Send his parents one of your beautiful cards and tell them how much you enjoyed spending time with them and what a fine son they raised. I'm sure they are thrilled that their son met such a kind, sweet person. The bee cards are adorable!!
As a parent of adult children - when we take the kids out and their dates, friends, spouses ... we do not look at what they ordered or how much it was ... it was our treat and we were blessed by the time with them.
You have nothing to worry about!! They knew it would be their gift to give you just have to except graciously. The cards are wonderful and I appreciate all of your tutelage!
Kelly you are not rude at all, by wanting to pay you showed that you didn't know that they would pay for the diner. I am so glad you had a nice diner and enjoyed the evening, you deserve it. Stay yourself, that's enough. Your cards are awesome, love them both. Thank you so much for showing and the story.
Oh Kelly these cards are so sweet. Love HB sets, they are always adorable. That was very kind of his family. It wasn't like you expected them to pay for yours. I am sure you will be seeing them again so you can always "get them back" by making something special to take to them when you visit their home for the first time.
Kelly! You had an amazing evening with his family, girl. You did the right thing by offering to pay for your share and even the tip, but they wanted you there for his special celebration. Send a card to thank his mom. She'd be all over that. And speaking of cards... ;) these two are absolutely awesome. Love the colors, love the bees, and love YOU! ♥
These two cards are so sweet! And don’t you worry at all about family paying for you. I bet they didn’t even give your salad a second thought. It’s so wonderful to hear you have found a new happy and I’m so thrilled for you! You’re my happy learning from you and watching your videos 💕
There is nothing you could have done in the situation but let them pay. They knew you were going to pay ;but, they said no sand you certainly didn’t want to make a scene. Make them an awesome thank you card! I am so happy for you having a nice man to spend time with you. I hope he treats you like you deserve- you deserve only love, kindness, understanding, respect and consideration.
Adorable cards! And since you clearly offered and were expecting to pay for your own dinner, I’m sure they didn’t give a second thought! Shows how kind and thoughtful you are that you are concerned about it!❤️
I love your stories!! I was widowed at 40. I'm now almost 50. I can't even imagine dating now and saying my boyfriend. You are so lucky to have a family that wants you around.
I love your story time so much. So ya...dinner...you ordered what you wanted before they offered. They knew what they were paying for. You shouldn't feel bad. They were happy to meet you and know their family member is happy! Trust me. As a mother in law, I'm happy to see my son happy and wanting to cherish my time with his wife is priceless...a $12 salad in addition to the meal would make me more than happy to bless her with. Love you Kelly. Keep it coming girl. Oh...love the cards! 😉
I have been the mom that picks up the tab for special dinners. Don't feel bad! It's the company I love and when my kids bring special friends....it is beyond wonderful for me! No worries about the salad!!!
Beautiful card! My hubbys family is the same way. Birthday dinners are always their treat. You are just fine and I’m sure they loved you. How could they not? 😊
Kelly, it sounds like a lovely dinner with a friendly , hospitable and welcoming family, and I think you should not worry about it for one , Moment longer. I am sure they could see what a genuine person you are anyway and offering to pay was nice of you. I would think if anything they would think “there’s a lady who knows what she wants” and that is so refreshing, I bet they will love you,just like we all do 🤪did they know they were having dinner with a celebrity 😘🇬🇧
Kelly sweetheart, i am positive 100% that they never thought anything of the sort. This lovely family want their precious son to be happy and he has finally found a beautiful warm hearted lady, one that is a giver and not a taker. Finding someone who is a giver and who gives so freely, whose mind set thinks of others(eh, this dinner case in point) is worth more than gold. Wanting to be a parent that wants to see their child to bed, leaves wonderful memories with that child forever and it shows responsibility. What Eric's lovely family seen was a mother who cares, a lady who is appreciative of their kindness and the reason their beloved son(sorry Eric, but it doesn't matter how old you get, you will always be your parents baby/child) is happier than forever. Eric she is a lovely lass, who deserves to be happy once more. She is hard working and very giving of her time and talent, a fantastic role model of goodness for her son and i'm glad she has found a lovely man who appreciates that about her. I hope that you had a lovely birthday with your favourite people around you. Sending hugs across the miles to you lovely lass and peanut(Nathan) from Scotland. x
so super cute cards. I love how you give the illusion of depth. Concerning the salad...don't worry they will not think anything of it. They fully intended to pay and you were not aware of this " tradition" of theirs. I am sure they loved you and thought nothing of it.
Love the cards. Honeybee makes some great stamps. I was married at 20, divorced at 24. It felt weird and juvenile to me to say I had a boyfriend after that too so I don't think it has anything to do with your age. As for your salad at dinner, no one was thinking you were rude because you ordered a $12 salad. It was what you wanted to eat and you tried paying. My in-laws are like that. They always pay for my food when we all go out. I have tried ordering cheaper items when out with them but they really want me to get what I want. My mother-in-law has gotten on me several times about that. You're a lovely lady, they'll love you. Don't sweat it.
Don’t worry about it - every family has their way of doing things. Glad you enjoyed the dinner and I’m sure they loved you. Hang in there. The cards are adorable. TFS
Adorable cards! I would probably make the parents a thank you card and include a pretty bundle of flowers! It’s not needed, when we treat dinner, we don’t put a mental amount each person should spend. We go first class or don’t go. If that makes sense. It’s us crafters creed, right? Spread kindness! ❤️😘✌️💐
Your polite, generous and caring....they wouldn't of had a second thought about the price of a salad...they would of been all saying Eric has got it right having you in his life....
Beautiful Kelly! Your colouring always wows me! I agree with what everyone else has said about the dinner. It's all good! Now you have a chance to share your art with them. Win win! 😍
Love the cards. I once had a free meal at Friday's years ago. It was during the holiday.season and when I went to pul out my 💵 to pay, the waitress told me not to worry about it, it was on her.
I am 58, so “boyfriend” sounds crazy when I say it! My daughter decided I should call him my “spousal equivalent.” It has caught on, and it always gives us all a good laugh.
I agree with the comments below and also being a MIL I have paid for many family dinners with no expectation of the "kids" paying for it, even the tip. I was laughing through your whole story, thinking that "I hope Eric knows his story is going to be part of your stories moving forward!" If he know you at all, I would think he would know that. Love your bees. thanks as always for sharing.
His family sounds great. Had you not offered to pay for your own food they may have found you to be a little "extra" but you did offer. So that cancels it all out. If you are really worried, just let them watch this video, this will adore you by the end.
Take this dinner date as your first learning lesson. Send his parents a thank you card and move on. For the next dinner date involving his family, discuss the check with him before you get to the restaurant. Simply ask if it's ok if you buy your own meal.. his answer will let you know, giving you a perfect guideline of ordering. Once you're more "friendly" with his family, they may be more willing to let you pitch in on the tip.
Kelly, do not feel bad. I’m sure they really appreciated that you offered to pay. And I’m sure you’ll be invited to more family get togethers! Love the cards and I hope you keep making two at once! I’m really enjoying it
I love these cards! They make me smile. 😊 Don’t worry about the salad. You didn’t know they were buying. Just take a special dessert or something next time you see them. I’m so happy for you!
Kelly, my boys are now 18 and 21. Whenever we go out as a family and their girlfriends are invited, we always expect to pay for everyone. The fact that you even offered to pay probably shocked his parents. lol. You can always give them a thank you card and small gift such as a bottle of wine, candy, or a plant. I’m sure they would really appreciate the thoughtfulness. Some day you will be paying for Peanut and his date’s meals. It’s just a parent thing, and I know I’m happy to do so. It lets me get to know the girlfriend. So, no more worrying for you, I’m sure that they loved you.
No need to feel anything but good. You put the money on the table, which was appropriate. And, because you did that, there was no reason for them to feel taken advantage of. Which they could then see you are not that type of person. You also offered to leave the tip, which again, they could see you were being very considerate. I'm sure all of this earned you points with them, as they can see you would not try to take advantage of their son either. I'm so happy you had a great time and enjoyed a great meal and had great company. What you can do Kelley is send them a lovely handmade "Thank You" Card. They would love it! Oh... btw... The cards are awesome! Thanks so much for sharing. xo
Ahhh that is so sweet that you offered to pay! I am sure they think that you are already part of the family because Eric thought enough to bring you. His family I am sure have taken you in as one of there own. I wouldn’t worry about it! Hugs you are so nice
You offered to pay for your dinner, you went with the intention of paying for your meal, You did good girl. Dnt feel bad about your 12.00 salad. And I’m one that open mouth insert foot if not both feet lol Makes life a little interesting . Love your work thank you for sharing your talents with us and your stories to brighten ours days
I know exactly what you mean Kelly, and I'd feel the same, but your just gonna have to accept their generosity. Some people are just like that, and good for you ordering that salad, it sounds divine. Love your card...love your stories xx
No one cared about a $12 salad, they were just happy you were insane enough to come hang out what that crazy group again! They all said how much they loved you and can’t wait to see you again 😘 I couldn’t agree with them more!
Soooo not anonymous--LOL! I knew it was THE Eric when I saw his name and read his comment (which was perfect, btw!). Not sure if this is a good thing or a bad thing. ;-) Will you now filter yourself when you talk about him? I know you say you don't have a filter, but will story time be the same? On the flip side, we now know how to reach him, soooo... hehehe! Treat her right, Eric. She's one in a million with seriously dedicated followers! ;-)
Not much you can do after the fact for sure and understand for sure..one of your nice hand made cards..for sure and you could always add some flowers or a bottle of wine or something the next time you are invited. Just continue to be yourself and enjoy the journey..blessings ...these are such cute cards for sure.
You didn't know their family rule about paying for birthday meals so don't worry. You offered to pay, it is all good. They know you expected to pay so they won't think you were taking advantage. Now you know for next time. They sound lovely and I am sure they are just glad you enjoyed your meal x
Kelly, I love the cards.....glad you enjoyed your dinner. You offered to pay... don’t worry about the rest. I’m sure they were just happy to have you join them. I think it was Manners Big Boy! Have a wonderful week.
Kelly, did you eat the salad... don't feel bad. You presented cash and offered to pay, it is really easy not to offer to pay if the family did not expect to or want to pay. You met a very courteous, loving family that wanted you to feel part of their family. Appreciate their graciousness, let it go. Bake something special the next time you visit their home, in that way you can reciprocate with something from the heart. So glad your dinner was so nice. Love the cards by the way!
Lovely cards.. as usual! Don't feel guilty... you offered twice to pay.. it's their dicision to pay. I realy find it great that you have found love in youre life and that you are enjoing it! Keep going girl!
I LOVE this card, it’s beautiful and you’re so amazing, creative and inspiring! About your dinner, a) you’re NOT old and b) saying “boyfriend” is fine as long as you’re comfortable with it, otherwise “my guy” or my “male friend” are also alternatives, what he refers to you as might help you decide and feel comfortable saying. About you offering to pay, don’t worry about it, you’re fine and I’m certain they loved you! We have an established rule with our kids and their significant others, we ALWAYS pay regardless of who eats what and we want them to honestly select what they want to eat. Hopefully they share that beforehand with whomever it is they’re bringing along to avoid anyone feeling “uncomfortable.” So just go with it and enjoy the process, always be yourself with your bubbly and “what you see is what you get” personality, I’m one who can spot a “fake” from a mile away and one of them may have that ability, too! I know though they loved you and are excited for Eric though, how could they not be?! ❤️
IF you feel like it, make one of your cards into a Thank You card and give it to Eric to deliver to his parents, I KNOW that would impress them (and Eric) so much! And include a short brief comment about you appreciating them including you in celebrating Eric’s birthday and the lovely dinner, and that you really had a good time. That’ll buy you brownie points, my friend, I promise! ❤️
I love love bees and vee hives in have a similar set so happy to see you color this! How can they think you're rude when you literally tried to pay for it. Don't worry about it.
I have never met you before but I feel like we could be besties based on your videos and stories....and this is why I feel safe in saying I am pretty positive that they think you are the bees knees (pun totally intended with this card) and they think you're a good person, and a great mom and a wonderful fit for their son. So girl you get yourself your salad and enjoy ever delicious bite!
Beyond gorgeous! And don't worry about the salad! It was right of them to treat you! You're their son's new lady! It was great that you offered to pay bc it shows your independence and that you're not taking advantage, but it would've been wrong for them to accept! Go with it!
Heck NO! You offered. That was sweet of both and enough. Sounds like you are in with his family. Stop overthinking it. You cards are always great. Thank you. Btw we still have a few Shoneys in NC, never seen a Big Boy(wish I had) here or Fl but my uncle opened a Burger Boy in the 60’s-90’s like the Big Boy.
Great cards, I doubt the parents even thought twice about what you ordered? I can see where you’d maybe be embarrassed, but after having dinner with you, I’m sure they realized how wonderful you are!!!!! TFS!
Girl I am a coffee with my sugar kind of girl too. It's kinda embarrassing how many packets it takes. Lol I love both of the cards. 😍 So glad dinner went well. First impressions are so hard to have but I'm sure you nailed it. There will be a time to pay them back for your dinner so dont worry about it... Thanks for keeping us updated!!! 😉
Such cute cards!! Always love your coloring 🥰 I agree with everyone else in saying that you were fine to offer to pay for your meal but it certainly sounds like they wanted to make you feel like family and pay for your meal ❤️ You had no way of knowing that when you ordered your wedge salad, lol! Which, by the way, is totally the best salad ever 😉😍 Also wanted to add that it made me smile to hear you talk about how it was important to you to get home and tuck your little peanut into bed!! I know you’re a great momma!!!
Love the beehive cards! Adorable!! When I eat out I order whatever I want whether I'm paying for it or you are. I don't order more if someone else is paying. Does that make sense? You tried to pay and they wanted to treat you! All is good. I'm an over thinker too! Now I'm wanting a wedge salad!!!🥗
Don't feel bad! Offering to pay was awesome and it's totally awesome that they didn't accept. It would have been rude not to offer to pay in my opinion. If they thought your meal choice was too expensive, they would have accepted your offer to pay for your meal. 🌻
So cute!! No you were not being a jerk at all..you had no idea they were going to pay and I think that was transparent when you went to pay for your meal..so glad to hear you had a great time...I know it’s customary to leave a tip but tips are for good service..it doesn’t seem like the waitress’ service was very good..tfs I love hearing your stories!! Keep me coming!! xoxo 😘
Applebees use to have a wedge salad (not too sure if it’s still on the menu) but it has bleu cheese crumbles, bacon, pecans and ranch dressing.. sooo good. I make it at home now lol.
I love your 2fer cards! The ones today I am really drawn to the one with the flower because it seems to complete the card even more. As far as your date night - I think that if it bothered them that you ordered something different they wouldn't have insisted on paying for it! I'm sure they didn't think anything of it, but I know exactly how you feel because that's happened to me in the past and I felt the same way. I agree with Jacqueline Smith that his mom would really love a card made by you.
Beautiful cards! Just ordered me a Honey Bee stamp set this morning!! Sounds like your dinner went great! Really no need to worry about the wedge salad. It was kind of you to offer to pay, but I could have predicted the meal would be on them!! My husband and I do the same thing when our family goes out together!
Cute cards. I like how you created the depth in the first one. Cool. Re: dinner....you offered to pay, you’re off the hook. You can send one of your wonderful cards to say thank you - I think that would go over really well.
Love These!!!, I'm so happy your dating, and you sound so happy, it was adorable when you said my boyfriend..Lol I totally get it as someone who got married in my late 30's I also felt weird calling him my bf, as for dinner your good, you offered to pay , or pay tip.....
Love the card. When someone offers to pay for your meal after you have ordered; don't feel guilty. You didn't intend for them to pay for it in the first place. Be thankful that Eric's parents were a blessing to you. If you have time give them one of your beautiful cards as a thank you. Enjoy the time you had with them without guilt and enjoy the relationship you have with Eric.
Oh my Kelly. I am so with you. It drives me batty when I can’t pay for my own stuff. I too am an over thinker. Paralyzing. Gah. So I’ve come to the point where I try to find like the cheapest meal on the menu. Seriously though they were probably so happy that you came out to dinner and enjoyed your company. I am sure they did not mind at all picking up the tab, including your extra salad. Think how good it feels when you can do that for someone else. You are my kind of person. I cannot for the life of me keep my mouth closed. I am an open book to a fault and keep it real. I don’t care for fake talk or people that just don’t get me. You and I would probably gab for hours. Love your stories and cards. Nite. .
Cute, cute, cute cards! I'm a "Bee" fan! Love the dinner story, but hope you won't feel badly much longer. The wedge salad was your entree and it was not too "extra." I'm sure they will adore you. Relax a little and enjoy yourself! Take care, Victoria
I say no worries about dinner! If I say I’m paying I don’t care what anyone had as long as everyone got what they wanted and we had a great time! I feel like you would be the same way if you wanted to bless them with paying for the meal, you wouldn’t sit and think about what they ate. Sounds like it was a very blessed dinner and I can’t wait to hear more about this “boyfriend”. I’m excited for you. Your so fun! Lol.
Totally adorable!!! Great cards! I would've felt as you did...you did try to pay and offered the tip, you were not being rude. Until my mom passed (a little over a year ago), I still either fought to pay or if I knew she was picking up the tab, I was more selective with my choice of meal...and that was my mom. :) Also the word boyfriend as we get older does sound awkward but can't think of an alternative. It's a joy to hear of you moving on and although you have a lot of responsibilities, you must make time for yourself and find happiness whenever/wherever possible. Thank you for being you and sharing your talent and life stories.
Nah, they don’t think you’re even slightly rude. You handled it well. I like that you refer to yourself as a “truth teller,” instead of the way my daughter and son say the same about me: “Mom has NO internal editor at all.” Send his family a thank you card. Also: your May the Mouse card made me go a little bit wild with the Honeybee Stamps. New fun for me! Plus, the sent me a little free bee stamp! Freebie, free bee! Cute right? ❤️🤷🏻♀️
They're both beautiful and cute at same time. A very charming set, if aske me. I love how you the technique of putting those flowers in the forefront and the hive and things appear like they are set in the background. I've been keeping my eyes peeled for a cute, bee-utiful stamp set and you found it for me. Thank you Kelly 😘😘😘 I also would have insisted on the tip. Give it to your boyfriend and ask him to give it to them with your explanation of feeling like a freeloader. That's about all I can say and if they don't except it, you tried. Then they will at least know how you feel. Good luck chickadee❣ God bless you and Peanut ❤ XOXO
Sounds like you had a nice time at dinner. LOVE me some blue cheese on my salads!😁I always feel weird when others pay for my dinner. My husband and I just retired and our daughter and family took us out for a celebration dinner. We were appreciative but still....... Like a previous comment said, bake them something to show your thankfulness. Both of these cards are well done.
Would have been "nice" if expectations were known/set BEFORE the date/meal. My parents always paid for all group meals, and hubby and I do the same now. But all diners know ahead "order what you like -- we're treating". (This helps to avoid any awkward moments!) Your offer to pay (or tip) I am sure was appreciated! Like KAYTE W.'s comment to "bake something" [would be a great "thank you" to them for their hospitality]. Seems we always have a disappearing wait staff when we dine out -- glad you enjoyed the meal and hopefully lots of good conversation and laughs.
Here in Ohio it was manners big boy, shoneys (spelling?) In the south. Great cards, as always . SMILE , say thank you and move .on....... They are really lucky to have you in their sons life😆
Sweet cards, Kelly, so glad you enjoyed Eric’s birthday dinner with his family! Don’t fret about the salad 🥗…I would have done the same in thinking I was going to pay for my own dinner. Shoe on the other foot, I would have paid for everyone as well & not think anyone was a jerk for ordering a salad, maybe if you had ordered 3 martinis! 😳🤣Relax, smile & look back at the experience as, now I know what’s up when I’m with his family & that they are so kind & love Eric & enjoyed your company, YAY, now you can do the happy dance 💃
O.k. here's my two cents. Next year when you go out for his birthday with his family, you order an equivalent valued meal as your host. If there isn't a next year, well, it doesn't matter what happened this year, does it. In the meantime, you make them get to know what a wonderful person you are. If they invite you over for dinner bring her a hostess gift of handmade cards.
I totally think like you, and would have offered to pay, but i'm learning that some people are offended by that and others expect it. Don't beat yourself up... you did the right thing by offering they declined, thank them and keep it moving. You'll be able to show appreciation in other ways. Glad your happy! Oh and cute cards lol. 🐝🐝
Had a similar situation, but I ordered lobster. The people we were with picked up the check, and I felt so guilty. They would not have paid if they hadn't wanted to do so. Send one of your beautiful heartfelt cards as a thank you. Let the guilt go. Blessings.
You're perfectly normal in thinking this way it's not easy to accept people's generosity especially when your newly independent again, been there. His family also wanted to make a good impression to you so you were gracious and so we're they! PS love the cards!
Ok. First the cards are great...loved the colors and coloring and thought the Beecause sentiment was too cute. Next, stop feeling guilty, the moment you took money out to pay for your meal it became their choice to insist on paying, also you went farther and offered to leave the tip, so no more guilt. I have been in the position where a son's girlfriend was invited to go out to dinner with other family members and never even considered letting her pay for anything. Hope this helps. Thanks for everything!
So glad you had a great experience at your dinner. Do not feel bad about them paying, you didnt know and you also did offer to pay. Let it go sista. lo
Super cute cards! You should not feel bad about the salad. Did you eat it all and not let any go to waste? If yes, then that means you enjoyed it. You already showed them you had plan to pay for your meal. Send a nice Thank you card to them and don't worry about it.
First I love your cards(nothing new there) 2nd I Love Eric's post!! I also have a rather crazy family so anyone new that is brought in we kinda tell them" Yeh this is us" & they have seen the crazy good & a bit of the crazy bad... But we all stick together in the end. & we take turns paying for birthday dinners( birthday person & partner never pay) Our parents are no longer with us or they would have. Sounds like you have a fun group here enjoy the ride!!
Send his parents one of your beautiful cards and tell them how much you enjoyed spending time with them and what a fine son they raised. I'm sure they are thrilled that their son met such a kind, sweet person. The bee cards are adorable!!
As a parent of adult children - when we take the kids out and their dates, friends, spouses ... we do not look at what they ordered or how much it was ... it was our treat and we were blessed by the time with them.
You are the only one worrying about the dinner. They were glad to have you and their son sharing his birthday. Love the card. Thanks for sharing.
You have nothing to worry about!! They knew it would be their gift to give you just have to except graciously. The cards are wonderful and I appreciate all of your tutelage!
Kelly you are not rude at all, by wanting to pay you showed that you didn't know that they would pay for the diner. I am so glad you had a nice diner and enjoyed the evening, you deserve it. Stay yourself, that's enough.
Your cards are awesome, love them both. Thank you so much for showing and the story.
Oh Kelly these cards are so sweet. Love HB sets, they are always adorable.
That was very kind of his family. It wasn't like you expected them to pay for yours. I am sure you will be seeing them again so you can always "get them back" by making something special to take to them when you visit their home for the first time.
Kelly! You had an amazing evening with his family, girl. You did the right thing by offering to pay for your share and even the tip, but they wanted you there for his special celebration. Send a card to thank his mom. She'd be all over that. And speaking of cards... ;) these two are absolutely awesome. Love the colors, love the bees, and love YOU! ♥
These two cards are so sweet! And don’t you worry at all about family paying for you. I bet they didn’t even give your salad a second thought. It’s so wonderful to hear you have found a new happy and I’m so thrilled for you! You’re my happy learning from you and watching your videos 💕
There is nothing you could have done in the situation but let them pay. They knew you were going to pay ;but, they said no sand you certainly didn’t want to make a scene. Make them an awesome thank you card! I am so happy for you having a nice man to spend time with you. I hope he treats you like you deserve- you deserve only love, kindness, understanding, respect and consideration.
Adorable cards! And since you clearly offered and were expecting to pay for your own dinner, I’m sure they didn’t give a second thought! Shows how kind and thoughtful you are that you are concerned about it!❤️
I love your stories!! I was widowed at 40. I'm now almost 50. I can't even imagine dating now and saying my boyfriend. You are so lucky to have a family that wants you around.
I love your story time so much.
So ya...dinner...you ordered what you wanted before they offered. They knew what they were paying for. You shouldn't feel bad.
They were happy to meet you and know their family member is happy! Trust me. As a mother in law, I'm happy to see my son happy and wanting to cherish my time with his wife is priceless...a $12 salad in addition to the meal would make me more than happy to bless her with.
Love you Kelly. Keep it coming girl.
Oh...love the cards! 😉
I have been the mom that picks up the tab for special dinners. Don't feel bad! It's the company I love and when my kids bring special friends....it is beyond wonderful for me! No worries about the salad!!!
Beautiful card! My hubbys family is the same way. Birthday dinners are always their treat. You are just fine and I’m sure they loved you. How could they not? 😊
Kelly, it sounds like a lovely dinner with a friendly , hospitable and welcoming family, and I think you should not worry about it for one ,
Moment longer. I am sure they could see what a genuine person you are anyway and offering to pay was nice of you. I would think if anything they would think “there’s a lady who knows what she wants” and that is so refreshing, I bet they will love you,just like we all do 🤪did they know they were having dinner with a celebrity 😘🇬🇧
Kelly sweetheart, i am positive 100% that they never thought anything of the sort. This lovely family want their precious son to be happy and he has finally found a beautiful warm hearted lady, one that is a giver and not a taker. Finding someone who is a giver and who gives so freely, whose mind set thinks of others(eh, this dinner case in point) is worth more than gold. Wanting to be a parent that wants to see their child to bed, leaves wonderful memories with that child forever and it shows responsibility. What Eric's lovely family seen was a mother who cares, a lady who is appreciative of their kindness and the reason their beloved son(sorry Eric, but it doesn't matter how old you get, you will always be your parents baby/child) is happier than forever.
Eric she is a lovely lass, who deserves to be happy once more. She is hard working and very giving of her time and talent, a fantastic role model of goodness for her son and i'm glad she has found a lovely man who appreciates that about her. I hope that you had a lovely birthday with your favourite people around you.
Sending hugs across the miles to you lovely lass and peanut(Nathan) from Scotland. x
so super cute cards. I love how you give the illusion of depth. Concerning the salad...don't worry they will not think anything of it. They fully intended to pay and you were not aware of this " tradition" of theirs. I am sure they loved you and thought nothing of it.
Love the cards. Honeybee makes some great stamps.
I was married at 20, divorced at 24. It felt weird and juvenile to me to say I had a boyfriend after that too so I don't think it has anything to do with your age.
As for your salad at dinner, no one was thinking you were rude because you ordered a $12 salad. It was what you wanted to eat and you tried paying.
My in-laws are like that. They always pay for my food when we all go out. I have tried ordering cheaper items when out with them but they really want me to get what I want. My mother-in-law has gotten on me several times about that.
You're a lovely lady, they'll love you. Don't sweat it.
Dude, Birthday dinners are fair game!! Anything you want, even if you aren’t the Birthday person!!! Family always pays in our family too!!
Very well done! You’re really talented😁👍
Don’t worry about it - every family has their way of doing things. Glad you enjoyed the dinner and I’m sure they loved you. Hang in there. The cards are adorable. TFS
Adorable cards! I would probably make the parents a thank you card and include a pretty bundle of flowers! It’s not needed, when we treat dinner, we don’t put a mental amount each person should spend. We go first class or don’t go. If that makes sense. It’s us crafters creed, right? Spread kindness! ❤️😘✌️💐
Your polite, generous and caring....they wouldn't of had a second thought about the price of a salad...they would of been all saying Eric has got it right having you in his life....
Beautiful Kelly! Your colouring always wows me! I agree with what everyone else has said about the dinner. It's all good! Now you have a chance to share your art with them. Win win! 😍
Love the cards. I once had a free meal at Friday's years ago. It was during the holiday.season and when I went to pul out my 💵 to pay, the waitress told me not to worry about it, it was on her.
They don't care... but if they find this video, they may give you a hard time about it forever. Send them a thank you note. They will love that.
I just love love love your stories!!!! Oh and cards are amazing too!
I am 58, so “boyfriend” sounds crazy when I say it! My daughter decided I should call him my “spousal equivalent.” It has caught on, and it always gives us all a good laugh.
I agree with the comments below and also being a MIL I have paid for many family dinners with no expectation of the "kids" paying for it, even the tip. I was laughing through your whole story, thinking that "I hope Eric knows his story is going to be part of your stories moving forward!" If he know you at all, I would think he would know that. Love your bees. thanks as always for sharing.
His family sounds great. Had you not offered to pay for your own food they may have found you to be a little "extra" but you did offer. So that cancels it all out. If you are really worried, just let them watch this video, this will adore you by the end.
Take this dinner date as your first learning lesson. Send his parents a thank you card and move on. For the next dinner date involving his family, discuss the check with him before you get to the restaurant. Simply ask if it's ok if you buy your own meal.. his answer will let you know, giving you a perfect guideline of ordering. Once you're more "friendly" with his family, they may be more willing to let you pitch in on the tip.
Kelly, do not feel bad. I’m sure they really appreciated that you offered to pay. And I’m sure you’ll be invited to more family get togethers! Love the cards and I hope you keep making two at once! I’m really enjoying it
It's a Mom & Dad thing, don't worry about it. You are not rude, I’m sure they are happy you enjoyed what you had to eat. Great cards!
I know it can be nerve wracking but looks like you handled dinner well. Grest cards! You always inspire me to practice more.
I love these cards! They make me smile. 😊 Don’t worry about the salad. You didn’t know they were buying. Just take a special dessert or something next time you see them. I’m so happy for you!
Kelly, my boys are now 18 and 21. Whenever we go out as a family and their girlfriends are invited, we always expect to pay for everyone. The fact that you even offered to pay probably shocked his parents. lol. You can always give them a thank you card and small gift such as a bottle of wine, candy, or a plant. I’m sure they would really appreciate the thoughtfulness.
Some day you will be paying for Peanut and his date’s meals. It’s just a parent thing, and I know I’m happy to do so. It lets me get to know the girlfriend. So, no more worrying for you, I’m sure that they loved you.
No need to feel anything but good. You put the money on the table, which was appropriate. And, because you did that, there was no reason for them to feel taken advantage of. Which they could then see you are not that type of person. You also offered to leave the tip, which again, they could see you were being very considerate. I'm sure all of this earned you points with them, as they can see you would not try to take advantage of their son either. I'm so happy you had a great time and enjoyed a great meal and had great company. What you can do Kelley is send them a lovely handmade "Thank You" Card. They would love it! Oh... btw... The cards are awesome! Thanks so much for sharing. xo
Ahhh that is so sweet that you offered to pay! I am sure they think that you are already part of the family because Eric thought enough to bring you. His family I am sure have taken you in as one of there own. I wouldn’t worry about it! Hugs you are so nice
You offered to pay for your dinner, you went with the intention of paying for your meal, You did good girl. Dnt feel bad about your 12.00 salad. And I’m one that open mouth insert foot if not both feet lol Makes life a little interesting . Love your work thank you for sharing your talents with us and your stories to brighten ours days
I know exactly what you mean Kelly, and I'd feel the same, but your just gonna have to accept their generosity. Some people are just like that, and good for you ordering that salad, it sounds divine.
Love your card...love your stories xx
Heck no! You're not rude. I order all deserts when I go to fancy restaurants with my husband's family. No real food lol. Love bees
Kelly, calm down, they knew what you had ordered and insisted on paying. Let it go! Great coloring, as always.
Really pretty cards. Thank you for sharing!
No one cared about a $12 salad, they were just happy you were insane enough to come hang out what that crazy group again! They all said how much they loved you and can’t wait to see you again 😘 I couldn’t agree with them more!
You're so lucky you come up anonymous. If I could create a big red blinking arrow sign that said "THIS IS ERIC!" I totally would. 😋
Not anonymous..lol Hi Eric...take good care of our Kelly.. and Kelly you could refer to Eric as "your old man". Lol beautiful cards as always!!
Is this the infamous Eric? As you can tell, we all love your Kelly! We all are enjoying tagging along on your adventure!
Soooo not anonymous--LOL! I knew it was THE Eric when I saw his name and read his comment (which was perfect, btw!). Not sure if this is a good thing or a bad thing. ;-) Will you now filter yourself when you talk about him? I know you say you don't have a filter, but will story time be the same? On the flip side, we now know how to reach him, soooo... hehehe! Treat her right, Eric. She's one in a million with seriously dedicated followers! ;-)
@@KellyTaylorCards Girl, we've got his number!
Oh Kelly I'm loving this card also. I'm going to buy myself a bee hive. And this card is awesome like you. I cant wait till spring/Summer too. TFS jen
Not much you can do after the fact for sure and understand for sure..one of your nice hand made cards..for sure and you could always add some flowers or a bottle of wine or something the next time you are invited. Just continue to be yourself and enjoy the journey..blessings ...these are such cute cards for sure.
These cards are so adorable. You are not a jerk. You clearly were going to pay. I really wouldn't worry about it.
You didn't know their family rule about paying for birthday meals so don't worry. You offered to pay, it is all good. They know you expected to pay so they won't think you were taking advantage. Now you know for next time. They sound lovely and I am sure they are just glad you enjoyed your meal x
Kelly, I love the cards.....glad you enjoyed your dinner. You offered to pay... don’t worry about the rest. I’m sure they were just happy to have you join them. I think it was Manners Big Boy! Have a wonderful week.
Kelly, did you eat the salad... don't feel bad. You presented cash and offered to pay, it is really easy not to offer to pay if the family did not expect to or want to pay. You met a very courteous, loving family that wanted you to feel part of their family. Appreciate their graciousness, let it go. Bake something special the next time you visit their home, in that way you can reciprocate with something from the heart. So glad your dinner was so nice. Love the cards by the way!
Kayte W. Well said. I agree
Kayte W. I totally agree with your comment...regarding dinner and the cards.
Lovely cards.. as usual! Don't feel guilty... you offered twice to pay.. it's their dicision to pay. I realy find it great that you have found love in youre life and that you are enjoing it! Keep going girl!
I LOVE this card, it’s beautiful and you’re so amazing, creative and inspiring! About your dinner, a) you’re NOT old and b) saying “boyfriend” is fine as long as you’re comfortable with it, otherwise “my guy” or my “male friend” are also alternatives, what he refers to you as might help you decide and feel comfortable saying. About you offering to pay, don’t worry about it, you’re fine and I’m certain they loved you! We have an established rule with our kids and their significant others, we ALWAYS pay regardless of who eats what and we want them to honestly select what they want to eat. Hopefully they share that beforehand with whomever it is they’re bringing along to avoid anyone feeling “uncomfortable.” So just go with it and enjoy the process, always be yourself with your bubbly and “what you see is what you get” personality, I’m one who can spot a “fake” from a mile away and one of them may have that ability, too! I know though they loved you and are excited for Eric though, how could they not be?! ❤️
IF you feel like it, make one of your cards into a Thank You card and give it to Eric to deliver to his parents, I KNOW that would impress them (and Eric) so much! And include a short brief comment about you appreciating them including you in celebrating Eric’s birthday and the lovely dinner, and that you really had a good time. That’ll buy you brownie points, my friend, I promise! ❤️
I love love bees and vee hives in have a similar set so happy to see you color this! How can they think you're rude when you literally tried to pay for it. Don't worry about it.
Love the cards and the stories.
I have never met you before but I feel like we could be besties based on your videos and stories....and this is why I feel safe in saying I am pretty positive that they think you are the bees knees (pun totally intended with this card) and they think you're a good person, and a great mom and a wonderful fit for their son. So girl you get yourself your salad and enjoy ever delicious bite!
Beyond gorgeous! And don't worry about the salad! It was right of them to treat you! You're their son's new lady! It was great that you offered to pay bc it shows your independence and that you're not taking advantage, but it would've been wrong for them to accept! Go with it!
Love these!!!!! I just wanna sing song “Kelly has a boyyyyyfriennnnnd!” 🥰 I’m glad you had a good time Kelly!!!!!
Nice color palette!
Great cards... He likely told them how great you are and they obviously agreed welcoming you into the family.
Heck NO! You offered. That was sweet of both and enough. Sounds like you are in with his family. Stop overthinking it.
You cards are always great. Thank you.
Btw we still have a few Shoneys in NC, never seen a Big Boy(wish I had) here or Fl but my uncle opened a Burger Boy in the 60’s-90’s like the Big Boy.
Kelly don't beat yourself up. You offered to pay. If they are like Eric its no deal. Enjoy your time with them. Your cards are brilliant.💕
Great cards, I doubt the parents even thought twice about what you ordered? I can see where you’d maybe be embarrassed, but after having dinner with you, I’m sure they realized how wonderful you are!!!!! TFS!
Girl I am a coffee with my sugar kind of girl too. It's kinda embarrassing how many packets it takes. Lol
I love both of the cards. 😍
So glad dinner went well. First impressions are so hard to have but I'm sure you nailed it. There will be a time to pay them back for your dinner so dont worry about it... Thanks for keeping us updated!!! 😉
Such cute cards!! Always love your coloring 🥰 I agree with everyone else in saying that you were fine to offer to pay for your meal but it certainly sounds like they wanted to make you feel like family and pay for your meal ❤️ You had no way of knowing that when you ordered your wedge salad, lol! Which, by the way, is totally the best salad ever 😉😍 Also wanted to add that it made me smile to hear you talk about how it was important to you to get home and tuck your little peanut into bed!! I know you’re a great momma!!!
Love the beehive cards! Adorable!! When I eat out I order whatever I want whether I'm paying for it or you are. I don't order more if someone else is paying. Does that make sense? You tried to pay and they wanted to treat you! All is good. I'm an over thinker too! Now I'm wanting a wedge salad!!!🥗
Forgot to tell you...like always...LOVE the card! ❤️
Don't feel bad! Offering to pay was awesome and it's totally awesome that they didn't accept. It would have been rude not to offer to pay in my opinion. If they thought your meal choice was too expensive, they would have accepted your offer to pay for your meal. 🌻
Love your cards!! I am sure they were fine with paying for yout dinner, I am sure they appreciated that you offered.
So cute!! No you were not being a jerk at all..you had no idea they were going to pay and I think that was transparent when you went to pay for your meal..so glad to hear you had a great time...I know it’s customary to leave a tip but tips are for good service..it doesn’t seem like the waitress’ service was very good..tfs I love hearing your stories!! Keep me coming!! xoxo 😘
Applebees use to have a wedge salad (not too sure if it’s still on the menu) but it has bleu cheese crumbles, bacon, pecans and ranch dressing.. sooo good. I make it at home now lol.
I love your 2fer cards! The ones today I am really drawn to the one with the flower because it seems to complete the card even more. As far as your date night - I think that if it bothered them that you ordered something different they wouldn't have insisted on paying for it! I'm sure they didn't think anything of it, but I know exactly how you feel because that's happened to me in the past and I felt the same way. I agree with Jacqueline Smith that his mom would really love a card made by you.
Beautiful cards! Just ordered me a Honey Bee stamp set this morning!! Sounds like your dinner went great! Really no need to worry about the wedge salad. It was kind of you to offer to pay, but I could have predicted the meal would be on them!! My husband and I do the same thing when our family goes out together!
If you make their son happy, they don't care how much your meal was. I'm sure that was the LAST thought on their minds.
Such cute cards too😁🐝
Love both cards but like the Hi Honey one the best. I agree with everyone else who has commented on the dinner thing.
Cute cards. I like how you created the depth in the first one. Cool. Re: dinner....you offered to pay, you’re off the hook. You can send one of your wonderful cards to say thank you - I think that would go over really well.
Love These!!!, I'm so happy your dating, and you sound so happy, it was adorable when you said my boyfriend..Lol I totally get it as someone who got married in my late 30's I also felt weird calling him my bf, as for dinner your good, you offered to pay , or pay tip.....
Love the card. When someone offers to pay for your meal after you have ordered; don't feel guilty. You didn't intend for them to pay for it in the first place. Be thankful that Eric's parents were a blessing to you. If you have time give them one of your beautiful cards as a thank you. Enjoy the time you had with them without guilt and enjoy the relationship you have with Eric.
Oh my Kelly. I am so with you. It drives me batty when I can’t pay for my own stuff. I too am an over thinker. Paralyzing. Gah. So I’ve come to the point where I try to find like the cheapest meal on the menu. Seriously though they were probably so happy that you came out to dinner and enjoyed your company. I am sure they did not mind at all picking up the tab, including your extra salad. Think how good it feels when you can do that for someone else. You are my kind of person. I cannot for the life of me keep my mouth closed. I am an open book to a fault and keep it real. I don’t care for fake talk or people that just don’t get me. You and I would probably gab for hours. Love your stories and cards. Nite. .
Definitely not a rude jerk! You took the money out to pay, they said no, I’m sure they appreciated the fact you offered . X
Cute, cute, cute cards! I'm a "Bee" fan! Love the dinner story, but hope you won't feel badly much longer. The wedge salad was your entree and it was not too "extra." I'm sure they will adore you. Relax a little and enjoy yourself! Take care, Victoria
I say no worries about dinner! If I say I’m paying I don’t care what anyone had as long as everyone got what they wanted and we had a great time! I feel like you would be the same way if you wanted to bless them with paying for the meal, you wouldn’t sit and think about what they ate. Sounds like it was a very blessed dinner and I can’t wait to hear more about this “boyfriend”. I’m excited for you. Your so fun! Lol.
Totally adorable!!! Great cards! I would've felt as you did...you did try to pay and offered the tip, you were not being rude. Until my mom passed (a little over a year ago), I still either fought to pay or if I knew she was picking up the tab, I was more selective with my choice of meal...and that was my mom. :) Also the word boyfriend as we get older does sound awkward but can't think of an alternative.
It's a joy to hear of you moving on and although you have a lot of responsibilities, you must make time for yourself and find happiness whenever/wherever possible. Thank you for being you and sharing your talent and life stories.
One person suggested "beau" - I love that!
Nah, they don’t think you’re even slightly rude. You handled it well. I like that you refer to yourself as a “truth teller,” instead of the way my daughter and son say the same about me: “Mom has NO internal editor at all.” Send his family a thank you card. Also: your May the Mouse card made me go a little bit wild with the Honeybee Stamps. New fun for me! Plus, the sent me a little free bee stamp! Freebie, free bee! Cute right? ❤️🤷🏻♀️
They're both beautiful and cute at same time. A very charming set, if aske me. I love how you the technique of putting those flowers in the forefront and the hive and things appear like they are set in the background. I've been keeping my eyes peeled for a cute, bee-utiful stamp set and you found it for me. Thank you Kelly 😘😘😘
I also would have insisted on the tip. Give it to your boyfriend and ask him to give it to them with your explanation of feeling like a freeloader. That's about all I can say and if they don't except it, you tried. Then they will at least know how you feel. Good luck chickadee❣
God bless you and Peanut ❤ XOXO
You always do an amazing job on your cards
Sounds like you had a nice time at dinner. LOVE me some blue cheese on my salads!😁I always feel weird when others pay for my dinner. My husband and I just retired and our daughter and family took us out for a celebration dinner. We were appreciative but still....... Like a previous comment said, bake them something to show your thankfulness. Both of these cards are well done.
Would have been "nice" if expectations were known/set BEFORE the date/meal. My parents always paid for all group meals, and hubby and I do the same now. But all diners know ahead "order what you like -- we're treating". (This helps to avoid any awkward moments!) Your offer to pay (or tip) I am sure was appreciated! Like KAYTE W.'s comment to "bake something" [would be a great "thank you" to them for their hospitality]. Seems we always have a disappearing wait staff when we dine out -- glad you enjoyed the meal and hopefully lots of good conversation and laughs.
Here in Ohio it was manners big boy, shoneys (spelling?) In the south. Great cards, as always . SMILE , say thank you and move .on....... They are really lucky to have you in their sons life😆
Sweet cards, Kelly, so glad you enjoyed Eric’s birthday dinner with his family! Don’t fret about the salad 🥗…I would have done the same in thinking I was going to pay for my own dinner. Shoe on the other foot, I would have paid for everyone as well & not think anyone was a jerk for ordering a salad, maybe if you had ordered 3 martinis! 😳🤣Relax, smile & look back at the experience as, now I know what’s up when I’m with his family & that they are so kind & love Eric & enjoyed your company, YAY, now you can do the happy dance 💃
O.k. here's my two cents. Next year when you go out for his birthday with his family, you order an equivalent valued meal as your host. If there isn't a next year, well, it doesn't matter what happened this year, does it. In the meantime, you make them get to know what a wonderful person you are. If they invite you over for dinner bring her a hostess gift of handmade cards.
I totally think like you, and would have offered to pay, but i'm learning that some people are offended by that and others expect it. Don't beat yourself up... you did the right thing by offering they declined, thank them and keep it moving. You'll be able to show appreciation in other ways. Glad your happy! Oh and cute cards lol. 🐝🐝
Had a similar situation, but I ordered lobster. The people we were with picked up the check, and I felt so guilty. They would not have paid if they hadn't wanted to do so. Send one of your beautiful heartfelt cards as a thank you. Let the guilt go. Blessings.
How about significant other. Love the cards. 💜
I agree with Eric! Oh and great cards!!
You're perfectly normal in thinking this way it's not easy to accept people's generosity especially when your newly independent again, been there. His family also wanted to make a good impression to you so you were gracious and so we're they!
PS love the cards!
Ok. First the cards are great...loved the colors and coloring and thought the Beecause sentiment was too cute. Next, stop feeling guilty, the moment you took money out to pay for your meal it became their choice to insist on paying, also you went farther and offered to leave the tip, so no more guilt. I have been in the position where a son's girlfriend was invited to go out to dinner with other family members and never even considered letting her pay for anything. Hope this helps.
Thanks for everything!
So glad you had a great experience at your dinner. Do not feel bad about them paying, you didnt know and you also did offer to pay. Let it go sista. lo
Super cute cards! You should not feel bad about the salad. Did you eat it all and not let any go to waste? If yes, then that means you enjoyed it. You already showed them you had plan to pay for your meal. Send a nice Thank you card to them and don't worry about it.
First I love your cards(nothing new there) 2nd I Love Eric's post!! I also have a rather crazy family so anyone new that is brought in we kinda tell them" Yeh this is us" & they have seen the crazy good & a bit of the crazy bad... But we all stick together in the end. & we take turns paying for birthday dinners( birthday person & partner never pay) Our parents are no longer with us or they would have. Sounds like you have a fun group here enjoy the ride!!
Absolutely beautiful cards!