Alhamdulilah, I teach multiple weekly classes and run an incredible community through Muslim Lighthouse. Seek knowledge, make new friends, answer your questions & doubts and develop Islamically by becoming a member at: muslimlighthouse.com
How am i going compete with you? This know ledge is so precious ( at least for boy like me, and you guided me towards goodnees). . Also you have 65thosand audience to share with. "" ALLAH "" gave to much. May "" ALLAH "" give you more.
Salam aleykum i noticed, that in 8:25 when you mentioned the verse in the Quran about being good to your parents, you quoted Surah Luqman : 36, but this Verse is from Surah an Nisa. May Allah bless you for your efforts and this beautiful lecture.
Whenever I would please anyone outside of me I would be unhappy. Pleasing your parents shouldn’t mean being fake and a hypocrite. If you can’t communicate honestly with your parents and express how you feel, this is not a good sign and God isn’t happy with that. It depends on what do you mean with “make your parents happy”. I’m okay with helping them in the house and respecting them.
Question: Is it like you making your parents angry with your actions or also if your parents are just angry because the have a bad day and they are automatically also angry with you? I am really scared now because they‘re often angry what should I do? It hurts me and Im scared that Allah is angry with me.. Its really so hard idk what to do my father is a narcissist and its literally impossible to make him happy. And my mom is in a bad mood most of the time. And if they are like this, Im automatically also in a kinda bad mood. I try to be respectful but still.. And I feel like my dad tries to piss me off a lot of time. Like he does that and then he tells his family about us and says how bad we are. Im really confused what should I even do at this point. I didnt even talk about my past because Im trying to forget that but I feel like I can never be a good child. And I genuinely dont want the anger of Allah.
Try being extra nice with them. Start with building the habit of saying I love you to your mom and dad. I know for some people this is literally harder than maybe picking up a mountain. But try doing it. I did it. Believe me it was one of the most hardest things I ever did. Send message to them when they are not in front of you saying you love them and say thanks for the food and stuff. Trust me it will start becoming easier day by day. Do it for 30 days. Trust Allah.
Thank you so much brother for this important lesson, may Allah accept all your efforts, may Allah reward your parents with the highest level of Janna. May Allah give you and your family the best in this life and the best in the next.
Dua for Health, Wealth & Spouse 👇🏿 رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنْزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ Rabbi innee limaaa anzalta ilaiya mi khairin faqeer “My Lord, indeed I am, for whatever good You would send down to me, in need.” Dua of Musa(AS) Surah Al Qasas : 24 Also copy & share with others
JazakaLlahu hkayran akhi this video is very beneficial, I was looking for this topic,but wasn't able to find something which really explains the importance of honoring your parents✨ May Allah Subhana wa Taalya make it easy for all of us. Ameen 🤲
Brother, just a kind word of advice, your thumbnail has a woman wearing a see-through veil. It’s haram as it’s a type of tabarruj, even if we can’t see her face we can see her hair and outline. I’d advise you honestly to just not use women at all in your thumbnails and vids. As Muslims we care about protecting our women from the gazes of men. Not just their faces but even their hair or outline. Remember the sahabiyyat used to even cover their hands, and not even let a fingernail be shown
I wanted to watch the series after your book was announced because I am unable to get the book due to different country issue. When you said the second reason, I almost cried 🥺 I'll watch each video inshallah and try to apply what I learn. I appreciate all of your hard work and the concise, clear, and amazing way you expressed things!!
Thank you so much for this beautiful lecture, really moved me and made my heart softer. Truly felt like it was a guidence from Allah. May Allah swt bless you and your parents, protect you guys from the trials of this duniya and the next, grant you guys the best of this duniya and the next and enter you guys to the highest ranks of jannah. Ameen.
Bro could you talk about you young Muslim men who dont do Haram relationships, do not masturbate or watch porn, and struggles to get married. It just gets harder and harder to find pious wife in the west. We always pray to Allah to make it happen, but what serious steps should we take to get married?
The Prophet (5) said thrice, "Should I inform vou out the greatest of the great sins?" They said,' "Yes, O Allah's Messenger («#)!" He said, "To join others in worship with Allah and to be undutiful to one's parents." The Prophet (ats) then sat up after he had been reclining (on a pillow) and said, "And I warn you against giving a false witness, and he kept on saying that warning till we thought he would not stop. (Bukhari)
this is a question im not able to get an answer for my parents dont respect me, they favor my siblings over me, they dont take me seriously. even when im talking about serious topics. im gonna get kinda personal and tell you what happened during a gathering there were 2 nannies watching me while i take care of the babies and then my families nanny called me over while she was with one other nanny and then our nanny started touching me and told the other nanny that she could too i slapped their hands away and walked away but once i told my mom she told me “well that was in the past i cant do anything about it now” even tho i told her only a couple hours after it happened and that nanny has also tried murdering me and has stolen from me ive told my parents and they still wont fire her, and now im concerned for my younger brother. literally today when my 9 year old brother was getting ready for school i put his clothes in my room so he could change in private then our nanny followed him into the room. i went over to them and told her that he knows how to change on his own and that she doesnt need to be in there and yet she just closed the door of my own room in my face and my brother said she doesnt even help him change she just watches him. my parents arent taking me seriously even about this topic and they dont respect me at all. thats why ive grown hatred and resentment towards them. and i plan on cutting off contact with them once i get married is it still haram? (THANK YOU FOR READING ALL THIS OMG ITS A LOT)
I know this is not intended for me but i will still answer because i also go through similar stuff. Allah (swt) regards parents and basically, all relatives that you share blood with (tight blood) as extremely important. We can't ignore our blood however we can protect ouselves by keeping some distance from them i recommend you to at least wish them Eid Mubarak during the Eid. If you're willing to do more for them solely for the sake of Allah(swt) then i wish you ease and inner peace in doing these actions. We still have the duty to respect them no matter how awful their behaviors toward us are since this is between them and Allah(swt). The Almighty says "Do not be afraid; i'am with you all the time, listening and seeing." Quran 20 : 46 Don't forget that we are judged upon our actions not our feelings ! May Allah(swt) make it easy for you inshallah.
@@bro144 my blood mother abandoned me when i was young but my non-blood-related aunt took me in and raised me. are you saying i'm expected to put more priority into the parent that abandoned me than the one who raised me just because of blood?
@env0x That's another case, when you are adopted you must be treated well by your current parents but your biological parents will have to face Allah(swt) for what they did to you. Allah(swt) is the best of Judges and he sees what we go through every day.
The book : The Rights Of Parents:Al-Zafar Bi'l-Murad Fi'l-Birr Bi'l-Aba Wa'l-Ajdad by Shaykh Muhammad Mawlud رحمه الله is a noteable read. It’s been translated into English by the Maliki Shaykh Rami Nsour
After You Read BENEFITS OF ÄYAT AL-KURSI You will never miss to recite 1. Recite after fard salah, and the only thing that separates you from Paradise is death. 2. Recite while leaving your house, and a group of angels will protect you. 3. Recite on entering your house, and poverty will not enter your home. 4. Recite in the morning, and you will be protected until the evening. 5. Recite in the evening and you will be protected until the morning. 6. The thief does not approach its reciter. Make Habit reading in RAMADAN on daily basis Share with other
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Alhamdulilah, I teach multiple weekly classes and run an incredible community through Muslim Lighthouse. Seek knowledge, make new friends, answer your questions & doubts and develop Islamically by becoming a member at: muslimlighthouse.com
How am i going compete with you?
This know ledge is so precious ( at least for boy like me, and you guided me towards goodnees). .
Also you have 65thosand audience to share with. "" ALLAH "" gave to much. May "" ALLAH "" give you more.
Salam aleykum i noticed, that in 8:25 when you mentioned the verse in the Quran about being good to your parents, you quoted Surah Luqman : 36, but this Verse is from Surah an Nisa. May Allah bless you for your efforts and this beautiful lecture.
Such a good lecture masha'Allah. I've been learning a lot with your videos akhi, jazaka Allah khayran
Whenever I would please anyone outside of me I would be unhappy. Pleasing your parents shouldn’t mean being fake and a hypocrite. If you can’t communicate honestly with your parents and express how you feel, this is not a good sign and God isn’t happy with that. It depends on what do you mean with “make your parents happy”. I’m okay with helping them in the house and respecting them.
Question: Is it like you making your parents angry with your actions or also if your parents are just angry because the have a bad day and they are automatically also angry with you? I am really scared now because they‘re often angry what should I do? It hurts me and Im scared that Allah is angry with me.. Its really so hard idk what to do my father is a narcissist and its literally impossible to make him happy. And my mom is in a bad mood most of the time. And if they are like this, Im automatically also in a kinda bad mood. I try to be respectful but still.. And I feel like my dad tries to piss me off a lot of time. Like he does that and then he tells his family about us and says how bad we are. Im really confused what should I even do at this point. I didnt even talk about my past because Im trying to forget that but I feel like I can never be a good child. And I genuinely dont want the anger of Allah.
Try being extra nice with them. Start with building the habit of saying I love you to your mom and dad.
I know for some people this is literally harder than maybe picking up a mountain.
But try doing it. I did it. Believe me it was one of the most hardest things I ever did.
Send message to them when they are not in front of you saying you love them and say thanks for the food and stuff.
Trust me it will start becoming easier day by day.
Do it for 30 days. Trust Allah.
Thank you so much brother for this important lesson, may Allah accept all your efforts, may Allah reward your parents with the highest level of Janna. May Allah give you and your family the best in this life and the best in the next.
May Allah reward you with Jannatul Firdaws Aameen
Dua for Health,
Wealth & Spouse 👇🏿
رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنْزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ
Rabbi innee limaaa anzalta ilaiya mi khairin faqeer
“My Lord, indeed I am, for whatever good You would send down to me, in need.”
Dua of Musa(AS)
Surah Al Qasas : 24
Also copy & share with others
JazakaLlahu hkayran akhi this video is very beneficial, I was looking for this topic,but wasn't able to find something which really explains the importance of honoring your parents✨
May Allah Subhana wa Taalya make it easy for all of us. Ameen 🤲
Brother, just a kind word of advice, your thumbnail has a woman wearing a see-through veil. It’s haram as it’s a type of tabarruj, even if we can’t see her face we can see her hair and outline. I’d advise you honestly to just not use women at all in your thumbnails and vids. As Muslims we care about protecting our women from the gazes of men. Not just their faces but even their hair or outline. Remember the sahabiyyat used to even cover their hands, and not even let a fingernail be shown
👏🏻👏🏻
I wanted to watch the series after your book was announced because I am unable to get the book due to different country issue. When you said the second reason, I almost cried 🥺 I'll watch each video inshallah and try to apply what I learn. I appreciate all of your hard work and the concise, clear, and amazing way you expressed things!!
Surah Al Infitar verse 13 also says “ Verily, the righteous will be in Bliss.”
Thank you so much for this beautiful lecture, really moved me and made my heart softer. Truly felt like it was a guidence from Allah. May Allah swt bless you and your parents, protect you guys from the trials of this duniya and the next, grant you guys the best of this duniya and the next and enter you guys to the highest ranks of jannah. Ameen.
Bro could you talk about you young Muslim men who dont do Haram relationships, do not masturbate or watch porn, and struggles to get married. It just gets harder and harder to find pious wife in the west. We always pray to Allah to make it happen, but what serious steps should we take to get married?
The Prophet (5) said thrice,
"Should I inform vou out the
greatest of the great sins?" They said,'
"Yes, O Allah's
Messenger («#)!" He said, "To join others in worship with Allah and to be undutiful to one's parents." The Prophet (ats) then sat up after he had been reclining (on a pillow) and said, "And I warn you against giving a false witness, and he kept on saying that warning till we thought he would not stop. (Bukhari)
❤ JazakAllah
Write the full version not SWT 11:14
this is a question im not able to get an answer for
my parents dont respect me, they favor my siblings over me, they dont take me seriously. even when im talking about serious topics.
im gonna get kinda personal and tell you what happened
during a gathering there were 2 nannies watching me while i take care of the babies and then my families nanny called me over while she was with one other nanny and then our nanny started touching me and told the other nanny that she could too
i slapped their hands away and walked away but once i told my mom she told me “well that was in the past i cant do anything about it now” even tho i told her only a couple hours after it happened
and that nanny has also tried murdering me and has stolen from me
ive told my parents and they still wont fire her, and now im concerned for my younger brother. literally today when my 9 year old brother was getting ready for school i put his clothes in my room so he could change in private then our nanny followed him into the room. i went over to them and told her that he knows how to change on his own and that she doesnt need to be in there and yet she just closed the door of my own room in my face
and my brother said she doesnt even help him change she just watches him.
my parents arent taking me seriously even about this topic and they dont respect me at all. thats why ive grown hatred and resentment towards them. and i plan on cutting off contact with them once i get married
is it still haram?
(THANK YOU FOR READING ALL THIS OMG ITS A LOT)
I know this is not intended for me but i will still answer because i also go through similar stuff.
Allah (swt) regards parents and basically, all relatives that you share blood with (tight blood) as extremely important. We can't ignore our blood however we can protect ouselves by keeping some distance from them i recommend you to at least wish them Eid Mubarak during the Eid. If you're willing to do more for them solely for the sake of Allah(swt) then i wish you ease and inner peace in doing these actions. We still have the duty to respect them no matter how awful their behaviors toward us are since this is between them and Allah(swt).
The Almighty says "Do not be afraid; i'am with you all the time, listening and seeing." Quran 20 : 46
Don't forget that we are judged upon our actions not our feelings !
May Allah(swt) make it easy for you inshallah.
@@bro144 my blood mother abandoned me when i was young but my non-blood-related aunt took me in and raised me. are you saying i'm expected to put more priority into the parent that abandoned me than the one who raised me just because of blood?
@env0x That's another case, when you are adopted you must be treated well by your current parents but your biological parents will have to face Allah(swt) for what they did to you. Allah(swt) is the best of Judges and he sees what we go through every day.
The book : The Rights Of Parents:Al-Zafar Bi'l-Murad Fi'l-Birr Bi'l-Aba Wa'l-Ajdad by Shaykh Muhammad Mawlud رحمه الله is a noteable read. It’s been translated into English by the Maliki Shaykh Rami Nsour
Asalamualaikum akhi ❤❤
May Allah reward u ❤
Jazak ALLAHU Khairan for your beautiful lecture 🤲🤲🤲👍👍👍
Please, keep up your lnteresting videos 👍
Jazakallahu khairan for the powerful reminder about the importance of honoring our parents.
Make parents happy /so is should destroy myself to make them happy or just follow whatever they say
Mashallah
After You Read
BENEFITS OF ÄYAT AL-KURSI
You will never miss to recite
1. Recite after fard salah, and the only thing that separates you from Paradise is death.
2. Recite while leaving your house, and a group of angels will protect you.
3. Recite on entering your house, and poverty will not enter your home.
4. Recite in the morning, and you will be protected until the evening.
5. Recite in the evening and you will be protected until the morning.
6. The thief does not approach its reciter.
Make Habit reading in RAMADAN on daily basis
Share with other
Wallahi this is true that ur parents is ur islam
Phenomenal 🔥🔥🔥🔥....need of an hour...
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