Reminds me of a quote from a retired doctor who enjoys building radios more than using them: "I enjoy everything about ham radio except talking to other hams." HAHA!
I'm right in the same age range you said. I can definitely relate. Any type of phone is still my favorite mode but contesting, grid activating and DX more than rag chewing. It is more I desire physical separation rather than not taking to anyone.
I agree as well, Stuart. In fact, my wife and I have a saying we use often....."I used to be a People Person, until People ruined it for me!" 73 my Friend and Merry Christmas
Radio puts a distance between men that removes the underlying threat in our nature, and they are much more comfortable talking. We can discuss things in an honest unthreatening medium.
I couldn't agree more. We're actually too connected today. I'm far more interested in my station's performance than I am about what some stranger had for breakfast. There's something for everyone in ham radio. Merry Christmas and 73.
Absolutely...ham radio has many opportunities for many different personalities...I still serve people, did it this morning for a fellow ham in Florida with the WWFF program. I just don't like being in physical proximity with people :-)
I've been a Ham for nearly 50 years. Although I've made lifelong friends along the way, there have always been certain personalities in the hobby that turned me off big time. The 'know it alls', the narcissists, the megalomaniacts, the inconsiderate and the arrogant, to name a few. Personalities we also meet in every other realm of life I suppose. My savior from all that was FT8. On FT8 there are no clashes of personalities, no pretentiousness, no nonsense. Even my received and transmitted signal report is purely scientific and not subjective. It's impossible to like or dislike someone based on an FT8 exchange. Its the RF drug of choice for any aging Ham who still wants to get on the air but has run out of patience to deal with BS.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It's inspiring to hear how you've navigated the challenges of the hobby for so long. FT8 sounds like a perfect solution for those looking to enjoy the airwaves without the extra noise.
The crap I got when I first went on FT8. "That's not Ham Radio" but I logged more "59 bye bye" contacts in the first year than my previous 50 years on the air. And logged with LoTW QSLs.
I 'm social, and it did confuse many other engineers. But it helped with work, got me traveling, and exposed me to many customers and cultures. And it helps my ham radio UA-cam channel!
i was like that as well as an IT engineer...but when I sold my business and got out of the spotlight...I realized just how much I enjoy not being in the ratrace
Before IT - I did telecom work. Listening to constant ringing, bings and boops. I no longer turn the ringer on anymore on my phone. As a matter of fact, I prefer other means of communication now. There is something to be said about silence.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It’s interesting how our past jobs shape our preferences in communication. Here’s to finding our own peaceful ways to connect!
I'm exactly the opposite. I love a big old rag chew and meeting new folks. I just never could come to terms with the hello and thank you aspect of contact chasing. Being the center of attention on a pile up is nice if you're helping others log their WAS award, but if given the chance, I'll go for a big old rag chew every time. I'm kind of miffed when I call CQ or answer a call and the person I'm talking with "has to go" or comes up with a reason to leave. It's like why did you bother then?
Sometimes, people 'have to go' (chores, wife, bathroom, shopping, headache, been on the air long enough before they go to you, maybe they're boring you now, maybe they can'tget a word in, etc etc.) If somebody says that to me, I really don't take it personally, even if I'm the one boring them!
i saw your title and like the video before i saw one frame! i am the type that likes to be on the background. I hate social media because it's so fake and forced (look at me me me). Always busy with various things and I will survive non contact for a very long time. So I feel you sir! Love and respect from the Netherlands and Merry Christmas!
I really appreciate your kind words and support! It’s nice to know there are others out there who prefer to keep things low-key. Wishing you a Merry Christmas from afar!
I’m a ham in my 40s and long before now, I came to the conclusion that I just don’t want to be around other people. I personally believe that this decision was influenced by how undesirable people’s attitudes have become as of late and are only getting worse. I live in London and I have observed people become increasingly selfish and rude. I’d much rather move as far away as possible from London now and of course, continue to be on the air. 73.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s always refreshing to hear from fellow operators who value their space. Your perspective adds a lot to the conversation!
What camera do you use? Nice resolution, but it has intermittent blank or jumpy spots. Edits and production is excellent!!! You speak well and I like what you’re talking about.
Thanks for sharing, Stuart. I'm an extrovert and love talking with people. Just exchanging call signs and signal reports is not as enjoyable as a good ragchew. I also enjoy living alone and escaping into my own space at times. I am glad that there is room for all of us on the bands.
I really appreciate your comment! It’s nice to know that we can all find our unique ways to enjoy the bands, whether we’re chatting nonstop or enjoying some peaceful solitude.
It happens the same to me. I am a ham radio operator too, but I not always feel very well with people. I am able to socialise if I want, but I only want sometimes. I started experimenting with amateur television and it suits me very well, I can do most of the work on my own. Lonely wolves are the future!
@jeremycole3008 Yes, it works well! I use a hackrf, rtl and a plutosdr. The software for DVB-S is leansdr. For DVB-T I have found and successfully modified some gnuradio example flowgraphs.
Hi Stuart. I am almost 70 and a radio ham since 1983. I recently joined the Local Ham Club. Sitting in the shack with 10 people was a nightmare as with the noise of people talking I struggled to have a conversation with the person next to me. If music is on loud in shops. I get almost a panic attack. Strange thing is I worked in an office with 100 people and it didn't bother me before I retired. More than 4 people on the beach is too much. I also avoid driving in the Dark. Cannot stand CQ DX competition as in my recent video. Cheers from old George in the UK 🇬🇧
Same here. I love DX short contacts. Usually I get huge pile ups when I start transmitting. So I work one and then another one, etc. Give you my country for your logs. All my hobbies are lonely ones: Ham radio (spend the time alone in the shack), run my miniature steam engines, go to the shooting range to practice alone. Etc. XYL asks why I don’t have other type of hobbies like Soccer , basketball… nope! I just enjoy my time alone. I got criticized by fellow ham radio guys from the local club, and even got insulted for not using the local repeaters. They got offended when I told them I like DX on HF. I don’t like rag chewing. Pointless useless conversations if the type done on repeaters. I am more a Sigma type guy. The people on those repeaters are full of drama and bring unnecessary stress, fights, insults, discussions to something that is just a hobby, a hobby that should be pleasant, enjoyable and that is supposed to bring you happiness. Have radio colleagues that are real friends and we share, learn and help but all fingers on one hand are too many for counting them. 73 Rob YS1RS
I appreciate you sharing your perspective, Rob! It’s refreshing to hear from someone who embraces their unique hobbies and stands firm in their choices. Keep doing what you love!
Tnx for this,I understand and feel the same way,great to hear and read in the comments that there are many people with this "problem"!I also wonna thank you for the qso's in the past! Hope to caugn you again! 73' ON2MD Nick
Thank you so much, Nick! I really appreciate your kind words and it’s always a pleasure to chat with fellow operators. Hope to catch you on the airwaves again soon!
I loved it Stu! 10 years ago I played in a band with a fellow who was big into the HAM thing. It was fascinating listening to him talk about it. He was really into it. What part of Canada? Ahh ok New Brunswick! I think his call sign was VE3RKO maybe?
I’m a technician at the “phone company”, cx facing all day. I go home as quick as I can as to not deal with other folks. For the most part folks are nice but it’s hard to re-engage with them when you’re not paid to. At least with the hobby I can talk to folks about technical stuff that is lacking from my job now.
I struggle with relatively new hams telling me i need to spend more money on things like coax, or going on and on about grounding. Radio club meetings can get like that. Fortnite i have teached an age where i am now considered irrelevant, or I am fading into the background.
Thanks for your comment... I just tune those out and look at results. I get 500 QSOs with just basic gear...those guys struggle to get 10 with their fancy QRP gear and farady clothes and vertical antennas that they would be lucky to work the guy down the street with. Not this guy, simple radio, simple coax (got it on Amazon) and a EFHW that I actually put up in the air... 500 QSOs on average.
Stuart, you nailed it! I'm the same way - personable, affable even, but I prefer not being around others. Smalltalk makes me nuts. I'll get on the radio to make some contacts, of course. But keep it quick - no rag-chewing. Radio has a purpose in my life, and making friends with distant folks in other places ain't it. At least, not now. Based on the comments you have, there are many like us! That's oddly encouraging.
I am also an Operator, and lately I find I would rather listen to the radio than talk on it. I miss being a Shortwave Listener. People Turn me off sometimes. I don't hate people, Just don't want to talk about the weather all the time, Or about prostrates, medications. Some people should just use FT8 mode and let the computer make all their contacts. After working at a gas station and coming home, I don't need to interact with people for longer than I have too.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It’s inspiring to see others find joy in radio. Listening is a great first step, and who knows, you might find yourself wanting to join in the conversation!
My dad says I don't have any friends. He's not a ham and not interested. I've been a ham for 32 yrs and know a lot of hams. Guess it's a lonely world on the air....😂
100%!!! Too much to go into but I sure feel the same way. I studied for my license in the mid 90s but never took any tests because I didn't study CW. I worked public service/sales jobs for nearly 30 years after that so I really feel like I'm done dealing with people. Just started studying again and bought myself a Xiegu X6100 so I can learn by listening. Eventually I'll POTA/SOTA while hiking around with my big scary working dog who keeps people away 🤣🤣🤣 I'm finally getting into what I wanted to decades ago and loving it.
That’s so cool! I love that you’re diving back into ham radio. Your dog sounds like a great hiking buddy too! Can’t wait to hear about your POTA/SOTA adventures!
I am so with you on this. I think there should be a way of calling CQ that indicates you don't want a rag chew. This is why I like FT8 and satellite contacts.
What beautiful Winter Wonderland. Love the Noise of the frozen Snow "BRAPP BRAPP". Tnx for mentioning me Stuart. I agree with you on being around People. The sickest Society since Human exist. I am tired listening to their Complaints and crying Rivers of having such a bad Life and always blaming others for that. Life is what you make it. I am a happy HAM and especially since I became a fulltime portable HAM Radio Operator my Life got a new Meaning. Merry Christmas and keep up the good Work. 73 de Your wrinkled Friend down by the River 💯👍🙋♂🍻
Thanks for the awesome comment! It’s cool to hear how much you’re enjoying the HAM life. Merry Christmas and keep spreading those good vibes down by the river! 73!
I am a ham radio operator and live halfway up a mountain i don't mind people but on my own terms. I enjoy the construction and repair of equipment more than operating it, i often say to myself where is the fun in buying something thhat works out the box. I see about 3 to 5 people drive by the property a day less in winter more in summer. I have a shepherd friend we always talk when I meet him. He hates being alone.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It’s great to connect with others who appreciate the craft of ham radio as much as you do. Keep enjoying your mountain retreat and the unique conversations you have!
I don’t mind being around like-minded people (ham club or group outings), but it’s with strangers. STRANGER DANGER! But I’l always prepared. Happy New Year & 73!
I'm 56 and a ham operator. I am the same way. I worked retail for 25 years and it burnt me out as far as dealing with people. I am N8ODY and located north of Detroit, which is "north of Canada" (Windsor).😃 Hope to chat with you one day on the bands. Thanks for this video.
I’m in a club and few members get on the scheduled chats because of chewers who are depressing and never stop talking to hear others. Kudos too all members because we all care nothing for the popular media nonsense.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It’s always refreshing to see fellow ham radio operators who prioritize meaningful conversations over the media noise.
I'm exactly the same and even find verbal communication a bit awkward. I think that's why I prefer CW, perfect for people who don't have much to say and want to take a long time saying it! 🙂
Thank you for sharing your experience! It's nice to know I'm not alone in feeling that way. CW is such a perfect fit for those of us who prefer a quieter approach.
Well said. Ragchews are the worst thing ever in my mind... but I don't condemn others for liking them. I just move on... and I have a youtube channel as well. I like exploring the tech and teaching others. "and that's O.K."
I appreciate your perspective! It’s awesome that you’re using your channel to share knowledge. Keep up the great work, and remember, there’s room for all kinds of operators in this hobby!
I was on FM radio and was happy to do my show, but once it was done I was home, I might see a movie with a friend or go out with my Parents, but apart from dog walking, that was it.
This is probably pretty common among radio amateurs. Not exclusively, of course, but I’d bet it is a significant percentage. Personally, I operated mostly CW in the early years because it took so long just to exchange the basic info, which was plenty for me. I also did RTTY for the same reason, although as a pretty fast typist, you could have longer conversations.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It’s interesting to hear how others navigate the world of ham radio. Your insights on CW and RTTY are really valuable!
Great video, thanks for sharing! I'm likewise a ham, and I happen to have ADHD (as many of us apparently do). I've lived in a bunch of different countries, occasionally even in urban areas, but I now live on a large parcel of land in the Green Mountains of Vermont and also very much enjoy general solitude. And I've never felt more at hime in doing so. Cheers and 73!
I think there is a tendency for this hobby to attract people with this trait (which I have myself). Similarly with other intense interests including railways, bird watching and computer games. Vy 73
The reason I got into amateur radio was the technical side of the hobby. I enjoy stuff like POTA partly because the contact is short and you are not expected to have a conversation
Yep, I like a lot about ham radio, POTA, WWFF and DXing and especially contesting since I get the thrill of new places without having to hear everyone's life stories :-)
Though I was the only one , am happy to be at home with family, pet's and Ham radios I don't go out much ive got bilateral vestibular lossary . My soldering iron keeps me busy. Thanks for the video. 73
Sounds like you've got the perfect setup-family, pets, and ham radios! Just remember, if your soldering iron starts talking back, it might be time to take a break!
I hate to modulate a signal with my own voice. Im the same way, happy to be at home, not having to stroke someone off to play well with others. I have no desire what so ever to make H F contacts, and hate SSB voice. And I honestly cant understand Somone's call sign, the suffix part since everyone rattles it off so quickly. You tube is NICE. I can see, what I can not hear.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s always nice to hear from fellow operators who appreciate the quieter side of ham radio. Your perspective adds so much to the conversation!
I am exactly the same & prefer the company of my Dog over people. I enjoy the technical side of Radio but when I listen to QSO's there is nothing of interest that prompts me to join in. Very rarely call CQ and am self conscious when I do. I would describe myself as a licenced listener.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It’s comforting to know that there are others out there who appreciate the technical side of ham radio just as much as I do.
Many hams would rather talk to other people over the radio than meet in person, took me a long time to realize that, I don't want to be around people either, they are a big let down for me, take it one day at a time and do the best u can, all I can say...
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It's comforting to know there are others out there who feel the same way. Together, we can enjoy our passion for ham radio while keeping the socializing to a minimum!
I like some people but I like my own space and don’t have non family over for chit chats. I have neighbors who feel the same way. We help each other when needed but don’t blather about nothing.
I liked learning for my exams, I like understanding the technology, I often listen bit im not all that interested in building relationships on the air. Its a diverse hobby though and theres room for everyone.
It's great to hear that you appreciate the technical side of ham radio! There truly is a place for everyone in this diverse hobby, whether you're connecting with others or just enjoying the technology.
That's funny I watched the same video. My wife and I enjoy our life at home as well. Nothing wrong with being out of complications that come with dealing with people.
My kids want me to move and live with them. I been living alone for a while now. Love my kids but love alone time more, maybe. 63 and MErry Christmas! Remember to correct the 'happy holidays' people!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s wonderful to see how much you cherish your kids while also valuing your alone time. Wishing you a joyful Christmas season!
I get where you are coming from. I'm 40 and have come to despise people for the same reasons, except sooner because I work in social services. I consider myself a misanthrope at this point. The reason I have my tickets is really for emcomm (not the ARES or RACES type) and I like a few technical aspects of it. I love digital modes like JS8Call and FT8 for this reason. The only time I do voice is for the few nets I participate in (always in-and-out, no comment) really just to make sure my system is working, and on events like Field Day. Otherwise, no voice, straight digital. Also, I don't want to hear about people's bowel issues, their latest prostate exam, and how ham radio is ruined because X reason. Substitute X for CW no longer being required, young people, preppers, non-tinkerers, digital mode operators, non-ragchewers, etc.
Thank you for sharing your perspective! It's always refreshing to hear from fellow operators who appreciate the technical side of things. Your insights into digital modes are really valuable!
I'm also a ham. With most of the people I meet, the longer I know them, the less I like them. With other hams it is maybe 50 per cent. With the the general public it is like 95 per cent. It's not the length of time, it's just I find out more about them and its usually not good.
I totally understand where you're coming from! Sometimes, it's just easier to connect with those who share our interests and passions. Ham radio can be a great way to find like-minded individuals!
You words are ringing true with a lot of us Stuart and all the more poignant that you post them on Christmas Eve. Being alone and being lonely are two very different things. We choose to be alone but we can never be lonely in this wonderful hobby. There's always some like minded individual out there on the bands to chat with if we need to. The best of luck to you and all who are commenting here for a happy 2025. John EI5JS
I really appreciate your kind words, John! It’s heartwarming to connect with others who truly understand the joy of this hobby. Wishing you a wonderful 2025 too!
I sort of relate in a way. People I'm around think I'm not social. I've also lived here 6 years and have lived many places and have known many people. I decided this time to keep people at arms length unless I select otherwise. It isn't that I hate them..... it's the hatred they have for themselves that i can't stand. My baby boomer peers have never really impressed me all that much..... especially in their physical and mental laziness. Of course this isn't all, but the majority in my statistically anecdotal experience. I also don't believe in coincidences. If a conversation lacks depth of texture I'm out. I consume all my time with or without people. I prefer stimulation to boredom. I'd say I'm what is defined as a sigma male type. It's considered rare.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s always refreshing to hear from someone who values depth in conversation. Your insights really resonate with me!
Stuart, I'm 73 my wife is 66, like you we were both in the mob. I think it is an age thing and possibly something left in us from military life. We are used to having a purpose to what we do, if we have nothing important to look after well, we may or may not do it right away. I find shopping out in the "wild" falls into one of these categories, fun, pleasant, get 'er done and 4,5,6 (think on that one) get the F out of the way. I find people to be like cats, no purpose, no direction and no idea of what, when or why to what they are doing, minimal exposure to this chaos means a more enjoyable life... at home.
Not necessarily. I love contesting, DXing, POTA and WWFF because I get the thrill of reaching new places and making contacts, I just don't need to know what you had for breakfast, nor do I really want to know what your station setup is, every single time.... a 5x9 into France is good for me and the more we talk the more I will get to know you and enjoy taking to you. I love being isolated on my property away from the rat race of people and on the air, I love making new contacts and moving onto the next.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s always great to connect with fellow Hams who understand the balance between introversion and our love for the airwaves.
100% put me in the same category. I want to exchange the details of the contact, say a gracious thank you and move on. I can't stand hams that DRONE on about nothing. Frankly most of these other hams are obnoxious, or know-it-alls, or QSO etiquette police, and can't wait to tell you that THEY had to know CW when they got their license back in the 1800's. This hobby is killing itself from the inside out.
1. Nothing wrong with your perspective. (Mostly.) 2. I recently challenged two different LLMs to prove that the literature saying that humans need social interaction with other humans. What I found was the following: 1) There is a lot of research evidence that shows that neurotypical humans need social interaction with other neurotypical humans, 2) Loneliness is a leading cause of premature death in senior citizens, 3) there is NO scientific basis for the MEANS of social interaction prescribed by most proponents of social interactions and they seem to be biased towards extroverted personality types, 4) and there is no evidence of the need for social interaction for neurodivergent individuals as there has been no scientific research that controlled for introverted vs extroverted personality traits and individuals with neurotypical vs neurodivergent brains. 3. The research does not control for the evolution of societal norms over long periods of time such as when society was agrarian and more sparse. Instead the researchers sample from clusters of individuals in villages or metropolitan areas with most participants being … students at the universities where the researchers were working. 4. The research also doesn’t control for people affected by the employment trend from the 60s until now towards transactional employment and transactional relationships. Research does suggest that employees with deeper connections to colleagues creates a more engaged workforce which creates better business outcomes in service oriented and knowledge management roles. That doesn’t seem to be true for manufacturing or agribusiness roles. So… yeah. I would challenge the Op on one thing though, don’t let your work experience in a transactional work environment jade your social interactions outside of that environment. From your own words, you may be conflating the two. You would have to run your own “experiments” on yourself to figure that out.
I really appreciate the time you took to write this out! Your insights into social dynamics and research are enlightening, and they definitely add depth to the conversation!
I appreciate your comment, Klaus! It’s nice to know there are others out there who understand the charm of avoiding crowds while still enjoying the ham radio community. 73!
Reminds me of a quote from a retired doctor who enjoys building radios more than using them: "I enjoy everything about ham radio except talking to other hams." HAHA!
This is why I love FT8 and similar modes.
Thank you for sharing that quote! It definitely resonates with many of us who find joy in the craft over the conversation.
I'm right in the same age range you said. I can definitely relate. Any type of phone is still my favorite mode but contesting, grid activating and DX more than rag chewing. It is more I desire physical separation rather than not taking to anyone.
That makes sense to me !
I agree as well, Stuart. In fact, my wife and I have a saying we use often....."I used to be a People Person, until People ruined it for me!" 73 my Friend and Merry Christmas
"People ruined it for me"-classic! Sounds like the perfect slogan for a ham radio bumper sticker. Stay cozy and keep those signals strong!
Radio puts a distance between men that removes the underlying threat in our nature, and they are much more comfortable talking. We can discuss things in an honest unthreatening medium.
I couldn't agree more. We're actually too connected today.
I'm far more interested in my station's performance than I am about what some stranger had for breakfast. There's something for everyone in ham radio.
Merry Christmas and 73.
Absolutely...ham radio has many opportunities for many different personalities...I still serve people, did it this morning for a fellow ham in Florida with the WWFF program. I just don't like being in physical proximity with people :-)
I've been a Ham for nearly 50 years. Although I've made lifelong friends along the way, there have always been certain personalities in the hobby that turned me off big time. The 'know it alls', the narcissists, the megalomaniacts, the inconsiderate and the arrogant, to name a few. Personalities we also meet in every other realm of life I suppose. My savior from all that was FT8. On FT8 there are no clashes of personalities, no pretentiousness, no nonsense. Even my received and transmitted signal report is purely scientific and not subjective. It's impossible to like or dislike someone based on an FT8 exchange. Its the RF drug of choice for any aging Ham who still wants to get on the air but has run out of patience to deal with BS.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It's inspiring to hear how you've navigated the challenges of the hobby for so long. FT8 sounds like a perfect solution for those looking to enjoy the airwaves without the extra noise.
Amen! Very well said.
It’s a bit sad you can’t find nice people to talk to on air, if you look around, perhaps further afield you will find people who are worth talking to.
When Covid came, I told people that I had been practicing social distancing long before it was cool.
LOL, that’s awesome! You were ready for this all along! Who needs a crowd when you’ve got ham radio?
The crap I got when I first went on FT8. "That's not Ham Radio" but I logged more "59 bye bye" contacts in the first year than my previous 50 years on the air. And logged with LoTW QSLs.
Ha Ha...yep, it happens...just tell them two words...one starts with F and other ends with OFF :-)
I 'm social, and it did confuse many other engineers. But it helped with work, got me traveling, and exposed me to many customers and cultures. And it helps my ham radio UA-cam channel!
i was like that as well as an IT engineer...but when I sold my business and got out of the spotlight...I realized just how much I enjoy not being in the ratrace
Same here! That's why I avoid talking on repeaters if I can avoid it.
HA HA, I think I turn on my 2m radio once a month...
Before IT - I did telecom work. Listening to constant ringing, bings and boops. I no longer turn the ringer on anymore on my phone. As a matter of fact, I prefer other means of communication now.
There is something to be said about silence.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It’s interesting how our past jobs shape our preferences in communication. Here’s to finding our own peaceful ways to connect!
I'm exactly the opposite. I love a big old rag chew and meeting new folks. I just never could come to terms with the hello and thank you aspect of contact chasing. Being the center of attention on a pile up is nice if you're helping others log their WAS award, but if given the chance, I'll go for a big old rag chew every time. I'm kind of miffed when I call CQ or answer a call and the person I'm talking with "has to go" or comes up with a reason to leave. It's like why did you bother then?
It’s good to know there are many ways to enjoy the hobby.
Sometimes, people 'have to go' (chores, wife, bathroom, shopping, headache, been on the air long enough before they go to you, maybe they're boring you now, maybe they can'tget a word in, etc etc.) If somebody says that to me, I really don't take it personally, even if I'm the one boring them!
i saw your title and like the video before i saw one frame!
i am the type that likes to be on the background. I hate social media because it's so fake and forced (look at me me me). Always busy with various things and I will survive non contact for a very long time. So I feel you sir! Love and respect from the Netherlands and Merry Christmas!
I really appreciate your kind words and support! It’s nice to know there are others out there who prefer to keep things low-key. Wishing you a Merry Christmas from afar!
I feel so much better. I might make one contact a year. Happy New Year!
Happy New Year
Ditto! I felt like I was the only one. Thank you for sharing. I’m happy at home with my radio, the dog, and taking care of my yard! 73!
Yep...and when I go to a park to activate, I find the most isolate place in the park to hide away and play radio
@@outnaboot yes!
@ Introverts Unite!!! 💪🏼….separately of coarse! 🤣. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and yours! 73
Merry Christmas my Viking Friend up in the cool cool North 💯👍🙋♂
Same here -- HAM radio operator who avoids people. 73s.
Not that we don't like people, we just don't need to be physically around them all the time nor really need to know everyone's life story
I’m a ham in my 40s and long before now, I came to the conclusion that I just don’t want to be around other people. I personally believe that this decision was influenced by how undesirable people’s attitudes have become as of late and are only getting worse. I live in London and I have observed people become increasingly selfish and rude. I’d much rather move as far away as possible from London now and of course, continue to be on the air.
73.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s always refreshing to hear from fellow operators who value their space. Your perspective adds a lot to the conversation!
That's part of the beauty that is amateur radio, you have that freedom to enjoy it how it works best for you.
I couldn't agree more
What camera do you use? Nice resolution, but it has intermittent blank or jumpy spots. Edits and production is excellent!!! You speak well and I like what you’re talking about.
I am just using my iphone and the jumpy spots are just the noise blanker editing...
Thanks for sharing, Stuart. I'm an extrovert and love talking with people. Just exchanging call signs and signal reports is not as enjoyable as a good ragchew. I also enjoy living alone and escaping into my own space at times. I am glad that there is room for all of us on the bands.
I really appreciate your comment! It’s nice to know that we can all find our unique ways to enjoy the bands, whether we’re chatting nonstop or enjoying some peaceful solitude.
As hams, we certainly don’t avoid people altogether-just in person.😂😂😂
Thanks for your input! It’s true that ham radio allows us to connect without the pressure of face-to-face interactions.
GREAT TO TALK TO FOLK ON THE RADIO,BUT THAT ITS..HAPPY IN MY OWN COMPANY.
It's awesome to hear that you enjoy your own company! Ham radio can be such a great way to connect while still having that personal space.
It happens the same to me. I am a ham radio operator too, but I not always feel very well with people. I am able to socialise if I want, but I only want sometimes. I started experimenting with amateur television and it suits me very well, I can do most of the work on my own. Lonely wolves are the future!
any luck with the ham tv ?
@jeremycole3008 Yes, it works well! I use a hackrf, rtl and a plutosdr. The software for DVB-S is leansdr. For DVB-T I have found and successfully modified some gnuradio example flowgraphs.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It's always nice to connect with fellow ham radio operators. I'm glad you've found a niche that suits you!
@@jeremycole3008 Yes, it works well!
Hi Stuart. I am almost 70 and a radio ham since 1983. I recently joined the Local Ham Club. Sitting in the shack with 10 people was a nightmare as with the noise of people talking I struggled to have a conversation with the person next to me. If music is on loud in shops. I get almost a panic attack. Strange thing is I worked in an office with 100 people and it didn't bother me before I retired. More than 4 people on the beach is too much. I also avoid driving in the Dark. Cannot stand CQ DX competition as in my recent video. Cheers from old George in the UK 🇬🇧
WOW...we sound the same, I hate driving in the dark as well.
Also, I’d seen but one of your vids before. THIS one made me a subscriber.
Thank you for subscribing! I'm glad you enjoyed the video.
Same here. I love DX short contacts. Usually I get huge pile ups when I start transmitting. So I work one and then another one, etc. Give you my country for your logs. All my hobbies are lonely ones: Ham radio (spend the time alone in the shack), run my miniature steam engines, go to the shooting range to practice alone. Etc. XYL asks why I don’t have other type of hobbies like Soccer , basketball… nope! I just enjoy my time alone.
I got criticized by fellow ham radio guys from the local club, and even got insulted for not using the local repeaters. They got offended when I told them I like DX on HF. I don’t like rag chewing. Pointless useless conversations if the type done on repeaters. I am more a Sigma type guy. The people on those repeaters are full of drama and bring unnecessary stress, fights, insults, discussions to something that is just a hobby, a hobby that should be pleasant, enjoyable and that is supposed to bring you happiness. Have radio colleagues that are real friends and we share, learn and help but all fingers on one hand are too many for counting them.
73
Rob
YS1RS
I appreciate you sharing your perspective, Rob! It’s refreshing to hear from someone who embraces their unique hobbies and stands firm in their choices. Keep doing what you love!
Tnx for this,I understand and feel the same way,great to hear and read in the comments that there are many people with this "problem"!I also wonna thank you for the qso's in the past! Hope to caugn you again! 73' ON2MD Nick
Thank you so much, Nick! I really appreciate your kind words and it’s always a pleasure to chat with fellow operators. Hope to catch you on the airwaves again soon!
I loved it Stu! 10 years ago I played in a band with a fellow who was big into the HAM thing. It was fascinating listening to him talk about it. He was really into it. What part of Canada? Ahh ok New Brunswick! I think his call sign was VE3RKO maybe?
Thanks Bryan, callsign is familiar to me, but I'll listen out! Cheers
Nice ranch, if I had that I'd probably hang out in it most of the time...
It's certainly a cozy place to enjoy the hobby!
I’m a technician at the “phone company”, cx facing all day. I go home as quick as I can as to not deal with other folks. For the most part folks are nice but it’s hard to re-engage with them when you’re not paid to. At least with the hobby I can talk to folks about technical stuff that is lacking from my job now.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It’s always nice to hear from fellow tech enthusiasts who find solace in hobbies like ham radio.
I struggle with relatively new hams telling me i need to spend more money on things like coax, or going on and on about grounding. Radio club meetings can get like that. Fortnite i have teached an age where i am now considered irrelevant, or I am fading into the background.
Thanks for your comment... I just tune those out and look at results. I get 500 QSOs with just basic gear...those guys struggle to get 10 with their fancy QRP gear and farady clothes and vertical antennas that they would be lucky to work the guy down the street with. Not this guy, simple radio, simple coax (got it on Amazon) and a EFHW that I actually put up in the air... 500 QSOs on average.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year Stuart.
73 form the UK.
Malc M0IYI
Stuart, you nailed it! I'm the same way - personable, affable even, but I prefer not being around others. Smalltalk makes me nuts. I'll get on the radio to make some contacts, of course. But keep it quick - no rag-chewing. Radio has a purpose in my life, and making friends with distant folks in other places ain't it. At least, not now.
Based on the comments you have, there are many like us! That's oddly encouraging.
I really appreciate your comment! It’s reassuring to know that there are fellow ham operators who feel the same way about social interaction.
I'm over 65 amd have never liked being around people. Trying to get into radio but I'm thinking I'll just listen
I am also an Operator, and lately I find I would rather listen to the radio than talk on it.
I miss being a Shortwave Listener.
People Turn me off sometimes.
I don't hate people, Just don't want to talk about the weather all the time,
Or about prostrates, medications.
Some people should just use FT8 mode and let the computer make all their contacts.
After working at a gas station and coming home,
I don't need to interact with people for longer than I have too.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It’s inspiring to see others find joy in radio. Listening is a great first step, and who knows, you might find yourself wanting to join in the conversation!
My dad says I don't have any friends. He's not a ham and not interested. I've been a ham for 32 yrs and know a lot of hams. Guess it's a lonely world on the air....😂
100%!!! Too much to go into but I sure feel the same way. I studied for my license in the mid 90s but never took any tests because I didn't study CW. I worked public service/sales jobs for nearly 30 years after that so I really feel like I'm done dealing with people. Just started studying again and bought myself a Xiegu X6100 so I can learn by listening. Eventually I'll POTA/SOTA while hiking around with my big scary working dog who keeps people away 🤣🤣🤣 I'm finally getting into what I wanted to decades ago and loving it.
That’s so cool! I love that you’re diving back into ham radio. Your dog sounds like a great hiking buddy too! Can’t wait to hear about your POTA/SOTA adventures!
I am so with you on this. I think there should be a way of calling CQ that indicates you don't want a rag chew. This is why I like FT8 and satellite contacts.
call cq and state youre only looking for contacts under a certain age lol.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts! It's great to hear from fellow operators who appreciate the efficiency of FT8 and satellite contacts.
Looks bliss fella, Happy Christmas from the UK, Enjoy the Radio & Good Dxing, Chris - M7CAX
Thank you so much for the Christmas wishes, Chris! I appreciate it and hope you have a fantastic holiday season filled with great radio connections!
What beautiful Winter Wonderland. Love the Noise of the frozen Snow "BRAPP BRAPP". Tnx for mentioning me Stuart. I agree with you on being around People. The sickest Society since Human exist. I am tired listening to their Complaints and crying Rivers of having such a bad Life and always blaming others for that. Life is what you make it. I am a happy HAM and especially since I became a fulltime portable HAM Radio Operator my Life got a new Meaning. Merry Christmas and keep up the good Work. 73 de Your wrinkled Friend down by the River 💯👍🙋♂🍻
Thanks for the awesome comment! It’s cool to hear how much you’re enjoying the HAM life. Merry Christmas and keep spreading those good vibes down by the river! 73!
I became a Ham Op back in the 80s and mostly listened on my AR88, a G7 here in the UK.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It's always great to connect with fellow ham ops who have been in the game for so long.
I am a ham radio operator and live halfway up a mountain i don't mind people but on my own terms. I enjoy the construction and repair of equipment more than operating it, i often say to myself where is the fun in buying something thhat works out the box. I see about 3 to 5 people drive by the property a day less in winter more in summer. I have a shepherd friend we always talk when I meet him. He hates being alone.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It’s great to connect with others who appreciate the craft of ham radio as much as you do. Keep enjoying your mountain retreat and the unique conversations you have!
I don’t mind being around like-minded people (ham club or group outings), but it’s with strangers. STRANGER DANGER! But I’l always prepared. Happy New Year & 73!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s always nice to hear from fellow operators. Wishing you a fantastic New Year and many successful QSOs!
I love to work CW and talk on my radios, however whenever it comes to people. I avoid them as much as possible.
Ah, the classic ham radio paradox: talking to the world while avoiding the crowd! I totally get it; the airwaves are much more welcoming.
I'm 56 and a ham operator. I am the same way. I worked retail for 25 years and it burnt me out as far as dealing with people.
I am N8ODY and located north of Detroit, which is "north of Canada" (Windsor).😃 Hope to chat with you one day on the bands.
Thanks for this video.
It's great to hear from a fellow ham operator who gets it, N8ODY!
Thanks for sharing
My pleasure
Being in my mid 30s, I can feel this. Priorities just take over and you realize what is really important.
73s!
Thank you for your comment! It’s great to hear from fellow ham radio enthusiasts who can relate. Here’s to focusing on what truly matters!
I’m in a club and few members get on the scheduled chats because of chewers who are depressing and never stop talking to hear others. Kudos too all members because we all care nothing for the popular media nonsense.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It’s always refreshing to see fellow ham radio operators who prioritize meaningful conversations over the media noise.
I'm exactly the same and even find verbal communication a bit awkward. I think that's why I prefer CW, perfect for people who don't have much to say and want to take a long time saying it! 🙂
Thank you for sharing your experience! It's nice to know I'm not alone in feeling that way. CW is such a perfect fit for those of us who prefer a quieter approach.
Well said. Ragchews are the worst thing ever in my mind... but I don't condemn others for liking them. I just move on... and I have a youtube channel as well. I like exploring the tech and teaching others. "and that's O.K."
I appreciate your perspective! It’s awesome that you’re using your channel to share knowledge. Keep up the great work, and remember, there’s room for all kinds of operators in this hobby!
Hey Stuart this is Randy N2VQD from the Friendship Net. Good to find you here. 73 es Happy New Year!
Thank you for dropping by, Randy! Happy New Year to you as well.
I was on FM radio and was happy to do my show, but once it was done I was home, I might see a movie with a friend or go out with my Parents, but apart from dog walking, that was it.
Thank you for sharing your story! It's great to hear about your experiences with FM radio and how you manage your time outside of it.
I'm always amazed how long people talk. The telephone was made for women and it seems that ham was invented for men.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It's always fascinating to hear different perspectives on communication styles.
Men build telecommunication networks and women text while driving.
I think I'm about to do the same myself. Obviously not avoid all people, just certain ones, which sadly make up the majority these days. 73!
Yes, I have certain people I will always make time for...the other 99.9% I couldn't care less about
Its a great quality my friend....73`s
It sure is
This is probably pretty common among radio amateurs. Not exclusively, of course, but I’d bet it is a significant percentage. Personally, I operated mostly CW in the early years because it took so long just to exchange the basic info, which was plenty for me. I also did RTTY for the same reason, although as a pretty fast typist, you could have longer conversations.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It’s interesting to hear how others navigate the world of ham radio. Your insights on CW and RTTY are really valuable!
Great video, thanks for sharing! I'm likewise a ham, and I happen to have ADHD (as many of us apparently do). I've lived in a bunch of different countries, occasionally even in urban areas, but I now live on a large parcel of land in the Green Mountains of Vermont and also very much enjoy general solitude. And I've never felt more at hime in doing so. Cheers and 73!
It sounds like you've found your perfect place!
Everything you said is true. Subscribed.
I appreciate you watching and sharing your thoughts!
Spot on. Absolutely concur.
Thank you for your support! It’s always nice to hear from fellow enthusiasts who get it.
Yep.
You and me both brother! But this is where everyone is going!
Thank you for your support! It’s great to connect with fellow ham radio enthusiasts who understand the appeal of a quieter life.
I really get that and and feel that sometimes as well
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s comforting to know that others feel the same way about finding peace in their interests.
Happy in my own company, a great concept. Love my radio!
I think a lot of us can relate!
I think there is a tendency for this hobby to attract people with this trait (which I have myself). Similarly with other intense interests including railways, bird watching and computer games. Vy 73
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s great to connect with fellow hobbyists who understand this unique trait. Vy 73!
The reason I got into amateur radio was the technical side of the hobby. I enjoy stuff like POTA partly because the contact is short and you are not expected to have a conversation
Yep, I like a lot about ham radio, POTA, WWFF and DXing and especially contesting since I get the thrill of new places without having to hear everyone's life stories :-)
Though I was the only one , am happy to be at home with family, pet's and Ham radios I don't go out much ive got bilateral vestibular lossary . My soldering iron keeps me busy. Thanks for the video. 73
Sounds like you've got the perfect setup-family, pets, and ham radios! Just remember, if your soldering iron starts talking back, it might be time to take a break!
I hate to modulate a signal with my own voice. Im the same way, happy to be at home, not having to stroke someone off to play well with others. I have no desire what so ever to make H F contacts, and hate SSB voice. And I honestly cant understand Somone's call sign, the suffix part since everyone rattles it off so quickly. You tube is NICE. I can see, what I can not hear.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s always nice to hear from fellow operators who appreciate the quieter side of ham radio. Your perspective adds so much to the conversation!
Q: How can you tell if the engineer you are talking to is outgoing?
A: He looks at your shoes when he talks to you.
Haha, that’s hilarious! I’ll have to remember that next time I’m chatting with an engineer!
I am exactly the same & prefer the company of my Dog over people. I enjoy the technical side of Radio but when I listen to QSO's there is nothing of interest that prompts me to join in. Very rarely call CQ and am self conscious when I do. I would describe myself as a licenced listener.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It’s comforting to know that there are others out there who appreciate the technical side of ham radio just as much as I do.
Many hams would rather talk to other people over the radio than meet in person, took me a long time to realize that, I don't want to be around people either, they are a big let down for me, take it one day at a time and do the best u can, all I can say...
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It's comforting to know there are others out there who feel the same way. Together, we can enjoy our passion for ham radio while keeping the socializing to a minimum!
I like some people but I like my own space and don’t have non family over for chit chats. I have neighbors who feel the same way. We help each other when needed but don’t blather about nothing.
Thank you for sharing your perspective! It’s nice to connect with others who appreciate their own space while still being there for each other.
I enjoy the company of my wife and dogs. Yes I can interact with others but its not a priority most of the time
Thank you for sharing your perspective! It's great to hear how much you value your time with family and furry friends.
I liked learning for my exams, I like understanding the technology, I often listen bit im not all that interested in building relationships on the air. Its a diverse hobby though and theres room for everyone.
It's great to hear that you appreciate the technical side of ham radio! There truly is a place for everyone in this diverse hobby, whether you're connecting with others or just enjoying the technology.
That is exactly me! I limit my contacts to CW because it discourages the long-winded contacts. 73's.
Thanks for sharing your experience! It's always great to connect with fellow operators who appreciate the beauty of brevity. 73's!
I'm the same way! I avoid the repeaters, don't enjoy field day around a bunch of people, and like POTA hunting, it's short and sweet! 73 KB3JC
That's funny I watched the same video. My wife and I enjoy our life at home as well. Nothing wrong with being out of complications that come with dealing with people.
Thank you for sharing your perspective! It’s always nice to connect with others who appreciate the simpler, quieter life.
My kids want me to move and live with them. I been living alone for a while now. Love my kids but love alone time more, maybe. 63 and MErry Christmas! Remember to correct the 'happy holidays' people!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s wonderful to see how much you cherish your kids while also valuing your alone time. Wishing you a joyful Christmas season!
Same here am in my 60's also Ham Radio Operator. Gus what I am also a retired Nurse.
Thank you for sharing your story! It's great to see how diverse our community is, and I appreciate your service as a nurse.
I get where you are coming from. I'm 40 and have come to despise people for the same reasons, except sooner because I work in social services. I consider myself a misanthrope at this point. The reason I have my tickets is really for emcomm (not the ARES or RACES type) and I like a few technical aspects of it. I love digital modes like JS8Call and FT8 for this reason. The only time I do voice is for the few nets I participate in (always in-and-out, no comment) really just to make sure my system is working, and on events like Field Day. Otherwise, no voice, straight digital.
Also, I don't want to hear about people's bowel issues, their latest prostate exam, and how ham radio is ruined because X reason. Substitute X for CW no longer being required, young people, preppers, non-tinkerers, digital mode operators, non-ragchewers, etc.
Thank you for sharing your perspective! It's always refreshing to hear from fellow operators who appreciate the technical side of things. Your insights into digital modes are really valuable!
Many of us are kind if loners. But radio is a comfortable medium for communication.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s nice to know there are others out there who appreciate the quiet comfort of radio communication.
I hear ya, I'm the same, more than happy too be away from people!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s always nice to know there are others who enjoy the peace and quiet.
I feel you. Have a good one, 73
Thank you for your support! It's nice to connect with fellow enthusiasts, even from a distance. 73!
I've been a radio ham since the 1980s it's still very much part of me but unfortunately at the moment I'm qrt 73s G0HDA
Thank you for sharing your journey! It’s inspiring to hear from someone who's been passionate about ham radio for so long. Wishing you all the best!
Yes, same here. I learned CW, so I don't have to say a word. 😁
This CW is the best
That's awesome! CW is a great skill to have, and it really does allow for some unique communication without the need for words.
I agree people suck! n1hcw said that
The more I engage with some I realize that more, just check the POTA Facebook group for glowing examples 🙂
I'm a shortwave listener who also avoids people.
Thank you for sharing! It's always nice to connect with fellow enthusiasts who understand the beauty of solitude and the magic of radio waves.
I'm also a ham. With most of the people I meet, the longer I know them, the less I like them. With other hams it is maybe 50 per cent. With the the general public it is like 95 per cent. It's not the length of time, it's just I find out more about them and its usually not good.
I totally understand where you're coming from! Sometimes, it's just easier to connect with those who share our interests and passions. Ham radio can be a great way to find like-minded individuals!
Tolerance may help in this situation…. (Stones and glass houses etc)
You words are ringing true with a lot of us Stuart and all the more poignant that you post them on Christmas Eve. Being alone and being lonely are two very different things. We choose to be alone but we can never be lonely in this wonderful hobby. There's always some like minded individual out there on the bands to chat with if we need to. The best of luck to you and all who are commenting here for a happy 2025. John EI5JS
I really appreciate your kind words, John! It’s heartwarming to connect with others who truly understand the joy of this hobby. Wishing you a wonderful 2025 too!
Yup
Right? Sometimes a simple “Yup” says it all! Thanks for checking it out!
It is a hobby that relies on having other people. But you dont have to chat it up if youre not into it.
Absolutely! Ham radio can be as social or as solitary as you want it to be. It's all about enjoying the hobby in your own way!
I sort of relate in a way. People I'm around think I'm not social. I've also lived here 6 years and have lived many places and have known many people. I decided this time to keep people at arms length unless I select otherwise. It isn't that I hate them..... it's the hatred they have for themselves that i can't stand. My baby boomer peers have never really impressed me all that much..... especially in their physical and mental laziness. Of course this isn't all, but the majority in my statistically anecdotal experience. I also don't believe in coincidences. If a conversation lacks depth of texture I'm out. I consume all my time with or without people. I prefer stimulation to boredom. I'd say I'm what is defined as a sigma male type. It's considered rare.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s always refreshing to hear from someone who values depth in conversation. Your insights really resonate with me!
Stuart, I'm 73 my wife is 66, like you we were both in the mob. I think it is an age thing and possibly something left in us from military life. We are used to having a purpose to what we do, if we have nothing important to look after well, we may or may not do it right away. I find shopping out in the "wild" falls into one of these categories, fun, pleasant, get 'er done and 4,5,6 (think on that one) get the F out of the way. I find people to be like cats, no purpose, no direction and no idea of what, when or why to what they are doing, minimal exposure to this chaos means a more enjoyable life... at home.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s always refreshing to hear from fellow enthusiasts who understand the value of purpose and tranquility.
wouldn’t you then only work the digital modes ? 😊😊😊😊
Not necessarily. I love contesting, DXing, POTA and WWFF because I get the thrill of reaching new places and making contacts, I just don't need to know what you had for breakfast, nor do I really want to know what your station setup is, every single time.... a 5x9 into France is good for me and the more we talk the more I will get to know you and enjoy taking to you. I love being isolated on my property away from the rat race of people and on the air, I love making new contacts and moving onto the next.
For Me......Radios and Computers will Never meet in my shack.......But that's what makes our hobby so great.......there's something for everyone
I totally get it!
Thanks
Same here just in Texas.
Thanks for sharing! It’s always nice to hear from others who understand the appeal of ham radio and a bit of solitude.
we Hams tend to be introverts not all but some.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s always great to connect with fellow Hams who understand the balance between introversion and our love for the airwaves.
Look up the life expectancy of those that interact with people and those that don’t…….
According to Google Gemini, increase of 50%, but I'll take the L on this one to avoid being around people that just drain your energy.
The more your around people the more you want to be around animals.
You might be onto something-after all, animals never judge your antenna setup!
yep
Thanks for dropping by and leaving a comment! Your support means a lot!
This is why I love CW
Thanks for your comment
😆
Me too ❤
Thanks for sharing! It's always nice to connect with someone who understands the joys of ham radio and the peace of solitude.
100% put me in the same category. I want to exchange the details of the contact, say a gracious thank you and move on. I can't stand hams that DRONE on about nothing. Frankly most of these other hams are obnoxious, or know-it-alls, or QSO etiquette police, and can't wait to tell you that THEY had to know CW when they got their license back in the 1800's. This hobby is killing itself from the inside out.
It's unfortunate that some people are like that, and you're not alone in how you feel.
1. Nothing wrong with your perspective. (Mostly.)
2. I recently challenged two different LLMs to prove that the literature saying that humans need social interaction with other humans. What I found was the following: 1) There is a lot of research evidence that shows that neurotypical humans need social interaction with other neurotypical humans, 2) Loneliness is a leading cause of premature death in senior citizens, 3) there is NO scientific basis for the MEANS of social interaction prescribed by most proponents of social interactions and they seem to be biased towards extroverted personality types, 4) and there is no evidence of the need for social interaction for neurodivergent individuals as there has been no scientific research that controlled for introverted vs extroverted personality traits and individuals with neurotypical vs neurodivergent brains.
3. The research does not control for the evolution of societal norms over long periods of time such as when society was agrarian and more sparse. Instead the researchers sample from clusters of individuals in villages or metropolitan areas with most participants being … students at the universities where the researchers were working.
4. The research also doesn’t control for people affected by the employment trend from the 60s until now towards transactional employment and transactional relationships. Research does suggest that employees with deeper connections to colleagues creates a more engaged workforce which creates better business outcomes in service oriented and knowledge management roles. That doesn’t seem to be true for manufacturing or agribusiness roles.
So… yeah.
I would challenge the Op on one thing though, don’t let your work experience in a transactional work environment jade your social interactions outside of that environment. From your own words, you may be conflating the two. You would have to run your own “experiments” on yourself to figure that out.
I really appreciate the time you took to write this out! Your insights into social dynamics and research are enlightening, and they definitely add depth to the conversation!
same here, 73 Klaus
I appreciate your comment, Klaus! It’s nice to know there are others out there who understand the charm of avoiding crowds while still enjoying the ham radio community. 73!