"owed them for his existence" that's implying he asked to exist. His parents made him exist and then made his existence worse. If anything they owe him.
Let's be real, even if the OP from the brother story HAD agreed to get tested, odds are they wouldn't have been a match and then the whole family would have still found a way to blame them for the death of their brother. That's how these families work.
Remember: God can see through the mask of religion and knows how wretched people really are underneath. No amount of religion can save that family from judgment.
@@ArcanineEspeon Gonna be honest, I forgot they were twins when I wrote that, but give the karma dripping in this story, I wouldn't be surprised if OP wasn't a match
I feel like in his head he thought "Well, everything always just goes my way, so if I ham it up and act sorry, he'll give in to what I say. If not, mom and dad will make him anyways, because that's what my life up until this point has always been"
I have a brother who intimidates and bullies the women in his life (his mother, mother of his child AND his own baby sister). He smokes cigarettes (I know its not illegal, but I'm the only one in my family to have never once picked up any sort of drug other than alcohol) and STOLE YU-GI-OH CARDS FROM WAL-MART (I had been an accomplice one day by accident). If he needed any sort of organs and I was the only match, bet your bottom dollar that I would NEVER give up my organs. Just because of him tormenting me for YEARS and what he's done to the women in his life. P.S. My brother in this comment was my dad's "Golden Child." I just happened to be my MOM's "Golden Child" (by accident) because I don't treat her like that and I respect her. Plus, she took me away from my brothers and father when my parents had been fighting.
Like anyone with a soul would have at least apologized and went over everything they did wrong. "Things we did to each other" LMAO. He Killed HIMSELF and wanted his brother to bail him out. I really hope it hurt for the brother.
I’m a twin. My brother was a jerk to me as a kid etc. but, we grew up and forgiveness is wonderful. now we are good friends and true twins. I would give him my own heart if he needed it and he would do the same for me.
I wonder what's their actual thought process. Do they actually believe the disown child would do anything for family after basically treating him like garbage?
Can't remember who first said this but it kind of fits here. "I've never killed anyone - but I've read a lot of obituaries with a great deal of pleasure".
@@ABoredGod we can but it doesn’t make the husbands actions less crappy. But it does illustrate my point that op only cares about associating wishful bad people if he’s the one slighted.
Christians also believe that God killed a guy for pulling out of his dead brothers wife because sexual gratification without producing children is just that sickening to a being that created an entire universe. Let alone how much he hates guy on guy stuff. So those same christians could use the bible to completely justify OP's treatment. Ain't religion wacky?
Story 1: He only wanted op when he thought that he could keep her subdued and submissive. Once she started getting an education, he knew it wasn’t going to last.
I love the kidney one. Sebastian made OP's life a living hell, his parents stood by and did nothing while OP was abused, even praising Sebastian for it all. They even went after OP's husband and in-laws, claiming some pretty nasty shit. All over such a long time. And then when death is ready to take Sebastian, they try to guilt trip him into giving him a kidney, using shit like they owed him for his existence and he has a duty to family. I *LOVE* how OP turns their own words back on them, asking where their duty was when they kicked him out and always took Sebastian's side over his and made him feel like shit. Truthfully, I'd have done the same thing. I'd have looked Sebastian dead in the eyes and said "I may be a match, but I'm not going to do anything for you. After all you did for me...why should I help you?" and then look at the parents and asked "Also what have you done for me? You kicked me out of the house just for being gay, you sided with him constantly and made my life hell. And you have the audacity to think I owe you anything for just existing. I never asked to be born with you scumbags as my parents. I may be your flesh and blood....but you are not my parents, and this waste of organs laying there is not my brother. You're all dead to me!" and walked out, flipping them off on the way home. OP, you did NOTHING wrong there. This was overdue revenge and you should feel good about it
Honestly, if the Story is even Remotely True (so many "victims" nowadays, it almost feels like it's Trendy...kinda like being Trans/Pro-Trans (I don't really care either way...I'm not "Pro-Trans" or "Anti-Trans", I like the "Live and let Live" Doctrine, so as long as I'm not asked to do things or forced to pander to anyone of a Specific "Category" (Gender/Race/Sex, etc...) or "Community" I couldn't care less!). But there's not 1 Day (probably not even 1 Hour) where we don't here about Racism this, Sexism That and that everyone is either Transphobic or are Completely in Love with Trans People...Both Extremes...Which only lead to Division because people believe the News and Only Hear about the Bad Things and None of the Good Things.... ***And if the story is true and that's how Sebastian was actually Raised, then No Wonder he acted like that! He was Praised for it All the time since a Young Age! His Parents are the Real Cause of His Suffering since they made the Twin basically become a Monster through "Teaching"...It's not himself that chose this, he was just never told that any of those things are Ok (though to be honest, everyone of my Friends who had Older Brothers were Fighting and getting Roughed Up, so I have a Hard Time understanding why you had Hatred towards your BROTHER...As in, I don't understand why you would blame the Brother when it's the Parents that are really at fault and they are also most likely the reason you hated your brother so much, because you were Jealous of all the attention and Love (though it doesn't sound like it's the case for Love...but maybe OP thought they did...but they were probably Narcissists or at the very least "Cluster B Personality Disorders" which creates immense problems for interpersonal (Family) communication and trauma/abuse is not at all uncommon...). I'm well aware people are gonna hate on this comment because I said what everyone is thinking out loud... Think of it the same way you think about the Jehovah's Witnesses & Mormons Door-to-Door Harassment...I have Zero issues with their Religion...getting woken up at 9am on the Weekend by them is Completely Different... I also don't care what Orientation people are, but if they are annoying me when I've clearly said No, that could turn bad if they keep at it... I really don't like Discrimination, but I hate those who will let someone Walk All Over them because that person is a Different Race/Sex/Gender than you and you "aren't supposed to react" or "can't get mad" or whatever that person thinks would be inappropriate...(It's not Hard...Put the same situation as if the person was a Clone of yourself! If you'd Punch Your Clone, then it's your Natural reaction, not being Racist/Sexist/Anti-LGBTQ, etc...) I'm Out!
Exactly..... and it isn't like the donor bank would deny him just cuz of his past...he has to have messed up and broken the 'no more drugs/alcohol' rule AFTER being told he made it onto the donor list. So no sympathy at all for that guy. He didn't think the rules applied to him, we guess what....some do.
I never knew anyone who got into this situation, so I wasn't aware that there are conditions in which they could provide a donor. It sounds totally right and totally justified, though.
the last story OP is just as bad as his 'friend'. He didn't exposed him until he was betrayed. I mean, they've known each other for quite a while now and didn't even say anything to those people, until that moment. It's sad that he's still friends with the wife when he just exposed his 'friend' for revenge not because he really cared for those people. They are both disgusting people.
If I was op in the last story, the moment this “friend” told me they were cheating/doing drugs/ stealing/whatever, I’d expose them. No way would I ever let anyone get away with doing stuff like that to there spouse.
I agree with you. Op is just as bad as him but some guys tend to take the Bro code a little to far. I know many guys from my friend circle who are friends with scum bags like this. Cheating, drug use and such. But they dont out them out to their girlfriends because of this toxic friendship bro code thing they have. Im not saying all guys are like this. Im saying i know a few who are exactly like OP.
Okay but is anyone else bothered by the fact that he says that the ex friend said that the wife was abusing her niece, glossed over that, then said the same about the mother of the niece and made a point to say (but that's not true). Like????? DOES THAT MEAN IT IS TRUE ABOUT THE WIFE????
Op really had the audacity to cut out his “friends” because of the whole “birds of a feather” thing when he was literally friends with a horrible person for 16 years and said nothing about it.
Yup wanted to comment this. honestly I don't have a lot of faith in his character either like he was fine with his actions while it wasn't effecting him. Sounds more like he just took it personally that they dare stay friends with someone who stole from him.
Exactly, he didn’t care and was willing to keep his mouth shut until he was $60 out of pocket. Apart from that, he was fine with everything and only brought it all to light out of spite. Honestly, I hope people around OP asked these questions and realised how selfish and petty there were for sitting on this for so long and only saying something when their weed went missing. Frankly, they both sound like people I’d want to steer clear of
My brothers were the exact same way. My brother died In May if this year. People looked at me like I was a fucking monster because I showed no emotion that he was gone. If he wanted to be a brother I could shed a tear for, he should have started about 38 years ago. My mother also passed a month before him and had the same emotional lacking. I gave up on any of them years ago. I have the only people in my life that matter to me. My understanding, lovely wife and my 3 awesome children. I turned out fine without them and often wonder if we would have been close, would my life have been so different that I wouldn’t have what I do now? Probably not. I would probably be laying fave down in a gutter somewhere dead. Don’t relish on the past. You can’t change it, so just keep moving forward. They abused you, mentally and physically. Those memories are better left in the past. Congrats on your choice and just remember this. People that have never been in the same situation can never understand what it’s like. I looked at my brother and mother like they were just strangers walking down the street. I always said that I could care less if they died tomorrow, and I was wrong. I totally cared a lot less than what I thought.
LOLXD. Totes agree. My brother's dad (my step father) was abusive to us, our mom, and an alcoholic. Ended up voiding his subscription to life, and my brother was so happy that he was on cloud 9 for days. Me personally? Was like "Meh, good for him for learning how to swing from a rafters. But - 20 points for forgetting that it wasn't Halloween. So he was making himself a prop out of season." Our mom? Tried to kill me, for asking to call us by our preferred name. Was assaulted by her, called a "lazy, ungrateful, crazy motherfucker", and when we tried to leave the car. Stepped on the pedal, and if we would've been even a second slower, we could've died as our feet hit the pavement (this happened a year ago). Ever since then. She's been ignoring that she did that. And trying to be a part of our lives, even though we've told her to fuck off and never talk to us again. (And this is just one instance in a long line, of evil BS she's done to us over the years.) And when she dies. We'll be relieved, but also probably past the point of giving a fuck.
To top it all of on the bully brother, the fact that once he realized that the brother wont donate his kidney to him, he knew he was going to die. He had no more time left and most likely was in despair. So even before dying,he suffered. This could be the ultimate revenge to someone on their death bed. To know that theres a way he can be saved but it wont happen.
That’s one thing I don’t get. With a failing kidney there are multiple ways to live without needing a transplant right away. I was on dialysis for over 3 years waiting for a kidney match. I’m assuming the op is in the states which has a much faster turn around for organ transplants than Canada.
Keep in mind. What lost the thief 90% of the mutual friends between him and the OP was the thief stealing from the OP…not all the other horrific things that he did. So theoretically, if they knew all the stuff the OP did, then it’s also on all those mutual friends to tell the thief’s wife as well. Why couldn’t any of them have spilled the beans instead of OP? Why couldn’t all of them had an intervention with her? And if your argument is that “they didn’t know,” then why didn’t OP share this with them? Sure, they would call out OP for not sharing it sooner, but don’t they have a right to know what kind of “friend” they supposedly had? I’d never want a friend like that personally.
Imagine someone, on their death bed of all things, not even making things right by admitting to the hell they put their own sibling through for almost two decades, and "apologizing" without actually saying sorry, and all while gaslighting the sibling who literally did nothing wrong! If Hell does exist, I'm pretty sure his bed of spikes was being made while the final conversation between Good twin and Evil twin was going down. On a side-note, I'm much happier for Ryan the good twin with everything and everyone he loves, needs, and deserves around him.
The bad twin is definitely going to burn and his parents most certainly will as well. It's only a matter of time before they suffer and kick the bucket.
Damn that 2nd story was brutal. OP’s family is very toxic except his one cousin and older sister because they choose favorites and etc. His twin brother is just a huge piece of sh** for doing that to OP.
The evil twin story made me so mad, especially at the part where he told the girl to get an abortion and got OP kicked out, and the fact that the parents just continued to favor him more...what goes on through those types of people's minds when they do shit like that. How are you gonna have children and just mistreat one of them just because you have a "favorite" Imo parents shouldn't have favorite children, that usually leads to bad situations down the line
Honestly, as someone who taught languages to myself for fun, seeing as OP taught himself ASL because he was bored, I bet he was the nerdy shy sensitive kid, and his twin was probably the more roughousing kid. I bet the parents probably wanted a star athlete to come out of the family to live their narcissistic fantasies thru, and OP wasn't that, so they preferred his brother. Then when OP started dating his now-husband, I think that's when everything came together against him. Homosexuality is seen as weak and shameful in these hyper-christian/traditional families.
That last OP ... I find myself wondering why he would keep such a bad friend in his social circle. Anyone who would say such horrible things about his life partner is a person I wouldn't let walk my dog, let alone permit them in my home.
This may be a repeat story, but I absolutely LOOOVE hearing it. Serves Sebastian right. He outed him from the family, so OP has no responsibility to care and he absolutely should not.
He acts like a friend to the wife but happily kept quiet about Joel’s affairs and his disgusting statements of her for years. Only reason he spilled was because Joel wronged him, if he hadn’t OP would’ve continued to not say anything.
Brother: *Being horrible to OP and expects him to give him the kidney* OP: *Doesn't give it to him* Tombstone: *"Here Lies Sebastian"* *"Surprised Pikachu Face"* What DID he expect anyway?
I was gonna say "what goes around comes around" But I think something like this probably fits better "If you push someone too far, don't expect them to come back"
I wouldn't feel bad for the dad, personally, because there's a reason the kids turned out the way they did, and we don't know enough about him. He could have been just as shitty as his kids.
@@AzureKyle But yeah youre right. i have a neighbor whose kids i went to school in 1st to 4th grade with, and the kid was an absolute Pos. even now, im almost in 8th grade, in the winter the kid throws snowballs at other peoples windows (at like 9 pm) and the parents do it too. Let me repeat: Two 40something year old adults with a kid are harrasing a 13year old
@@fownwaofhwwp756 Well yes, but some of it can also be learned. I'm just saying that we don't know the full story about the father or their family life, so I don't really feel bad for him.
Story 2 was absolutely cathartic. Hell, I’m sure OP would watch his brother die if he bled out, and I would also. I was physically repulsed hearing what the brother did to OP. I’m glad he lived the last moments of his life in absolute terror of death. Vile and repulsive people like that, don’t deserve a shred of sympathy. They deserve to be in a hole in the ground.
Even a hole in the ground is too much for them, holes in ground take up space, his body should just be thrown into a landfill, at least the rats and cockroaches there can get some use out of him.
🎵 He had it comin', he had it comin' He only had himself to blame If you'd have been there, if you'd have seen it I betcha you would have done the same 🎶
The perfect comeback line to the Kidney story "Ahh yes, because supporting someone's drug addiction is more important than caring for your own family."
The last story.....as someone who's watched a marriage fall apart due to this same thing, I don't feel for OP keeping all that info until his piece of shit "friend" stole from him. He should've told Joel's wife THE MOMENT he knew anything.
OP most likely didn't care or even supported it. You think someone who detested cheating would be friends with a cheater for 16 years? Nope. OP is just like Joel.
And now he’s acting like he’s a friend to her when he spent years hiding her ex husband’s multiple affairs and disgusting comments of her. And the audacity to cut off friends for being “birds of a feather” and acting holier-than-thou when he remained friends with this scumbag for years and kept his horrid secrets.
It should be apparent that the reason that the parent praised their evil son was because they're also terrible people. I believe that terrible people have a tendency to praise other terrible people. I'm sure OP's parents will see their "golden child" again in Hell, because that's exactly where they belong!!
There isn’t a story that is a juicy or as fulfilling of an ending as that middle one. God damn that’s too perfect it almost makes me cry out of excitement for how it ended. I want to stand and clap with an audience even
Still sad though. Not that he died but that even at the very end he never attempted to show any type of remorse for his actions or having the clarity to show any human kindness for the little time he has on this earth. Am sad for the wasted potential of redemption he wasted to come to peace with his other half.
Last story: Like everyone else is saying, OP was also bad for withholding that deal breaker information. Though no body is talking about the accusation about m*lestation, that OP didn't deny like the abuse accusation. Man, women, or anyone in between shouldn't be spared an accusation like that. It needs to be investigated to protect the children. If she isn't then nothing will happen, but if she is then a child was spared something very traumatic. I also get that he lied about other things, but I still feel like this should be investigated. Instead OP sent the allegations to the potential abuser, and now if she is doing it she knows people can tell and will cover her tracks more. This can not be ignored, though I feel like OP will ignore that fact brcause they are a peice of sh*t as well.
its also the fact of, if there was a genuine concern about her molesting the niece, then he just sat by and did nothing with that information for maybe 5+ years and that in itself is an awful thing to do. like, who hears about a child possibly being assaulted and is like: "Damn that sucks. anyways I'm gonna go do weed now". Not to mention the shitty-ness of "Joel" having this information as well and not going to the police if there was merit to it
I don't disagree, but gonna say one thing "If she isn't then nothing will happen" This is entirely false. Wrong accusations can absolutely ruin lives because even if she is proven by law to be innocent, the accusation and the fact she was blamed for it will be remembered by those who heard of it. instead of being known as 'the person who molested a child', the person will be remembered as 'the person who is suspected for molesting a child'.
I don’t think the molestation is true, he was just saying horrible stuff for the sake of it. Like the part where Joel said his ex wife’s sister abuses her kids and OP says it’s a lie. But then again OP has clearly been shown to have skewed morals so who really knows.
@@locusxe1411 I mean they basically just wrote half the novel on Reddit and published it for the world to see for free, only difference is they’re not getting paid for this one lmao
As someone who had an abusive brother, I feel for OP. I cut all contact from my brother a couple years ago (and mother, who enabled him and was abusive herself) because talking to him was too painful for me, keeping in contact with my biological family constantly triggered my cPTSD & PTSD. So I cut contact, and my life became much more stable! He had a kid this year and he reached out via my adoptive sister, so I congratulated him on fatherhood. It took all of 2 fucking days for him to return to his usual behaviour, which was telling me how to behave, gaslighting, bullying, laughing at my for fighting against homophobia and claiming that I’m a “bully” for standing against homophobia (I’m literally bisexual), and then tried to weaponise my disabilities against me, which he constantly did when I did have contact with him. He was the golden child so he got away with treating me like that when growing up. As an adult I wasn’t gunna accept any of that and told him. According to him, an uneducated man with no medical knowledge, I’ve “never to his knowledge” been diagnosed with cPTSD and PTSD... I got diagnosed in 2016, which he was told in 2016... he then changed this to claiming I “flaunt” my disabilities, where in his opinion, talking about invisible disabilities and living with them online to normalise and destigmatise mental health and any invisible disability (because I’m 90% bedridden with nerve damage) is somehow “flaunting” being disabled as opposed to “talking about disabilities that affect my every day life, so of course I’m going to talk about these things you fucking plank”. So I cut contact. I don’t get nuclear revenge, sadly, but should anything ever happen, there are hospital reports from my teenage years when I lived at home from the times he physically attacked me, where he knocked me out and gave me concussions. So should anything happen there’s literal evidence that’s over a decade old, in my medical records, naming him as the cause to bruising around my neck, head and face, and concussions suffered. It fucking sucks coming from such cancerous families, but the family we choose ends up being a stronger bond. Just because I’m blood related to my biological brother and biological mother doesn’t make them my family, your family doesn’t sit idly by as you get abused and ignores it, gaslights you, blames you for getting physically attacked by your own brother, mocks you and tries to control you for years as an adult because you dared to leave and escape. So I’m blood related, but they’re not my family. My brother really solidified that this year with how he behaved towards me despite having no contact with me for years, you’d think he’d have learned. But he didn’t.
@@kitdoesstuff_official I’m okay now, thank you! I’m a lot more mentally stable, still struggle with PTSD but I live with it for the most part, trigger dates being the worst. Because I’m from Scotland we have the NHS so I have a wonderful medical team for my cPTSD & PTSD and nerve damage, I’m medicated, have received PTSD specific therapy, and a doctor I’ve been seeing for over a decade now and really knows me. This has all massively helped, and I’m extremely grateful to the NHS because I dunno what I’d do without it! My adoptive family is my childhood best friends family who unofficially took me in as their 4th child, and to me they’re my family, they’re the people who showered me with love and support, and they’re the people I’d do anything for! Revenge wise there are possibilities because I’ve fantastic documented messages from my brother being abusive about my disabilities, unsure what I can do with them, but I can play the waiting game before sending them off wherever they need to go? I wouldn’t do it this year because he’d know it was me and would lie... but he is also extremely stupid and arrogant and seems to think he can tell people I’m lying. I made a post to my Facebook this year and had to add an edit of “For [brother] friends who are stalking me, here are documented posts I’ve made previously with his lengthy abuse against me. He isn’t innocent” One of his idiot friends reacted to my post where I spoke about the entire 2 days of contact and him trying to weaponise my disabilities. It would appear neither my brother or his friends have a singular fucking brain cell. Like if you’re gunna stalk then don’t get caught!
Same here, I cut contact with my sister 5yrs ago and my mother 7yrs prior.. I actually just started talking to my mother maybe twice a month. I cannot do more than that. It use to hurt but I'm fine with it. My husbands family is amazing to me so I still have support.. Went crying to his mom and she was fantastic so things are working out.. Keep your head up hon, you're so much stronger than you think!! ❤️❤️
@@ZombieSazza oh God..... but don't worry seeing as your a good person I'm sure revenge will come and it will be sweet.... the saying "karma is a bish" will come in your favour.... don't worry.... karma will come
Similar to the twins I have a spiteful relationship with my dad. I straight up told him "you better pray that you don't need an organ from me, cuz I'll leave you to die"
Well, killing the life of someone "spiritually" counts too. Im sure the scumbags of the 1° and 3° story are regretting being alive due to that revenge, they were left alone with the most low-quality of life and equally horrible friends/family arround.
Depends on were you are in the world, but it's a Hebrew word, and pronounced "ai·zuhk" phonetically, with a slight H-sound, not 'ic' or 'ack', more of a "huk" Z-huk, eye-Zuhuk, like the first part of Mark zuckerberg's name.
If any of my abusers asked for a kidney, I'd not only deny them, I'd laugh in their face. The self control of this man not to enact harm on others is spotless. You are an inspiration dude, you be proud of yourself for holding on to your autonomy. What a pathetic family, how *dare* they. Keep vibing, and I can't wait for you to have a healthy and beautiful family.
Revenge 1: OP managed to help the girlfriend dodge a missile. That much insecurity is dangerous to everyone else. Oh, and last bit is satisfying, minus the old man having to deal with those two leeches for the rest of his life. Revenge 2: You know what they say, "What goes around, comes around" If Sebastian wanted his life saved, he shouldn’t have done all that harm to OP and Sister. The parents were also punished since they clearly were playing favorites and shoving OP away. Oh, and it appears that all of the relatives involved minus Sister appear to be toxic. F them! Revenge 3: If he didn’t want his wife to know how much of a terrible person he was, he shouldn’t have stolen OP's medical marijuana and deny it.
To the second story…it is possible that one of them could have been a match but been too entitled to donate. The first person told that they’re a match is the donor in private and they get to choose whether they want that info known or not…if not then they can just say “sorry…not a match” so we don’t even know if any of them were telling the truth. Why would the parents do this if it means their “favorite” son would die? Again…entitled. Also as a way to force the OP into this situation, where they know he’d be a guaranteed match, because twins.
If you're wondering how he got kidney failure, its because he used alot of drugs and alcohol, I read the story were op said that his kidney failed beacuse of drugs and alcohol. Why bother giving him another kidney to just destroy it again?
Even if the brother were nice, that still wouldn't mean OP owed him a kidney. OP would have probably at least considered it, but dialysis would have still been a thing if he chose not to. Hell, a nice brother probably would have accepted it if he turned him down. "I'm sorry, I don't think I can go through with it." "I understand... You got an awesome husband and it'd suck if you had to leave him behind." "Is there something else I can do?" "We could probably just spend some time together while we can. I'll hang in there." "No problem." That probably would have been how it went down if the brother actually cared. But then again, if he didn't prioritize his own comfort by abusing drugs, he wouldn't even be in that situation.
He was second guessing his decision after he died. Thats tons more sympathy than i would have in his situation. I hope he didn't cancel any plans to visit his brother, i wouldn't even suspend doing my taxes. And the plane tickets shoulded been on his parents.
No one "owes" their family just for being born. Being outcast by his family and then being expected to save the life of his tormentor is the biggest sense of arrogant entitlement that anyone could ever encounter. O.P. has no reason to feel guilty, his brother brought his death upon himself and his parents enabled it.
Honestly, I don't think I would've even bothered going to the hospital to see him in the first place. None of them cared about me, so why should I care about them? Blood ties are nothing. The ones who love you and support you - those are your true family. Oh, and the new kidney would've been wasted on him anyway. He managed to destroy BOTH of his with his habits, after all.
I would have gone to the hospital just to do as OP did. Imagine being abused and suffering at the hands of that individual and then being able to get that level of justice when their life is literally in your hands and you can look them in the eye, and say no.
Gotta agree with your final comment on the thief in the last story. If someone is telling you all that shit, fully incriminating themselves about how awful a person they are, it's dumb to act shocked when one day their shit inevitably ends up splashing all over you too.
This 2nd story wasn't a nuclear revenge people, this was a sci-fi Star Trek version of a major anti-matter bomb kind of revenge set off at point blank range in the twin brother's face! : 0
Also throw in some sort of metaphor about how the brother was the one who caused his own downfall. It's just like how Batman left Ra's Al Ghul to be crushed by his own schemes.
My sister was always my mother's favourite. My mother and her bullied me into depression and litteral psychosis as a teen. I wouldn't save either of them, even with a pig's kidney.
in the abusive brother story, it makes me happy how OP stood up for himself and didn't donate the kidney, his brother abused him and didn't get a punishment so now the brother got a punishment
NTA. What goes around comes around and karma hit him like a bus. Every child deserves parents but not every parent deserves a child. The only ones I feel bad for is OP and his sister.
Fuck that. Send him along the river Phlegethon (the one with searing liquid) and don't turn off the machines; let him live the rest of his life and pain and hope he suffers even more in death.
Second Story: The Parents really suck the brother suck and now Op watch his brother slowly going down to hell. Ops brother really doesn’t know how to look what it’s action effected Op. Sorry is not enough.
I often feel uncomfortable with Nuclear Revenge because it’s over a line that I personally refuse to cross. I’m not opposed to others crossing it though as long they’re okay with it, btw. But that line gets somewhat… extended when it comes to abuse. I endured emotional abuse for 23 years, so I know what it feels like to to be locked in that space. Let them die.
That last story, it can be easy to overlook someone's faults until it directly effects you, then you realize just how destructive that person really is.
If I knew a friend of mine was cheating on their SO, we wouldn't be friends. That's just disgusting, and being aware of it and not doing anything makes you an accomplice.
Nuclear and above is WAY too far. I like revenge, but I'm not THAT crazy! The subs above Nuclear are mostly dead though. Blackhole is basically dead, Supernova is rare Nuclear reposts, and Bigbang is just unfiltered craziness.
I have 3 kids and absolutely not do I have a golden child. I of course treat them a little different because my oldest is a son and two daughters. I make sure they know I'm proud of all of them and I say it to them in front of each other so they know I love them equally.. My youngest is gay, don't care, she's my daughter. She's the same daughter she was 30 secs before she came out to us and I just don't understand how parents can kick out their kids over that!! The twins, he's only sorry because he is sick. Parents need to understand, our kids don't OWE us anything. They didn't ask to be here, WE made that decision.. I hate when parents do this and make their kids feel like they are supposed to do everything.. Irritates me..
No parent should treat every child exactly the same. Children are not clones of one another. Each should be dealt with as an individual with her/his own needs and personality. Good for you.
I had a relative that I DID NOT get along with. Ever. Since we were kids. And we grew up in the same neighborhood. Even on the same block. At the funereal, when reminded to never speak ill of the dead. I had a moment of silence, looked at everyone and asked if those were scones. Cold? Yes. Uncalled for? Well, I didn't say anything bad about him.
For the thumbnail story : I completely understand why OP made the choice he made... I would make the same one then go NC with anyone who harps on me about it / says that I’m a bad person for that choice
I'm glad in the 1st story the sis was not a kidney match, otherwise I can easily imagine her being pressured to donate the kidney since she is still very much maintaining a civil contact with the family. It would be harder for her to refuse, since she hadn't just walk away like OP for years. She must've felt she dodged a bullet when they say her kidney is not a match.
In response to Sebastian, I would've gotten tested and hoped I was a match, just to look him in the eyes, tell him I was a match, just to get his hopes up, and then say "But you made my life a living hell, so why the hell do you think I would save yours." and walk away without another word
The hospital scene with the Evil Twin reminds me of that scene in Batman Begins wherein Batman and Ra's al Ghul are on the tram, and the tram's brakes have been broken, and Batman states that while he won't kill the man, he also didn't have to save him from death.
Would you let your brother die if you were in OP's situation?
Hell yeah
Yes, most likely
Welp, my parents always told me and my siblings to be nice to each other cuz we might need an organ from each other someday
I like how most people answered without knowing what situation op's even in (including me)
Probably
Pro revenge: "So that sucks for them."
Nuclear Revenge: "Here's a list of places where the people who wronged me are buried."
Supernova Revenge: "You killed one guy to get your way? I murdered an entire family because they hurt someone I loved."
Petty Revenge: Wait, you guys get personal?
"owed them for his existence" that's implying he asked to exist. His parents made him exist and then made his existence worse. If anything they owe him.
Children owe their parents exactly nothing
Parents owe their kids everything, love and safety
Some parents don't deserve to have kids. And the ones who do can't seem to have them. Not always but that's how it is sometimes
Thank you!
@@WolfgangDoW a parent deserves what they give to their child.
Good parents deserve good treatment, but bad parents deserve consequences
@@Twinklethefox9022 the ones that do can adopt to be fair
Let's be real, even if the OP from the brother story HAD agreed to get tested, odds are they wouldn't have been a match and then the whole family would have still found a way to blame them for the death of their brother. That's how these families work.
Remember: God can see through the mask of religion and knows how wretched people really are underneath. No amount of religion can save that family from judgment.
Are we talking about the twins? Identical twins are always matches.
I definitely agree with you on the second half, but how can identical twins not be a match?
They could be fraternal twins - in which case they may not be a match
@@ArcanineEspeon
Gonna be honest, I forgot they were twins when I wrote that, but give the karma dripping in this story, I wouldn't be surprised if OP wasn't a match
I'm more shocked about Sebastian demanding his twin's kidney than about his twin watching him die.
I feel like in his head he thought "Well, everything always just goes my way, so if I ham it up and act sorry, he'll give in to what I say. If not, mom and dad will make him anyways, because that's what my life up until this point has always been"
I was surprised too, seriously. You call on the twin you treat like shit to save you from the burning pit? Nah, Sebastian. Lie on your bed of coals.
I have a brother who intimidates and bullies the women in his life (his mother, mother of his child AND his own baby sister). He smokes cigarettes (I know its not illegal, but I'm the only one in my family to have never once picked up any sort of drug other than alcohol) and STOLE YU-GI-OH CARDS FROM WAL-MART (I had been an accomplice one day by accident).
If he needed any sort of organs and I was the only match, bet your bottom dollar that I would NEVER give up my organs. Just because of him tormenting me for YEARS and what he's done to the women in his life.
P.S. My brother in this comment was my dad's "Golden Child." I just happened to be my MOM's "Golden Child" (by accident) because I don't treat her like that and I respect her. Plus, she took me away from my brothers and father when my parents had been fighting.
Like anyone with a soul would have at least apologized and went over everything they did wrong. "Things we did to each other" LMAO.
He Killed HIMSELF and wanted his brother to bail him out. I really hope it hurt for the brother.
I’m a twin. My brother was a jerk to me as a kid etc.
but, we grew up and forgiveness is wonderful. now we are good friends and true twins.
I would give him my own heart if he needed it and he would do the same for me.
*rSlash:* _Reads intense story about OP's evil twin brother reaching out to OP to donate his kidney_
*Me:* "... I -ZAY-ic?"
That pronunciation tho
I had to pause the story for a moment and look up what I was hearing 😂
Yeah, I was like wtf pronunciation is that?
And he said it. EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.
@@TheFiretiger27 Hey, at least our guy rSlash is consistent!
Ah, yes. The good old "We don't treat you as family, but still expect you to treat us like family". Always works, right?
I wonder what's their actual thought process. Do they actually believe the disown child would do anything for family after basically treating him like garbage?
In the words of Batman: “ you didn’t kill him, you just didn’t save him “ which in my mind-is completely justified
"I won't kill you, but I don't have to save you"
@@GiordanDiodato a man of cultures well I see
Agreed
Can't remember who first said this but it kind of fits here. "I've never killed anyone - but I've read a lot of obituaries with a great deal of pleasure".
@@Kryten428 it was credited to mark Twain but the person who really said it was american lawyer Clarence Darrow
So he dropped friends for associating with “a known thief” but for 16+ years associating with a known adulterous drug dealer was fine…. Lol
"horse of a feather".
no one going to talk about how his wife may have molested the niece???
@@ABoredGod we can but it doesn’t make the husbands actions less crappy. But it does illustrate my point that op only cares about associating wishful bad people if he’s the one slighted.
@@umbrasunbro2142 op is just like him that is why there friends
@@ABoredGod I whole heartily agree with that
Props to Issacs parents being there for the second OPs story. That's friendship there if i ever saw it, and congrats on the marriage too
Every parent who is Christian that sets a child up as the Golden child should remember the story of Joseph.
And considering that one of that the first murder happened because of two brothers
That had a happy ending though
@@KouenTenshi I know, I’m talking the first part specifically
Christians also believe that God killed a guy for pulling out of his dead brothers wife because sexual gratification without producing children is just that sickening to a being that created an entire universe. Let alone how much he hates guy on guy stuff. So those same christians could use the bible to completely justify OP's treatment. Ain't religion wacky?
Lets be honest most Christians understand as much of the bible as someone born on Mars.
Story 1: He only wanted op when he thought that he could keep her subdued and submissive. Once she started getting an education, he knew it wasn’t going to last.
@@lovesage866 op is a women. She once refers herself as his ex husbands wife. I think you mixed it up the story with the bisexual op
@@njcheddar yeah ur right mb
Yes, he knew that she was too smart to keep falling for his BS.
@@njcheddar No, it was a typo I'm sure
@@lovesage866 ch lmk
I love the kidney one. Sebastian made OP's life a living hell, his parents stood by and did nothing while OP was abused, even praising Sebastian for it all. They even went after OP's husband and in-laws, claiming some pretty nasty shit. All over such a long time. And then when death is ready to take Sebastian, they try to guilt trip him into giving him a kidney, using shit like they owed him for his existence and he has a duty to family. I *LOVE* how OP turns their own words back on them, asking where their duty was when they kicked him out and always took Sebastian's side over his and made him feel like shit. Truthfully, I'd have done the same thing. I'd have looked Sebastian dead in the eyes and said "I may be a match, but I'm not going to do anything for you. After all you did for me...why should I help you?" and then look at the parents and asked "Also what have you done for me? You kicked me out of the house just for being gay, you sided with him constantly and made my life hell. And you have the audacity to think I owe you anything for just existing. I never asked to be born with you scumbags as my parents. I may be your flesh and blood....but you are not my parents, and this waste of organs laying there is not my brother. You're all dead to me!" and walked out, flipping them off on the way home.
OP, you did NOTHING wrong there. This was overdue revenge and you should feel good about it
Karma came back to hit him like a runaway freight train.
Honestly, if the Story is even Remotely True (so many "victims" nowadays, it almost feels like it's Trendy...kinda like being Trans/Pro-Trans (I don't really care either way...I'm not "Pro-Trans" or "Anti-Trans", I like the "Live and let Live" Doctrine, so as long as I'm not asked to do things or forced to pander to anyone of a Specific "Category" (Gender/Race/Sex, etc...) or "Community" I couldn't care less!).
But there's not 1 Day (probably not even 1 Hour) where we don't here about Racism this, Sexism That and that everyone is either Transphobic or are Completely in Love with Trans People...Both Extremes...Which only lead to Division because people believe the News and Only Hear about the Bad Things and None of the Good Things....
***And if the story is true and that's how Sebastian was actually Raised, then No Wonder he acted like that! He was Praised for it All the time since a Young Age!
His Parents are the Real Cause of His Suffering since they made the Twin basically become a Monster through "Teaching"...It's not himself that chose this, he was just never told that any of those things are Ok (though to be honest, everyone of my Friends who had Older Brothers were Fighting and getting Roughed Up, so I have a Hard Time understanding why you had Hatred towards your BROTHER...As in, I don't understand why you would blame the Brother when it's the Parents that are really at fault and they are also most likely the reason you hated your brother so much, because you were Jealous of all the attention and Love (though it doesn't sound like it's the case for Love...but maybe OP thought they did...but they were probably Narcissists or at the very least "Cluster B Personality Disorders" which creates immense problems for interpersonal (Family) communication and trauma/abuse is not at all uncommon...).
I'm well aware people are gonna hate on this comment because I said what everyone is thinking out loud...
Think of it the same way you think about the Jehovah's Witnesses & Mormons Door-to-Door Harassment...I have Zero issues with their Religion...getting woken up at 9am on the Weekend by them is Completely Different...
I also don't care what Orientation people are, but if they are annoying me when I've clearly said No, that could turn bad if they keep at it...
I really don't like Discrimination, but I hate those who will let someone Walk All Over them because that person is a Different Race/Sex/Gender than you and you "aren't supposed to react" or "can't get mad" or whatever that person thinks would be inappropriate...(It's not Hard...Put the same situation as if the person was a Clone of yourself! If you'd Punch Your Clone, then it's your Natural reaction, not being Racist/Sexist/Anti-LGBTQ, etc...)
I'm Out!
@@ohmmygod4963"not being racist/sexist/etc"
*Proceeds to make a rant nobody asked for where you're all those things*
@@ohmmygod4963 Nobody thinks this, not even you, your head is empty.
Especially knowing Sebastian would just ruin that new kidney in a month. Severe Addicts never change
The brother's lifestyle probably voided his ability to get a kidney donor from a donor bank so in TWO ways his lifestyle killed him.
Exactly..... and it isn't like the donor bank would deny him just cuz of his past...he has to have messed up and broken the 'no more drugs/alcohol' rule AFTER being told he made it onto the donor list. So no sympathy at all for that guy. He didn't think the rules applied to him, we guess what....some do.
He could have lived but would be on dialysis the rest of his life. As someone living with kidney failure I would know
Yeah, he probably Would've just trashed OP's kidney anyway if he did give it.
I never knew anyone who got into this situation, so I wasn't aware that there are conditions in which they could provide a donor. It sounds totally right and totally justified, though.
@@mikeyunovapix7181 And then he and the parents would probably demand the OP's other kidney...
the last story OP is just as bad as his 'friend'. He didn't exposed him until he was betrayed. I mean, they've known each other for quite a while now and didn't even say anything to those people, until that moment. It's sad that he's still friends with the wife when he just exposed his 'friend' for revenge not because he really cared for those people. They are both disgusting people.
If I was op in the last story, the moment this “friend” told me they were cheating/doing drugs/ stealing/whatever, I’d expose them. No way would I ever let anyone get away with doing stuff like that to there spouse.
@@jadecs right? like the cheating itself and all those horrible things the 'friend' said to his wife especially with the pregnancy, that's so bad.
@@jadecs I might not expose him, but I sure as hell wouldn’t stay friends with him. OP was fine with him being a POS until he was a POS to *him.*
I agree with you. Op is just as bad as him but some guys tend to take the Bro code a little to far. I know many guys from my friend circle who are friends with scum bags like this. Cheating, drug use and such. But they dont out them out to their girlfriends because of this toxic friendship bro code thing they have. Im not saying all guys are like this. Im saying i know a few who are exactly like OP.
Okay but is anyone else bothered by the fact that he says that the ex friend said that the wife was abusing her niece, glossed over that, then said the same about the mother of the niece and made a point to say (but that's not true). Like????? DOES THAT MEAN IT IS TRUE ABOUT THE WIFE????
Kudos to Isaac's family for being wonderful people and taking OP in. It's refreshing to hear about good people.
To summarize the Evil Twin was like: *"MOOOOOOOOOM! Steven won't donate me his kidney!"*
Pretty much
"Steven donate your brother your kidney RIGHT NOW or you'll be grounded mister"
@@cryoelves "You disowned me for being a member of the Rainbow Flag Community!"
@@cryoelves "Yeah, and throw in a lung for good measure, bro!"
Oooooooooo!!! That’s it! You are grounded grounded grounded for life! Go to your room now!
Op really had the audacity to cut out his “friends” because of the whole “birds of a feather” thing when he was literally friends with a horrible person for 16 years and said nothing about it.
Not until his weed was stolen.
OP is as guilty as all of the mutual friends. Don’t let them off easily.
Yup wanted to comment this. honestly I don't have a lot of faith in his character either like he was fine with his actions while it wasn't effecting him. Sounds more like he just took it personally that they dare stay friends with someone who stole from him.
Exactly, he didn’t care and was willing to keep his mouth shut until he was $60 out of pocket. Apart from that, he was fine with everything and only brought it all to light out of spite. Honestly, I hope people around OP asked these questions and realised how selfish and petty there were for sitting on this for so long and only saying something when their weed went missing. Frankly, they both sound like people I’d want to steer clear of
@@vexxama Thats the entire foundation of corruption. Nobody does anything until it touches them.
My brothers were the exact same way. My brother died In May if this year. People looked at me like I was a fucking monster because I showed no emotion that he was gone. If he wanted to be a brother I could shed a tear for, he should have started about 38 years ago. My mother also passed a month before him and had the same emotional lacking. I gave up on any of them years ago. I have the only people in my life that matter to me. My understanding, lovely wife and my 3 awesome children. I turned out fine without them and often wonder if we would have been close, would my life have been so different that I wouldn’t have what I do now? Probably not. I would probably be laying fave down in a gutter somewhere dead. Don’t relish on the past. You can’t change it, so just keep moving forward. They abused you, mentally and physically. Those memories are better left in the past. Congrats on your choice and just remember this. People that have never been in the same situation can never understand what it’s like. I looked at my brother and mother like they were just strangers walking down the street. I always said that I could care less if they died tomorrow, and I was wrong. I totally cared a lot less than what I thought.
LOLXD. Totes agree.
My brother's dad (my step father) was abusive to us, our mom, and an alcoholic. Ended up voiding his subscription to life, and my brother was so happy that he was on cloud 9 for days.
Me personally? Was like "Meh, good for him for learning how to swing from a rafters. But - 20 points for forgetting that it wasn't Halloween. So he was making himself a prop out of season."
Our mom?
Tried to kill me, for asking to call us by our preferred name. Was assaulted by her, called a "lazy, ungrateful, crazy motherfucker", and when we tried to leave the car. Stepped on the pedal, and if we would've been even a second slower, we could've died as our feet hit the pavement (this happened a year ago).
Ever since then. She's been ignoring that she did that. And trying to be a part of our lives, even though we've told her to fuck off and never talk to us again. (And this is just one instance in a long line, of evil BS she's done to us over the years.)
And when she dies. We'll be relieved, but also probably past the point of giving a fuck.
To top it all of on the bully brother, the fact that once he realized that the brother wont donate his kidney to him, he knew he was going to die. He had no more time left and most likely was in despair. So even before dying,he suffered. This could be the ultimate revenge to someone on their death bed. To know that theres a way he can be saved but it wont happen.
I just hope the brother didn't go to hell. But honestly, if I was the op, I would've just old yellered the brother?
@@thedesensitizedsympathizer5307 p9p
@@rewatteefroimchuk8589 huh?
@@thedesensitizedsympathizer5307 accidental message.
That’s one thing I don’t get. With a failing kidney there are multiple ways to live without needing a transplant right away. I was on dialysis for over 3 years waiting for a kidney match. I’m assuming the op is in the states which has a much faster turn around for organ transplants than Canada.
That last guy held onto all that info for how many years and never told the wife? Seems a little messed up to only tell her for revenge
A *lot* messed up! OP is just as much of a POS as the ex-friend.
Ya. It really lets us know a lot about his character. “Birds of a feather” and all that.
Keep in mind. What lost the thief 90% of the mutual friends between him and the OP was the thief stealing from the OP…not all the other horrific things that he did. So theoretically, if they knew all the stuff the OP did, then it’s also on all those mutual friends to tell the thief’s wife as well. Why couldn’t any of them have spilled the beans instead of OP? Why couldn’t all of them had an intervention with her? And if your argument is that “they didn’t know,” then why didn’t OP share this with them? Sure, they would call out OP for not sharing it sooner, but don’t they have a right to know what kind of “friend” they supposedly had? I’d never want a friend like that personally.
OP is trash like his ex friend
I get that stealing drugs is wrong and all but only sharing information that someone needs to know just because they stole some weed?
Imagine someone, on their death bed of all things, not even making things right by admitting to the hell they put their own sibling through for almost two decades, and "apologizing" without actually saying sorry, and all while gaslighting the sibling who literally did nothing wrong!
If Hell does exist, I'm pretty sure his bed of spikes was being made while the final conversation between Good twin and Evil twin was going down.
On a side-note, I'm much happier for Ryan the good twin with everything and everyone he loves, needs, and deserves around him.
The bad twin is definitely going to burn and his parents most certainly will as well. It's only a matter of time before they suffer and kick the bucket.
Damn that 2nd story was brutal. OP’s family is very toxic except his one cousin and older sister because they choose favorites and etc. His twin brother is just a huge piece of sh** for doing that to OP.
His twin brother was* piece of sh*t
@@shivangiparekh4980 or "dead piece of sh*t"
@@MrJerichoPumpkin that's better
But death isnt an approbation punishment though. A human only has ONE life, once you're dead, that's it. There's no more redemption.
@@thedesensitizedsympathizer5307 true
The evil twin story made me so mad, especially at the part where he told the girl to get an abortion and got OP kicked out, and the fact that the parents just continued to favor him more...what goes on through those types of people's minds when they do shit like that. How are you gonna have children and just mistreat one of them just because you have a "favorite"
Imo parents shouldn't have favorite children, that usually leads to bad situations down the line
At least the Evil twin F***ing died karma
Honestly, as someone who taught languages to myself for fun, seeing as OP taught himself ASL because he was bored, I bet he was the nerdy shy sensitive kid, and his twin was probably the more roughousing kid. I bet the parents probably wanted a star athlete to come out of the family to live their narcissistic fantasies thru, and OP wasn't that, so they preferred his brother.
Then when OP started dating his now-husband, I think that's when everything came together against him. Homosexuality is seen as weak and shameful in these hyper-christian/traditional families.
search u/holden_position to see why you don't have favourite kids
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"Brother, help me." "What are you talking about, I don't have a brother."
"I never met this man in my life."
"Excuse me who are you?"
We may share blood but your not my brother
I legit read the first part of this in mufasa’s voice lol
I'd start doing my Trump impression: "I don't know him. Never met him. I may have taken a picture with him, but I don't know who he is."
That last OP ... I find myself wondering why he would keep such a bad friend in his social circle. Anyone who would say such horrible things about his life partner is a person I wouldn't let walk my dog, let alone permit them in my home.
This. I would side eye anyone who is friends with this guy, because like minds.
Dude was a POS for 16 years and OP is all surprised and butthurt when it’s his turn? Serves him right for being friends with a POS.
I would warn the partner as soon as they would give me something to use as evidence. These are the kind of friends you don't need.
Because that OP was also a POS.
You can say the same thing about the entire social circle. Not just the OP.
This may be a repeat story, but I absolutely LOOOVE hearing it. Serves Sebastian right. He outed him from the family, so OP has no responsibility to care and he absolutely should not.
For the last one: if OP knew how gross this “friend” was and wanted to out him, he could’ve out him then but played the long game instead.
It was out of pettiness and selfishness that he sold him out. Judge a man by the company he keeps
He acts like a friend to the wife but happily kept quiet about Joel’s affairs and his disgusting statements of her for years. Only reason he spilled was because Joel wronged him, if he hadn’t OP would’ve continued to not say anything.
rSlash: Op lets abuser die of organ failure
Also rSlash: The next story is from pancreasss
Lol I was laughing at that part
"You're going to hell for letting him die!"
"Great, then when I get there, I'll tell my brother you said hi"
Brother: *Being horrible to OP and expects him to give him the kidney*
OP: *Doesn't give it to him*
Tombstone: *"Here Lies Sebastian"*
*"Surprised Pikachu Face"*
What DID he expect anyway?
They were both male
Lol
@@Ikajo Edited.
Why does this remind me of a donor baby, idk
@@Ikajo What does that have to do with it?
On the middle story: If you spend your life Burning Bridges you're going to find your-self on an Island.
Wise Words
@@SaikiKFann Very wise. Love the flags BTW!
@@novamarpo3 thanks :)
Well said.
In his case a very small and sinking island! : /
Sebastian: dies
Any sane person: Good, that's one less loose end.
That kidney story is a perfect example of newton's 3rd law
Every action has a equal and opposite reaction
Hi Karma how is it hanging?
Lmao yes.
Not quite how it's intended, but sure.
I was gonna say "what goes around comes around"
But I think something like this probably fits better "If you push someone too far, don't expect them to come back"
@@pascaleelliott63 accurate. Kinda wonder if he is hanging themselves in hell?
I feel bad for the dad too. But, parents are like that tolerating their children’s stupidity, just based off that fact the dad is a legend.
I wouldn't feel bad for the dad, personally, because there's a reason the kids turned out the way they did, and we don't know enough about him. He could have been just as shitty as his kids.
@@AzureKyle Uhm friends, addicitons and media can add a lot to it too
@@AzureKyle But yeah youre right. i have a neighbor whose kids i went to school in 1st to 4th grade with, and the kid was an absolute Pos. even now, im almost in 8th grade, in the winter the kid throws snowballs at other peoples windows (at like 9 pm) and the parents do it too. Let me repeat: Two 40something year old adults with a kid are harrasing a 13year old
@@fownwaofhwwp756 Well yes, but some of it can also be learned. I'm just saying that we don't know the full story about the father or their family life, so I don't really feel bad for him.
@@AzureKyle 100% agree. The fact that BOTH his children ended up being abusive and neglectful shows that he is likely the exact same. No sympathy.
Story 2 was absolutely cathartic. Hell, I’m sure OP would watch his brother die if he bled out, and I would also.
I was physically repulsed hearing what the brother did to OP. I’m glad he lived the last moments of his life in absolute terror of death. Vile and repulsive people like that, don’t deserve a shred of sympathy. They deserve to be in a hole in the ground.
Even a hole in the ground is too much for them, holes in ground take up space, his body should just be thrown into a landfill, at least the rats and cockroaches there can get some use out of him.
🎵 He had it comin', he had it comin'
He only had himself to blame
If you'd have been there, if you'd have seen it
I betcha you would have done the same 🎶
Some guys just can't hold their arsenic 🤷🏿♀
@@DopeioThePhoneBoi He ran into my knife. He ran into my knife 10 times
@@justchilling1506 Not! Guilty!
he saw himself as alive, and i saw him dead
@@Eros_is_calling When I was washing the blood off my hands… that I even knew they were dead
The perfect comeback line to the Kidney story "Ahh yes, because supporting someone's drug addiction is more important than caring for your own family."
The last story.....as someone who's watched a marriage fall apart due to this same thing, I don't feel for OP keeping all that info until his piece of shit "friend" stole from him. He should've told Joel's wife THE MOMENT he knew anything.
OP most likely didn't care or even supported it. You think someone who detested cheating would be friends with a cheater for 16 years? Nope. OP is just like Joel.
And now he’s acting like he’s a friend to her when he spent years hiding her ex husband’s multiple affairs and disgusting comments of her. And the audacity to cut off friends for being “birds of a feather” and acting holier-than-thou when he remained friends with this scumbag for years and kept his horrid secrets.
It should be apparent that the reason that the parent praised their evil son was because they're also terrible people. I believe that terrible people have a tendency to praise other terrible people. I'm sure OP's parents will see their "golden child" again in Hell, because that's exactly where they belong!!
Everybody makes heroes of their reflections.
There isn’t a story that is a juicy or as fulfilling of an ending as that middle one. God damn that’s too perfect it almost makes me cry out of excitement for how it ended. I want to stand and clap with an audience even
Just because they're dying/died.... doesn't suddenly make them a good person.
Still sad though. Not that he died but that even at the very end he never attempted to show any type of remorse for his actions or having the clarity to show any human kindness for the little time he has on this earth. Am sad for the wasted potential of redemption he wasted to come to peace with his other half.
You can also be a shit person for not helping when you can. It’s mot a mutually exclusive situation
@@Nave6W would call it his duty to get his 7 good laughs to watch him die....
But it also doesn’t mean u should let them die... even if my siblings bullied me I’d still give them my kidney if they needed it
True
Last story: Like everyone else is saying, OP was also bad for withholding that deal breaker information. Though no body is talking about the accusation about m*lestation, that OP didn't deny like the abuse accusation. Man, women, or anyone in between shouldn't be spared an accusation like that. It needs to be investigated to protect the children. If she isn't then nothing will happen, but if she is then a child was spared something very traumatic. I also get that he lied about other things, but I still feel like this should be investigated. Instead OP sent the allegations to the potential abuser, and now if she is doing it she knows people can tell and will cover her tracks more. This can not be ignored, though I feel like OP will ignore that fact brcause they are a peice of sh*t as well.
its also the fact of, if there was a genuine concern about her molesting the niece, then he just sat by and did nothing with that information for maybe 5+ years and that in itself is an awful thing to do. like, who hears about a child possibly being assaulted and is like: "Damn that sucks. anyways I'm gonna go do weed now". Not to mention the shitty-ness of "Joel" having this information as well and not going to the police if there was merit to it
@@Someone-or8tp I didn't even think of Joel! those friends are truly awful, I couldn't even think straight I was so irritated lol
I think no one is talking about the mlestation because I am not completely sure that's true. I find it unlikely because the friend was a liar.
I don't disagree, but gonna say one thing
"If she isn't then nothing will happen"
This is entirely false. Wrong accusations can absolutely ruin lives because even if she is proven by law to be innocent, the accusation and the fact she was blamed for it will be remembered by those who heard of it.
instead of being known as 'the person who molested a child', the person will be remembered as 'the person who is suspected for molesting a child'.
I don’t think the molestation is true, he was just saying horrible stuff for the sake of it. Like the part where Joel said his ex wife’s sister abuses her kids and OP says it’s a lie. But then again OP has clearly been shown to have skewed morals so who really knows.
"The dude can't even die in peace" shit I felt that imagine being 80 years and having leech children
Just based off the title this will be good.
yup
Ye
Dude the second story should be a novel it’s actually although terrible but, great and well written.
Tf? You want someone to tune their horrible life experiences into a novel?
@@locusxe1411 In text it sounds so bad, I meant it could be as a joke.
@@locusxe1411 Why not? People do it all the time in memoires.
@@Meg_88 not all. That just seems kind of messed up to me
@@locusxe1411 I mean they basically just wrote half the novel on Reddit and published it for the world to see for free, only difference is they’re not getting paid for this one lmao
The guy with the awful brother should have donated his kidney to a stranger as an f you for all the things he put him through
if their kidneys somehow match
As someone who had an abusive brother, I feel for OP. I cut all contact from my brother a couple years ago (and mother, who enabled him and was abusive herself) because talking to him was too painful for me, keeping in contact with my biological family constantly triggered my cPTSD & PTSD. So I cut contact, and my life became much more stable!
He had a kid this year and he reached out via my adoptive sister, so I congratulated him on fatherhood. It took all of 2 fucking days for him to return to his usual behaviour, which was telling me how to behave, gaslighting, bullying, laughing at my for fighting against homophobia and claiming that I’m a “bully” for standing against homophobia (I’m literally bisexual), and then tried to weaponise my disabilities against me, which he constantly did when I did have contact with him. He was the golden child so he got away with treating me like that when growing up. As an adult I wasn’t gunna accept any of that and told him. According to him, an uneducated man with no medical knowledge, I’ve “never to his knowledge” been diagnosed with cPTSD and PTSD... I got diagnosed in 2016, which he was told in 2016... he then changed this to claiming I “flaunt” my disabilities, where in his opinion, talking about invisible disabilities and living with them online to normalise and destigmatise mental health and any invisible disability (because I’m 90% bedridden with nerve damage) is somehow “flaunting” being disabled as opposed to “talking about disabilities that affect my every day life, so of course I’m going to talk about these things you fucking plank”.
So I cut contact. I don’t get nuclear revenge, sadly, but should anything ever happen, there are hospital reports from my teenage years when I lived at home from the times he physically attacked me, where he knocked me out and gave me concussions. So should anything happen there’s literal evidence that’s over a decade old, in my medical records, naming him as the cause to bruising around my neck, head and face, and concussions suffered.
It fucking sucks coming from such cancerous families, but the family we choose ends up being a stronger bond. Just because I’m blood related to my biological brother and biological mother doesn’t make them my family, your family doesn’t sit idly by as you get abused and ignores it, gaslights you, blames you for getting physically attacked by your own brother, mocks you and tries to control you for years as an adult because you dared to leave and escape. So I’m blood related, but they’re not my family. My brother really solidified that this year with how he behaved towards me despite having no contact with me for years, you’d think he’d have learned. But he didn’t.
I really hope you are okay and if you will get revenge make sure to hurt him in the worst ways possible ^^
@@kitdoesstuff_official I’m okay now, thank you! I’m a lot more mentally stable, still struggle with PTSD but I live with it for the most part, trigger dates being the worst. Because I’m from Scotland we have the NHS so I have a wonderful medical team for my cPTSD & PTSD and nerve damage, I’m medicated, have received PTSD specific therapy, and a doctor I’ve been seeing for over a decade now and really knows me. This has all massively helped, and I’m extremely grateful to the NHS because I dunno what I’d do without it!
My adoptive family is my childhood best friends family who unofficially took me in as their 4th child, and to me they’re my family, they’re the people who showered me with love and support, and they’re the people I’d do anything for!
Revenge wise there are possibilities because I’ve fantastic documented messages from my brother being abusive about my disabilities, unsure what I can do with them, but I can play the waiting game before sending them off wherever they need to go? I wouldn’t do it this year because he’d know it was me and would lie... but he is also extremely stupid and arrogant and seems to think he can tell people I’m lying. I made a post to my Facebook this year and had to add an edit of
“For [brother] friends who are stalking me, here are documented posts I’ve made previously with his lengthy abuse against me. He isn’t innocent”
One of his idiot friends reacted to my post where I spoke about the entire 2 days of contact and him trying to weaponise my disabilities. It would appear neither my brother or his friends have a singular fucking brain cell. Like if you’re gunna stalk then don’t get caught!
Same here, I cut contact with my sister 5yrs ago and my mother 7yrs prior.. I actually just started talking to my mother maybe twice a month. I cannot do more than that. It use to hurt but I'm fine with it. My husbands family is amazing to me so I still have support.. Went crying to his mom and she was fantastic so things are working out.. Keep your head up hon, you're so much stronger than you think!! ❤️❤️
@@ZombieSazza oh God..... but don't worry seeing as your a good person I'm sure revenge will come and it will be sweet.... the saying "karma is a bish" will come in your favour.... don't worry.... karma will come
You’re all so sweet, thank you 💖
Issac is pronounced Eye-zack, just for future reference RSlash, love.
I cringed every time he said that.
It's also _usually_ spelled Isaac.
I was looking for this comment to upvote it.
@@GeekIWG I know of someone who spells it like that. But yeah, it's pronounced like Isaac.
The way he said it sounded like it was spelled “Isiah-k”
Similar to the twins I have a spiteful relationship with my dad. I straight up told him "you better pray that you don't need an organ from me, cuz I'll leave you to die"
Rule one of Nuclear revenge: You must always have at least one story with a death in it.
Well, killing the life of someone
"spiritually" counts too. Im sure the scumbags of the 1° and 3° story are regretting being alive due to that revenge, they were left alone with the most low-quality of life and equally horrible friends/family arround.
The way you pronounce “Issac” is driving me nuts lol.
I’m pretty sure it’s pronounced “eyes-ic”
He says it right at 9:50
Isn't it more like Eye-sack?
@@ineedeat880 my son’s name is Isaac and we pronounce it eye-sic
Depends on were you are in the world, but it's a Hebrew word, and pronounced "ai·zuhk" phonetically, with a slight H-sound, not 'ic' or 'ack', more of a "huk" Z-huk, eye-Zuhuk, like the first part of Mark zuckerberg's name.
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If any of my abusers asked for a kidney, I'd not only deny them, I'd laugh in their face.
The self control of this man not to enact harm on others is spotless.
You are an inspiration dude, you be proud of yourself for holding on to your autonomy.
What a pathetic family, how *dare* they.
Keep vibing, and I can't wait for you to have a healthy and beautiful family.
Revenge 1: OP managed to help the girlfriend dodge a missile. That much insecurity is dangerous to everyone else.
Oh, and last bit is satisfying, minus the old man having to deal with those two leeches for the rest of his life.
Revenge 2: You know what they say, "What goes around, comes around" If Sebastian wanted his life saved, he shouldn’t have done all that harm to OP and Sister. The parents were also punished since they clearly were playing favorites and shoving OP away. Oh, and it appears that all of the relatives involved minus Sister appear to be toxic. F them!
Revenge 3: If he didn’t want his wife to know how much of a terrible person he was, he shouldn’t have stolen OP's medical marijuana and deny it.
To the second story…it is possible that one of them could have been a match but been too entitled to donate. The first person told that they’re a match is the donor in private and they get to choose whether they want that info known or not…if not then they can just say “sorry…not a match” so we don’t even know if any of them were telling the truth.
Why would the parents do this if it means their “favorite” son would die? Again…entitled. Also as a way to force the OP into this situation, where they know he’d be a guaranteed match, because twins.
If you're wondering how he got kidney failure, its because he used alot of drugs and alcohol, I read the story were op said that his kidney failed beacuse of drugs and alcohol.
Why bother giving him another kidney to just destroy it again?
@@starwolfwing7228 In a lot of cases people like that wouldn’t qualify for the national registry for that exact reason.
Even if the brother were nice, that still wouldn't mean OP owed him a kidney. OP would have probably at least considered it, but dialysis would have still been a thing if he chose not to. Hell, a nice brother probably would have accepted it if he turned him down. "I'm sorry, I don't think I can go through with it." "I understand... You got an awesome husband and it'd suck if you had to leave him behind." "Is there something else I can do?" "We could probably just spend some time together while we can. I'll hang in there." "No problem." That probably would have been how it went down if the brother actually cared. But then again, if he didn't prioritize his own comfort by abusing drugs, he wouldn't even be in that situation.
2: OP has not even an ounce of sympathy. This is what happens when you bully someone.
He was second guessing his decision after he died. Thats tons more sympathy than i would have in his situation. I hope he didn't cancel any plans to visit his brother, i wouldn't even suspend doing my taxes. And the plane tickets shoulded been on his parents.
No one "owes" their family just for being born. Being outcast by his family and then being expected to save the life of his tormentor is the biggest sense of arrogant entitlement that anyone could ever encounter. O.P. has no reason to feel guilty, his brother brought his death upon himself and his parents enabled it.
Honestly, I don't think I would've even bothered going to the hospital to see him in the first place. None of them cared about me, so why should I care about them?
Blood ties are nothing. The ones who love you and support you - those are your true family.
Oh, and the new kidney would've been wasted on him anyway. He managed to destroy BOTH of his with his habits, after all.
Exactly, I'd have asked why he wanted to see me, would have saved me a trip to the hospital.
I would have gone to the hospital just to do as OP did. Imagine being abused and suffering at the hands of that individual and then being able to get that level of justice when their life is literally in your hands and you can look them in the eye, and say no.
I’m glad OP is finally safe from Sebastian. I hope he went no contact with his parents. They enabled him.
Gotta agree with your final comment on the thief in the last story. If someone is telling you all that shit, fully incriminating themselves about how awful a person they are, it's dumb to act shocked when one day their shit inevitably ends up splashing all over you too.
I’ve never heard anyone pronounce “Issac” this way lol
I was looking for this comment 🤣🤣
Same lmao
Frrrrr
I’ve always seen the name as Isaac
I read it as it says. My sister's bf's name is said the way rslash said it, but spelled Isaiah.
Ops Family: *Kicks Op out of the house*
Op: *Didnt donate his kidney*
Ops Family: *Surprise Pikachu Face*
OP: reveals on internet he let his brother die
@@bostonrailfan2427 what are u trying to say
bro if I was op I would say OK YOU KICKED ME OUT AND SAID HOMOPHOBIC STUFF AND YOU EXPECT ME TO SAVE HIM? breh
Talk about you can respect your disrespecter
@@coffeebeanz he said op revealed his bros death
This 2nd story wasn't a nuclear revenge people, this was a sci-fi Star Trek version of a major anti-matter bomb kind of revenge set off at point blank range in the twin brother's face! : 0
Also throw in some sort of metaphor about how the brother was the one who caused his own downfall. It's just like how Batman left Ra's Al Ghul to be crushed by his own schemes.
My sister was always my mother's favourite. My mother and her bullied me into depression and litteral psychosis as a teen. I wouldn't save either of them, even with a pig's kidney.
Smells like a good day
all I smell is bacon
@@chriscarpenter3370 and Pickle Ricks
in the abusive brother story, it makes me happy how OP stood up for himself and didn't donate the kidney, his brother abused him and didn't get a punishment so now the brother got a punishment
After they said “your going to hell.”
I’d say, “i know, and he’s waiting for me.”
A more accurate reply would be, "I've been there, and I've done my time. I lived with you and with your son."
@@marleycarter4676 but a better one woulded been "if im so evil why im so happy and while is so dead? God loves me bitches"
" I am Gironi Giovanni and I have a dre- "
Karen - excuse me
Him - golden requiem
Karen - Wha-
*Russian girono theme starts playing*
NTA. What goes around comes around and karma hit him like a bus.
Every child deserves parents but not every parent deserves a child. The only ones I feel bad for is OP and his sister.
I'd say more like a goddamn freight train, it was the perfect example of what goes around comes around.
Just from the title, I could tell this was gonna be a good video
From the title, it just seems a little TOO sadistic🤷😂
If I had a brother Like OP in that story, I'd Turn off the the machines to speed him along on the river Stix!
Fuck that. Send him along the river Phlegethon (the one with searing liquid) and don't turn off the machines; let him live the rest of his life and pain and hope he suffers even more in death.
God damn, story 2 is officially my new fantasy. That amount of power over someone who deserves punishment is just exquisite
The 80-some old father will rest in peace knowing he's leaving the awful situation he's in.
Story?
Ironically the second he read 'I got a call from an unknown number' a phone company ad popped up
"Where OP lets his abuser die of ORGAN FAILURE! Our first post is from PANCREAS" LMAO
If you ruin someone's life why would you expect them to save yours???
It's rare when nuclear revenge is posted, but it's aways a blast
Ahhh.... I see what you did there... :)
HAH
An atomic one at that
Outing infidelity only when it's convenient for you shows your character too. Glad OP got their revenge but I hope their karma catches up too.
In the second story he literally had a "damn Daniel" when his now partner caught his eye
Second Story: The Parents really suck the brother suck and now Op watch his brother slowly going down to hell.
Ops brother really doesn’t know how to look what it’s action effected Op.
Sorry is not enough.
Especially when that sorry clearly wouldn't be sincere
I think Sebastian deserves a Darwin Award. His death was a result of his own stupidity.
I could have sworn that I've seen the story about the scumbag brother before but hearing it now is just BLISS!
Does anyone know how OP is doing?
I often feel uncomfortable with Nuclear Revenge because it’s over a line that I personally refuse to cross. I’m not opposed to others crossing it though as long they’re okay with it, btw. But that line gets somewhat… extended when it comes to abuse. I endured emotional abuse for 23 years, so I know what it feels like to to be locked in that space. Let them die.
That last story, it can be easy to overlook someone's faults until it directly effects you, then you realize just how destructive that person really is.
If I knew a friend of mine was cheating on their SO, we wouldn't be friends. That's just disgusting, and being aware of it and not doing anything makes you an accomplice.
Only thing better than Pro Revenge? Nuclear Revenge.
Only thing better than nuclear revenge? Supernova revenge.
Nuclear and above is WAY too far. I like revenge, but I'm not THAT crazy! The subs above Nuclear are mostly dead though. Blackhole is basically dead, Supernova is rare Nuclear reposts, and Bigbang is just unfiltered craziness.
And to go... even beyond... black hole revenge
@@S_047 Supernova revenge destroyed a whole town. What now, you want to destroy the Earth?
@@ARandomSpace last black hole revenge I watched was cold blooded setting somebody up to be murdered
6:25 is one of the greatest revenge stories ever IMO. It’s so crazy yet so simple because all OP did was say no. His brother 100% deserved it.
I have 3 kids and absolutely not do I have a golden child. I of course treat them a little different because my oldest is a son and two daughters. I make sure they know I'm proud of all of them and I say it to them in front of each other so they know I love them equally.. My youngest is gay, don't care, she's my daughter. She's the same daughter she was 30 secs before she came out to us and I just don't understand how parents can kick out their kids over that!!
The twins, he's only sorry because he is sick. Parents need to understand, our kids don't OWE us anything. They didn't ask to be here, WE made that decision.. I hate when parents do this and make their kids feel like they are supposed to do everything.. Irritates me..
No parent should treat every child exactly the same. Children are not clones of one another. Each should be dealt with as an individual with her/his own needs and personality. Good for you.
I had a relative that I DID NOT get along with. Ever. Since we were kids. And we grew up in the same neighborhood. Even on the same block.
At the funereal, when reminded to never speak ill of the dead. I had a moment of silence, looked at everyone and asked if those were scones.
Cold? Yes.
Uncalled for? Well, I didn't say anything bad about him.
Apparently wrongly attributed to Bette Davis on Joan Crawford. "You should never say bad things about the dead, only good… she's dead. Good.”
When OP was told by his brother he was dying he should've played 'Celebration' on his phone and start dancing.
For the thumbnail story : I completely understand why OP made the choice he made... I would make the same one then go NC with anyone who harps on me about it / says that I’m a bad person for that choice
Heavy tonic holding life in death in ones hands ... " sparrow"
I'm glad in the 1st story the sis was not a kidney match, otherwise I can easily imagine her being pressured to donate the kidney since she is still very much maintaining a civil contact with the family. It would be harder for her to refuse, since she hadn't just walk away like OP for years. She must've felt she dodged a bullet when they say her kidney is not a match.
If i was OP i would just respond to my family members "lol im already going to hell for being gay arent i might as well rack up charges"
Op did the right thing, his family betrayed him and abandoned him, had plenty of time to make things right and they did nothing, he owed them nothing.
That second story was rough, but I am glad the sister was accepting of it. There was someone else that knew where the cards lay.
In response to Sebastian, I would've gotten tested and hoped I was a match, just to look him in the eyes, tell him I was a match, just to get his hopes up, and then say "But you made my life a living hell, so why the hell do you think I would save yours." and walk away without another word
Oh man I live for these stories
The hospital scene with the Evil Twin reminds me of that scene in Batman Begins wherein Batman and Ra's al Ghul are on the tram, and the tram's brakes have been broken, and Batman states that while he won't kill the man, he also didn't have to save him from death.
Person i hate: is dying
Me: let me do it