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  • @dummlp
    @dummlp Рік тому +1464

    That's a pretty good representation of adhd. None of that quirky nonsense.

    • @bethgoode1227
      @bethgoode1227 Рік тому +39

      I mean I have adhd and I’ve never been described as quirky lmaooo

    • @bethgoode1227
      @bethgoode1227 Рік тому +2

      @@itsmeeeeeeeeu Oh fairs

    • @y2kaestheticss
      @y2kaestheticss 5 місяців тому +44

      @HassaanZone having adhd is a freaking trend now

    • @acooliemoore
      @acooliemoore 4 місяці тому +2

      Frrrr

    • @AdanC-fs8jw
      @AdanC-fs8jw 4 місяці тому

      I'm quirky

  • @LeoMcKernan-v2t
    @LeoMcKernan-v2t 11 місяців тому +716

    Dean might be a joker and a bit of a tearaway, but you can tell he genuinely cares about Kelly Jo.

    • @Abuqital2000
      @Abuqital2000 4 місяці тому +15

      Thats why he cheated on her, he cares too much

    • @katie54377
      @katie54377 3 місяці тому +3

      Fr

    • @melonydivineq
      @melonydivineq 3 місяці тому

      🙂 really? ​@@Abuqital2000

  • @peachesandpoets
    @peachesandpoets 4 місяці тому +237

    Oh sweet baby. This made me cry. I've never been loved, not even by me ma. I can't imagine this compassion. Very sweet. Look for this, young people. Someone who listens

    • @princessbamigboye
      @princessbamigboye 3 місяці тому +11

      I love you, dear, even if I've never met you.
      And Jesus loves you, so that's more than enough, even if it seems like others don't 🫂🩵

    • @megxme_
      @megxme_ 3 місяці тому +2

      I love you so much

    • @HebrewsElevenTwentyFive
      @HebrewsElevenTwentyFive 2 місяці тому +6

      Psalm 27:10
      When my father and my mother forsake me, then the Lord will take me up.

    • @udontevenwannaknowbruv
      @udontevenwannaknowbruv 2 місяці тому +1

      I sincerely hope you will find your compassionate person. 🤗 That’s what we all want isn’t it? Especially those of us with ADHD ❤️

    • @MTJ305
      @MTJ305 2 місяці тому

      Sorry

  • @Njay0
    @Njay0 5 місяців тому +703

    I was so disappointed in him because he seemed to really care about her and then he cheated on her but I'm glad Kelly Jo didn't forgive him

    • @BGriff-
      @BGriff- 2 місяці тому +8

      People that love/care about you can and will hurt you. We are humans.

    • @unfiltered8407
      @unfiltered8407 2 місяці тому +52

      @@BGriff- that's NOT love.

    • @BGriff-
      @BGriff- 2 місяці тому +1

      @@unfiltered8407 Then no one has ever loved anyone. It is possible to love you AND hurt you. At least that’s what I believe.

    • @unfiltered8407
      @unfiltered8407 2 місяці тому +36

      @@BGriff- Cheating shows that you don’t LOVE a person. It’s a selfish decision>selfless decision. If you willingly make the decision to lie and betray someone you claim to “care about”, then you don’t give two craps about them and they aren’t that important to you. You chose yourself over their feelings and well-being. That’s NOT love.

    • @BGriff-
      @BGriff- 2 місяці тому

      @@unfiltered8407 We are having 2 different conversations. I didn’t say cheating. But I hear you tho.

  • @TheJade1977
    @TheJade1977 Рік тому +191

    Oh thats so cute of dean whatever he is he's always there for Kelly Jo whenever she needs it 😘

    • @LeoMcKernan-v2t
      @LeoMcKernan-v2t 11 місяців тому +4

      I agree. He might be a joker and a bit of a tearaway, but you can tell he genuinely cares about Kelly Jo.

    • @Njay0
      @Njay0 5 місяців тому +32

      Not when he cheated on her

  • @rosaruiz4591
    @rosaruiz4591 4 місяці тому +263

    That was actually well done. I was expecting something stupid like him with a laser pointer and her acting like a cat or something lol. ADHD is like this, sometimes everyone just needs to be quiet and leave you alone.

  • @nickonyt1558
    @nickonyt1558 2 місяці тому +60

    That hits home, ppl don’t get how noisy the world is . Sometimes all we need is silence for a bit to catch our breath .

    • @Hana1LuLu
      @Hana1LuLu 2 місяці тому +2

      And getting that with quiet, patient company is a highest level of rare treasure

  • @dianatrueman5858
    @dianatrueman5858 2 місяці тому +9

    This scene proved how sweet Dean can actually be. He really does care about her

    • @jazzygrace2730
      @jazzygrace2730 Місяць тому

      Didn't he cheat on her tho so he doesn't atucally care about her cause if you love someone you don't cheat he's so not sweet

    • @dianatrueman5858
      @dianatrueman5858 Місяць тому

      @@jazzygrace2730 he cared in that moment

    • @ADANLOVESME
      @ADANLOVESME Місяць тому

      ​@@dianatrueman5858 ALWAYS SEEN HIM AS NERDY

  • @sierraferrin6887
    @sierraferrin6887 2 місяці тому +14

    Anyone else realize this is how they have been feeling

  • @aminadieng503
    @aminadieng503 2 місяці тому +9

    Aww she’s listening to a dua🤍

  • @JaydenTunde
    @JaydenTunde 3 місяці тому +68

    So basically, sensory overload to the point where you are hardly functional 😮?

    • @dps8629
      @dps8629 2 місяці тому +21

      Yeah, sensory overload happens to people with ADHD just like people with Autism, though less often. We often need to have stimuli, but there is a definite range with which we can be overwhelmed. It's very difficult to explain how stimuli can suddenly change. Sounds become booming, smells intrude like strangers in your home, lights can cut through everything in your head like a knife and crowds are exhausting because you have to pay attention to as much as you possibly can all the time involuntarily. Someone you love who you enjoy can hug you and it be one of the most wonderful experiences but it can be so oppessing it feels like all of your insides are being squished and liquified as your emotions, sensations and sense of self all take flight from any point of contact.

    • @JaydenTunde
      @JaydenTunde 2 місяці тому +3

      @@dps8629 I experience it sometimes but I've never been to a therapist or psychologist. To the point where I can hardly form coherent thoughts or process information around me

  • @WardNightstone
    @WardNightstone 4 місяці тому +74

    sometimes you can intake 5 diffrent info streams at ones other times one person talking while you try and think through something is too much

    • @APrettyLilTarot
      @APrettyLilTarot 4 місяці тому +4

      This. I’ve actually had silence be too loud 😭 …it’s very difficult to explain.

    • @dps8629
      @dps8629 2 місяці тому +1

      @@APrettyLilTarot It's been a while since I last experienced that but yeah, it was an awful experience.

  • @Lucario0007
    @Lucario0007 7 місяців тому +63

    I have her headphones but black and red

    • @sunny-my9ng
      @sunny-my9ng 6 місяців тому +10

      cool!

    • @ningowo2306
      @ningowo2306 3 місяці тому +2

      I do too! Mine are a sea green and white

    • @Lucario0007
      @Lucario0007 3 місяці тому +3

      Those headphones broke now I have JBLs

  • @ronsilcock8874
    @ronsilcock8874 9 місяців тому +20

    2 love birds xxxxxxxxxxxx

  • @weego2585
    @weego2585 Рік тому +70

    That title is mad.

  • @freddy5fingers490
    @freddy5fingers490 Рік тому +20

    The wee man

  • @fabricofdreams.
    @fabricofdreams. 3 місяці тому +10

    Gosh this is adorable ❤

  • @solarix8042
    @solarix8042 3 місяці тому +59

    Am I crazy or is she listening to Quran or a dua

  • @steam_jane5580
    @steam_jane5580 Місяць тому

    This is the cutest scene, just being comfortable to be together and be the silence someone needs.
    It's nice that he tries to work out what's wrong and help her through her overwhelmed feeling, even if before it hadn't gone perfect with the fire.

  • @MoïsePicard-ef8fr
    @MoïsePicard-ef8fr 2 місяці тому +2

    What a beautiful girl?

  • @DariaRosie
    @DariaRosie Рік тому +21

    What movie/series is this one? I would love to watch it

  • @k1988smith
    @k1988smith 2 місяці тому +4

    I forgot in some places in the UK "Us" is used to me. First heard it on Wolf Blood and was confused AF.

  • @APrettyLilTarot
    @APrettyLilTarot 4 місяці тому +27

    🤍✨
    ppl underestimate the power of a safe, strong, calming presence

  • @wanderingshadow1372
    @wanderingshadow1372 2 місяці тому

    The revival has been absolutely amazing. I don't know why people are complaining about it so much.

  • @mamoudaziz3522
    @mamoudaziz3522 2 місяці тому +24

    Ok girl she listening to Quran ok 👌 girl I see you we see you

  • @RafReyes1993
    @RafReyes1993 2 місяці тому +1

    Yah this is overwhelming.

  • @FunnyVideoWorldYT
    @FunnyVideoWorldYT 2 місяці тому +4

    Hasbiyallahu la illah illa huwa wahu rabillilarshil aleem playing in the phone

  • @JakeTylenol
    @JakeTylenol 2 місяці тому

    As someone diagnosed with ADHD I don’t know if this is an ADHD thing.

  • @patricknjagi703
    @patricknjagi703 2 місяці тому +1

    Run dean ruuuuuuuun

  • @LaurynClarke-z6q
    @LaurynClarke-z6q Рік тому +12

    what episode is this?

  • @NetashaMcclure
    @NetashaMcclure 4 місяці тому +12

    What the name of this tv show or movie?

  • @StudioPlus555
    @StudioPlus555 Рік тому +6

    Blood change

  • @Princess_unicorn229
    @Princess_unicorn229 3 місяці тому

    What’s this called?

  • @Victoria-_
    @Victoria-_ 2 місяці тому

    Aww!

  • @amandagoodtime7751
    @amandagoodtime7751 3 місяці тому

    I’m still trying to figure out where to watch and what it is called been asking my fam but no one knows it

  • @sanaanjum4182
    @sanaanjum4182 Рік тому +12

    اپنی زندگی کا ایک ہی اصول بنا لیں ، کہ آپ جنت کے لیے بنے ہیں،💦 دنیا کے لیے نہیں بنے،🍁 اور جو لوگ جنت کے لیے بنے ہوتے ہیں نا، وہ دنیا کے ہاتھوں جہنم کا سامان اکٹھا نہیں کرتے، بلکہ وہ دنیا سے بہت بچ بچ کر چلتے ہیں آرام آرام سے🍂 تاکہ پلِ صراط آسانی سے پار کر سکیں🍃❣️۔
    اللَّهمَّ إنِّي أسألُكَ الجنَّةَ، وأَعوذُ بِكَ منَ النَّارِ.... 🤲🏻💦💗

    • @victorrain
      @victorrain 2 місяці тому

      Was she listening to this passage?

  • @lucygwama9641
    @lucygwama9641 2 місяці тому

    Name if show

  • @Ben6164
    @Ben6164 Рік тому +16

    I'm sure Waterloo Road was good back in the day.

    • @S_J_banana
      @S_J_banana Рік тому +4

      It was

    • @Ben6164
      @Ben6164 Рік тому +2

      @@S_J_banana Clearly, not anymore.

    • @TheJade1977
      @TheJade1977 Рік тому +2

      It really was u know u should watch it deffo

  • @RafReyes1993
    @RafReyes1993 2 місяці тому

    🤷
    I am over about thinking about the meet up. Just show up and I'm always ready. But idk about you.
    You keep telling me you're coming but you didn't show up.
    Now you're making up issues that we didn't have.

    • @RafReyes1993
      @RafReyes1993 2 місяці тому

      If you're somewhere thousands of thousands miles away from the ph and for some reason you can't get here or you just can't why play mind games?

    • @RafReyes1993
      @RafReyes1993 2 місяці тому

      I am big on transparency and open communication but you're making this harder than it should be. 🤦

  • @AdanC-fs8jw
    @AdanC-fs8jw 4 місяці тому

    This is me

  • @Chakras.N.Chasers
    @Chakras.N.Chasers 2 місяці тому

    Mabu???

  • @ssuwandi3240
    @ssuwandi3240 Рік тому +2

    Abs baggage..

  • @Soulgazer999
    @Soulgazer999 3 місяці тому

    yup

  • @fracchia1457
    @fracchia1457 3 місяці тому +1

    Coran and bf ??

  • @HA-jq1mu
    @HA-jq1mu Рік тому +14

    Is she a muslim, im so confused

    • @rorymckernan8502
      @rorymckernan8502 Рік тому +42

      No, she's not a Muslim.
      She has ADHD, she went in there to calm down. ADHD is where you get paranoid, nervous, hyper, aggressive etc.
      Your emotions sometimes get the better of you, and your behaviour becomes out of control. It's worse sometimes when your in a crowded place, because that is the paranoia.
      So I assume, she goes in that room, to calm down, because it's nice and quiet, and the music she's listening to, is quite soothing. Relaxes her.
      The previous series, she had a meltdown in the classroom.
      I could be wrong, but that is just my guess.

    • @HA-jq1mu
      @HA-jq1mu Рік тому +27

      @@rorymckernan8502 but she wasn’t listening to music, she was listening to an islamic prayer

    • @rorymckernan8502
      @rorymckernan8502 Рік тому +7

      ​@@HA-jq1muoh OK. I don't know why.
      My guess is, the voice is soothing, and making her relax.

    • @Lotts413
      @Lotts413 5 місяців тому +64

      The room that’s she’s in is a prayer room for Islamic students. One time when she was overwhelmed she burst in there because she didn’t know where else to go and someone was praying. She sat there and listening to him saying his Islamic prayers was really calming for her. So in this clip that’s where she went and she listened to prayers through her headphones. After this she got her own sensory room

    • @HA-jq1mu
      @HA-jq1mu 4 місяці тому +33

      @bonziaaron5059 great for you, dont know why you decided to tell me that as if I asked. Dont worry you haven’t hurt islams feelings, we dont care

  • @nybrand
    @nybrand Рік тому +5

    🤢

  • @Cherrygaming199
    @Cherrygaming199 Рік тому +3

    Omg I'm first!

  • @user-vr3mr5eu7y
    @user-vr3mr5eu7y Рік тому +7

    Chick needs to get with it. Adhd is no excuse

    • @morganhames
      @morganhames Рік тому +113

      Mate you have no idea. I suggest you think about what others go through before you speak

    • @user-vr3mr5eu7y
      @user-vr3mr5eu7y Рік тому +5

      @@morganhames I have ADHD, I'm also a incomplete quadriplegic. Excuses generally are lameo

    • @user-vr3mr5eu7y
      @user-vr3mr5eu7y Рік тому +3

      @@morganhames maybe u have no idea.

    • @teresacieslak5874
      @teresacieslak5874 Рік тому +7

      @@morganhames I have adhd too, you don't know!

    • @SaviourInDistress
      @SaviourInDistress Рік тому +2

      ​@@user-vr3mr5eu7y sure you are

  • @dmp9609
    @dmp9609 2 місяці тому

    Adhd is just bad parenting. Dude should've walked out.