Your stories are awesome! I've lived in Osaka for the past 8 months and I haven't made a friend here yet. I work online, so most of the time I'm at home. I've looked for girls' groups on Meetup, but I couldn't really find anything. I'd love to have some girl friends here....
My advice is to go out and just talk to people! As foreigners, we usually have to be the ones to start the conversation (but people in Osaka are so nice, so I’m sure you can meet people) 🫶🏻
When I asked foreign women living in Japan, I heard that it is difficult to make friends with Japanese women, but you are good at making same-sex friends in Japan. I think it has the charm of attracting people who are full of kindness. It's wonderful. Looking at you from the standpoint of a viewer, I think you were a very kind and attractive woman. In a good way, Marielle feels like an old fashioned Japanese woman. It's attractive that it doesn't look like an American.
I think that not all foreigners are good at making friends - I know many foreign women who struggle to make friends. It’s all about positive energy, prioritizing friendship, and being open-minded:) for example, I have many friends (not in this video) who are older than me - Japanese and foreigners! I don’t have a boyfriend, but I have many good friends. Some foreign women in Japan have a boyfriend, but no friends. I prefer having friends 😌 Thank you for your comment!
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マリエルの思うがままに日本の生活を存分に楽しんで下さい😊
マリエルちゃんはダンディーなお父さんとよく似てるね。
良いアドバイスです。特に外国人に。なぜなら外国では自己主張が当たり前で自己中心的な個人主義な人が多いので、相手に合わせるということが苦手だから。友達は１人ではできない。恋愛と同じで両思いにならないと友達になれない。だから相手に合わせられることは大事なこと。
多くの外国人は、日本旅行に来て、店員のサービスの良さや困っている時に助けてくれる日本人を優しい!フレンドリー!と言います。ところが日本に移住すると、初対面で話してこないし、日本人はいつもスケジュールが埋まっていて付き合いが悪い。日本人は冷たい!友達になりにくい!って言い出す。
これが正しく利己的思考。日本にいるのに母国と同じ様に振る舞っていて、なぜ友達が出来ないんだ!って不満を抱く。
日本に移住したんだから、日本に合わせないと、そりゃ友達になりにくい。
日本は外国と真逆の利他的社会なので、真逆の発想をした方がいい。わからないなら聞けばいい。私達は本音でしか話さない!って言うのに、日本人の本音がわからないってよく言ってる。わからないなら聞けばいいのに。
主観的だと日本人は…ってステレオタイプの情報で不満を言ってる。それは大抵間違っている。全て外国人の妄想です。もっと積極的に日本人と話すことで、解消するし、日本人の友達もできる。
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マリエルさんは優雅で知性が感じられます。
穏やかでポジティブな思考で、イライラしない、せかせかしていないのが好感を持たれて友人も出来やすいと思いました。
日本で楽しんでください。
かわいい❤🎉😊
What an awesome video! So blessed to have met you girl 🩷 Love you to the moon and back 🌕
Aw I love you so much, girl! Many more adventures await us 🏝️
@@OnTheWorldStage Love you more 💓 Yes, can’t wait for our next adventure 😎
貴方は上品で品がある、と思ったららやはり、両親が素晴らしい。
健康と安全に気を付けて日本で暮らしてください。
最近動画を見出しました。日本に対する着眼点が素晴らしく、とても勉強になります。😊
Friendship can make the community expandable, you are able to make friends in Japan, Miss Mariel.
Your stories are awesome! I've lived in Osaka for the past 8 months and I haven't made a friend here yet. I work online, so most of the time I'm at home. I've looked for girls' groups on Meetup, but I couldn't really find anything. I'd love to have some girl friends here....
My advice is to go out and just talk to people! As foreigners, we usually have to be the ones to start the conversation (but people in Osaka are so nice, so I’m sure you can meet people) 🫶🏻
When I asked foreign women living in Japan, I heard that it is difficult to make friends with Japanese women, but you are good at making same-sex friends in Japan.
I think it has the charm of attracting people who are full of kindness. It's wonderful.
Looking at you from the standpoint of a viewer, I think you were a very kind and attractive woman. In a good way,
Marielle feels like an old fashioned Japanese woman. It's attractive that it doesn't look like an American.
I think that not all foreigners are good at making friends - I know many foreign women who struggle to make friends. It’s all about positive energy, prioritizing friendship, and being open-minded:) for example, I have many friends (not in this video) who are older than me - Japanese and foreigners!
I don’t have a boyfriend, but I have many good friends. Some foreign women in Japan have a boyfriend, but no friends. I prefer having friends 😌
Thank you for your comment!
素敵なお友達がいっぱいいらっしゃいますね👏👏👏👏👏ことわざに「類は友を呼ぶ」という言葉があります。似た者同士は自然と集まるものですね😀😀😀😀😀
👩🏻🤝👩🏼😊🌈
人は同類に安心して群れるので、自分と似ている人とは友達になりやすい。同性、同世代、同性、同人種、同じ趣味等。相手の仕草を真似するだけでも好印象になる。
そして、接触頻度と仲良さは比例するので、多くの接触機会を作る。
相手と自分の共通点を探して、相手に好意的なことを伝える。
最初に相手に嫌われない為には、自己中心的行動より相手に合わせた方がいい。
確かにね！