why does it seem like xiao qin is lowkey disgusted by Xiaoyang😂 still only feel like they are better as brother/sister, makes sense since they have the same last name LOL
its not disgust. your priorities change, even with just 5 years. (And i guess the twenties are the years we change/evolve the most, our first decade as "adult"). Xiao Qin wants to chill and relax at the weekend. Xiao Yang is still full of energy and willing to go out and play weekdays and weekend! I'm not saying we're old at 30, but we just want to do different things and have different things on our mind etc... they're sort of exagerating the differences here and using a physical disparity (her being tired vs him being so full of life) but I think 30 vs 25 has subtler differences that would be quite tricky to capture. anyway, that's my opinion. plenty of couples with big age gaps who got together when one was in their 20's im sure.
@@Almei43 You maybe right that Man Ni's hometown could be Suzhou in Jiangsu province which is 30mins by high speed train from Shanghai. Or it could be Zhujiajiao which is 1hr by road from Shanghai.
The irony that XiaoYang is basically her “ex husband” in her relationship with her new bf. She insinuated her ex husband was boring and rarely wanted to do anything. And now that she has a younger man all she wants to do is stay home and rest. She can’t keep up with her new young man.
I have been watching the food cart family and wondering what is the purpose, I have settled on the opinion that the producers are juxtaposing poverty of means and poverty of heart. their "poor" family is richer that the three ladies in pursuit of so-called happiness. they are truly the poor ones. loving this drama.
I'm glad the script is moving on, and not drag this longer. Nini willing to go on blind dates and Xiao Qin dating a younger man. I hope Gu jia will find out her husband is cheating on her and leaves him.
@@Alfreduss you mean paying for a girl's hotel stay and deleting messages from her, meeting up secretly etc. also a girl who has made it clear she is interested in you. that isn't cheating?
@@Alfredussthe park girl moved to Shanghai with him. he secretly paid for the girl to stay at a hotel for weeks. Then he moved her to an apartment paying 1 full year rent. They had sex in hotel, their affair went on even after Gu met her. The park girl had the audacity to come to their son kindergarten & told yhe boy his dad was gonna to have a family... on and on. Well what do you think, was he cheating?
I prefer the coffee guy, he is the best!!! But something is telling me that Ni Ni will no be at the end with him...I can see Ni Ni is matherialistic...she sees the coffee guy as not interesting cause he is not rich...
Jia’s husband really have a deep hatred for her. He wants to destroy her physically/mentally. He’s very jealous/envy of her success because he always living in her shadows. If Jia was a man, she would be applauded and highly valued. He dated a girl nine years younger than Jia and brought in from another city. So, no his finger didn’t accidentally fall into a wall socket (keeping it clean).
🙋🏽♀️🌴🇹🇰❣️It’s the idiot of husband day 😔😡. He is going to regret his actions. Hoping the wife can stay strong and continue to be the graceful and caring beautiful soul she is 🤗💐
I'm ready for her to find out. I am anxious for her reaction to his idiocy. I really like Gu Jia, I think she's my favorite... Although Ni Ni is the most relatable for me.
Sigh what happen to Gu Jia's husband look unhappy face because he is trapped on himself. He don't know how to tell his wife about women that he continues to see and text from his cell phone
I think it’s not so much the favour earned that’s valuable, but the connections, the networking that becomes invaluable. Money is cold, human connections are much more valuable for the person who values people. It is much needed in the cold world we live in.
Oh, is the "Prince" in "I will find you a better home". How ironic, Ni Ni is going to found but her way to come back to Shangai XD Maybe the Town is warm and nice but is not for her. It was not before, and not now either. Xiao Qin is having a clash with the gap age, such a pity, they are cute together but I guess she has the kind of luck of partners who don´t listen very well to what she wants and needs.
This relationship is not going to last , this is not a drama or fantasy ,, she is better off w/her ex , they needed space apart , not jump into another childish relationship , this guy is into playing video games n that’s not good , she is looking for romance ,
I agree. Do I think they should get back together? No, but they might if they do they need to work on themselves. I think jumping in a new relationship just when you got a divorce is not so reasonable. I think they’ll break up. I really don’t like him I see he means well but he’s all up in her business. Deleting messages from her phone!! I knew he was troubled before that but the just put the icing on the cake for me. And no one lets anyone talk!!! If you look up “ cut off” in the Dictionary you’ll see all their faces on the page lol
I don't like the director guy for Ni Ni. She looks like she's suffocating in her home town and when she's with this guy. They have two completely different view points on life. I think she should date coffee guy. She keeps saying no because they dated before but I think they were too young at the time and needed to figure out things for themselves. She's not the same person she was when she broke up with him and neither is he. Jia husband is getting on my nerves. I think he is used to being the center of Jia's world but now that she's pursuing something that doesn't involve him after 4 plus years of taking care of him and their son he misses that attention. And this park attendant child is giving him the attention he's missing. I hope Jia finds out what he is doing, takes her son with her and leaves his behind. Jia has done so much for him and this is how he behaves as soon as he's not the center of attention? He's disgusting.
Can this young guy stop showing up unannounced to her house? Can he respect her boundaries and privacy. Always encroaching her space.
why does it seem like xiao qin is lowkey disgusted by Xiaoyang😂 still only feel like they are better as brother/sister, makes sense since they have the same last name LOL
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I feel like they are better as brother/sister too
its not disgust. your priorities change, even with just 5 years. (And i guess the twenties are the years we change/evolve the most, our first decade as "adult"). Xiao Qin wants to chill and relax at the weekend. Xiao Yang is still full of energy and willing to go out and play weekdays and weekend! I'm not saying we're old at 30, but we just want to do different things and have different things on our mind etc... they're sort of exagerating the differences here and using a physical disparity (her being tired vs him being so full of life) but I think 30 vs 25 has subtler differences that would be quite tricky to capture. anyway, that's my opinion. plenty of couples with big age gaps who got together when one was in their 20's im sure.
In addition to enjoying this good drama I love the scenery of the tea plantation and Man Ni's hometown which is so beautiful.
Man Ni's hometown must be somewhere in Jiangsu province, looks like it anyway.
@@Almei43 You maybe right that Man Ni's hometown could be Suzhou in Jiangsu province which is 30mins by high speed train from Shanghai. Or it could be Zhujiajiao which is 1hr by road from Shanghai.
@@francisleong4248 Keep your eyes open,
I saw the town name in another ep.
I commented on it in that ep.
@@francisleong4248 isn't Suzhou a big city though?
@@uguensonam1459 Its 2021 population is 7 million. It is a big city but its watertown is in an old part of the city.
The irony that XiaoYang is basically her “ex husband” in her relationship with her new bf. She insinuated her ex husband was boring and rarely wanted to do anything. And now that she has a younger man all she wants to do is stay home and rest. She can’t keep up with her new young man.
I love the food cart family! They appear to be the most well adjusted! 🇺🇸😊
I have been watching the food cart family and wondering what is the purpose, I have settled on the opinion that the producers are juxtaposing poverty of means and poverty of heart. their "poor" family is richer that the three ladies in pursuit of so-called happiness. they are truly the poor ones. loving this drama.
@@fava4real I really like your thought!😊
@@susananderson4093 😊
I'm glad the script is moving on, and not drag this longer. Nini willing to go on blind dates and Xiao Qin dating a younger man. I hope Gu jia will find out her husband is cheating on her and leaves him.
but is he actualy cheating? he seems irresponsible but not cheating (havent watch this episode yet)
Gu Jia will leave him...
@@Alfreduss you mean paying for a girl's hotel stay and deleting messages from her, meeting up secretly etc. also a girl who has made it clear she is interested in you. that isn't cheating?
@@Alfredussthe park girl moved to Shanghai with him. he secretly paid for the girl to stay at a hotel for weeks. Then he moved her to an apartment paying 1 full year rent. They had sex in hotel, their affair went on even after Gu met her. The park girl had the audacity to come to their son kindergarten & told yhe boy his dad was gonna to have a family... on and on.
Well what do you think, was he cheating?
So glad that everyone in the wives circle got what they deserved. Everyone had another loss, that's what I call karma.
i like the detailed ending of every episode so creative
王自健把小城青年的那种荣誉感演的太好了
That kid is obsessive, like bruh she's sleeping let the woman sleep. When she wakes up shell see your messages and reply 🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
He's getting on my nerves. He way to pushy and impatient in his pursuit of her.
Could imagine how fast Ni Ni would run back to Shanghai
NiNi's date is nice but boring and plain - she does not like him.
I don't trust him
I prefer the coffee guy, he is the best!!!
But something is telling me that Ni Ni will no be at the end with him...I can see Ni Ni is matherialistic...she sees the coffee guy as not interesting cause he is not rich...
This young guy should let her enjoy her house before taking up space. He’s so annoying
小张主任相当不错啊 说的那句话水平非常高
小张主任其实也不错了。不浮躁，不啃老，有理想，有抱负。人生全在选择。
就是 小張挺好啊 人老實善良 就是俗點！可惜王曼尼喜歡騷的
Jia’s husband really have a deep hatred for her. He wants to destroy her physically/mentally. He’s very jealous/envy of her success because he always living in her shadows. If Jia was a man, she would be applauded and highly valued. He dated a girl nine years younger than Jia and brought in from another city. So, no his finger didn’t accidentally fall into a wall socket (keeping it clean).
Haha loving your PG version of that expression lol very well done 😁😁
Lol isn’t that the same movie Xiao Qin watched 😂
小镇青年这一段跟我堂姐夫特像，在小县城里的政府小官，整天打扮地油光铮亮的，去哪都是关系。走出三五步就有熟人，张哥李哥王姐刘姐的，整个小县城就2条商业街，除了亲戚都是朋友
子言小小年纪，演得好自然呀 ，真可爱😍
小张主任挺接地气的啊。 不错的人。
小张主任说的特别好！浮夸带来浮躁 越浮夸越浮躁
NiNi you can’t go home again because you will never see it the same😢. Go visit and get the heck out of dodge/village/town, etc.
小健健 又来相亲啦~
😀 Wan ManNi's blind date guy was also in the drama 安家 'I will find you a better home'。
yeah XD it was like oh it´s him, the "Prince"
🙋🏽♀️🌴🇹🇰❣️It’s the idiot of husband day 😔😡. He is going to regret his actions. Hoping the wife can stay strong and continue to be the graceful and caring beautiful soul she is 🤗💐
I agree, i hope she doesn't lose herself , once she finds out about his infidelity.
I'm ready for her to find out. I am anxious for her reaction to his idiocy. I really like Gu Jia, I think she's my favorite... Although Ni Ni is the most relatable for me.
Absolutely let’s hope the script makes a good comeback for Gu Jia 💐
Michelle Striano I agree
Ana Patelesio yes!
Solidarite entre les gens est extrement important. Bravo pour les petit People.
这小镇可千万别建设成国际化大都市，保留这个古朴味道太难得了
受不了曼妮回家乡这段，感觉走了八年就觉得自己比这里高人一等的感觉，其实大家都一样啊
确实是: 在小镇 人情和关系是硬通货 全世界都这样
Sigh what happen to Gu Jia's husband look unhappy face because he is trapped on himself. He don't know how to tell his wife about women that he continues to see and text from his cell phone
Xu Huan Shan did too much for Lin You You.
He needs to stop it.
How can a favor be a valuable currency?
If you expect something in return, then it is not a favor.
I think it’s not so much the favour earned that’s valuable, but the connections, the networking that becomes invaluable. Money is cold, human connections are much more valuable for the person who values people. It is much needed in the cold world we live in.
It’s translated not properly. It’s like connections or social networks in a small town.
@@kgb5410 Thanks, I didn't catch that. It makes more sese now.
还是大城市容易些，小城市要活成小张主任那样，不是每个人都能做到的。
Oh, is the "Prince" in "I will find you a better home". How ironic, Ni Ni is going to found but her way to come back to Shangai XD Maybe the Town is warm and nice but is not for her. It was not before, and not now either. Xiao Qin is having a clash with the gap age, such a pity, they are cute together but I guess she has the kind of luck of partners who don´t listen very well to what she wants and needs.
This relationship is not going to last , this is not a drama or fantasy ,, she is better off w/her ex , they needed space apart , not jump into another childish relationship , this guy is into playing video games n that’s not good , she is looking for romance ,
I agree
I am having a laugh 😄😃😀
Wait…What’s not good about playing video games???
Nini is being really negative, I don"t like her attitude
I agree, I love the blind dates attitude, hes a great guy, shes just not attracted to him
He’s too good for her
下半年满30岁，毕业七年，经历了一些事，还是一个人漂泊在国外，这两年真的好像突然长大了。
我也是，出国突然长大了成熟了
哎
@@avaren7231 别叹气啊，30岁刚刚好，长大了越来越坚强了什么事都能自己扛了，会越来越好的，加油！
30岁真的人生才过了三分之一，以后路还长着呢，人越成熟就会越过越好呢～
现实中王曼妮这样的情况再过两年色衰了就没人理她了，自己也没什么大本事，最终守着一份自傲孤独终老
其实现实中她的情况就很尴尬了，她没学历，没工作，只有徒长的年纪，小张主任不会找她。柜姐的工作并不会被高看，她自己一直看不清她自己。
@@helen6627 对
我认识有个还是有大学文凭的，最后也是没结婚。她们喜欢的男人只想和她们玩玩，喜欢她们的她们又看不上。心太高了。也是在上海
那个张主任我总感觉在哪里见过，仔细想了想原来是小时候看过的少年包青天里面的花公公😂
暴露年龄了😂
王自健，小健健
之前孙俪演的卖房子那个剧，还有之前的80后脱口秀，都有他
安家里也有他
好喜欢王自健呀
Like, if you want Ni Ni to end up with her ex coffee shop bf?
Commenting to like 1 million times. I thought after the rich bf, she wd hv settled with him.
漫妮回了老家，人也跟着变土了。看见“唯品会”啦，延禧攻略里面也有很多“软广告。
你们都在说小张的不好。我觉得挺好的，小镇几乎每个人都认识他，说明他经常下基层，了解普通百姓的生活情况。
看到这条评论笑死我啦哈哈哈
@@jingshi3649 咋的了。。
小张大概未来的村长
卧槽，这李太太的遭遇不就跟王思聪的妈妈一样啊，靠山倒了欠了钱还上了诚信黑名单坐不了高铁。艺术果然是来源于生活啊
王漫妮为什么每次说sales听起来都像sears？
Nice
小张说话有种说不出来的感觉， 感觉不是那种特别摆官腔，但是总透露着一种小领导的感觉，
乍一眼看👀居然是王自健！笑死我了🤣🤣🤣
小张蛮好的。 漫妮自视甚高
王太太其实挺好的
都是天使惹的祸里的刘敏君
王太太和于太太挺真挺直爽的，不像其他几个，很虚伪。
蔡春晓 刘敏君都长这么大了😂
I like director zhong
一听到声音，还没有看到人的时候就知道是王子健来了！😀
有没有跟我一样喜欢陈宇不喜欢钟晓阳的？怎么看见钟晓阳就烦。。。颜值也没有陈宇高
I agree. Do I think they should get back together? No, but they might if they do they need to work on themselves. I think jumping in a new relationship just when you got a divorce is not so reasonable. I think they’ll break up. I really don’t like him I see he means well but he’s all up in her business. Deleting messages from her phone!! I knew he was troubled before that but the just put the icing on the cake for me. And no one lets anyone talk!!! If you look up “ cut off” in the Dictionary you’ll see all their faces on the page lol
凯迪拉克应该赞助了这部剧😂
这都三十集了您总算看出来了😂
@@webber8581 哈哈，眼拙😄😂
Little Director couldn’t buy snacks for their date at the movie? Smh
被小张主任洗洗脑 我都开始想念家了
I don't like the director guy for Ni Ni. She looks like she's suffocating in her home town and when she's with this guy. They have two completely different view points on life. I think she should date coffee guy. She keeps saying no because they dated before but I think they were too young at the time and needed to figure out things for themselves. She's not the same person she was when she broke up with him and neither is he.
Jia husband is getting on my nerves. I think he is used to being the center of Jia's world but now that she's pursuing something that doesn't involve him after 4 plus years of taking care of him and their son he misses that attention. And this park attendant child is giving him the attention he's missing. I hope Jia finds out what he is doing, takes her son with her and leaves his behind. Jia has done so much for him and this is how he behaves as soon as he's not the center of attention? He's disgusting.
华东五日游的时候去过这个地方，古香古色的很有特色
请问
这是哪个古镇呀？
@@fayf2577 衢州
32:35 keonz~~~~~~~~~~`kenzo 我笑了
Ni ni does not seem to like Mr Blind date guy
小张主任人挺好，只是这个小城市已经容不下她了。
4:20 女人变得真快啊
NiNi looks beautiful in the color red.
Yes! It suits her very well 😊
晓芹感觉好像是想找弟弟兄弟陪伴不是找情侣
这场景，就是绍兴嘛，我很喜欢的一个充满文化的小城市
这部剧卡迪拉克是赞助商吧
張志和王漫妮逛街的時候，像是總統和總統夫人慰問貧困百姓。
为啥坐标沪浙却人人京腔
里面有正宗上海人的上海腔啊，你没听出来？
@@susiehe712 王漫妮家里衢州的，一点衢州方言都没有。
@@oudite6 带着京腔的演员在浙江背景的环境里面演戏不觉得跳戏么？有可能你不是南方人感觉不到
大城市哪里人都有，就不要在意这些细节了。除了钟晓芹，也没说谁是上海土著啊
@@helkittyegg 这里明明说的是江浙沪，又没有死磕上海土著
王曼妮既然不喜欢张志，为啥不去买单，要张志买单，然后还一脸不认同....大城市AA很正常啊....所以王曼妮被海王给骗了再正常不过，就是这种又当又立的人...欺软怕硬
瞧不起上小张的样子
出来了大城市还回得去？回不去啦！
19‘’ 曼妮爸爸把个苹果都快削没了
呵呵， 小了大半个
今年也三十，这剧有点及时雨的意思，解惑
主任有点像中年版李承鄞
some sass 还真是啊
is the editing wrong? we saw her marketing fail in the last episode, and now we are seeing man i compiling a list of influencers???
每集片尾的这段，导演想文艺一把结果诡异了！
像极了不同鬼故事的序章。
就不明白想表达什么！只觉得很多余
反差 反差
22:40的同事是哪个老板的女儿拉去出镜1分钟的吧
Wan Ni doesn’t seem into dating blind date guy
国内上海住过很难在其他城市生活。不在一个水平上
连广州市去的，都招到白眼🙄️
Ava Ren 乡无拧
Ava Ren 歧视人的基本是没受过高等教育底层的一些人，大部分上海人都很友善的。
Jennifer Kwun 是的，总的来说上海人素质还是蛮高的。
这情节是想说许幼山尝试了一切躲开小三儿，最后还是抵不过命运的安排吗？
这集结尾的还行
说句实在话，王曼妮连个正式工作都没有，年龄也过了传统意义的适婚年龄，还在那作什么啊。想嫁有钱人没有错，但是她有资本吗，说年轻谈不上，貌美也就还好，能力比不上顾佳 人家小张那叫会过日子，现实中小张看还真的看不上她 人家基本上都奔着年轻上去了 她真的是看不清自己的位置吗
Eve Zheng 说明这个小张是看脸的
旎旎心里落差会不会好大啊 因为以前住大城市
小张主任的官腔官调让我想到了某个人，哈，现在想来，有点可笑
现实中主任都看不上这种一线阵亡的，除了一身矫情……还有什么了……
片尾的孩子不上幼儿园的吗
I’m looking for Josies comment I can’t find it
吃饭说话干嘛老拿着筷子飞舞
装😅
吐槽一下 和剧无关 别喷我 我实在忍不住了。
这个江疏影的英语发音怎么回事😂 她还在英国留过学 这口音也是醉了😂 前面潜水的时候也是
她口语挺烂的，我悄悄告诉你
@@孙雷-p9m 是吧😂 听着非常别扭 口音真的太差了。
如果学不来英式发音 美语也可以啊 她这个也太夸张了😂
在国外生活过的人也都会有不同的口音。这很正常啊。我觉得更真实。里面王漫妮也不是从小在国外长大的角色，英文有口音或者不标准也符合角色的背景。
@@rubyrubyruby6509 对于你说的在国外生活过的人英语口音也有不行的 我知道这个事情啊。
大家都上了一节数学课 学霸都听懂了 学渣一点都没听懂。家长就对学渣说 你这孩子怎么回事 都是在上课 同一个老师教的 人家学得那么好 你为什么啥也没学会。我的评论就差不多这意思。
至于说英语口音不好更符合角色 那么是不是里面有些角色说话结巴 绕舌头 节奏不好 普通话说不好 或者干脆说家乡话 这样更写实呢?因为现实生活就是这样的啊。最起码在曼妮的老家 邻居们应该讲地方方言而不是标准普通话啊。更不是剧中字正腔圆 节奏恰到好处的 明显台词功底过硬的普通话啊。
@@rubyrubyruby6509 不是呛你 就是纯粹发表我意见。因为我以前也以为台词是个小事。比如 我认为哭的时候说话就是含混不清的 那就是真实 不需要把台词说清楚。可是不把台词说清楚 我怎么知道角色在说什么呢。没有台词 难道靠演员的肢体动作来意会吗？意会错了 我还能领会艺术作品想要传达的思想吗？
童瑶的嘴动得很奇怪
钟小阳直击我心。。果然我也是老阿姨了喜欢小鲜肉。😭
王太太是个明白人，女人有多狠要看她能蹲多低
真的要搞網紅產品 還不如轉行搞觀光親子茶廠再請人營銷 這樣不是比較有記憶點嗎
王曼妮太恶心啦，干嘛那么judgemental自命不凡，都回小镇了还这样，又没本事留在上海
所以大城市呆不下去就不能有要求，得賤賣了？
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1. “贱卖”？为什么要这样侮辱小张主任？
2. The point is 不管王曼妮再觉得清高，也不应该宣之于口。觉得得小地方配不上她，还在人面前表现了出来，卖了那么多年奢侈品不应该情商这么低。
小奶狗万岁！！！
坐等
小张主任挺好的 他们只是不适合
the zhong couple is way too sweet. lol 另外问什么总有白光闪？还是我屏幕坏了？
He's a child and she'll soon realize it!!
你屏幕坏了
I just think that he’s too..energetic for her.
张志真的不错，但己所欲也不应施于人🤣
相亲对象太装了😂
Hou Manlin 其实我觉得这样的男的还挺多的
裝是不自信的表現。
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