What We're Leaving Behind for 2020 (new years resolutions) | Sierra Unfiltered Ep. 24
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- Looking back on the decade, we're talking about what we're leaving behind in 2019 and our goals and new years resolutions for 2020. In this episode of Sierra Unfiltered, we're talking about the best and worst parts of the year and what we're looking forward to for the new year!
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Would love kenzie again. Shes slightly my spirit animal in how low key and soft spoken and chill she is. I would die if Kyle was here for an episode. Hes so so soooooo funny and real. Steven is obviously is a good choice and Austin would so steal the show he so goofy hahaha
Delina Przemielewski YES
You should call skylers part “baby steps!”
i love this👏👏
YOUR DAD!! I want to hear about environmental psychology (Am I the only one??)
Shelby Acosta yes!
You don't have to tell us if you are pregnant untill you are ready.❤️
5 days later, secretly dying to know🤞
Watching this in 2020 during self isolation-Skylar says she wants a chill year.....oh girlfriend. I am so sorry lol.
Was just about to comment this😔✋🏻
i'd love, love, LOVE to see Austin on the podcast
I’d love to see Carrie Dayton on the podcast again!
Lisa Bienhold She would be an excellent cohost!
I was listening back to an old podcast from the beginning of Sierra Unfiltered and you guys were talking about how Skylar wore something she didn't feel great in her for engagement photo shoot and she literally said something along the lines of "I should've just worn like a cute jumpsuit that's comfy and that I felt confident in" and then months later she chose that maroon jumpsuit for her maternity shoot!!!! Ahhh my heart
the podcast has made me so much more interested in skylars life...she and kyle are seriously the cutest
Ruffin Chick same I dearly want her to post videos
As a person living with PTSD who is quite sensitive to certain topics like sexual abuse and animal cruelty, I personally really appreciate content warnings and hope it comes from a place of ignorance when people misuse the word "triggered."
It does come from a place of ignorance.
Lacy Danielle for me I’m so young I never knew that triggered was a serious word and not a joke but that opened my eyes
I was telling a friend that I was waiting to listen to a new episode of my favourite podcast.. and my fiancè was like "haha Sierra's new episode isn't out yet?"
He definitely knows that this is my favourite podcast and UA-camr to listen to
Me: " I want Kyle to be a cohost for an episode!"
Also me: No Ashlee... He's having a baby too lmfao
More Kenzie! i love her personality.
I feel so awful that people constantly assume that someone is pregnant. You never know what someone is going through, and those comments, while coming from a not intentionally harmful place, can be so harmful. Sending you lots of love and positivity Sierra, and same to Skylar as you work on your home and bring baby P into the world!
Sierra has (that I know of) three channels, main, IRL, and this channel. Plus Instragram. Even from my relatively new subscriber seat, you look overworked to me. I wouldn’t worry about what haters say.
Jennifer Thomson absolutely!!!
Yes! She works so hard which is great but also so important that she rests and has time to just relax and have fun. And just be able to enjoy life and her family and friends. Love her and her channels/instagram but also totally want what's best for her!
This is not to slander Skylar because I do this as well and realized it during this conversation but I think that explaining yourself has a lot to do with the fact that you believe your way is the correct way and so when you say for example you’re doing wooden toys, even if someone doesn’t ask why you’re doing that, you have to validate it with studies and facts because you want to know that what you’re doing is the correct way to do things. I struggle with this in “judging people” because I validate my decisions by trying to convince people that it’s the only right way, when realistically there are a lot more ways than one to live life and make decisions correctly.
Hannah Bustos She did also add that she feels she has to explain how her choices are morally or ethically "right". It comes across as more of a "ted talk" than an explanation or conversation.. I think it's good that she identified this for herself and can see that she does this... it'll be interesting to see how she comes across on the podcast as 2020 happens since she says she's working on it.
You guys make me feel like I’m part of your friend group 🥺 love your friendship and how supportive you are of each other 💕
Something that helped me to be less judgmental is to search for what’s called a “shared reality.” On most polarizing issues both sides share the same goal but are trying to solve it in completely different ways.
For example, (and no one come at me - I’m not saying these are my opinions! This is just an example) you brought up guns. So I’ve searched for the shared reality between the pro gun rights and pro gun control sides, and I believe what they both want at their core is safety. One side believes having guns in the hands of good people will help people to be safe while the other side believes restricting guns so that only trusted government official have access will help people to be safe.
By identifying the shared realities of these polarizing issues, I’ve been able to detach myself from negative emotions and stereotypes. If I can see that the other person is just like me - someone who wants their friends and families and our communities to be safe - I can act with compassion rather than judgment.
Love you girls and hope you have the best new year!
You should have a podcast with Carrie or Lisa! I absolutely love when you guys get together and your chemistry is amazing! Would definitely be an exciting podcast! ❤️
I have a 2 1/2 yr old and I wish I would've taken a picture of her every day since she was born because babies change so much.
My New Years resolution is to write 365 things I am grateful for. Ambitious I know, but I believe I can do it. :)
Your grandma should come in for an episode! I loved that main channel video with her and her amazing fashion choices!
usually don’t leave comments but just wanted to thank you for all the podcasts this past year and say i’m super excited for season 2! i listen to episodes all the time at the gym and i love hearing what you guys have to say lol
Happy 2020 girls!!! 🥰 thanks for everything you've done for me in 2019!!! I love listening to your podcast and being influenced by your positivity! 💕 best of luck for the new year!
Guest co hosts: Steven, Kyle, Kenzie, Austin, Carly, Carrie Dayton, Lisa Schwartz
Guests for when Skylar’s back: Safiya Nygaard!!! Molly Burke, Alisha Marie & Remi Ashten, AlexaSunshine83
Hey Guys,
I think it would be interesting to talk with Stephen about the experiences you made in your teenage years in terms of relationships and being open/ comfortable about your sexual desires etc. I think especially for teenagers its important to also learn about consent or not being ashamed of themselves. Who taught you that and how do you convey that to a generation that is growing up in a time where media hypersexualizes many things.
Btw thanks for your amazing Podcasts!
Love,
Johanna
As a vegetarian myself, I have my reasons and I have my peace with my life choices in that arena. I don't do it as a way to be better than someone else, to be morally or ethically superior... I don't judge others or think those who eat meat are less ethical than I am. I think types of choices like this, you ultimately have to do it for yourself and not to change the world, or be a martyr...
Things like life choices, politics, religion... we have to see beyond these subjective opiniated topics, and get to know the person without putting people in boxes or hierarchies based on labels.
Maeve Jones I didn't like the taste anyway, but I also did it because I didn't feel right about consuming the products coming from animals under those conditions. If I wanted to eat meat, which I don't, I would probably feel better doing so from local farms who are known for truly giving animals a natural life as much as possible. My life itself hasn't changed much at all as a result? It sometimes makes eating out a little bit boring when going out with a group and they are all sampling different appetizers or whatever... but that's very rare occasion and isn't at all enough to make me reconsider. I have learned to get creative and get side dishes or whatever when eating out..
I still meal plan and grocery shop like anyone else.. and prepare meals... I do think it makes cleaning up dinner prep easier since I don't have to worry as much about salmonella, etc.. It's a choice I made and it's not something that really effects me on a day to day or I think about regularly.🤷♀️
I agree with your hot take! I like to reflect on what positive changes I want to make in the few weeks before the new year, and put them into action as soon as possible so I get a little head start, having already started building them into habits.
I’m so excited for Steven to join! And so excited for Skylar and Kyle!
ok, hearing skylar talk about her struggle with differing from others morally, first of all definitely can relate! secondly, I am curious if skylar and sierra have had conversations about their differing religious beliefs? I think you guys CLEARLY have such immense respect for each other, and I think it would be so interesting to hear if you've had those type of discussions.
omg sierra's brother as a cohost would be so funny
KYLE ON THE PODCAST!!!
Kate Murphy Collins and talk about how it is being a new dad! Weird things about it. Would be good for my husband to prompt him lol
Wow, skylar saying I just want 2020 to be chill. I laughed way too hard when she said that.
Yeah, it's so weird watching this over a year later! Lol
Ok, so I'm pretty conservative and hearing you (Skylar) say that your resolution is (was?) to let people do their own thing makes me very much adore you both more. It isn't fair to expect everyone to respect your "way" if you don't respect theirs. Bravo :) And keep fighting the good fight
Skylar: I hope 2020 is a chill year
Me: Oh just you wait!
Everything one watching in 2020 knows that this year is anything but "chill"
I’m so grateful for both of you and what you stand for. Keep loving yourselves and standing up for yourselves. I’m so proud of you! Thanks for encouraging me to do the same for myself.
Pregnancy is such a personal thing. the only thing worse than what you said is when you tell someone you are pregnant and they are disappointed. I once had someone say I thought we all decided you weren't going to have any more children. Really, the only correct response is congratulations in that scenario. A simple hug if someone finds they aren't pregnant and wants to be should be plenty, but only if you are close enough to warrant a hug. We are all so opinionated about how everyone else should live their lives we forget to be kind. I include myself because I am sure i have blind spots as well.
I hope that you keep sharing. I would never want to pressure you, but I’ve never had an idol that looks like me and has the same disease as me. You going through this process really is comforting my anxiety about my own PCOS and hopefully having a future pregnancy journey of my own.
carrie, alexasunshine83 etc it would be fun to see collaborations. Carly would totally be fun!
And Kenzie would be a great guest
Yes Skylar!!! That would be my one piece of mom advice for you is to take pictures! I have an 18 month old and i did take a decent amount, but i accidentally went a few weeks at a time and didn’t take any because we weren’t doing anything exciting and i didn’t think about it. and now i’m sad that i have hardly any picture of when he was “x amount of months old”. so obviously you will take pictures when you are doing something fun and for all the milestones, but remember to take pictures on other occasions too! they change so much every day and you’ll never regret having a photo, but you might regret not having enough photos. And remember to take pictures of him with you and Kyle well! We definitely forgot to do that. Even if you don’t feel photo ready, take the pictures. you won’t regret them. Sending you good thoughts for labor and delivery! Good luck mama, you got this! 💕💕💕
I was so excited when I saw Sierra posted!!!!!! I am so happy you started the podcast! Happy New Year everyone!!
I'm catching up on some of the podcasts I originally missed and to hear you guys have such high hope for 2020 is heartbreaking. 💔
Sierra's Hot Take! yesss!! There's nothing magical about January 1st. You don't have to wait, and you're never behind.
Ok, no podcast for 3 weeks. I miss you guys! So I am back here to rewatch ✨
This year I found you both. I now watch your channels with my daughter who is much younger than you both. She looks up to you both, and I feel that your channels are good for her.
kinda sad that the podcast is taking a break but i’m so incredibly happy for you guys! can’t wait to hear a podcast about the new baby!
I would love if Skylar went more in depth on these things that she’s passionate about rather than brushing it off as “this, that, and the other” that’s my favorite part of podcasts is learning from what other people know.💕
This is perfect I have an hour left in my drive 🥺🥺🥺
Omg thank you Skyer! I completely agree with your hot take! It's very annoying and frustrating when people use the word "trigger" out of context! I have mental issues and you use the word trigger when something is actually effecting you not because your butt hurt that someone said something mean or something to you! I love listening to this podcast on my way to work everyday! Keep up the amazing work ladies!
You guys should definitely have Molly Burke on the podcast when Skylar is back from maternity leave!!
How am I going to survive without my new episode every week but I’m so happy for Skylar
This came on within half an hour of hitting 00:00:00 of 2020 here. Best New Years Gift ever! 😆
I feel like the baby’s name is “Liam.” I don’t know why though.
Kimberly Walker That would be such a cute name! ❤️
Omg I do too! That’s so crazy
Adventures of Brooke and Austin you’re videos are cute! I’ll subscribe!
Kimberly Walker it sounds like a skylar name 😂
Literally 50 seconds in to it and I literally already know I’m gonna love this podcast
Happy (almost) new year 🥳 love you guys 💞
If you have your mom you could have her perspective on getting pregnant and her experience raising kids as well as having grown kids. I think it would be neat to have another one with all of your perspectives again.
Kyle and Big Time Wes
Skyler, you are so important to your friends. You don’t have to feel unsafe or insecure in friendships, but sometime the things you say give that impression. A resolution may to make time for self reflection to discover why you make comments like “there’s gossip about me” in her book or that she had more fun with another friend in New York. ❤️
Thank you!!! I am doing laundry and cleaning out my closet and this is the exact entertainment I need right now!
YES to Sierra's Hot Take! I think it's fine if people want to have new years resolutions, they can be great, but I've personally never felt the need or want to have them. I just try to better myself the whole year trough. I also think that actually takes the pressure off and might make it easier to stick to your resolutions.
Just adore you girls 💙 happy, healthy, joyous everything. To new babies all around the Sierra empire 😝😀
No one can replace skyler!!!!!!! You two together are amazing! Stephen has big shoes to fill ♥️😂 lol
I have a question. When you say body positivity, but then you talk about a photo being "flattering" or something, where is that line? Like, in the "flattering" photos, you always look thinner, so I'm wondering how trying to look skinny in photos plays into this.
I agree so much with Skylar!! Sierra seems like such a giving person who always wants to help people.
I can’t believe Skylar is growing so fast it felt like yesterday when her pregnancy was announced and before I know it, the lil kiddo will already be grown up🥺💖
More Carrie Dayton, please! ❤️
Love the rotating cohost idea! Carly would be great, so would your family! And Kyle!
Can't wait for episodes with Stephen. I think you two have also slightly different views and opinions so would be super interesting!!!!
I really hope people will be respectful to you and others that are trying or even not trying because it doesn’t help with body image for any woman. Big hugs and prayers Sierra.
I so agree with you about New Years resolutions! If you have a change you want to make, make it now. Why wait until the new year?
Does this mean you and Steven will be filming an intro video for his time as cohost?? 😂😂 can’t wait for the new season, and enjoy your rest💗
What vegan eggnog do you recommend? Also - Skylar: your goal to be more eco-friendly is definitely something I want to do. I am just not sure where to start! And to Sierra: I stopped shaving my legs and my armpits a few months ago and I absolutely love it. It makes me feel more me.
Every podcast episode I feel like I resonate more and more with both of you 💞 You two are so real and amazing that it’s almost like you’re the big sisters I’ve never had. I’m wishing you both nothing but good vibes in the new year 💗 Good luck in each of your new journeys ✨
I think something I want to leave behind in 2019 is one of my most toxic traits which is jealousy.
I totally relate to Skylar on judging others for their choices. This is going to be contradictory, but .... there are certain decisions that others make that absolutely affect you or society as a whole, political stuff specifically because policies matter. Also not everyone starts at the same place and so progress is relative. So one person was raised right and they are slightly woke compared to someone who was raised in a racist household and now they actively disavow racism, but they don’t full understand systemic racism. One person on the surface seems more woke, but the other has made more progress. Skylar I would love to listen to a different podcast of you giving political commentary. I love this podcast exactly as it is and I don’t want it to change, but I would like an additional podcast from you. Lol.
Sierra you should get your office professionally cleaned!! That would be a great video idea!
Love you both! Since Stephen is going to be your guest co-host for a bit...it would be so cool to do an episode about the back end of the UA-cam business and the journey of scaling (taxes, s corp, etc.)! Of course no personal details, but more what the process looks like. Maybe I am the only one but I find that side of things fascinating! I am been toying around with starting a channel with my friends but the idea of making an income off it is what stops me because the business side and taxes and all that is so intimating! I wonder if there are other potential creators that hold themselves back because they are worried about the "managing a business" side of things and all the "grown-up" things that come with that!
For Skylar, AAA has a free book to members about every place to go in San Diego. It will really surprise you as to how many different things there are to do.
I can SO relate with the moral compass issue. I'm pretty hard on myself in developing and following a moral compass, but it's also an evolving work in progress, so I'm trying not to judge people who are in a different place or have come to a different conclusion than me.
"i hope 2020 is a chill year"
haaaaaaaaaaaa
I hope you both have an amazing new year! Sierra, I love that you're sharing your journey and wish you all the best. I struggled with fertility issues to; following your takes me back to all the feels!
You should do more podcasts with Kenzie!
I'm glad you both are taking the break you deserve ♥️
Eeyyyy January 27th is my birthday! What a good present 💙
Jared M same here!!
"we love the podcast".. THE PODCAST LOVES YOU TOO! ❤️
Re: the pregnancy speculations. I knew one of my co-workers was going to start trying at some point during last year. One day she commented on the smell of smth I couldn't smell. My thought was "she could be pregnant", but because I respect her and that question can be hurtful for a lot of people, I said nothing. Ten minutes later she told me she was like 3 weeks and 3 days pregnant. And there are co-workers who I suspected were pregnant that I never asked and found out along with everyone else when they started showing. One girl I thought was going to tell me she was pregnant, bc I knew she was trying, had a miscarriage the day before she had planned to tell me (her friend) like.... *you don't ask or publicly speculate*.
I do hope that you've got a bright positive test now, but if you did not I'm hoping one isn't too far in the future for you.
I used to say to someone who had one child you will be having another soon. I didn't know what she had already been through be to have one child. Won't do that again..
Angela Corcoran I used to think it was so important for children to have siblings and then I had my first child and knew only having one was the right choice for my family mentally, physically and financially. There are too many stigmas around only children but they can grow up just as well adjusted as kids with siblings
Yay new podcast to listen to while I walk my pups!
The perfect way to spend new years eve. Listening to my favorite podcast!!!!!!!
It breaks my heart because the way you looked because of the struggles with pcos can relate so much
My favorite podcast 🙌🏻🙌🏻💗💗
Happy New Year guys, all the best for 2020 xx
Really, really enjoy listening to your podcast, thanks for launching it in 2019 and excited to hear more in 2020!
Love this!! Skylar, my cousins all use the app lifecake to take pictures of their babies, and they only “share” access with a few family/friends! It’s so cute since it’s organized by date to see how much they’ve grown, without perfectly filtered pictures like insta and other platforms! Highly recommend checking it out 😊
I agree with the trigger warning thing. There was 2 podcast I couldn't listen to bc of this but I love you guys and I've watched all the other podcasts. I just knew based on the title but some aren't as clear! ❤❤
Love the podcast.
A note about audio: volume is too low. Normally only need a little volume to hear your videos. This time I had to put it above half way to even hear what was being said
Carrie Dayton, and Kenzie was fun for sure! Maybe once skylar is back they can do more of a “what was different” than they thought going into parenthood would be, at their different stages with different age kids, boy vs girl babies too. And you can ask the questions you’ve always wondered that goes along with that.
Wishing you both a great New Year!! I am so excited to see what happens with you guys!
Absolutely Carly, Austin and Kyle!