My older sister was severely anorexic . She had to be hospitalized and it was so hard for me. To see my sister, my best friend, a ghost of herself. This truly does need to be talked about more!! Thank you
My sister did recover. Although she hasn’t never been the same. Her smile is only half there. I miss the old her. But I bet she wishes the old her even more.
@@laurensmith7711 i feel so bad for you but look on the other side she was struggling a lot and ofc she wont be the same but i am sure she will be the sister you always had really soon!
Every time I get a Victoria's Secret ad in my feed, I quote a few JAX lyrics. My favorite is "Can't have carbs and a Hot Girl Summer!" (Attributed to JAX of course.)
So ready for this to blow up. It's so needed. My sister suffered so badly from anorexia, thankfully she is okay now but fuck, it nearly killed her. Jax, you're a hero for putting this out there. I hope it saves kids from thinking badly about themselves. X
I’m obsessed with this song. I listened to the TikTok clip and the live version on repeat for days, counting down until this was full version was released. I haven’t done that in over 15 years. Jax is so talented and I’m looking forward to seeing where her talent takes her! ❤️✨
Women are so dumb and agreeable, that they let some old jew tell them how they should feel about their looks. Imagine if guys were dumb enough to get psy pp’d into believing we needed to look Jersey Shore dudes. Also, as if regular guys want a piece of wood with fake tits. Get a grip man.
As a man that struggled with anorexia in his late teens and then turned to drugs to maintain a skinny physique this song absolutely slaps. Obviously Victoria wasn’t my model, but it’s nice to hear the similarities. 🥰
I’m sorry you had to go through that dude, I really hope you’re doing better now You’re really strong you know, that stuff really isn’t easy to deal with, especially when it’s considered a “woman’s” issue
It’s so great to hear more men and boys coming forward with their stories! You guys should never be invalidated for being a dude, ever. Keep going strong!
I’ve worked at VS for 5 years now. The amount of customers that I’ve comforted while they’ve cried in the fitting rooms because they “hate their bodies” is absolutely heart breaking. I’ve seen every body type in those fitting rooms, not a single one is “perfect” and that’s how it should be! Perfect isn’t real. Even the ones who have had surgeries still aren’t even 100% perfect. No one has two breast that are the exact same size, I always tell my customers i have one that’s a DD & one that’s a DDD to make them realize someone else has this too. Almost everyone deals with the extra skin that sometimes hangs over the band, if it’s a drastic amount hanging over then you’re probably just in the wrong band size, but it’s not possible to not really have that happen at all. People think they’re the only ones that deal with this but it’s actually rare for them not to have these things. People underestimate my job a lot but 90% of women are in the wrong bra size because if you think about it, no one really teaches us exactly how a bra should look. One bra isn’t gonna fit every body shape. That’s why there’s so many different cuts and styles. Unfortunately there are some VS stores that have shitty rude associates that put others down or don’t know what body/breast shape will work best with what bra, but I refuse to ever let myself be one of those, & I will forever call out an associate if I catch them being rude. There really isn’t anything more satisfying than seeing someone grow so much more confident once we figure out their true size, or getting a little girl in her first bra, or getting someone who just transitioned from male to female in their first bra! Hopefully the company will continue to get larger band sizes & underwear. They’re slowly working their way up with having XXL clothing & panties in PINK & giving us actual models and mannequins that look like normal bodies, but they need to move faster & continue to be better not just stop where they’re at right now HOW YOUR BRA SHOULD FIT: • your breast tissue should never be overflowing out of your bra cups! Lots of people think spilling out is “push up” but it’s not. You’re just the wrong cup size. You will get more lift being in a push up and being in the correct size! • you should never have a bunch of space and be gapping in your cups either! Like I said above, everyone has two different breast sizes, some might be more drastic than others, when this is the case, you’re gonna want to cater to your bigger breast! Example: My left boob is a DDD & my right is a DD so I cater to my left boob & wear a 32DDD because you’d rather gap in the smaller one than wear a DD & spill over in your bigger one. Spilling will show through shirts! So in this case, gapping is okay! But if you have space in BOTH cups, that means the cup size you’re wearing is just too big. (Or sometimes if your bra is super old and stretched, it will gap because it’s loose everywhere) • Always hook your bra on the LOOSEST hook. Most people go straight to the tightest but you actually want to be on the loosest because as your bra stretches over time, THATS when you start tightening it to make it feel new again. Once you’re on the tightest hook & it’s stretched and you have no where else to go, it’s time for a new bra. • measuring is just an estimate, it mainly gives us a place to start. Sometimes certain body shapes can throw off a measurement, or if you’re wearing something with excessive padding or something that’s compressing like a sports bra, so when you get measured, TRY YOUR BRA ON & look for these things! (& for the fitting room girls sake, please just try one bra first to double check your size & thennn go get a bunch of bras once you’ve confirmed it) • adjust your straps to be comfortable! If they’re too tight, it could make the cups tight which will make you overflow & lead you to think you’re in the wrong cup size, when really, all you have to do is loosing the straps on your shoulders. Same goes for them being too loose, it can cause gapping, so adjust them to fit perfectly! • if you can barely fit 3 fingers between your back & the band of the bra going outward (I hope that makes sense) then the band is too small! If you can fit 3 fingers perfectly then it’s a good band size! If you can fit a whole 5 fingers back there, OR if you’re hooking it on the tightest hook then your band is too loose! This is getting super long so if you guys have specific bra fit issues that you have questions about, leave a comment below and I’ll be more than happy to recommend what types of bra you should go for or try to explain why you’re having an issue! (Ex: spilling from the sides, top, or bottom cleavage area of the bra. Gapping from the top of the bra but your breast fit perfect at the bottom & still fill out the bottom of the bra, the center gore (in between part of each cup) doesn’t lay flat on your chest like it should, etc) ~ Edit: All of these comments have made me so happy! 😭 sometimes when I type things I just end up deleting it cause I figure no one cares or will resonate with it, but I'm so glad I posted my thoughts and feelings on this 🥺 Thank you everyone who has expressed their own personal journeys below & who will possibly continue to comment below this! Our words, actions & personal experiences can make more of an impact than we realize! Keep fighting for what’s right ❤️
I am sooooo happy that this song exists, every 10-14 year old needs to listen to this so we have a generation of women who love their bodies and know that girls on magazines are not real and who won’t give a fuck about beauty standards
I'm introducing this to my 9 year old sister when I see her next! She was insecure about her body a little while back because kids at her school had called her fat. I was heartbroken the day she came home from school crying and telling me everything the kids called her and told her. She is better now, this was a year or two back, but she is still struggling with her body image. I will always help people love their own bodies for who they are and make sure they stay happy and healthy, no matter the body type or size, and others should as well. 😊
I have an eating disorder and i struggle with restrictive eating and wont eat until late in the afternoon even though im hungry. I also have the same body image problems you have. This song means so much to someone like me!!
@@XOXOCOOKIEMM2 thank you. Once I got pregnant my eating got better since I had to eat to feed him. I had to think about him first and that helped a lot.
I worked for Victoria's Secret for years. The body issues that are perpetrated by the media don't just stop at skin and bones. The women that would come in and end up in tears because despite the massive amount of plastic surgery they have had, they still couldn't make themselves look like the models were just as devastating. This is a song for all women. Absolutely brilliant. 💗💗💗
@@youngsd22SF ???? Did the comment imply anywhere that they were deliberately ignoring Jax in high school? They're just congratulating Jax, no need to be negative :)
THANK YOU for making this song. I was in love from the first time I heard it rocking out, then realized my hands were shaking and I was crying. The hurt with this stuff goes so so deep. Thank you.
What?... you choosing to fixate on skeleton people modeling at a sex shop is your own fault. Why is that something you'd concern yourself with in the first place?
Dude this helped me so much you don’t even know, thank you for this Jax. Not only does it sound great, but the meaning and words behind it is immaculate. And just knowing that you wrote this song in the first place to help Chelsea realize she is beautiful no matter what just melted my heart. You’re amazing Jax, and frankly, you make me wish I still had a babysitter. 😂❤️
As a girl growing up in a world where appearance is everything, I think this song is perfect in every way. It caught actual, real life issues while keeping an upbeat, happy tune. Everyone should hear this song. I absolutely love it!! Well done!!! 😊❤️
I just walked past a Victoria’s Secret and I played this song as loud as I could. To everyone out there who doesn’t think they’re perfect; YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL/HANDSOME AND YOU ARE PERFECT XXXXX
Ive suffered with body image issues and eating problems for a while now and recently I've been really bad about eating. I listen to this song daily as a reminder that its not fair to myself to hurt my body just to try to change it for others. To anybody who reads this your perfect how you are❤
@@islixxn it is bravery for not only myself but others. It is a battle fighting anything that has to do with mental health and to continue to fight it day after day that is brave because they could have easily given up but they didn't
@@sadiehockenberry7186 thats not what bravery.. you would need THE most loose definition of brave to fit that. suffering with body issues or speaking out about them is literally the NORM right now
Jax, if you only could comprehend what your song has and will do for girls/women and men all over the world. You did something so positive for the world in which we all live! Thank you from the depths of my soul. Wishing you much success and many, many blessings. xo
“I wish that someone told me that thighs of thunder, meant normal human thighs” as someone who was told by her own mother that I had “thunder thighs”, which gave me a complex for a decade, this is awesome!!!
English is not my mother tongue and I was flabbergasted when I learned that having thunder thighs was a pejorative term because the literal meaning of the idiom sounds so powerful ! BEHOLD MY THIGHS OF THUNDER !
@@jeannedz29 I was going to post to OP but I'll post to you instead. There is a webcartoon called RWBY which features a character named Nora. In one of the skits, someone brings up Nora having "Thunder Thighs" to which she replies, "Damn straight! And you know how I got my thighs of thunder? BY DOING THREE HUNDRED SQUATS EVERY DAY!!!" and proceeds to force her team to join her so that they ALSO will have thighs of thunder. :D BTW, Nora is loosely based on Thor. She has a hammer and she can charge up and throw lightning. Nora is best girl!
This lyrics are life! And this early '00 pop rock is just like a magical throwback of a song I needed in that time, I'm vibing so much with my teenage self, thank you. ♡
@@geekisameek7233 I definitely love this song, stuck in my head 24/7, also, I’m also Sikh! Sorry, it’s just really shocking if I find someone same culture as me on the internet!
I wish women and girls put less pressure on themselves to be perfect. Jax is so inspiring, and has an incredible message for all of us. Thanks for sending this message. I LOVE THIS SONG. 🥰♥️💗
This song makes me feel so much better about myself, people call me to flat for my age! So thank you so much Jax, you make me feel so much confident!! ❤️❤️
The thing is men love all women! Boys are the problem as being one at a time I can see how females can feel the pressure now. Boys are just too scared to say their own thoughts and need to go with the crowd. Just as this song is speaking to how females feel...
I love how UA-cam is able to allow artists like Jax release songs like this that focuses on societal issues that big record labels would be unlikely to produce. Keep sharing your message Jax you have the power to change the world 🫶👍
This song is like my life. It's so trueeeee everything she says. Nobody should judge u for your appearance, but the important thing is the personality. Hope everyone understood the message and the bulies will stop. Thx very much Jax! Ur a true idol!!!
I love the photoshop exaggeration and the song of course. I’m not really the target demographic since I’m a dude but I wish more girls would see this. So many are beautiful and think they’re ugly. Girls, true beauty is on the inside. Love yourself ❤️
I used to think guys who thought like this were so rare they may as well be mythical. Then I married one. I became disabled suddenly shortly after our wedding, and I don’t think a marriage to any other type of man would have survived. He loved me- despite me becoming a burden- physically and financially. We had no kids, never wanted them, he is a CATCH- tall, broad shouldered, successful, he could have anyone. He also has this innate confidence, just in his bones. Not a drop of arrogance, just easy confidence. I’m almost 40 now, we have a very comfortable life, and I’ve learned that only confident men who actually have qualities in THEMSELVES to be proud of can think like this. They don’t need others to want what they have for them to value it, they are confident in their opinions. They don’t need to judge- especially negatively- other choices or looks or spouses to feel good about their own. THEY decide what and who is valuable to them on their own terms. That’s my husband, and I’m so grateful. If you aren’t married one day a lucky doesn’t know what’s coming her way. Please always tell her she’s beautiful, but even if something happens and she clearly isn’t the picture of beauty most of the world expects, just use my husband’s line “I love you because you’re my girl, I picked you and I don’t regret it.”being reminded that we were chosen, that you don’t feel “stuck” with us, that you didn’t “settle” but were as excited to marry us as we were to marry you, is so important.
You can be a dude and have eating disorders. You keep in mind to take care of yourself too: all humans are beautiful 🥰 And I agree, this songs hasn't blown up enough yet even if it's everywhere. We need to make sure it stays everywhere for the next years until we get another song as good as this one to curse the thiness industry!
I’m 12 and this song means a lot. When I tend to eat even an appetizer for example, I get bloated in the stomach. I see beautiful girls my age online, magazines, Instagram. You made me feel so much better about myself. Now I love myself. Thank you.
Thank you for always having such raw and real messages in every one of your songs. True talent in story telling through music and a huge role model to many. Thank you for being you! 🖤
The world needed a song like this! As a mother of 5 very differently built daughters, and growing up in the 90s myself.... This is what I need myself and my daughter's to know! Thank you for being awesome!
My mother made sure to pass down her ED like a family heirloom and I have to say nothing has hit me this way. I'm crying as much as I'm laughing and wishing for a time machine to gift this to 12 year old me. Thank you so much from someone who has needed this for decades.
The last line is SO telling. "I know Victoria's Secret! She's not made for me and YOU!" As a proud father, I watched my daughter got through the horrible stresses that teens go through. But now she's a happy, healthy and confident young woman. NOW we can laugh at this song together, although it also dredges up some painful memories! Thank you Jax, for FIANALLY saying what has needed to be said for ALL these years! :)
I heard this song and fell in love w/ it! It is so uplifting and supportive for people who are told that they are ugly, fat, and other mean things even though they are not.
I LOVE THIS SONG. I really needed to hear this being a teenager and suffering with anorexia. I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for making this song.
I love this song, and not only does it have an amazing beat and amazing lyrics, it is an encouraging song and letting people that judge themselves know that they shouldn’t do that because everyone’s body is perfect just the way it is!
Been casually playing this all day for my girls to hear - they latched on! (Well after a broke out the dad moves) 😂 we having a junk evening tonight and celebrating our beauty. Xxx
that sounds amazing! Wish I did this in my family. My mom and one of my older sisters ae plus-size, and my mom is always telling me what to not eat, and when to eat, it cuz she doesn't want me to be too. Meanwhile my other older sister keeps telling me to eat more because she thinks I'm too skinny.
I really needed this song. People have been body shaming me and my sister our whole life. I literally love this song so much, it's such an inspiration for the young ones out there my best friend also get body shames. Love you Jax 😘
fully healed and recovered from a near decade battle with an ED (recovery took way longer than anybody ever realises) just in time for this song to drop. thank you so much for this
It's a song I want to tell my young self. How I wish I had heard this song back then.. Listening to this song now feels so comforting I feel like I'm about to cry, you're the best artist
I'm 44 and I am obsessed with this song! I wish there were songs like this when I was in high school, but I am grateful my daughters can listen to this wonderful message. Thanks for keeping it real, Jax!
I got you beat.. im in my 50's & i just heard this song a few weeks ago thumbing thru the radio channels. Loved the lyrics and beat.. Great job JAX " Victoria was made up by a Dude"😁🤣...I LOVE IT!!!
It's so scary to think the role models of the 90ish generation. After the 80sh super models came the heroin chic..... a disaster. My friend had a gorgeous curvy body type and she felt fat and I was thin naturally but very petite and I felt short😅 Nowadays so many years later we laugh when we think of those years but all the distress and tears was really for nothing. We have to take care of our kids so the don't feel the social pressure of beauty.
This song touches my soul. Every time I hear this song, 1. I think how I wish I had this song when I was younger but so happy it's out for the young generation today. 2. Puts a huge smile on my face making me feel not alone, and that VS and others in the industry hear this realizing we are fed up with them. 3. Makes me cry, brings so many emotions to me. This song is so beautifully written, such power behind it. This song and your love song about your parents are so beautiful, and I can't wait to see how you grow from here. I hope one day to be purchasing your album.
I heard the song a few times here and there, but I’m not following anything, not much into this type of music, nor tiktok stuff… but damn I wish we all had this song when we were younger! This was my first time playing it myself, listening closely to the lyrics and I can’t even believe all these emotions - I’m crying so much, oh who knows how much trauma I suppressed ! Wow! Thank you for sending such an important message!!!
I love the message of the song. To all my girls, body fat, hair, big thighs, and all that stuff is normal. Don't be insecure about that, be yourself :))
Omg I’m so happy that Jax released the full version of this song. It has such an awesome message and can spread positivity all over the world to help people that are insecure ❤️
9 years past my eating disorder, still struggling with my body after 5 kids( and fit) I play this song for my 2 girls. I never want them to experience what I did. Thank you.
Im a 40 year old man, was flipping through radio stations(normally a rock/metal dude) and for whatever reason I was in the pop station and heard this and it made me laugh. Love the message too; have 2 daughters myself
I was anorexic for years. The pressure of being skinny was overwhelming. I am a heavier girl now, and I love myself more now then I did then. I relate to your song so much. Thank you for this song. I hope girls that are going through this see this song.
No... just because you have health issues doesmt mean you need to fixate on skeleton people. And dont blame your personal issues on the fact that you chose to fixate on the media rather than real life. Thats so wierd. Just focus on your health. People are attracted to energy and personality more than anything anyway. For instance the person who dates the most coworkers at my job is a 300lb girl. Meanwhile people litterally stop and tell me how beautiful I am everyday yet I haven't been in a relationship in 9 years. Anorexia is a mental health issue and obesity is a physical health issue. Youre sick its not the magazines fault. Most regular people don't care what Victoria secret models look like
This song gives me such a confidence boost everytime I hear it, makes me feel comfortable in my own skin. I was singing it the other day, and my daughter overheard. She said the song makes her feel happy and love herself more. Thank you for being so inspirational.
No... this song makes excuses for why you feel that way thinking it's a store or men when body issues come from your upbringing and genetic disposition. Also this chick looks and dresses like a Victoria secret model so whats the difference here? Regular humans don't fixate on models at a sex store. Thats so wierd...
I developed Ed at 12 and I’ve always applied this song to my most active ED. This is the first time I’ve applied it to my unhealed self and I am sobbing
I LOVE your energy and your commitment to ensuring the next generation of young girls (and boys) know about the unrealistic expectations of this sort of thing
I know you meant the style of music, but for a moment I thought you were talking about the early 2000s beauty standards that the song took issue with, lol
Ahh thank you Jax! I listened o this when it came out and can't get it out of my head. All of your songs are so unique and amazing. You deserve the world!!!
IM SO SO HAPPY YOU RELEASED THE FULL SONG, IM SO OBSESSED WITH THIS. literally have been listening to the short version of this song for weeks nonstop, and now I have this. You don’t know how happy this made me!! 💕💕💕💕
I can't stop singing this! This is such an inspiration to a 12 year old like me in 7th grade with all of the beauty standards. This just tells me to love myself and not care what others think! :)
Aww!!!! I'm so glad people at the target audience really are hearing this song! To offer some unsolicited advice, physically growing is normal and going to happen. If you buy cute clothes you want to wear for a long time, get a couple sized bigger so they last 😁
Same. I was always so insecure about my weight but now I don't care about what anyone thinks because listening to this song makes me tell myself I AM beautiful no matter what.
My older sister was severely anorexic . She had to be hospitalized and it was so hard for me. To see my sister, my best friend, a ghost of herself. This truly does need to be talked about more!! Thank you
Did she recover
Is she good now???
I truly hope she gets better soon!
My sister did recover. Although she hasn’t never been the same. Her smile is only half there. I miss the old her. But I bet she wishes the old her even more.
@@laurensmith7711 i feel so bad for you but look on the other side she was struggling a lot and ofc she wont be the same but i am sure she will be the sister you always had really soon!
She's a phenomenal songwriter. She puts so much heart into her vocal melodies. We are witnessing the self making of a superstar.
I 💯 agree! She will take a spot of Lady Gaga or Ava Max! She is huge!
I believe it!
I really hope so. Great stuff from a REAL person.
ABSOLUTELY i cannot wait for that but i'll cherish the wholesome small content for now!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️
Nah she sucks lol.
Jax is such a queen, she's got this generation, everyone needs to listen to her songs!!!
Because she’s shit and I’m showing my friend how bad this shit is nigger
Yeah bro
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She looks and dresses like a Victoria secret model... she's a hypocrite praying on people with body issues to make money. She's a bad person
yeah it true i try to tell people that on every game i play
Every time I get a Victoria's Secret ad in my feed, I quote a few JAX lyrics. My favorite is "Can't have carbs and a Hot Girl Summer!" (Attributed to JAX of course.)
So ready for this to blow up. It's so needed. My sister suffered so badly from anorexia, thankfully she is okay now but fuck, it nearly killed her. Jax, you're a hero for putting this out there. I hope it saves kids from thinking badly about themselves. X
This and indian summer made me have hope on social media again lol
@@iHadSomethingForThis fuck yeah indian summer is so good-
It was on the Top 40 countdown this morning. I was so excited.
I did help me its like my fears go away when i listen to this song😩😌
Not to mention the fact that Les Wexner funded predator Jeffrey Epstein.
I’m obsessed with this song. I listened to the TikTok clip and the live version on repeat for days, counting down until this was full version was released. I haven’t done that in over 15 years. Jax is so talented and I’m looking forward to seeing where her talent takes her! ❤️✨
omg same i have been listing to an hour video of this song on repeat for weeksssssss
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There is a live version?
@@durian.electra Yes she went live once :) I think this is the live one they meant ua-cam.com/video/YWX45no7_tA/v-deo.html
Songs like this give me hope that if I have a future daughter she will have great role models and songs to jam out to!! You rock Jax!!!
Yasss! She is 💖✨⚡️
She is such a queen
We needed this 20 years ago. This is everything to me. My mom would be proud of this if she was still with us
Bless you and I hope you are ok!
Women are so dumb and agreeable, that they let some old jew tell them how they should feel about their looks. Imagine if guys were dumb enough to get psy pp’d into believing we needed to look Jersey Shore dudes. Also, as if regular guys want a piece of wood with fake tits. Get a grip man.
She is with you, she is watching over you.
I'm so sorry😔but she's proud of you.🥹
I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️
As a man that struggled with anorexia in his late teens and then turned to drugs to maintain a skinny physique this song absolutely slaps. Obviously Victoria wasn’t my model, but it’s nice to hear the similarities. 🥰
I’m sorry you had to go through that dude, I really hope you’re doing better now
You’re really strong you know, that stuff really isn’t easy to deal with, especially when it’s considered a “woman’s” issue
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It’s so great to hear more men and boys coming forward with their stories! You guys should never be invalidated for being a dude, ever. Keep going strong!
People don't talk enough about men having anorexia too.
I’m so so sorry you had to go through that. God bless you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😭
I’ve worked at VS for 5 years now. The amount of customers that I’ve comforted while they’ve cried in the fitting rooms because they “hate their bodies” is absolutely heart breaking. I’ve seen every body type in those fitting rooms, not a single one is “perfect” and that’s how it should be! Perfect isn’t real. Even the ones who have had surgeries still aren’t even 100% perfect. No one has two breast that are the exact same size, I always tell my customers i have one that’s a DD & one that’s a DDD to make them realize someone else has this too. Almost everyone deals with the extra skin that sometimes hangs over the band, if it’s a drastic amount hanging over then you’re probably just in the wrong band size, but it’s not possible to not really have that happen at all. People think they’re the only ones that deal with this but it’s actually rare for them not to have these things.
People underestimate my job a lot but 90% of women are in the wrong bra size because if you think about it, no one really teaches us exactly how a bra should look. One bra isn’t gonna fit every body shape. That’s why there’s so many different cuts and styles. Unfortunately there are some VS stores that have shitty rude associates that put others down or don’t know what body/breast shape will work best with what bra, but I refuse to ever let myself be one of those, & I will forever call out an associate if I catch them being rude. There really isn’t anything more satisfying than seeing someone grow so much more confident once we figure out their true size, or getting a little girl in her first bra, or getting someone who just transitioned from male to female in their first bra!
Hopefully the company will continue to get larger band sizes & underwear. They’re slowly working their way up with having XXL clothing & panties in PINK & giving us actual models and mannequins that look like normal bodies, but they need to move faster & continue to be better not just stop where they’re at right now
HOW YOUR BRA SHOULD FIT:
• your breast tissue should never be overflowing out of your bra cups! Lots of people think spilling out is “push up” but it’s not. You’re just the wrong cup size. You will get more lift being in a push up and being in the correct size!
• you should never have a bunch of space and be gapping in your cups either! Like I said above, everyone has two different breast sizes, some might be more drastic than others, when this is the case, you’re gonna want to cater to your bigger breast!
Example: My left boob is a DDD & my right is a DD so I cater to my left boob & wear a 32DDD because you’d rather gap in the smaller one than wear a DD & spill over in your bigger one. Spilling will show through shirts! So in this case, gapping is okay! But if you have space in BOTH cups, that means the cup size you’re wearing is just too big. (Or sometimes if your bra is super old and stretched, it will gap because it’s loose everywhere)
• Always hook your bra on the LOOSEST hook. Most people go straight to the tightest but you actually want to be on the loosest because as your bra stretches over time, THATS when you start tightening it to make it feel new again. Once you’re on the tightest hook & it’s stretched and you have no where else to go, it’s time for a new bra.
• measuring is just an estimate, it mainly gives us a place to start. Sometimes certain body shapes can throw off a measurement, or if you’re wearing something with excessive padding or something that’s compressing like a sports bra, so when you get measured, TRY YOUR BRA ON & look for these things! (& for the fitting room girls sake, please just try one bra first to double check your size & thennn go get a bunch of bras once you’ve confirmed it)
• adjust your straps to be comfortable! If they’re too tight, it could make the cups tight which will make you overflow & lead you to think you’re in the wrong cup size, when really, all you have to do is loosing the straps on your shoulders.
Same goes for them being too loose, it can cause gapping, so adjust them to fit perfectly!
• if you can barely fit 3 fingers between your back & the band of the bra going outward (I hope that makes sense) then the band is too small!
If you can fit 3 fingers perfectly then it’s a good band size!
If you can fit a whole 5 fingers back there, OR if you’re hooking it on the tightest hook then your band is too loose!
This is getting super long so if you guys have specific bra fit issues that you have questions about, leave a comment below and I’ll be more than happy to recommend what types of bra you should go for or try to explain why you’re having an issue! (Ex: spilling from the sides, top, or bottom cleavage area of the bra. Gapping from the top of the bra but your breast fit perfect at the bottom & still fill out the bottom of the bra, the center gore (in between part of each cup) doesn’t lay flat on your chest like it should, etc)
~ Edit: All of these comments have made me so happy! 😭 sometimes when I type things I just end up deleting it cause I figure no one cares or will resonate with it, but I'm so glad I posted my thoughts and feelings on this 🥺
Thank you everyone who has expressed their own personal journeys below & who will possibly continue to comment below this! Our words, actions & personal experiences can make more of an impact than we realize! Keep fighting for what’s right ❤️
you, are an amazing person
Thank you for doing what you are doing❤️
You’re such a great person
That’s so sweet of you to comfort them so your an amazing person for that
You are awesome
I am sooooo happy that this song exists, every 10-14 year old needs to listen to this so we have a generation of women who love their bodies and know that girls on magazines are not real and who won’t give a fuck about beauty standards
I'm 11
Lol I’m 10
I just turned 15 and this song is such an inspiration for me
I'm introducing this to my 9 year old sister when I see her next! She was insecure about her body a little while back because kids at her school had called her fat. I was heartbroken the day she came home from school crying and telling me everything the kids called her and told her. She is better now, this was a year or two back, but she is still struggling with her body image. I will always help people love their own bodies for who they are and make sure they stay happy and healthy, no matter the body type or size, and others should as well. 😊
@Malyssa Kelly same but I will be 12 in October
I have an eating disorder and i struggle with restrictive eating and wont eat until late in the afternoon even though im hungry. I also have the same body image problems you have. This song means so much to someone like me!!
Me to
❤❤❤
Me too❤❤ I’m so sorry and hope u get better soon
@@XOXOCOOKIEMM2 thank you. Once I got pregnant my eating got better since I had to eat to feed him. I had to think about him first and that helped a lot.
@ awww ❤️ that’s good!! I’m so glad!! 😆
I worked for Victoria's Secret for years. The body issues that are perpetrated by the media don't just stop at skin and bones. The women that would come in and end up in tears because despite the massive amount of plastic surgery they have had, they still couldn't make themselves look like the models were just as devastating.
This is a song for all women. Absolutely brilliant. 💗💗💗
That is so sad. :(
😭
😭😭😭that is terrible
Petition to cancel Victoria’s secret, im the first signature, only 1k left!
Wow that’s sad
Crazy we went to high school together. Time sure flies but I’m glad to see you’re living out your dream as you always deserved ! Keep at it Jax ❤️🙌
bro ur lucky you went to highschool w her
Dang that’s sick
Now you wishing you would have paid the band nerd some attention
@@youngsd22SF ???? Did the comment imply anywhere that they were deliberately ignoring Jax in high school?
They're just congratulating Jax, no need to be negative :)
@@aa-sf1oc Nope. Im just a 30 year old who ignored girls because I was trying to fit in and I see where those "nerds" are now days I kick myself lol.
This is absolutely brilliant. I’ve been singing this song EVERYWHERE
Same
Same
Same!!!!
Same
Me going upstairs: DEEWD
THANK YOU for making this song. I was in love from the first time I heard it rocking out, then realized my hands were shaking and I was crying. The hurt with this stuff goes so so deep. Thank you.
What?... you choosing to fixate on skeleton people modeling at a sex shop is your own fault. Why is that something you'd concern yourself with in the first place?
멜로디가 좋은곡은 많고, 리듬이 신나는 곡도 많고, 아름다운 가사도 많지만 신선한 주제와 공감, 통쾌함까지 갖춘곡은 흔하지 않은데 이 모든걸 해낸 최고의 곡입니다👍👍👍👍👍
Perfectly said!
인정
Dude this helped me so much you don’t even know, thank you for this Jax. Not only does it sound great, but the meaning and words behind it is immaculate. And just knowing that you wrote this song in the first place to help Chelsea realize she is beautiful no matter what just melted my heart. You’re amazing Jax, and frankly, you make me wish I still had a babysitter.
😂❤️
chelsea is so lucky to have her!!
You're a beautiful human... never forget that
As a girl growing up in a world where appearance is everything, I think this song is perfect in every way. It caught actual, real life issues while keeping an upbeat, happy tune. Everyone should hear this song. I absolutely love it!! Well done!!! 😊❤️
I just walked past a Victoria’s Secret and I played this song as loud as I could. To everyone out there who doesn’t think they’re perfect; YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL/HANDSOME AND YOU ARE PERFECT XXXXX
Thanks I needed that. 😊
@@Queen_cooper.95 you are perfect. You’re not like everyone else and I think that is the most beautiful thing a person can be 🩵
GREAT JOB
I needed this
I'm a father of three young girls, this song will be a theme song for many years to come.
Me @ 28 singing loud to this. And almost crying too
You are great💗💗💗💗
Don’t forget guys catch it too
It makes me so happy to see a comment like this cause I wish back when I was younger we had something like this and not just bad 2000s fashion 😅
you sound like a great father 🩷
Jax is really inspirational and this genre really suits her voice
Ive suffered with body image issues and eating problems for a while now and recently I've been really bad about eating. I listen to this song daily as a reminder that its not fair to myself to hurt my body just to try to change it for others. To anybody who reads this your perfect how you are❤
please know that despite your body image struggles you are in fact a brave person and deserves all the love
@@keesmuch do yall not know what bravery is
@@islixxn it is bravery for not only myself but others. It is a battle fighting anything that has to do with mental health and to continue to fight it day after day that is brave because they could have easily given up but they didn't
@@sadiehockenberry7186 thats not what bravery.. you would need THE most loose definition of brave to fit that. suffering with body issues or speaking out about them is literally the NORM right now
@@sadiehockenberry7186 you tell them gurl
Jax, if you only could comprehend what your song has and will do for girls/women and men all over the world. You did something so positive for the world in which we all live! Thank you from the depths of my soul. Wishing you much success and many, many blessings. xo
“I wish that someone told me that thighs of thunder, meant normal human thighs” as someone who was told by her own mother that I had “thunder thighs”, which gave me a complex for a decade, this is awesome!!!
English is not my mother tongue and I was flabbergasted when I learned that having thunder thighs was a pejorative term because the literal meaning of the idiom sounds so powerful ! BEHOLD MY THIGHS OF THUNDER !
What does it mean to have thunder thighs?
Same!
@@jeannedz29 I was going to post to OP but I'll post to you instead.
There is a webcartoon called RWBY which features a character named Nora. In one of the skits, someone brings up Nora having "Thunder Thighs" to which she replies, "Damn straight! And you know how I got my thighs of thunder? BY DOING THREE HUNDRED SQUATS EVERY DAY!!!" and proceeds to force her team to join her so that they ALSO will have thighs of thunder. :D
BTW, Nora is loosely based on Thor. She has a hammer and she can charge up and throw lightning. Nora is best girl!
It depends how big the thigh is. It's definitely not normal to have one thigh that's wide enough to have its own seat on the bus.
I’m completely obsessed with this song!! I’ve been singing it to my girls and we all love it!! Thank you for making such an amazing song!!
This lyrics are life! And this early '00 pop rock is just like a magical throwback of a song I needed in that time, I'm vibing so much with my teenage self, thank you. ♡
I was hoping someone noticed the early 2000 throwback style.
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Victoria's secret
日本でも歌詞も含めて色んな人が聴くべき名曲。
Wut
This song is so catchy. I can’t get it out of my head lol.
Same lol
@@geekisameek7233 I definitely love this song, stuck in my head 24/7, also, I’m also Sikh! Sorry, it’s just really shocking if I find someone same culture as me on the internet!
@@kaurvibes2003 hi!!!!!! how are you !!!!
@@geekisameek7233 hiii! I’m good, you? :D
same!!
I wish women and girls put less pressure on themselves to be perfect. Jax is so inspiring, and has an incredible message for all of us. Thanks for sending this message. I LOVE THIS SONG. 🥰♥️💗
This song makes me feel so much better about myself, people call me to flat for my age! So thank you so much Jax, you make me feel so much confident!! ❤️❤️
Thank you so much for this song it’s really made me feel more proud of myself
I love this. Everyone needs messages like this. Keep making more. Your amazing
The thing is men love all women! Boys are the problem as being one at a time I can see how females can feel the pressure now. Boys are just too scared to say their own thoughts and need to go with the crowd. Just as this song is speaking to how females feel...
I love how UA-cam is able to allow artists like Jax release songs like this that focuses on societal issues that big record labels would be unlikely to produce. Keep sharing your message Jax you have the power to change the world 🫶👍
This song is like my life. It's so trueeeee everything she says. Nobody should judge u for your appearance, but the important thing is the personality. Hope everyone understood the message and the bulies will stop. Thx very much Jax! Ur a true idol!!!
At first I thought u said idiot I was like the heckkkk
Nah I would NEVER say thaaaat lol 😆
this song is under rated 😪 its actually amazing
I’m so glad we get a longer version this song is a masterpiece
I love the photoshop exaggeration and the song of course. I’m not really the target demographic since I’m a dude but I wish more girls would see this. So many are beautiful and think they’re ugly. Girls, true beauty is on the inside. Love yourself ❤️
You are so amazing ❤️ need more people like you
I used to think guys who thought like this were so rare they may as well be mythical. Then I married one. I became disabled suddenly shortly after our wedding, and I don’t think a marriage to any other type of man would have survived. He loved me- despite me becoming a burden- physically and financially. We had no kids, never wanted them, he is a CATCH- tall, broad shouldered, successful, he could have anyone. He also has this innate confidence, just in his bones. Not a drop of arrogance, just easy confidence. I’m almost 40 now, we have a very comfortable life, and I’ve learned that only confident men who actually have qualities in THEMSELVES to be proud of can think like this. They don’t need others to want what they have for them to value it, they are confident in their opinions. They don’t need to judge- especially negatively- other choices or looks or spouses to feel good about their own. THEY decide what and who is valuable to them on their own terms. That’s my husband, and I’m so grateful. If you aren’t married one day a lucky doesn’t know what’s coming her way. Please always tell her she’s beautiful, but even if something happens and she clearly isn’t the picture of beauty most of the world expects, just use my husband’s line “I love you because you’re my girl, I picked you and I don’t regret it.”being reminded that we were chosen, that you don’t feel “stuck” with us, that you didn’t “settle” but were as excited to marry us as we were to marry you, is so important.
Some men have eating disorders.
You can be a dude and have eating disorders. You keep in mind to take care of yourself too: all humans are beautiful 🥰 And I agree, this songs hasn't blown up enough yet even if it's everywhere. We need to make sure it stays everywhere for the next years until we get another song as good as this one to curse the thiness industry!
🥹🥺🥺🥺
I love how chaotic this song is and the fun but serious tone! It’s really inspiring :)
I’m 12 and this song means a lot. When I tend to eat even an appetizer for example, I get bloated in the stomach. I see beautiful girls my age online, magazines, Instagram. You made me feel so much better about myself. Now I love myself. Thank you.
God bless
Thank you for always having such raw and real messages in every one of your songs. True talent in story telling through music and a huge role model to many. Thank you for being you! 🖤
I love the song!!! All your effort and love in this song is noticed! Good Job
This song gives me chills. As someone socialized as a woman this song is so so important for everyone out there to hear.
please read my comment
Older male here: Just think about how many lives JAX has saved with this song. Keep it up and don't change (unless it's for the better).
The world needed a song like this! As a mother of 5 very differently built daughters, and growing up in the 90s myself.... This is what I need myself and my daughter's to know! Thank you for being awesome!
I love this song 🎵
I wanna walk into victorias secret. And BLAST this. Because just yes! Love this I cried. I needed this during the time I cheered. Thank you.
Welp I️ have now have plans for Monday.
@@maggiequinncloud i know its a bit late but count me in ;D
@@liasubs11 we're three
Same but you might get kicked out 😂
@@alandriawerner5270 yea I think she’ll get kicked out but I also want to do it 😂 lol
My mother made sure to pass down her ED like a family heirloom and I have to say nothing has hit me this way. I'm crying as much as I'm laughing and wishing for a time machine to gift this to 12 year old me. Thank you so much from someone who has needed this for decades.
I absolutely ADORE this song! Where was this 20+ years ago?? We needed this. Thank you! Now I'm going to go eat some cake.
The last line is SO telling. "I know Victoria's Secret! She's not made for me and YOU!" As a proud father, I watched my daughter got through the horrible stresses that teens go through. But now she's a happy, healthy and confident young woman. NOW we can laugh at this song together, although it also dredges up some painful memories! Thank you Jax, for FIANALLY saying what has needed to be said for ALL these years! :)
we dont care lol
@@lutheruler7487 ... whats wrong with you
@@smokeditty nothing why
@JAX ?
Your a cool dad
My name is Victoria. I am not lying.
I know your secret
Everyone knows your secret.
They are talking about the store not you
I heard this song and fell in love w/ it! It is so uplifting and supportive for people who are told that they are ugly, fat, and other mean things even though they are not.
I'm so glad she released the full version, I love this song so much!
Yay a full version. When my daughter is older I’m showing her this
Coming back to this song after 2 years
I LOVE THIS SONG. I really needed to hear this being a teenager and suffering with anorexia. I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for making this song.
incredible vocals, incredible message, and who can't appreciate the electric guitar.
I love this song, and not only does it have an amazing beat and amazing lyrics, it is an encouraging song and letting people that judge themselves know that they shouldn’t do that because everyone’s body is perfect just the way it is!
Damn girl, It's great to hear this genre of music again! I feel like I've gotta go to school tomorrow.
I have had horrible depression and body issues the past years. But this is exactly what I have had to hear since I was 10. Thank you.
Been casually playing this all day for my girls to hear - they latched on! (Well after a broke out the dad moves) 😂 we having a junk evening tonight and celebrating our beauty. Xxx
that sounds amazing! Wish I did this in my family. My mom and one of my older sisters ae plus-size, and my mom is always telling me what to not eat, and when to eat, it cuz she doesn't want me to be too. Meanwhile my other older sister keeps telling me to eat more because she thinks I'm too skinny.
You’re a good dad 🥲
OMG!!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!! I LOVEEEEE THIS SONG! LOVE YOU JAX!!! - Ima add this to all my playlist on Spotify
ALL BODIES R BEAUTIFULLLLL
Nikocado Avocado and Lizzo: am I a joke to you??!!!💀
@@Huobaojiqiha..
This is a song for many girls to listen to and feel better about themselves! Love you Jax.💝💝
I really needed this song. People have been body shaming me and my sister our whole life. I literally love this song so much, it's such an inspiration for the young ones out there my best friend also get body shames. Love you Jax 😘
fully healed and recovered from a near decade battle with an ED (recovery took way longer than anybody ever realises) just in time for this song to drop. thank you so much for this
Couple elementary kids on my bus sing this song everyday. It's so adorable
It's a song I want to tell my young self. How I wish I had heard this song back then.. Listening to this song now feels so comforting I feel like I'm about to cry, you're the best artist
Hi jax! You probably won’t see this but you are inspiring!
I'm 44 and I am obsessed with this song! I wish there were songs like this when I was in high school, but I am grateful my daughters can listen to this wonderful message. Thanks for keeping it real, Jax!
I got you beat.. im in my 50's & i just heard this song a few weeks ago thumbing thru the radio channels. Loved the lyrics and beat.. Great job JAX " Victoria was made up by a Dude"😁🤣...I LOVE IT!!!
It's so scary to think the role models of the 90ish generation. After the 80sh super models came the heroin chic..... a disaster. My friend had a gorgeous curvy body type and she felt fat and I was thin naturally but very petite and I felt short😅 Nowadays so many years later we laugh when we think of those years but all the distress and tears was really for nothing.
We have to take care of our kids so the don't feel the social pressure of beauty.
She is so inspirational to all the younger generation
I can't even tell you how many times I've listened to this! You deserve all the greatness coming your way! You go GODDESS!!
YAY! I'm so happy that there is a full version now!! This song is so inspirational to me, and should get a Grammy Award! You are amazing Jax!
This song touches my soul. Every time I hear this song, 1. I think how I wish I had this song when I was younger but so happy it's out for the young generation today. 2. Puts a huge smile on my face making me feel not alone, and that VS and others in the industry hear this realizing we are fed up with them. 3. Makes me cry, brings so many emotions to me. This song is so beautifully written, such power behind it. This song and your love song about your parents are so beautiful, and I can't wait to see how you grow from here. I hope one day to be purchasing your album.
I heard the song a few times here and there, but I’m not following anything, not much into this type of music, nor tiktok stuff… but damn I wish we all had this song when we were younger! This was my first time playing it myself, listening closely to the lyrics and I can’t even believe all these emotions - I’m crying so much, oh who knows how much trauma I suppressed ! Wow!
Thank you for sending such an important message!!!
I love the message of the song. To all my girls, body fat, hair, big thighs, and all that stuff is normal. Don't be insecure about that, be yourself :))
Yes! I’m so glad there’s a full version :D this is such a wonderful, and sadly relatable, message
Great song!!!!!!!!!!! Heard it on tik tok couple weeks ago! Keep it up!!
Same
This is an anthem
Best song ever!!! I love how passionate and outgoing it is. I love the message that this song sends!! Keep up the great work!
Omg I’m so happy that Jax released the full version of this song. It has such an awesome message and can spread positivity all over the world to help people that are insecure ❤️
9 years past my eating disorder, still struggling with my body after 5 kids( and fit) I play this song for my 2 girls. I never want them to experience what I did. Thank you.
I love this song so much
I love the message in this song!! I wish everyone could hear this!
Im a 40 year old man, was flipping through radio stations(normally a rock/metal dude) and for whatever reason I was in the pop station and heard this and it made me laugh. Love the message too; have 2 daughters myself
YASSSSS I'm so excited to have the full version!!! I literally need the 10 hour version. Every girl needs to hear this song. I love you Jax!!!
I feel like all of womanhood is giving a sigh of relief. We needed this. We needed Jax and everything she is bringing to the music space
I was anorexic for years. The pressure of being skinny was overwhelming. I am a heavier girl now, and I love myself more now then I did then. I relate to your song so much. Thank you for this song. I hope girls that are going through this see this song.
Ikr, i wish this song was out a looooonnng time ago.
same
I feel you I was also and hospitalized for it
No... just because you have health issues doesmt mean you need to fixate on skeleton people. And dont blame your personal issues on the fact that you chose to fixate on the media rather than real life. Thats so wierd. Just focus on your health. People are attracted to energy and personality more than anything anyway. For instance the person who dates the most coworkers at my job is a 300lb girl. Meanwhile people litterally stop and tell me how beautiful I am everyday yet I haven't been in a relationship in 9 years. Anorexia is a mental health issue and obesity is a physical health issue. Youre sick its not the magazines fault. Most regular people don't care what Victoria secret models look like
Better being fat than overly skinny but hit the gym you won’t regret it, it’s not bad fit
This song gives me such a confidence boost everytime I hear it, makes me feel comfortable in my own skin. I was singing it the other day, and my daughter overheard. She said the song makes her feel happy and love herself more. Thank you for being so inspirational.
please read my comment
No... this song makes excuses for why you feel that way thinking it's a store or men when body issues come from your upbringing and genetic disposition. Also this chick looks and dresses like a Victoria secret model so whats the difference here? Regular humans don't fixate on models at a sex store. Thats so wierd...
Finally! I’ve been waiting for the full version for forever and I’m so happy it’s finally out, I ❤️ this song!
I developed Ed at 12 and I’ve always applied this song to my most active ED.
This is the first time I’ve applied it to my unhealed self and I am sobbing
I LOVE your energy and your commitment to ensuring the next generation of young girls (and boys) know about the unrealistic expectations of this sort of thing
This audio has become a mantra for me. Whenever I feel insecure about my body I hum this to remind myself that there is nothing wrong with me.
At 0:30 Im starting to feel the Avril Lavigne punk rock vibe. This is very very brilliant song. I wish early 2000's come back.
Yes!
Real
yes sir lol
I know you meant the style of music, but for a moment I thought you were talking about the early 2000s beauty standards that the song took issue with, lol
@Taylor Hillard omg me to lol 😂😅
Great inspirational song this should be more up there than it is right now
Ahh thank you Jax! I listened o this when it came out and can't get it out of my head. All of your songs are so unique and amazing. You deserve the world!!!
IM SO SO HAPPY YOU RELEASED THE FULL SONG, IM SO OBSESSED WITH THIS. literally have been listening to the short version of this song for weeks nonstop, and now I have this. You don’t know how happy this made me!! 💕💕💕💕
Omg I’m so happy She made a full version of this it’s such an inspiration!😊
Just came upon this song at the most NECESSARY time. Thank you for saying what so many of us are feeling!!
I can't stop singing this! This is such an inspiration to a 12 year old like me in 7th grade with all of the beauty standards. This just tells me to love myself and not care what others think! :)
Aww!!!! I'm so glad people at the target audience really are hearing this song! To offer some unsolicited advice, physically growing is normal and going to happen. If you buy cute clothes you want to wear for a long time, get a couple sized bigger so they last 😁
i’m the same age! i still have trouble ignoring what others say though.
Same!
Same. I was always so insecure about my weight but now I don't care about what anyone thinks because listening to this song makes me tell myself I AM beautiful no matter what.
So glad you have this at this time in your life.