why we slept in separate beds on our anniversary...

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  • @MattandAbby
    @MattandAbby  3 роки тому +96

    Apparently, it's called sleep divorce when a married couple sleeps separately to get better sleep. Do you know any married couples that do this?
    Side note: Abby and I slept incredibly well in separate beds. This was most likely do to the fact that we had AC lol (we don't have AC in our cottage on Oahu)

    • @beatrizandrade3644
      @beatrizandrade3644 3 роки тому +2

      my parents do this lol

    • @julia2e908
      @julia2e908 3 роки тому +1

      Haha😅😅😂

    • @avery_1010
      @avery_1010 3 роки тому +1

      LOL 😂

    • @user-yn7vx2df5p
      @user-yn7vx2df5p 3 роки тому

      That’s knew knowledge

    • @aksis2133
      @aksis2133 3 роки тому +2

      My parents have been sleeping in different rooms for 18 years and it's working fine as far as I can tell. Still get along pretty great, for the most part

  • @Des_Amar
    @Des_Amar 3 роки тому +228

    "This is our sexy 2 year anniversary suite" lol still seems like you guys had lots of fun, Happy Anniversary to you guys!!! 🥳❤️

    • @MattandAbby
      @MattandAbby  3 роки тому +9

      We definitely were able to make the most of it! Thanks so much!!

  • @FantaandDarwin
    @FantaandDarwin 3 роки тому +325

    Aw my wife and I just celebrated our 3 year anniversary too, in June. Happy Anniversary! Always fun watching!

    • @PeterParker-si8uq
      @PeterParker-si8uq 3 роки тому +3

      hiii

    • @julia2e908
      @julia2e908 3 роки тому +3

      I just saw that video of yours!! It looks like the cops got involved😂😂😂

    • @MattandAbby
      @MattandAbby  3 роки тому +95

      What!? Happy anniversary!! Hopefully you guys got to sleep in the same bed for your anniversary lol

  • @audreymays808
    @audreymays808 3 роки тому +235

    y’all are literally the cutest couple ever!

  • @maayan0990
    @maayan0990 3 роки тому +83

    I found your channel two weeks ago and ever since, I’ve been binge watching all off your videos haha
    You two are so so fun and heart warming to watch , I fell in love!
    It really seems like you two are being selfless to one another, and that is the best way to keep up any relationship !
    Anyway I love you a lot and wish for you all the best in life and in your relationship❤️
    Sorry if my English is wrong hahah

  • @hopeandtobias
    @hopeandtobias 3 роки тому +24

    8:40 This is why we love you guy so much! Your guys' perseverance is unreal and in the end it all worked out. Wishing everyone a blessed day

  • @tvldude
    @tvldude 3 роки тому +2

    Awesome anniversary surprise! The twin beds will be great stories for those kids one day and amazing memories for yourselves.

  • @manjotgill3059
    @manjotgill3059 3 роки тому +20

    This has now become my favourite channel to watch. Love y’all

  • @debbihuff6870
    @debbihuff6870 3 роки тому +8

    Happy anniversary! Matt, you’re so sweet to plan such a surprise. Abby, you’re such a good sport. You two are great together. Wishing you many more happy years together!

  • @mnab72708
    @mnab72708 3 роки тому +6

    Awww but it's gonna be such a funny memory to look back on! You guys are still blessed to be able to go away together and spend that time alone with one another and that's all that matters❤🙏

  • @jennylhenry78
    @jennylhenry78 2 роки тому +1

    Best idea given to us as newly married, the wife gets to plan all the odd years and the husband gets to plan all the even years. This gives him the opportunity to do all of the really big anniversaries like 10 and 20 and it also gives each of them a chance to do something that they would choose and not really have expectations squashed when things don't get planned. We've celebrated 15 years already this way and it's been pretty fun!

  • @ashleeattridge4900
    @ashleeattridge4900 3 роки тому +41

    I love y’all so much! Your videos put me in a better mood every time I get done with work. Keep up the good videos! Best couple on UA-cam. My favorite UA-cam channel ever.

    • @MattandAbby
      @MattandAbby  3 роки тому +9

      That seriously means so much. Thank you for the compliment!

    • @ashleeattridge4900
      @ashleeattridge4900 3 роки тому +3

      This made me smile! I got so excited reading you reply!

  • @EverdeenEditz
    @EverdeenEditz 3 роки тому +39

    Glad you all had fun!!! You two are such an amazing couple, so friendly and happy all the time ☺️

  • @jackalope2u
    @jackalope2u 3 роки тому +6

    30th Anniversary coming up in a few days for my wife, and I. Hope you guys had a wonderful time during your 2nd Anniversary. Bless you two.

  • @cecileereeves251
    @cecileereeves251 3 роки тому +3

    Happy Anniversary y'all!!! Speaking of each island having it's own vibe, y'all have to experience the vibe on Molokai. It's the smallest, least inhabited Hawaiian island but it has such a cool laid back vibe. Highly recommend! 🤙

  • @MissMash07
    @MissMash07 3 роки тому +2

    I like that you guys take turns planning the special dates

  • @torilail1168
    @torilail1168 3 роки тому +1

    I went on a Hawaiian cruise once, we docked in Maui for 2 days, well the first night I woke up in some serious pain, we got off the boat around 2am, went to the ER, I had a kidney stone. So that’s what I think of every time someone talks about Maui, lol. Happy anniversary, I love y’all so much!

  • @sophieormonde9614
    @sophieormonde9614 3 роки тому +12

    You guys are actually the cutest couple ever! I’m so glad I found your UA-cam channel!!!

  • @huilown
    @huilown 3 роки тому +2

    Happy 2 year anniversary to both of you. Just started watching your channel and you guys are just so natural and genuine.
    Watching from Fiji

  • @JordanSmith-xb2dy
    @JordanSmith-xb2dy 3 роки тому +1

    This was so special!! Matt done a great job with this surprise trip!! Happy Anniversary Dudes!!

  • @mrhale4971
    @mrhale4971 3 роки тому +3

    Happy anniversary guys! 2 years and still going strong. By far my favorite yt/tik tok couple and super glad you guys had a great anniversary, even if the bed situation wasn’t ideal 😂

  • @kristibohara6381
    @kristibohara6381 3 роки тому +11

    Happy 2 yr anniversary 🥂! You two, are the cutest Couple on UA-cam! You both make the best out of every situation happy anniversary and to many many many more

  • @Laney557
    @Laney557 3 роки тому +87

    “2 years ago to the date, we got married”
    yes matt, that’s what happens on your 2nd anniversary

  • @emilygarlie3717
    @emilygarlie3717 3 роки тому +4

    Happy Anniversary! Matt is so thoughtful! You guys are the sweetest couple ❤️

  • @germinahkaitlyn5391
    @germinahkaitlyn5391 3 роки тому

    These anniversaries are 💥💥
    The one Abby planned last year lit....
    The one Matt planned also fire.....

  • @fireiron369
    @fireiron369 3 роки тому +11

    You two literally live in a fairytale ❤️

  • @k_o2274
    @k_o2274 3 роки тому +57

    i have an obsession with binging y’all

  • @reahoop
    @reahoop 3 роки тому +5

    Just started watching, y’all are so inspiring!! Showing me that just because we’re young doesn’t mean we can’t pursue our dreams! Congratulations!!🤍

  • @ivyechambliss6291
    @ivyechambliss6291 3 роки тому +2

    The road to Hana is so beautiful. That tall waterfall you saw I walked down there with my fam and jumped into the pool of water.

  • @renegilbertson3807
    @renegilbertson3807 3 роки тому +4

    Aww I loved this! My husband and I went to Maui for our honeymoon so this brought back all the memories 🥰 Happy 2 years you guys!

  • @ragingblazemaster
    @ragingblazemaster 3 роки тому +2

    Awe! You can totally tell she’s having such a great time!!!!

  • @elizabethbeus9050
    @elizabethbeus9050 3 роки тому +3

    Maui is the best!!!!!!! I love maui so much the snorkeling is amazing!

  • @nicklink7934
    @nicklink7934 3 роки тому +4

    Congrats on 2 years and many more to come!

  • @sadieleyse4390
    @sadieleyse4390 3 роки тому +36

    I love you guys… my parents also sleep separately and they’ve been married for 16 (almost 17) years!!

  • @brittanyengebretson7828
    @brittanyengebretson7828 3 роки тому +3

    You guys are so funny and cute! Love the twin bed surprise, such a fun memory to look back on. Happy Anniversary ❤️

  • @fairieidol
    @fairieidol 10 місяців тому

    I love, love, love waterfalls too! They are just so relaxing and beautiful. 😊

  • @joansancho7463
    @joansancho7463 3 роки тому

    Hey you went back to the RICKY AND LUCY ERA and they made it work. Congrats on 2yrs.🥂🍾Happy Anniversary ✝️

  • @iDancin
    @iDancin 3 роки тому +429

    “It was like rain forest cafe!!” “Quit comparing actual nature to rain forest cafe” 😂😂😂 I love you guys

    • @tamayadenae
      @tamayadenae 3 роки тому +18

      Haven’t even watched yet and I already know who said what😭

    • @MattandAbby
      @MattandAbby  3 роки тому +38

      I LOVE RAINFOREST CAFE

    • @janelleseelen8140
      @janelleseelen8140 3 роки тому +2

      @@MattandAbby Haha

    • @renitaewbank9121
      @renitaewbank9121 2 роки тому +2

      I just love watching you two. It reminds me of our (my hubby & me) marriage!

    • @wellplayed6651
      @wellplayed6651 2 роки тому +1

      @@tamayadenae me too

  • @doglover0728
    @doglover0728 3 роки тому +139

    I read, why we slept in separate beds last night, and I freaked out 😂

  • @katiepierce7173
    @katiepierce7173 3 роки тому +4

    Happy anniversary, dudes! You guys are awesome! Love watching you! 💜

  • @elisitz5156
    @elisitz5156 3 роки тому +6

    You guys are pretty awesome not even gonna cap

  • @lizardslibrary
    @lizardslibrary 3 роки тому +21

    hahaha “do you wanna try to sleep in the same bed?” … she said “no.❤️”
    honestly such a mood

    • @heatherlynsey3092
      @heatherlynsey3092 3 роки тому +1

      That was probably the fastest no of her life and she meant it too 😭😭🤣

  • @claramoore4309
    @claramoore4309 3 роки тому +9

    that’s it y’all are officially the cutest couple!!

  • @maryreynolds5310
    @maryreynolds5310 3 роки тому +5

    Happy Anniversary you two! Twin beds or not, no matter..you have the rest of your lives ❤️

  • @TheGreenAcreWI
    @TheGreenAcreWI 3 роки тому

    Abby's expression at 1:54 lol Love following you guys both for the humor but also the strong positive relationship you share. So happy you two were able to make it this far with content creation as well. You're living the life that many of us creators dream of! Keep the videos coming duuuuudes! Happy anniversary and Godspeed.

  • @jadetobin
    @jadetobin 3 роки тому

    You guys are too cute :)
    HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!!!!!
    My hubby and I just celebrated our 30th anniversary in May and I can tell you that it only gets better when you've married your best friend :) so you 2 will obviously only get better and better! And the "it feels longer" thing I think is true in that it can feel like you've always been with the love of your life so saying 2 yrs may sound short cuz you can't imagine life without them :) marriage takes works, but when you both put in the effort, it's an amazing thing!!! :)🥰❤💕

  • @AnaAna-og2qt
    @AnaAna-og2qt 3 роки тому

    You are the loveliest couple in the world. I'm a 57 year old lady from Spain and I just want you to be protected from all the bad things in the world because you as a couple are TRUE and PURE love. Love you Matt, love you Abby💕

  • @kaitlynnhollowell6343
    @kaitlynnhollowell6343 3 роки тому +1

    Just celebrated 5 years with my hubby! Love your videos! Happy Anniversary y'all!!!❤

  • @victoriah.2083
    @victoriah.2083 3 роки тому

    The twin beds are KINDA NAUGHTY. Like...are u coming over tonite "poochie-kins" ??? (I know poochie is just for Matt! Duh..) Matt you are so sweeeeet. Luv ya guys. Aloha sweethearts 🌺

  • @angie-ih9qe
    @angie-ih9qe 3 роки тому +8

    Ya'll are growing SO FAST I can’t wait for you dudes to get to 1M heheh

  • @LilahsGotRizz
    @LilahsGotRizz 3 роки тому +8

    That was so sweet of Matt to book a trip to surprise Abby! I hope you guys had fun! :) I love that Matt tells you multiple times a day how cute you are, Abby. I hope my future husband will be like that:)

  • @bethany5677
    @bethany5677 3 роки тому +9

    That's exactly where my parents went on their honeymoon! And I saw your posts when u were in the clouds and I recognize that area from pictures from my parents honeymoon!

  • @evelyns3090
    @evelyns3090 3 роки тому +123

    do you think you can move the night stands and move the beds together to create one bed? Just a thought. Wishing you an amazing anniversary!

    • @meganeliana2465
      @meganeliana2465 3 роки тому +6

      That’s what I was thinking too

    • @MattandAbby
      @MattandAbby  3 роки тому +20

      Unfortunately the beds were bolted in place but we still had a really good time

    • @johnnyspeed5885
      @johnnyspeed5885 3 роки тому

      Aww, they were, haha?!
      Yeah I thought the same...

  • @hollym8607
    @hollym8607 3 роки тому +2

    Maui is my favorite island. My Fiancee and I have been twice and have also gone to the Big Island. As soon as you said bring warm clothes I thought Haleakala sunrise 😀 Also the Road to Hana was so much fun!

  • @abbyyy-
    @abbyyy- 3 роки тому +4

    Happy Anniversary! Y’all are so cute! Hope you had a great one! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @tcaqueli5
    @tcaqueli5 3 роки тому

    I enjoy the interactions between the two of you. I wish the two of you the best.

  • @freespirit768
    @freespirit768 3 роки тому +1

    That’s awesome. If you go again use VRBO and stay in Kihei. The road to Hana is super wild. Congratulations on two years.

  • @marcaspencer8288
    @marcaspencer8288 3 роки тому +2

    That was a cute video!!!!! Happy anniversary!!!!!!!!!!!! You could have taken out the nightstand and push the beds together and the separate them when you were going to leave. That has happened to me before.

  • @Dr.HannibalLecterVIII
    @Dr.HannibalLecterVIII 3 роки тому +96

    If I don't have a healthy relationship like this, then I don't want it.

  • @krewkamron0571
    @krewkamron0571 3 роки тому +3

    Congratulations y'all, I'm so happy for yall

  • @madilynreagan9263
    @madilynreagan9263 3 роки тому +3

    Happy anniversary! Enjoy the moments❣️ I wish you many more years of celebrations.

  • @claire.elle28
    @claire.elle28 3 роки тому +1

    HAPPY ANNIVERSARY DUDES!!! Hope you had a fun getaway!

  • @marybillington8235
    @marybillington8235 2 роки тому

    Happy 2nd Anniversary Matt and Abby +

  • @Chloe-o3d8k
    @Chloe-o3d8k 3 роки тому +2

    Happy belated anniversary to our favorite couple! We love you!! ❤️❤️

  • @katrinasmith9307
    @katrinasmith9307 3 роки тому +1

    Please never stop making videos…like I feel like one day this is gonna be the “family goals” Channel,,, like it is the couples goals channel now 😂😂😍😍 love y’all and hello from VA!!

  • @hannahmccoy7529
    @hannahmccoy7529 3 роки тому +1

    Maui is amazing!! I went in May for 10 days and I miss it so much!! Love you guys!! Y’all are amazing!❤️❤️

  • @purplegirly67
    @purplegirly67 3 роки тому +4

    Y’all are the best and cutest couple! Love your channel!

    • @purplegirly67
      @purplegirly67 3 роки тому +2

      Also congratulations for your anniversary!!!

  • @itsmeemma7895
    @itsmeemma7895 3 роки тому +6

    I love your videos and lately I have been going back and watching all of the Q&A’s or asking awkward questions and all of those videos and I just love them I get so excited when I see that you guys have posted

  • @kayla6055
    @kayla6055 3 роки тому +6

    I love how there are no dislikes. Love you guys! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @gameon618
    @gameon618 Рік тому +2

    Happy Anniversary Matt and Abby 😘❤

  • @philbinpar1
    @philbinpar1 3 роки тому

    I really enjoy all the sound effects and cutaways you edit into the videos. You’re really talented!

  • @nadinecote6482
    @nadinecote6482 3 роки тому

    I liked your reaction when you first discovered the twin beds 😂 ... what I particularly appreciate about your relationship is that no matter what happens, you always find a way to enjoy "the moment" ❤

  • @haileemcmillin7284
    @haileemcmillin7284 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you guys for bringing happiness into my day and life. You two are so funny and it’s so sweet to see your love grow. I hope you guys had a magical and lovely anniversary.🥰🤗💙✨! #dudes

  • @vanessajanik4623
    @vanessajanik4623 3 роки тому

    I love your budget adventure. Anytime the husband plans the thing you gotta give him credit. The twin beds on your anniversary is hilarious. Listen, you don’t need much room to be romantic 😉 but yeah it’s all in your attitude. The hiccups & imperfections make for great stories. I’ve been married a long time & you guys are on the right track. 🤙🏼

  • @julia2e908
    @julia2e908 3 роки тому +2

    Happy anniversary!! You channel is my absolute favorite

  • @lylataylor1407
    @lylataylor1407 3 роки тому

    y’all should have pushed them together! i’ve done it before it works. happy anniversary!!

  • @ItaliaDem
    @ItaliaDem 3 роки тому +3

    Ya’ll are awesome!! I follow you on all Socials and watch all the videos on the channel!! Keep being awesome and positive people!! 🥰🙌🏼

  • @madisonhurst2949
    @madisonhurst2949 3 роки тому

    When I started watching you guys you were at 30K! I can't believe that you're already at 500k! Congratulations! I can't wait to keep watching you guys grow!

  • @kathybagley2058
    @kathybagley2058 3 роки тому +6

    Happy anniversary Matt and Abby you guys are the cutest couple you're such a great husband you have such a beautiful wife Abby is so cute love her personality. Abby is an incredible wife may god bless you and your beautiful family xoxo

  • @rahiranade4103
    @rahiranade4103 3 роки тому +2

    Happy Anniversary! Y’all are amazing

  • @syifaapriani7510
    @syifaapriani7510 3 роки тому

    How touching when u guys say "working together" ..

  • @yakirasnoyman8221
    @yakirasnoyman8221 3 роки тому

    Happy Anniversary Matt and Abby!!!! To many more happy, adventurous and healthy years ahead❤❤

  • @Mayberry206
    @Mayberry206 3 роки тому +73

    “The butt crack of dawn”- Abby
    I will now be using this phrase! 😂

    • @pamelastevens7435
      @pamelastevens7435 3 роки тому +3

      I've always said that! Didn't think anything of it so it was neat to hear someone else use it lol

    • @MattandAbby
      @MattandAbby  3 роки тому +5

      It’s one of Abby’s favorite phrases 😂

    • @heatherlynsey3092
      @heatherlynsey3092 3 роки тому +2

      My dad just goes ahead and says the ass crack, anyone waking up that early has a pass to curse 🤣🤣😭😭

    • @johnnyspeed5885
      @johnnyspeed5885 3 роки тому

      You must be either non-American, or really young, haha...

  • @positivevibesfromthemckinn5629
    @positivevibesfromthemckinn5629 3 роки тому +5

    Awe y’all are so sweet! Me & my hubby just had our 9 year Anniversary June 22nd. 🥰

  • @jordanschmerbeck1230
    @jordanschmerbeck1230 3 роки тому +4

    My family has the tradition of bumping or touching the plane while entering too 😂 love you guys, Happy Anniversary!

  • @Emily-en7nc
    @Emily-en7nc 3 роки тому

    You guys are literally the cutest couple ever! RELATIONSHIP GOALS! I wish you another happy and successful year! 💚💜💙

  • @haileysparks8083
    @haileysparks8083 3 роки тому +5

    Aw I love your videos! Happy anniversary. Y’all are a beautiful couple

  • @gentryshannon212
    @gentryshannon212 3 роки тому +2

    You know Matt... it's the thought that counts haha :D Happy Anniversary you two!!!

  • @liyamooradian
    @liyamooradian 3 роки тому +3

    just started watching you guys this week… first real time update! 🥰

  • @landontripp1480
    @landontripp1480 3 роки тому

    I have been watching y’all for about a month or so now and I got to tell you, y’all are the cutest couple and have amazing vids. Keep up the great content.

  • @juanfelipe1530
    @juanfelipe1530 3 роки тому +1

    Yo! Am I on the only guy that watches Matt & Abby? Love your channel guys. You are a real inspiration to the kind of marriage I want in the near future.

  • @kalishay6883
    @kalishay6883 3 роки тому +1

    When you wait for Monday’s and Wednesday’s and they post on Friday 🥳🙌🏼👌🏼 Happy anniversary you guys!! We love you!!

  • @brynnabales7495
    @brynnabales7495 3 роки тому +108

    They could have moved the night stand and pushed the beds together

    • @MattandAbby
      @MattandAbby  3 роки тому +21

      Unfortunately the beds were bolted in place

    • @randyrowles1744
      @randyrowles1744 3 роки тому +3

      @@MattandAbby Twin beds: Sleeps one or stacks two 😉

    • @johnnyspeed5885
      @johnnyspeed5885 3 роки тому

      @@randyrowles1744: 😆

  • @softball_jaydin1431
    @softball_jaydin1431 3 роки тому +1

    I love y’all!! Hope y’all are doing great 🥰🥰 “goodbye dudes” and “what’s up dudes” is my fav. Part 😂

  • @YCt37689
    @YCt37689 3 роки тому +32

    Me when my English teacher says I need to be more descriptive: "I love the smell of air." 😂🤣

  • @lilyanbean1580
    @lilyanbean1580 3 роки тому

    I love you guys you guys are so cute together Abby didn't even get upset at him that was the cutest thing ever

  • @snowdrop_45
    @snowdrop_45 3 роки тому +1

    You guys just give super positive vibes in your videos n I love them!! ❤✨

  • @biancagranelli18
    @biancagranelli18 3 роки тому +1

    I wish y’all were there any time between June 2nd and June 12th! It would’ve been so neat to meet y’all!! I went on vacation to Maui and did the road to Hana, surfing lessons, scuba diving, attended a luau, and so much more. Hope y’all had just as an amazing time as I did!

  • @yasmineelashi4108
    @yasmineelashi4108 3 роки тому

    Happy Anniversary!! I’ve been watching you guys since the beginning of your TikTok/UA-cam journey. You guys are my favourite!! ♥️

  • @Johnny_Janitor
    @Johnny_Janitor 3 роки тому +3

    This does put a smile on my face