I Quit My Tech Job & Learned These Life Lessons

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    0:00 - Intro
    0:43 - Lesson #1
    2:31 - Lesson #2
    3:06 - Lesson #3
    4:18 - Sponsorship
    5:20 - How did you maintain lifestyle without a 9-5 job
    6:09 - What are you plan after your sabbatical
    6:41 - Scary Job Market
    7:40 - Am I A Full Time Content Creator?
    8:37 - Thank You For Joining Me On This Journey
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 102

  • @Bukola1
    @Bukola1  Місяць тому +49

    Thanks for stopping by! Let me know what videos you’d like to see more this year 👇🏿

    • @afonseca
      @afonseca Місяць тому

      I'd be curious to learn more about your routines as you build them out.

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Місяць тому

      Yes will make more videos around this!

    • @SimonSuh
      @SimonSuh 15 днів тому

      You are amazing Bukola! :)

  •  Місяць тому +80

    Nice hearing someone in tech talk about taking things more slowly

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Місяць тому +10

      Its an unpopular strategy, but its one that works better for me! thanks for commenting!

  • @iCanonKiD
    @iCanonKiD Місяць тому +50

    Lesson 1: Slow Down. Move towards your goals at a suitable pace. Avoid burnout.
    Lesson 2: Focus on having routines and systems in place. Integrate goals in your routines and systems.
    Lesson 3: Take breaks when needed. Breaks are critical for feeling productive overall.

  • @destiinyy
    @destiinyy Місяць тому +11

    "I am not scared because I don't want to be scared". I loved this so much! I just left my job and taking some time off - I know it's a scary time in the market right now but I felt like I really needed to take this break.
    Great recap on your lessons during your time off. I hope I can also learn these lessons and discover my own during my break :)

  • @Aj-vr7ug
    @Aj-vr7ug Місяць тому +14

    The quality of your vids is so underrated. I see the broll, cuts, clear visuals etc. impeccable

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Місяць тому +2

      I appreciate that! I put alot of work into every video

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Місяць тому

      Thank you

  • @user-tx4we4hs8u
    @user-tx4we4hs8u Місяць тому +24

    I remember coming across your channel when I was trying to get my first job in tech. As a fellow self-taught female software engineer, it was so reassuring to watch your journey. 4 years later and after dealing with my own share of burnout and uncertainty, I am now reaching the same conclusions. Bit sad I won't be able to test Offline on Android, but best of luck with the launch and I'll keep watching and waiting for more amazing content

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Місяць тому +5

      Thank you! Yes slow, steady and balanced wins the race!

    • @adammorra3813
      @adammorra3813 Місяць тому +1

      Im also burnt out but not in tech. If i quit my job, my mental health will get even worse. Not sure what to do

    • @user-tx4we4hs8u
      @user-tx4we4hs8u Місяць тому

      @@adammorra3813 I can't speak for everyone but personally what helped me was learning how to prioritise my wellbeing in small but meaningful ways. Everyone always told me to get a new job, join a gym and make all these drastic changes, but the reality is if you don't have the energy to implement them, you won't be able to see any progress at all. I started seeing a therapist and worked through the ACT book The Happiness Trap by Dr Harris. I became more active in tech communities and invested in building relationships with colleagues. Work issues became so much easier when I had all these people standing up for me to my managers and having my back. Then once I had these support systems in place and was feeling a lot less depressed, I was finally ready to start taking care of my fitness and career goals, looking for new jobs etc. I know this might all sound impossible because I was in that place too, but if you start small by focusing on your mental health and accepting your current situation isn't working for you, but you always have the power to change it, I promise things will eventually improve

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Місяць тому

      does you company offer Mental Health leave? or unpaid leave

  • @AndrewHitti
    @AndrewHitti Місяць тому +15

    There is some real wisdom coming through you! It’s been so fun following along with your sabbatical - can’t wait to see how you continue content and a full time job 😱

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Місяць тому +3

      Thank you so much! Watch out for the video on my search!

  • @shamilampinga
    @shamilampinga 29 днів тому +4

    I’m not scared because I don’t want to be scared!” Word!

  • @murfel
    @murfel 26 днів тому +1

    Bukola is radiating confidence, and that's the best mindset. Calm and rational approach conquer all, step by step. I wish I had a role model like you when I was a younger scared teenager navigating tech life. Thank you, dear Bukola, for sharing your outlook on life. All the best to you.

  • @akuoko_konadu
    @akuoko_konadu 29 днів тому +2

    Nice, I'm glad you did not also scare us with the scary job market, I love your optimism

  • @Ginizhu
    @Ginizhu Місяць тому +10

    Wow Im so excited for you ! Congrats on your marriage and looking forward to downloading your App !

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Місяць тому +2

      Thank you! And the app is linked in my bio whenever you are ready you can check it out!

  • @fireystella
    @fireystella Місяць тому +2

    ah i def feel like your one or two steps ahead of me and it's really helpful when you share these! i feel like i sacrificed a bit in terms of work, and finally achieved my goal, and don't know what i want now! need to reset and focus on healthy habits. thank you! also, use airalo lots, pretty great, thanks!

  • @QuestUpGame
    @QuestUpGame Місяць тому +1

    Thank you for bringing us along your inspiring journey! I appreciate the fact that you are reminding us all to stay as balanced as possible in life that is essential to success, health and wellness. Well summarized.

  • @michaelwilliams8625
    @michaelwilliams8625 Місяць тому +8

    Wishing you and yours all the best moving forward.
    Going into Year 3 of my Computer Engineering now after watching your video in 2022.
    Love and Light~*

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Місяць тому +3

      Thank you ❤️❤️ Good luck on your CS Degree

  • @AwomKenneth
    @AwomKenneth 27 днів тому

    thanks so much for sharing !

  • @eniolaa
    @eniolaa 29 днів тому +1

    you are such an inspiration bukola, thank you so much for sharing your journey with us. love you 🤍

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  29 днів тому

      Thank you so much!! Appreciate your support Eniola!

  • @designthedays
    @designthedays 28 днів тому +1

    You've done and learned a lot during this sabbatical!
    Im in tech and trying to get a new product design role. Anxious due to the state of the tech industry.

  • @alexandersantanaperez8788
    @alexandersantanaperez8788 Місяць тому +1

    Thanks for sharing your experience and insights! I am learning from your lessons.

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  29 днів тому

      No problem, thanks for commenting!

  • @samgiddy7
    @samgiddy7 6 днів тому

    Good to see you’re still at it. I love the tip about choosing not to be scared about the job market. Congratulations on getting married!

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  6 днів тому

      Thanks so much!

  • @FranMariee
    @FranMariee 23 дні тому

    Yes! It's so important to give yourself time and prioritise rest.

  • @gemini_val
    @gemini_val 29 днів тому

    Love your videos. I appreciate the work and amount of work you put in. Thank you)

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  29 днів тому

      Thank you! youtube is a beast I appreciate your kind comment!

  • @ROSADIANA-DSB
    @ROSADIANA-DSB 28 днів тому

    Great lessons🎉

  • @tysonefford5522
    @tysonefford5522 Місяць тому +5

    You have humility, may God continue blessing you. Also l am still a beginner now l am busy learning web development, my passion actual is Software Development!!!

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Місяць тому +2

      Thanks for the kind comment! Wishing you the best on your journey.

  • @oluyemiadunoye9735
    @oluyemiadunoye9735 Місяць тому +1

    I’ve enjoyed every video you’ve created and uploaded ❤

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Місяць тому

      Aww thank you 😭😭 it means so much to see this comment!

  • @Yazzyyaz92
    @Yazzyyaz92 29 днів тому +1

    Good luck finding jobs! I’ve been in tech for 4 years now and beginning to feel really burnt out.. hoping to take a career break in q3/q4 but like you said the job markets are looking very scary right now 😢

  • @btee23
    @btee23 27 днів тому +1

    Great tips on finding balance
    Can you do a video on the systems you developed during this time off?

  • @Rosterrecharge
    @Rosterrecharge Місяць тому +3

    love the journey

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Місяць тому +1

      Thanks for following along!

  • @Jibril_Abdulkadir
    @Jibril_Abdulkadir Місяць тому +1

    Looking forward to your goals ahead 🤩

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you Jibril! Will keep y’all updated ❤️❤️

  • @careersuccessnow_
    @careersuccessnow_ 27 днів тому

    Thanks for sharing! 👍🏻 definitely not easy to balance getting to goals fast and risking burnout. Zoom out and play the long game

  • @redbunnyclassic
    @redbunnyclassic Місяць тому +1

    Godspeed!

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Місяць тому

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ishaw500
    @ishaw500 29 днів тому

    Congratulations ❤❤

  • @unapologeticallyhuman
    @unapologeticallyhuman Місяць тому

    Another great use for Offline is during fasting periods. Those distractions will make the process useless and performative

  • @GracefullyKaren
    @GracefullyKaren Місяць тому

    Your so beautiful. Thank you for sharing this journey with us 🤗🥁

  • @godsdelightagu
    @godsdelightagu Місяць тому +2

    It's one year already 😮😮😮
    Wow🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @tuckertech
    @tuckertech 29 днів тому

    I am a career switcher and got my SWE job and burned out almost immediately. I was still working full time while I studied SWE and once I got my job immediately was in a high stress high paced environment. I’m at a crossroads as to what to do now. My health is suffering.

  • @sydneylloyd983
    @sydneylloyd983 25 днів тому

    Ilysm

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  25 днів тому

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @dugebuwembo
    @dugebuwembo 16 днів тому

    Bukola I have heard others who worked at Big tech companies having problems when working on projects in their own time as it could be deemed a conflict of interest; have you had any issues with Google when developing your app?

  • @alissad7221
    @alissad7221 Місяць тому +1

    Content creation tips video? How to get started etc

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  29 днів тому

      Umm don't do UA-cam long form! start with short fom content and commit to 100 videos and see what sticks and what you like making

  • @JungleEd17
    @JungleEd17 28 днів тому

    At what point did you stop feeling guilty about taking breaks? Did anything like marking breaks into your calendar help?

  • @jfitzpatrick6108
    @jfitzpatrick6108 Місяць тому

    How to allocate & a portion time to best achieve one's goals while ensuring we don't miss out on _enjoying_ our lives is a perennial problem each of us must work out.
    One prolific author, Arnold Bennett, published his personal realizations for organizing productive time while incorporating "down time" which actually increased his productivity.
    I found his short epistle, "How to Live on Twenty Four Hours" worth the read.

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  29 днів тому

      That's very interesting! I'll check out that epistle
      thanks for the recommendation

  • @suncoco4070
    @suncoco4070 Місяць тому

    Nice

  • @EricMoore790
    @EricMoore790 Місяць тому

    Where will you work next?

  • @Kskskwkwkkwhzhbz
    @Kskskwkwkkwhzhbz 29 днів тому

    Where did you get your sweater?

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  29 днів тому

      Artizia! But a few years ago

  • @sinnamonstory
    @sinnamonstory Місяць тому +1

    What roles are you interested in going into when you return to tech?

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Місяць тому +7

      Probably will apply to Dev Rel and Software Engineering roles! I’ll keep you updated

  • @DylanDocker
    @DylanDocker Місяць тому +1

    Have you shared numbers? With tech income and UA-cam, I wouldn't be surprised if you're at or near 7 figures.

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  29 днів тому +3

      7 figures 👀 from your mouth to God's ears!

  • @cj2695
    @cj2695 Місяць тому +13

    Only caution here is that this young lady will no doubt be successful in whatever professional endeavor she takes up. In a sense, this sort of content is a tad bit dangerous for others. Other people should keep that in mind when thinking of taking a professional gap year.

  • @Leo-yn5fx
    @Leo-yn5fx Місяць тому +1

    man i'm trying to get a tech job like that! How do i start?!

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  29 днів тому

      I've made so many video on this topic lol just watch what's on my channel

  • @Arestkaramazov
    @Arestkaramazov 25 днів тому

    Good morning

  • @yansyp.8682
    @yansyp.8682 Місяць тому +2

    I've been following you for a while now (2 yrs lol), and I love how genuine and real your videos are, not only relating your career but also to your lifestyle. Whatever you're doing, I hope nothing but the best 😊🩷 It's always refreshing and inspiring to see your new videos

  • @pamfan221
    @pamfan221 Місяць тому +3

    You got married?! Whoa 😮

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Місяць тому

      yes!

    • @pamfan221
      @pamfan221 Місяць тому

      Congrats! That's an incredible milestone 🩵

  • @divyv20
    @divyv20 29 днів тому

    Hey Bukola , very good video . I can do better editing in your videos which can help you to get more engagement in your videos . Pls lmk what do you think ?

  • @andrewusa14
    @andrewusa14 28 днів тому

    Bukola your an inspiration for all black people.

  • @Ricocase
    @Ricocase 29 днів тому +1

    Jobs are done. Start a biz.

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  29 днів тому +1

      interesting idk about that 🤔

    • @Ricocase
      @Ricocase 29 днів тому

      @@Bukola1 outsourced overseas, visas took over larger firms, see Google

  • @marksikaundi128
    @marksikaundi128 23 дні тому

    Did you just say you stopped working?

  • @Kytreeswerving
    @Kytreeswerving Місяць тому +1

    You have 310k subscribers, if you can get every subscriber to give you one dollar, you could retire the rest of the year.
    If you can get 6200 people to give you 50 dollars, you could retire the rest of the year.
    I don't think you realize how wealthy you are

  • @NobleAbsinthe
    @NobleAbsinthe Місяць тому

    Did you quit or were you forced to resign? Alot of these posts about people quitting sounds like mass layoffs.

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1  Місяць тому +10

      I was not forced to resign, I quit to take a gap year I literally said that in the first part of the video lol

    • @NobleAbsinthe
      @NobleAbsinthe Місяць тому

      @@Bukola1 Thanks, have to clarify, I'm lazy. I didn't watch the video because I saw a bunch of these on my feed.

  • @wordtour4360
    @wordtour4360 26 днів тому

    You're the opposite of Dave Ramsey

  • @yourfriendintech
    @yourfriendintech Місяць тому +1

    1 year went by so fast!! I'd be happy to give you a referral back to Google if you need one!