What Happened To The SCHOOL BULLY?

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  • @nitemare1004
    @nitemare1004 2 місяці тому +41

    knew a girl from a different school who was relentlessly bullied for YEARS, she told me that currently her bullies are either super depressed, in prison, super fat, doing drugs, homeless, or dead. while she is now married, kids, house, and doing really well.

    • @Spyro757
      @Spyro757 2 місяці тому +5

      IT’s comments like this brings a smile to my face ps forgot to put like this lol

    • @princessmarlena1359
      @princessmarlena1359 Місяць тому

      Living well is the best revenge.

  • @stillaboveground2470
    @stillaboveground2470 2 місяці тому +17

    I received a Facebook friend request from a bully I had in junior high school.
    I deleted his request without responding. I told a lady friend of mine about it, and she said, "Maybe he was reaching out to apologize." I said, "Yeah, and maybe he was thinking about picking up where he left off."
    She said that I should have given him a chance, and I said that if he wants forgiveness, he can go to church. In my mind, I had long ago forgiven him for his mistreatment, but I wasn't going to let him back in my life. That chapter of my life was closed, and I wasn't going to risk reliving it on the off chance that he has a guilty conscience.
    In that situation, he has everything to gain, no matter which path he chose. I didn't owe him anything, so why seek trouble?

  • @wschnabel1987
    @wschnabel1987 2 місяці тому +23

    Mine is in jail serving 15-life for a murder he comitted over a drug deal gone bad. Another one came up to me and apologized after he saw his kid going down the same path he had and we actually became friends and game online on ocasion.

    • @Spyro757
      @Spyro757 2 місяці тому

      @@wschnabel1987 games would you recommend

  • @Marasovsgirl
    @Marasovsgirl 2 місяці тому +17

    I was bullied all the way up to high school. I then became the bully towards one person. I wish I could go back and change that. we became friends, but it still sits on my mind that I was that way towards him. He never deserved it. I apologized often for how I treated him. I would still to this day, wish I could keep apologizing. But he lost his life 13 years ago. Not a day goes by where I dont regret how I acted. RIP Adam.

  • @reefe5657
    @reefe5657 2 місяці тому +3

    I never had a bully. I was a large quiet kid. 6ft 3 250lbs at grade 7. I never bullied either. Played no sports. Kept my head in the books. I turned out ok. I retired from LEO and Fire EMS. Satisfied with my life. Helped many people.

    • @justisolated5621
      @justisolated5621 Місяць тому +1

      As i was in a special needs school, all my classmates were very civil, so as i to them. So i'm proud to say i lucked out and was never bullied

  • @Blucity07
    @Blucity07 2 місяці тому +17

    Remember, bullies never get second chances.
    Edit: I'm saying in terms of dealing with them. They start bullying you, you end it IMMEDIATELY!

    • @adamb89
      @adamb89 2 місяці тому +2

      Except most of them. Bullies tend to be very successful in life, due to those same tendencies. Provided they're able to curb their more violent urges and rely on intimidation. In my experience, most bullies came from well-established families, and they went into their family businesses. Car dealership, jeweler, lawyer, dentist, doctor, hospital administrator. All were the worst of the worst in high school, but all are now viewed as "pillars of the community."
      What I'm saying is if you don't take these things out when they're young and the consequences for doing so are minimal, they'll keep getting worse.

    • @RandomTrinidadian
      @RandomTrinidadian 2 місяці тому +5

      No... it should be "Bullies do not deserve second chances"

    • @ShanaChippy
      @ShanaChippy 2 місяці тому

      Lol no

  • @Blur4strike
    @Blur4strike 2 місяці тому +8

    Karma came for the bullies I had to deal with during my school years (washed up Zukerbook photo, MLM/Ponzi schemes, not making it home after deployment, behind bars, dishonorably discharged). Forgiveness to bullies has been in short supply since the '08 financial crash.

  • @gutterpunk4203
    @gutterpunk4203 Місяць тому +2

    One of the kids that bullied me from 3rd grade up until 8th died a few years back, he was at a car meet with his friends, they were doing donuts and he decided to lean out the window to look cool, he fell out and got ran over, everybody panicked and left him there, didnt bother to call 911, somebody found him and called for help but by the time the paramedics got there he was already dead, some of my family that knew him expected me to feel good about it because he made my life hell for years, I felt horrible that my family would think so little of me and horrible that there was a young man dead for senseless reasons, I understood that he was abused and had a hard life, in death i dont hold his actions against him, he was just a kid screaming for help

  • @RandomTrinidadian
    @RandomTrinidadian 2 місяці тому +30

    I am doing fine, while my bully is taking a dirt nap. 😊

  • @Katt30
    @Katt30 2 місяці тому +15

    I was bullied my entire school life from elementary through high school. Even at home/my neighborhood. Now I'm a loser who doesn't work, and plays video games and watches yt videos all day while living off social security. I don't know where any of my bullies are, and don't really care to know, even though I hope they're all in prison now or something.

    • @smileplease_91
      @smileplease_91 2 місяці тому +2

      I'm in very much the same boat. I wasn't safe anywhere. I had a mental breakdown at 25 that I'm still recovering from at 33. I've been diagnosed with PTSD, anxiety, depression, and ADHD. I couldn't get help from the government. I'm married and working so hard in therapy to get myself back.
      Hugs to you. I'm so sorry.

    • @gavinwilliams9367
      @gavinwilliams9367 2 місяці тому

      So get off your butt and do something

    • @goodnightmyprince6734
      @goodnightmyprince6734 2 місяці тому

      Same

    • @cjgroves4429
      @cjgroves4429 2 місяці тому +3

      ​@@gavinwilliams9367 spoken like someone who's never faced any struggles before.🙄
      "Duh...if you're homeless, just buy a house!"

    • @Wheresthepepsibismol
      @Wheresthepepsibismol 2 місяці тому +1

      I'm in the same boat I'm 21 and I have autism my bullies bullied me to the point I dropped out of high school I'm trying to get back on my feet by trying out MMA and wrestling soon I'm going to try to get my GED

  • @DarkKingsKing
    @DarkKingsKing Місяць тому +2

    From what I'd read on Facebook, a group of high school bullies who tormented me for 4 years are all in a cell, a grave, or a homeless shelter. I'm a pacifistic high-functioning autistic man which made me an easy target. Now I make $165k a year and I get paid to travel to Europe and South America 5 or 6 times a year for work.

  • @civilwildman
    @civilwildman Місяць тому +1

    Guy who tormented me in elementary school had a mom who was in denial that her son had issues. He later became an addict and died of a drug overdose about 15 years ago. He had talents in art and music but threw them away just to get high to ignore the problems in his life. What a waste. 😔

  • @Wheresthepepsibismol
    @Wheresthepepsibismol 2 місяці тому +3

    I dropped out of high school because of my bullies right now I have ambitions to be a WWE wrestler I'm hoping I actually run into some people who bullied me and see how they have changed

  • @mari.s752
    @mari.s752 2 місяці тому +4

    Being borderline geriatric as far as I know all but two of the people who ever tried to bully me in school have cashed out via old age, overdose, murder, auto accidents self cancellation etcetera. As far as the unknown two go, my family moved five states away when I was twelve years old and I haven’t been back since so I have no clue on their current status. All’s well that ends with PTSD and self esteem issues I guess.

  • @jas6940
    @jas6940 2 місяці тому +7

    People that can date or be friends with their bullies are a elite breed i could never i would be thinking about how they hurt me and if they are just playing the long game to hurt me again
    Or I would be plotting my revenge so not healthy

  • @Guardian-of-Energy
    @Guardian-of-Energy Місяць тому +1

    Had a bully in elementary school. Not going to go into details but he ended up dying just before I graduated high school. It didn't effect me since we hadn't even looked at each other in years but one thing that did stick with me was seeing his friend break down in class. Felt absolutely horrible for him, and I honestly hope he's doing alright now

  • @VoiceOfTheEmperor
    @VoiceOfTheEmperor 2 місяці тому +3

    I bumped into my high school bully at Safeway. He apologized profusely to me and my mother. We're now friends on Instagram.

  • @goodnightmyprince6734
    @goodnightmyprince6734 2 місяці тому +3

    One became a special ed teacher years after bully me because of my undiagnosed autism and ADHD. The other has been evicted and is probably in prison.

  • @JeffreySmith84
    @JeffreySmith84 Місяць тому

    I was mercilessly bullied as a kid (and, oftentimes, as an adult). I was the shortest kid at my school. I was an outsider for myriad reasons. I hate hearing the stories about "my bully is now a sad guy with a working class job..." I've always been proud to be a blue collar guy (I've worked as a delivery driver, a baker, a postal worker, and a bus driver). Plenty of people who were bullied don't go on to become rich and successful. That metric for overcoming the indignity of having been picked on should probably go away.

  • @smileplease_91
    @smileplease_91 2 місяці тому +1

    I had several. Rachel, we're on good terms. She was awful when we were kids, but in high school, she realized how awful she had been and changed.
    Seth, no idea. The worst he had ever done to me was tell me I wasn't worth it when I asked him if he could stop hurting me and we be friends.
    Malix, also no idea. Used to beat the hell out of me every day. I hid it until my boyfriend (now husband) found out and put a stop to it. He went to the military and was kicked out. Was also engaged at one time, but she left him because he was abusive. No idea where he is now.
    Ronnie, also no clue. He was Rachel's buddy, and they often teamed up together. 8th grade, he apologized to me. Never saw out heard from him again after that year ended.
    Brandon was the worst. Would try to push me off the top of slides and monkey bars/jungle gyms. Threw rocks, baseballs- anything he could at me. Would hit, kick, slap, yank me around by my hair. Would tell me every day he was going to kill me, and I believed him. It got so bad that I would break down in the mornings before school, but I didn't tell my parents why. One day, I cracked and told my dad, who went to the school. The kid was moved to a different class and forced to stay away from me. He's grown now with a daughter of his own, but I have no contact with him.

  • @cozykomala
    @cozykomala Місяць тому +1

    I don't know, and I don't care to find out. Don't have them on social media, and I moved states away. Despite how they affected little me, I sincerely hope they've worked out their issues.

  • @benoitlevesque9609
    @benoitlevesque9609 2 місяці тому +4

    My bully still have the scar i left him in 5th grade the day hey finally got me to fight him. I was twice his size so it wasnt much of a fight. I saw him at a Subway station. The Irony, after that fight I barely thought of the guy, But for him everyday he remembers me when he looks in the mirror...

    • @Spyro757
      @Spyro757 2 місяці тому

      Did you get in trouble?

    • @RandomTrinidadian
      @RandomTrinidadian 2 місяці тому

      How bad was the scar

    • @benoitlevesque9609
      @benoitlevesque9609 Місяць тому

      @@RandomTrinidadian about 10 stitches.

    • @benoitlevesque9609
      @benoitlevesque9609 Місяць тому

      @@Spyro757 Not really. He had been asking for it for mknths. It was well documented with teacher even had 2 meetings between parents and nothing changed. But after that event, never heard of him

  • @stillaboveground2470
    @stillaboveground2470 2 місяці тому +3

    I was at the cemetery visiting my parents' grave. While walking, I ran into my high school bully.
    His headstone was probably 100 feet away from my parents. He had died 11 years after graduation.
    I stopped, said a prayer for him, and forgave him for his mistreatment of me.
    Later, I thought, "If the roles were reversed and he stood before my grave, would he pray for me?"
    Truth is, probably not. He would probably laugh.

  • @videogamecollecto100
    @videogamecollecto100 2 місяці тому +2

    I don’t even know what happened to my bullies, nor do I want to know. To me, they just kinda disappeared from this world, I just never knew what happened to them. It might be for the best this way as to if ever see any of them again I might start wishing ill intents towards them. I try not to be that person again.

  • @Onionfries-cz4wo
    @Onionfries-cz4wo 2 місяці тому +1

    I used to know a bullied turned bully guy in HS and middle school…Think he attacked a cop or state trooper…Not really sure what happened after he called everyone he knew to bail him out of jail.

  • @jamesbraun9842
    @jamesbraun9842 2 місяці тому +1

    They ended up in prison for assault and child endangerment. (Beat up his girlfriend infront of her daughter and got 20 years). The best the warden of the prison is also the dad of the only person to beat up this bully and get away with it.
    (Most of them stopped after they found out who my brother is).

  • @civilwildman
    @civilwildman Місяць тому +1

    #7 sounds like he suffered a traumatic event that changed his tune drastically.

  • @acacacacacacaccaca7666
    @acacacacacacaccaca7666 Місяць тому

    I wasn't a bully but I was mean to a couple of kids in the first year in highschool until I made friends and realized being mean was a waste of time
    The only reason I acted that way was because my mother abandoned me and my father was an alcoholic who beat me up regularly and I figured if nobody cares about me then why should I care about anyone else.
    Didn't end up having a good life, I ended up hanging out with that kid I was mean to a couple of times, he was so nice it made me feel guilty

  • @codym5352
    @codym5352 2 місяці тому +1

    He spent 8 years after graduating continuing to run his mouth on social media threatening to come shoot up my house telling me to delete myself. One day he finally posts my address and tell his homies to come to my house. So I post his address, his homies addresses, and their families addresses, withou 10 minutes they all have me blocked so I go to all their friends social medias and start calling him out and doing the same shit he did to me for so many years. He lasted about 3 months before he deleted himself

    • @RandomTrinidadian
      @RandomTrinidadian Місяць тому

      The dude coukd dish it out, but couldnt take it 😂

  • @Christian1999DK
    @Christian1999DK Місяць тому

    a guy who was such a bully. he did alot of stuff even hideing my laptop i had brought with me to school for work when i went to the bathroom during recess. well he went on to being one of those guys that can't grow up fast enough, he loved the party life and everything that came with it, from booze to hardcore drugs. i meet him last year and well he was unrecognizeable, as his substance abuse and hard partylife and bad self care had litterly aged his appearance, as he is about 25 today but he looks like he looks way older and looks visably withered and gaunt, another is just loseing teeth and whats left just looks yellow and brittle. Then again he diden't really have a redemption, he still did nothing to change his way of life, even if what he sees in the mirror looks like an old man at this point

  • @XarronChaos
    @XarronChaos 2 місяці тому +1

    My wanna be bullies are hmm lets see.... AHEM"
    1. On deletion row in the parish a few hours away from my parish for deleting his pregnant gf.
    2. In more baby mama drama than a Maury paternity test segment and jumping in and out of jail like a checkers piece on a checkers board.
    3. Last I heard from him, he was in barber school a few years ago but somehow he STILL ask about my sister. Luckily she gave me a list and told me to pick out a rejection from 1 to ⭐ (the star meaning I can say anything I want as the "old and dangerous pissed off" me which there are levels to my madness before I relaxed in high school). I read 5 of the rejections she written on the list but on that lucky day I chose the ⭐. I gave him a rejection not even Jordan Peele can make into a movie or Stephen King in a form of a book. Poor guy wet his shorts and crapped himself 😂😂

  • @sanguiniusonvacation1803
    @sanguiniusonvacation1803 2 місяці тому +1

    Hes a faliure with a kid unemployed living with his grandparents

  • @princessmarlena1359
    @princessmarlena1359 Місяць тому

    “I had a bullying problem in school, too!”
    **flashback**
    🎵🎶”Every-body was, KUNG…” 👊 “FU…” 👊 “FIGHT…” 👊 “-ING!” 👊
    🪈 🎵🎶
    🎵🎶”Those cats were FAST…” 👊 “AS…” 👊 “LIGHT…” 👊 “-NING!” 👊
    🪈🎵🎶
    👊💥

  • @thespudlord686
    @thespudlord686 2 місяці тому

    I wouldn't call him an old bully, but one of my closest friends and I butted heads on many occasions yet my old best friend, I had to quit with him, he always made my problems about him where he could

  • @rickp8938
    @rickp8938 Місяць тому

    He really got into steroids and then got sent away for DV. He's been in and out of jail for DV ever since.

  • @thecorrectgarlic7987
    @thecorrectgarlic7987 2 місяці тому +2

    What happened to Rufus stories? Why aren’t you uploading there?

  • @Auriorium
    @Auriorium Місяць тому

    One apologised years later. The others, well lets say that a dance will be had when they pass on.

  • @myself2noone
    @myself2noone 2 місяці тому

    I don't know what most of my friends form school are doing now. Well except for the one that was sat next to my cousin in a wedding in Mexico. That was an unexpected call.

  • @BETalvi85
    @BETalvi85 Місяць тому

    ... There were anonymous "bullies" who attempted to bully me in highschool (prolly the reason why they preferred to stay anonymous was because I started going to the gym in middle school). *sigh* there's nothing worse than anonymous bullies spreading made up stories about you. I dinnae what happened to them (this was on Kauai) but in my 20s I moved back to Alaska and I've encountered guys like my anonymous bullies but, @ least one (who I call Ersatz Wayne) is homeless...

  • @hunterjw88
    @hunterjw88 Місяць тому

    It wasnt a bully but i ran into a guy who broke my jaw by suckerpunching me i met him at my old job he volunteered to help in my department after his got off early he was put making boxes for me to pack and i thought he looked familiar so i asked someone his name heard it said thought so they asked why i told the story they said don't do anything i didnt but i assume after the word got around either others who knew and liked me fed with him or he got afraid i was going to do something because he went from liking his job to a week after i asked he quit the job he liked

  • @beyondmeaning
    @beyondmeaning 2 місяці тому

    The first guy really said "I have no enemies"

  • @mastercrow19
    @mastercrow19 2 місяці тому +1

    I'm not sure, but if I would guess, they are doing well.

  • @x.lilith.x.
    @x.lilith.x. 2 місяці тому +5

    Getting annoyed at the amount of "bully here" no we don't wanna hear from you. All thus shit about how they're trying to be better but making a post about their victims about them. Not changed that much

    • @ma_junia
      @ma_junia 2 місяці тому

      Who let you out of the locker

    • @x.lilith.x.
      @x.lilith.x. 2 місяці тому +1

      @@ma_junia what a weird way to show everyone on the Internet you're American

  • @swisschris81
    @swisschris81 2 місяці тому

    You got to love Turks. They never fight alone.

  • @lampyrisnoctiluca9904
    @lampyrisnoctiluca9904 2 місяці тому

    They are doing drugs.

  • @glitchyeffectsgaming
    @glitchyeffectsgaming 2 місяці тому +2

    what happened to rufus stories?

    • @dante3664
      @dante3664 2 місяці тому +1

      What do you mean?

    • @glitchyeffectsgaming
      @glitchyeffectsgaming 2 місяці тому

      @@dante3664 No new videos.

    • @dante3664
      @dante3664 2 місяці тому

      @@glitchyeffectsgamingis this a repost?

    • @glitchyeffectsgaming
      @glitchyeffectsgaming 2 місяці тому

      @@dante3664 What do you mean?

    • @dante3664
      @dante3664 2 місяці тому

      @@glitchyeffectsgaming what do you mean? You’re saying there are no new videos. This is a new video, so is this is a repost?

  • @niteshanthony2324
    @niteshanthony2324 2 місяці тому

    🎉hey we dont know each other but i hope ur doing well and I wanna say that GOD still loves u and wants u to be with him all u must do is trust in Jesus and repent of ur sins. GOD loves u more than u can imagine. ☺️☺️☺️❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @wclark3196
    @wclark3196 2 місяці тому +3

    Your mom.