Japanese raised outside Japan VS Foreigner raised in Japan 【VERSUS】#3 [CC]
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- Опубліковано 20 чер 2019
- How does it feel to grow up on a place when you don't look like most people around you? When your parents speak a different language from what you are taught at school?.
Mayumi's parents are Japanese, but she was born and raised in France, while Kyla's parents are American, but she was born and raised in Japan.
In this episode of VERSUS they get together to discuss their upbringing, the good things as well as the bad, and maybe even find shared experiences.
Featuring: Mayumi (@mayumette), Kyla (@kyla_rym)
0:26 Where are your parents' from?
0:59 What language did you speak with your parents?
1:30 In Japan, do people see you as French or Japanese?
1:48 Do you see Japan as your hometown?
2:24 When you were in France, did you ever want to look like a french person?
3:26 Was it difficult to make friends?
4:01 What do you think about racism?
Please read Kyla's article too!
I was born and grew up in Japan, but I couldn't rent an apartment because I had a foreign nationality. Is this really a problem of nationality?
www.buzzfeed.com/jp/kylaryan/...
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Kyla smiles shyly like a Japanese person. She may not look it, but she is Japanese.
because of her smile. low bar to pass
She speaks with that constant smile that japanese people usually wear when talking about anything. Even when talking about a sensitive topic with you, they still keep that lowkey smile, almost as if afraid to show their true emotions. Problem is when you have a japanese teacher teaching you japanese, and suddenly you start doing the same thing unconsciouly akdjsjshs
yes her mannerisms and demeanor is more japanese
@@heyitsmira17 Yes the social hell that is the unspoken rules of Honne and Tatemae.
Doomer the Loner that’s her nationality. Of course that’s not her race but this happens often. Black Europeans, White Africans, there’s a lot of misconceptions about race, culture, and nationality
i felt sad when she said "sometimes i wonder what hometown is".
Jake M yea :(( I feel like most people who were raised in a different place from where their parents come from feels this way
@@mz3674 yes, personally I just say my hometown is where I was born and grew up, and my family's hometown is correlated to my ethnic background. It's sad that the girl in this video doesn't connect to where she was raised so much because of discrimination and her looking different.
I also dont know where my hometown is. My family were always moving when i was a kid and ive been to 9 schools because of that. It is really hard for my development as a person.
@@Saneserif me, too! (4 elementary schools, 4 middle schools, only 1 high school but that's because I was homeschooled for a large chunk of it instead, probably would have been three or four otherwise).
The closest thing I have to a hometown is the place we kept moving away from and then back to (I went to the same elementary school kindergarten, part of first, and 3rd through 5th, and when to the middle school in that same town for most of 7th). We lived in that place off and on for 8 years of my childhood, so it's the nearest I get to having a home town.
I can relate. I was born and raised in nothern europe but everyone sees me as foreigner here because i'm black. When people ask me where i'm from i atomatically say east africa even though i've never been there in my life. If i say i'm from here people look at me confused and ask me if i'm mixed lol
The girl on the right is not a foreigner, shes totally Japanese
Yeah, 100%. But obviously nationality not ethnically lol
@@MrAgentTurner yea yea of course lol
@@MrAgentTurner by that logic then, only native Americans are actual americans everyone else are European, African or whatever their descendants came from
chibihara lol exactly
She’s still a foreigner no matter what in a country that’s what 98% Japanese
I hate that they call her a foreigner in her own country
I think in a country or locations that don't have a lot of foreigners and homogenous, any differences will lead you to alienation. Even though I come from a country that has so many ethnicities, most of the minorities are always being 'branded' that way. Worst part? Majority calling the minority people by their ethnicity/race as something normal when it's not....
@@eruchan_1856 is it not normal? I was born and raised in nothern europe but as a black person i will get funny looks if i say i'm nothern european.. They start asking what i'm mixed with🤷🏾♀️
Welcome to Eastern Asia, (probably) the most racist part of this planet
I’m Justarandomdoggy “legally” she’s a Japanese citizen. So legally she’s not a foreigner.
Hate to break it to you, but most Asian countries are quite racist, especially the eastern part. They don't show it directly, but you can feel it. But it doesn't mean they're not nice with foreigners. It's just, they appreciate more their people and cultures.
So sad that the girl on the right isn’t welcomed as a “japanese” where she *wants* to feel home the most :(
RIght!
She isn’t Japanese. It’s ethnic. You can’t be Japanese unless you’re ethnically Japanese
grumblekin Japan is a nationality, not an ethnicity. She cannot ethnically be Asian, however, nationality wise, she is Japanese because she was raised there. Same goes for the other girl, she’s ethnically Asian w/ roots in Japan, but nationality wise she’s French
@@shrekscumdumpster2834 Incorrect. The Japanese government does not recognize magic dirt birth like the US.
You must be born to Japanese parents to be Japanese. I'm half-Japanese and a permanent resident of Japan. She is most likely a permanent resident as well.
If she became a Japanese citizen then she'd have to apply like the rest of us but she would never be accepted as Japanese by other Japanese... Which is why I'm sad for her.
@brewzkee As an asian having lived her entire schooling career in America, I can attest to this. My parents have American citizenship but feel isolated from the community. They are American but they feel very conscious of their asian ethnicity. People ask all the time, are you asian as if it is their nationality? They don't see them as Americans. I personally experienced it everyday at school and sometimes, it made me conflicted and hurt by the very community I was raised in. I didn't feel welcomed because even though I was American, I wasn't american to them. I was asian.
If she was born in Japan then she isnt a foreigner.
I notice that in Asian countries, the term foreigner is used to describe someone whose ethnicity is not from that particular country. So even if you are born in Japan, if you are not Japanese by blood, you're considered a foreigner
@@Cindy99765 Such a shame. I know my country has its own racial problems but it's still sad to see them everywhere else too
Wrong, Japan doesn't recognize citizenship by birth. Her parents would need to be Japanese or she needs to natrualize to "not be a foreigner".
@@youngthomasyorke4074 ^ What Thom said. Japanese citizenship isn't based on whether or not you were born there. Japanese born outside of Japan can choose Japanese citizenship simply by having Japanese ancestry.
@@Ovalee My sister's husband is from Scotland and her step son was born here in the US years later. He's completely American culturally- not even a little Scottish. Would you consider him foreign? Citizenship is just an affordance of certain privileges by the government based on your allegiance to the country. It's entirely political. If her origin is in Japan, she would necessarily not be foreign. Hope that came across clearly haha
If the "foreigner" was raised in Japan, is she really the foreigner?
exactly. the title should be switched.
Yes. Try replacing another country into the sentence instead of Japan. He/She is a foreigner forever unless they convert their nationality.
The title is right, because in Japan, citizenship (or nationality) is only given if one of your parents is Japanese. So in a sense she’s “Japanese” because she was raised here, but in paper she would be a foreigner, unless she gained Japanese citizenship
@@to_ru_kw But she was born in Japan, so I don't see why she wouldn't be considered Japanese.
For conservative Japanese, unless you're fully ethnic Japanese and raised in Japan you'll always be a foreigner.
日本の番組って日本のこと褒める内容が多いから、差別があるとかっていう意見は貴重な感じする。
日本人同士だって些細な事を理由にいじめてんのに他国の人を虐めないわけねーだろ! って言うとまずナショナリズム精神強い奴からボコボコにされる。俺の知人に外国人いたけど特に虐められてなかったよ? とかね。他人がどう思っていようが本人の本音聞かなきゃしゃーねえだろと。中にはハーフだけど虐められたことはなかったとか言うのもいるけどアジア人とのハーフか、白人か黒人とのハーフかによっても違うし、一人のケースが全てのハーフに当てはまるわけでもない。
どの国でも自国を持ち上げる番組だらけだよ。いちばんタチ悪いのは「ここがヘンだよ」みたいな、いかにも日本の欠点を指摘してますみたいな紛らわしい番組。他国人から見て日本の最も許せない所は指摘できない。したら出演者は日本の街を歩けなくなるし番組も半日放送局って叩かれる。あくまで視聴者が、日本世間がブチギレない適度な日本自虐的構成に留めている。台湾にもモロ似た番組があってアメリカ人や日本人などいくつかの国の他国人が出演している、そこでの日本人は道化役だ。台湾世間が日本に対して持つステレオタイプな欠点(謙虚を通り越して気が弱いとか)を道化て演じてみたり、それを指摘されてはいその通りですねと頷いてばかりだったり。同じ元移住者としてその日本男に腹立った。お前日本人だったら台湾社会に対して言いたい事いくらでもあんだろと。台湾人は中国人に対してばかり割り込みか酷いとか言うけど日本人から見た台湾人だって相当割り込むし(俺はそれが帰国を決める留めのキレた理由になった)交通マナーも東南アジア有数の酷さだし、時間守らないし道譲らないし。台湾人が親切なのはシルバートシートとか道を訊いた時とかマクロな場面が多く、ミクロで繊細な気遣い方はほとんどできない。韓国ともよく比べられるけど台湾の方が酷い場合だってある。日本人移住者なら二人に一人くらいはそれらの不満を感じてるだろうにその日本人出演者はそれらを一言も言わない。ただ台湾人司会者の日本ディスりの的になってるだけだ。俺は自分が日本人だから日本がバカにされてばかりなのに腹が立つんじゃない。本音を言わないのに本音ぽく演出してる番組をのさばらせてたら世間が悪い方に向かうだけだからだ。同様の理由で日本のココが変だよも大嫌い。他国人出演者に全然本音言わせてない。右翼的な奴らに全出演者が後ろから刺されるくらいの事を言わせてなきゃ本音を語らせた事にならない。それができないなら初めから本音を装った番組なんか作ってんじゃねーよと。所詮ホームチーム有利な場でしかない、ビジターはホームチームを喜ばせる調味料でしかない。
日本は言語も民族も思想もほぼ一つしかない点が重症化しやすい、客観性を持ちにくい。日本は大和民族しかいないからーとか島国だからーとか言われがちな時点で間違ってる、客観性をもててない証拠。正しくは島内の異民族を同化しきったり、たまたま島内が統一されてるってだけの事。イギリスでもフィリピンでも島内にいくつかの言語とアイデンティティもあるし同化を良しとしない集団もいる。
近所の知友後年と雑談する機会があって、サウジで働いてたって人がいたからおばちゃんが「治安悪くなかったの?」と聞いた。どんだけアメリカの洗脳どっぷりなんだよと。20年前までなら仕方ないけど今どきどの家にだってスマホかPCくらいある。他国の実態は調べようともしないで、国内どこも似たり寄ったりの近所の花火大会の話ばかりに夢中になってる。北朝鮮が世界のほとんどの国と国交ある事も知らないまま死ぬんだろう。無知なまま死ぬのは勝手だが周囲に日本の恥晒すな。
@@meroppa1
知らないから仕方ないのでは。
何故そんなに怒ってるの。精神的に不安定に見えるよ。
@ meroppa1
長すぎ
誰が見んだよ
meroppa1 要約すると客観的に見て判断しろよってことかな？
meroppa1
どうでもいいところだと思いますが、気になるので確認させてください。
あなたは国籍を選べる立場にあったのですか？
失礼ながら、文章読む限り、どこか辿々しいところがあったのと、留めるなんちゃらとあったので、文脈的に台湾とのダブルなのかなと。
余計なお世話ですが、短い文章なのに改行が少なかったりして、長く感じたり、見辛くなってるようです。段落を意識した方が良いかと。
Must be so hard :( she’s totally Japanese but she’s called a foreigner because of how she looks. Would totally mess with your psyche.
But she is not totally Japanese. She is a Japanese citizen, but she has no Japanese heritage, features, etc.
@@Wlof25 I think they mean in Kyla's mannerisms and how she acts and thinks. Another comment mentioned how her mouth barely moves as she speaks Japanese, this is a subtle trait of native Japanese people (or at least, from what I learned from those comments). She also mentions how she feels out of place in other countries like the U.S. despite being able to physically blend in more because the American mindset is culturally very different from Japan. They didn't mean she is literally Japanese by blood, but culturally they are brought up as Japanese.
Edit: Just realized I misread the order of your words, I read it as "But she is totally not Japanese". Sorry if I come off as defensive.
@@Wlof25 Also, just to note, foreigners with no Japanese ancestry, regardless of being born and raised in Japan, are not citizens. Foreigners can never be citizens. Japanese citizenship is given by blood, so that also contributes to the fact that Japan, with a historically homogenous society, will never see her as one of them on a surface level perspective.
Welcome to the life of an Asian in western countries.
Cafelogis I know that is what angers me about this situation. People love to complain about the US like it is the only country it happens in. Lots of people have this problem. It just makes me so sad, but it’s something we as societies and people have to fix to make the transitions easier for foreigners. It takes a lot for people to move another country, and that mindset only makes the move so much harder.
私はフランス在住の日本人ですが、バスの中で一人のお爺さんに「出てけー！アジア人！」って目の前で叫ばれたのはさすがに忘れられない思い出です。
私もフランス在住です。石投げられたり、差別用語を言われたことは何回もありますが、フランス人を一括りにして差別的とは思わないです。もちろんそれは教育などのバックグラウンドにもよりますしね。
アジア人なんて違うように扱われて当然だと思ってます。ウエイターを呼んでも全然来ないとか、そんなことで一々差別的だの何だの言ってたらフランスでは生きていけませんよね笑 だからカイラさん甘いなって思うんです。
かなりハードですね ドイツ在住ですけど
Japan expo in Parisが開催されているのに？？
@@littlebigleonz
Japan expo in Parisが開催されているのに？？
@@kirishitan japan expo はオタクとナードが集まる祭りですからね。そのような人たちは日本人に対して好意的です。
少数の人たちがアジア人を軽視してるだけですよ。
When Kyla said 故郷ってなんだろう (I wonder what a “hometown” is), although she was smiling, it made me really sad because that’s probably what most “non-Japanese looking” Japanese people feel like living here.
Lily Fields or anyone living in a country where they’re not the racial majority
yes, I know what you mean, I hope Kyla can find that feeling of belonging in Japan one day. I think it's tough for Japan because they just don't have the numbers, the demographics are so highly homogenized... but maybe more Japanese people who look like Kyla will be born in the coming years and help even things out
It's so sad that she doesn't know what hometown is, when she clearly has a hometown (Nagoya) and a home country (Japan). It's almost like the prejudiced Japanese people she encountered have been gaslighting her all her life. Not cool. Also the government needs to grant people like her a Japanese citizenship. She really has no other place to call home.
Lala I think she does have a Japanese citizenship, does she not? She technically isn’t a foreigner. But yes, japan needs to be more open about granting foreigners citizenship, I think
Edward Tay whether it should or shouldn’t is up for debate, but we can’t ignore the reality that there are “foreigners” and non-Japanese Japanese citizens living here and just pretend as if they don’t exist or treat them with a any disrespect, no matter how much you believe they don’t belong here.
When she asks her to read a word for her in Japanese she doesn’t know. Cool moment
Brujx 4U 1:45
That was cool. 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Yeah I thought that was pretty interesting!
漢字読めないからの故郷。の流れすごい好き
わかります。軽い会話ですけど、すごく奥が深いっていうか、、
i’m half chinese half white (raised in america, both my parents are american so i only speak english) and i went to china for the first time recently. it was weird because in america everyone only views me as chinese but in china everyone only views me as white lol. being biracial is weird because you’re sort of an outsider on both sides
same 😭 it never stops being weird...
I always feel bad for my Asian American friends visiting China. I live and work here. It is really the twilight zone for them.
This is the exact same for my friend who is half black, half white. In Canada, she's seen as black. In Africa, she's seen as white.
Exactly like what am I supposed to be then?
Agree.
Wherever you go they’d still ask what country you’re from.
I found a lot of Japanese filipino friends in japan We felt that sense of belongingness we never felt before.
Even if we barely understand each other sometimes, for being raised in different regions with different dialect in the philippines and for some being raised in Japan. We’re a part of both worlds.
日本の差別って人→人の差別も多少はあるけど
行政機関などの対応が未だ遅れてるっていう根深い点がねえ
両親とも日本で仕事していて身元保証人としても十分なのにもかかわらず
外国人の名前というだけで撥ねられてしまうのは残念でならないです
全く同じ境遇でした
社会人に出て一人暮らしするのに、まさか友人を保証人としてアパートを借りることになるとは・・・
ほんとその通りですねぇ…
これは国民一人一人が変える努力をしていかなければと思います
彼ら彼女らのを居場所をうばってはだめだと思う日本語話せるそれだけで充分やないか日本国民
@@user-zf5yi8fd3o 所詮欧米なんて偽善国家だから。
@@speedbird006 By your logic so is Japan. Americans generally acknowledge that America has issues with racism. If your response is to say Americans are hypocrites when the racism in Japan is brought to light and to blame other people instead of owning the fact that your country treats minorities like shit then you are the hypocrite. We'll focus on fixing our country and you need to focus on fixing yours.
I can’t imagine living in a homogeneous country and standing out like that. I feel so bad for her :((
Macheeny ? The only thing I can compare it to is going to a predominantly white school while being a person of color. Even that isn’t great to experience now on a larger scale it must have been very difficult
I'm a person of color in China and I don't even know how to articulately describe the experience over here.
Easy being black in America 🙃
loooooool she is white not black, they love white people in countries like japan I'm very sure she's treated well over there, I've been to japan and have experienced the difference myself. There is nothing to feel sorry about.
@@Selahhhhhhhhhhh same. Poc in thailand ;-; there's nothing to compare it with.
Kyla: "People refuse to give my family business at banks and I can't find landlords who will rent to me because of my race."
Mayu: "Oh yeah I totally understand, one time some people thought I was Chinese, not Japanese."
:/
Exactly what I thought, it's not the same at all.
I know. Not to belittle her or anything, but it's an understandable mistake...
Same thing happens to me when I explain people calling the cops on me for looking 'suspicious' and people will respond with well I was called "Cracker" once
Yeah cause being thought of as chinese is the greatest insult *rolls eyes*
Chinese people are probably the ones getting discriminated the most in Japan so it is quite valid
すっごくわかる。生まれも育ちも日本だけど見た目外国人。外国に行くと日本すごく恋しいけど故郷とは言えない。カイラさんの気持ち痛いくらいわかる。
よくあなたの和訳動画見てます！
いつか故郷と呼べる日本になれるといいな。
このコメントが一番胸に突き刺さったかも
考えさせられるね
CHOCOMINT チョコミントさんの和訳にいつも助けられてます
いやそれ故郷やから。堂々と。むしろルーツの国住んだら文化や価値観の違いでマイナス面も大きく感じるはず
カイラさんの話に共感できるところが沢山ありました。
私は日本生まれ日本育ちで普通の日本語の学校に通ってきたハーフですが、顔立ちと髪が西洋人っぽいので喋りだす前はほとんど「ガイジン」だと思われます。
小学校では「髪の毛がうんこ色」と言われ、中高では廊下を歩くと他の生徒に「あ、ガイジンだ！」「ハロ〜〜(言い方に悪意)」「雑種」などと言われ、複数の先生にも「ガイジン」と呼ばれました。
また、大学一年生の時、銀行口座を作りに行ったら、外国人だと疑われ「母はアメリカ人ですが私は日本国籍です。」と言っても、なかなか口座を作ってもらえませんでした。日本生まれ日本育ちで、一回もアメリカに渡ったことがなかったのに、「アメリカに家を持ちながら日本で口座を作成するのは違法ですよ！刑務所に行きますよ！」と理不尽な説教を長々聞かされました。私は、こうやって長々と確認するのが法律上仕方ない事だと思い、怒りを覚えつつも、「色々すみませんでした」と自分から謝って、出ていきました(口座は作れました)。
故郷が日本、友達もみんな日本人、そして自分も日本国籍でありながら、周りからは「ガイジン」としか見られることがないのは、とても悲しいことです。私は、少しでも周りの日本人から距離を置かれないために、髪を黒に染め、服や化粧を日本風にし、出来るだけ作法や話し方を「一般的な日本人」に近づけようとしています。今では逆に英語話してるところを聞かれると驚かれます笑。
しかし、高校から必死に国語の勉強をしているのに関わらず、自分の日本語が不自由・不自然に感じ、強いコンプレックスを持っています。このコンプレックスが一生懸命勉強することのモチベーションになった一方、どれだけ勉強しても自分がほとんどの人にとって「ガイジン」としか見られない現実は、時に苦くて辛いものです…
自分もインド系で今高2。
一応英語圏ではあるけど、あんま喋れんのに、英語で話しかけられることもたまーに。生まれはあっちだけど、一歳から育ちはこっちなんだよね。たまーに帰ったりはするけど。
そもそも日本にいるんだから、外国育ちだとしても日本語で話しかけろよ、って思うけどね。
あと、髪は元の色でいいと思うよ。もし、自分が気に入ってるんだったら、黒でもいいと思うけど。
辛辣なこと言うけど、どれだけつらつらと綴っても、相手は全く知らない
でも日本人も海外ではおんなじように扱われるから仕方がない
@@user-tg6jp9fj2t 差別・偏見・いじめに対して諦めるかどうかとどう憤っているかは全然別の話だろ
俺はただの日本人だけど田舎に生まれ育って、母は地元の田舎者、父は都会人だったから、父の影響で田舎社会に馴染めなかった。虐められた理由は他にもあるけど、都会では(世界的には)白いと言われてるものを現地で正直に白いと言うと、それを黒だと思いこんでいる現地世間に非難される不毛さ、閉鎖性がたまらなく嫌だった。動画の出演者は山形育ちと言ってるけど俺なんか比べものにならないくらい色んな意味でストレスばかりの生活送ってただろう。俺ならたぶん自殺してる。他国視点もあり日本の都会視点も持っているのに土人みたいな社会に下に見られる。そのはがゆさが何となく分かる。俺は子供の頃のトラウマのせいか大人になって他国に住んでみたりもしたし、いまだに故郷が大嫌い。ただ数年に一度帰郷した時に現地人の気質がどれくらい変わったか感じる機会があり、今の現地の子供は俺が子供だったときに比べてそこまで閉鎖的じゃないのを感じられて、おそらく今は昔より虐めが酷くないと想像できて良かったなと思った。工場が多いのでブラジル人街化した事もあるけど、ブラジル人比率が日本一高かったであろう浜松でも当時の現地私鉄の駅にはアルファベットでの説明もろくに書かれてなかったくらいだから、俺の故郷のブラジル人はもっと生活しにくい環境にいた筈で、子供は当然虐められてただろう。サッカーはうまかったかもしれないがマラドーナとか日本人が安易に想像できる選手名を適当にあだ名にしたりしてただろう。本人にとっちゃ自分は自分なんだから自分の名前そのままを読んでもらえる事が一番の称賛なのに。
どの国、民族、集団だって虐めも差別もあるけど、少なくとも同族同士で虐めがある集団が異集団を虐めないわけがない。それに無自覚な日本社会が大嫌い。という事を言うと嫌なら日本から出てけとかいう奴がもっと嫌い。この国はお前が作ったのかと。ただなんとなく日本に生まれてなんとなく日本人としての思想を刷り込まれて、なんとなく生きてるうちに閉鎖的思想が身について他国に関心持たない感覚になって、なんとなく日本という国名に個人エゴを投影してるだけだろと。それのどこが他人に指図できるほど偉い事なのかと。日本が嫌なら日本人だろうが出ていけ、異民族差別を正す気などないというなら、日本人が他国で虐められてても抗議する筋合いは一切無い。そんな事してたらどうなるのか。留学できなくなって他国文化を学べない、鎖国時代に逆戻りだ。世界に300万人いる日系人の祖先が棄民政策に応じてなかったら日本本土人は飢えてお前だって生まれてなかったかもしれないのに。
She’s not foreign. She’s Japanese. She was born there and her mannerisms are Japanese. Just because she has Caucasian genes shouldn’t make her ‘foreign’. Not feeling at home in the country you were born in is so very sad.
They don't think that way in Japan. In that culture, she is not considered Japanese.
Its a racial distinction to the Japanese not a national one like in America or Australia.
Shes not Japanese because she is a US citizen.
Vanessa Alexandra you can’t get Japanese citizenship if your father isn’t Japanese.
@@reginabadiee4134 sure you can. That is the old law which was changed in 1985. Now, either parent can pass on citizenship.
人間ってややこしい世界をつくったよね
ややこしいけど生きやすいよね。多分学校のクラスで派閥を作るのと一緒だと思う。
何で純血で日本語もある程度流暢に話せているのに日本国籍を維持出来ず、ハーフの大坂直美が日本語も話すことが出来ないのに二重国籍を維持出来ているんや。テニスが上手いかどうか関係なく、このフランス生まれの二世に大坂直美の日本国籍をあげるべきやと思う。彼女は充分日本語も勉強して日本人らしく日本で生活する努力をしています。大坂直美は記者会見ででも英語で話しますと偉そうに主張しているので、彼女がいくらテニスが上手ででも日本国籍を維持する資格はないと狡いと思います。
言語と国を一つに統一してしまえば、誤解や争いが無くなるのに。と考えたけど、まずその一つをどの言葉と国にするかで争いが起こるw
ラベルの塔やね
そもそもの隔絶された別々の世界に土着してた人々を混ぜこぜにしようと頑張るのが無理してるわ。
これ言っちゃうと元も子もないんだけどね。
I identify with both of you so much! Half of my blood is japanese and the other half is Peruvian, although i have lived my whole life in Peru I always get called "chinese" wherever I go (I guess I look more asian than latin american). When I first visited Japan, I am not seen as Japanese but as a foreigner. The racism is true but luckily new generations are more open about it. Kyla, if you ever get to read this, I assure you that being born in Japan and being raised there is more than enough for you to consider yourself Japanese, no matter how you look. You can even think of yourself as a first generation Japanese! And with American roots, that's amazing! I'm third generation (my grandparents were born in Okinawa and then immigrated) but I still think that I can be as Peruvian as Okinawan. Identity is hard when you have foreign roots, but eventually you find a group of people that have very similar experiences and form your own culture. Good luck at everything!
I am a Peruvian living in South Korea 😊 next year it be will five years living in this country!
Vietnamese/American here (both my parents are mix as well, my mom is Vietnamese/Thai. My dad on the other hand is Uk/Us). Yup I feel like I don’t belong to any countries of my mix, and certainly being raise in Cyprus (another eu country 😅) doesn’t help either. Constantly people would ask me where I’m from no matter where am I, even when I travel to the list of the countries above that suppose to be my country as well. Growing up I really hate this question, now I just completely avoid it.
Naomi, as a 50-year-old man, I do love your very positive attitude. You have a bright spirit. It seems like you already experienced what life is and learned from that. All the best to you.
@@RottenfruitQueen lol I'm a German Russian mix. I've encountered racism, anti Russian propaganda (born and raised in western Germany) and the full load of political BS on me. I'm living between two countries, two worlds that have been on polar opposite sides and enemies for decades. I couldn't stay in history class without an argument, hearing all the time what bloody monsters we are. On the other hand the Russians never truly accepted me as member and holder of their language and culture. So you can both consider yourself fairly lucky.
Major _263 oh man I can imagine. I’m not saying I’m unlucky or something, just feel like I don’t belong here. Must been tough dealing with it, but people can’t tell by your look right? Western kinda look the same so I can see it’s not a race problem
Buzzfeed Japan: here is an interesting and educational video about being a foreigner in different countries!
Buzzfeed America: WE PAINT WITH OUR OWN PERIOD BLOOD!
Buzzfeed USA used to have a lot of cool social justice & info-themed videos. I think Eugene Yang did quite a few
lolll
Wtf! 😆😂😆🤣😭
“Japan is so weeiirrrd!”
Fuck you whatever !
When even the title calls the Japanese girl "foreigner"...
They say foreigner as in not of japanese nationality. She's raised japanese but can't have the nationality because at least one of your parents has to be japanese by ethnicity. It's really sad
@@randomalienfrommars0567 Oh I see... Yes it is
RandomAlienFromMars 0 Sis i think u mean ethnicity. Nationality means where you were born, she said she was born in Japan. Her nationality is Japanese but her ethnicity isnt.
Marjona Khalimova no even in her nationality is not Japanese because in Japan you can’t have Japanese citizenships unless one of your parents are Japanese and you have Japanese blood
Edit: most of the time... people can apply for citizenship but it’s very unlikely and very difficult
@@randomalienfrommars0567 how is that sad?
カイラさん、日本に生まれ育って綺麗な日本語で経験を包み隠さず語ってくれてありがとう。
勉強になりました。
できれば日本で幸せに生きてほしいな。
綺麗な日本語っていうより、柔らかい言い方って感じかな
方言使う人の前で標準語を｢綺麗な日本語｣って言う人いるよね
@@user-bj5xx7lk2h たまに東京の人が方言や訛りのある日本人に対して"その訛り直したら?"とか言ってるの聞くけどどんな面してそんな事言えるのか本当理解に苦しむ...
ってか標準語もただ政府が公認した日本語なだけであって東京訛りでしかないしね
方言や訛りが無くなるのは文化が無くなるのと同じ
私も「綺麗な日本語で」というコメントが気になった。聞いている限り綺麗でも汚くもない普通の日本語だと思うので、これが「外国人として綺麗な日本語」という意味であれば差別的な発言に取られるでしょう。私は海外が日本より長くずっとアメリカで学校・就職・結婚という感じですが、英語はできて当たり前なのにたまに知らない人に「あなた英語上手ね」と言われるとすごくイラッときます。
e3ece 私の感覚では「あなた英語上手いね」って皮肉でワザと言ってますね。笑笑
日本では英会話の先生にそういう事を言う学生が多い事ことを考えれば、日本の差別意識のない差別的な行動の面も見えてきますね。
なんか日本で生まれ育ったのに見た目が違うだけで、故郷って思うかの問いに、うーんってなっちゃうのすごい問題あると思う。結局差別があるのにみんな目を向けようとしない。本当は何が差別かわかっていない。
日本は島国単一民族なので、見た目が違うだけで外国人扱いしてしまうんですよね。
私は郵便局で働いてた時、外国人と思われるお客様にも第一声は必ず日本語にしてました。日本語が話せるかも知れないし話したいかも知れないし、日本で生まれ育ってるかも知れないし。
でも英語で喋り始めるような局員もいるんですよねぇ。私が第一声日本語にしたら、勿論英語しか話せないお客様の確率は高い訳で、キョトンとされたら、別の局員が横から英語で入ってくる。
いやいや貴方よりは話せますから大丈夫ですよって思ってたな(^^
ただ完全に見た目が日本人で英語しか話せない方が見えた時には、頭が混乱して相手の英語が全く入って来なかったですね。
やはり見た目で判断してしまう部分はあるようです。
厳密には単一民族ではありませんが。をつけ忘れたので追記します。
le blanc
知らずに差別してることある。潜在意識。この動画でカイラの話を聞けたのはとてもいい機会でした。
almahsuki 第一声を日本語にするっていうのは良いことだと思いますけど、2019年にもなって日本が単一民族国家だって思ってるのは恥ずかしいですよ。もうちょっと勉強しましょう。
私はふるさとが自国、地元が日本と言ってます。どちらにも愛がありますし、どちらにいても違和感はあります。
@@kiy2347
あぁまあ厳密に言うとそうですね…
カイラちゃんは大変だったんだなぁ…田舎は外国人にとったら、好奇な目で見られちゃうかもね。
まだまだ日本は鎖国島国よ。
田舎で外国人って良くも悪くもめちゃ目立つからね
田舎はというか、そこの地域が問題だっただけかもな。
私もくそド田舎に居たけど、そこに外国人の男の子が留学で来てたんだけど、めっちゃ人気で友達いっぱい居たよ。
故郷を教えてあげるところおもろい笑
The one in Japan had to face much more discrimination according to me. As there are not many gaijins in Japan. But France isn't like that.
the comment right above yours said that when he was on a bus in France, an old guy shouted to him something like "Get out, you asian!"
and right after reading that I moved to your comment. I know that not all French people are like that, but I just had to laugh at the contrast of the comment XD
@Akira Yes, I very much understand what you mean. I've never meant to say "hey it happens everywhere, no big deal". I was just pointing out why this comment had to be below that bus comment of all the comments out there, and it happened to be quite funny to me.
I don't know how those institutions work, but in my experience, in the small town that I lived in I did not experience such racism, thus I stand by my opinion that racism came from individuals. well it'd be a lie if I said there was no racism at all. people stared at me a lot, but every time that happened I'd just "konnichiwa" them XD
But still, I was just an exchange student when I was in Japan, so maybe I've mostly only got a taste of Japan's fun moments, making my situation is completely different than hers. so I see your point! thank you for reminding me!
Jasleen Kalra also France are open to Blacks, Arabs or people of Islamic religion but they are racist to Oriental asians
Akira something a hypocrite would say. Asians in America and Canada would rather choose to be accepted as foreigners than get bullied or treat unfairly and BTW call someone a ch*nk 30 times and let them punch your mouth 30 times maybe you'll learn that beating someone for being asian or black is more painful than calling someone a gaijin
CLOVERloverFLOVER same thoughts lol these people be woke asf about Asians calling a white person as gaijin in Japan which is not a land of diversity but will turn blind when a bunch of men attacks Asians especially asian females in places like America or what they called *Land of Diversity*
漢字がわからないところがすごく新鮮だった
なんかいいな
Aw man, it was so sad when Kyla starts talking about how she doesn't feel at home anywhere.
やはりカイラさん、日本で育ってるだけあって、言語以前に話し方とか声のトーンがめっちゃ日本人
I wish that my family had held onto their Japanese traditions more than they did... I'm 5th gen Japanese-American and wish I could speak Japanese more confidentlity
大丈夫。今からでも遅くないですよ。
I dont understand why Americans who arent white always like to have a prefix before American... Eg. Chinese-American, African American....
It is a thing to call white people who move there with a prefix too, like Australian-American or German-American? Or are you like automatically considered to be 'fully' American....
What is your opinion on this, a random question but I havent heard of people from anywhere else doing it before
Ani de la Rev It comes at a risk of being marginalized, but in this era of globalization and loss of culture it's very important to hold onto that
Chloe Jayde it’s a thing in other communities too! I’m Polish and I know children of Polish immigrants would also be called ”Polish American”. It’s an ancestry group to which you are related depending on your ancestry
Your family's ancestry came from a time when Japanese used to immigrate during the early 20th century pre-WWII era and I feel sympathy for your ancestors when they were in an interment camp
it's really interesting that even from their demeanor u can understand which country they were raised in
Mayu is very much a French girl.
@@Laladust what makes her a French girl? I don't really know what French people are like
python python The hairstyle, posture and elegant way of sitting felt very french to me
That's half true. You wouldn't guess, though, that the one girl was necessarily brought up in France.
こういう人を知ると特に悪いことをしてなくても反省するし、日本で生まれて日本を故郷と言いたい人を日本人として受け入れることを進めたい
how is she a foreigner... if she was BORN and RAISED in Japan.... I am confusion.
Brooklyn Love It’s not like USA where citizenship and nationality of an American is granted when you are born in the country. There are only two countries like that, and rest of the world including Japan does not adopt that system. Therefore she is not Japanese.
if she can't blend in, she's a foreigner
@@tetsuyauezato5536 she has no problem interating. Society's racism is the problem.
Tiffany Zette it’s just seems a little crude is all. I could only imagine how ostracized she must feel from her own people. 🤷🏾♀️
tetsuya uezato that’s a little rude, you think?
カイラさんの仕草や話し方からもの凄く日本人性を感じる
何で子どもの頃って自分と他人との違いを受け入れられないんだろうね
This was really sad, they both struggled with their identity growing up and I can’t imagine how much pain it has caused them both to never be able to feel at home in the place they grew up :( especially Kyla who wasn’t even allowed to speak Japanese at home despite going to a Japanese school and being the only “foreigner”....the definition of “foreigner” is so different to each person but to me a foreigner is someone who does not belong to that culture. If she grew up with that culture, to me, she should be considered Japanese but the people of japan don’t see it that way :( I’m American and many (not all unfortunately) Americans think of Americans as people born and/or raised in America. I have an even looser definition, where people who live in America and see it as their home are also Americans regardless of where they were born or raised. I hope we can all become more open minded and see that just because someone’s nationality may be different they can still be a native to the country they were born and/or raised in regardless of that.
eems is here Thank you for your reply! You made a good point about retaining the home culture in the home despite living in another country. I think it’s hard for me to understand other countries’ point of views on what makes someone a native because of my American upbringing. I was raised with the idea that absolutely anyone can be American so to me it just seems unfair that other countries don’t feel the same even if they have totally different backgrounds and circumstances. My point of view on that doesn’t necessarily mean it’s true or correct I just mean I think it’s hard for me personally to think of it a different way because of that.
tbh i really relate to this videos in ways, being asian in the midwest. the vast majority is white people, with asians being a tiny percentage. i never really felt like i ‘fit’ subconsciously, even as someone with friends and a place in school, until i went to asia for a month and BAM. i felt like i fit- everyone looked like me and suddenly i didn’t feel like i was being judged for the way i like. regardless if people admit it or not, when you’re asian in a predominantly white society, people tend to put expectations on you, like “oh she should be smart” or “oh she should do this” (not blatantly, but it’s there) but in asia i felt like i could be whoever i wanted freely- even if i didn’t speak the language. in a sense, it’s like i’m a foreigner in my ‘native’ country. sorry this got a bit long, i have a lot of emotions on this.
Trust me this is a rare case of a white person in Japan or Asia in general getting mistreated and experiencing racism like a minority would in a western country.
It's not that she wasn't allowed to speak Japanese at home, it's that they want Ed her to learn English at home because she got the Japanese everywhere else.
whatwhatwhat Its always saddening to see, don’t bring white privileged into this. :(
カナダ人で今６歳の息子を日本で育ている最中。家庭内言語は英語だけど楽しくやっている。大変参考になった。
貴方たちのような方々いて、それが増えてきて、声をだして腰を上げて、こうやって動画なりなんなりで訴えて行くことは絶対に大事。
すごく嫌な面にも合うかもしれないけれど、多くの人はこーゆーのをわからないから。知らないから。
日本は遅れてる。でもこうして知るチャンスをくれるのとてもありがたい。
男女差別も同性愛も昔より理解する人が増えてきてるのは間違いない。本当に良い時代になってきてるのは間違いないです。頑張って。
日本は遅れてるって？逆にもうマルチカルチャー、多様性という国家観は遅れてるよ。日本は数百年以上前から同性愛にはオープンだし。葉隠読めば分かるよ。
This is really interesting, as their mannerisms presented here make perfect sense for their upbringing, but is still the opposite of what I'm accustomed to seeing in media.
Dang, I really just felt moved by a Buzzfeed video. Well played, you sons of guns
Yeah, it's not everyday that I'm impressed by Buzzfeed.
Same!
It's very east to watch because these ladies have not been tainted by an American college attitude. They are humble and mature beyond their ages.
@@cedricbethea358 that's incredibly true
They labeled the girl on the right “foreigner”. Well played, indeed
Coming from a place like Australia, almost everyone I know has immigrated from somewhere and are considered Australian. It is actually shocking to hear of this kind of discrimination😔. Everyone deserves to feel accepted, especially in the only country you have ever known.
Love you Australian people ❤❤
Asian countries are way more homogeneous with far fewer immigrants than "Western" countries. I'm not saying it is fair or right that she isn't accepted, but I think it makes sense based on the country.
Anshul Raman true
Don't be naïve. You know how many Aborigines are discriminated against in Australia bc of their skin color? A LOT. And they were there first before James Cook showed up. Discrimination and seclusion exists everywhere and I suggest you read about it. And it will exist forever bc instinctively humans are imperfect and fearful of difference. But where there is fear there is also courage; younger generations are more global than their parents and grandparents. Japan isn't hopeless. It's slow but it's changing.
I've seen a lot of racism in Australia actually. I think the majority of people are accepting, but there's the hateful bunch that don't want people to immigrate, and aren't accepting of those from other religions and races. The liberal government (conservative party in Australia) hates immigration and also doesn't give the proper respect to indigenous cultures. It's a lot worse elsewhere, but we're not perfect either.
す、すごい笑
見た目と全く逆な中身で面白い笑
「すごい笑」じゃないころすぞ
これがふつうなんだよ
カイラが言っていたのは日本人にとって耳の痛い話。それは差別じゃないみたいな意見がこういう時出てくるけど、受け取った方がそう感じたらそうなんだよね。
自分含めて皆が意識してないと変わっていかないよなぁ。いい動画ありがとうございます。
pontaさん、ええこといいはるな。わい、久々胸打たれたで
外国人に慣れていない島国の日本では100年たっても差別はなくならないでしょうね。外国人は当然のこと、日本人の中でさえ異質な人はイジメのターゲットになったり、生きづらい国だから。
見た目で国籍がわからない時代になってきていて、今は過渡期なので問題は山積み、以前の価値観の人も山程いる。
それはこの国の成り立ちから見ても、生き物としても仕方がない。
でももう、仕方がないで目を瞑る時代でも無くなっているので、皆で少しずつでも意識を変えて行けたらいいでしょうね。
@@user-gz7tn3it2j そうですね、古来から外国人（移民）が多いはずの欧州でも人種差別は未だにあるので、殆どが単一民族国家である日本人にはもっと難しいかもしれませんね。
異質な人がいじめにあうのも、生きづらいのもどの国でも同じですよ。
日本だから無くならないと匙を投げてもどうにもなりません。100年前と比べて下さい色んな価値観がめちゃくちゃ変わってます。
色んな価値観が変わっている過渡期です。完璧を求めても絶対に無理です。
今を生きて、これからを生きていく人達を信じましょうよ。絶対によくなります。
@@user-uu4ny1nn8o 私は100年前にはまだ生まれていませんから、その時代の価値観などわかるわけがありません。完璧を求める!？ははは。むしろ期待していないのですよ。
私は自分の考えを誰かに押し付ける気はないですし、未来を信じたいと思っている人はお好きなように信じたらいいと思っています。
とてもいい企画だった
発信していく事が大事だ！！
ありがとうございます！by mayu
Fabulous interview! Loved hearing their perspectives. I just wish it was longer!
Really enjoyable and enlightening at the same time. Thanks for posting !
最近UA-camの「あなたへのおすすめ」が有能すぎる。
素晴らしい動画をありがとう
ありがとうございます。次の動画も楽しみにしてください！by mayu
海外に住んでいた際に、差別される側の経験をしたせいか、帰国後テレビで"外国人"が出ている番組を見ると、彼らへの無自覚な差別感情に対して敏感になってしまい、昔だったら何も考えずに笑っていたことも、なんだか悔しかったり悲しかったりして見れなくなりました。また自分に対して言われたものでなくても、「かわいそう」とか「何言ってるかわからない」とか「変なの」といった言葉を聞く度に、自分に言われている気がして心がキューっと縮まる気がします。
でも、私は変じゃないし、ちゃんと人間の言葉を話しているし、かわいそうでもない！とちゃんと自分に伝えてあげています。私は私が大好きです。
こういう人の痛みに寄り添う番組はありがたいです。私のために作ってくれたのかな、、、？なんて思ってしまうくらい🤣🤣この世の全員とこの痛みを分かち合える訳ではないし💔
とと
民放はやめてオンライン動画見よう
テレビの外国人がなんたらかんたらとかマジホントやめてほしい……
なんか日本は外国人が日本に来てることとか興味を持ったこととかを追求したがるけど、海外はそんな日本人に追求しないんだよね、、あら！来てるのね！くらいの軽さというか。不特定多数の人に見られる番組から変えていかなきゃね
母国の世界しか見てない視界の狭い人間なんて無視してしまえー！
this video hit me right in the heart :(( I was raised in Japan and I truly feel like it’s my home, but I was always the foreign kid and never seen the way that I felt. I’ve been in the US for years now but my heart will always want to go back. I’m worried about the possibility of not be able to immerse myself because of the perception of being a “foreigner”. But this was a great video, it really spoke to some of my deeper fears and hopes.
I feel your sentiment... I'm half Japanese half black, born and raised.for the first part of my.life in Japan, on Japanese birth registry so am “Japanese”. Other than my relatives, I look foreign so def get some weird treatment in Japan. In America, I just look “exotic” i guess and ppl compliment my looks, but I am sensitive to racism issues since it affects so many ppl in a significant way. Im thankful that I came of age in America because being a different nationality is much more normalized in most areas. In Japan though, I ignore it as much as possible and am thankful that some societal rules wont apply since I am “foreigner.” I went back to Japan last month and there are so many more foreigners in Tokyo, but the countryside is still the same.
Although I've only been living in Japan for 5 years now (so, adult-age), I really hope that you give yourself a chance to return. I'm not sure where your hometown is, but I've felt a huge difference in how both foreigners and born-to-foreign-parents people are treated depending on the region or city. Nagoya has been the absolute worst, whereas Osaka has been phenomenal - my friends there never even ask me when I'm coming back to visit, but rather when I'm coming home (to Osaka).
I know that there will always be people who speak immediately to you in English, or who can't quite wrap their minds around your existence (although I only have a couple of friends in your specific situation, they sometimes say that they're half-Japanese, which somehow helps that type of person understand... not great, but not the worst coping technique). But if you miss it, just come back... no life, in any country, is easy and problem-free. I hope this little comment gives you a bit of hope! And if you dream of it, I do hope that you'll return.
Sarah Black this was extremely kind of you to say, thank you so much!! I lived in Naha from the age of 1-5 and Kobe until I was 10 (it was definitely more culturally diverse in Kobe with the exception of the military occupation in Okinawa). It makes me so glad to hear you’ve been loving Osaka, I hope you spend many more years exploring and falling in love with Japan!
Spam Me lmao I never claimed to BE Japanese. People are born and/or raised in other countries, I’m ethnically white and that is obvious and will never change. Please tell me how I’m stealing mannerisms? You know, considering that means you would have to see how I act and not just read a comment I wrote under a video (in English) (using typically American ways of speaking and expressing myself). And finally: I’m not stealing culture, it’s just the place I was raised. It’s really not that deep lol
The thing about looking like someone but not relating to the way they think and as a result wondering where home is. That hit way too close to home
I don't think there was a "home" to hit, so it's still circling up there
二人とも十代にしか見えないんだけどアラサー！？
動画見てなさそう
私も動画全部見たけど、最初10代に見えるくらい若いなぁと思ってたらアラサーでびっくりした。
綺麗だよねぇ…。
アラサーって、30歳以上だと思ってましたが…
この人たちって20代後半ですよね
I loved watching this so much! As an American who lived in Japan many years and will be moving back soon, I can definitely see that most Japanese people still struggle with accepting people of foreign heritage as one of them, but I do think it is changing and will only get better with time. As more people talk about this issue, and the world has more multicultural families, this will change. Thank you both for this and for paving the way towards a new way of thinking.
Kacie Boyden Yes it will change!
I can understand where that rejection is coming from. I mean, foreigners are literally outsiders, who wouldnt feel uncomfortable if a stranger invaded your place.
@@lolitzvelda invasion? Outsider? Wtf. Every person needs to be respected, no matter which culture. I love foreigners coming to visit my country out of interest
She Isn’t Japanese and cant become one from Magic Dirt.
Velda F Jesus Christ I hope u never had to travel or settle in a different country with that bad attitude like that 😒
外国で生まれ育った日本人としてめちゃめちゃ同感します！小さい頃はお弁当を珍しがられて、恥ずかしくて学校では食べないようにしてました。最近は世界がどんどん繋がってきて若い子達がもっといろんな人種の人にオープンになって来てることに嬉しいです。文化をまたいで育つと特別な世界観を得ます。アイデンティティやそれぞれの文化の価値観の違いを小さい時からすごく意識させられるので、子どもの頃から間を上手くナビゲートするのが大変だったりします。ポジティブな面は両文化の価値観の感覚を掴んでるおかげで、通常の人以降に、どんな文化でも客観的に理解する事ができる気がします。世界中に同じ経験をしてる子が増えてるはずだから、もっともっとこうゆう仲間のストーリーを見たいです。あと、個人的にカイラちゃんのお話しもっと色々聞かせてもらいたいです。
カイラさんは大変な思いをしたんですね😢
カイラは控えた物腰が日本人だね
田舎に住んで差別されてずっと大変だったろうね
差別では無くて区別では無いのですか？？、世界中のどこでも区別はして居るよ。民族と言語が在る以上、どこでも区別は存在する。むしろ無い所はどんなところ？？と聞きたいです。
山形じゃな。
@@68ootani 差別は「偏見に基づいた」区別です。ポイントは区別しているかではなくて、偏見に基づいて違う扱いをしているか、です。例えば５０年代のアメリカの「黒人は別のトイレを使え」、とかそういう事です。外国人の名前を聴いた時点で話も聞かずに電話を切る。これは明らかな差別です。
@@panchert5732 不動産の件については、不動産が契約を渋るぐらい不動産に対する素行が悪い在日外人が多いってこと。その信用を損なったのは他の誰でもなく在日外人本人達。彼女が受けてきた酷い経験を肯定するつもりはないけど、不動産からしたら素行の悪い在日外人が多いから契約を渋ったり警戒するのは当然だし、そうしても無理もない。この件について日本や日本人に文句を言いたい気持ちは分かるけど、根本的な原因を作ったのは彼ら在日外人。文句があるなら日本だけではなく在日外人のイメージを下げた在日外人にも文句を言うべき。
@@user-rw9cu1ij7m その外国人というのは、大人になってから来た正真正銘の外国人ですよね……彼女の場合は、言葉も文化も日本で育ってるわけですから。個別具体的に物事を考えない、『人、個人』で判断しない、脳みそ使ってない思考停止だと思いますよ。入居するのは、現実には実体のある『個人』なわけで、実際には多様でもある『外国人』という漠然とした『不特定多数のイメージ』のようなよく分からないものではないです。
海外に日系人がいるように日本でも○○系日本人って受け入れられるようになって欲しいな
差別はなくなってほしいですが、外国人が移住してくることで犯罪が増えるのが一番怖いです。外国では日本より残虐な事件なんてごまんとあるし。移民を受け入れた国は犯罪率がグッと上がる統計も出てるらしいです、、
うど子 まぁ今の日本は移民いないと成り立ちませんけどね。
人類はアフリカで誕生したんだから日本人は全員アフリカ系移民やで
じゃすみん茶さん 日本人はフレンドリーでピースフルだから大丈夫ですよ。時間が解決してくれると信じてる。海外とは違って差別を反省してきた歴史や文化がないですからね。移民を受け入れてこなかったから、差別するなというのが無理な話なんですよ。経験しないと分からない事って多いですから、急には無理だけど少しずつ広まっていくと思います。
一山田
ずっと（江戸時代の200年だけ）
じゃけんちゃんと日本史勉強しましょうね〜
This was a really sweet vid.
As a fellow third culture kid and second generation immigrant I relate to both sides so much!
Very insightful. Thank you.
I feel bad for both of them however felt more bad for the one on the right. She wanted to be Japanese soo much she straightened her hair to blend it, I'm surprised she didn't also dye it black.
she said her parents were strict; she was not even allowed to watch Japanese TV. it makes sense she didn't dye it black because they probably wouldn't have let her.
@@yuno1415 I wonder why her parents didn't even allow her to speak it
@@lauren-ashleyblack8610 a lot of parents do this when they move to a foreign country because they want their child to speak their native language fluently. they probably wanted her to be fluent in English if she wanted to live in the US. also because the parent may not be fluent in Japanese, it may make communication annoying.
Lauren-Ashley Black Our parents did the same thing. I didn’t understand it then but now I’m thankful because we speak fluent Spanish unlike other Mexican-Americans our age that speak broken Spanish or none at all.
このような動画をずっと待ってました。私の両親は日系ペルー人で国籍もペルーです。日本のルールに伴って子供の国籍は両親の国籍や生まれた場所で決められます。そのため日本生まれ育った私でもペルー国籍です。正直ペルーに馴染みはそんなになく、日本が故郷であり、日本人よりの思考だと思っておりますが、ハーフと同じく血は半分日本人なのに国籍のせいでいつまでも外国人という枠で除外されるのはとても泣きたくなります。
私も全く一緒の境遇でペルー国籍です！
差別されたりいじめもあって内気な性格です。
私は日本生まれ日本育ちですが、喋れる言葉は日本語のみです。英語も流暢ではないのですが少しはなせたり、、
母国語のスペイン語がほぼ喋れないのですが両親の話すスペイン語など聞くのは大丈夫です！
そして質問なんですけどあなたが話せる言葉やまわりはどういった感じで接してこられるのですか？
日本が故郷だと思うなら帰化すればいい。
そして国籍がペルーならペルー人として扱われるのは当然のことです。
@@user-rw9cu1ij7m アホ
I feel like these two understand each other, it’s so nice 🥺
She was speaking from a place of so much pain and hurt. I really hope she has met people who love her for who she is.
BuzzFeed in Japan is something deep, huh?!
You expect Buzzfeed ANYWHERE to be deep?
Deborah Ruth Trotter I didn’t expect it before this video.
I wonder if other Japanese channels are covering similar issues.
Ng Yi-Sheng asian boss is a Chanel I like to watch, they have videos like first Indian Kpop idols etc however Im not sure if I came across any videos referring to japan, possibly a few
Buzzfeed calling the girl with American parents a foreigner while calling the girl with Japanese parents born and raised in France, Japanese. Not so woke as they pretend to be
その国で育ってその国の感性を持ってるのに見た目や名前だけで外国人と認識されちゃうのはほんとに辛いと思う
This was SUPER interesting,especially about what she said about not feeling at home in Japan and then Europe or America.
仕草や話す姿勢がやっぱ出るんやな〜笑
(いい意味)
ぜひ井上ジョー氏も混ぜて話を聞きたかった笑
血統主義ではなく、「国民国家」が大事だと思う。
外見ではなく、日本国民というのが何よりも大事。
日本はその国籍を血統主義に基づいて付与してるけどね。
@@minori5050 外国籍者の国籍取得に血統主義が適用されない仕組みもあり、全てが血統主義ではない。
@@user-xo6vi1ry9h それもそうですね。
生まれ育った国の人柄になることがDNAを超えるのは面白いことだと思う
Thanks for making this video. I’ve never thought of how it would be for people like them! It’s so interesting !
めっちゃくちゃ、興味深い内容だった。第2弾どころかシリーズ化して欲しい。
Some parents who immigrate don't really consider this experience of their children, if the difficulty is worth it.
Exactly!
If they're going to do that, they need to be conscientious in building resilience in their children.
I sympathesize with the parents too. When my parents moved to the U.S they were not even 30 yet but at an age too old to go back to school and learn the english language faithfully. Instead, they had to go work at a factory without speaking the language, faced issues when buying a car, buying a house, etc because they had no idea what any of these things were and the government and help organizations are only willing to do so much for you. Then, they also had kids to raise and money to send back to the relatives across the continents. It was tough for the kids and the adults. I can assure you many of the parents I know experienced at least some form of depression including my mother and it has not gotten any better throughout the years. It still makes me tear up when my dad tells me about his driving experience. When he got taught lessons, his first teacher was not understanding and spoke in english really fast and was racist. My father understood nothing and failed the driving test more than 3 times. Then, the last time he decided to try again, an elderly lady was his instructor. She was more understanding and instead of using words, she pointed to things and demosntrated. She was patient and understanding and through her, he finally passed the road test.
Dee B. That’s true, but sometimes foreign job will pay more, which helps the child in another way
@@obilim2155 It's only worth it if you're literally starving. If it's livable, stay put and try harder. Your country needs you.
I find the comments so funny about the blonde in pink. Like this is how many POC born/grew up in America feel!
二人はとても良い友達になれると思う。
何もカイラさんの事を知らずに駅などで見かけたら、まさか日本人だと思えないのは仕方ないと思います。それで「私日本で生まれ育ってるのに！」と悲しくなるカイラさんの気持ちもよく分かるし、カイラさんと会話した事ない人が彼女を見かけで「外国人だ」と思うのも、やはり理解できる所はあります。お互いが受け入れていく必要があるかな
That's sad, she doesn't feel home anywhere...
この二人良い友達になれそうｗこの二人がまた話してるの見たいな～～
I’d love to watch more of these two girls!
i have never related so much to when the girl asked about how to pronounce the kanji
Yeah how ironic that the "foreigner" taught the ethnically "Japanese" actual Japanese. They really should change the title tho
@@Lzero7 not really she even though born and raised in japan is still considered a foreigner because shes white
@@sunnivaleflair3576 that's just racist. You don't judge a person by their skin colour. You determine their nationality by the place they were born and raised, the language they speak, the education they received. Let them decide themselves where their self (or national) identity belong.
@@sunnivaleflair3576 race and nationality are not the same
@@Lzero7 but thats the reality people say america is "bad" asia is worse
自分は見た目が明らかに日本人じゃない人にも絶対に日本語で話しかける。日本にいるから日本語で話しかけられるのは当たり前だから。まあ通じなかったら英語話すけど笑
ありがとうございます。
あなたのような人が増えるように。
ナイス
That was most informative. Thank you.
差別や偏見がなくなって、個人個人のアイデンティティが尊重される世の中に早くなりますように。
肩身の狭い思いをしなきゃ行けないのはほんとに辛い。
私も日本育ちです。
高校までは自分の外見なんて気にしてなかったし友達もたくさんいました。
ただバイト先でお客さんのおじいちゃんに「外人だろ？なんでここにいるんだ」って言われたことは一生忘れないです。
社会人になってから外見だけで決めつける人が多すぎて疲れます。
でも見た目で第一印象が決まるからしょうがないなとも思います。
でも気にしてなかった外見が今ではすごく気になるようになってしまいました。
でもやっぱり日本にいた方が落ち着くし日本のご飯が好きで日本の空気が好き、友達もいい人ばっかりだし、正直母国の人より日本人の方が好き。
stark Jhon
そうですよね。
その時は泣いたけど
今思うとびっくりですよΣ（ﾟдﾟlll）
直で言えるなんておじいちゃん
元気だったなぁって思います。
KT RN 気にしないでください。どこの国にもそういう人はいます。気にせず無視して人生楽しみましょう😊
春野うらら
ありがとうございます😊
わかります。自分の国にも全然いるので...笑
老人で、しかも田舎とかになると余計ですね。
都内は外国系の方多いし、若い日本人からしたらもう見慣れてるけどおじいちゃん世代はまだ日本人と違う外見の方に慣れてないと思います。
差別というのはどの国もあるので、それ自体は悲しい現実として受け止めるしかないですけど、日本の場合はあからさまだから、より目立つように感じます。日本は国の歴史や文化から言っても内向的な部分があるので、悲しいですがしょうがない部分もある気がします。もちろん体験されているご本人からしてみれば、悲しい現実を突きつけられ、その中で生きる苦しみは想像を絶するものがありますが。ただKT RNさんやカイラさんが感じてくださっている様に素晴らしい国や民族の性質も沢山あって、日本にい続けてくれる方もいらっしゃることが、私としては嬉しいです。
日本も時代が変わりつつあります。きっと近い将来民族の隔たりがもう少し緩和されて、もっとグローバルな国に発展するはずです。
我々のように海外と日本と両方を体験している人達が少しでも発信して、貢献できたら素晴らしい事ですよね。
Wow. Kyla’s experience is so different than mine. We lived in the country, too, and everyone in our little town knew us and welcomed us. Our best friends lived next door. Shop owners would give us treats. We were offered warmth and friendliness wherever we went. I never felt like a foreigner until we moved back to the USA.
This is so interesting, thank you for sharing your experience. Certainly isn’t easy to feel discriminated for any reason. Great to both of you for overcoming it.
お二人のされた経験をあたかも知ってるかのような事は言いたくありませんが、お二人を足して2で割った様な人生を送ってきたので、なんかお二人の意見に凄い共感できました。素晴らしい企画でした。ありがとうございました！
お二人とも、発信してくれてありがとうございます！
As a military brat who has lived abroad (in Japan) and moved back to their “home country” I felt a similar disconnect with moving to America. I was raised in a Japanese environment where I’ve acclimated into the culture then when I moved back to the States, I felt like a total foreigner and it was very lonely and shocking at first but I eventually got used to living in the States as well.
I really enjoyed watching this video. Thank you very much.
この動画の内容とは少し外れるような気がしますが、この動画を見て思い出したことを一つだけ書かせてください。( ※自分語りです )
私は、日本生まれ日本育ちで約20年間生きてきていますが、親は英才教育をしてくれて、( 当時はめちゃくちゃ嫌でしたが、今では本当に有難いことだと分かっています )
『インターナショナルスクールに入れよう！』
と幼稚園〜中学校まではインターナショナルスクールに通って、学校では英語で家では日本語という生活でした。
高校は、公立の普通科の高校に通わせてもらいました。英語の授業は地獄でした。教科書の音読が1番キツかった（笑）ちょっと周りより発音が良いだけでめちゃくちゃ笑われました。
「お前、発音良すぎじゃんwww外人みたいwww」
「日本生まれ日本育ちなの？www」
インターナショナルスクールに通わせてもらって、英語で話す環境が周りより多かったのは、周りにも分かって貰っていたと思い込んでいましたし、何故、笑われなければならないのか、その当時はちっとも分からずにいました（笑）今思えば、差別だったのかもなあと。( 言い過ぎかもしれません💧でも私が傷ついたのは事実です。 )
今は、在日外国人の為に支援を行うプロジェクトをしています。気持ちが分かると思ったからです。日本にもっと広い視野を持った人達が増えるといいなあ😊
長文失礼致しました。
Kapi 発音が良いから笑う、という環境がおかしいですよね。
馬鹿にした笑いでは無いだろ
自意識過剰
きしょい
売国奴
*反日撲滅隊Hauru* 彼女が馬鹿にされた、傷つけられたと感じたという事実がある時点で、笑った人たちの意思に関わらずそれはあってはならなかったことです。そもそも馬鹿にした笑いではないということを当事者でもないあなたがなぜわかり、断定できるのか。視野の狭い、人の気持ちを想像できない人がこの世界にまだまだ一定数いることがとても悲しいです。
郵便局で顔背けられたのって、
やべー英語分かんねーよ対応無理
みたいな感じだと思う
ある種の恐怖感というか。
動画の中で彼女が言いたかったことは
見た目が外国人だけど日本語がペラペラ、若しくは見た目が外国人だけどハーフだから母国語が日本語っていう可能性があるにも関わらず”見た目が外国人→日本人では無い→日本語が喋れない”と潜在的に決めつけている、それこそが無意識的差別だってことだと思いますよ。
@@_NAkamura_ 問答無用で日本語で話せばいいんですけどね
ここは日本なんですから
海外なんかは相手が何人だろうが母国語で話しかけてきます
よくいえば日本人は相手の身になって考えすぎなんでしょう
iori 88
そうなんですよね。
そこで難しそうだったら英語を話してあげれば良いだけで。
@@kanakana88278
それと何人かわからんっていうのもありそう。
郵便局からした外国人と日本人を区別してしまったと思うんだよね。なんで区別したかっていうとコメ主が言ってることが理由でなのかもしれない。郵便局が差別するなら露骨に嫌なことこしたりとか 悪口いったりとか 態度ひどくなるか 嫌そうな表情をとると思うんだよね。別にそうじゃない区別だと思うんだよね。
外国人側からすれば差別に感じたんだと思うんだよね。
I'd love to see Mayumi in a video with someone who has a French background but born and raised outside of France. That'd be so dope to see them converse (in French preferably) about their experiences.
This needs to be watched. These two are having such a huge conversation about racism, nationalism, and what it means to call somewhere home.
SNSで外国人に対する偏見をなくそうとする動きが活発になってるからだいぶ良くなったと思うけど、ただ差別をする人間はいなくならないのでそういう人と会った時は距離を取ろう。
なんで差別しかできないんだろう可哀想な人だわって思っとこう
山形で育った日本人です。
残念ながら、山形の人はまだまだ外国の方を見慣れていない、付き合い方がわからない、英語を話すのに自信がないという人も多いという印象です。現状どこの田舎でもそうだと思います。
だからこそ、私は将来カイラさんのような悲しい思いをする人が少なくなるように、日本に住む外国の方々を助けられるような仕事をしたいと思っています。この国に住むすべての人が幸せになれる社会ができることを願っています。
As a military brat that has moved around my whole life and identify with being Latina I faced so many similarities to you both growing up and trying to find my identity! It’s so hard but I’ve found out recently there are many of us who have grown up and faced similar challenges across the world. It’s reassuring and relatable to hear your perspectives! For my masters I wrote my thesis on third culture identity bc I find it so fascinating. ❤️ I’m glad I came across this in my recommendations to watch!
So cool - would love to read it as I'm also fascinated via my bicultural upbringing; is it online somewhere?
大人になると、それも個性って思えるんだよね
強みにできちゃう