I want to be who I was before I met him. The person that didn’t need anything or anyone. The person that didn’t need him. I don’t need his validation. I don’t need his love. I need me! I need to be free! I will attract my one and only true love when he is ready to show up and when I’ve healed. May we all find our purpose. So so much love to all you beautiful souls.
What a horrible feeling thinking about someone we know won't be in our lives. This is hell. I never felt this pain before even tho I was married 17 years. I hope everyone finds peace. Please God help us.
Though I might not feel the samw burden as you did, I can say it's really sickening. I hope you well out there, I've never felt something like this before and it's frustrating 😢
4 months later and I’m back because I opened myself up to him again, and again he showed me the need for myself to see my value once again. Time to let go. I hope we all heal from those we love that hurt us unintentionally while they work on themselves.
Would you say listening to this video called him back to you as a test? Were you able to fully disconnect again? I’m curious as I have a similar experience.
@@DivineFeminine1979 I can relate!! What a mind fck! He’s all talk and no deliverance! All passion and that’s it!! No commitment or consistency! Sad to waste so much time on a person I had such a deep soul tie with!
Thank-you. I so needed this right now. When your spouse of 18 yrs is unfaithful and you're totally blindsided by it is overwhelming. I'm sitting at home with our child while hes out with her. I deserve better!
I totally understand how you feel right now. I'm holding it down 100% for our kid while he's out playing this amazing great guy/father for some skank. I hate him and love him but I'm learning to love myself more. Still hurts like hell we had 15 year's together with the last 5 really rocky. He's a constant liar and cheater. We deserve better Momma and we will do and get better on our own for ourselves and our babies. I wish you all the luck and hope all the good things meant for you find you fast and easily. Sending some good vibes and love and hugs your way. #WeGotThis
@@kelihorton5593 I'm so sorry too and thank you. I thought everything was perfect. Now he's never home and spending all his time with her & her kid. Me and you sound like the same person. Everything you wrote is me as well. #WeWillComeOutOnTop #WeDeserveBetter
We just ended things for good and I feel awful.. worse than I’ve ever felt before. I miss him and I love him, but he took so much of my energy and life force from me. And I want it all back.
I seriously thought she might be a succubus or something like that I have never been so worn down in my life even months after any contact with her I'm still fighting to get out of bed, and I'm still very in love with her but she has made it clear that she has no intention of returning and still I am struggling even though she didn't really show me any love which is why I'm trying to figure out why I'm still stuck not that she was bad to me which is probably what it is because of my lack of self worth all my other relationships ended by them because I don't know why I have always just tried to make things work even when they had stolen from me and violated my trust in every way possible I would still try to figure out what I was doing wrong now that I know how important having love for yourself is I think I understand exactly what I was doing wrong all along, I don't know any other way to convince myself that I am worthy other than trying to reprogram my subconscious I think it will help me and my business as well I'm always doing extra work and charging less than I am worth because I have a lot of difficulty being firm
I release myself from the romantic attachment to this person. I let go and leave this romantic attachment. I return my love and energy and time to me. I wish her well as I accept the reality of this situation. This romantic attachment has been replaced with only platonic energy. I am safe and protected by the universe. My potential is infinite and I am open to the new . I am healing from the past and I cut romantic attachments to this person. I forgive and heal now. I'm love, peace and healing. I upgrade to myself love. I am starting from this moment to love myself more. I move into my personal power . I am whole and unmoved my the actions of this person. I'm no longer moved by their manipulation. I forgive myself for playing the fool. I send her healing vibrations. I am in control of my desires and I honor myself forever more. I cut all romantic cords and let them dissolve. I'm open to new downloads and building a solid relationship with myself. I pour my love into me. Thank you Universe for having me and holding a space for me. Ase'Ase'Ase'❤️
Tonight is night 3 listening to this. Night 1 was not great. Night 2 I was out cold before you reached 1 from your countdown from 10. So excited for tonight. Because today, after night 2, I woke up really feeling different…. Stronger… loving myself. Thank you
You are loved. You are blessed. You are free from all negative emotions. Your karmic accounts are settled and you are free to live your happily ever after. So be it and so it is. May God be with you 🙏
Thank you Nicky. I broke up with my SP 5 weeks ago and I have been listening to this all week and I feel so much better and stronger. I was distraught and crying all the time and couldn’t sleep and thinking about them non stop. I do not cry now. I feel disconnected and I know I made the right decision and I’m more at peace with it now . I’m not 100 percent over it but I am so much better now thanks to this . Thank you thank you thank you !!
I went through a traumatic divorce 14 years ago but for the past 6 months I've had regular dreams of my ex husband and he is always horrible and cold to me in them ... they all have this same theme I've realised and felt that it's unhealed emotions and I need to address it, I'm going to give this a go tonight thank you 😊
You are truly a godsend, Nicky. Thank you for this. It's been a while since I could think straight and not bo obsessed with my past feelings and person. I can finally have my mind back! Thank you.
This is mental. I had to decide to cut an unhealthy mentally hard relationship from someone that I actually loved but knew he would never love me. I hope them the best but I need a break from this . Xx thank you
Thankyou so much Nicky I suffer with insomnia because of adhd ect had this on last night put it on at midnight first time I’ve slept for 7 hours in years your a angel love bless keep up the good work ❤
Thank you Nicky, its been a rocky time here. I had a cat who became ill and I had no choice but to put her to sleep. I'm also dealing with an extremely toxic family member whom I have to deal with. Despite all this I'm continuously working on myself. I suppose sometimes we have to travel through the darkness to better understand and appreciate the light. All the best 💜🙏
@@NickySutton1 hi I been dealing with a heavy vibration presence in my whole part of my body every time going to sleep I been feeling someone or something strong on my body part and it's hurts so bad can anybody tell me what ya think that is but I don't know what is it myself I been trying to look for answer because is like this energetic is hurting my whole body part but while I'm listening to this I feel my body start getting loose thank you for this meditation Nicky,🙏
Thank u kindly for caring to help us. I've escaped from narcissistic personality disorder individual... last night. they're evil. Just sooo much anger, mean, cruelty, sabotage & the lying. I'm so lonely & fear another won't want me being physically limited with severe chronic pain so I keep hoping he change. I'm Done!! Hope is lost. Thank u again. I hope this helps as my living situation is now not where I ever thought I'd be at this age & a whole other set of stresses 😢 I'm very much in limbo as emotional, physical & mental anguish and agony are 1...Not separate 💜🖤💙💔😖😖 *namaste
@@chooseaname1423 ohhh hun, I am soooooo sorry ur having this struggle. If u seen me ud think it was just today it blew up. I'm extremely lonely and not coping with where I am. Firmly jammed between a rock & a crazy place. 😪😖 I hope u have someone to talk with as well that's SUPER patient and loves u unconditionally. I got noone...and the hamster in my head just about has his little legs run off going around & around on that wheel. Are u safe & have support? Noone gets it after awhile, unless been there. I'm told just get over it already, duh!just move on- which I'm trying!?? just stop thinking about him... just just just... I wanna say why don't u JUST live last 5 yrs I have, & have noone now...then tell me what I Just need to do 😖 While they have a home & friends, kids & pets, their health, a life!!!! I admit I'm envious & long for love ... I didn't know I could keep making this many tears. I pray the universe has been kinder to you & dont find urself so desperate ur venting ur worst pains to complete strangers on here as I find myself doing. And I apologize. I'm blowing around & trying to grab onto something to ground me and it makes me vulnerable, again. Plus I'm in my 50's... so it's not like im gonna ever have a 20 yr anniversary with anyone. Breaks what's left of my heart. I'm a bonder...a partner, that's my drive. I want to live & love & be loved and at my age, back home with tyrant elderly mother of 88... it's been fing horrific. Just another person controlling & dictating how I should be, want, like, & deny me that which WOULD help me TREMENDOUSLY, like have a pet, borrow vehicle for social outing, not just appointments at pain clinics i attend weekly. Do u have ur independence Bri Anne; it's a double edged sword. I left my narc and a vehicle make it easy to go back. Equally it also holds me back from moving forward. My questions are rhetorical hun & of course u don't have to divulge any info... I'm "just" being selfish I guess lol! Or so I'd be told by someone I'm sure, wanting desperately to be heard, felt.... helped. Just getting things out can be cathartic if u know that another truly gets what ur going thru. This is getting to be a tomè...lol!! IF so desired, they say misery loves company lol! So I'm here to vent on too. Be strong. Stay authentic. Thank u for saying something... hugs!
We are here because we are doing our best to heal. And that is beautiful. May we stay committed to not ever becoming like who has hurt us. May we deepen love for ourselves, and move forward in a better more whole way. I’m sorry you’re hurting friend. I’m devastated too. But know it won’t always be like this. ❤
I agree we are here because we choose not to become what we have suffered. I would rather never ❤again then to put another person through this I couldn't do this to my worst enemy if I had one let alone someone I claimed to love, when she lost her engagement ring I started thinking about so many things that had been off that I kept telling myself was my traumas and insecurities because I truly trusted her completely, I know it will take someone else a lot more to convince me so completely that I no longer trust my gut, it has never been wrong I have just stopped believing it because I wanted to believe her I didn't want to know the truth I still don't, but that's no longer relevant because she decided she needed to be single after a couple mental breakdowns and hospitalizations and a month with her adult daughter she returned to tell me she needed her own space and after I got her all moved in and everything where she wanted it she informed me she needed no contact for 30 days so she could become independent so of course you agree because all you ever wanted was her happiness and health and after well over 30 days her mail is piling up and some of it is very important you decide to send them an unemotional message about the mail and what you should do about it but never get a response so after another 10 days you call only to discover she has changed her# so that's when you realize that the person you thought you loved is not the person who you are in this experience with because the person who you love only exists in your head and heart you only saw what you wanted and would pretend that anything else wasn't her it was her mental illness and you convinced yourself she was your perfect partner she showed you so many times that she was not the person you wanted her to be but you wouldn't accept that you need to stop making excuses for her behaviors and accept that if she is meant to be with you she will be with you and if she does return you need to be honest and only accept what she shows you not her words anymore anyone can say anything but their actions will show you what they truly intend and if they rarely if ever message or call you 1st you are not their 1st priority and if they go days without responding when they have told you they are just running to the store for something simple they are showing you that they don't care about you at all and if they never apologize for anything and act like it never happened or try to shift the blame to you they don't love you,if they are constantly nit picking and trying to start fights all the time they don't love you and are unhappy and if they start accusing you of something they are probably projecting and if they say things like if you get the opportunity to have a threesome or something that they think you might want, not to feel guilty for doing it just not to tell them that means they are probably doing something they want that they think you wouldn't give them and don't want to tell you even though that is exactly what they are telling you. Sorry about ranting on your comment it started out as one thing and somewhere it turned into this revelation of just how much you have tolerated and excused because you refused to believe her actions and just kept accepting her words even after she accidentally showed you someone else's 🍆and then tried to convince you it was yours b4 she suddenly remembered it was one of her old friends from high schools husband and he has something going on and her friend wanted her opinion and maybe she might know some kinda home remedy or could do some spellwork that would help. How can I still be so stuck on this person if she is even a person who could be so cruel and so convincing that you literally can't trust your own eyes, she has done so much damage I truly don't know if I will ever be able to heal and still I know if she messaged or called and needed me I would run right back in an instant how sick am I, I truly need to love myself like yesterday so that I won't allow myself to continue to be victimized
I just dreamt that I kept (painlessly) birthing different items that were meant to represent the love Source has for me. It was wild. I cried real tears of joy in my sleep.
@@nativechique7589 DAMN U WENT BACK AND WAS DONE AFTER A WEEK LET HIM GO LOL HE YOUR KARMIC RELATIONSHIP LOVE YOURSELF THEN THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE WILL COME
Would you say listening this attracted him back into your life as a lesson? Are you still connected or have you set boundaries? I’m curious as I have a similar experience
@@goldenstandard187 yea was a lesson. We quit talking n a few months later he ended up passing away. Also just becausecwe l9ve ourselves doesnt mean we r meant to be in a love relationship. I dont think that should be the end goal
@@Pulanhealing shoot i think what made me stop talking to him was me not wanting to be hurt more than wanting to be around him if that makes sense. I think at the time this was a good tool to clear myself if i remember correctly. We quit communicating. He def was a lesson He ended up passing away a few months later from a fetynal overdose at a young age. I set boundaries but he was sweet when hevwanted to see me n id go for it knowing full well his charm was not in my best interest.
i love this so much! it's great to hear the continuous encourage if we wake up during the night and hear what is being said. it is so much easier to fall back to sleep while listening. Thank you!
Thank you for the upload Nicky. Just some feedback: your voice is already relaxing. You don’t have to force the breathiness. It turns into a distracting hiss at the end of the sentence. Thank you 🙏🏽💖
We must learn to DIM the mind and brighten our hearts. Emotional Intelligence (EQ) is 10x more powerful than Intellectual Intelligence (IQ). What if we lived in a world were the ‘Smartest’ people in the world were actually the dumbest. We’ve been taught to use our brains more than our hearts and we wonder why there's suffering in the world. This world is reversed. Do the opposite of what ‘they’ tell you to do. The heart is the first organ to grow in the body. Follow your heart and use your intellect as a co-pilot to assist the heart. ~Much Love from a Law of Attraction UA-camr💜
I like your point, but the first to show that you are human is actually the arsehole, and that is a fact. Perhaps releaseing shit is tha one Thing we all can ageree on, also across species
Please… I pray this works.. I take back all my energy. From anyone who’s been near me In the last 6 months. I don’t let ppl touch me rlly, so nothing to worry about there. Only one woman has had hands on meZz and I call that energy back also. May everyone’s energies be cleared and mine returned. I want to feel ok and whole again. And not have all these energy vamps taking up precious space in my mind and energy’s. May my frequency be my own and only used for good, non selfish, non egotistical, non angry. It will all be alright…
❤❤❤❤ Thank you so much ❤❤ I hope from the bottom of my heart that my first toxic love of my past will never come into my life again. I met new man one month ago and I want to give him a chance without comparing him. (:
I think a part of me will always love him but I know it's time to let go, I wish him nothing but the best , maybe in every other life we made it together to my beautiful handsome man who isn't mine anymore I will always pray you get the life we talked about even if it isn't with me anymore.
I'm trying really hard to get to here but I have convinced myself that they are someone that they may or may not be because of their inability to have any stability one day they are this person 5 minutes later she is someone else I don't know how much of it was her mental health issues and how much was masking after almost 9 years I'm struggling to figure out who she was one thing I'm certain of is she is not the person I fell in love with definitely not the person in my head and in my heart and soul because that person could never do the things she had done to me and then made me feel like it was all my fault I truly can't comprehend who or what she is anymore because I'm so trauma bound that I can't tell up from down right from a lie the truth from the left I'm so just utterly devastated and I feel unimaginable grief for the person I fell in love with who just never existed or maybe I was meant to meet but I was wasting my time with someone who I thought wanted what I wanted and felt the way that I felt
I don’t understand how we can listen to a 9 hours guide affirmations without getting my sleep interrupted? I’m just asking for help on how to use this please ? 10-20 min I do but 9 hrs don’t know how. ❤ This is one of my most fav meditation channel of all. Much grateful 😊
I just came across this, as I've Always LOVED your meditations/hypnosis. I use hypnosis, (Trauma Hypnosis), for my healing. It's easy for me, to understand it. Lately, I've been getting a huge trembling sensation, in my Root/down my legs, feeling awful lately-energy wantingto fly out my fingertips and legs through toes. A release, I have a hard time doing, on my own still, dt my toxic environment. I can't do anything, like screaming in a pillow, cry or hit my punching bag, with my stick Lol. It helps me tremendously. @Guided Meditations with Nicky Sutton , does this come with lots of processing/integration, after you wake?, like lots. It sounds foolish to ask, but I'm moving out of State, and I need to feel okay with myself this weekend, not listen to anything that's going to trigger me/my emotions, moreso. Though, I will say, this person, I'd like to detach, emotionally from, lives with me and will, until moved..This would be Wonderful, Profoundly Helpful, if it doesn't have lots of processing, after (next day). Thank you kindly, for this and All of your Beautiful work you've done, for Us All. Blessings & much Gratitude, to you Always🙏❤ ✨
I know I need to release him. I took him back once and I can tell he is doing the same things all over again. He is not good for me. So I hope this works.
I hope this works, its been just 4 weeks now and she's 3 weeks into her new relationship.. she went out of her way today to tell me she's now sleeping with him.. until today I was still praying that there's still hope that she would see sense and let me go home.. I did everything I could to save our family, I endured so much narcissistic abuse.. she blames my ptsd for her moving on so fast, that if I didn't have it we would still be together. She convinced me that my meds weren't working too.. I'm such a fool, I'm still in love with her after all this! Even after being beaten, bottled and hit with pans.
Love yourself first, after u have self love, you will realize you deserve better and see your own worth. Btw she is manipulating you by saying its your fault. Be careful. Take care of yourself my friend, nothing is more important than you. You deserve better people in your life.
I Praise, Bless, Trust, Believe, have Faith, Worship, and Love You beloved FATHER/God, Lord Jesus Christ & Holy Spirit. Thank you for everything you do on my behalf daily known or unknown. My daily blessings, your daily presence in my life, love, mercy, guidance, wisdom, compassion, understanding, safety, and protection in addition to being my PROTECTOR, rock, refuge, fortress, savior, defender, and superhero. Thank you for saving my life and molding me into who I am today for without you I AM NOTHING! I Love You to eternity and beyond! ❤💙💚❤💙💚❤💙💚
I wish I could post a video of using this to put my two year old to sleep apparently he has some issues he's working out. LoL but seriously this one works every time.
I have listened to this 5 nights on the trot but don't feel any more disconnected from 'him' 😥 How does this work when we go deaf when we go into a deep sleep?
❤️ Hi, our subconscious mind still listens even when we're sleeping, we're not deaf, hence you can be awoken by a sound. I suggest taking a break to give your subconscious time to process the messages in the sleep meditation. For some it works very quickly, others it takes longer. But you need to really want to let go of your connection to this person or it's unlikely to help. After listening for a few days take a break and carry on with life. Many report that they start to feel better and the emotional hold the other person has over them starts to lessen, happening much quicker than if only time was the healer. Your subconscious is listening, so give yourself a chance to integrate the messages. Lots of love 💕❤️
It’s been almost 9 months. I hate that he still lives in my head when I’m at my best. I hate it. He doesn’t deserve my tears nor my pain. He left me, he chose to give up on us. I’m glad I haven’t broke. Contact but the fact I dream about him sucks :(
Listening so I can detach from my ex boyfriend. I love him very much, but we can't be together because we are 13 years age difference and he has 2 children. I don't want children or to be a step mom. So I need to release and let him go and move forward with my life.
I hate that feeling but try to remember she doesn’t feel that way back. For her your pain is a burden to her. It’s sad and cruel but unfortunately it’s true. I’m right there with you bub. Stay strong.
Hi Joe, I hope you're very well. Thank you for your comment. I just had a check and they seem to be there x open.spotify.com/artist/68mAViFDgkIoksrdgok9bR/discography/all
Super complicated. I break free...and he comes back only because he starts to get bad karma. Then he goes out & cheats & lies to hurt me emotional. Then verbal & mental manipulation. More lies and cheating. Then I'm left to heal..then he comes back again repeating it He does it intentionally Otherwise his life starts to get towers. Drain dumps karma sickness he's like cancer
I want to completely cut every manifestation I have with the toxic imposter I have been feeding for 8 months she is a trickster a chameleon acting as a soulmate
No one has any right to ask anything of me. At all. If you can't accept me thr way Iam an how I hace become after what I've been through. Then get lost you are not worth it to me you will continually wabt an expect more from me an u aren't getting it any longer
What happens if you fucked up mid was on somon that the verry last ting you want to do is cut cords with cos your mind wondered... And you fro some reason wasnt even thinking about the person you ACTUALLY DID want to cut cords with... With this now have cut cords with the person i wanted to connect with not cut??? Help!!! 😩😩😩😩
My mind wondered on to the wrong person somone i want to vring closser and into my life for some reason not cut out... Ca. This be undone!!! Or have i severed a connection with the most important person in my lif i wa ted to bring closer not push away pleas get back to me asap!!
I don't think that it will affect the relationship, unless you consciously view the person as being a toxic part of your life. It's normal for the mind to wander when we are trying to quiet our mind.
Somewhere I have learned that cutting cords is about cutting toxic and karmic connections that no longer serve us. We can cut cords without cutting connections with people we want in our lives and people who we do not. An Akashic record reader advised me to do cord cutting meditations with my own twin sister in order to clear negative energies from past lives. Love and light to you🙏🏻
I want to be who I was before I met him. The person that didn’t need anything or anyone. The person that didn’t need him. I don’t need his validation. I don’t need his love. I need me! I need to be free! I will attract my one and only true love when he is ready to show up and when I’ve healed. May we all find our purpose. So so much love to all you beautiful souls.
I hope you are doing better now.. I'm going through a tough time with my breakup 😢
@@TheDemoHouse-lm3ww it gets better every day 💝
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 and sending love
I want the same thing!!
I feel your pain
Please I hope this works. He doesn't deserve all this time in my head and heart. 😔
I feel u.
No I. Won't be having blood drained out of me for ur love. This is not how it's going to work
Same here 🥰🥰🙏🏾
Not sure how it's said but try to remember you don't have to cast your pearls to swine. I feel you. I've met quite a few selfish pigs myself.
I’m in the same boat praying this works. My heart is so tired.
What a horrible feeling thinking about someone we know won't be in our lives. This is hell. I never felt this pain before even tho I was married 17 years. I hope everyone finds peace. Please God help us.
Blessings Forward all
I pray for all of us to get healed. And still be able to love in the future ❤️
Letting go does allow you to heal and move forward.
I can empathize with you
Though I might not feel the samw burden as you did, I can say it's really sickening. I hope you well out there, I've never felt something like this before and it's frustrating 😢
4 months later and I’m back because I opened myself up to him again, and again he showed me the need for myself to see my value once again. Time to let go. I hope we all heal from those we love that hurt us unintentionally while they work on themselves.
Same. I wonder why they keep trying to come back if they have no intention for us. It's another lesson learnt. I hope all is well ❤️
Would you say listening to this video called him back to you as a test? Were you able to fully disconnect again? I’m curious as I have a similar experience.
@@Pulanhealing I thought so. But now we do not speak ever.
@@Pulanhealing I honestly do not ever want to reconnect with him again because the interactions leave me desiring that which is just an illusion.
@@DivineFeminine1979 I can relate!! What a mind fck! He’s all talk and no deliverance! All passion and that’s it!! No commitment or consistency! Sad to waste so much time on a person I had such a deep soul tie with!
Thank-you. I so needed this right now. When your spouse of 18 yrs is unfaithful and you're totally blindsided by it is overwhelming. I'm sitting at home with our child while hes out with her. I deserve better!
I totally understand how you feel right now. I'm holding it down 100% for our kid while he's out playing this amazing great guy/father for some skank. I hate him and love him but I'm learning to love myself more. Still hurts like hell we had 15 year's together with the last 5 really rocky. He's a constant liar and cheater. We deserve better Momma and we will do and get better on our own for ourselves and our babies. I wish you all the luck and hope all the good things meant for you find you fast and easily. Sending some good vibes and love and hugs your way. #WeGotThis
@@kelihorton5593 I'm so sorry too and thank you. I thought everything was perfect. Now he's never home and spending all his time with her & her kid. Me and you sound like the same person. Everything you wrote is me as well. #WeWillComeOutOnTop #WeDeserveBetter
you got this!! Men are trash🤦🏾♀️
I feel you. In the blink of an eye he was gone and now playing happy families with someone new. Never thought he’d ever do anything like this.
I'm here l with my son, lying awake while she sleeps like a baby next to God knows who... With zero guilt or shame for all of the pain she's caused.
We just ended things for good and I feel awful.. worse than I’ve ever felt before. I miss him and I love him, but he took so much of my energy and life force from me. And I want it all back.
check out covert narcissists and never look back. The struggle is huge . i am doing the same after 34 years of knowing him.
I seriously thought she might be a succubus or something like that I have never been so worn down in my life even months after any contact with her I'm still fighting to get out of bed, and I'm still very in love with her but she has made it clear that she has no intention of returning and still I am struggling even though she didn't really show me any love which is why I'm trying to figure out why I'm still stuck not that she was bad to me which is probably what it is because of my lack of self worth all my other relationships ended by them because I don't know why I have always just tried to make things work even when they had stolen from me and violated my trust in every way possible I would still try to figure out what I was doing wrong now that I know how important having love for yourself is I think I understand exactly what I was doing wrong all along, I don't know any other way to convince myself that I am worthy other than trying to reprogram my subconscious I think it will help me and my business as well I'm always doing extra work and charging less than I am worth because I have a lot of difficulty being firm
I release myself from the romantic attachment to this person. I let go and leave this romantic attachment. I return my love and energy and time to me. I wish her well as I accept the reality of this situation. This romantic attachment has been replaced with only platonic energy. I am safe and protected by the universe. My potential is infinite and I am open to the new . I am healing from the past and I cut romantic attachments to this person. I forgive and heal now. I'm love, peace and healing. I upgrade to myself love. I am starting from this moment to love myself more. I move into my personal power . I am whole and unmoved my the actions of this person. I'm no longer moved by their manipulation. I forgive myself for playing the fool. I send her healing vibrations. I am in control of my desires and I honor myself forever more. I cut all romantic cords and let them dissolve. I'm open to new downloads and building a solid relationship with myself. I pour my love into me. Thank you Universe for having me and holding a space for me. Ase'Ase'Ase'❤️
I'm going to use this for myself I hope you don't mind it's exactly what I need for myself I'm sorry if it offends and I thank you.
I slept like a baby who's been crying all night 😴 💤 😴 I got 7 hours of sleep.. and that's alot for me❤
Tonight is night 3 listening to this. Night 1 was not great. Night 2 I was out cold before you reached 1 from your countdown from 10. So excited for tonight. Because today, after night 2, I woke up really feeling different…. Stronger… loving myself. Thank you
Popped up outta my sleep at 5:23 when recommend to forgive and wish them well 😂 baby steps. I’ll try again tonight
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Hahahaha me too I was like hells nah
I woke up feeling 10lbs lighter! Thank you for lifting this heavy load ❤️
I woke up this morning feeling so light and my heart more open. I hope this feeling stays! Thank you 😊
This was nice to listen to all night cause I usually wake up during the night thinking about this person but this helped with letting go.
Me too
me too
You are loved. You are blessed. You are free from all negative emotions. Your karmic accounts are settled and you are free to live your happily ever after. So be it and so it is. May God be with you 🙏
Thank you Nicky. I broke up with my SP 5 weeks ago and I have been listening to this all week and I feel so much better and stronger. I was distraught and crying all the time and couldn’t sleep and thinking about them non stop. I do not cry now. I feel disconnected and I know I made the right decision and I’m more at peace with it now . I’m not 100 percent over it but I am so much better now thanks to this . Thank you thank you thank you !!
I went through a traumatic divorce 14 years ago but for the past 6 months I've had regular dreams of my ex husband and he is always horrible and cold to me in them ... they all have this same theme
I've realised and felt that it's unhealed emotions and I need to address it, I'm going to give this a go tonight
thank you 😊
You are truly a godsend, Nicky. Thank you for this.
It's been a while since I could think straight and not bo obsessed with my past feelings and person.
I can finally have my mind back! Thank you.
This is mental. I had to decide to cut an unhealthy mentally hard relationship from someone that I actually loved but knew he would never love me. I hope them the best but I need a break from this . Xx thank you
I know this is crude but men like this…emotionally unavailable have a term…F*CK BOY…run away!!!
That is my exact situation. Did this hypnosis help?
Thankyou so much Nicky I suffer with insomnia because of adhd ect had this on last night put it on at midnight first time I’ve slept for 7 hours in years your a angel love bless keep up the good work ❤
Thank you Nicky, its been a rocky time here. I had a cat who became ill and I had no choice but to put her to sleep. I'm also dealing with an extremely toxic family member whom I have to deal with. Despite all this I'm continuously working on myself. I suppose sometimes we have to travel through the darkness to better understand and appreciate the light. All the best 💜🙏
You deserve to be happy, you are amazing. Sending lots of love 💕❤️
@@NickySutton1 Thank you so much Nicky ❤ 🙏
@@NickySutton1 hi I been dealing with a heavy vibration presence in my whole part of my body every time going to sleep I been feeling someone or something strong on my body part and it's hurts so bad can anybody tell me what ya think that is but I don't know what is it myself I been trying to look for answer because is like this energetic is hurting my whole body part but while I'm listening to this I feel my body start getting loose thank you for this meditation Nicky,🙏
Amen
@@germanie7033 you may want to try a Google search for "old hag syndrome," and take it from there. Best of luck 👍
Thank u kindly for caring to help us. I've escaped from narcissistic personality disorder individual... last night. they're evil. Just sooo much anger, mean, cruelty, sabotage & the lying. I'm so lonely & fear another won't want me being physically limited with severe chronic pain so I keep hoping he change. I'm Done!! Hope is lost.
Thank u again. I hope this helps as my living situation is now not where I ever thought I'd be at this age & a whole other set of stresses 😢 I'm very much in limbo as emotional, physical & mental anguish and agony are 1...Not separate 💜🖤💙💔😖😖
*namaste
Same thing going on for me. Its so much to deal with all of it at once.
@@chooseaname1423 ohhh hun, I am soooooo sorry ur having this struggle. If u seen me ud think it was just today it blew up. I'm extremely lonely and not coping with where I am. Firmly jammed between a rock & a crazy place. 😪😖
I hope u have someone to talk with as well that's SUPER patient and loves u unconditionally.
I got noone...and the hamster in my head just about has his little legs run off going around & around on that wheel.
Are u safe & have support?
Noone gets it after awhile, unless been there. I'm told just get over it already, duh!just move on- which I'm trying!?? just stop thinking about him...
just just just... I wanna say why don't u JUST live last 5 yrs I have, & have noone now...then tell me what I Just need to do 😖
While they have a home & friends, kids & pets, their health, a life!!!! I admit I'm envious & long for love ... I didn't know I could keep making this many tears.
I pray the universe has been kinder to you & dont find urself so desperate ur venting ur worst pains to complete strangers on here as I find myself doing. And I apologize. I'm blowing around & trying to grab onto something to ground me and it makes me vulnerable, again.
Plus I'm in my 50's...
so it's not like im gonna ever have a 20 yr anniversary with anyone. Breaks what's left of my heart. I'm a bonder...a partner, that's my drive. I want to live & love & be loved and at my age, back home with tyrant elderly mother of 88... it's been fing horrific. Just another person controlling & dictating how I should be, want, like, & deny me that which WOULD help me TREMENDOUSLY, like have a pet, borrow vehicle for social outing, not just appointments at pain clinics i attend weekly.
Do u have ur independence Bri Anne; it's a double edged sword. I left my narc and a vehicle make it easy to go back. Equally it also holds me back from moving forward. My questions are rhetorical hun & of course u don't have to divulge any info... I'm "just" being selfish I guess lol! Or so I'd be told by someone I'm sure, wanting desperately to be heard, felt.... helped. Just getting things out can be cathartic if u know that another truly gets what ur going thru. This is getting to be a tomè...lol!!
IF so desired, they say misery loves company lol! So I'm here to vent on too. Be strong. Stay authentic. Thank u for saying something... hugs!
@@tanyabell7748 nobody can believe what we survived...but we know. We are fighters and survivors or we wouldn't be here.
WITH SELF LOVE U WILL ATTRACT REAL LOVE ❤️
Don't need anything from anyone here
Its so powerful what you’re managing to do: reprogramming the subconcious while we sleep. You’re saving lives by giving us back our health.
🙏👏❤️
We are here because we are doing our best to heal. And that is beautiful. May we stay committed to not ever becoming like who has hurt us. May we deepen love for ourselves, and move forward in a better more whole way. I’m sorry you’re hurting friend. I’m devastated too. But know it won’t always be like this. ❤
I agree we are here because we choose not to become what we have suffered. I would rather never ❤again then to put another person through this I couldn't do this to my worst enemy if I had one let alone someone I claimed to love, when she lost her engagement ring I started thinking about so many things that had been off that I kept telling myself was my traumas and insecurities because I truly trusted her completely, I know it will take someone else a lot more to convince me so completely that I no longer trust my gut, it has never been wrong I have just stopped believing it because I wanted to believe her I didn't want to know the truth I still don't, but that's no longer relevant because she decided she needed to be single after a couple mental breakdowns and hospitalizations and a month with her adult daughter she returned to tell me she needed her own space and after I got her all moved in and everything where she wanted it she informed me she needed no contact for 30 days so she could become independent so of course you agree because all you ever wanted was her happiness and health and after well over 30 days her mail is piling up and some of it is very important you decide to send them an unemotional message about the mail and what you should do about it but never get a response so after another 10 days you call only to discover she has changed her# so that's when you realize that the person you thought you loved is not the person who you are in this experience with because the person who you love only exists in your head and heart you only saw what you wanted and would pretend that anything else wasn't her it was her mental illness and you convinced yourself she was your perfect partner she showed you so many times that she was not the person you wanted her to be but you wouldn't accept that you need to stop making excuses for her behaviors and accept that if she is meant to be with you she will be with you and if she does return you need to be honest and only accept what she shows you not her words anymore anyone can say anything but their actions will show you what they truly intend and if they rarely if ever message or call you 1st you are not their 1st priority and if they go days without responding when they have told you they are just running to the store for something simple they are showing you that they don't care about you at all and if they never apologize for anything and act like it never happened or try to shift the blame to you they don't love you,if they are constantly nit picking and trying to start fights all the time they don't love you and are unhappy and if they start accusing you of something they are probably projecting and if they say things like if you get the opportunity to have a threesome or something that they think you might want, not to feel guilty for doing it just not to tell them that means they are probably doing something they want that they think you wouldn't give them and don't want to tell you even though that is exactly what they are telling you. Sorry about ranting on your comment it started out as one thing and somewhere it turned into this revelation of just how much you have tolerated and excused because you refused to believe her actions and just kept accepting her words even after she accidentally showed you someone else's 🍆and then tried to convince you it was yours b4 she suddenly remembered it was one of her old friends from high schools husband and he has something going on and her friend wanted her opinion and maybe she might know some kinda home remedy or could do some spellwork that would help. How can I still be so stuck on this person if she is even a person who could be so cruel and so convincing that you literally can't trust your own eyes, she has done so much damage I truly don't know if I will ever be able to heal and still I know if she messaged or called and needed me I would run right back in an instant how sick am I, I truly need to love myself like yesterday so that I won't allow myself to continue to be victimized
thankyou so much for this healing from childhood trauma and negative toxic old self and my ex.
I just dreamt that I kept (painlessly) birthing different items that were meant to represent the love Source has for me. It was wild. I cried real tears of joy in my sleep.
Releasing and I'm ready to end this connection permanently!!!
I know I went back to him but I'm still listening to this. Every bit helps me not to lose myself and cling. ♥️
@@nativechique7589 DAMN U WENT BACK AND WAS DONE AFTER A WEEK LET HIM GO LOL HE YOUR KARMIC RELATIONSHIP LOVE YOURSELF THEN THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE WILL COME
Would you say listening this attracted him back into your life as a lesson? Are you still connected or have you set boundaries? I’m curious as I have a similar experience
@@goldenstandard187 yea was a lesson. We quit talking n a few months later he ended up passing away. Also just becausecwe l9ve ourselves doesnt mean we r meant to be in a love relationship. I dont think that should be the end goal
@@Pulanhealing shoot i think what made me stop talking to him was me not wanting to be hurt more than wanting to be around him if that makes sense. I think at the time this was a good tool to clear myself if i remember correctly. We quit communicating. He def was a lesson
He ended up passing away a few months later from a fetynal overdose at a young age. I set boundaries but he was sweet when hevwanted to see me n id go for it knowing full well his charm was not in my best interest.
i love this so much! it's great to hear the continuous encourage if we wake up during the night and hear what is being said. it is so much easier to fall back to sleep while listening. Thank you!
So glad you like it, thanks for listening. Lots of love x
@@NickySutton1 🙂
@@NickySutton1 omg i literally have aura bc of you!!! Thank you for everything you do!! You’re a lifesaver.
Thank you for the upload Nicky. Just some feedback: your voice is already relaxing. You don’t have to force the breathiness. It turns into a distracting hiss at the end of the sentence. Thank you 🙏🏽💖
We must learn to DIM the mind and brighten our hearts. Emotional Intelligence (EQ) is 10x more powerful than Intellectual Intelligence (IQ). What if we lived in a world were the ‘Smartest’ people in the world were actually the dumbest. We’ve been taught to use our brains more than our hearts and we wonder why there's suffering in the world. This world is reversed. Do the opposite of what ‘they’ tell you to do. The heart is the first organ to grow in the body. Follow your heart and use your intellect as a co-pilot to assist the heart.
~Much Love from a Law of Attraction UA-camr💜
I see your comments everywhere throughout UA-cam. You always have such positivity. It is needed. Much love brother. 💚
I like your point, but the first to show that you are human is actually the arsehole, and that is a fact. Perhaps releaseing shit is tha one Thing we all can ageree on, also across species
Please… I pray this works.. I take back all my energy. From anyone who’s been near me
In the last 6 months.
I don’t let ppl touch me rlly, so nothing to worry about there. Only one woman has had hands on meZz and I call that energy back also.
May everyone’s energies be cleared and mine returned.
I want to feel ok and whole again. And not have all these energy vamps taking up precious space in my mind and energy’s.
May my frequency be my own and only used for good, non selfish, non egotistical, non angry. It will all be alright…
❤❤❤❤ Thank you so much ❤❤ I hope from the bottom of my heart that my first toxic love of my past will never come into my life again. I met new man one month ago and I want to give him a chance without comparing him. (:
Thank you, Nicky. I could tell in my dreams that this was very helpful. Infinite love and light. 💖
I'm grateful for this beautiful recording. The words and music are perfect. Thank you so much ❤
Thank. You. Nicky. For. This. Amazing. Video. God. Bless. You
Thanks to you, I can be my authentic self again!
Thank you so much for using the 'thanks' button, I'm so happy this sleep meditation has helped you. Lots of love ❤️
I think a part of me will always love him but I know it's time to let go, I wish him nothing but the best , maybe in every other life we made it together to my beautiful handsome man who isn't mine anymore I will always pray you get the life we talked about even if it isn't with me anymore.
I'm trying really hard to get to here but I have convinced myself that they are someone that they may or may not be because of their inability to have any stability one day they are this person 5 minutes later she is someone else I don't know how much of it was her mental health issues and how much was masking after almost 9 years I'm struggling to figure out who she was one thing I'm certain of is she is not the person I fell in love with definitely not the person in my head and in my heart and soul because that person could never do the things she had done to me and then made me feel like it was all my fault I truly can't comprehend who or what she is anymore because I'm so trauma bound that I can't tell up from down right from a lie the truth from the left I'm so just utterly devastated and I feel unimaginable grief for the person I fell in love with who just never existed or maybe I was meant to meet but I was wasting my time with someone who I thought wanted what I wanted and felt the way that I felt
I don’t understand how we can listen to a 9 hours guide affirmations without getting my sleep interrupted? I’m just asking for help on how to use this please ? 10-20 min I do but 9 hrs don’t know how. ❤ This is one of my most fav meditation channel of all. Much grateful 😊
I just came across this, as I've Always LOVED your meditations/hypnosis. I use hypnosis, (Trauma Hypnosis), for my healing. It's easy for me, to understand it. Lately, I've been getting a huge trembling sensation, in my Root/down my legs, feeling awful lately-energy wantingto fly out my fingertips and legs through toes. A release, I have a hard time doing, on my own still, dt my toxic environment. I can't do anything, like screaming in a pillow, cry or hit my punching bag, with my stick Lol. It helps me tremendously. @Guided Meditations with Nicky Sutton , does this come with lots of processing/integration, after you wake?, like lots. It sounds foolish to ask, but I'm moving out of State, and I need to feel okay with myself this weekend, not listen to anything that's going to trigger me/my emotions, moreso. Though, I will say, this person, I'd like to detach, emotionally from, lives with me and will, until moved..This would be Wonderful, Profoundly Helpful, if it doesn't have lots of processing, after (next day). Thank you kindly, for this and All of your Beautiful work you've done, for Us All. Blessings & much Gratitude, to you Always🙏❤ ✨
Thank you for this relaxing meditation video ❤
🙏🏻 praying this helps! I feel so much pain
Blood of the Lamb Jesus on you and be healed! ❤
I know I need to release him. I took him back once and I can tell he is doing the same things all over again. He is not good for me. So I hope this works.
Thank you so much Nikki for sharing your video to the world; I appreciate you!
I hope this works, its been just 4 weeks now and she's 3 weeks into her new relationship.. she went out of her way today to tell me she's now sleeping with him.. until today I was still praying that there's still hope that she would see sense and let me go home.. I did everything I could to save our family, I endured so much narcissistic abuse.. she blames my ptsd for her moving on so fast, that if I didn't have it we would still be together. She convinced me that my meds weren't working too.. I'm such a fool, I'm still in love with her after all this! Even after being beaten, bottled and hit with pans.
I wish you the healing and happiness that you deserve. Sending love 🙏💖
Love yourself first, after u have self love, you will realize you deserve better and see your own worth. Btw she is manipulating you by saying its your fault. Be careful.
Take care of yourself my friend, nothing is more important than you. You deserve better people in your life.
I Praise, Bless, Trust, Believe, have Faith, Worship, and Love You beloved FATHER/God, Lord Jesus Christ & Holy Spirit. Thank you for everything you do on my behalf daily known or unknown. My daily blessings, your daily presence in my life, love, mercy, guidance, wisdom, compassion, understanding, safety, and protection in addition to being my PROTECTOR, rock, refuge, fortress, savior, defender, and superhero. Thank you for saving my life and molding me into who I am today for without you I AM NOTHING! I Love You to eternity and beyond! ❤💙💚❤💙💚❤💙💚
I felt nice peaceful warm feeling, so wonderful.
Nicky thanks.
Love and light.
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Can you please do a guided meditation to enter the flow state of mind whenever you want? I hope you can do this because I need this for my studies.
try the silva method meditations
Amen . I need to forget all about it. Hopefully it works.
Thank you for sharing this ❤💫🙏
Thank you so much love this ❤️beautiful blessings to all who read this 💫🙌
I wish I could post a video of using this to put my two year old to sleep apparently he has some issues he's working out. LoL but seriously this one works every time.
I know you were serious but, I laughed.
My 2 year old as well 😊 this video will be saved 4ever...helped us both😍
Thank you, Nicky. I needed this.
God bless you❤️
I really needed this right now..thank you 🙏
This video helped me so much thank you ❤
This is just wonderful ❤
Thank you ❤️
Trillions Thanks 👏👏👏👏👏
I love this one it’s my favorite ❤️
🙏 Thank you ❤
Thank you for this
First day listening the sleep was definitely deep whew lol
Great to hear that ❤️🙏
Cut the cords kali mata thank you❤
99 cutting all unhealthy cords 🥰
Just had a great 8 hours of sleep thank you 🌹
Thanks God ❤️🙏 I claim it
I have listened to this 5 nights on the trot but don't feel any more disconnected from 'him' 😥
How does this work when we go deaf when we go into a deep sleep?
❤️ Hi, our subconscious mind still listens even when we're sleeping, we're not deaf, hence you can be awoken by a sound. I suggest taking a break to give your subconscious time to process the messages in the sleep meditation. For some it works very quickly, others it takes longer. But you need to really want to let go of your connection to this person or it's unlikely to help.
After listening for a few days take a break and carry on with life. Many report that they start to feel better and the emotional hold the other person has over them starts to lessen, happening much quicker than if only time was the healer. Your subconscious is listening, so give yourself a chance to integrate the messages. Lots of love 💕❤️
thank you for this ❤
I hope this work he don't deserve the power over me 😢
It’s been almost 9 months. I hate that he still lives in my head when I’m at my best. I hate it. He doesn’t deserve my tears nor my pain. He left me, he chose to give up on us. I’m glad I haven’t broke. Contact but the fact I dream about him sucks :(
Beautiful meditation. Thank you❤
Listening so I can detach from my ex boyfriend. I love him very much, but we can't be together because we are 13 years age difference and he has 2 children. I don't want children or to be a step mom. So I need to release and let him go and move forward with my life.
This hurts so much, my mind, body and heart husrts so much, ty this boring me some peace
You need this more than i do babe. Xx
Can you do multiple people or just one at a time?
It’s like she died,it hurts so bad. What’s worse is that she didn’t and I still can’t even talk to her.
I hate that feeling but try to remember she doesn’t feel that way back. For her your pain is a burden to her. It’s sad and cruel but unfortunately it’s true. I’m right there with you bub. Stay strong.
Work it I need water Thank you
Hi Nicky! Were your songs removed from Spotify? Most of them are missing now :(
Hi Joe, I hope you're very well. Thank you for your comment. I just had a check and they seem to be there x open.spotify.com/artist/68mAViFDgkIoksrdgok9bR/discography/all
Loved this 8 hours sleep meditation 😍
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I do wonder if it'd work having English as my second language. I understand it all but but sure if it'd work the same while I'd be sleeping
Do I listen to this while I sleep I really need help I need to get him out of my head
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ please release him from me
Ty
What if I’m attached to Nicky? Does this still work?
So tired of heartbreak
Super complicated.
I break free...and he comes back only because he starts to get bad karma. Then he goes out & cheats & lies to hurt me emotional. Then verbal & mental manipulation. More lies and cheating.
Then I'm left to heal..then he comes back again repeating it
He does it intentionally
Otherwise his life starts to get towers. Drain dumps karma sickness he's like cancer
Wish this was subliminal. Too upset even hear what you are saying. So tired of this pain.
@@josie9583 thank you!
you'll get there...don't give up, it's a journey and not all days are free of pain. hugs!!
i know that it was not meant to be, but i wish they would have tried. i don't know why i am not a person they could love
Feeling alittle heavy
I want to completely cut every manifestation I have with the toxic imposter I have been feeding for 8 months she is a trickster a chameleon acting as a soulmate
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Like attracts like :) ♥ ~
No one has any right to ask anything of me. At all. If you can't accept me thr way Iam an how I hace become after what I've been through. Then get lost you are not worth it to me you will continually wabt an expect more from me an u aren't getting it any longer
Does this work
Did it work for you
Back again. Still in no contact but he is pulling on my energy in the ethereals. This cord is like a worm that regrows its tail.
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Cut all that don't serve me 2:18:13
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What happens if you fucked up mid was on somon that the verry last ting you want to do is cut cords with cos your mind wondered...
And you fro some reason wasnt even thinking about the person you ACTUALLY DID want to cut cords with... With this now have cut cords with the person i wanted to connect with not cut??? Help!!! 😩😩😩😩
My mind wondered on to the wrong person somone i want to vring closser and into my life for some reason not cut out... Ca. This be undone!!! Or have i severed a connection with the most important person in my lif i wa ted to bring closer not push away pleas get back to me asap!!
I don't think that it will affect the relationship, unless you consciously view the person as being a toxic part of your life. It's normal for the mind to wander when we are trying to quiet our mind.
Somewhere I have learned that cutting cords is about cutting toxic and karmic connections that no longer serve us. We can cut cords without cutting connections with people we want in our lives and people who we do not.
An Akashic record reader advised me to do cord cutting meditations with my own twin sister in order to clear negative energies from past lives.
Love and light to you🙏🏻
Thought at some point she would be quiet so you could sleep, but she talks thru the entire meditation. 😣