Book Review: Conversations with Friends by, Sally Rooney

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  • @novelideea
    @novelideea 2 роки тому +77

    Hahaha! I have used those exact words! “I get what the author is doing, I just don’t like it and don’t want to be a part of their thang.”

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  2 роки тому +8

      Yes!!! 😂🙌🏼 and we don’t have to like it!

  • @IntoTheWeeds71
    @IntoTheWeeds71 Рік тому +23

    I am fascinated by this take. On the "personality" and "seeing myself" sections, I don't think it's about individuality at all, at least not in the way you're talking about. Frances isn't talking about looking at herself in the mirror like some angsty teenager, or worried about her personality and whether it's unique enough - it seems, at least to me, that she's struggling with being detached from a sense of self. The inability to recall your own features. The oddity of being perceived, and having to reconcile with the fact that you have an image that you don't control. The poor interoceptive awareness, and the practicing of facial expressions. As an autistic person, all that felt very real to me. I'm not sure why I feel so defensive about this, but I think there are plenty of people who resonate with Frances because when they're in a room full of people, they struggle to feel human at all. Permanent outsiders. And Frances read like that to me. Hearing that described as cringe and having "pick-me girl vibes," well, that feels like being seventeen again, dropping the mask and not understanding why the other kids keep making faces at each other when you talk.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому +7

      That’s an interesting take!! That makes perfect sense to me- the angle you’re coming from! Thanks for sharing because I do know what you mean with masking and practicing social interactions!

  • @danecobain
    @danecobain 2 роки тому +25

    I love everything about this review. You explained why I didn't like it way more eloquently than I ever could. I always just fall back on reading somewhere that she said that a lot of the book is based on her actual friends and it making me think that she needs some new friends.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  2 роки тому +3

      Haha thank you! And I’m glad I’m not the only one 😅😂
      Woah if this is based off her friends…. She either needs to get new ones and/or take a hard look at the person in the mirror. Either way, she needs to write it better 😂

    • @danecobain
      @danecobain 2 роки тому +1

      @@alanaestelle2076 Hahaha, amazing :D Well, we're in the minority, but I suppose that's the good thing about reading. I don't have a problem with other people enjoying it, it just wasn't for me!

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  2 роки тому

      @@danecobain haha yes same!! If someone gets on with it - yay! But shout out to those of us who don’t 🤣🙌🏼

  • @pthao.777
    @pthao.777 10 місяців тому +5

    The manner in which you've established your criteria is truly beneficial and i love it

  • @ChristyLuisDostoevskyinSpace
    @ChristyLuisDostoevskyinSpace 2 роки тому +20

    Alana snark is THE BEST SNARK

  • @mattkean1128
    @mattkean1128 2 роки тому +26

    I feel so validated!

  • @ellisxsille
    @ellisxsille Рік тому +9

    Just finished this disaster of a book after seeing so many youngsters praise it on the internet. I am glad to see there is a person who hated this book as much as I did. Really enjoyed your review!

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому +2

      We do exist! I mean, if other people love it great. I know that I love books that other people hate, but it’s like she is one of those authors that people don’t want you to critique and that just makes no sense to me

  • @helen.faunway
    @helen.faunway Рік тому +7

    I'm a literary fiction writer who just finished getting my MFA, and my mom recommended Rooney's stuff to me a few years back, as it falls into a similar niche to my own work. My style is character-driven and conversation-heavy, and my mom (bless her) told me I'd love how REALEAL Rooney's characters felt. Unfortunately she was correct--at least insofar as they reminded me of the IRL people I most hate being around lol. I've always struggled with books that feature primarily unlikable characters, whether it's intentional on the author's part or not: it's really difficult for me to get invested in a story without a well-meaning person to root for. And good lord, I couldn't root for anybody in this book. Everyone's just a different flavor of narcissist.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому +3

      Looool you summed it up perfectly: everyone is so narcissistic. 😩 and I’ve read variations of this type of story from other authors and I get on with this narratives. I just can’t with this 😮‍💨

  • @Read2live
    @Read2live 2 роки тому +3

    Excellent review in the way you presented your opinion with such detailed and specific examples. I haven't read Sally Rooney, and I wasn't planning to read her work anytime soon because I have too many other better (in my opinion) works that I want to read. Every time I leafed through a few pages at the store, her books never seemed appealing enough. I enjoyed and appreciated hearing your opinion on this book that it is so popular! That being said, I will never understand people who get offended because someone doesn't like a book they do and they try to put that person's intelligence down for having a different opinion. One of the things about reading books is to be able to have open, honest, mature conversations about the reasons we might like or dislike aspects of a book, character, or the writing. At times, a negative review might be more helpful than a positive review in helping us see things from a different perspective or simply in just confirming the reasons we might appreciate a work that someone else didn't.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much! And YES! I don’t understand that either! I love hearing why people don’t like books because those tend to be some of the most nuanced reviews!

  • @4r1777
    @4r1777 4 місяці тому +1

    Would really love to hear your thoughts on Antkind by Charlie Kaufman.

  • @ChristyLuisDostoevskyinSpace
    @ChristyLuisDostoevskyinSpace 2 роки тому +9

    "I WOULD RATHER READ DICKENS"

  • @marad786
    @marad786 2 роки тому +21

    Why would you say something so controversial, yet so brave? 💜😂

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  2 роки тому +4

      Omg 🤣 is this really brave? I’m just being honest. What do the young people say these days - I’m speaking my truth! 🤣🙈 but thank you! Lol!!!

  • @jennyyeh4730
    @jennyyeh4730 2 роки тому +4

    Love this review !! So well presented and articulated !
    Please can you show how you annotate your books?

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  2 роки тому +3

      Thank you so much!!
      And I’m planning on doing that video this year! 😊

  • @whitleyc
    @whitleyc 5 місяців тому +3

    Also, this was truly so fun to watch! Love a book rant.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  5 місяців тому +2

      LOL YAY! I'm glad! I love a good book rant also - even if the person is ranting about a book i may love. hahaha

  • @millionaire215
    @millionaire215 4 місяці тому +3

    Honest and to the point lol!! Wish you reviewed drafts as I would kill for this type of feedback 😂😂😂

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  4 місяці тому +2

      LOOOOOL The responsibility of handling someones manuscript is mildly terrifying.😂

    • @millionaire215
      @millionaire215 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@alanaestelle2076 😂😂😂 the potential dream killing aside, you have awesome instincts lol! It takes artistic skill to cut through the bull 😂

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  4 місяці тому +1

      @@millionaire215 🤣🤣🤣

  • @acorntea5585
    @acorntea5585 25 днів тому +1

    34:09 I was listening to this part while looking at something else and I was so confused I had to look back at the screen and read the passage twice to figure out what was going on. I have seen Sally Rooney books around but this passage (and the mirror quote at 24:00) made sure I would never go near them. Oh my god. (Thanks for the review, sorry you suffered for it lmao.)

  • @Thecatladybooknook_PennyD
    @Thecatladybooknook_PennyD 2 роки тому +14

    "This book....I hate it. " 😂😂
    Yesssss!!! PREACH (I tune out at all the "buzzwords" too)

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  2 роки тому +1

      🤣
      Omg yes! It’s like a lot of words have completely lost their meanings 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @Read2live
      @Read2live 2 роки тому

      @@alanaestelle2076 and @Thecatladybooknook_ Penny D Exactly!

  • @tbwatch88
    @tbwatch88 4 місяці тому +6

    you read the thing gobsmacked that it ever got published.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  4 місяці тому +2

      @@tbwatch88 gobsmacked is such an amazing word 🤣🤌🏼. Seriously though - the publishing industry makes my head hurt. I read so many great, undercover novels and they don’t have the machine behind them, so they won’t get this type of hype. The Music industry is the same.

  • @abe3765
    @abe3765 5 місяців тому +4

    Omg i thought i was the weird one because everyone seems to lovee the book. I was also think that the book is so flat boring and cringey. I remember that while reading it i kept wanting the story to end asap. And im so agree on that part where sally rooney talks abt her criticism on capitalism on this book. Ive read several book where the writers are doing this and i liked it, but in this book ive felt like sally rooney was trying soo hardd to be one of those millenials who talks abt politics and current affairs just bcs it makes u look cool, smart and edgy. It felt forced, pretentious and lack anything substantial

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  5 місяців тому

      SAME SAME SAME! It does feel like she's trying to hard!

  • @EveningReader
    @EveningReader Рік тому +5

    This review is EVERYTHING.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому

      Haha yaaay! I’m glad you enjoyed 🤣 I’m surprised at how well this was received, overall! P

  • @Wanderwilderreading
    @Wanderwilderreading 2 роки тому +11

    I love Sally Rooney, and I’m aware that she’s super controversial. I will say that Conversations with Friends is my least favorite. I love how deeply flawed her characters are but I totally get where you’re coming from with her inability to be subtle. Interesting that you found her characters non unique and boring though, because I find her characters to be unique to read! As you talked extensively about, she’s also a self proclaimed communist so there’s that… all of that aside, I laughed out loud multiple times in your review. Thanks for tearing me apart! 😂😂

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  2 роки тому +1

      You are the MVP for watching this on an author you love! I appreciate you!😂🙌🏼 that’s so fascinating how we both have completely different opinions on these characters. Goes to show that no two readers read the same book.
      Haha also like to watch negative reviews on books I love 😂

    • @Wanderwilderreading
      @Wanderwilderreading 2 роки тому

      @@alanaestelle2076 it’s been awhile since I’ve read conversations with friends but I do remember that one boring me the most. I own both of her other books but I’ll never bother owning a copy of this one.

    • @kpsco9759
      @kpsco9759 Рік тому

      @@alanaestelle2076 I have genuinely never commented on a UA-cam video in my life but this exchange was it. I enjoy Rooney so much and this book is also my least favourite thing she’s written but you didn’t like Mr Salary so I need to rationalise that. You strike me as open-minded (notwithstanding the strong personality) and I think the visceral reaction is a perfect storm of political, cultural, and individual factors. At the risk of being reductionist - and I think you yourself argue that good writing can overcome all this - I think it was pre-ordained that a book written by a Marxist, European-oriented Irish person who I think is probably some version of Marianne in Normal People was just never, ever going to strike a chord with you.
      People are different, I guess. But on that point I think you’ve misrepresented Marx and Marxism quite unfortunately when it comes to individuality vs group identify front.

  • @janethansen9612
    @janethansen9612 2 роки тому +6

    I am here for this review! I read Normal People and hated it for much the same reasons. Her writing is immature and reminds me of my writing when I was 14 years old. In her defence, Rooney is still very young and she needs to go and experience actual life as an adult. However, there are other young authors who do a much better job.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому

      THIS!! I often thought the same thing while reading - I’ve read teenagers writing that is better.

  • @mikegseclecticreads
    @mikegseclecticreads 2 роки тому +2

    This was so entertaining, but still also a fair and thorough review! Plus, I really trust it since most of your reviews I've seen have been pretty positive and this one... not so much
    I haven't read the book but I agree with you that the "you're not unique" or "your personality isn't real" always kind of annoys me, because of course I am and of course it is! It still might be interesting to read from the perspective of someone who believes these things, but it doesn't sound like Frances's is the most compelling perspective.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому

      Thank you! And I’m glad you thought it was fair!
      Yeaaa it was all rather tiresome 😅

  • @melinaouzouni6151
    @melinaouzouni6151 6 місяців тому +3

    Wow I just wanted to find an honest review from someone that objective! Thank you for your review!

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  6 місяців тому

      I’m glad you found this helpful! Thanks for watching!

  • @vesch5083
    @vesch5083 Рік тому +6

    The visceral reaction you had to this book was my exact reaction to Outlander and Diana Gabaldon. 😂
    I've never read Sally Rooney but the snippets you showed don't make me want to rush out and read her books.
    This was a gloves-off review and I'm here for it.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому

      LOOOOOOL!!! I love that you hate Outlander, even though I love it. 🤣👌🏼
      Yeaaa don’t rush to this one.
      Haha! If there’s one thing, I’m going o be honest about how I feel about a book.

  • @jamesduggan7200
    @jamesduggan7200 2 роки тому +6

    On another channel I watch regularly, a popular novel was panned. Generally, I suggest young people looking to the future avoid heavy criticism of others, however this review presented such strong examples of terrible writing that I had to agree with the overall assessment of terribleness. btw, I. too, think Marx was twisted, regardless of whether or not ultimately the body of work makes sense. For the most part, I've heard positive reviews of CwF, tho apparently its author, Sally Rooney, holds at least two or three political opinions I might describe as problematic (were I the type of person to do that sort of thing). Thx for you honesty, and I admire your bravery.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  2 роки тому +1

      Yea I usually try to be … a bit more neutral about authors when I don’t like a work, but this was … it needed to be said lol. And that’s why I always back up my reviews with examples, so people can know I’m basing my findings in something that is provided within the work itself. Haha Marx was twisted and yes, there are sections in his works that I’ve marked like “ok…. I see what you’re getting at!” Though over all, I don’t care for him.
      Yes, I’ve strongly disagreed with some of her stances too and she even puts them in her narratives which is fine, she can express those beliefs. I’m all about free speech and creative speech. It’s just not well written 😅. Thank you! I appreciate that you called this brave. My belief is if it’s a public work, it’s fair game! Lol

    • @jamesduggan7200
      @jamesduggan7200 2 роки тому +1

      @@alanaestelle2076 Yeah, just always remember that you see the same people on the way down as you do when you're going up, regardless of the perspective you have of them. Thx again - have been enjoying your channel a lot.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  2 роки тому +2

      @@jamesduggan7200 oh i hear ya and when I first posted this on Instagram I was a bit nervous🤣
      I was actually really surprised at its reception. And thank you!

  • @MoneyCodez
    @MoneyCodez Місяць тому +1

    Never read it, but your disgusted rants make this channel pure gold!!!! I need for you to review more wack books please and thank u.

  • @margot_polo
    @margot_polo Рік тому +2

    preach! refreshing point of viewwww thank youuuu

  • @lilyrose3
    @lilyrose3 Рік тому +4

    I really liked Normal People but didn't like Conversations with Friends. I agree with you that it was, or at least the characters Francis and Bobbi were, so pretentious. I'm glad I read Normal People first, otherwise I wouldn't have bothered to read anything else by her probably.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому +2

      I haven't read Normal People, perhaps had I read it, it would have been a different experience. But, yes, this book was ... not it for me either haha.

  • @bookofdust
    @bookofdust 2 роки тому +2

    I had no interest in reading Rooney, but my challenge last year was reading Ireland and she’s the 900 pound elephant in the room for current Irish lit and I felt I needed to read her at least once. With very, very low expectations I read Normal People and because of that I think I was able to enjoy it more than I expected. What I did really appreciate is she made two main characters who were very smart, genius level smart, and that’s not something you often see in contemporary fiction, very smart young people, especially in their teens. So, it wasn’t as bad as I had imagined, but I don’t feel the need to ever read anything else by her. I did watch the an episode of the Conversation TV show, but abandoned it after struggling through the first one.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  2 роки тому +1

      Yea I felt like I needed to give one of her novels a chance and well… you see how that went lol. I’m glad you liked Normal People more than you anticipated - that’s always a pleasant surprise! Yea I’ve heard others say that about the show as well.

  • @aishar887
    @aishar887 Рік тому +4

    (First of all, if I have errors in my writing it's because English isn't my first language)
    The Emily Henry take: YES.
    I read Conversations with friends and ended just like you: libid. Also I don't think it's an age/maturity thing because I'm 22 and it also aported nothing to me. Later on I read "Normal People" and gave it 5 stars. Now I'm reading "Beautiful world, where are you" and I'm getting the same ick as in CWF. I think she just blurts paragraphs of capitalism critique instead of EXPOSITION. Just saying quote on quote what she wants to say instead of proving it with actions through characters.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому +1

      Haha Yes! I just finished reading People We Meet on Vacation and Henry’s writing is waaaaay better. I’m glad I’m not the only one who joust can’t get on with Rooney. And I’ve heard that about Beautiful World. It’s just word vomit and nothing deeper 😩

  • @jadeddiamonds9983
    @jadeddiamonds9983 2 роки тому +3

    oh wow lol, i loved it. i finished it just yesterday. did a reading vlog.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  2 роки тому

      I’m glad you enjoyed it! It’s always interesting to see how books resonating so differently for people. Especially Rooney lol

  • @whitleyc
    @whitleyc 5 місяців тому +3

    I tried "Beach Read" by Emily Henry recently and found the writing to be lame and SO basic. The fact that you think that that book has better writing really says something about this one. I'm definitely keen to stay away from it! (Plus, I've heard Sally Rooney doesn't use quotation marks in her writing which is... a choice.)

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  5 місяців тому +2

      I get why Henry is popular, but i do think she's over rated. I do find little sparks of good stuff in some of her earlier novels, but now I think Henry is WAY WAY Over saturated and i'm over it. LOL Yep, Rooney doesn't use quotations marks. That doesn't bother me too much. I have beef with how bad this novel is LOLOL

  • @ayeelaura
    @ayeelaura Рік тому +6

    I'm glad I'm not the only one who found no joy in reading this ....i even found the characters on the TV show very ..distant? weirdly combative and competitive for friends ...I could go on 😂 I just didn't even care what happened to them or why they were motivated ...😌

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому +1

      YES! NO JOY! 🤣 I’m actually reading A Very Nice Girl by, Imogen Crimp right now - the themes are almost identical but this one is soooo much more palatable. Omg.

    • @ayeelaura
      @ayeelaura Рік тому +1

      @@alanaestelle2076 I'll check it out!!! Love the content 💛

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому

      @@ayeelaura thanks! A Very Nice Girl is surprising me! If you read it, let me know what you think!

  • @CedricsMom
    @CedricsMom 24 дні тому +1

    34:20 Rooney couldn't have known up front that her books would be the golden children that publishing has chosen them to be. The real question is, why is publishing pushing her books so much? Why are they selling books that criticize capitalism? Who does this benefit? These are not rhetorical questions.

  • @PinkysStudio
    @PinkysStudio 4 місяці тому +3

    Your review made me laugh so much 🤣. I definitely will not be bothering with this book!! I've just finished reading Normal People because liked the tv adaptation. I found the characters quite interesting but the writing is just so bad.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  4 місяці тому +2

      LOL I'm glad! Some people think i'm an idiot for this video/opinion, but I really don't care.

  • @kimpina5846
    @kimpina5846 2 роки тому +6

    The Kim K voice put me over…🤣🤣

  • @oliviar.2937
    @oliviar.2937 2 роки тому +8

    As a Rooney and Irish woman, I hope I'm not related to her 😂 every time you read her quotes I zoned out. I can't stand bad writing 🥴
    Loved your rant. I cracked up many times. 😂

  • @SheriMaple
    @SheriMaple 2 роки тому +3

    I never thought about reading Sally Rooney's books; your review confirmed that. I probably, without question, DNF her book and returned it. There are talented writers like Jesmyn Ward and Percival Everett that come top of mind that receive a fraction of marketing and promotion than Rooney's books. I understand marketing her book to a new millennial readership, but it's insulting to readers' intelligence. Chile, you've saved me several hours of my life that I wouldn't get back from reading this book. Thank you!

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому

      Looooool! And there are so many other Irish authors to try! I’m actually wondering is Rooney appeals more to Gen Z… or maybe younger millennials?

  • @heatherbocks
    @heatherbocks Рік тому +11

    The balls to say she’s not a good writer! I love it. I hated this book and was confused by all the negative reviews that said “she’s an excellent writer, but…” cause I found it horribly written 😂

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому +1

      LOOOOOL! Omg 🤣 your comment made my day 🤣 yeaaaa I just don’t get it either 😅.

  • @kathleenkemp1030
    @kathleenkemp1030 Рік тому +4

    After reading Sally Rooney's "French Braid", I knew Sally Rooney wasn't an author for me. "French Braid" was one of my worst reads of 2022. It was only beat out by "The Paper Palace" by Miranda Cowley Heller which reached an even higher level of awful, but only by a little bit.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому

      Is French Braid one of her short stories? Haha I haven’t heard of that other book!

  • @alexpatterson4286
    @alexpatterson4286 10 місяців тому +5

    I'm a year late to this, but this review is great. In fact it's encouraged me to let out steam about a similar author gripe I have 😂.
    Your impression of Rooney is like my impression of China Mieville. He's the author of a prize-laden Marxist novel that turned out to be the worst book I've ever read, Perdido Street Station. His works, along with the way he talks in interviews, ring with the sense of an author straining to achieve intellectual heights but just falling flat, just like you say about Rooney's book apparently "trying too hard". Mieville intended Peridod Street Station to be some foundational text that would launch the genres of Fantasy and Sci-Fi into a revolution, one that breaks from the orthodoxy of Tolkien and Lewis. But Perdido Street Station came out two decades ago and has had nothing of the cultural impact he envisioned. It's a dead book and you can see why. Throughout, its plot splits into threads that by the book's end have fizzled out into nowhere. The characters are forgettable. At times the book's genre shifts from Fantasy into surrealism, but the surrealist episodes don't - as the author intends - suffuse the reader's consciousness with hallucinatory impressions; they're just laughably childish. The prose must be the worst aspect. It’s cluttered with archaic Latinate words that have no apparent role other than to make the author feel smart.
    I've read more than one other prize-winning book that I don't even feel deserves to have been published, like The Loney by Andrew Michael Hurley or The Chrysalids by John Wyndham. But those books are modest in what they aspire to do, and so you can almost forgive their being awarded as something the writers never intended. What makes Mieville's book the worst I've ever read is that his pretensions tower over his skill.
    Just like in Rooney's work, it's baffling to see why his Goodreads reviews are so high.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  10 місяців тому +2

      Hahaha thank you! LOL I love a good literary rant! Honestly, a lot of books are really overhyped and sometimes I wonder if people are too nervous to criticize certain authors, especially ones that they are told are 'good.'

  • @blueberrymuffinv
    @blueberrymuffinv Рік тому +2

    I just finished this book and loved it! I couldn't finish this video because I disagreed with it too much but that's okay. I still love your channel 😂

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому +2

      Glad you loved it!! 🙌🏼 HAHA! Looook I appreciate that you still tried to watch! Thanks so much! 😂❤️ that’s what makes reading so fun - we all have such different experiences lol.

  • @SheanaJo
    @SheanaJo 2 роки тому +4

    This was great! I appreciate you and your reviews 🙂

  • @milahrytsyna3964
    @milahrytsyna3964 Рік тому +1

    This is such a brilliant review, thank you for it.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому

      Aw thank you! Not gonna lie - I was initially a little nervous to post.

  • @RockingChairAdventures
    @RockingChairAdventures Рік тому +12

    I hate Normal People and I'm probably never gonna read another Sally Rooney book, but I love listening to you tearing it down 😂
    Edit: Finally someone who also hated Hamnet, so boring!!

  • @graceharrington4560
    @graceharrington4560 Рік тому +6

    Many of the sentences are written in Irish dialogue like a person would actually speak out loud. In real life people don’t speak with grammatical perfection. No wonder you don’t like it because you’re not reading it properly. I’m literally staring at the words seeing them make perfect sense while you’re incorrectly reading them in a way that makes no sense. Btw I’m British so it’s probably easier for me to see the sense in the sentences because they are written as we speak.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому +8

      Thanks for you feedback and insight! I’ve read other Irish authors, who have written in dialect, and I got in with them splendidly and loved those books. I primarily read British authors, with a lot of dialect. I can understand very well, written or spoken. Rooney’s writing just isn’t for me and that’s ok.

  • @ThePaulineu
    @ThePaulineu 4 місяці тому +2

    I was hoping the whole time for the main character to go to therapy and get better and then at the end it was all over again... I also hated the whole "cheating but it's okay" thing where Nick doesn't communicate with his wife at all about Frances. That's not how polyamourous people should be

  • @CedricsMom
    @CedricsMom 24 дні тому +1

    41:00 LOL!! The longer you talk about this book, the more you hate it. 🤣😂😅

  • @cs0p
    @cs0p 2 роки тому +4

    "That's all capitalism baby" soooooo good, I love this video

  • @Bonitolibro
    @Bonitolibro 4 місяці тому +2

    I love this review so much that I almost wish you read Normal People 😁 which is even worse than Conversations with Friends 😂
    I have read those too and although I was kinda hooked by the story I also felt that it was insanely pretentious, ridiculously shallow and the characters are beyond basic… come on all her characters are either beautiful, rich or beautiful and rich 😂 her writing is the highest expression of telling not showing I have ever read. I haven’t seen her interviews but literally these 2 novels feel like a compilation of parroting and fake characters. Not fake with each other but with the reader.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  4 місяці тому +2

      Omg, reading any more would be torture LOL.
      Yesssssss!

  • @cs0p
    @cs0p 2 роки тому +3

    wow I hate hate hated Hamnet. It was my least favorite book of 2022. I will never trust anyone who liked it 💀

  • @merveakts
    @merveakts Рік тому +4

    Oh god, thank you so much for this review. I agree with every word you said. I don't understand why people love this book, I didn’t like it at all. I want back the seconds I spent on this book. You made the best and very detailed review, I appreciate your braveness to say “I hate this book”. I enjoyed this video so much. It was the most boring book ever. Cheers!

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому +1

      We do exist! 🤣🙌🏼I’m so glad my review resonated with you. ❤️

  • @anamoralsb
    @anamoralsb 3 місяці тому +2

    "he's hot. he's hot. he's hot. I don't care" - me with a lot of fantasy nowadays :(

  • @annasamek5179
    @annasamek5179 Рік тому +4

    I think you are confusing Sally Rooney the author with Frances, the protagonist. I bet Sally Rooney didn't like Frances and her behavior either.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому +3

      Haha I’m not. And I doubt she did either. Still - this book is not jam. Reading a book now with almost identical themes, though the writing style is similar there’s something else to it and I like to a lot better. Just my preference.

  • @elizabethaliteraryprincess
    @elizabethaliteraryprincess 2 роки тому +2

    I love a good rant review, especially when it's 45 minutes! I haven't read anything by Rooney, but I've had Normal People sitting unread on my shelf for a few years. I might rid of it now... Those passages were truly bad. Where was the editor???

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому

      Lol!! Yea … this was a challenge. And it’s not Irish authors, I just don’t get on with Rooney. I dunno… that’s to you lol

  • @Amy-tg7tu
    @Amy-tg7tu Рік тому +3

    Alana for your project idk if you’re already planning to but I think you should read Acts of Desperation since you refuse to read anything by Sally Rooney 🤣🤣 honestly I don’t can’t blame you but a lot of people compare that book to Normal People and lots of women love that sort of literature nowadays because they can relate to the main character being a strong feminist by seeking out men who will treat her horribly then feeling sorry for herself and playing victim

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому +2

      Wait what’s Acts of Desperation?! Should I be scared??🤣
      Because that right there sounds like it’ll make me livid 🤣

    • @Amy-tg7tu
      @Amy-tg7tu Рік тому +1

      @@alanaestelle2076 it definitely has made me livid and I desperately (no pun intended) need to hear you rant about it 💀💀

  • @Fauxbutch
    @Fauxbutch Рік тому +5

    I was in stitches over this review. 😂 Good call on throwing out normal people. The characters were extremely one dimensional and I found the virtue signaling throughout the narrative insufferable. I agree, It’s infuriating that these kind of books are being heralded as literature in our time 🥴

  • @cs0p
    @cs0p 2 роки тому +5

    THE WORST BOOK EVER HAHAHA I loooooove a good book rant ;)

  • @gabiocampos
    @gabiocampos Рік тому +3

    I love you for this 😂

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому

      LOL! ❤️ I’m glad that people received this so well 🤣

  • @CedricsMom
    @CedricsMom 24 дні тому +1

    29:00 Critiquing capitalism by millennials and Gen Z: I'm a Boomer. This $hit we're living in right now is beyond greed; it's avariciousness. It's greed with jagged bloody fangs with chunks of human flesh hanging from them. I am not a student of economics, but I think what we have nowadays in the 21st century is waaay far off the mark of capitalism.

  • @stevesunusual
    @stevesunusual 2 роки тому +2

    No clue who Sally Rooney was until this review, but zero stars is worth awarding, and sometimes (and I have done this once or twice only) a book is worth "recycling" as in throwing away and having it ground to bits rather than passing it along.

    • @women_in_prison
      @women_in_prison 2 роки тому

      Reviewer hasn't a clue what she's waffling about

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому +1

      I already passed this book along hahah. And gifted my other unread Rooney novels to someone who will enjoy them! Haha. She just isn’t for me.

    • @stevesunusual
      @stevesunusual Рік тому

      @@alanaestelle2076 Fair enough. With any luck whoever you gave them to will also become a disliker of her books. :P

  • @maganvelemeny8843
    @maganvelemeny8843 2 місяці тому

    I think...these characters are....flawed for a reason. There is a reason why Frances and Bobbi could articulate and have a fight about, say, western dominance in the Middle-East or could get irritated by rich people's snobbery, yet at the same time they would be unable to address to each other how they are feeling. This is not a flaw of the book, and there is nothing to be cleared up. This contrast between the analytical and the emotional is exactly the point. Frances retreats to these remarks, and there is a particular scene at the end of the book where she gets enough courage from exactly her 'ideology' to make some sort of change in her emotional world as well. To see in response to these flawed character's struggle: "you are basic, girl", I just find myself baffled. There would be no 'Conversations with Friends' written if there characters would 'get their **** together.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  2 місяці тому

      I like flawed characters. Get what she's doing, I just don't like it. This book, for me, is dull.

  • @martasoltys9091
    @martasoltys9091 Рік тому +1

    You made me laugh. The way you feel about this book (your hate is palpable) is the way I feel about Verity and 50 shades of grey. I hate them. IDK how ppl who are otherwise intelligent can believe someone can fake .... I won't spoil the book for those who've not read it. Anyway, thank you. You are very entertaining and I love that you're honest.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому +1

      LOOOOOOL! I’m glad you found this entertaining - we all have those books that make us mad🤣.

  • @TinRaTin
    @TinRaTin 4 місяці тому +1

    You are feeding my soul. New subscriber❤

  • @CapturingSpain
    @CapturingSpain Рік тому +2

    Emily Henry's characters are always "pick-me girls" (especially Beach Read), and I had to stop reading her books. This has to stooooooppppppp!

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому

      Now that you mention it… 😳
      Agreed this has to stop 🤣

  • @Pestopasta_
    @Pestopasta_ 2 роки тому +2

    This review is funnier than your Mol Flanders one🤣 I’m actually laughing out loud. Have you tried normal people?

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому

      LOOOOL! Oh Moll Flanders 🤣 I haven’t and I won’t 🤣

  • @guitargirlutube
    @guitargirlutube Рік тому +2

    This is the Wendy Williams of book reviews.

  • @TheGerbita
    @TheGerbita 2 роки тому +1

    Yes.

  • @Logoslover
    @Logoslover Місяць тому +1

    This reads like my 13 year old niece’s conversation! The repetitiveness but also the telling and not showing. Using passive voice. This is writing 101. I can’t give details because I’ve only read your quotes. Jack Edwards would bury himself in these books. He raves about Rooney which is why I’m glad for this review. You’ve done the background work and approach this so intelligently. Marxism is trash. Her hypocrisy about capitalism while benefiting from it…who does she know?

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Місяць тому

      @@Logoslover this!! And the thing with Rooney is when I listen to her interviews she also contradicts herself. Like she’s able to separate herself from what she’s writing. And I’m like, “girl. You’re injecting what you believe in wha you right. It’s ok. But own it and don’t act like you’re stoic about it. 🙄”. Honestly I’ve also wondered who she knows 😅

  • @Tuli_Bloom
    @Tuli_Bloom Рік тому +3

    I'll skip this one, but read "Normal people" and found it the worst book I read. It's cringe, shallow, futile and text-message-style writen. It's a mud puddle of words.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому +2

      I’m glad I’m not the only one who feels this way about her writing 🫠
      A mud puddle of words!!! I love that lol

  • @gautam5048
    @gautam5048 Рік тому +1

    It's is my favourite of all time because francis resonates my personality like 95% accurate even though I'm not a girl and I'm from india she is like female version of me.If i write my thoughts over a pages they looks exactly same as francis cold,boring and bland.
    Only thing i didn't like about this is book is one sided political views and constant criticism of captalism for not reason at all.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому

      I’m glad this book really resonated with you! Goes to show just how personal reading is!
      YES!!! That really annoyed me too!

  • @joana_jj_8
    @joana_jj_8 3 місяці тому +1

    Questioning my sanity brought me here :D
    I studied political science and Sally Rooney reminds me sooo much of all the sheltered upper-middle class 'Marxist' students who are so full of themselves, and so superficially obnoxiously aware of their 'privilege' without any real awareness. They all think they understand 'the human condition' because they have pseudo-intellectual conversations about it. Pretentious and annoying. The thing is, I have enjoyed books about pretentious and annoying characters - but it is the author's job to make me care about the characters and Rooney isn't doing it.
    There are SO many excellent Irish writers out there, who represent Irish writing much better - because Irish writing is usually grounded, down-to-earth, intelligent and the complete opposite of her stuff. And she is not an average Irish person herself, having gone to Trinity College (an elite college). I lived in Ireland for 10 years, her type is the reason actually normal people are priced out of the country lol.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  3 місяці тому +1

      LOL YAS!!! You've said this perfectly. What you've described is exactly what i LIKE about the other Irish authors I have read, with more to come. It really baffles me how Rooney is considered ... good. Like ... no. LOL. I read other authors who don't have the marketing and PR and they just blow most popular stuff out of the water.

  • @ceceny
    @ceceny 5 місяців тому +2

    i read normal people and felt the same way about her writing i hated it so much

  • @CyberneticOrganism01
    @CyberneticOrganism01 3 місяці тому

    I have trouble seeing why that sentence is "passive voice"... the sentence is a bit awkward as she should have written, "I am familiar with the idea that capitalism was the crazy thing"

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  3 місяці тому +1

      I found that with a lot of her sentence I had to reread them to figure out who was doing what

  • @d.5600
    @d.5600 2 місяці тому +1

    you're so right about the terrible editing in contemporary fiction omg

  • @СолисЭклектикос

    Well, I imagined Frances as an autistic person, so from this point of view her behaviour is quite logical. 😅

  • @JohnSeney-t1i
    @JohnSeney-t1i 7 днів тому +1

    WHOA 😲 you even said you would refuse to talk to Rooney personally! Talk about not liking a book!! 😸😆 But if you mean you just won't go out of your way to see her well there are authors I like that I might not go out of my way to meet. If we can't have a longer serious talk then why bother? The best part of a writer is sometimes on the page and that's it. And if "Conversations With Friends" is Rooney's best..........

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  5 днів тому +1

      LOL yea I can't even listen to her in interviews.

    • @JohnSeney-t1i
      @JohnSeney-t1i 5 днів тому

      Then I take it her "Intermezzo" is not high on your reading list 😸😁

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  5 днів тому +1

      @ 🤢🤢🤢

  • @d.5600
    @d.5600 2 місяці тому +1

    i find rooney's prose to be incredibly unlyrical (surprising, considering the irish tradition of what i'd call overly indulgent, too-purple prose, see: joyce). this alone is not unwelcome. her fatal flaw as a writer is that she is obscenely uninteresting. she has nothing to say. all her characters are trite, tired self inserts. her status-- as an irish, "marxist" (which.... lemme roll my eyes real quick....), and above all 'literary' woman-- is her saving grace.

  • @bookworm83
    @bookworm83 Рік тому +1

    i agree 😂 the worst

  • @forreal2009
    @forreal2009 Рік тому +2

    soo true it was the worst book I've read

  • @zimtkind2255
    @zimtkind2255 2 роки тому +3

    "The Math ain't mathing."🤣 Those quotes were hard to understand. I'm not surprised you had trouble reading them.

    • @alanaestelle2076
      @alanaestelle2076  Рік тому +1

      Yeaaa they were hard to understand. Someone tried to tell me it’s because it’s writing in Irish dialect. I’ve read Irish dialect before and loved those books so, nope I just don’t get in with Rooney.