Judge Steve Harvey Gets Real With a Daughter Who is Suing Her Mother - Judge Steve Harvey

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  • Опубліковано 10 вер 2024
  • Judge Steve Harvey gets to the bottom of a case between a mother and daughter who started a business together and are suing each other. Watch 'Judge Steve Harvey' TUESDAYS 8/7c on ABC and Stream on Hulu.

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  • @ivybrooks6087
    @ivybrooks6087 2 роки тому +323

    I’m 74 years young and l still miss my Mom

    • @TheUneducatedTeacher
      @TheUneducatedTeacher 2 роки тому +3

      That'd beautiful
      KM Hemmans The UA-camr

    • @itzbobby4311
      @itzbobby4311 2 роки тому +6

      @@TheUneducatedTeacher bro did u just sign ur comment like it was a quote LOL

    • @diandrepree1527
      @diandrepree1527 2 роки тому

      @@itzbobby4311🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms 2 роки тому

      @@itzbobby4311 😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂

  • @SirGenesis206
    @SirGenesis206 2 роки тому +256

    I’m 37 and still won’t even curse in front of my mother. Idk the rest of the back story to this episode, but I hope that girl fixes her relationship with her mother and cherishes it.

    • @TheKenganKing
      @TheKenganKing 2 роки тому

      Sounds like your scared of your mom. Be a man.

    • @angelstar7656
      @angelstar7656 2 роки тому +13

      I slipped up and said 'damn' in front of my Mama while I was driving. I was over 50. I froze for a moment and then said oops and apologized. I don't even know if she heard me but I was taking no chances! 😅

    • @theinstituteofself-love5306
      @theinstituteofself-love5306 2 роки тому +7

      My mom curses like a sailor in front of me, sometimes I get those curse words, it took me a looong time to rebuild my confidence because some of those words destroyed my confidence. I never curse in front of her but I have done my mistakes too that broke her heart.
      So I say, both parties must respect each other, "handle with care" both children and parents are human beings.

    • @ghostadventureasmr6107
      @ghostadventureasmr6107 2 роки тому

      I do ....oops

    • @clashon4life843
      @clashon4life843 2 роки тому

      Why would you mention you don’t curse as if it’s something Good? It’s just pointless ☝️ And besides You’re not suppose to if you respect your mom! Smh 🤦‍♀️

  • @tatendachitowa8793
    @tatendachitowa8793 2 роки тому +115

    When he said "you have no idea what it it is to be a mother", I felt that. I have a 6 month old daughter who I love and cherish and gosh after I got her I realized before heaven and earth that my Mom truly is my number one heroe. #believethat. Thank you Steve.
    And to all the Mothers out there, Hats off for y'all. Godspeed.

    • @sent1169
      @sent1169 2 роки тому +2

      Why? Because you got pregnant and gave birth, that makes you a hero? Ridiculous!

    • @SweetPoisonvich
      @SweetPoisonvich 2 роки тому +2

      @@sent1169 she never said she was 🤷🏽‍♀️ she said her mother, if your mother is not your hero that's not her problem 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms Рік тому

      @@sent1169 🤣😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms Рік тому

      @@SweetPoisonvich well my former mother tried to stab her handicapped son with two steak knives recently - should she continue to be his 🦸🏾‍♀️

  • @SweetesSugar
    @SweetesSugar 2 роки тому +174

    Beautifully said Mr Harvey Gv me chills especially when you say she lost her today!!..I can testify to that cuz I lost my mom my life has never been the same 😫

    • @dassettahemmings4653
      @dassettahemmings4653 2 роки тому +6

      @Skittles ...can I tell you ...that is so true...about loss of a mom

    • @DarkAngel-cj6sx
      @DarkAngel-cj6sx 2 роки тому +8

      Never be the same ever. RIP mom

    • @tristastokes3252
      @tristastokes3252 2 роки тому

      Same…Life is so different #RIP

    • @darleneachille491
      @darleneachille491 2 роки тому +1

      Im very very sorry about that skittles! It’s the truth, my life is different, you just can’t help it!!! I have tears in my eyes now, i want to call her now…my mom died at 61, how old was yours?

    • @godschild5189
      @godschild5189 2 роки тому +1

      I lost my mother recently and my heart breaks daily. She loved us and sacrificed everything to make sure we had a great life. She was my best friend.

  • @keila7287
    @keila7287 2 роки тому +96

    I appreciate what Steve said but not all parents are good parents. He should’ve let them tell their side of the story before giving lessons to the daughter as if everything is her fault. Respect goes both ways.

    • @DebbieAkano
      @DebbieAkano 2 роки тому +8

      THANK YOU!! What is the backstory?!?! Because that matter. We don’t know if that mother did or did not do some messed up things or not, it’s just respect your mother. Not all parents are good parents and the court system has highlighted that thousands of times. I need to know what happened before I start preach ‘respect your mother’

    • @Karenfranco25
      @Karenfranco25 2 роки тому +3

      I don’t think she would be saying she wants to fix things with her mom if her mom was that bad. People really want to try and look for a horrible parent, instead of an ungrateful child situation.

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms 2 роки тому +3

      @@Karenfranco25 because parents are horrible most of the time, and don’t want to take responsibility for their own actions

    • @Karenfranco25
      @Karenfranco25 2 роки тому +3

      @@Proverbspsalms I guess it’s all about perspective and personal experience. I wouldn’t say parents are horrible most of the time because even though my parents made mistakes, like every human on this planet, they were awesome and I wouldn’t trade them for anything in the world. I know many of my friends and family members that feel the same about their parents. I also know that there are horrible parents that do horrible things to their kids, but that doesn’t mean I’m going to automatically assume every parent is a horrible one. There are a lot of kids that are great and there are assholes too. It can go both ways

    • @Karenfranco25
      @Karenfranco25 2 роки тому +1

      @@Proverbspsalms wow, I see what you mean. That’s horrible and my heart hurts for them and the others that go through that. When I joined the military and heard people’s stories was when I learned how horrible some parents were to their kids. But then my brother, grew up with us, same household and all was one of those kids that just always got himself into all kinds of trouble and grew up joined a gang stole things from the house to buy drugs, overdosed a couple of times when we moved to Puerto Rico and put my parents through hell. They kept trying to help him and all he did was continue to get himself into problems. So I always question the real motives when there’s some issues between parents and children.

  • @clefyoutube2648
    @clefyoutube2648 2 роки тому +67

    🙌🙌🙌🙌 Steve Harvey is for the world 🌎 we all needs him

  • @KingvGio
    @KingvGio 2 роки тому +41

    I didn't know he does this! 🤣

  • @Blaqluiqi
    @Blaqluiqi 2 роки тому +25

    Parents also need to respect their children. But nobody ready for that conversation. As a parent, I am raising my daughter differently than my upbringing. My mom did her best and I respect her for that but there are still scars. Be open to having that conversation and APOLOGIZING.

    • @Ducxie_Dulcie
      @Ducxie_Dulcie 2 роки тому +2

      Facts

    • @paulettepoole5476
      @paulettepoole5476 2 роки тому +1

      Nikole Powell
      I understand. But the Nible says to honor your Parents which is Respect. I do niece a Parent should never abuse or scar their children. But when you get a certain age you move out to your own.

    • @naturalbotanicalgarden4466
      @naturalbotanicalgarden4466 2 роки тому +5

      @@paulettepoole5476 the bible also says to parents, DO NOT irritate or provoke your children to anger.
      When children get mad and start cursing where does that come from? Did they just create a new form of communication or did they learn that as an acceptable way of venting from their parent? 🤔

    • @paulettepoole5476
      @paulettepoole5476 2 роки тому +2

      @@naturalbotanicalgarden4466
      Respect your parent. You will go a long way.
      People try to fall on that when they dont want to hear anything from the Parent. That scripture is so well taken out of context. It is not meant to be disrespectful to a Parent be cause you get mad. Children can get mad over everything. Parents are held to Parent.

    • @naturalbotanicalgarden4466
      @naturalbotanicalgarden4466 2 роки тому +2

      @@paulettepoole5476 a father that doesn't take care of his own is worse than an infidel. In what way can he be respected? Lean not on your own understanding beloved. When you don't know anything outside of your own level of understanding you will be unable to see things for what it is, not for what it appears.

  • @amremnant
    @amremnant 2 роки тому +473

    This is lovely, but some mothers are just evil and we have to acknowledge that too. I know of what I speak.

    • @seanjean9677
      @seanjean9677 2 роки тому +69

      Exactly. Having a baby doesn’t make you a deity.

    • @Bloombaby99
      @Bloombaby99 2 роки тому +12

      Agreed.

    • @Vincent_De_Chris
      @Vincent_De_Chris 2 роки тому +12

      It is only someone with a living mother says that. The moments she dies the evil you claim would be gone but by then you would be left with nothing but memories

    • @endeeyah
      @endeeyah 2 роки тому +18

      @@Vincent_De_Chris not when you don’t have any

    • @anneloren3586
      @anneloren3586 2 роки тому +4

      @@endeeyah sweety...u are bitter...sit down with your mother and ask her what happened..I bet she has a story to tell that will break your heart...and then you'll begin to understand why she did what she did and who hurt her and caused her pain..to not be there for you

  • @allyp1396
    @allyp1396 2 роки тому +38

    I hope the mother fixes her relationship with her daughter, not all mothers are as great as y'all in these comments are making it seem. God bless the daughter.

    • @susangraham6801
      @susangraham6801 2 роки тому +2

      I totally agree. A two minute clip doesn't even begin to explain the history these two women share.

    • @beckywilliams5908
      @beckywilliams5908 Рік тому

      They have! I just met her at Jiffy Lube and we spoke about the show. Things are much better now❤️

  • @gregorywatkins3350
    @gregorywatkins3350 2 роки тому +57

    This one hit home for me. My mother has been in heaven since 2006 and not a day goes by when I don’t think of and thank her and god for her being my mother. 😅I’m almost 60 years old and I am the man that I am as a direct result of her teachings.
    I just hope and pray that I have become the man she wanted me to be. I strive to be that for her every day. I dream about her at least 2 nights a week. When I awake, I smile and thank her for still being with me….if only in my dreams.

    • @aminaabshir1495
      @aminaabshir1495 2 роки тому

      Masha Allah baraka Allah. Great son.

    • @gregorywatkins3350
      @gregorywatkins3350 2 роки тому +3

      @raymo189 Thank you for your blessings, reading and replying to my post. She was one special lady in my life. I tried to raise my daughter in her image. She misses her grandmother too. We speak of her teachings often and cook the foods she taught us how to make😇

    • @gregorywatkins3350
      @gregorywatkins3350 2 роки тому

      @@aminaabshir1495 thanks for the reply.

    • @sasham3021
      @sasham3021 2 роки тому

      Your comment made me tear up. God bless you and her. You’ll see her again some day!

  • @charityskidd
    @charityskidd 2 роки тому +93

    I honestly hate the whole respect your mom anyway thing because some moms are very abusive and unhealthy. I know a lot of people misuse that word now a days but seriously some moms aren’t safe to be around physically or emotionally

    • @changwec1823
      @changwec1823 2 роки тому +5

      Just like some kids. There will always be rotten human beings in our society.

    • @gb3776
      @gb3776 2 роки тому +5

      Abuse does not seems to be the case here.

    • @fatumaaden2511
      @fatumaaden2511 2 роки тому +8

      Forgive your mother and the lord will be pleased with you

    • @floxy1924
      @floxy1924 2 роки тому +5

      You have no idea what it takes to be a mother, a motherhood is the most difficult task ever plus there's no manual for that. Just respect your mother if you ever wish to become a mother or a parent yourself plus if you want to have long life and be fulfilled in life.
      God bless you Steve for that advice.

    • @charityskidd
      @charityskidd 2 роки тому +7

      @@floxy1924 you don’t know me 💀 but okay

  • @christinewright8670
    @christinewright8670 2 роки тому +51

    EVERYONE, who still has their mother, please please please take those words to heart... "IF YOU LOST HER TODAY, YOUR LIFE WILL NEVER BE THE SAME!" It doesn't matter at all what you are going through with her, or how you feel about her or your situation at this moment, anyone who has lost their mother can tell you... When she is gone, your life is never again the same, and suddenly those disagreements and arguments seem ridiculous and you'd give anything to have her back! Take our word for it!

    • @racqueenus
      @racqueenus 2 роки тому +2

      😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @Terraaay
      @Terraaay 2 роки тому +5

      Mine has been gone for 29 years . Time didn’t make it easier . Cherish them while they’re here .

    • @gregorywatkins3350
      @gregorywatkins3350 2 роки тому +1

      Amen!!!

    • @victorluis9058
      @victorluis9058 2 роки тому

      Hello 🤗

    • @racqueenus
      @racqueenus 2 роки тому +8

      Please pray for me. It's heartbreaking at times when you try to do all you can for your mother and she sows seeds of division among siblings. I always overhear hee talking bad about me with my brothers, church members and you name it. I sometimes have to really tell my friends or church members please don't say anything good about me. It causes big problems at the house. I lost my dad 9 years ago, and I regret not honoring him while he was alive. Just pray for me y'all. There's so much pain in my heart that I can't even cry anymore. My teenage daughter is confused. She doesn't understand why my family hates me. I just keep my mouth shut and think about other things.

  • @catjohnson600
    @catjohnson600 2 роки тому +28

    I loved it....he gave her a hint twice about calling him Steve. He was aggravated with her.

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      @robertdbrooks3840 2 роки тому

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    • @robertdbrooks3840
      @robertdbrooks3840 2 роки тому

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    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms 2 роки тому +1

      Maybe his first two wives are aggravated with him

  • @marcirobins5144
    @marcirobins5144 2 роки тому +8

    Sometimes you have to give respect AND distance.

  • @almondbutter8997
    @almondbutter8997 2 роки тому +33

    Facts 💯 Steve you only get one,Mom, your statement brought tears to my eyes

  • @eddiemil88
    @eddiemil88 2 роки тому +78

    One thing I don't agree with is when people talk about how their parent(s) raised them as if they deserve an award. It is your DUTY under God to raise your children. And it is your duty as a child to honor and not resent your parent(s).
    A lot of parents (mainly mothers) like to hold the "I raised you" thing over their children's head as if they can literally do or say anything disrespectful to that child because of that fact. Doesn't work that way. That child will have a family of his/her own, and will be tasked with making sure his/her kids have a healthy and protected upbringing, and if that means cutting a narcissistic grandparent out of their lives then so be it!

    • @gregorywatkins3350
      @gregorywatkins3350 2 роки тому +1

      Sorry but I don't agree with with your comment. My mother did a fantastic job under extreme circumstances which was no fault of her own. And YES, she deserves the highest awards and accolades for her efforts. I can't speak on your experience with your mother because ur experience and mine seem to be at different ends of the life spectrum. I do wish you a happy and prosperous life.

    • @eddiemil88
      @eddiemil88 2 роки тому +7

      @@gregorywatkins3350 I understand how and why you feel that way, you love your mother, as do I. I still feel your mother simply did what she was supposed to do. We are all supposed to raise and love our kids, regardless of the conditions.

    • @NatsuDragneel1x
      @NatsuDragneel1x 2 роки тому +5

      @@gregorywatkins3350 They do not deserve rewards per se. I can't agree with that statement. Those who do it do it out of love for their children. Not for some sort of respect or rewards. I find that to be pitiable if they think that's what they did it for.

    • @canesugar911
      @canesugar911 2 роки тому +2

      @@NatsuDragneel1x i find it pitiable that you don't love your parents enough to respect or honour them. It goes both ways you know.

    • @canesugar911
      @canesugar911 2 роки тому +1

      @@eddiemil88 they are actually only supposed to give you basic needs. Everything else is an add on. Giving honour to whom honour is due will not kill you. Parents (especially moms) have the right to vent out frustrations (as per you original comment) because its not easy. If your parents were actually good parents, then have the decency to give them their flowers.

  • @priscillajimenez27
    @priscillajimenez27 2 роки тому +25

    I wouldnt down play what the daughter is saying. They're both adults. I would hear both sides first and then make my verdict. That's what many parents do to their adult children. They down play or brush off or disregard what their children are expressing because they still see them as a kid and their thoughts aren't valid. Steve is doing the same thing. Listen to them and then if need be then go on with that lecture.

    • @eventplanner461
      @eventplanner461 2 роки тому +2

      Exactly, we don't even know what she's suing her mother for. For all we know her mother could be toxic and may have hit her car with a bat out of anger and spite. Not all mothers are good or Saints.

    • @MiChelle-rb4dd
      @MiChelle-rb4dd 2 роки тому +1

      Whatever is the cause you dont need to sue your mother. Remember God’s 5th commandment. There are no clauses in it. Honour you mother and your father .

    • @FIyingDumpling
      @FIyingDumpling 2 роки тому

      @@MiChelle-rb4dd even if they are child abusers and molestors?

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms Рік тому

      @@MiChelle-rb4dd well you should read the entire verse. Stop leaving out the part that holds parents accountable

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms Рік тому

      @@FIyingDumpling oh, she’s not going to answer that

  • @sharonclay1311
    @sharonclay1311 2 роки тому +71

    So true my mother was everything to me it’s six yrs and I still miss her these young kids out here need to realize your mother is your best friend you will ever have

    • @lindagoins6937
      @lindagoins6937 2 роки тому +13

      ALL MOTHER'S ARE NOT THE SAME ANY MORE THAN , FATHERS , SISTERS OR BROTHERS...YES THEY COULD HAVE ABORTED BUT ITS ONE THING TO BE THANKFUL FOR LIFE AND ANOTHER TO STAND WHEN YOU HAVE BECOME A TARGET AND MOTHER STANDS WITH THE MAJORITY.. IT DOESN'T MEAN YOU DON'T LOVE HER,IT MEANS YOU LOVE YOU....NO BODYS PERFECT BUT WE HAVE TO GIVE IN ACCOUNT FOR THOSE ACTIONS... AND ITS HERE ON THIS EARTH ...IF WE HAVE NO CAUSE TO SEEK ACCOUNTABILITY....STEVE SHOULD BE DISMISSED,SERVICES NOT NEEDED.

    • @blackqueen67
      @blackqueen67 2 роки тому +2

      Yes indeed, THE best friend!! Mine has been gone 8 years. Its a hole you can't fill

    • @sharonclay1311
      @sharonclay1311 2 роки тому +2

      @@blackqueen67 Yes so true once their gone that’s it I have a hole in my heart that will never be closed

    • @milez_official
      @milez_official 2 роки тому

      i feel your pain , i lost my mom a year ago , it never gets easy

    • @ravenroes
      @ravenroes 2 роки тому +2

      uh that’s a lie lol

  • @kamalibrathwaite
    @kamalibrathwaite 2 роки тому +4

    Why do people look down on children that sue their parents? But not when a parent Sue their child?
    Right is right, and wrong is wrong!

    • @eventplanner461
      @eventplanner461 2 роки тому +2

      I wanna atleast hear why she's sueing her mom. I mean let's not dismiss her. Geez

  • @vivianmartinez6095
    @vivianmartinez6095 2 роки тому +12

    I hear you about some mother’s being evil. My Mom is mean spirited and cannot be trusted. It’s like I have no Mom. I’m doing my best to be a loving Mom to my two daughters

    • @zoewheeler3927
      @zoewheeler3927 Рік тому

      I'm grateful for mine. My mom works with children who have shitty parents period and the behavior carries over to the school.

  • @Adaobilinda123
    @Adaobilinda123 2 роки тому +8

    Relationship relationship my foot...dnt be blind with those who will cheat at last and break your heart...but mother love never never changes...they can lay down their life for her child ...miss my late mum😭😭😭😭

  • @awinephilemonpeter7507
    @awinephilemonpeter7507 2 роки тому +15

    I love judge Steve Harvey

  • @feleciakinmon5498
    @feleciakinmon5498 2 роки тому +59

    EVEN AT 22, SHE IS STILL YOUR MOTHER, DOESN'T MATTER THE AGE,🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @Maz-zb9uf
    @Maz-zb9uf 2 роки тому +2

    Respect works both ways

  • @Gwaycee
    @Gwaycee 2 роки тому +47

    A mommy is sacred. I have already forgiven my mother for all the mistakes she might even make in the future because she's the one person who has never given up on me even when I gave her good reason to.

    • @floxy1924
      @floxy1924 2 роки тому +4

      God bless you

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms 2 роки тому +5

      Forgiving doesn’t mean putting up with their toxic bs

    • @sent1169
      @sent1169 2 роки тому +2

      What makes a mother sacred?

    • @Gwaycee
      @Gwaycee 2 роки тому +1

      @@sent1169 I had to take a moment to sadly consider that anyone would ask such a question. I understand that not everyone has a good relationship with their mother, but anyone who ever experienced a mother's love knows what it means for her to be sacred. It cannot be described. It is experienced. It is felt. It is lived.

  • @oioi4199
    @oioi4199 2 роки тому +16

    Ayo when did he become a judge though 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @AMT008
      @AMT008 2 роки тому +5

      Bruh I literally just saw this on Hulu and was dying 🤣🤣

    • @themasterspiece5669
      @themasterspiece5669 2 роки тому +1

      I legit want to know the same thing like HUH?

  • @Marion-vu9nv
    @Marion-vu9nv 2 роки тому +19

    God that's so true lost my mother two years ago and it is true its never the same. Wise words from Steve 💗

  • @dixiemckenzie1554
    @dixiemckenzie1554 2 роки тому +14

    Well said Mr Steve Harvey 👏

  • @Aries659
    @Aries659 2 роки тому +7

    Oh wow! He feels so bad for the mother and yet took away a child from his mother (his own son!) Preaching is easier than practicing i guess!

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms 2 роки тому +1

      🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 💯

  • @CWS707
    @CWS707 2 роки тому +119

    No parents do not have a manual which is true. But, patents can have toxic ways for wanting respect but yet forget their child is grown. Can parents get stuck with behaviors that annoy their children? Yes, we can. This is not about her respecting her mom this is about a mom who knows her child from the surface and not in her adult life when much has changed. Yes, parents need to be quiet and own our mess so our children can heal. No excuses, no shaming and blaming just true honesty such as I'm sorry I hurt you please tell me what bothered you in that matter. Please share with me how I can do better in your space so I can know you better as an adult. I really am sorry please forgive me. Steve did not help he only made the daughter feel guilty. He made mom to feel as if she is not responsible in some way. We all have faults give advice for ownership not bull....!

    • @barbarahumphrey6194
      @barbarahumphrey6194 2 роки тому +2

      Thank you Steve. OMG Help is definitely needed. The truth shall set you free. I need answers, real answers. This generation needs real answers. Not threats nor disrespecting each other. More truth is needed. I love your show.

    • @bumblebee1554
      @bumblebee1554 2 роки тому +24

      I agree with this comment parents want to immediately throw the you changed card when I’m reality it’s true they don’t know our adult life ways anymore just the kids way .

    • @gabrielleford5856
      @gabrielleford5856 2 роки тому +12

      I didn't see the full show just this little snippet. However, as both a daughter, and a mother of 6, who is currently navigating through life with my oldest who is now a young adult... I can say you both are absolutely correct. God bless and take care!

    • @360returns2
      @360returns2 2 роки тому +4

      For her to bring her mother to court in itself is crazy, nowadays kids want things to be spoon fed to them.

    • @CWS707
      @CWS707 2 роки тому +20

      @@360returns2 Most kids truly don't want to be spoon fed. They want understanding of themselves from said parent. The understanding includes how they learn, how they hear, their thoughts and feelings. Many parents don't know their child's favorite colors, foods, dislikes and likes. Parents have been conditioned to having child to just do as they say and all else can wait. There normally is no examples of the how, why, what, and where to help the child to navigate what is requested and expected. Parents have more patience with lovers, social media, cellphones and hanging out than enjoying the gift and blessing that their child truly is. No matter what parents need to identify that we drop the ball for parenting more frequently than we can admit. Too bad that it takes for the child to get in the early teens and young adulthood for the mess to hurt and bring discomfort to parent. Parents will blame child as if it was the child's fault that they had to work to provide for their necessities, and for their enjoyment and more. Since when did taking ownership for doing the best you can as a parent become an excuse not to apologize? Children need to heal and it certainly would help to listen and consider their feelings more often whilst they are growing up so when they are adults there can be a mutual respect and honoring of mother and father.

  • @Onechance_ngl
    @Onechance_ngl 2 роки тому +12

    Feeding and providing shelter is not enough. That has nothing to do with a real emotional connection to someone. Some parents want their respect because parenting is hard and rightfully so but don’t think your child will always feel loved and close to you just because you fed them.

  • @khemrajsankar3448
    @khemrajsankar3448 2 роки тому +6

    Well said listen even for me. Thanks Steve Harvey 👍

  • @user-qp2st6fd7c
    @user-qp2st6fd7c 2 роки тому +5

    Wow this man has such wisdom I lost my mom 2 years ago it changed my life , I can’t be the same person again

  • @hollywoodkev3822
    @hollywoodkev3822 2 роки тому +23

    Honor thy Mother and Father 🙏🏽

    • @ms.gracefullybroken8724
      @ms.gracefullybroken8724 2 роки тому

      CHECKMATE

    • @Abena425
      @Abena425 2 роки тому +1

      And it shall be well with you!

    • @dorislee7997
      @dorislee7997 2 роки тому

      💒😊FYI "on or they Father and they mother"-kjv

    • @dorislee7997
      @dorislee7997 2 роки тому

      💒😊 FYI May I correct please... Honor they Father and thy Mother that they days may be long upon the land which The LORD thy GOD has given thee. See... it works for your benefit too!
      You wanna die young???
      Keep it up okay. Much love & wisdom of the aged. Be Blessed.

    • @dorislee7997
      @dorislee7997 2 роки тому

      💒😊 The misspelled WORD is "thy"

  • @sarlandobriseno3894
    @sarlandobriseno3894 2 роки тому +5

    I had no idea Steve Harvey was a judge on tv and that makes me so happy, I want to watch more!!

  • @JRenee-Sings
    @JRenee-Sings 2 роки тому +2

    "Judge Steve" ??? Huh, what did I miss! I clicked so fast! I'm shooketh! LOL

  • @TDB1BCBG
    @TDB1BCBG 2 роки тому +33

    Respect is earned not given. I don't know the full story but before someone can respect you, have to respect YOURSELF. If the mother has toxic ways, the daughter has EVERY right to respect herself by not engaging with her mother. It breaks my heart how we get stuck on titles of people to invalidate another human emotions and feelings. Stuff like this can run deep in the fact that her mother could be jealous of her, want to still control her even though she's an adult, etc. You don't invalidate a human being feelings because of freaking titles! Mother, father, Supervisor, Manager, police officer doesn't automatically give you RIGHTS to NOT CHECK YOURSELF AND BEHAVIOR FIRST.

    • @mogotladilamola1862
      @mogotladilamola1862 2 роки тому +5

      Thank you for saying that!!

    • @Bloombaby99
      @Bloombaby99 2 роки тому +3

      Glad somebody said it.

    • @mogotladilamola1862
      @mogotladilamola1862 2 роки тому +1

      @okraklia🌸 you are loved by Hod ad this shall come to pass ❤ everything happens for a reason. If you want a solution pray about it and ask for discernment from God. I'll keep you in my prayers 💫

    • @MiChelle-rb4dd
      @MiChelle-rb4dd 2 роки тому

      @okraklia🌸 please don’t lose hope. Keep doing the good things. There’s no need for your mother to recognize that. We have a Father in heaven who perfectly loves you. And that is the most important. God bless you.

  • @Elvis-hy2fl
    @Elvis-hy2fl 2 роки тому +3

    I love how many people nod theyr head, when.Steve says parents also make mistakes

  • @LAmommy
    @LAmommy 2 роки тому +8

    “Honor thy mother and father and your days on the earth will be long…” It’s biblical folks!
    You can honor your parents and remove yourself from the equation if the situation is dangerous/volatile.
    “Father’s do not provoke your children to wrath.” Is biblical as well. Everyone is held accountable. 😊

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms 2 роки тому

      You are the first person who put the whole scripture in there. Not cherry pick. Yeah some situations, well they end when you remove yourself from your mamas wicked stupidity

  • @godswalkingmiracle162
    @godswalkingmiracle162 2 роки тому +4

    Preach Steve Preach yes lord you are so right Amen 🙏 🙌 praise God 🙏 🙌

  • @r_elyaqub8214
    @r_elyaqub8214 2 роки тому +8

    Your mother gave you half of her beautiful genes, carried you for nine months in her belly, took care of you since the day you came into this world. If she doesn't do anything else to you again after all these, she does not deserve for you to drag her into court.

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms 2 роки тому +2

      @A p well people have a right to feel how they want to feel. You don’t know their story. Steve isn’t qualified on this subject

  • @delilahgillis5287
    @delilahgillis5287 2 роки тому +7

    AMEN

  • @KARANVANIYA
    @KARANVANIYA 2 роки тому +19

    This whole general thing of "mother stood by your side" is a huge fallacy. Those mothers sideline and alienate fathers and then claim that they did everything and struggled and survived single handed.

  • @ruiekodunn6969
    @ruiekodunn6969 2 роки тому +24

    No parent is owed anything. It is a huge bonus if your children turn out to be great, loving, caring human beings. Cherry on top of they start to take of you. However, no parent is owed because no child asked to come into the world, that was the parents choice. It was their duty to take care the best care they knew how, of their children. Now, oftentimes the parents who think they're owed something, are the ones who have scarred their kids in some way. The daughter has feelings as well as the mother. Nobody's feeling should be put above the other. They're equally important. With that said, I'm not taking my mother to court, unless it's something that has to, Like involving children or something.

  • @Jenw.
    @Jenw. 2 роки тому +39

    I don't like this at all lol. He didn't even hear the story out. A mother/parent doesn't automatically equate to "right" and a child doesn't automatically equate to "wrong".

    • @LonghornsLegend
      @LonghornsLegend 2 роки тому +1

      Look who you're watching it's Steve Harvey lol did you think this would go like a real court room?

    • @adilboss224
      @adilboss224 2 роки тому

      Lemme kindly interject, I used to have some negative issues with my dad over some imperfections in his parenting, one day our Imam said, a man came to the prophet Muhammad Peace be upon Him complaining about his dad misusing or not returning the funds he has lent him. The prophet Peace be upon him gave just one answer without any delay, He said to the man, you and your wealth belong to your dad. No more debate about that.

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms 2 роки тому +1

      Exactly

  • @wowso4
    @wowso4 2 роки тому +6

    I never knew Mr Steve Harvey was a judge 🧑‍⚖️ so impressive.

    • @larabraver
      @larabraver 2 роки тому +4

      Not a real judge, just TV “Judge“. 😀 His rulings are not legally binding.

    • @michaelharris7820
      @michaelharris7820 2 роки тому

      I don't know if I could take Steve Harvey seriously as a judge because he's always a funny guy

    • @wowso4
      @wowso4 2 роки тому

      @@larabraver oh really? Why is he allowed to call himself a ”judge” isn't that misleading? also, is Judge Judy just TV judge too? I love her show.

    • @larabraver
      @larabraver 2 роки тому

      @@wowso4 Judge Judy is a real legal judge. As long as one is not trying to defraud the public and it is clear that it's for entertainment, anyone can call themselves doctor, judge etc. Think of rappers, basketballers and other entertainers' nicknames.

    • @marcirobins5144
      @marcirobins5144 2 роки тому

      Really? He plays one for TV.

  • @Allinmyworld
    @Allinmyworld 2 роки тому

    Space, time and understanding is what they both need

  • @janekitenye399
    @janekitenye399 2 роки тому +5

    Wait until the day she'll wakeup n the mother ain't there ,that's when she will realise the importance of a mother coz boy its a different kind of emptiness.

    • @gregorywatkins3350
      @gregorywatkins3350 2 роки тому

      No truer words written. It’s been 22 years since my mother passed away. The emptiness gets tuff at times. Especially around the holidays and Mother’s Day😢

  • @phyliss9024
    @phyliss9024 2 роки тому +3

    Well said! Fantastic

  • @Brolo214
    @Brolo214 2 роки тому +3

    How many jobs does a man need before he’s satisfied? 🤣

  • @rrl_3787
    @rrl_3787 2 роки тому +3

    Steve Harvey is all around 😂

  • @Adaobilinda123
    @Adaobilinda123 2 роки тому +1

    If your mum doesn't understand...beg her to do...cry to her to win her heart...her importance in ur life cannot be replace

  • @Aries659
    @Aries659 2 роки тому +2

    Steve shld not be a judge as if his life is perfect!

  • @mugoxmugox
    @mugoxmugox 2 роки тому +5

    The daughter sues her mother and yet it is her responsibility to fix the relationship, not Steve's nor her mother's. It is just an effect of a variable called time

  • @0H9D
    @0H9D 2 роки тому +3

    Snap Snap!!!!!
    Kids/Children just don’t understand. But if you keep livin’ long enough, you will. One day, I called my parents from 900 miles away just to say thank you for loving me & all that you have ever done for me, because I had realized that e’rybody wasn’t brought up with loving parents, family, etc etc etc. We weren’t rich & sometimes had to make do, but the one thing we always had was LOVE & LOVE trumps all😀.

    • @gregorywatkins3350
      @gregorywatkins3350 2 роки тому +1

      True. Mom had our backs even in the worst of times. All 6 of her children.

  • @abbybu9757
    @abbybu9757 2 роки тому

    Am going to call my mum. God bless all mothers and fathers give us all the grace to honour and respect them

  • @sinavaitululeupolu1455
    @sinavaitululeupolu1455 Рік тому

    It's sad this case because I lost my mom to cancer in 2019 n I miss her everyday. Ril mom n ty for everything

  • @ursaamajorr
    @ursaamajorr 2 роки тому +3

    Why is Steve Harvey a judge? 🤣

  • @basicdose.9872
    @basicdose.9872 2 роки тому +2

    Are you kidding me. He's a judge now.

  • @soulstrength
    @soulstrength 2 роки тому +2

    He could have started here, and that's all he REALLY needed to say! 1:43

  • @erikarobinson3557
    @erikarobinson3557 2 роки тому +2

    Not Steve Harvey as a judge!😂🤣😂

  • @distorbia20
    @distorbia20 2 роки тому +13

    Personally I would never sue my mum even if she was rotten. I would just love her from a far but still offer my greetings and bite my tongue. That is my mum. Even if she is rotten she has went through a lot to birth me carry me and the sleepless nights.

  • @latoniayoung1057
    @latoniayoung1057 2 роки тому +1

    You only get one mom. I miss mine it’s been 11 years. Thanks Steve for talking to that young lady 🙏❤️

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms Рік тому

      Steve can’t even stay married, so he’s not qualified to speak on this. Honestly he doesn’t have a dog in the fight. He needs to leave that crap alone - because he doesn’t know what people go through behind closed doors. Our business is not out in the open like his. For some of us - the 1 we have will not be missed. Ask my handicapped former brother who finally woke up, and got a backbone 2 months ago. (I bounced and refused to kiss her behind 13 years ago) After my former mother tried to stab him with two steak knives. Should he listen to you and adulterous Steve, or the cops who said don’t take your butt back over there- no matter what she needs. People who always say that crap and try to force relationships that are already Damned and there’s no salvaging them, trying to make others feel guilty. They are the reasons people end up in the grave (parents, and children) . So y’all need to quit playing God and leave it alone

  • @journeijones1429
    @journeijones1429 2 роки тому +5

    Sorry but when did steve go to LAW SCHOOL?

  • @sunflowerreeve1346
    @sunflowerreeve1346 2 роки тому

    Very true one mother only...no one can replace mother's..so pls treasure your mother's... Very special 💕💜💚💙

  • @Tiff-vi9kx
    @Tiff-vi9kx 2 роки тому +1

    It every mother is worthy of respect. Sometimes they’re toxic and don’t deserve it.

  • @minahtheweirdo
    @minahtheweirdo 2 роки тому +1

    I didn't know he was a judge lol omg

  • @ChrysWhite77
    @ChrysWhite77 2 роки тому +29

    The woman that gave birth to me abused my siblings and I, cursed and beat us every chance she got, chose men over us attempted to and in a few case succeeded in pimping out her daughters and even abandoned us. We spent about 6 years in an orphanage.
    Even with all of that, I never once disrespected her, my other siblings surely cussed her out when they got the chance but not me. I just can't do it.
    I still visit her but not for long periods because she's still toxic as hell. But she gave birth to 11 children so that warrants some kind of respect. I think.

    • @seritawilkins2889
      @seritawilkins2889 2 роки тому +5

      I pray God heals every wound and every hurt caused by your mom towards you & that you eventually are at peace with the why in Gods purposeful path for you in Jesus name Amen

    • @ChrysWhite77
      @ChrysWhite77 2 роки тому +6

      @@seritawilkins2889 Thank you. The healing has begun. It's a long and slow road but God is good.

    • @seanjean9677
      @seanjean9677 2 роки тому +10

      That’s you. Everyone can’t do that. Children are people too. And if you’d decided not to deal with your mother at all, that would be ok too. And to say the mother has to spend every time with their children…ummmm that’s their choice. She had the baby.

    • @LivingMyBestAlways
      @LivingMyBestAlways 2 роки тому +10

      My mother abandoned me at 4 years old to perfect strangers she treated my siblings bad 7 brothers 1 sister gave away most of us. Non of us has ever disrespected her. As I got older I was there for her didn’t have any ill feelings towards her. I come to realize she didn’t have love growing up so she didn’t show love she was raise by her aunt. So get where you’re coming from. I love the lady I’ve become regardless of the cards I’ve been dealt

    • @clashon4life843
      @clashon4life843 2 роки тому +11

      @@ChrysWhite77 You’re mom was just toxic And just because she had 11 children that doesn’t Warrant Respect! It Warrants Irresponsibility Especially If She’s Going To Treat Her Children Like Shitz! My Best Advise Is To Forgive Her For You! But Nothing About What You Shared Exemplifies Love ❤️ Children Need To Be Loved 🥰 And Nurtured! She Was Selfish To Have 11 Children With The Audacity Not To Love ❤️ Them!!! I’m So Sorry 😞 You And Your Siblings Had To Endure 😣 Such Hate! Because Only A Hateful Heart 💔 Would Do That To Their Children! We Should Bring Children Into This World 🌎 With Every Intent To Love ❤️ Them! This My Dear Had Absolutely Nothing To Do With Love 💗 My Heart ♥️ Hurts 💔 Smh

  • @Teddygrow
    @Teddygrow 2 роки тому

    I am saving this video for my 10 months old baby girl!

  • @jw4295
    @jw4295 2 роки тому +6

    You cant really take this serious

  • @lynnmariedavis5343
    @lynnmariedavis5343 2 роки тому +8

    I miss my mom something terrible 😢 seeing that casket close is something you can't get back when you was around your mom so much. I was around my mom so Darn mom and yes my life is not the same.

  • @redayvn
    @redayvn 2 роки тому

    Am I the only one that notices Doc, that Evelyn Braxton on BFV? 😳🤔😂😂😂 He looks good.

  • @Eli-kq7qt
    @Eli-kq7qt 2 роки тому +2

    I’m sorry but when did Steve Harvey become a judge or a legal mediator?

  • @daniaa1602
    @daniaa1602 2 роки тому +2

    Imagine being a judge but not being a judge when you could actually hire a judge but I'm not gonna judge

    • @Jenw.
      @Jenw. 2 роки тому +1

      😭GET Out👉🏼🚪

  • @richardcalisi9188
    @richardcalisi9188 2 роки тому

    my mom past in march of this year....Lost my dad in 2020. I have no one to look up to now...and im 46. Miss them

  • @brittneyhall4000
    @brittneyhall4000 2 роки тому +3

    i like youer vidoes make me smile

  • @jenivadiamonds8523
    @jenivadiamonds8523 2 роки тому +2

    I lost my mum August 2019, and I still feel lost. I will probably feel lost for the rest of my life🥺🥺

    • @rosbetzhanje9508
      @rosbetzhanje9508 2 роки тому +1

      I understand your pain it is not easy loosing a mum am in the same boat . No day passes without shedding tears but when l think she gave me all, her best and instilled values that shaped who l am today l cherish the time God allowed us to be together now she is in heaven with Jesus. Take heart.

    • @jenivadiamonds8523
      @jenivadiamonds8523 2 роки тому

      @@rosbetzhanje9508 exactly 🥺…take heart too🫶🏾

    • @rosbetzhanje9508
      @rosbetzhanje9508 2 роки тому

      @@jenivadiamonds8523 Thanks

  • @darnelldrake9661
    @darnelldrake9661 Рік тому

    Being a judge is no suprise to me about Steve. I'm only suprised it didn't happen sooner. He's very wise. He's the male version of former Judge Mablean of divorce court

  • @maudriehicks8423
    @maudriehicks8423 2 роки тому +2

    Facts

  • @virajsakariya
    @virajsakariya 2 роки тому

    They have to come to the show to understand this much simple thing??😂😂 God bless america

  • @venitomendivil2533
    @venitomendivil2533 2 роки тому

    Steve Harvey now a judge 😆

  • @jordan5162
    @jordan5162 2 роки тому +1

    When did Steve Harvey become a judge lol??!

  • @relaxationmusicbodyandmind6265

    Great respect to Steve

  • @donaldreese9939
    @donaldreese9939 2 роки тому +9

    What these young brothers and sisters don't understand is that your mother is a gift from God and when you disrespect and mistreat your mother God does not approve of that your life will be miserable for disrespecting her signs and symbols for the conscious mind

    • @Madmarcagan
      @Madmarcagan 2 роки тому

      God and religion don’t even exist. Some made up bullshit to substitute the unknown. Used as a tool by the powerful to control the least sophisticated of our population.

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms Рік тому

      But parents can do whatever they choose, be the root cause of their child being a demon, and you’re honestly that blind to think God is not going to hold them accountable. Maybe you should pick up a Bible and read past that honor thy mother and father verse/ because I can promise you it keeps going

  • @darkman7010
    @darkman7010 2 роки тому +1

    What the heck? He's a judge now. 🤦‍♂️

  • @monalouise6996
    @monalouise6996 2 роки тому

    Judge - when did that happen? I’ve been away too long 😆👏🏾

  • @ashajeremiahqw8775
    @ashajeremiahqw8775 2 роки тому +1

    How he a judge now 😂

  • @brandonshannon2815
    @brandonshannon2815 Рік тому

    Love this guy!!

  • @theinstituteofself-love5306
    @theinstituteofself-love5306 2 роки тому +3

    Nobody gets a manual, both children and parents.
    I always tell my mom, this is a two way street relationship, I respect you, you respect me.
    Parents and children should be patient with each other, we are all clueless.

    • @seanjean9677
      @seanjean9677 2 роки тому

      Yes!!!! Two way street

    • @aurielle.g
      @aurielle.g 2 роки тому

      You know what gets me? When people say there is no manual on how to be a parent? Have you ever searched to see if there was a manual? Because there are books and one great book The Holy Bible on how to be a better person and better parent. People who say “there is no manual” I would bet didnt even look for a manual. Of course these books wouldn’t cover every aspect or situation but they would sure help.

    • @theinstituteofself-love5306
      @theinstituteofself-love5306 2 роки тому

      @@aurielle.g I agree with you Aurielle, I love the Bible too, I love it more when me and my mom read it together, the problem starts when people especially in the African culture parents forget to read the verse that say "Parents don't provoke your children"

    • @aurielle.g
      @aurielle.g 2 роки тому

      @@theinstituteofself-love5306 exactly. That’s wonderful that you and your mom read the Bible together. ❤️

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms Рік тому

      @@aurielle.g well, the whole problem with that is parents, 100% of the time try to hold that honor thy father and mother scripture over children’s heads as they do their dirt. They will never in 1 million years. Read the rest of the scripture that hold them accountable as well.

  • @TheShmileyDawg
    @TheShmileyDawg 2 роки тому

    Okay, HOLD UP!
    Which genius at ABC came up with the idea to give Steve Harvey a judge show? Because just the concept is hilarious.

  • @onlylordknowz9555
    @onlylordknowz9555 2 роки тому +5

    If he a real judge or this just for tv...

  • @kaycoles1879
    @kaycoles1879 2 роки тому

    Facts. I lost my mother this January. My life hasn't been the same. Sad face 😞 😢

  • @ritawick9421
    @ritawick9421 Рік тому

    Excellent!!!!

  • @bigpoppa0206
    @bigpoppa0206 2 роки тому +31

    I would never sue my mumma because of two reasons. First reason, I have too much love for her. Second reason, shes Samoan and tough as nails. I reckon she would whip me in front of Steve Harvey 😂😂😂😂

    • @hollywoodkev3822
      @hollywoodkev3822 2 роки тому

      😂😂😂

    • @ft8078
      @ft8078 2 роки тому

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @yaganomabaatuolkuu3702
      @yaganomabaatuolkuu3702 2 роки тому +1

      Sounds like my Ghanaian Mum. Five years gone and I miss her like crazy. I'm a mum now and wishing I could ask her for advice.

  • @tyrahhall8402
    @tyrahhall8402 2 роки тому

    He's a Judge now😂

  • @NoobPatel
    @NoobPatel 2 роки тому +1

    I have to say that was pretty deep 🤔

  • @JM-kr3sy
    @JM-kr3sy 2 роки тому +1

    I tolerate my mother. Who knows what's has been said and done

  • @Joseph-zd7kg
    @Joseph-zd7kg 2 роки тому +2

    How is Harvey a judge if he doesn't have a law degree. make it make sense.

  • @msb1410
    @msb1410 2 роки тому +7

    Well said, Steve!💯👏 This is primarily the reason I don't watch TV anymore, is because of the poor moral character within our society, without someone taking a stand against it.
    The bible is clear when it says to respect (Honor), your mother and father, so your life will be long in the land, and you will have great success. It also says that parents are not to give their children reason to wrath, but the majority of time the children are just disrespectful.
    I'm so proud of Steve for speaking up and restoring integrity in this discussion, so others can learn from this.
    God bless you, Judge Steve Harvey 🙏🌹
    The only reason I'm subscribing to this channel, is to watch this show. 🕊️