My Fiancé Got Mad At Me For Transferring My Inheritance To My Daughter Before (FULL STORY)
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It seems to me that by saying, "because your RICH" fiancee started the Red Flag parade. That reeks of the mindset,"whats mine is mine and yours is also mine." If this were reversed, she'd be a gold digger yet bc its a guy suddenly he has the right to her money for his kids. NOPE! She needs to ditch this guy! ASAP
I just saw another story like this except the new wife was outraged that the OP's daughter inherited her dead mother's jewelery because she expected it to get passed to her kids because one of them liked how they looked.
Isn't it common sense that inheritances are to be passed down to biological progeny? Why should someone's wealth who's absolutely not related to you be passed down to you and your kids? The entitlement!
The fact that non of his kids has shown any interest in horses and riding, yet he want her to give all 3 a horse or no one can get a horse 🤡🤡🤡
I'm happy she gave him back the ring. That man is a walking red flag.
Yeah I mean I get that he wants his kids to have a good life but it seems like they are both making a good middle class income so his kids will in no way suffer while OP's kid is living in luxury. They're not flat broke, starving, homeless or in dirty clothes. Just average. What's wrong with that? I grew up like that, as did all of my friends, and it was a great childhood. Especially since OP put the money for her daughter into a trust, which means she cannot spoil her daughter even if she wanted to. The money will only go to sensible things like an education, and it will happen much later in life. There will be no resentment or significant wealth disparity between the stepchildren, and the (ex) fiancés kids can also get a good education as long as he sets up a college fund for them. Given all these facts it seems very sus that he reacted the way he did when he learned that he would not get his hands on her inheritance. He showed his greed once he learned that he hadn't struck it rich.
I think for him it was the principal of the gift more than the horse itself
I get where both are coming from, children won’t understand the complexity of inheritance and would resent the better off kid
He’s not the bad guy in this but he could have handled it better
Break it off. He wants a cash cow, not a wife🤣
NTA. Your inheritance from before your new relationship has nothing to do with your new fiance and his kids. Just like if he got an inheritance prior to the relationship it would not belong to you or your daughter. 🤷🏾♀️
He and his kids are sharing her inheritance by living in her grandfathers house. They are already going to have home and financial security that would have otherwise been difficult to impossible depending on where they live and what Max does- it's incredibly disrespectful for him to then turn around and declare that things are not equal like its a problem she is responsible to fix. He is bringing less stability to the relationship, and with two children a higher need, but he's gonna pitch this fit?
Idk it really smells like Max is only there for her money. He moved him and his kids into her house, didn’t want her daughter getting a pony unless his kids get one, and says his kids are entitled to the inheritance? Nope don’t like it.
Moral of the story he was actually marrying you for money so he and his kids can have a lavish life from your wealth, and gladly this red flag is visible to you quite in advance, safe yourself lady and kick this trash out of your life ASAP
dude sound like a gold digger. staying bf gf is the best option
No, OP sounds like she is not ready to be a stepmom. She needs a reality check. No way is she gonna pretend she is fair when she deprives the other kids to whom she is supposed to be a mother to.
@@Pharitafication 100
@@happilyevernever4289good riddance for her. She's providing them free housing and sharing her income with them. If that isn't enough for them, they can go live in his income alone. Imagine feeling the entitlement to someone else's wealth. Her grandfather didn't earn it for strangers he didn't know.
3:21 Right off, your 100% right in doing what you did. You need to protect yourself & your daughter. This guy is throwing red flags ALL over… Before you get married (if you choose to still get married), talk to an attorney & have a prenup set up to double secure yourself & your daughter. Depending on the amount you have in those trusts, you don’t want him finding out & hiring an attorney, especially one who will take payment based off what is won incase and you end in a divorce. Money makes people do crazy things, you never know. If an attorney hears you have $5million in trusts, he could take the case based off 20% (or whatever amount), find a loophole & take your $$$$.
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Nta. Red flags. Be careful. Guard your financial safety, mental safety, and physical safety. He is showing red flags.
I'm sorry but I can understand both sides and I don't think OP was ready to be a stepmom. Having 3 kids two of which are around the same age and having one of them have live a better life, go to better schools, and have more will 90 percent of the time breed resentment from the other kids. Like was OP not gonna plan to help her step kids out during their lives? What if OP and her fiancé had another kid? Would they also be locked out of the money? OP really didn't think about future plans when she made this plan.
Same. I think she is selfish. And shouldn't have married this man if she wasn't ready to adopt his kids as well.
She can be a stepmom to them without having to give HER DAUGHTER’S money that her grandfather left for her to his children. Her grandfather left it to her to make sure she’s able to provide and give his grandchild a good life , it’s not her responsibility to provide the same for his kids🤷🏽♀️.
@@STAYATINYARMYSIN Yes it is. That is what being a fulltime step parent is. She knowing got into a relationship with a man with full custody of his kids. Moving them in and adding them to her family. Being a step parent means being a parent too. Like I said having all the kids living under one roof full time and having one get better things and more opportunities will breed resentment from the other two children.
Also like I said what if OP and her fiancé had more kids. They would also be biologically related to the grandfather but because she tied up most of the money in her eldest daughter's trust how will it work for them? It was a stupid move that didn't think about her future.
She sounds selfish to me as well. And lets face it if this was a man we would be calling him the red flag for treating his bio kid differently
Her children born of her will be getting the same in inheritance as her daughter but she's under no obligation, legal or otherwise to share it with the kids that are not hers. Literally what inheritance mean.
He is very clearly only with her for the money. She should end things ASAP and not look back. Having said that, when it comes to kids, it is very wrong to flaunt wealth over the others. Also, she's setting herself up to be hated by his kids and have her daughter be hated by his kids. He's, also, right about it being a waste of money. Instead of buying her a pony, have the kids go to a ranch once a month. It would be a great way for them to bond. I don't think it should go that far, though, because he's a huge red flag.
He is a gold digger
I mean, he’s kinda right tbh. once you guys are married, you should treat them equally. getting one of them a pony and the others, toys is not fair. it should be equal.
She was getting her daughter a pony because she has been learning to ride his kids haven't. The money she got from her grandfather is hers before the two got together so he has no right to it also her grandfather said to use it on her daughter. It will be a hazard if she got two kids who have no idea on how to take care of one to own one are you trying to have her get those kids hurt? It's her inheritance she got before the relationship so its hers to use however she wants she could instead of getting them a pony get his kids stuff tailored to his kids tastes. But her money not his. He and his kids have no right to it and won't have any even after he and her marry.
@@-toxic_angel- I’m not saying that. I’m saying that she said in the future she would always get her daughter better things. she’s not fit to be a mother to those kids, her fiancé should call the wedding off until she can get over herself.
@@daikonasahinacosplay i have the same feeling. I think she really thinks of her husband as only a spouse to her, but not a father to her kid. So she feels the same to his kids. The father on the other hand wants to develop a real family where everyone is treated fairly and being a husband and father to his kids and hers.
But it cannot be. It was set up that way BEFORE boyfriend and his kids were in the picture. They better rein in their entitlement.
@@happilyevernever4289 exactly.
Honestly, I think the husband is right, what is legal is not the same as what is ethical. She is putting her kid above her step children.
Have to disagree. I would agree if for example, she had won the money in the lottery before meeting her partner, but this is money given to her by her grandfather specifically to provide for his great-grandchild. To me, that is different
Her grandfather wanted it for her and her daughter tho, it’s his money and he can do whatever with it. Also why would she give her money to them, he’s the father he should provide for his life, he’s already living rent free in her grandfather’s home, and so what if his kids live average lives, average is still good, and op’s daughter will live luxuriously because of her great grandfather not because of her mother. The fiance has no right to feel entitled to her grandfather’s money at all.
So it would be ethical to spend money her Grandpa left specifically for them on other people? What's the thinking here?
#1 they are NOT married. #2 prior inheritance has nothing to do with him and his kids.
#3 he sounds like a golddigger no different from a female who does the same.
@@jessicathompson236 they aren’t married but the fact that they’re planning on it indicates to me the irresponsibility with which the woman in this situation is going to use the money. She either needs to put the entirety of the funds in trust and never touch it until her daughter has reached the age of majority. Or she needs to treat her step children like she’s treating her daughter.
She is in the wrong
How
@@-toxic_angel- coz she never had the conversation with him about being a complete family, not just being husband and wife, but to be a mother to his kids and him being a father to her kid.
The man is right in the sense that a real family would treat everyone equally and not play favourites. But he is also at fault coz he didn't bring up the topic of finances and actual commitments of motherhood for his kids b4 getting married.
@@happilyevernever4289no. It’s family money that isn’t hers to truly allocate. It’s hers and her daughters….with that he sounds like gold digger and he sounds like he got a inferiority complex bcz she has more money than her 😂🤷🏾♂️
Only to people who feel they're entitled to someone else's life's work.