happy, and positive person and I finally said enough is a enough and ended it. LADIES if you see this and you’re going through it or uncertain if you should end a toxic relationship, DO IT 🗣 This is your sign, do not ignore the red flags and waste more of your time, energy, and effort on someone, just because you Love them.. when there is sooo many people out there who can treat you 10x better. 7 billion people on this earth and you guys feel stuck to settle with someone from your hometown or state. Please take time to love yourself and find yourself. The right one will come. I love you all!! 💓💓 follow me on ig if you need to talk erica.mitchell
Remember that God loves you and that you are worthy have faith Jesus is always with you.
when u said “ if someone comes in your life and MAKES you happy , ur not happy “, I really did understand that, sometimes you don’t know who you are when the person who makes you happy isint there , you feel lost and just confused . Being in love at a young age is kinda difficult because at the same time your finding yourself, Yas I hope u see this and I hope yk there’s millions and millions of people who are probably going through the same , ur not alone, sometimes in order for you to learn how to be happy on your own takes loneliness ,confidence , and a lot of thinking . I hope this made a litttleeee sense❤️we love u
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ “I don’t want to be here”.. I say that to myself every other day
Thank you for sharing 💫
You make a lot of sense, you explained everything perfectly as to why two people shouldn’t be together if they aren’t already happy with themselves
The level of respect I have for u is so high the understanding and strength u have is already gonna help u grow so much
0:04 ugh that hurts to see, keep ya head up high and at your worst moments just remember the best. things happen like you say but don’t harm yourself to feel better.. if you need guidance seek god and remember that things will end up being okay.
so sad to see such a beautiful, outgoing soul without words.
we love you stay strong❤️❤️
your faith is gonna get you through this sadness yas, trust me on that one.
Amen😇
WE LOVE YOU YASMEENNNN 🥺
i understand everything she’s feeling... and that shit hurts but it’s okay, praying that she’s gonna get better
You made so much sense the part about the happiness part. I legit felt it on a spiritual level
When she said "if you're not already happy and someone comes into your life and makes you happy you're still not happy cause you never figured out a way to be happy on your own" that hit me. I felt that so much 😢💔
She’s speaking so much wisdom for someone so young
Omg she’s causing self harm I hope she gets help
look at the cuts on Yasmeen arm on 4:25 😭 , it would hurt me to lose you.Hope you get threw it.Your an inspiration to me stay strong❤
Yasss we fucking love you... you will always have ppl to fall on🇯🇲🇯🇲❤️
I can’t explain how much I know what she is talking about. She is definitely not alone. I’m going through close to the exact same thing. We are going to get through it.💕
yasmeen you're so special! you're a light in a dark room, please stay strong we all got you here! love from london xxxx
yas i love you forever and will support you through everything. you’re so talented and beautiful just keep doing you baby 🤍 dont worry about no boys, no drama no NOTHING !! you’re amazing !! get you a group of nice genuine female friends and stay out the way ma 💓 you gon keep doing big things. i love you. god giving you these obstacles to see you overcome and watch you shine at the end. keep your head up
Yas, I would never wanna hurt you or anything else. But at 4:25 I saw your wrist. Just know that you’re an amazing beautiful soul. If you need help don’t be afraid to ask for it. We love you so much and wouldn’t want anything to happen to you. You’re loved honey❤️
I just noticed that ,I hope she's okay .
kendra williams Me too 😔❤️
God bless everyone who is hurting in this comment section...stay strong my sisters 💞
2019 was really the worst year for so many people
2020: am I a joke to you ?
I agree
4:25 omg y’all look at her wrist 💔
😢🍍
OMGGGGggggGG
I don’t see it
@@lisbethkappalot3796 she had a bunch of cuts
:((((
it hurts me to see how she cant even look at the camera without breaking down. love that strong will stay that strong, no matter the cause. youll get through this yas. you’re beautiful. you guys were beautiful beings in the strongest state of love possible. its okay to be depressed. it okay to feel pressured. you are beautiful yasmeen. people grow separately. and i feel your pain. i do. love is its okay yasmeen. you are strong. you guys got this.
I really recommend investing in healing stones, sage and tarot cards to take away the negative thoughts. They really help bring positivity into your life, calming anxiety and helps with meditation. We love you, yas. Feel better soon, luv.
yeah you cant depend on anyone for your happiness. no one “needs” a bf. you should want one .So they could add to ur happiness not make it💯
I can’t wait to see where you are in a couple years from now. You’re an amazing young girl who needs to begin understanding her WORTH. We all love you, you have a lot of supporters rooting for you. Your self worth is beaming and you’re gonna make it. You’re an inspiration to us all. Love from London🇬🇧💗
Girl you have a following , start your own hair care line
Contact some wholesalers, you are sooo beautiful and have so much potential.
Raylyn did you even LISTEN to the video? She's depressed. She doesn't need to do anything right now except take care and love herself. She's young, she needs to focus on school and herself mostly. She's lost, and it's our job to just support her in anything she decides to do. Stop telling her to keep herself busy because that'll make her fall even deeper.
@@destinyturner5235 Your absolutely incorrect. Just like with time you get over things. Same thing she needs to throw herself into something that will consume her time instead of laying in bed "loving herself" feeling bad for herself. Shell get depressed even more
Raylyn no. distracting yourself is far more easier than healing yourself. they are not the same. she needs to heal herself. finding something that consumes all of her time will bury her hurt temporarily, not get rid of it permanently.
Raylyn she sounds like she needs a serious break. Stop and go make your own damn hair care line 💀
shareen C exactlyy 💀😭
Category: Comedy
Topics discussed: sadness, loneliness, severed bonds, unfulfilled goals and ambitions, etc
this has to be a sign i literally feel the same way rn 💯💯
I needed to hear this I recently got out of a relationship 🥺💔 & I’ve been depressed for about a Week 😞 & for me to hear you talk about “ Love “ within people , it really helped me feel better so thank you Yasmeen 🥺😩❤️
I cried watching this because I’m through the exact same thing. I didn’t know how to be myself and I was hurt myself and found happiness in him without finding it in myself first. I was very dependent on him and we took a break to work on ourselves during quarantine but that ended up being a break up because we couldn’t see eye to eye anymore. It cried so much, I’m still crying and it’s definitely hard leaving someone you love