Single + Satisfied // Singleness // Rated R // Bianca Olthoff

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  • Опубліковано 14 лип 2024
  • Are you celebrating your season of singleness? This week Pastor B drops a word on being satisfied with your singleness during any season you are in. So grab your bible and get ready for Rated R week 3!
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    00:00 - Intro
    03:41 - 1 Corinthians 7:7
    09:05 - Celebrating Our Singleness
    11:34 - Song of Songs 1:4
    14:45 - Singleness Is the Place For You to Grow You
    16:50 - Enmeshment
    23:07 - Singleness Isn't To Be Squandered
    31:19 - Singleness Is a Gift
    34:30 - Identify What You NEED!
    36:07 - Jesus Is ENOUGH!
    Scriptures Mentioned:
    1 Corinthians Chapter 7 Verse 7
    1 Timothy Chapter 6 Verse 6
    Song of Songs Chapter 1 Verse 4
    Song of Songs Chapter 5 Verse 9
    Song of Songs Chapter 8 Verse 9
    1 Corinthians Chapter 7 Verse 29 and 31
    1 Corinthians Chapter 7 Verse 32-34
    Song of Songs Chapter 2 Verse 7, Chapter 3 Verse 5, Chapter 8 Verse 4
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 59

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart 2 роки тому +26

    Wow, powerful sermon! It hits close to home for me. I spent 10 years of my life living in lust, sexual immorality, and dating man after man in the same flesh. I felt so worthless and empty. When I was saved last year, I surrendered EVERY part of my life to the Lord including my love life. I’m single and satisfied in my relationship with Jesus! He is my first love. He is and will always be enough! 🕊🙏🏼❤️

  • @andrewlarragoitiy9592
    @andrewlarragoitiy9592 2 роки тому +59

    “Until Jesus is enough for you, no thing or person ever will be.”

  • @flowconyoliz
    @flowconyoliz 2 роки тому +24

    Yaaaas! Single and satisfied! I so had to learn this the hard way throughout my life. I was married by 18 for all the wrong reasons, then divorced at 22 and just five years later I was engaged to another man, but this time because I had met Jesus and knew Him at a new and intimate level, throughout prayer and community I had chosen to walk away from that engagement... I just turned 30 this January and it's been exactly 4 years since I called that engagement off and I can honestly say that these past 4 years of singleness (although hard at times) have been the most purposeful and satisfied years of my life. I fell in love with my Creator and Saviour, Jesus Christ, and through the new heart of flesh and renewed mind I live a satisfied single life and enjoy my career as a barber that often feels like a pastoral position and I love pouring into my clients in so many ways as well as writing blogs and enjoying my family..... God is so good! I pray for that husband still from time to time, but I know now that that man won't complete me then because I'm already complete.... Thank you Pastora Bianca for your heart, vulnerability, and for being so fearlessly YOU!!! ❤

    • @Anthony-yy3kc
      @Anthony-yy3kc Рік тому

      FLOW CON YOLIZ
      How do you deal with the Christians who say you need to remarry your first husband or remain single for the rest of your life?

    • @flowconyoliz
      @flowconyoliz Рік тому

      @@Anthony-yy3kc Hi Anthony! I personally have never experienced anyone advising me to remarry my ex husband or to remain single. I do understand why this would happen though. Divorce is spoken about in so many areas of scripture and it’s something that was also used to trap Jesus as well during His time of ministry on earth.
      I don’t know the “right” answer to this honestly, but I do choose to receive God’s grace in this and do believe I am given the freedom to remarry eventually.
      I think most often than not, God is more interested in our hearts and our intentions to what we do yet, all of it matters.
      I didn’t know God then throughout my marriage the way that I know Him today.
      There was unfaithfulness in our marriage and we did try to work things out, but it didn’t work out for us. We’re not enemies though, we both learned from that experience and I know I’ve personally been healing from that relationship with God’s Grace throughout these past years….
      I think it’s just something that we all need to work out with God by our side through prayer and learning to journey with Him as we invite Him to open our hearts and minds to Him.

    • @Anthony-yy3kc
      @Anthony-yy3kc Рік тому

      I didn't mean to imply that I believe you should remarry your first spouse or stay single. It's just I see so many Christians saying this!

    • @flowconyoliz
      @flowconyoliz Рік тому

      @@Anthony-yy3kc oh no, I didn’t think you implied it at all, I promise. I just responded as if I would have or will in the future be asked this then maybe that’s what I’d respond.

  • @naspricans
    @naspricans 2 роки тому +10

    Singleness and parenting is tough. I pray for a sermon on single parents

  • @rosacharles4804
    @rosacharles4804 2 роки тому +23

    I love this. I been single for 4 and half years. I found God and my self. This year I pray for a godly man. You videos have helped me get ready. Thank you

  • @melaniemartin4319
    @melaniemartin4319 2 роки тому +4

    Jesus is enough...period!🤯🤯🤯

  • @antoniatoneva7446
    @antoniatoneva7446 2 роки тому +17

    This is probably the best sermon on singleness I've ever watched! Thank God for the gift of singleness! And thank you pastor B, it was fire!

    • @mandieturner2156
      @mandieturner2156 2 роки тому +1

      Watch Pastor Michael Todd ‘s Relationship Series. Pastor B is amazing and I love her!! Pastor Michael Todd, the same. God uses multitudes to help us learn and grow. If you want wisdom in relationships, watch both!!

    • @melaniemartin4319
      @melaniemartin4319 2 роки тому

      @@mandieturner2156 🤩🤩🤩

  • @rachels.9602
    @rachels.9602 2 роки тому +4

    This is the best message I've heard on singleness... And trust me, I've heard a lot!!
    I wish more single and married people in the church would capture the heart of the beauty and purpose of single life!

  • @marjorymsuku9312
    @marjorymsuku9312 Рік тому +2

    "Celebrating our Singleness will help us live satisfied/sanctified lives."❤
    Thank you for the elaboration/contextualisation of: "it is not good for man to be alone"; and "two are better than one." ❤❤🙏
    So glad to have found a video where a married Pastor really undestands what was/is like to be single. May God continue to bless you and your ministry!🙌🙌

  • @StyloLive
    @StyloLive 2 роки тому +5

    This message couldn’t have came at a better time. Celebrating our individual accomplishments is something I need to do more. Its good to finally love the self and not depend on anyone else but GOD for fulfillment. Thank you for this 🤲🏽

  • @vanessatorres4494
    @vanessatorres4494 2 роки тому +5

    Loving the Rated R series 🙌🏻. Gratitude Pastor Bianca
    Seasons of life that we need to accept, understand God’s timing and obey Him (it is not easy but we need to do it).. in all of the seasons we really need to be close/ to walk with Him, otherwise we will feel an empty space on a certain area of our life ..we will feel incomplete (only God can complete us 🙏🏻)

    • @melaniemartin4319
      @melaniemartin4319 2 роки тому

      What were the scriptures?🏖🏖⛰🏔

    • @theselflovebae
      @theselflovebae 2 роки тому

      @@melaniemartin4319 they are in the description I believe ☺️

  • @karenmena6373
    @karenmena6373 Рік тому +1

    amen , let me tell you god spoke to me and told me 'there is nothing wrong with me , his plans are perfect and being single is a beautiful thing .'

  • @nata5162
    @nata5162 Рік тому +1

    Singleness is a gift! Thank you for this important message

  • @lilianamartinez738
    @lilianamartinez738 8 місяців тому

    I love this! Thank you

  • @igbeci
    @igbeci 2 роки тому +2

    GOD IS SO FAITHFUL!!!

  • @israelsfusion4727
    @israelsfusion4727 Рік тому

    This man I told that too called me a liar. People aren’t used to seeing people single and satisfied

  • @theselflovebae
    @theselflovebae 2 роки тому +5

    Yasss Pastor B! Been enjoying this series and this season of singleness!

  • @TheJawn_G
    @TheJawn_G Рік тому

    Thank you!

  • @joshuapurvee694
    @joshuapurvee694 9 місяців тому

    I wish i could find a church like this very inspiring video unfortunatly marriage and kids is put on a huge pedistal in most churches and its probably i big reason i dont attend church snymore but would love to but i dont want to feel like im less of a person because im single.

  • @arthan06
    @arthan06 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for this! ❤️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @tfh_oc
      @tfh_oc  2 роки тому

      Thank you for watching!

  • @g.l.3124
    @g.l.3124 2 роки тому

    I love Bianca and her messages giving me hope and reassurance during my season.

  • @chadc2896
    @chadc2896 2 роки тому +1

    I thank you for speaking the way you do this hits my life in my story right now. I'm Focusing everything I have on God I'm trying to get myself right and put God 1st nothing else masters right now I focus only on Jesus.

  • @HeyKellyShea
    @HeyKellyShea 2 роки тому +3

    🔥🔥🔥 already

  • @andrealara4469
    @andrealara4469 2 роки тому +4

    So good! Thank you for this 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @tfh_oc
      @tfh_oc  2 роки тому

      Thank you for watching!

    • @Anthony-yy3kc
      @Anthony-yy3kc Рік тому

      What's your story Andrea?

  • @evaevesena9347
    @evaevesena9347 2 роки тому

    It's. Was beautiful when Pastor Matt wAs looking at you
    God bless you both ❤️

  • @phyllismbugua6857
    @phyllismbugua6857 2 роки тому

    This was for y'all. Thank you Pastor B. I have faced so much rejection that I almost forgot that am choose by the Might one of Israel.

  • @emcladybug22
    @emcladybug22 2 роки тому

    This was so good!

  • @SamBWinning
    @SamBWinning 2 роки тому

    I love pastor Bianca messages on dating love marriage and sex! She is the best when it comes to these topics no lie. She is raw and real. Thank you pastor Bianca for this message you made me feel better about my singleness I was feeling down and overlooked. Now I know it’s a beautiful gift from God. The right person will come in the meantime I will continue to grow as an individual in Christ!!

  • @marjorymsuku9312
    @marjorymsuku9312 Рік тому

    Aaaw, she called it a Gift!... Singleness. 😊😊❤

  • @rosemarievaliente9193
    @rosemarievaliente9193 Рік тому

    Thank you so much

  • @chadc2896
    @chadc2896 2 роки тому

    Yes

  • @terri646
    @terri646 2 роки тому +1

    ✋✋✋

  • @israelsfusion4727
    @israelsfusion4727 Рік тому

    I love being single

  • @veronicad7366
    @veronicad7366 Рік тому

    I am the daughter of the Most High God! I will slay my own dragons with the sword of the spirit! 🔥

  • @kp5870
    @kp5870 Рік тому +1

    To answer the last question - Jesus cannot be the romantic love that I would have with an earthly person. He is my father and Lord, not the person I’d think of having sex with.

  • @evaevesena9347
    @evaevesena9347 2 роки тому

    Hello pastor bianca from Pakistan

    • @tfh_oc
      @tfh_oc  2 роки тому +1

      Hello and thank you for watching! We appreciate you!

  • @patrickc3419
    @patrickc3419 Рік тому

    Why is the social meeting club rebelling against the biblical qualifications for a pastor? (1 Timothy 3:1-7, Titus 1:5-9).

  • @RachelNichols-writer
    @RachelNichols-writer 8 місяців тому +1

    If people are satisfied and single why keep calling it just "a season"? Why keep promising people "If you are just contented enough or delighted enough in Jesus, God will send the perfect spouse into your life"? No one who bubbles and perks this way really believes this stuff.
    50-year-old Christian who has remained faithful and will stay that way. I know I'll die unwed and am only discontented with the amazingly stupid stuff married people keep saying. And when I try dating. I hate dating and prefer not to bother.

  • @jilllingenfelter4682
    @jilllingenfelter4682 2 роки тому +4

    my little daschund corgi dog went home to Heaven in January 2022 And now I have
    a little 3 1/2 year old mini poodle puppy :) And she is my baby Rosy doll:)And God knew that I needed her :) And she is definitely a gift from God Himself and she was born during Covid :) And i’m 100% single :) and I have been single for 9-10 years @TFH_OC