(1) 6:27 reflect back to them, “that sounds…”, (2) 7:30 “i notice”, (3) 7:52 reflective listening, (4) 9:16 wait time, (5) 10:00 what you gonna do, (6) 10:44 if i can be helpful let me know, (7) 12:25 if they ask help, what do you think would work?, (8) 13:00 Buy in: Do you really want to Hear me?. 15:15 complete Example
I've been binging your videos all morning, I'm loving this channel. Would you ever consider doing a video about being an adult with bad executive dysfunction who's raising a child with it? I have adhd and my daughter has ASD, as does my husband. Finding a system for our home between routine and lack there of has been rough. I've already gained so much from these videos. I plan on utilizing all of this.
SUCH great nuggets for framing conversations and making this transition. It's tough when you have had to save your child (physically and emotionally) for a long time to start taking those steps back. You know you need to but habits are hard to shift.
Thank you for this video. My son is 9 years old and I believe I have mother coddled him way too much from birth. When it's just one parent (Myself) in the picture and the only child (My son) sometimes it is hard. I need this information 😩. He will be 10 in December.
Love this so much! If you get to the step of asking them what they're going to do to solve this, and they are overwhelmed/stressed out etc and don't have an answer because they are truly overwhelmed/feeling helpless (due to their own choices) what do you recommend?
I will admit I often get stopped by my child when I do reflective listening- "so what I hear you saying is....is that correct?" its at this point that she exits conversation- like she almost knows she will have so solve on her own in the next step. and she has to commit to what she is saying as being so/true/real. I guess I can leave it at that. or leave it at- you seem really upset/frustrated... (thoughts?)
What do YOU think? Comment below and share your thoughts to help everyone...
Great conversation frame!
What do you say if your child asks you to do too much of his/her work?
Thank you for this video. I’m the one bringing up the problem. I’m checking with teachers her grades, make up work. She has no worries 😫
(1) 6:27 reflect back to them, “that sounds…”, (2) 7:30 “i notice”, (3) 7:52 reflective listening, (4) 9:16 wait time, (5) 10:00 what you gonna do, (6) 10:44 if i can be helpful let me know, (7) 12:25 if they ask help, what do you think would work?, (8) 13:00 Buy in: Do you really want to Hear me?. 15:15 complete Example
very helpful thanks this is exactly what i need.
Glad it was helpful!
I've been binging your videos all morning, I'm loving this channel. Would you ever consider doing a video about being an adult with bad executive dysfunction who's raising a child with it? I have adhd and my daughter has ASD, as does my husband. Finding a system for our home between routine and lack there of has been rough. I've already gained so much from these videos. I plan on utilizing all of this.
Yes, how should a parent respond if the child says "I don't know"?
This is my son's answer for literally everything 😣
SUCH great nuggets for framing conversations and making this transition. It's tough when you have had to save your child (physically and emotionally) for a long time to start taking those steps back. You know you need to but habits are hard to shift.
What do you do if your son is failing but they don't come to you for help.
Thank you for this video.
My son is 9 years old and I believe I have mother coddled him way too much from birth. When it's just one parent (Myself) in the picture and the only child (My son) sometimes it is hard. I need this information 😩. He will be 10 in December.
You got this!
How can I accomplish this with 6 other sibling interesting interests conversation or breaking in with their own problem?
I’m definitely going to try to do this for 10 days with my 5 year old.
Thank you, just what we need.
Love this so much! If you get to the step of asking them what they're going to do to solve this, and they are overwhelmed/stressed out etc and don't have an answer because they are truly overwhelmed/feeling helpless (due to their own choices) what do you recommend?
Thank you for this!!
You're so welcome!
I took a ton of notes! Can't wait to use this.
BRILLIANT!!! More of this please.
I am curious what to do when the kid doesn't want to do it because is boring?
I love it! You make it sound so easy. I will try this.
Please do
Hi Seth. Can’t wait to try out the new script! I took notes.
Great!
Hi Seth, like another parent comment, how do you handle it if it’s parent who can see the problem, but the kid is completely unconcerned...
My mother took me to a child psychologist who held me down on the ground by putting her knees on my shoulders until I was out of energy.
Excellent! ❤️
Your kid will only listen to his or her comfort person. For me it was my grandmother. Everyone was jealous of our relationship.
Exactly
What if my son doesn’t come to me to say he has a problem? What if he doesn’t have a solution?
Bingo!
I will admit I often get stopped by my child when I do reflective listening- "so what I hear you saying is....is that correct?" its at this point that she exits conversation- like she almost knows she will have so solve on her own in the next step. and she has to commit to what she is saying as being so/true/real. I guess I can leave it at that. or leave it at- you seem really upset/frustrated... (thoughts?)
Great video! Love the suggestions!
The teacher in me wants to fix your #. #ExecutiveFunction
Glad it was helpful! I think I fixed it, but it may not fix older vids, thank you!
Really great “meat & potatoes “ strategy. Thank you!
Glad it was helpful!