A man has to like me more than I like him, or I can't. I have to see investment of time, money, and effort. I wish my mom taught me what you teach. Thank you!
Exactly right (to not choose men who haven't chosen us). And if we have ANY confusion at all on where we stand with him, it means he has chosen us alright -- as a PLACEHOLDER. The quicker we can discern their fakery, the better off we are.
Sometimes they pretend to choose you they treat you just like a GF but you things etc but when you ask to confirm his actions if on same page and he switches up and says he’s not rushing anything then what? They come on hot and heavy and acting like your BF then to tell you no? In that case I dumped the communication 🤷♀️ if he doesn’t want commitment don’t waste my time
Date multiple men, but do not give physical intimacy until you get the level of commitment you want from one man. Physical intimacy exchanges energy. Have to be careful who you do that with.
i got that... chosing a man when he hasn't chose you won't work... that is what I always tell myself and others.. I really loved the way you tell the truth. Have been listening to others talking about relationship but yours is exceptional i mean i literally understood everything now
Whoa this is so helpful Fareen! It's like a light bulb because growing up i learned the opposite of what you're sharing here about men and no wonder i had so much trouble and didnt see any happy relationships around me either. You're a God send Fareen!
You just opened my eyes, mind-blowing...I'm too kind and too carring in early dating with him since we are currently long distance. I thought its nicecto express my attraction I have for him. I must stop and do less, otherwise, he can't pursue me, and he will lose interest 😱 He hasn't chosen me yet, althought he is very consistent and sweet. Thank you for this important message 🙏
I’m happy you like my direct and just go with the flow approach as it’s just me! Many have tried to tell me to change it a bit and make things more story like but it’s just not me. I just get right to it! I’m so appreciative of this feedback! Thank you!
Hi Fareen ❤ can’t stop watching your videos since last night and I hope you see this comment. You are definitely God sent! Something has clicked within me after listening to your videos. You articulate your thoughts so beautifully and are so wise and pleasant to listen to. I will say, the first step before the inner work would be to have compassion for yourself and your wounds. Instead of feeling guilt, shame, and embarrassment for our unconscious hurt behavior we can channel that to feel awareness and to take back responsibility for the outcomes so far; then doing the inner work will be magical. Thank you for all that you do!
Fareen, I'm so glad you repeat things! I hope my subconscious eventually catches up and it sinks in completely! ❤ Thank you so much for your precious work
Thank you! I think it’s a mix of a few colors and you absolutely look good in lipstick! You may not have found your shade yet that’s all. Darker colors don’t suit me as much
I’d love if you could speak to dating apps and going on first dates. I just started using them again and am located in Southern California. I’m a firm believer of all you speak about and that “if he wanted to he would”, but also I get that sometimes it’s hard only going off of a profile and not actually getting to meet someone and experience their energy in person. Is it ever ok for the woman to make the first move on apps prior to a first date? Or should we always leave that up to a man.
Thats fine in America where you actually have a dating culture and are used to men Asking you out. Try being in Australia where dating isnt a thing. And many women have to hit on a man to have anything happen..
I feel it's the same in Canada. Also, the few times when men have asked me out, I feel no attraction to them. I feel like I have to flirt with a man in order to get anything to happen. There are also instances when guys have asked me out and I respond with interest, but they don't lead, they don't make a plan. What are women supposed to do in those situations?
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That’s why I tell people who keep on asking me if I’ve found a guy, that he needs to have found me. Pursuing a man never works
Testosterone is the pursuit hormone, i always need to earn her love ! Woman don't need to earn the right guys love, just be yourself be authentic
Ohhhh I love this very much! 😍
Exactly - and, nice to hear that chivalry isn't dead ... 🥰
Correct
Women live life on easy mode
A man has to like me more than I like him, or I can't. I have to see investment of time, money, and effort.
I wish my mom taught me what you teach. Thank you!
I love this 🙏🙏
You’re very welcome!
Well explained !
I WISH my mom did!
Please make a video about non monogamous relationships. It seems that it's very common.
Exactly right (to not choose men who haven't chosen us). And if we have ANY confusion at all on where we stand with him, it means he has chosen us alright -- as a PLACEHOLDER. The quicker we can discern their fakery, the better off we are.
Sometimes they pretend to choose you they treat you just like a GF but you things etc but when you ask to confirm his actions if on same page and he switches up and says he’s not rushing anything then what? They come on hot and heavy and acting like your BF then to tell you no? In that case I dumped the communication 🤷♀️ if he doesn’t want commitment don’t waste my time
@@veebliss1266True, very true. We have to be vigilant, and keep those legs closed.
Date multiple men, but do not give physical intimacy until you get the level of commitment you want from one man. Physical intimacy exchanges energy. Have to be careful who you do that with.
I am concluding reserve falling in love, living together, sex, and children till hes sure, certain, and chosen you forever for marriage.
i got that... chosing a man when he hasn't chose you won't work... that is what I always tell myself and others..
I really loved the way you tell the truth. Have been listening to others talking about relationship but yours is exceptional i mean i literally understood everything now
THIS EPISODE I need to hear it at least 3 TIMES ! 😂
Whoa this is so helpful Fareen! It's like a light bulb because growing up i learned the opposite of what you're sharing here about men and no wonder i had so much trouble and didnt see any happy relationships around me either. You're a God send Fareen!
You just opened my eyes, mind-blowing...I'm too kind and too carring in early dating with him since we are currently long distance. I thought its nicecto express my attraction I have for him. I must stop and do less, otherwise, he can't pursue me, and he will lose interest 😱 He hasn't chosen me yet, althought he is very consistent and sweet. Thank you for this important message 🙏
I’m so happy it was helpful!
I can listen to you talk for hourssss. I love your messages ❤
Awwwwww 😍😍🥰🥰
Thanks for the reminder ❤ i had a self care sunday and thought about this exact thing, he will make himself knows to me in some way ❤
Yes!!!!
You don't have to be step ahead of him even in your mind , this is something we should understand
Bang! Your message is so direct and I love this love this information . Thank you beautiful for helping us in consciousness.
I’m happy you like my direct and just go with the flow approach as it’s just me! Many have tried to tell me to change it a bit and make things more story like but it’s just not me. I just get right to it! I’m so appreciative of this feedback! Thank you!
"you can't choose a man who is not choosing you." ouch. and yes.
Hi Fareen ❤ can’t stop watching your videos since last night and I hope you see this comment. You are definitely God sent! Something has clicked within me after listening to your videos. You articulate your thoughts so beautifully and are so wise and pleasant to listen to. I will say, the first step before the inner work would be to have compassion for yourself and your wounds. Instead of feeling guilt, shame, and embarrassment for our unconscious hurt behavior we can channel that to feel awareness and to take back responsibility for the outcomes so far; then doing the inner work will be magical. Thank you for all that you do!
Thanks Faresh..
Every single woman needs to hear this
8:17 Amen❤ Great content.
Love this, thank you I feel this is my missing piece
Thank you
Your welcome 🙏
I wish I was taught that many years ago! Pure gold 🙏
Such a huge point made here thanks 🙏
Fareen, I'm so glad you repeat things! I hope my subconscious eventually catches up and it sinks in completely! ❤
Thank you so much for your precious work
Great, great video ❤
Cant wait to watch it!!
Me too!
Hey! I like your video's ❤
Correct
If you let a man chose you he will love you more
Amazing advice as always! Love your videos!
Thank you! 😍🙏🥰🥰
I love the lip color you chose…
I don't look good with lipstick or I just don't know what I'm doing
Thank you! I think it’s a mix of a few colors and you absolutely look good in lipstick! You may not have found your shade yet that’s all. Darker colors don’t suit me as much
So good and empowering!!!
Guys when say they choose you and pull out all these stunts and then SWITCH up on you 😅😢
Love this!❤
I’d love if you could speak to dating apps and going on first dates. I just started using them again and am located in Southern California. I’m a firm believer of all you speak about and that “if he wanted to he would”, but also I get that sometimes it’s hard only going off of a profile and not actually getting to meet someone and experience their energy in person. Is it ever ok for the woman to make the first move on apps prior to a first date? Or should we always leave that up to a man.
Ohhhh you will love my e-books then! Start with “what men want” I go into everything deeply in there. 🤍
Thats fine in America where you actually have a dating culture and are used to men Asking you out. Try being in Australia where dating isnt a thing. And many women have to hit on a man to have anything happen..
I feel it's the same in Canada. Also, the few times when men have asked me out, I feel no attraction to them. I feel like I have to flirt with a man in order to get anything to happen. There are also instances when guys have asked me out and I respond with interest, but they don't lead, they don't make a plan. What are women supposed to do in those situations?
Agree Agree Agree🎉❤
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So what if you have strong feelings towards at men and you believe his feels are true but don’t want to leave his babies is that shit talking
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Amen 👏
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How am I barely seeing this?! 😅 such a great video Fareen & so guilty of trying to close that gap 😆🫣 lol