1 YEAR POSTPARTUM Q&A | Anxiety & Depression, Heath & Marriage Issues, Baby #2?!
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Anthony is 100% toxic. He treats you horribly and constantly demeans you. You are a sweet, kind, and caring person who deserves much better treatment than you are receiving. He’s not going to change; he’s never going to change. Men like him NEVER change. Take your child and run fast and far.
I remember before she had Kaden she used to think that being a mom would cure her “discouragement, lack of motivation, anxiety, depression, etc.” Now that she has him I think she realizes that the issue is within her. When she was answering the question about what makes her happy about Kaden, she beat around the bush and didn’t say anything at all. She definitely needs to work on her mental health
A bunch of people, including myself, gave her a heads up about parenthood. And she blew us of thinking she knew the ins and outs and that it was all perfect... now the reality hit her.
@@Sarah-iz6ui I definitely think that her issues were before she became a mom but now that she’s a mom it’s gotten worse. hopefully she gets the help she needs
@@patyskitchen7601 it’s sad I use to support her but I can’t anymore. I feel like she tries so hard to be like other UA-camrs (Milena Ciciotti) and not be herself. I’m sorry Meg! She truly needs to work on herself before having another kid.
@@danis1210 you are right about her I think a lot of UA-cam people young and old want fame and money to fill the emptiness inside of them UA-cam and be very bad for mental health of the creator and viewer. But as the viewer we can not watch but as the creator it is not so easy to walk away with out a clear plan what to do with their life.
Something is off. Praying for you 🤍
Followed you for years and this video just makes me sad. I got married few months after you had a baby same year as you, i’m struggling with PPD now but you literally have no light left in your eyes. I think posting this video and allowing comments is going to trigger you even more. You are such a strong person but the strongest people can’t handle thousands of people judging and criticizing their every second in a few minutes video. I think you have lost your drive for social media and youtube that you just need to just step back for a while from everything and focus on your well being bc by the instagram posts you cannot post a story without being flooded with negative nancys and its going to take a bigger toll on ur mental health. Remember you can’t pour from an empty cup take care of yourself!
There’s so much sadness in your eyes! I’ve been watching you from the beginning and you have such a pure soul. I feel like you still have the passion for UA-cam inside of you but you just have so much negative around you. Please put you and your baby first! We’re all rooting for you to succeed Meg!
I want to mention Meg, you don’t seem happy at all. We can tell in your eyes. What helps me is to sit and think of all the things we are thankful for. I sit in my living room and I look around. I’m thankful for my little apartment. Thankful for the food in the fridge. Thankful that my son is active and healthy. Thankful for all the little things plates,spoons, kitchen table. May sound weird it helps keep me grounded in this crazy world .I have anxiety and depression (on and off). And the low days are so so low. Hope one day you can let go of things and truly be happy. Also, please remember YOU are valuable and make sure you and your sons happiness come first. (Hope it makes sense)
It’s true she’s not happy. Have you seen the outrageous video someone caught when her husband Anthony did a livestream playing video games? He called her a b**ch on camera and cussed her out while others were at the house with them. It was awful. I’m worried he’s abusive to her behind the scenes and this would explain why she’s so upset all the time.
@@silverlimosine ya! I saw that. So messed up. He looks like he doesnt even love her. The way he looks at her in disgust sometimes!
@@silverlimosine omg where did you see that?
@@emmyc80 guru mama UA-cam channel
this is the nicest most constructive comment!!!! i love your way and i am similar with being thankful down to the food in my fridge!!! helps so much
Meg, you look like your on the verge of a break down, Please , please , please take care of yourself. I’ve never seen you look this depressed.
There is nothing wrong with going back on anxiety medication. There are many options that shouldn’t make you gain weight. I think the reduction in stress and anxiety will help your BP.
For any new moms watching this, please don’t let her scare you. Every baby is different. She says she loves the newborn phase, but I hated it. Contrarily, I LOVED when my baby was 4 months old- my baby didn’t even have a sleep regression. So not every baby is going to fit the same mold. It’s all awesome! And you ALWAYS get through it.
I hope you truly find happiness within you and stop looking for it elsewhere... I remember I started watching you when you were in your room at your parents. You wanted an engagement to to make you happy... you got that. You rushed into getting married and having baby... you got all of that meg. You have a beautiful home, a cute little one, a loving and supportive family (minus anthony) yet I feel like nothing is ever enough for you...
I wonder if her anxiety and depression would be as bad if Ant want the way he was
Meg as someone who has been watching you since the very beginning you don’t seem alright. You seem very unhappy and miserable. When you say your son brings you so much happiness, you just looked absolutely miserable. I am praying for you. I hope you get the help that you need. I’m not sure what medications you’re on but those can make you feel numb and feel no emotions, etc. Try something more natural to help with your anxiety/depression. If medical marijuana is an option in your state I highly recommend it. You don’t have to smoke, there are other alternatives to medical marijuana. Please look into it and don’t let the stigma get to you. The healing properties are wonderful. I got my life back because of this beautiful plant. Sending you love and light. I hope you’re okay...
I second this! I think MM could potentially help Meg! ♥️
Yeah! I just commented about this because I also feel like she isn't happy at all! It's so crazy to see
Medical marijuana.. that’s the answer. Take medical advice from a UA-cam commentator. Good idea. Lol
@@____r___8608 as someone who works in the industry and sees the benefits that it has, in this case I will recommend it. People have no problem taking medication that the drs recommend but someone mentions marijuana and it’s frowned upon. It’s time to end the stigma behind it.
I think she’s being abused behind the scenes by her husband. Someone just posted a video with some shocking footage of Anthony cussing her out and calling her a b**ch in front of their friends.
I get trying to make money... but all the dang ads made me click out so fast
i think a lot of her insecurity and problems come from Antony.. i don't think they are in love with each other but she seems scared of him and probably scared to leave him especially now with a child. Please do self care, work out, eat healthy and do stuff! Don't just sit at home all day! I've been following you for years and i was hoping it will get better for you please take better care
Wtf Meg the amount of ads this video has should be illegal
I have 19
I had 19 ads that is just obnoxious.
I think is because she doesn't get as much views as she used too, so in order to get paid she inputs all the adds she trying to make it financially, plus I don't think her husband makes that much. So she has a lot of pressure to support her lifestyle/ family.
Same
use adblocker
I never hate on people who want Brest implants or anything that has to do with plastic surgery but I also think there is nothing wrong with being confident in the body that god gave you . I think social media outlets and Instagram puts images into people heads of what they should or need to look like. I’m 31 years old I have never had boobs I’m a natural thin person with a small frame and it just is what it is. Have I ever wondered what a big chest may feel like ? Sure but I’m super confident and have realized when you find the right person they don’t give a damn what you do or do not have on your body they worship and love it for exactly how it is made ! I think the confidence I have always had is a gift god has given me bc his love for me is so pure and loves us for who we are bc he created us in his perfect image
You seem like your on the verge of crying this whole video 🥺 you are giving us so much motivational advice but I think you need to take your own advice Meg 🥺 another baby won’t make life better. You need to find happiness within yourself. You talked about hating your boobs for 20 minutes. you seem very unhappy with life, I hope things get better for you
Alexis Degiovine I used to enjoy watching her but I’ve had to take a break. 😔
AMEN!!!
@@hannahsirmon8737 same here. I feel exhausted when I watch her now. She has changed so much but not in a good way. I feel like she needs lots of professional help, she doesn’t look happy at all. So sad
She’s literally always like this. Chemical imbalance I swear 😒 she also lives through other peoples quotes and lifestyles but never has figured out who she actually is
Then why are any of you commenting here? Can you imagine strangers you don’t know continually putting you down or continuously making assumptions about your life? You see snippets of her life. Show some compassion.
You sound like you're choking on tears this whole video...
I have supported you since the beginning, I still do. But something needs to change, you seem so expressionless, tired and drained. How you feel is reciprocating through the video and it is very noticeable. I don’t know if maybe you run out of ideas for videos or what, but I think it would be reasonable to either give it your all or not at all. You don’t seem like yourself. Wish you the best always .
Her husband is abusive. Someone posted a video with some shocking footage of her getting cussed out by Anthony in front of their friends. It was on his live-streaming video games.
Wow I got to watch 15 minutes and I got mentally exhausted... in my opinion, you Megan have to really find help because you don’t seem happy. I watch your stories on IG and all the time you are complaining about the kid. He’s just 1 year old. Just an FYI, babies can feel what you feel, and if you are constantly complaining, sad, moody, that’s probably why you kid is always crying and cranky. I’m a mom and I’m also going through some stuff like every mom but guess what? That’s the job of a mom! So good luck and I really hope you find professional help.
Omg YES!! I feel so sad for baby boy she’s a mess!! And needs help!! Especially after watching videos on guru mama heartbreaking!
He acts so nervous all the time.
this! this is why I stop following her on Instagram, very well said!!!!!!! I feel sorry for her and the kid :(
I have never heard a 27 year old complain about EVERYTHING the way she does. My goodness, woman. I realize we don't know what's going on behind the scenes, but you seem to have a charmed life for the most part. Get some therapy, and try to figure out why you are never happy with life.
Watch Guru Mamas videos and you’ll see what goes on behind the scenes. It’s really sad!!!! I hope this goes through because I think she banned Guru Mama
@@xOsmoochiesOx Guru Mamas videos are what brought me to this one, cause I haven't checked her main channel in ages since she never posts on it anymore. Those videos are very sad, and hard to watch.
She's always been like that. She's only happy when she is buying things, decorating, or showing off her new makeup look, hair, nails, clothes, shoes, jewelry, ect. I think she puts her identity in things. Like, when she isn't done up she is more sad and more unmotivated, but even when she is done up, she still complains about everything. Personally, I think it's one of those things where she hasn't found herself yet. She constantly focuses on the outward appearance and when things become routine and her clothes and makeup become "old" it's like she's even more miserable. If she would get a normal job helping people, like elderly people or poor people I think that would bring her joy. Because let's face it, money and houses and cars and likes on Instagram is not true happiness
@@xOsmoochiesOx Because ahes been exposed from what she truly is....a fake.....I love Gurumama, I used to be Megs follower for yrs not until I saw the videos of her fake ass...I still dont get how she has so many followers they need to watch Gurumama so they can realize who their following.....
@@5325bunny True
You struggled with mental health long before having a baby and now seem surprised that you have PPD. You don’t seem happy at all and haven’t looked happy going back through the years of watching your videos. You’re always dealing with a lot and make it a point to state that in almost every video. You rushed into so many things and never took care of yourself but you keep wanting more and that perfect life.
Meg, I feel like your just not happy and that’s okay. I truly feel like your relationship with Anthony is toxic. I feel like you have been so dependent on him. I want to see you thrive and be happy! Pleaseeeeee save yourself before it’s to late
"I think that if a woman has a choice between saving her soul and saving her marriage, she needs to save her soul. If your soul or your body or your mind are being threatened in any way by your marriage .. then you just go .. and you know deeply that there is a big difference in leaving a marriage and leaving god." - Glennon Doyle
Even in the thumbnail you don’t look happy... I can just see it in your eyes. I hope things improve for you. Prayers.
She’s not. Look at the videos from Guru Mama. Her husband is verbally abusive and the channel posted proof. It’s shocking.
I never comment on videos... but your eyes look so sad. I think youtube is not your passion anymore, quitting will help maybe. You had issues way before your son, you thought having a baby was going to be amazing and you were so excited to do videos with him but now you have realized that not even that makes you happy. I hope you really get the help you need. You seem like an amazing person.
meg no shade but you dont seem happy at all.
She was just in Florida I'm sure shes happy now
@@stephaniemagana4320 😉👍
High blood pressure makes you feel like crap.
@@happilyeverlambert3198 my mom has high blood pressure and she seems very exhausted and mentally drained all the time so I believe this! People are so quick to judge it’s disgusting.
Im not at all judging her,just an observatiob to me she doesnt seem happy,thats all.
I used to follow you and look forward to your videos ever since you lived with your parents but lost interest when you moved into your current home due to not relating to you anymore and being busy with my own life. I saw this and thought you would go through your postpartum struggles a bit and then flaunt your son’s milestones because as much as I care about the mom it’s fun to see the child be so happy with his/her accomplishments even though they don’t understand it. You barely mentioned your son once and if you did it was complaints about what he does. Motherhood isn’t for everyone and I think you fully base your life on what if’s and if I did this.... meaning if you changed the way you looked or presented yourself others would like you or believe what you’re putting out there, however I can tell it’s extremely forced and you’re not being real with yourself. I think a lot of the people that commented on this video are worried for you, your husband’s and son’s wellbeing and time off from any and all social media would be the best so you can get some grounding on what’s going on with your physical and mental health, your diet, relationships that you very much need to figure out, etc. This is not hate or intended to sound even spiteful but a little check up on you woman to woman, mom to mom. Wishing you the best and hope you can be big enough to ask for help and go get it. ❤️
My sister was just diagnosed with sever anxiety and it all started with high blood pressure. Her doctors are amazing and ran all the tests and they believe her high blood pressure is coming from her anxiety only.
My advice: if you feel like your doctors are not open to seeing that your blood pressure could stem from your anxiety, find more doctors. Some doctors are set in their ways and refuse to see anything beyond what they know so you have to just find other doctors open to see other things, even things they don’t understand.
She had preeclampsia so she’s at greater risk for having heart issues and dealing with blood pressure when she get older. It’s not just anxiety. Preeclampsia effects your body and lots of women deal with blood pressure issues afterwards. It’s her body not her mind
Curlz_line yeah but she also said her doctors don’t want to think it’s her anxiety as well. Find doctors that understand both. I understand that it could be that but it could also be anxiety too.
High blood pressure after giving birth with preeclampsia is because of preeclampsia 100% . she should join a preeclampsia Facebook group and get more info on it
You don't seem that happy Meg. Don't try to be like other YT moms.. Be you like way back in the day. Idk. I wish you the best. Just take care of yourself. 💖
I just feel like she treats being a mom as an identity .... she makes it sound like she has 10 children not just one and she’s so busy and can never post or do work or even have time to have a meal. But is also lucky enough to have parents to watch her child two times a week . Some moms don’t have that luxury or any help at all .There’s a lot of moms on here with multiple children that find the time to post consecutively and are stay at home moms with UA-cam being their full time job. The whole video seemed so forced like you could be less interested with sharing. Should probably really wait for any second child because I don’t think I saw any light up or excitement when talking about your child...there’s so many milestones a. Baby reaches in that first year that are exciting and usually new moms are so happy to share these ... I think a long break from all social media’s is definately needed. It just seems like being a mom was all you wanted and you have it and you don’t seem very happy at all . Hoping you get some help or support for whatever is going on behind the scenes that you don’t share.
I can only like this once.. so true!!
I think you should stop passing judgement. Postpartum anxiety & depression is serious.
No need to bash, just unsubscribe ...🤔
Girl! You have a literal wave of negative energy just emanating from you. So strong it is almost palpable. None of your fantasies like marrying or having his baby has been your miracle you thought it’d be. You need change, probably in multiple ways. And you have for many, many years. 😐
Speaking of negative energy...
I have thought this FOR YEARS! It’s like you took the words out of my mouth. I know she’s in therapy and not sure if she’s kept up with it this past year but she could really use it. I wish her the best but clearly she needs to get off of UA-cam and social media
@@dpxoxo17 Yes! Exactly. And for her own good, mental health and well-being.
@@dpxoxo17 She cant! Shes too lazy to work out in the real world! She likes easy money and sit around while kid plays on his own she dont interact w him from what I see but who knows dont care, that's my wish for 2021 that she quits YT!!!
You act like you know her personally?? That’s really weird. You see a sliver of her life. Relax.
What is up with all the ads?! Every few minutes is ludicrous!!!
Just get a breast lift once you’re done having babies. No implants needed. I had a lift after my son and it was the best decision ever. It’s a pretty simple and painless surgery
Been considering this. It’s painless? Are the scars bad? Just random questions I have about a breast lift. I’ve never talked to anyone who had one before.
How was the recovery ? Have been considering this
I would never ever do UA-cam after reading these comments. No wonder why she doesn’t post on here often. The assumptions people are making of her mental health is truly unfair. Just because she has been honest and opened about her struggles with anxiety and depression doesn’t mean you get to sit there and observe every move she makes. I feel like the people who are commenting about her mental health are not helping her mental health. Instead of being positive and saying “it was nice to see you back! Looking forward to your future posts” people are commenting about her happiness in her marriage and in her overall life. Meg, I think you look beautiful and you are a strong strong mother! So happy to hear about the peace you have in your faith❤️. Kaden is such a smart kiddo and you are so hands on with him! Give yourself a pat on the back you are doing great ❤️
Spot on! These people don’t care about her, if they did, they would never say these things. Especially after diagnosing her with so many mental illnesses 😒😒😒
Omg Meg the last thing you need is to have a second baby. I think you would loose it. You try to portray a perfect life but clearly its not. We all see it👀 seems like you need to take your own advise lol Stay at home working mom? What is it that you do? You seem very blessed in life but just loves to complain. You can tell you have no idea what it is to truly struggle in life.
I dont get it also, she barely uploads, she hasnt done hair or makeup videos. So. what does she do beside complaining all the time. And then she says she needs a break and send the baby to granmas house? Damnnnn, this girl is really a lazyass!!
Why tf would u say that?! R u a mother?? I surely hope not, because if u were u would totally relate to Meg's video!!! My son's 9 yrs old & I relate to this & I couldn't imagine having a baby during covid!!!!! She's not complaining at all...again if u were a mom I would no it's called being a stay at home VENTING mom!!! N literally, until uve been a stay at home mom, ud no that THAT IS A FULL TIME JOB!!!!!! 🙄🙄🙄🙄
@@JackieMec143 well I am a mother myself to two young boys and I work full time and I have a husband whom works away so all the stress and responsibility is on my shoulders. I vent very rarely, why? Because this is the life I choose when I decided to start a family. I’ve never seen anyone “vent” or complain as much as Meg does.
Meg. I have followed you since Day 1. I have noticed you struggle with acceptance and defining YOUR opinion or idea without it being fully influenced by quotes you’ve seen, the opinions of others or what you THINK people want to hear. I really hope and wish you can gain some confidence and accept who YOU are without pleasing others. We are all working on being better people but you can only start when you know who you are...im rooting for you!😘 😘
Nicely said 👏🏻🤍
YES THIS
I had non severe preeclampsia with my first son, didn’t need magnesium. Let your body level out before having another baby.
Cutting out salt and drink lots of coconut water all day. It lowers it don’t just rely on meds, change diet.
For High blood pressure cut the meat eggs & dairy.
Watch your cholesterol intake very carefully. high blood pressure runs in my family and since going vegan I have not had a problem.
I also do a lot of mental health work to ensure my mental illness isn’t bad. Therapy, cranial massage, journaling, meditation, and exercise.
Did you follow a vegan diet during pregnancy?
“I don’t want to deal with drama or social media or petty stuff” when you literally acknowledge negativity on your Instagram stories or lash out at your subscribers for simply asking if you want another baby when you asked for q&a questions, or in your video comments and you apparently stopped being friends with Jade for saying Anthony was going to propose soon, even though that’s exactly what you wanted. Please find some peace with yourself. When you’re miserable, it shows in how you treat others.
Hi Meg! I hope you arent taking all these comments as "hate." I really think most are concerned. I hope things get better for you.
You’ve been saying you’ve been “distant” from UA-cam and social media for like five years lmao can you please just find a career that actually makes you happy! It’s super obvious you don’t enjoy this at all. You’re not that distant on Instagram you post your family and different things all the time! Just admit it you don’t want to do UA-cam anymore! It’s okay!
Yep, thats what I have been saying all the time....
Hi Meg! I’m a cardiac nurse and almost all of my patients have high blood pressure. With your age and seemingly good health, have they done any blood tests? Specifically a renin or aldosterone blood test. I have had a few patients where we couldn’t explain their high blood pressure and medications didn’t help so the doctors ordered these tests to see if something was off that was causing it!
I’ve been watching this channel ever since she lived at home. I used to love watching her videos, they felt like she was my friend and it was easy to connect w her. Within the last couple of years every video has so much negativity.. I honestly always click out of the video because its never “inspiring” or “motivating”. I get that that’s not always “real life” but I think that’s why normal people like me watch UA-cam. We want to grow as humans. I just don’t feel that on this channel. No hate, this is all love. I just wish there were more positivity or at least GROWTH towards it.
Yet you keep watching. 🤔
& commenting ..
Because it’s a free country she can comment whatever she wants comment patrol 😘
@@Zipposfanchotrod ah more negative people. No wonder you’re defending a negative video. Bye😂
C Z - Says the pot calling the kettle black. 🤣😂🤣😂 “Bye!”
For high blood pressure cut down in processed foods they have a lot of sodium
Would love to watch but the ads are to much can’t keep up
This video radiates considerable sadness and emptiness. At no point in this video is there even the slightest bit of excitement in your monotone voice. This is not me being a "hater," the sadness is palpable through the video. Maybe it is time to quit social media for YOUR wellbeing- don't ever feel like you are forced to continue down this path that you so clearly are not happy about. Or, at least try to sound the least bit happy for your viewers sake. This whole video is somber. I hope everything Is okay behind the scenes.
Or there could be other causes. If you’re not happy in your life, no matter what you do, it will show. I hope she finds the happiness everyone deserves. Also, it’s very selfish for you to say to sound “the least bit happy” for her viewers. It’s not as easy as that.
I think you need a huge break from social media
She needs to quit.....
@@lindan779 💯💯
I agree. I don't feel like she enjoys UA-cam at all...
@@courtneyfleischman2338 She doesn't enjoy anything. Not marriage, not motherhood, not life
@@lkno2264 oh wow, when did she tell you that?
Anxiety is the absolute worst! I haven’t had a child nor am I pregnant but I deal with anxiety and panic attacks. Mine comes from being a hypochondriac. If I feel one thing wrong I immediately obsess over it and my adrenaline takes off. This causes me to have heart palpitations and for my blood pressure to sky rocket. I 100% believe anxiety leads to high blood pressure. Praying for you girl! Hope you find the reason for the high blood pressure and get it under control.
I could not agree more! I have ANXIETY about taking my blood pressure so I take it and it goes up! Then if I sit and meditate for a while it slowly comes down. But my anxiety is absolutely the root of it all. I’m working with a therapist and my general doctor to help manage the stress and anxiety.
Meg I hope the best for you. I would really recommend taking the time for yourself and meditating, doing yoga, taking some solo nature walks. Prioritize yourself because you deserve that and will be able to be a better mom and wife.
I have had high blood pressure for 3 years now, I’ve had every test done from my Doctor and my Cardiologist and I have hereditary high blood pressure from my dad, I take 3 pills a day for it. And my BP has been normal for the past 2 years. You got this Mama ❤️
Have you considered going on meds for mental health? I’m no dr but I wonder if that would help with your blood pressure.
Drinking LOTS of water has helped with my blood pressure immensely. Also watching my sodium intake.
Sodium was a game changer for my blood pressure, I delivered a year ago as a stroke and seizure risk due to extremely high blood pressure and was able to control it away with careful dieting and stopped taking medication one month postpartum
@@shannonrose3142 so happy you’re healthy and safe today! Sodium makes SUCH a difference to me. I can always tell when I’ve eaten too much and it’s the worst feeling for my body.
Duh
Now I know why she closes her comment section... you guys literally take the time out of your day to bring someone down? Change yourself.
FORREAL!
Seriously, people are so harsh.
I agree!
I agree! You are taking time out of your day to comment something negative! If you don’t like the person why are you even on the video?? I don’t go out of my way to do that. It’s childish! Someone commented and said to skip the ads so she doesn’t get paid. People are genuinely here to see what she has to say.
Yep! Exactly what I always think these people are so passive aggressive with their comments! Like why?? lol
Suggestion for the high blood pressure: ditch the MLM ✌🏼
What MLM? I have no idea 🤷🏻♀️
@@sophiaharper723 multi level marketing. She’s trying to sell Young Living Essential Oils which is a notorious pyramid scheme.
@@savannah4824 oh ok thank you 😊
That’s literally just rude of you.
@@jesrathbone5376 not at all. I’ve been in one before. They sucker anyone in to take advantage of you. She’ll lose money trying to shill out oils. Better for her health to get out now.
When women say “when you are a mom that’s all you are, just a mom” that is far from the truth, if that’s the way you think then you will lose yourself! You are you first, and you need to be strong for you in order to be a great mom to your baby! So first you are a human, a woman and then you are a mom!
🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
💯 % 👏🏻
This NEEDS to be the top comment. I had post partum w/ my first, when I stopped working with my second I felt lost until I went back to school. She needs to remember who Megan is. An unsupportive partner can be at fault as well.
Everything is so forced.
Literally everything!!!
She is always been fake. Complain, complain,....& brag at the same time. That is why she has not got anywhere unlike others.
A nice book to have is "30 Days to Reduce Depression" by Harper Daniels. It takes a play by play mindfulness approach.
@@kbella4081 how has she bragged? She literally lives a normal life and doesn’t have what all these other YT girls have
Damn, she have a demon child or what!? She talks about pregnancy and having a baby has just turned her world upside down... and through this entire video.. she has literally blamed everything on anyone and everyone else. Not once did she say hey, ya that’s my fault. Even her marriage problems are the baby’s fault. Grow up
I feel like it’s not very mature to comment rude things on UA-cam channels.
Exactly. It’s so sad. Poor child..
Her husband sucks
I used to watch you RELIGIOUSLY and loved your style, your makeup, you helped teach me how to do my hair and how to work with extensions you were my fave! It makes me sad that you’re sad. I hope you’re still in therapy, I hope you’re taking care of yourself, and I hope you’re okay. Remember part of taking care of ourselves is distancing ourselves from emotional vampires. We as your loyal subscribers will not love you any less if you make any big life changes. ❤️
this makes me so sad :( been with you for several years and even it's true we only see a fraction of your life just think your kid will grow up and will hear Ant talk to you like that...
I’m 5 months postpartum and I needed this today! Thank you for filming this postpartum update! Love your videos and hope you and your family stay safe and healthy!
If you're able to change the ads, why wouldn't you? The amount is ridiculous. Post more videos and you wouldn't feel the need to put so many to make money!
Thank you.....:)
Get an adblocker.
@@Jade-yg2gb That, or UA-cam Premium.
Get add blocker or UA-cam premium
She’s so greedy
20 ads? Seriously
I just want to say, everyone commenting about their experience with anxiety or high blood pressure- thank you for sharing. I have anxiety about blood pressure and being a new mom, and I just lost my dad.. my stress has never been higher. But seeing so many people giving suggestions and hope is so nice.
WHY ARE THERE 18 ADS
I stopped watching 5 minutes in, too many ads. Kinda takes away from the video
So annoying
Weird, I’m 20 mins in and I’m just now hitting the first ad.
19 for me 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️ I don't mind a few ads but 19..
There isn’t 18 ads. Idk what video you guys are watching
Meg! you should try FULLY cutting out caffeine!!! it will help your anxiety and that will help your BP! even “decaf”
coffee has some caffeine which is extremely misleading. I would try one full month of no coffee and see how you feel! :)
Omg i didnt know coffee affects it! I may cut it out 😣
@@so0oso0o5005 yes!! caffeine effects your heart rate which triggers anxiety.. & anxiety causes rises & spikes in BP! I learned this from my Cardiologist when I was having issues
Yea, it boggles my mind to see people with bad anxiety drinking a lot of caffeine, it's so counter productive
@@xtinkerbellax3 right! I realized a few years ago if I had more than a few sips of coffee I would be panicking for hours!
I agree. Coffee is like drinking an energy drink you feel great, but then at one point your energy levels crash, especially excessive amounts. It makes anxiety worse.
I've been following you for years you are very unhappy you have been for some time now but only you know the real reasons why I think ur afraid to really deal with it and this is where everything stems from
but if u don't face it you will never get out of it my heart breaks for u I hope u find the strength to do it.
Having a second baby rocked my entire world. 2.5 and 6 months..... trust me, take your time. The second baby is HARD!!
It’s not that hard shut up
lol
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder....I agree second baby was hard and the same age gap as you. My second didn’t sleep at all and at 14 months still doesn’t.
Thank you for your video. Ads & all! It’s brave to share your story & experiences. As I’m reading through some of these comments I think it’s awful what some people feel free to say. It’s so easy to say anything you want from behind a computer screen. You are coming on here & being vulnerable & honest & yet some people just can stand it. They just have to be negative. Being a new mom is not always easy & it’s different for every mom. Meg, ignore these awful people. They only say awful things because they’re not happy themselves or they’re jealous. Keep taking care of yourself & love your family!!
Yes!!!!! One comment I found that I totally agree with. People are so harsh and picked her apart. I actually enjoyed this video and felt that she really poured her heart out in it.
My son is about to turn 6 next month and mom guilt is so real. I looked like a slob until 2 yrs ago when I realized I needed to take care of myself emotionally, mentally and physically so I totally get where you are coming from. The beauty community doesn’t help when you see other moms and it appears they are a natural. Parenthood is so rewarding but there are lots of things that also comes with it, good and bad so keep doing what you are doing and know you are doing your best! ❤️
The hard times were definitely shown on camera lol (insert ant's twitch streams where he calls you a b---- and tells you to go upstairs) ☠️
What!!! He did not?! Are you serious!!
PLEASE tell me someone clipped that omg
Nooooo 😯😯😯
@@erihead21 well there's def clips of it lol like there's people that have it and I have it too... He took all the videos down off his twitch channel. There were multiple arguments and alot of friendly language to each other. What I'm specifically talking about is when nicole and Andrew were over (while meg was sick) and Meg was saying she didn't want to watch ant play his games on a Friday night and nobody else did either. Then he said "tell that to my 200 followers" I'm super paraphrasing. She said 20 followers... Then he said "support me b...., Or take your a.. upstairs... GTFO of here with that s..." I'm blurring out curse words cause it will flag my comment. You'll just have to believe me that it happened lol. One day it might get posted. Check out Guru Mama in the mean time 🙂
@@sarahbrown4057 see my reply to erihead!
It makes my heart so happy to hear that you have been strengthening and growing in your faith. I have actually used this time to diver deeper into my relationship with Christ as well. It’s really been a blessing in what has been a burdensome year in many ways. So thankful for the Holy Spirit stirring us all up.
I had the exact same sinus issues when I was pregnant. I couldn’t even sleep laying down because I could NOT breath!! It’s crazy how it just goes away after your baby is born!! I just love seeing Kaden’s little face. You are doing a great job mama 💙
The adds? Almost 20 that’s a bit ridiculous
Right? There's no way I can watch this all
I couldn’t believe it!
She must need the money. How much can her husband make? 50-60 grand, maybe? They live very well for a one income cable-guy family. I’m sure she needs every single penny she can make from UA-cam.
Cardiac Nurse here. Also 5 months postpartum.
Once you see the cardiologist they will most likely order you an echocardiogram. This is a must. Get this scheduled and done ASAP. Limit your sodium intake and monitor your blood pressure daily. There is a such thing as postpartum cardiomyopathy. Symptoms typically are hypertension, chest pain, shortness of breath, lower extremity swelling.
Best of luck.
If this is your diagnosis this is treated and you can live your normal life and have more children.
I feel like she only did this video so that she could have that many advertisements
This video made me sooo sad, I truly hope your okay and I’m sending so much positive vibes your way 💞
Honestly Meg, after having my first son. my boobs have changed too. And I hate my stomach. I would to get a mommy makeover. You seem unhappy or really stressed. I pray that you find your happiness and may god continue to bless you in every way. you are beautiful and also a great mom. You just have to learn to be confident in your own body. Forget about the haters. people will talk either way. so just do you. You're doing amazing sweetie. you truly are.
THIS is the kind of comment I am here for. Meg gets really bashed by people and then everyone wonders why she is hesitant to create content. She needs us to lift her up and I think your comment was beautiful.
I know you need money but that many ads is ridiculous...thumbs down for that one 😒
Also. After all these years you’re still the same, have you thought of seeing a therapist? You always have so many issues, most are self-inflictive maybe talking to a third party would help sort through them.
I love watching your videos but maybe getting away from UA-cam and social media would be good for you. Not for forever but for awhile. Maybe getting a job where you have to leave your house and can be around other adults and get some socialization would help. I know putting kids in daycare can be hard...and expensive! So that isn’t always a good option either but if you are feeling like just a “mom” or just a “housewife”, maybe you need something outside of just that? UA-cam and social media can be so brutal! Thank you for sharing this video.
I had a sinus infection the last 6 weeks of my pregnancy. Nothing I did, helped. Once I gave birth, It all went away.
I’m a very anxious person as well. I noticed I had high blood pressure when I was 18 or 19. I always brushed it off as my anxiety until I realized that I actually had high blood pressure when I was relaxed and “not anxious”. I was 25 when I finally went on medication to get it under control. I am very lucky that the first medication I went on is working and has it under control!
I think more people have HBP than they even know. I truly think my anxiety does not help mine. I’m working with a therapist as well as my primary doctor to discuss my blood pressure and anxiety. I fear just taking my BP. But then you hear people saying “oh you’re too young to be on blood pressure meds” - which irritates me. Who is to say what is too “young”. Ugh I’m just happy reading the comments so many have gone through the same
You seem to find the negative in everything even being a mother. 🤨
Reading comments and wondering why are people so mean to this girl...? When she puts herself out there and talk about her issues.... let’s be nicer humans :(
Smh!
Meg you're such a strong woman, I've seen how much you have dealt with and how you've overcome everything ❤ Lean on God and keep your faith strong on him 🙏 and always keep your frequency high , you will get through this. I'm such a strong believer that God tests us and only he knows why.
I’ve never heard of a “mommy vlogger” make so many PPD and “baby update” videos without actually giving updates on the CHILD. You never show him in these either? So odd. Yes, you’re a person too, and people are asking how *you’re* doing but, what about Kaden? Sad.
Yeah always wondered that too!
Never see him with new updates, on baby.
Honestly more women need to talk about PPD. If more people talked about it then when you’re in it you wouldn’t feel so alone and stigmatized. Leave her be.
@@alizastaygolden nothing wrong with her talking about PPD. Not speaking at all about her experience, just that she never includes her actual child in the videos. Even if it’s a small segment.
Because if you follow her on social media she posts him all the time
@@mollyw5674 she never says anything that he does or has learned. She’s always complaining not praising what he can do.
The amount of ads in this is ridiculous
Did anyone have 10ads during this video? Geez 🤦♀️
19
I have 19. 🤬
I had one every 5 minutes. I had to watch the video in 4 segments because I got a headache.
18, seems every 3-5 mins
Didn’t even notice!! Loved this video way too much 🥰
I love how you say the part “your life is not over when you have a kid”
I believe in that so much in my mind I feel as though it would just begin again. Everything that you did as a child starts all over again for you and Ant. Things you remember as a child playing with a certain special toy, a small drive, a trip to the pumpkin patch. You are sharing your life with a small version of you and Ant. You have taken a lot of time for yourself and I love it! You deserve it Meg you have came a long way and an amazing mom. Never forget that. You have changed in all good ways. It sucks how UA-cam has changed and the way some people are behind a screen. I love how you have been nothing but strong through all of it. You are a true UA-camR & REAL!
I understand the fact of the plastic surgery and all the benefits it may provide for people with all situations
But I do believe people’s choices are people’s choices but I love how you have been JUS Meg and that’s what I love most!
Keep up the videos love seeing you share what you choose to share. 💕
Why is there so many ads?????
Why not?
I agree an obsessive amount of ads ... i understand creators have to make money but this is ridiculous
She’s greedy AF
It's her first upload on this channel in 8 months, she needs to make up the money she missed out due to her laziness
@@delaneyfitze842 Lol, agree.....
I love that you talked about your faith !! I’ll be praying for you girl ❤️ I also deal with anxiety and God helps me each and everyday ... I have recently started listening to Christian music and it’s soo calming ❤️
I've heard women say before that they love their kids, but don't love being a mom. I dont personally relate to this, but it is a very valid feeling and NOTHING wrong with it
lmfao I have 0 words!!!!!!! The fake ness. The ads. I cannot.
I have been following you for awhile and I love watching you grow as a mother. A hard thing to do is love yourself and practice self care but it’s a work in progress! You got this momma
Hi! Medical assistant here for a cardiologist office for the last year. I wouldn’t say I know everything but I have learned quite a bit. I would 100% recommend following with a cardiologist. Not that a primary care doctor doesn’t know what they are talking about but a cardiologist literally does just that. They know everything and are trained 100% in that specialty. They will be able to help you so much and figure out what’s our having high BP!
I completely understand worrying about your health. I would give it to God to work it out. God cares for you so much- you are wonderfully, beautifully made. God will watch over you. Will pray for you 🙏🏻
Go watch Guru Mama on UA-cam for the truth. A lot of fans have realized the lies thru Megan’s teeth. The girl needs help.
Great channel!!!
@@tedcruzisthezodiackiller YES!!!! Exposing how they really are! I love that channel and hope Gurumama keeps them videos coming!!!
@@lindanavai9778 Me too!! I was like, “Yes, finally!!” Lol! I love it.
I’m 12 mins in .... it’s excruciating the anxiety your going through ( I’m the exact same, can’t breathe, think,sit, stand it grounds you ! ) I found you through a recommendation .... the only thing I can say to you is .... being without another isn’t a failure ... find yourself ... love yourself ..... asking for help isn’t a failure .... I wish you nothing but happiness x
I was 27 when first diagnosed with hbp. I think the anxiety over it is the worst. Try to exercise, lots of walks. I try to hit at least 10,000 steps.
Hibiscus tea, lots and lots of water. Limit caffeine. Limit stress.
I'm 33 and was diagnosed with hbp last year, i agree with everything you say, I literally drink hibiscus tea every single night, walk more and cut out sodas, coffee anything that might trigger anything Im dealing with right now, anxiety, heart palpitations, stress etc.
How do you handle panic attacks while being a SAHM?
Watching this video as I’m 37 wks pregnant! Been following for years and so happy to see your journey evolve. I personally really enjoy baby/mommy updates (some youtubers do every 3 months) or day in the life videos. Ive really enjoy Brittany Balyns videos on her journey as a mother & she has a set filming schedule so her viewers know when to expect a video.
I feel like your viewers are frustrated with the lack of posts. If UA-cam isn’t something you want to do anymore I would suggest just being honest about it (it’s okay!). When you promise to post more or ask for video suggestions and don’t deliver I feel like your UA-cam comments are just flooded with negativity.
I've seen your videos for years now and I've noticed you changed a lot, it's so crazy to see!! I hope your doing good 🙏🙏