I respect that they chose to talk about their personal issues because I feel some young girls have a high fairytale expectation of marriage. Marriage will Always have its ups and downs. May you both be blessed always In’sha’Allah❤️❤️❤️
sorry but people's opinions on divorce is annoying me so much. my mum endured my dad having an affair simply because people were telling her that "divorce shouldn't be an option, think of how that would make you look like as a person" ???? alhamdulillah they've been divorced for over 8 years now and my mum found the RIGHT person for her. why is talking about divorce such a big deal literally the muslim community get so petty about everything, we NEED to know about these serious issues.
sumu! Cheating on your partner and having issues in your marriage are two completely different things. The word divorce is disliked by allah. Shaitan on the other hand loves it so whatever issues one has in marriage that option should be last. I can understand discussing divorce if your partner is cheating.
sumu! Obviously you talk about divorce if theirs abuse or someone has cheated. But talking about it over small problems that can easily be resolved is ridiculous and it's not normal to talk about it all the time. Divorce is generally what people talk about when theirs serious issues that can't be resolved like cheating and abuse not over little misunderstandings.
lubzz akh many sahabas got divorced. you don't know what goes on behind closed doors for you to sit down and make a judgement of how small or big an issue is. just because it is disliked by Allah, doesn't mean He made it haram to discuss about openly. the prophet SAW wouldn't have explained elaborately about it if it was.
kirsty Sneddon divorce isn't good of course but my point is that people act like it's such a taboo to talk about. people need to know about it, the disadvantages and advantages etc. it's just like any other issue, it needs to be taught about. coming from the background i do, many women are silenced. you may not even be happy in a marriage without getting abused or cheated on. what is the point of a marriage when there's no spark in it? of course over time you become companions but attraction should always be there.
sumu! Behind closed doors? They are discussing it openly that's the problem here. Which is uncomfortable to watch because most of us don't want to see them break up. The way they discuss what will happen to hana etc makes me sad. I have been in that situation and know how hard it can be to even imagine separation from the one you love unless you are actually thinking about it and have discussed it loads of times.
if things do come near a divorce I think you guys should save your marriage and stop making UA-cam videos and displaying your beautiful marriage on social media as evil eye is real. rather save your marriage
i agree. nasr is definitely real. i wish muslim youtubers in this day and age knew how evil eye can literally tear your whole life apart but people are too ignorant. and honestly people divorce over the smallest things sometimes. like why if you truly care about the person then the love will develop naturally.
Adrienne Samantha it's basically when people envy someone...and when someone envys another person it can effect their lives...so if person A is out there boasting about their money, house family, job, cars, beauty, etc and person B envys person A then person A gets effected by it 2bh
Why there is such a negative stigma on divorce? Some people, mainly women, have been through hell and back in their marriages they are forced to stay in them because getting a divorce is seen as being equivalent to a sin . It isn't a sin in Islam, it's not liked, but it's not a sin. If divorce was less shamed there'd a lot more stronger women in the Muslim community. It's surprising how annoyed so many people are getting over the mention of divorce, I really hope we don't have another generation of women too scared to stand up for themselves in their marriages so they choose to live a life of abuse.
Soniya Mushkil I wish I could like this comment more than once! Some of the comments on this video completely missed the point. There all just stuck on that one word divorce and making ridiculous assumptions.
My dad was a really bad husband. He brought my mum to England, and then left her to fend for herself. He didn't give my mum a penny, she had to work instead to feed and cloth us. But every day he expected 3 meals a day, he used our house phone to make international calls and racked up the bills bad, always going through my mum's purse looking for money even though he had a successful running business, he would never miss a moment to insult my mum in front of family at any wedding, party, eids or even just a small get together with family. Thats not even the worst bit, turns out he had a second family. An English wife and kids. They got all his love, attention, money, while we had to do his cooking, cleaning, stand and listen to him swear at us. When my mum would sit with our family on Eid or any occasion my dad would call up and tell her to go home because his second wife is coming. His second wife didn't even like any of our family she used to come out of spite because she knew my mum would have to leave. I could go on and on with countless stories of what my dad put my mum through. But she still put up with everything even when he hit her because of all the reasons you mentioned above. She was scared to be without a man. But staying with that man caused her and us so much misery, it wasn't worth it in the end. My mum pretty much did everything my dad should've been doing anyways, she was working & doing all the run arounds, even though she was new to England, couldn't speak any English, had little education & had to bring up 3 kids the eldest being 11. If divorce wasn't so badly stigmatised, if women were given more encouragement and help my mum wouldn't have needed to go through everything she did. I bet there's millions more women like my mum and I hope Allah gives them the strength to break out of these kind of abusive marriages. I'd rather be without a man than be with an abusive one.
Sumi sum My Aunty got a divorce from her abusive husband and she’s the happiest woman in the world now with her 4 kids :) but it probably helped that she has become extremely wealthy setting up her own business. With her ex hubby she was a shadow of herself and lost herself. It was tough but divorce was the right choice- she’s enjoying the single life and living it up.
Sumz 17 that's because their taught by society the world revolves around them and their the greatest thing since sliced bread so they don't like it when their ego is bruised because they expect to be right all the time and automatically be better because their men
Sid is so similar to my husband. His mannerisms and general demeanour seem so familiar that I can understand how he’s feeling. He’s really come into his own and they do say boys mature later so I feel like side personality is changing and growing. He’s wanting to branch out and do different things etc. Dina has matured and now is in a happy place with Hana and she’s settled. I feel like Dina had her juvenile stage and now wants stability in life. She’s happy to go with the flow for a while. Then again I’ve psychoanalysed two people I don’t know based on a short video. :D I think the most important thing in marriage is that Shaitan doesn’t want you both together and he gets a lot of joy when a marriage breaks up. Don’t let him win.
It’s good you shared the bad side in your marriage as many people would have thought you both are one of the happiest couples going! May Allah grant you both a long life together filled with success and happiness and protect you from evil eye
Personally I don’t think speaking about divorce is healthy, just my opinion here. I think any issues or problems should just be spoken about with your partner, communicating is key, I think divorce should be a last option. Me and my husband talk about anything bothering us and any issues were having like you mentioned you both also do, but never have any one of us brought up divorce and inshallah I hope it never comes to that, may Allah bless your marriage Sid and Dina💗x
Lex Elisha maybe I got the context in which they’re saying it wrong but I personally don’t think mentioning divorce after an argument is reasonable... I would only mention ending my marriage if there was real problems that weren’t getting resolved but that’s just the way I am, I would think differently about my husband if he ever brought up ending our marriage tbh as I would think that’s ‘breaking point’ just my opinion xxx
I agree...When my husband and I have problems I never mention divorce...and neither does he. We love each other too much to live without each other or be with other people. But I did tell him before we got married, and I said it once more after, the only reason I would leave is if he hit me or abused me, cheated (which he would never do) or abuse our kids. I know people dont like bringing that stuff up... but that was the reality for my mother and the reality for so many women.
Agree!! Talking about your probleem does not equal talking about divorce. If you talk about divorce it will be always an option. And i dont think it should be a normal option because its always the last last thing.
Everyone is complaining about Dina interrupting Sid, but that's just you're fucked up idea of woman/male roles probably. They're having a conversation. They're interrupting each other and that's normal in a conversation you both want a say in. I also think it's very healthy to be realistic about your marriage and I appreciate Sid and Dina put this video up!! Keep up the great work
Stakkie Jones thank you! I agree...seriously. its never ever a good idea to bring it up because unless there are serious problems you cant resolve like abuse.
I agree that divorce should not be something regularly discussed. But I think the message they gave in the beginning was that the couple should never be so distant that eventually divorce becomes the only option and then it’s a shock for both. Communication is key. Also pre marriage counseling in today’s times are a must!
I agree completely. It's not healthy to talk about divorce often, because you risk divorce becoming the 'easy way out' of difficult situations in a relationship that otherwise simply needs nurturing and special care.
No I think it entirely depends on the couple and the dynamics but everyone's lying if they say they've never thought 'my life would be easier if I just left' or even 'i don't need to put up with this' is a round about way of contemplating divorce even for a second. In some couples they are able to and prefer to have openness and honesty in others you probably have individuals who are sensitive to the topic or patient enough to push it out of their minds. The risk is there is one sensitive spouse and the other spouse is just bottling up their feelings, and emotionally becoming distant. Therefore they advised better out than in. If you're not saying it you might be thinking it and if you're only thinking it then you have to deal with it on your own. most people can't do that all the time. They need to share and resolve.
I love how they're so open about stuff, most couples try to hide. Like everyone fights. Everyone has wondered at one point if they still want to be in that relationship, and if it's a healthy relationship. Genuinelly admire you for talking freely about such stuff that shouldn't be anything to be ashamed of anyway. Btw both ofyou guys are looking really good ayeaye
It's important not to feel trapped in any situation, and so I understand why it's healthy to ask "wait, do we still want to be together?", and then evaluate that, keeping in mind that you do want to be committed to the other person for life, if life allows. It's about remembering that there are two separate people in the relationship, and respecting each other's wants, needs and differences. Glad that yall talked about it.
I agree with the person who mentioned the Law of Attraction. I found that when I started uttering the word "divorce" as if it was an easy option and saying the word in a flippant manner after silly arguments, we were closer to actually getting divorced. Now our intention is to stick together (as we don't have major issues like abuse etc) and so we are healthier in our marriage. We don't discuss divorce as if it's some easy get out clause. Hence Law of Attraction - you attract what you think about most of the time.
Wow I'm really surprised by the comments. What you all said about divorce is really great. When you notice yourself wondering where the relationship is going, don't just let it go there. Bring it up with your partner so that you can both do something about it. This video was about maturity and real life, not some "happy" youtube couple who pretends everything is perfect all the time. I love this and pray for all the best between you two for years to come. Also the image quality of the video is amazing.
this video was so important, marriage is about ups and downs and good days and bad days. every couple i know has talked about breaking up/divorce and its a very natural and normal thing. marriage is not cutesy couple youtube videos and insta posts of romantic getaways, props to sid and dina for keeping it real
Sabrina omg NO SID DID NOT COMMENT ON DINAS CONTOUR! What u know about contouring game Sid!??!! Lord have mercy. All women need a Sid hubby. He knows parenting cooking moving and makeup application ! I’m Sids number 1 fan
All you people analysing this video trying to find something wrong, what's your deal? Saying Sid looks sad and his eyes look sad, and Dina keeps interrupting him? They literally said in another video that even though they keep it real on camera we still don't know anything about their real life. And Sid doesn't look sad, he looks his usual quiet self, maybe a bit tired, and Dina looks like her usual loud chipper self. You know they read these comments so stop trying to create problems
If y’all get merch plz don’t let it be expensive like $30 for a damn t-shirt. So that way I can get some stuff and I’m sure I’m not the only broke subscriber y’all have lol
Sana Atta 10 is too cheap, it's not practical. I think 15-20 is a brilliant price for a hoodie. Like come on, they're not gonna sell a hoodie for 6 quid lol
I’m so glad I can see some real parts of a marriage bcz I see cute stories all over the internet while I got a lot of issues in real life ! Thanks for the honesty
Also, I wish you two the best in your coming videos. Sid, I love all the work you do for your family, for Dina etc. Your rap moved me, and your filming and editing is really wonderful--I hope it takes you places! Dina, I love you free spirit and your thoughtfulness. You have such a great sense of fashion and design--keep up your great work please! I hope yall keep remembering to admire one another, because Lord knows we are out here admiring you two. We see how great you two are, but it doesn't matter that we see it; it matters that each of you sees it in the other person. I hope you two cherish and respect one another as much as you can, while still maintaining strong faith in Allah and remaining strong within yourselves. God bless you both!
To those weird, childish, and immature comments saying this video is "off," or has a weird vibe, or that they should be discussing this privately, WTF? Have you never had an argument or a fight with your spouse? On top of that, what is pissing me off is THERE IS LITERALLY NO FIGHT IN THIS VIDEO. THEY ARE HAVING A NORMAL DISCUSSION ABOUT HOW TO TREAT ONE'S EX SPOUSE AFTER A DIVORCE AND EVEN ON THAT TOPIC, THEY ARE IN AGREEMENT! Some couples can't even agree on who should do the chores and this couple (Sid & Dina, mashallah) even are on agreement on the etiquette of divorce. Who is the weak couple now?
I love you Dina and Sid but you guys should try let each other finish talking first instead of constantly interrupting each other, especially by shouting. Listen to your partner and THEN point out your views. I can see how Sid was annoyed with Dina trying to interrupt, and vice versa. May Allah bless you both and I hope you will meet each other halfway.
I get how you’re trying to be nice and not coming from a bad perspective I respect that but I believe every couple is different and maybe they’re more like friends and that works for them? They don’t seem to have a problem w it since they’ve been doing it forever and they’re such a cute little family mashallah some people are more talkative than others like myself. I’m not tryna have beef here or anything just my opinion ❤️
Very true. As much as we think that people dont care, but its important to let people finish their thoughts. Imagine being interupted alllllll the time, over the years it will make you explode from feeling not respected and heard
It's the only thing that puts me off this channel....Dina's habit of interrupting and talking over Sid.......and if he carries on trying to make his point, she just talks really loudly so he eventually stops....... Sorry, but it seems really disrespectful, as though she thinks her views are more valid than his. Hopefully she doesn't think that way though and doesn't mean it that way.
Looking at the comments, I think this video is a bit too real for some of y’all. These are regular hypothetical questions that a couple that has been together for long would ask themselves. In life you have to always expect the unexpected, and be prepared,and especially since they’re parents. This is great content lol plus they clearly said they aren’t on the brink of divorce so let’s chill y’all lol.
they literally said it, the move was really hard on sid, he went a bit off and got really ill afterwards. I'm assuming is most likely the after effects from that.
Personally I think it’s great that you’re speaking about this topic. It’s breaking down the barriers and there could be woman or a man out there feeling like they’re trapped in a marriage only to save face. It’s not a bad thing and it certainly doesn’t mean your life is done with.
I really really admire the honesty they show in regards to marriage and moving house and all other real-life things while still being as funny and charming as they usually are
Yay so happy to see you again😍 I don't get the bad vibes some here are talking about, I just see that you guys are really comfortable and open with eachother. It inspires me because my parents didn't seem to have that good communication (they divorced after 20 years of marriage. Norwegian, not religious for anyone who wondered). Excited for more advice videos, love to just listen to your thoughts on different matters😁 And btw you look amazing (both)👌🌞
Respect for u guys for being so honest. Marriage is not easy and it is the love and dedication that you have for each other is what will keep you together. I know that's what's kept me and my hubby together for 15 years even though sometimes I can't stand the guy lol
Yeeees! continue to talk about real things, I love your honesty. Every, EVERY marriage has problems and the more unrealistic we are, going into a marriage, the bigger the chance it will be miserable. I totally support you talking about real things because Instagram and UA-cam only make things seem nice but they are not. Reality is different...and "normal" is so overrated. We have different normalities in our marriage, beliefs expectations, jobs and it is fine.
Definitely missed you guys but I feel this video’s topic was a little unnecessary- almost felt like I was eavesdropping on you two. In my opinion, divorce shouldn’t even be an option. I do believe in the law of attraction and so long as you two have made divorce a “viable” option and an ongoing topic, the more susceptible you are to actually getting divorced. Its also easier said than done, this isn’t a non-marital relationship where the “breakup” route is the norm. Im sure if you guys actually parted ways, neither of you would be able to handle it. Just count your blessings and cherish every moment. All the best x
i think it better to have everything in the open and just know that divorce is option but last resort thing. its better to have a divorce then to stay in a unhappy marriage. i think sid and dina are being realistic especially when it comes to divorce because you can best mates with your partner one minute then suddenly it can all go to shit. so its better to talk about it before it gets to that point. i agree that you should count your blessings when it cones to marriage though.
I have been happily married for 21 years.we have never discussed divorce. I am amazed that you are evaluating your marriage so early on. Wishing you much love 💖
18:02 Please please Sid publish the song that was in Eid 2017 lookbook in the beginning I loved it and regularly I go back to the video to listen to it 👏🏻👏🏻
Definitely appreciate you guys opening up like this it's deffo not easy. The way you talked about divorce makes it seem like you've both been heavily thinking about it. Especially sid. Stay strong guys
Good topic. I love the free flow of this video. It really shows you two communicate, joke, and have fun together even while just having a conversation.
I don’t know how I wasn’t subscribed to your channel together! I so very much love and respect this video- and I appreciate that your title really was what the content in the video. So often, UA-camrs give titles to their videos and it’s, well, clickbait, and they might say once in the video that they “evaluated their marriage” in it, but they don’t actually really talk about it; but you guys did, and I love it. I love how just candid this video was. ❤️
oh my god I LOVED this video and i love you guys, and it WAS about time you came back on here and i'm gonna stop fangirling now cause if my friends see this comment it's gonna be embarrassing! BUT all jokes a side you guys talking about all these relationships and talking about your own is SO helpful you have no ide! A lot of people actually truly like the conversations and topics you bring up in your questions videos, they're honestly more important than you think. Although the authenticity of the actual stories and questions you get is questionable, it's quit irrelevant. Because those things actually happen and is a struggle for many young muslims and young muslim couples. MY POINT with this long ass comment is KEEP DOING THESE VIDEOS they are important conversation starters within the muslim community, thank you! 😅🙈❤️
How about Merchandise for Kids+Family. Like matching hats, T-shirts or hoodies for parents and children. Dina once said how she would like to design some matching mother+daughter fashion. This would be very cute.
Millions of thumbs up to you guys for having this video. Many couples here on UA-cam are just acting, everybody is scared to cover these topics. Sometimes couples think they are the only ones having a fight and it is Not normal.
you guys are the sweetest people and may ALLAH tala keep you both together forever. Ameen you both are actually my inspiration of how to keep a marriage peaceful and full of happiness and fun.
I like this video it's honest. In long term relationships this topic has flown around many times. Ur right Sid. But yet people are still committed to each other. Maybe opposites do attract. Or the journey has been so long, that deep down there is a rooted respect and friendship that one does not want to let go of. As it's not all doom and gloom. So many good times. Is the grass greener on the other side. Maybe not. It's natural to get on each other's nerves now and again. This would happen if you lived with a friend, family member or anyone for a long period of time. There's also personal change that we are going through. We are reflecting on everyone around us even blaming them for what's not right. Instead of looking inwards. NB let each other finish a sentence 😂 Good partners, good friends and love are not easy to find. When u got it. Recognise it and roll with it. Or u might end up lonely or with sloppy seconds 🙏👍🤓
I am 32 yrs old been married for 15 years. Marriage is not easy! Takes a lot of patience, sacrifice, respect, communication and genuinely caring about the other persons point of view. Respect and letting the other person be themselves is a big thing and goes along way.
Sid is so nice and he puts his all into this relationship and honestly i admire the man he is and hanna is so lucky to have such a great male figure to look up to
I love you guys and I know in ever marriage it's normal to have problems even really big problems but it's rare to hear couples say "if we get divorced... " cause like, if you can imagine living without someone then I don't think you're compatible, or in love. If that makes sense... I always sensed a tension between the both of you but who am I to have a say in your marriage. I just wish you both happiness and success
dance555 i was just thinking that - im not sure it's healthy for a couple to discuss divorce as a what-if situation so often and in such detail. Better to talk about the issues rathet than the get-out clause
Yes Sid & Dina merch!! Sid is a sick rapper! He killt it in Dina’s photo shoot. Sid should really pursue rapping! Would be so awesome to hear. Genuinely! Love you both🌹
Potential ideas - half turtle neck tops to wear under lower cut top in diff designs and patterns - scarves in certain colors like a collection of beige/choc/sandy-desert - layering clothes in diff patterns - EARRINGS statement ones for hijab wearers - hoodies (preferably with no cheesy slogans, maybe like a small logo in the corner)
Marriage always has ups and downs. Back in the day, you never heard of divorces and I feel you will run into problems as well with a new person. And then what, you just keep going from one person to the next. I feel these days people just give up, and it's so common nowadays which is unfortunate. Just my opinion for what it's worth.
Kimberly Mayfield because divorce just wasnt an option most of the time. My grandmother is married almost 50 years and she said it herself many times that if she could go back in time she would have never married my grandfather. And a lot of her friends said the same. They are so deeply unhappy so I personally think the way things are these days is a lot better. People wont stay in marriages that are simply not working these days and that's good
parisa amany In general I feel people these days don’t take their marriage vows as serious today. In general. You have celebs who are marrying and then divorcing like it’s nothing. And I mentioned celebs because they’re in the public but it happens a lot for everyone. It’s a big decision not a rash one. Something you should pray about beforehand. Of course there are exceptions and I’m not speaking on every situation but just generally. Of course I feel there are instances when that is the only option.
Kimberly Mayfield true. Having a break when things get tough is also a good idea instead of just ending a relationship. A couple of weeks to clear your mind let's you see the good you have in your relationship and gives you a better idea on how to work on differences you and your partner may have. And if or when you get into an argument you will be able to work through it with a better understanding as to how to go about the situation.
Yeah, it's so prevalent these days. And growing up in a family that was divided, it affected me as a child in a big way. I had a step-father who was not nice to me, and I suffered a lot as a child because of it. My mom wasn't even aware fully of everything. On the other hand, my cousins had their mother and father united in the home, and it was different for them. Now today my cousins have their children, and it's nice that the family is still united. And believe me my aunt and uncle went through many difficult times in their marriage. Even so difficult that they even considered divorce as well, but my grandparents stepped in and kind of said, listen lets try and work things out. If it weren't for my grandparents, maybe they would have ended in divorce. Now years later, they are very happy, and probably very glad they stuck in there. Actually, I know they are because my uncle always talks so sweet about my aunt and I can see how much he loves her. He says he loves her more and more as years pass. And the love is mutual. Have they changed as individuals, yes of course that's growth. But they still love each other and honestly it's a beautiful marriage.
i love how openly you guys communicate with each other... and if you guys were ever to divorce I'd cry, even though I don't personally know you it would really make me cry. Stay awesome guys! May Allah continue to strengthen your marriage.
I think it's super important to evaluate any relationship you are in. My boyfriend and i have been together for 7 years now and at around 5 years at that point i was in college and he wast starting his new career and we both sat down and had the talk of like well what are we doing? where are we going from here? you always have the be on the same page as your partner and if you aren't you have to deal with that how it fits for you. whether that be going your separate ways or making sure you two are on the same path. I think people who always say gosh i feel so STUCK in this relationship or the relationship is not going anywhere that's because there is no open communication of wants and wishes for the future. I'm really glad you guys touched on this! that's awesome.
Love how everyone here speculating on their divorce and I'm like this is chilled vibes Sid and Dina always bring being open to discussion. Just because you discuss divorce doesn't mean you want it to happen it's just showing stronger communication skills and making sure everyone is on the same page.. :) xx
I respect that they chose to talk about their personal issues because I feel some young girls have a high fairytale expectation of marriage. Marriage will Always have its ups and downs. May you both be blessed always In’sha’Allah❤️❤️❤️
khan s IA🤲🏼
sorry but people's opinions on divorce is annoying me so much. my mum endured my dad having an affair simply because people were telling her that "divorce shouldn't be an option, think of how that would make you look like as a person" ???? alhamdulillah they've been divorced for over 8 years now and my mum found the RIGHT person for her. why is talking about divorce such a big deal literally the muslim community get so petty about everything, we NEED to know about these serious issues.
sumu! Cheating on your partner and having issues in your marriage are two completely different things. The word divorce is disliked by allah. Shaitan on the other hand loves it so whatever issues one has in marriage that option should be last. I can understand discussing divorce if your partner is cheating.
sumu! Obviously you talk about divorce if theirs abuse or someone has cheated. But talking about it over small problems that can easily be resolved is ridiculous and it's not normal to talk about it all the time. Divorce is generally what people talk about when theirs serious issues that can't be resolved like cheating and abuse not over little misunderstandings.
lubzz akh many sahabas got divorced. you don't know what goes on behind closed doors for you to sit down and make a judgement of how small or big an issue is. just because it is disliked by Allah, doesn't mean He made it haram to discuss about openly. the prophet SAW wouldn't have explained elaborately about it if it was.
kirsty Sneddon divorce isn't good of course but my point is that people act like it's such a taboo to talk about. people need to know about it, the disadvantages and advantages etc. it's just like any other issue, it needs to be taught about. coming from the background i do, many women are silenced. you may not even be happy in a marriage without getting abused or cheated on. what is the point of a marriage when there's no spark in it? of course over time you become companions but attraction should always be there.
sumu! Behind closed doors? They are discussing it openly that's the problem here. Which is uncomfortable to watch because most of us don't want to see them break up. The way they discuss what will happen to hana etc makes me sad. I have been in that situation and know how hard it can be to even imagine separation from the one you love unless you are actually thinking about it and have discussed it loads of times.
omg the quality is so clear... dina your makeup is amazing mashallah
if things do come near a divorce I think you guys should save your marriage and stop making UA-cam videos and displaying your beautiful marriage on social media as evil eye is real. rather save your marriage
N A so trueee
i agree. nasr is definitely real. i wish muslim youtubers in this day and age knew how evil eye can literally tear your whole life apart but people are too ignorant. and honestly people divorce over the smallest things sometimes. like why if you truly care about the person then the love will develop naturally.
100%% they need to reconnect!!
What is the evil eye?
Adrienne Samantha it's basically when people envy someone...and when someone envys another person it can effect their lives...so if person A is out there boasting about their money, house family, job, cars, beauty, etc and person B envys person A then person A gets effected by it 2bh
I just have one thing to say "I hope and pray you guys are always together and Happ together"
Afra M oh shundori
Bproductionz8 kitha go sokina
*w/w* *w/w kitah horeh
Sool hatyah ditam nee
Ameen
Inshallah
Why there is such a negative stigma on divorce? Some people, mainly women, have been through hell and back in their marriages they are forced to stay in them because getting a divorce is seen as being equivalent to a sin . It isn't a sin in Islam, it's not liked, but it's not a sin. If divorce was less shamed there'd a lot more stronger women in the Muslim community. It's surprising how annoyed so many people are getting over the mention of divorce, I really hope we don't have another generation of women too scared to stand up for themselves in their marriages so they choose to live a life of abuse.
Soniya Mushkil I wish I could like this comment more than once! Some of the comments on this video completely missed the point. There all just stuck on that one word divorce and making ridiculous assumptions.
My dad was a really bad husband. He brought my mum to England, and then left her to fend for herself. He didn't give my mum a penny, she had to work instead to feed and cloth us. But every day he expected 3 meals a day, he used our house phone to make international calls and racked up the bills bad, always going through my mum's purse looking for money even though he had a successful running business, he would never miss a moment to insult my mum in front of family at any wedding, party, eids or even just a small get together with family. Thats not even the worst bit, turns out he had a second family. An English wife and kids. They got all his love, attention, money, while we had to do his cooking, cleaning, stand and listen to him swear at us. When my mum would sit with our family on Eid or any occasion my dad would call up and tell her to go home because his second wife is coming. His second wife didn't even like any of our family she used to come out of spite because she knew my mum would have to leave. I could go on and on with countless stories of what my dad put my mum through.
But she still put up with everything even when he hit her because of all the reasons you mentioned above. She was scared to be without a man. But staying with that man caused her and us so much misery, it wasn't worth it in the end. My mum pretty much did everything my dad should've been doing anyways, she was working & doing all the run arounds, even though she was new to England, couldn't speak any English, had little education & had to bring up 3 kids the eldest being 11. If divorce wasn't so badly stigmatised, if women were given more encouragement and help my mum wouldn't have needed to go through everything she did. I bet there's millions more women like my mum and I hope Allah gives them the strength to break out of these kind of abusive marriages. I'd rather be without a man than be with an abusive one.
Sumi sum My Aunty got a divorce from her abusive husband and she’s the happiest woman in the world now with her 4 kids :) but it probably helped that she has become extremely wealthy setting up her own business.
With her ex hubby she was a shadow of herself and lost herself. It was tough but divorce was the right choice- she’s enjoying the single life and living it up.
The camera is AMAAAAZZZEEEE
The reason why I don't say relationship goals. You never truly know what's going on in people's marriages.
I am married and what i learned is you always have to make dua and ask allah to bless your marriage because marriage isn't easy
Very true. I recently got married.. my doa is always to ask for blessings in our marriage and our lives ☺
recently got engaged and we keep talking abt where we going LOL its so scary and i keep making dua like mad! only Allah can help us.
What I love about Sid is that he is one of the few men who actually acknowledge that men can be shit sometimes and they r all about their ego.
The title gave me a heart attack
Diana Majeed I swear me too😩
Its called click bait
sammmmeeeeeeeee
It's not clickbait, you just dumb
Vic Speaks well you don't have to be so rude about it. She didn't say anything.
Love how Sid acknowledges that men hate having thier ego pulled down
Sumz 17 that's because their taught by society the world revolves around them and their the greatest thing since sliced bread so they don't like it when their ego is bruised because they expect to be right all the time and automatically be better because their men
kirsty Sneddon innit!!
kirsty Sneddon
Out of curiosity, how many successful relationships have you had?
الجهل قوة ?I'm in one right now as a matter of fact :) dont really see what thats got to do with anything here
If you're SO is ok with having his ego torn down, well good for you I guess.
we’ve missed u Sid 😭
Sid is so similar to my husband. His mannerisms and general demeanour seem so familiar that I can understand how he’s feeling. He’s really come into his own and they do say boys mature later so I feel like side personality is changing and growing. He’s wanting to branch out and do different things etc. Dina has matured and now is in a happy place with Hana and she’s settled. I feel like Dina had her juvenile stage and now wants stability in life. She’s happy to go with the flow for a while.
Then again I’ve psychoanalysed two people I don’t know based on a short video. :D
I think the most important thing in marriage is that Shaitan doesn’t want you both together and he gets a lot of joy when a marriage breaks up. Don’t let him win.
Dina: "Yeah we not throwing plates ... our plates are plastic anyway" 😂😂
Farah Suleman looooool throwing plates uno
It’s good you shared the bad side in your marriage as many people would have thought you both are one of the happiest couples going! May Allah grant you both a long life together filled with success and happiness and protect you from evil eye
My goodness you're beautiful. Would one have the pleasure of taking you for coffee at a location of your convenience madam?
Halima Khan Aameen
Personally I don’t think speaking about divorce is healthy, just my opinion here. I think any issues or problems should just be spoken about with your partner, communicating is key, I think divorce should be a last option. Me and my husband talk about anything bothering us and any issues were having like you mentioned you both also do, but never have any one of us brought up divorce and inshallah I hope it never comes to that, may Allah bless your marriage Sid and Dina💗x
Lex Elisha maybe I got the context in which they’re saying it wrong but I personally don’t think mentioning divorce after an argument is reasonable... I would only mention ending my marriage if there was real problems that weren’t getting resolved but that’s just the way I am, I would think differently about my husband if he ever brought up ending our marriage tbh as I would think that’s ‘breaking point’ just my opinion xxx
Faz Naz well said
I agree...When my husband and I have problems I never mention divorce...and neither does he. We love each other too much to live without each other or be with other people. But I did tell him before we got married, and I said it once more after, the only reason I would leave is if he hit me or abused me, cheated (which he would never do) or abuse our kids. I know people dont like bringing that stuff up... but that was the reality for my mother and the reality for so many women.
Agree!! Talking about your probleem does not equal talking about divorce. If you talk about divorce it will be always an option. And i dont think it should be a normal option because its always the last last thing.
Ameen x
Everyone is complaining about Dina interrupting Sid, but that's just you're fucked up idea of woman/male roles probably. They're having a conversation. They're interrupting each other and that's normal in a conversation you both want a say in. I also think it's very healthy to be realistic about your marriage and I appreciate Sid and Dina put this video up!! Keep up the great work
Divorce is the last option.... I do not think it’s normal and I feel it makes your partner panic to improve instead of working out the issues calmly.
Stakkie Jones thank you! I agree...seriously. its never ever a good idea to bring it up because unless there are serious problems you cant resolve like abuse.
footy facts 100000%
I agree that divorce should not be something regularly discussed. But I think the message they gave in the beginning was that the couple should never be so distant that eventually divorce becomes the only option and then it’s a shock for both. Communication is key. Also pre marriage counseling in today’s times are a must!
I agree completely. It's not healthy to talk about divorce often, because you risk divorce becoming the 'easy way out' of difficult situations in a relationship that otherwise simply needs nurturing and special care.
No I think it entirely depends on the couple and the dynamics but everyone's lying if they say they've never thought 'my life would be easier if I just left' or even 'i don't need to put up with this' is a round about way of contemplating divorce even for a second. In some couples they are able to and prefer to have openness and honesty in others you probably have individuals who are sensitive to the topic or patient enough to push it out of their minds. The risk is there is one sensitive spouse and the other spouse is just bottling up their feelings, and emotionally becoming distant. Therefore they advised better out than in. If you're not saying it you might be thinking it and if you're only thinking it then you have to deal with it on your own. most people can't do that all the time. They need to share and resolve.
I love how they're so open about stuff, most couples try to hide. Like everyone fights. Everyone has wondered at one point if they still want to be in that relationship, and if it's a healthy relationship. Genuinelly admire you for talking freely about such stuff that shouldn't be anything to be ashamed of anyway.
Btw both ofyou guys are looking really good ayeaye
It's important not to feel trapped in any situation, and so I understand why it's healthy to ask "wait, do we still want to be together?", and then evaluate that, keeping in mind that you do want to be committed to the other person for life, if life allows. It's about remembering that there are two separate people in the relationship, and respecting each other's wants, needs and differences. Glad that yall talked about it.
I agree with the person who mentioned the Law of Attraction. I found that when I started uttering the word "divorce" as if it was an easy option and saying the word in a flippant manner after silly arguments, we were closer to actually getting divorced. Now our intention is to stick together (as we don't have major issues like abuse etc) and so we are healthier in our marriage. We don't discuss divorce as if it's some easy get out clause. Hence Law of Attraction - you attract what you think about most of the time.
Sid and Dina you two are awesome. InshAllah I hope to have a loving and blessed marriage like yours one day.
May Allah protect you!
Aameen
ameen
i thought this was an evalutation of your marriage and you straight up started discussing divorce, i didn't even think that would be mentioned
Aroosah1 same
Dina we need a makeup tutorial on that look! You look so beautiful, love it!
Agecha SC it’s a lighter pink version of the nikkietutorial she followed.
Agecha SC yes the blue on the eyes is smokinggggg 😍🤲🏼👸🏽
It's on his channel
Her*
Wow I'm really surprised by the comments. What you all said about divorce is really great. When you notice yourself wondering where the relationship is going, don't just let it go there. Bring it up with your partner so that you can both do something about it. This video was about maturity and real life, not some "happy" youtube couple who pretends everything is perfect all the time. I love this and pray for all the best between you two for years to come.
Also the image quality of the video is amazing.
Dina looks beautiful, the colours she's wearing compliment her so much
this video was so important, marriage is about ups and downs and good days and bad days. every couple i know has talked about breaking up/divorce and its a very natural and normal thing. marriage is not cutesy couple youtube videos and insta posts of romantic getaways, props to sid and dina for keeping it real
Wow Dina you look incredible your make up is amazing 😍😍
Sabrina omg NO SID DID NOT COMMENT ON DINAS CONTOUR! What u know about contouring game Sid!??!! Lord have mercy. All women need a Sid hubby. He knows parenting cooking moving and makeup application ! I’m Sids number 1 fan
Sabrina yes it really does 😍
Sabrina nope no way
All you people analysing this video trying to find something wrong, what's your deal? Saying Sid looks sad and his eyes look sad, and Dina keeps interrupting him? They literally said in another video that even though they keep it real on camera we still don't know anything about their real life. And Sid doesn't look sad, he looks his usual quiet self, maybe a bit tired, and Dina looks like her usual loud chipper self. You know they read these comments so stop trying to create problems
If y’all get merch plz don’t let it be expensive like $30 for a damn t-shirt. So that way I can get some stuff and I’m sure I’m not the only broke subscriber y’all have lol
Same I like what Dina wears but I can't afford a jacket/hoodie/shirt if its above £10
Sana Atta 10 is too cheap, it's not practical. I think 15-20 is a brilliant price for a hoodie. Like come on, they're not gonna sell a hoodie for 6 quid lol
I’m so glad I can see some real parts of a marriage bcz I see cute stories all over the internet while I got a lot of issues in real life ! Thanks for the honesty
Oversized hoodies pls! I have so much trouble looking for oversized hoodies that are trendy, comfy & reasonably priced! Please consider the idea 🙈😘❤️
Hasina _ yesss I love that idea!
yes! long oversized hoodies plz 😊
Have a look in H&M hun they have some on sale rn !
Ouuuh Miss Dina looking like a full meal Mashallah 😻
Queen Beyoncé 🤣
Also, I wish you two the best in your coming videos. Sid, I love all the work you do for your family, for Dina etc. Your rap moved me, and your filming and editing is really wonderful--I hope it takes you places! Dina, I love you free spirit and your thoughtfulness. You have such a great sense of fashion and design--keep up your great work please! I hope yall keep remembering to admire one another, because Lord knows we are out here admiring you two. We see how great you two are, but it doesn't matter that we see it; it matters that each of you sees it in the other person. I hope you two cherish and respect one another as much as you can, while still maintaining strong faith in Allah and remaining strong within yourselves. God bless you both!
What a beautiful comment.
Thaat is a beautifulll comment
I wish I could like this a million times and I hope they see this it’s beautiful and very very true ❤️❤️❤️
To those weird, childish, and immature comments saying this video is "off," or has a weird vibe, or that they should be discussing this privately, WTF? Have you never had an argument or a fight with your spouse? On top of that, what is pissing me off is THERE IS LITERALLY NO FIGHT IN THIS VIDEO. THEY ARE HAVING A NORMAL DISCUSSION ABOUT HOW TO TREAT ONE'S EX SPOUSE AFTER A DIVORCE AND EVEN ON THAT TOPIC, THEY ARE IN AGREEMENT! Some couples can't even agree on who should do the chores and this couple (Sid & Dina, mashallah) even are on agreement on the etiquette of divorce. Who is the weak couple now?
s21972012145525 OMG YES, THANK GOD FOR THIS COMMENT
aight relax
@@mattiea871 no.
I couldn’t concentrate on the video because I was focusing on Dina’s makeup game. Dayuuuum beautiful mashallah 😍😍😍
I love you Dina and Sid but you guys should try let each other finish talking first instead of constantly interrupting each other, especially by shouting. Listen to your partner and THEN point out your views. I can see how Sid was annoyed with Dina trying to interrupt, and vice versa. May Allah bless you both and I hope you will meet each other halfway.
suraya ... so true. Specially Dina I’ve noticed never lets him finish if she has a thought.
I get how you’re trying to be nice and not coming from a bad perspective I respect that but I believe every couple is different and maybe they’re more like friends and that works for them? They don’t seem to have a problem w it since they’ve been doing it forever and they’re such a cute little family mashallah some people are more talkative than others like myself. I’m not tryna have beef here or anything just my opinion ❤️
Very true. As much as we think that people dont care, but its important to let people finish their thoughts. Imagine being interupted alllllll the time, over the years it will make you explode from feeling not respected and heard
It's the only thing that puts me off this channel....Dina's habit of interrupting and talking over Sid.......and if he carries on trying to make his point, she just talks really loudly so he eventually stops.......
Sorry, but it seems really disrespectful, as though she thinks her views are more valid than his. Hopefully she doesn't think that way though and doesn't mean it that way.
Sids scar got me wiping my screen
Looking at the comments, I think this video is a bit too real for some of y’all. These are regular hypothetical questions that a couple that has been together for long would ask themselves. In life you have to always expect the unexpected, and be prepared,and especially since they’re parents. This is great content lol plus they clearly said they aren’t on the brink of divorce so let’s chill y’all lol.
Preach
May Allah SWT shower your marriage with blessings. Ameen. I hope that your family only grows with love ❤
This video messed with my brain so much
Hader Akhtar fooooor reaal
Right? Something is sooooo off😢
they literally said it, the move was really hard on sid, he went a bit off and got really ill afterwards. I'm assuming is most likely the after effects from that.
I dont think its anything major, but the title and topics they spoke about automatically made me think something is wrong
Though I highly doubt it
Hader Akhtar s
As soon as I opened the video my first reaction was omggggg Dina looks soo gorgeous mashallah 🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️
Raahima Begum To 6777kiui7and
Personally I think it’s great that you’re speaking about this topic. It’s breaking down the barriers and there could be woman or a man out there feeling like they’re trapped in a marriage only to save face. It’s not a bad thing and it certainly doesn’t mean your life is done with.
Dont think of divorce as an option ever guys your so blessed alhamdulillah ❤️
I really really admire the honesty they show in regards to marriage and moving house and all other real-life things while still being as funny and charming as they usually are
Hey Random Person In The Comments Hope You Have A Fab Day Inshallah x
Uzzy Kabir had a shit day
You guys are literally the most honest couple I know, I love this
Yay so happy to see you again😍 I don't get the bad vibes some here are talking about, I just see that you guys are really comfortable and open with eachother. It inspires me because my parents didn't seem to have that good communication (they divorced after 20 years of marriage. Norwegian, not religious for anyone who wondered). Excited for more advice videos, love to just listen to your thoughts on different matters😁 And btw you look amazing (both)👌🌞
Respect for u guys for being so honest. Marriage is not easy and it is the love and dedication that you have for each other is what will keep you together. I know that's what's kept me and my hubby together for 15 years even though sometimes I can't stand the guy lol
Wooaaah, the background looks soo different. Great change
I love the color combo of Dina's clothes! The beige and blue compliment each other so nicely
please do a ‘how to survive the first year of marriage part 2’ plS PLS iVE BEEN WAITING SO LONG
Yes, part 1 was not complete, even though it was like a half hour long lol
Yeeees! continue to talk about real things, I love your honesty. Every, EVERY marriage has problems and the more unrealistic we are, going into a marriage, the bigger the chance it will be miserable. I totally support you talking about real things because Instagram and UA-cam only make things seem nice but they are not. Reality is different...and "normal" is so overrated. We have different normalities in our marriage, beliefs expectations, jobs and it is fine.
Definitely missed you guys but I feel this video’s topic was a little unnecessary- almost felt like I was eavesdropping on you two. In my opinion, divorce shouldn’t even be an option. I do believe in the law of attraction and so long as you two have made divorce a “viable” option and an ongoing topic, the more susceptible you are to actually getting divorced. Its also easier said than done, this isn’t a non-marital relationship where the “breakup” route is the norm. Im sure if you guys actually parted ways, neither of you would be able to handle it. Just count your blessings and cherish every moment. All the best x
i think it better to have everything in the open and just know that divorce is option but last resort thing. its better to have a divorce then to stay in a unhappy marriage. i think sid and dina are being realistic especially when it comes to divorce because you can best mates with your partner one minute then suddenly it can all go to shit. so its better to talk about it before it gets to that point. i agree that you should count your blessings when it cones to marriage though.
love this
Ayesha Ansari what...uhh im sure it should be if your partner cheats and also abuse...sorry that's a final straw and no one should endure that.
well said sister x
I have been happily married for 21 years.we have never discussed divorce. I am amazed that you are evaluating your marriage so early on. Wishing you much love 💖
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Please please Sid publish the song that was in Eid 2017 lookbook in the beginning I loved it and regularly I go back to the video to listen to it 👏🏻👏🏻
Reem Alhalbouni what song?
Reem Alhalbouni it's called Worth the Trouble (cospe remix). It doesn't have sids rap unfortunately though lol
khadija miah ua-cam.com/video/QLqjN6zrVYk/v-deo.html
in the first minute there is a rap part
marwa yes i know this one but I meant in this video ua-cam.com/video/QLqjN6zrVYk/v-deo.html the first minute
RayTheAim ohh that little tune. it seems pretty familiar, but i'm not sure about that
Definitely appreciate you guys opening up like this it's deffo not easy. The way you talked about divorce makes it seem like you've both been heavily thinking about it. Especially sid. Stay strong guys
Good topic. I love the free flow of this video. It really shows you two communicate, joke, and have fun together even while just having a conversation.
I don’t know how I wasn’t subscribed to your channel together!
I so very much love and respect this video- and I appreciate that your title really was what the content in the video. So often, UA-camrs give titles to their videos and it’s, well, clickbait, and they might say once in the video that they “evaluated their marriage” in it, but they don’t actually really talk about it; but you guys did, and I love it.
I love how just candid this video was.
❤️
I would love a Dina (And Sid) podcast x
Charlotte Mulcahy it would just be dina talking since she always talks over sid
Yessss
Stop posting comments like these, they might affect their relationship
Waaaahaaaay, hey Charlotte
Charlotte Mulcahy yesss please🤲🏼🤲🏼💕💕
Sid is really understanding, and can tell he does alot
omg sid and dina should do Gogglebox !
i'd love for dina's merch to be super oversized hoodies because thats her style and i'd love for her to spread her creativity and taste to everyone
oh my god I LOVED this video and i love you guys, and it WAS about time you came back on here and i'm gonna stop fangirling now cause if my friends see this comment it's gonna be embarrassing!
BUT all jokes a side you guys talking about all these relationships and talking about your own is SO helpful you have no ide! A lot of people actually truly like the conversations and topics you bring up in your questions videos, they're honestly more important than you think. Although the authenticity of the actual stories and questions you get is questionable, it's quit irrelevant. Because those things actually happen and is a struggle for many young muslims and young muslim couples.
MY POINT with this long ass comment is KEEP DOING THESE VIDEOS they are important conversation starters within the muslim community, thank you! 😅🙈❤️
Can’t stop looking at dina in this video. Even when sid is talking. So pretty mashAllah
How about Merchandise for Kids+Family. Like matching hats, T-shirts or hoodies for parents and children. Dina once said how she would like to design some matching mother+daughter fashion. This would be very cute.
There is so much gesticulating in this video! Lol and pushing each others gestures out of the way is cracking me up.
Realist couple ever. May the Almighty keep you together till Jannah. Ameen!
Millions of thumbs up to you guys for having this video. Many couples here on UA-cam are just acting, everybody is scared to cover these topics. Sometimes couples think they are the only ones having a fight and it is Not normal.
Dina looks so good!!! Yasss girl!!
Dina you look so beautiful in this video in particular mashaAllah. The hijab colour, make up, jumper..everything! Girl be glowinggg xx
Well that was awkward...
U J what was awkward? I found the video funny and informative
Talking about divorce is awkward i guess. Maybe, Its Coz I just don't like to think of Sid and Dina divorced. Each To Their Own Opinion.
May Allah preserve and bless their marriage in goodness. Ameen.
U J true, I didn't get the best of vibes from this video..but ameen.
you guys are the sweetest people and may ALLAH tala keep you both together forever. Ameen
you both are actually my inspiration of how to keep a marriage peaceful and full of happiness and fun.
Dina you look beautiful!!!! MashaAllah Allahoumabarik 😍😍😍
I like this video it's honest. In long term relationships this topic has flown around many times. Ur right Sid. But yet people are still committed to each other. Maybe opposites do attract. Or the journey has been so long, that deep down there is a rooted respect and friendship that one does not want to let go of.
As it's not all doom and gloom. So many good times.
Is the grass greener on the other side. Maybe not.
It's natural to get on each other's nerves now and again. This would happen if you lived with a friend, family member or anyone for a long period of time.
There's also personal change that we are going through. We are reflecting on everyone around us even blaming them for what's not right. Instead of looking inwards.
NB let each other finish a sentence 😂
Good partners, good friends and love are not easy to find. When u got it. Recognise it and roll with it. Or u might end up lonely or with sloppy seconds
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The way she took the wrapper of the cappuccino was so satisfying
I am 32 yrs old been married for 15 years. Marriage is not easy! Takes a lot of patience, sacrifice, respect, communication and genuinely caring about the other persons point of view. Respect and letting the other person be themselves is a big thing and goes along way.
Hope u all prayed ur isha namaz before clicking dis video ☺️❤️
Sid is so nice and he puts his all into this relationship and honestly i admire the man he is and hanna is so lucky to have such a great male figure to look up to
This seemed click bait when looking at the title
Swearing away casually fkn ell shit etc and then dina says sarcastically Mashallah inshallah with a caked up face lol hilarious
I love you guys and I know in ever marriage it's normal to have problems even really big problems but it's rare to hear couples say "if we get divorced... " cause like, if you can imagine living without someone then I don't think you're compatible, or in love. If that makes sense... I always sensed a tension between the both of you but who am I to have a say in your marriage. I just wish you both happiness and success
dance555 i was just thinking that - im not sure it's healthy for a couple to discuss divorce as a what-if situation so often and in such detail. Better to talk about the issues rathet than the get-out clause
Yes Sid & Dina merch!! Sid is a sick rapper! He killt it in Dina’s photo shoot. Sid should really pursue rapping! Would be so awesome to hear. Genuinely! Love you both🌹
I love and appreciate how real you are, God bless you both
Potential ideas
- half turtle neck tops to wear under lower cut top in diff designs and patterns
- scarves in certain colors like a collection of beige/choc/sandy-desert
- layering clothes in diff patterns
- EARRINGS statement ones for hijab wearers
- hoodies (preferably with no cheesy slogans, maybe like a small logo in the corner)
I fxckin loved this video, like its actually real. husband and wife talking etc. the camera was jus there as a bonus
Finally Sid and Dina Merch .A hoodie that says Dina's signature "basically" would be pretty cool.
A sick idea would be "piss off now" hoodies haha.. wouldnt defooooo cop one of those!
I was laughing so much at Sid.... 😅😅😅😂 they take some serious shots at each other. Ridiculous!
Marriage always has ups and downs. Back in the day, you never heard of divorces and I feel you will run into problems as well with a new person. And then what, you just keep going from one person to the next. I feel these days people just give up, and it's so common nowadays which is unfortunate. Just my opinion for what it's worth.
Kimberly Mayfield because divorce just wasnt an option most of the time. My grandmother is married almost 50 years and she said it herself many times that if she could go back in time she would have never married my grandfather. And a lot of her friends said the same. They are so deeply unhappy so I personally think the way things are these days is a lot better. People wont stay in marriages that are simply not working these days and that's good
its better to leave a marriage and start new then be in a sad and unhappy marriage
parisa amany In general I feel people these days don’t take their marriage vows as serious today. In general. You have celebs who are marrying and then divorcing like it’s nothing. And I mentioned celebs because they’re in the public but it happens a lot for everyone. It’s a big decision not a rash one. Something you should pray about beforehand. Of course there are exceptions and I’m not speaking on every situation but just generally. Of course I feel there are instances when that is the only option.
Kimberly Mayfield true. Having a break when things get tough is also a good idea instead of just ending a relationship. A couple of weeks to clear your mind let's you see the good you have in your relationship and gives you a better idea on how to work on differences you and your partner may have. And if or when you get into an argument you will be able to work through it with a better understanding as to how to go about the situation.
Yeah, it's so prevalent these days. And growing up in a family that was divided, it affected me as a child in a big way. I had a step-father who was not nice to me, and I suffered a lot as a child because of it. My mom wasn't even aware fully of everything. On the other hand, my cousins had their mother and father united in the home, and it was different for them. Now today my cousins have their children, and it's nice that the family is still united. And believe me my aunt and uncle went through many difficult times in their marriage. Even so difficult that they even considered divorce as well, but my grandparents stepped in and kind of said, listen lets try and work things out. If it weren't for my grandparents, maybe they would have ended in divorce. Now years later, they are very happy, and probably very glad they stuck in there. Actually, I know they are because my uncle always talks so sweet about my aunt and I can see how much he loves her. He says he loves her more and more as years pass. And the love is mutual. Have they changed as individuals, yes of course that's growth. But they still love each other and honestly it's a beautiful marriage.
i love how openly you guys communicate with each other... and if you guys were ever to divorce I'd cry, even though I don't personally know you it would really make me cry. Stay awesome guys! May Allah continue to strengthen your marriage.
Marriage seems too much effort, bare drama
TMZ 142 life is drama
But worth it 👌
YAY looking forward to the podcasts. Dina do hoodies and accessories plz
Sid so mature ☺️
I think it's super important to evaluate any relationship you are in. My boyfriend and i have been together for 7 years now and at around 5 years at that point i was in college and he wast starting his new career and we both sat down and had the talk of like well what are we doing? where are we going from here? you always have the be on the same page as your partner and if you aren't you have to deal with that how it fits for you. whether that be going your separate ways or making sure you two are on the same path. I think people who always say gosh i feel so STUCK in this relationship or the relationship is not going anywhere that's because there is no open communication of wants and wishes for the future. I'm really glad you guys touched on this! that's awesome.
dina you look so pretty!!! love your make up, you should do a make up tutorial.
Love how everyone here speculating on their divorce and I'm like this is chilled vibes Sid and Dina always bring being open to discussion. Just because you discuss divorce doesn't mean you want it to happen it's just showing stronger communication skills and making sure everyone is on the same page.. :) xx
When u say u want a divorce, its not normal especially when you say it 3, 4 times!
Omg! merch would be sick!!!!!!! deffo oversized jumpers . Ps. love your vidoes