Only Way To Deal With TOXIC People | Gurudev

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  • @surimenon7660
    @surimenon7660 2 роки тому +76

    When I Encounter Toxic...People...I JUST SMILE and Silence ...ON MY WAY OUT I....Give a hug...I LET GO....I prefer being with my TRUE SELF...Practice 4S...Silence...Smile...Sharada and Sabri...🙏Hare Krishna 🙏

    • @lakshmisharma991
      @lakshmisharma991 2 роки тому +3

      👏🏻👌🏻❤️

    • @bhuvaneshwarij1326
      @bhuvaneshwarij1326 Рік тому +4

      what to do if we stay with them 24/7

    • @smitathatte8369
      @smitathatte8369 Рік тому

      ​@@bhuvaneshwarij1326
      Yes what's the solution for that

    • @natisha82
      @natisha82 Рік тому

      ​@@bhuvaneshwarij1326that's some of our karma too so keep smiling all the time & let go their behavior

    • @nomakeupcutie
      @nomakeupcutie Рік тому

      What is Sharada and Sabri?

  • @asapfilms2519
    @asapfilms2519 Рік тому +24

    In simple words…just ignore the toxic people

  • @drkvnaidu9104
    @drkvnaidu9104 Рік тому +7

    My realization is that stay away from negative thoughts received from people and simply letgo of those thoughts is the best practice.

  • @sanjayn7306
    @sanjayn7306 2 місяці тому +1

    I personally was toxic person didn't know it. For almost 36 years I was sensitive complaining emiting bad vibes was in depression. My life changed I met gurudev in 2006 he blessed me to be in art of living group....my local aol chapter always was kind and accepting. Slowly but steadily my karma got burned in gurudev's teaching and knowledge and sudharshan kriya. Now my depression has reduced psychiatrist reduced tablets and I feel happier and more cheerful.koti koti shat shat pranams to the Lotus of my guruji Sri Sri Ravishankar ji.❤ Thanks to all my aol family for accepting me giving opportunity and kindness to become a better person

  • @TruthKindness
    @TruthKindness 2 роки тому +41

    Detachment is hard. I got sucked into other people's misery, and into depression. Just like guruji said. Love this talk.

  • @triptibhatt1984
    @triptibhatt1984 2 роки тому +26

    This video is very relevant in these times where people are venting their toxicity on Social media and in person in the nam eof freedom of expression

  • @rupalivaidya6842
    @rupalivaidya6842 Рік тому +13

    Beautiful sharing by Sri Sri Ravi Shankar on how to deal with toxic people. Stay away from negative people otherwise they spoil your mentality and make you negative.Always focus on your inner self and the outer will automatically improve. Always pay attention to our self talk
    Thank you

  • @rajindarsingh1417
    @rajindarsingh1417 2 роки тому +7

    I’ve been happy for my 50 years & always been happy & laughing.
    Now at 50 , I’m crying & depressed after my operation.
    I’m alone & depressed . Who in the right mind wants to spread sadness. How do I rid myself of this bad phase / karma. During your healthy & happy phase everyone is around you. Now even your shadow is not near.
    The truth of the human race , they will not help those hurt.
    Even guru’s tells his devotees to avoid those depressed.
    I hope there will be love elsewhere. I don’t hate on anyone, just hurt & crying. Unfortunately I tried my best to heal myself.
    I thought the sadh sangat’s energy will have a positive effect on the depressed.

    • @rajindarsingh1417
      @rajindarsingh1417 2 роки тому +2

      @@poojachanana2889 - it’s nice to believe God is inside me but speaking the language of God , truthfully I feel abandoned by God now. But Gurudev explained it well. Just ignore the depressed individual ( like it’s a choice 🤦‍♂️)
      I’m finally relaxed & knowing that I will have full control of my end .

    • @rakeshvedpathak1111
      @rakeshvedpathak1111 Рік тому +4

      Guru ji is saying to avoid toxic person not the hurted one, you are not understanding.

    • @neenudogra5712
      @neenudogra5712 Рік тому

      What have the Saints come for on this earth then ... if not for Parmarth.
      What else compassion means which is the basis of all teachings ???

    • @professorelixir3351
      @professorelixir3351 7 місяців тому

      The true Guru will love you without any judgement. Don't worry, you will find love. Listen to Ram Das

    • @Loveee-q8e
      @Loveee-q8e 7 місяців тому +1

      Keep doing more meditation and stick on to Satvik foods , lessen your desire , keep a worldly desire❤

  • @roopamp8304
    @roopamp8304 4 місяці тому +1

    So much wisdom from Gurudev. I had taken a lot of toxic behaviour from relatives n friends for a long time. In the last 3 years, there has been defining moments in my life when I decided to call the shots to not react to toxic behaviours n maintain a cold silence without reacting. I am getting better n better at it and am experiencing a peace within. Fear nothing even if it means spending one's life alone.

    • @sanjayn7306
      @sanjayn7306 2 місяці тому

      Sir thank you I will follow your advice

  • @bhavnamehta9587
    @bhavnamehta9587 2 роки тому +20

    Thank you Divine Garudev. This sooth my soul. Currently we are going through some very difficult times. But listening to your wisdom has comforted my troubled mind.🙏

  • @veenagupta4500
    @veenagupta4500 2 роки тому +3

    बहुत ही सुंदर सतसंग सतगुरू जी के संग ।मैं क्रतार्थ ओर धन्यभागी हूँ। jgd ji. 🥰❤️❤️🥰❤️❤️💐👌⭐👌🙏🥰🥰

  • @anujlakhera1109
    @anujlakhera1109 Рік тому +1

    Pranam Guruji ❤🙏.. You share great wisdom with such simple words and joyfully. And I grasp it, as smoothly as enjoying & watching an entertainment show. Lots of love ❤️.
    1. Some people become habitual of such strong behavior, that, they even find reason to be angry and miserable at anything and anyone.
    Firstly see yourself before finding others' mistakes.
    2. We should avoid these kinds of people. (skillfully- by doing manviched- ) or detach your mind from that person.😇
    3. Save your mind at ALL costs.❤
    That line... Even I could not make people right. So you leave it 😂

  • @mukund9949
    @mukund9949 21 день тому

    Keep a tray to collect their 'fire of ignorance'..then Use it to heat 'Our Ananda swarupam'❤

  • @7002164
    @7002164 Рік тому +5

    Sometimes I feel like the toxic person but I know it’s my trauma and the need to be away from negative energy. I’m struggling to let the hurt go

    • @Loveee-q8e
      @Loveee-q8e 7 місяців тому

      Practice yoga and meditation consistently, do more nd more of meditation and stick to Satvik foods, foods which are natural and avoid non veg slowly , u will notice the difference

  • @umadevinbhat5464
    @umadevinbhat5464 Рік тому +2

    Nicely said ! It happens that mind is always stuck ! Unknowingly and whenever awareness dawns, there is relaxation ❤

  • @ushavenkataramani4715
    @ushavenkataramani4715 2 роки тому +66

    Guruji when we are forced to interact with toxic people because they are our close relative, how do i protect myself?

    • @PinkuSharma
      @PinkuSharma Рік тому +9

      By practicing awareness!

    • @Tarnishtha
      @Tarnishtha Рік тому

      Detach yourself mentally

    • @chittaranjanmoharana2766
      @chittaranjanmoharana2766 Рік тому

      ​@@PinkuSharma hh yybhhyy byuybhh Hwa yhhhhbhbhh no where byhnh huyhbb

    • @kusrishtikher
      @kusrishtikher Рік тому +21

      You are not bound to engage with anyone... just stay away from them as much as possible

    • @tejug1161
      @tejug1161 Рік тому +5

      Yathayogya... Mirror their behaviour then they will understand.

  • @psi42
    @psi42 Рік тому

    when people do work with their hearts discipline is lacking": meinem vater completed his work with sincere duty:-prabhudata

  • @kavitasehgal1816
    @kavitasehgal1816 Рік тому +2

    🙏जय गुरूदेव🙏🌹♥️so rightfully said

  • @ambarishr.1080
    @ambarishr.1080 2 дні тому

    Great speech Gurudev. Jgd. ❤

  • @arjunshah8637
    @arjunshah8637 Рік тому +3

    An eye opener knowledge guruji.hearing you adds broader and newer perspective in life❤

  • @kabitamondal2386
    @kabitamondal2386 10 місяців тому +1

    Hare Krishna Radhey Radhey 🌙🌹❤️🥰🌞😊🕉🙏

  • @gayatrisadarangani5625
    @gayatrisadarangani5625 2 роки тому +8

    Please keep sharing satsang online on UA-cam on daily basis.

  • @NM-pz1zo
    @NM-pz1zo 2 роки тому +1

    कल भी रहिएगा गुरुदेव सत्संग मे 🙏

  • @ushap4333
    @ushap4333 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you Gurudev

  • @LSSV1227
    @LSSV1227 Рік тому

    What ever people around you accept them what ever they are if negative thoughts people's around you then we can't able to change then let go and keep away ourself from this personality with ❤

  • @qd4051
    @qd4051 Рік тому

    Thank you Gurudev for your wisdom.

  • @vandanaalli1037
    @vandanaalli1037 Рік тому

    Our guruji very well the persons journey of karama our pachan indriya are to listen, test, they are not allowed in the satsang also the skill of consciousness to detach and be with ourselves and save your mind for all situations it is difficult time not impossible for the sadhak. Work on myself not others, only change the person at least I am at peace The school teacher has wisdom and clever use your wisdom don't see others teachers do their work with heart do your karma and move on

  • @sivanareshkurra6972
    @sivanareshkurra6972 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you Gurudev for this. I very much needed this.

  • @meenakshisubramanian1340
    @meenakshisubramanian1340 2 роки тому +1

    So nicely presented Gurudev. Earlier I also used to get irritated if someone spoiled my Rangoli. Now I'm able to connect the dots, moving ahead in this path

  • @rajendrakhairnar7724
    @rajendrakhairnar7724 2 роки тому +4

    जय गुरुदेव 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @malathagalee6019
    @malathagalee6019 2 роки тому +1

    JaiGurudev jicharan sparsh..

  • @kaushgaming5538
    @kaushgaming5538 Рік тому

    Every person have different thought it means not toxic i always feel happiness.

  • @subhashree4917
    @subhashree4917 2 роки тому +1

    Jaigurdev koti pranam 🙏🙏🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

  • @anjushandilya8249
    @anjushandilya8249 2 роки тому +1

    Guru Dev, kripa kare .Bless me and my family.

  • @Rhythm_and_Flow
    @Rhythm_and_Flow Рік тому +12

    I wish they put english translations..but anyway thank you for this video.

    • @MrTennispie
      @MrTennispie 7 місяців тому

      He is saying at any cost save your mind …
      Very precious
      Have a sense of humor
      Let go
      Life is short

  • @vijayanv.v2922
    @vijayanv.v2922 Рік тому

    So, if someone is suffering or in misery, ignore / neglect him ? Do not provide him solace ? All those who suffer are not toxic people.

  • @sanjaykumarahirrao621
    @sanjaykumarahirrao621 Рік тому

    Thank you, Thank you,Thank you!!!

  • @JyotiShivShakti
    @JyotiShivShakti 8 місяців тому

    💯% Agreed! I really avoid such people who gossip, interfere, swear etc. Totally agree with what you say😊🙏♥️I've been like this for years. Yet there are people not many 1 or 2 who keep stalking. And affecting your living environment. It has made me very happy to avoid such people.
    Har Har Mahadev🙌

  • @anjlisethi9109
    @anjlisethi9109 2 роки тому +2

    Krupa karo Gurudev

  • @prasannasai6337
    @prasannasai6337 Рік тому +12

    Kindly put subtitles when guruji talks in Hindi

  • @panduranggurav8225
    @panduranggurav8225 Рік тому

    जय गुरुदेव बडिया गुरुजी

  • @moumitapoddar4442
    @moumitapoddar4442 2 роки тому +1

    I have got my answer.Namaste Gurudev.🙏🙏

  • @susheeladahiya59
    @susheeladahiya59 Рік тому +1

    😊 thank you Gurudev ♥️🙏

  • @jiwanupadhayay2225
    @jiwanupadhayay2225 2 роки тому +1

    Guru dev 🙏🙏🌹🌹

  • @chandabutani9783
    @chandabutani9783 Рік тому

    Beautiful Shukrana 🙏 Thanks 👍

  • @Sushilkumarpawar3560
    @Sushilkumarpawar3560 2 роки тому +1

    जय गुरुदेव!

  • @sumanbhat4653
    @sumanbhat4653 2 роки тому

    Shri Gurubhyo Namaha

  • @MS-lk1cn
    @MS-lk1cn 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much Gurudev 💛

  • @akhterofficial
    @akhterofficial 2 роки тому +1

    Thank You So Much Guru Ji 😍😍😍

  • @raka8054
    @raka8054 2 роки тому +3

    Pranam gurudev.. Needed this knowledge..

  • @renugoyal3478
    @renugoyal3478 Рік тому

    Thank you guru ji for fantastic knowledge about how away from toxic people

  • @rupa9648f
    @rupa9648f Рік тому +1

    Guru dev.. here I don't understand whoes behaviour is toxic.. I set expectation from otherside nd it was not fulfilled..knowing it was intentionally done... I feeled unloved.. Unwanted... How I become mentally strong

  • @rebachakraborty2265
    @rebachakraborty2265 Рік тому

    +jay gurudev pranam shatakoti.

  • @arundhatibhattacharya7911
    @arundhatibhattacharya7911 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you Gurudev...needed this knowledge today

  • @jmahalekshmymenon9309
    @jmahalekshmymenon9309 Рік тому

    Thank you Gurudev...😊🙏

  • @SS-kp5vh
    @SS-kp5vh 2 роки тому +4

    Thanks Guruji for giving example of donkey in plate. So whenever someone is going to speak ill about me I will feel happy as donkey is in that person's plate😊. Hope I don't end up laughing and get into trouble

  • @jayeshpatel493
    @jayeshpatel493 2 роки тому +1

    Pranam Gurudev

  • @vijaypanchal6138
    @vijaypanchal6138 2 роки тому +2

    ।। जय गुरुदेव ।।

  • @RiteshKumar-yw1gi
    @RiteshKumar-yw1gi Рік тому

    जय गुरूदेव,💐💐🙏

  • @atulsingla5337
    @atulsingla5337 2 роки тому +1

    Bliss gurudev 🙏👌👌👌

  • @GuluPhotography
    @GuluPhotography 2 роки тому +12

    Big fan Gurudev 🥰😘

  • @galinakondratenko5400
    @galinakondratenko5400 2 роки тому

    They just reflect your mood

  • @pamballard2917
    @pamballard2917 6 місяців тому

    Encourage them to do the happiness program, ❤

  • @yashodakravindra3737
    @yashodakravindra3737 Рік тому

    Thank you for the timely knowledge Gurudev...

  • @shriyagupta982
    @shriyagupta982 2 роки тому +1

    Love you guruji ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💮🌿✨️

  • @seemadeshpande4602
    @seemadeshpande4602 Рік тому

    Charan sparsh

  • @mansirana2022
    @mansirana2022 Рік тому

    It sometimes happens with me too and I am catching that pattern whilst seeing this video.

  • @nitapanchu2803
    @nitapanchu2803 2 роки тому

    True..thanks dear sri guruji...aum..aum.aum

  • @ricklall2553
    @ricklall2553 2 роки тому

    Sri Sri Ravi Shankar

  • @harmikpatel2168
    @harmikpatel2168 2 роки тому +1

    Gurudev Please bless me to get our my bad karma 🙏🙏

  • @ashishgupta3290
    @ashishgupta3290 2 роки тому +3

    Bliss 💕💕

  • @vasanthar4533
    @vasanthar4533 Рік тому

    I can relate this so much...

  • @sissileliseminde4589
    @sissileliseminde4589 2 роки тому

    Thank you Gurudev ❤️😊🌿🌹. I have learn so much from you.. Norway 🙏🧜‍♀️

  • @vishakhajoshi2204
    @vishakhajoshi2204 Рік тому

    Guruji answered my question asked to him😊

  • @jerry-tm8lj
    @jerry-tm8lj Рік тому

    I was a person who couldn't remain tensed for a long time for something but people around me impacted me in a bad way and somehow it happened so that in last ten years I attracted only negative people and circumstances. Was it my fault? What went wrong?

  • @Itzel-camacho72
    @Itzel-camacho72 7 місяців тому

    15:01 ❤❤❤

  • @sreedevisunilkumar
    @sreedevisunilkumar 2 роки тому

    Jaigurudev🌹

  • @sakshiduklan
    @sakshiduklan 2 роки тому

    ❤️❤️🔥🔥 So Truee

  • @subashkp9549
    @subashkp9549 2 роки тому +3

    ജയ് ഗുരുദേവ്🙏🙏🙏

  • @kshri4417
    @kshri4417 2 роки тому +1

    Great talk 🙏🙏🙏

  • @ritutripathi7610
    @ritutripathi7610 Рік тому

    Gurudev I am so scared to speak to my mother
    Because every time she has something to shout at me from the other side of the phone
    Don't know what to do
    Today I have no feelings
    Just feel neutral

  • @sukumardutta9260
    @sukumardutta9260 2 роки тому

    Bhagawat Gita is the intellectual property of humanbieng which is the knowledge of culture and education of soceitys significant feserves Punyaa Bharatbhumi was ver rich in intellectual in the past in every field of astronomy scienc and traditional knowledge of wisdom and so on who taught us how to count while sceintific discoveries could not have made base on creation of mind such a literary invention and artistic work sign and images etc

  • @natalyalomakina3800
    @natalyalomakina3800 11 місяців тому +1

    What about the narcissists?

  • @reemasingh3184
    @reemasingh3184 2 роки тому +1

    Jgd

  • @sheetalkhekale853
    @sheetalkhekale853 2 роки тому

    Jgd🙏🙏

  • @doctorpavana157
    @doctorpavana157 Рік тому

    Just superb

  • @gargi3kaushik
    @gargi3kaushik 2 роки тому

    G am happy and at peace

  • @susheeladahiya-l2e
    @susheeladahiya-l2e 9 місяців тому

    But if a mother behaves badly with her child , what can we say then ?

  • @thinkright--healthmatters6071
    @thinkright--healthmatters6071 2 роки тому

    Not possible -impossible to see good or change toxicity in toxic people -11min *sharp !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @SajiSNairNair-tu9dk
    @SajiSNairNair-tu9dk 10 місяців тому

    😊👉🤔 toxic is karma of life 🙆

  • @Justanotherrandomstuff
    @Justanotherrandomstuff Рік тому

    How to deal with toxic parents?

  • @fleuralmeida579
    @fleuralmeida579 2 роки тому

    Love you💗

  • @neerajchodhri4317
    @neerajchodhri4317 2 роки тому

    Jgd jii🙏🙏

  • @shailajahl7529
    @shailajahl7529 Рік тому

    Some people are making my husband toxic.He is trusting them a lot. How to overcome this

  • @nikhil2211986
    @nikhil2211986 2 роки тому

    Mentally vichhed the relation with toxic people...

  • @supercool2032
    @supercool2032 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @WorldPeaceandLove
    @WorldPeaceandLove 2 роки тому

    I know someone whose mother in law gave incense stick marks to her child. Sister in law completely owns husband he does as they both say. She doesnt think about them until they do something more to hurt.The husband is a mere doll in their hands. A smart guy otherwise until it comes to them. How do you deal/ think of this situation? She is living with him since she knows her husband also is a puppet. They will loot him completely. Use him like a tissue and finish him.Even now they demand loads of money both have done nothing for their in-laws. These are real toxic people harmful. How do you deal with them?

  • @potterdumb
    @potterdumb 2 роки тому

    Why were ads being played even before guruji left ?

  • @aarthyravi9965
    @aarthyravi9965 Рік тому +1

    I don't understand Gurudev. Can dharma be wrong? There are people who commit heinous crimes without an iota of guilt

  • @meenakshikrishnan5760
    @meenakshikrishnan5760 2 роки тому

    JGD