Bride FREAKS OUT After Trying On A Wedding Dress For The First Time | Say Yes To The Dress UK
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- Brides Molly and Jade are best friends and they are wedding dress shopping together. Everything seemed to go smoothly until Jade tried on a wedding dress for the first time ever and started freaking out!
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So sweet of the girl to continue to apologize to everyone while she is having a panic attack. Felt so bad for her.
I dont know about other people but my panic attacks just make me apologize constantly, its not a being polite thing its the brain going into defensive mode, so you apologize a lot during panic attacks to try and avoid the anger of those nearby
@@laurenwilson9383 Whenever you have one again, know I am thinking of you.
@@laurenwilson9383 the same goes for me, but until I read your post it didn't click that it's a defensive mechanism
Some people in comment section seem not to understand it either, either by thinking it’s freaky or question her whole relationship, and it’s because that kind of thinking people want to apologize.
I agree. I wouldn’t say it being polite, it comes from a place of shame. Which is why it felt nice to hear my friend say “the next time this happens to you please don’t feel like you need to apologize. You have done nothing wrong.”
That said I did apologize the next time it happened but I didnt feel as bad as I did the first time I had a panic attack in front of my friends.
The first dress on Molly looked so beautiful.
Ikkkrrr
I agree, though she looked pretty in all the dresses but the 1st dress was made for her
The bodice was amazing!
I loved that first one too
Oh yes!! Omg I thought that's the dress!! A total stunner!
One of the first times the title isn't too dramatic. Wow, she really freaked out!
Yea, why did she ? I didn't really understand. 🤔
@@carmagurl317 she's over dramatic
@@noodles450 Anxiety disorders exist, you know?
@@carmagurl317 It's possible she had a panic attack from an anxiety disorder. It's hard to know due to all the editing
@@noodles450 She was literally hyperventilating and having a panic attack.......
The first dress Molly wore was out of this world - elegant, gorgeous and sparkly. All the others were pretty meh.
I'm surprised they didn't like it.
Maybe it looked good on camera but not in person.
Molly did say that her fiance wouldn't have liked it. After that she said she was more into the wedding than he was.
Sparkly is too new money.. if you're looking for sophistication, it's not covered in bling...
@@Wondorawoman she was talking about her friend jade not her fiance
Can't agree. Found it a very ugly dress. Made her way too big, just like what was said. The third dress was stunning and an excellent fit on her. She definitely made the right choice.
"I think I'm more into my wedding than Jade is"... cuts to Jade having a full panic attack
She actually said that after Jade had her anxiety attack
It’s all cut to tell the story a certain way right? :)
Just realised I'm watching this show while being in a loving and serious relationship for the first time :') it hits different
Ayee glad to hear that you're happy🥺😊 May Allah bless you and your S.O💕
It does, doesn’t it? 💚💚
It does! Before I watched just for the fashion (I LOVE wedding dresses somce I was a kid) but now It tickles the Heart differently 🥰
@@firozabegum2833 I am really so sorry if I offended you but what if they are not Muslim.
@@chickennuggets711 I'm not Muslim, and I'm not Christian, but it's so very common for Christians and other religious people to send "good vibes" in the language of their religion. I don't think it matters whether they are Muslim or not.
I love there friendship, there was no jealousy. It was so amazing, they were both so happy for each other
And they were roommates 😂
I love it too
When the dark haired girl was describing her fiance: "we get on well and he makes me laugh", I imeddiately thought she is describing more a friend than her future husband and after when she had a panic attack it made sense to me. She is actually not sure of this marriage.
Yeah, like maybe she was getting married because her friend was??
@@searchparty2087 could be yeah, but I definitely didn't get the "I love this person so much and really want to marry him" vibes.
@@lillemorable I felt that as well. At first I sympathized because sometimes panic attacks can come on and they aren't totally related to not wanting to do something but then she said she wished she could've said yes to the dress at the same time and they were dressed very similarly. So there were a lot of things pointing to it being more about taking this step with her best friend than it is about having found the one she wants to commit to.
As someone married 24+ years, friendship is the best key to marriage!
@@katzlevyalon definitely, friendship is the foundation but there has to be more, otherwise I can go and marry my best friend right now, he also makes me laugh and is kind. It is simply not enough.
If you don't know what a panic attack looks like, the look on her face as it was coming on describes it all. Bless her heart. Best wishes to both beautiful brides.
I was just going to say that
i don't even have a boyfriend yet I'm binged watching this series
You and me both!
I've been dumbed 4 weeks ago and am here so you are good lol
Same
Same I not planning on getting married and I Love watching them lol
I’m not old enough to get married I’m hooked on this
I wouldnt like to try on dresses with someone else, even with best friend. It should be my moment, and at other day i would go with my friend as support, for her moment :D
Well personally,I'm not an attention seeker and would love to share that beautiful moment with my best friend
@@kanyebreast6072 I dont think that if you want to have that special day all by yourself it defines you as an attention seeker
@@kanyebreast6072 well i wouldnt call that being attention seeker, just because i want to have this special day forr me. And also from practical point of view i would like people to be focus on my dress so we could find it faster, just focus on one goal.
Plus there is no reason for doing this at the same time, is not like the shop will dissapear after my visit 😅 and what if we would like the same dress? That could be problematic.
Yeah same, the best friend should be there as support and not trying on with me. Like yeah we are best friends but at the same time, it’s okay for each us to have our moment and support the other
I feel that the first bride settled! They didn’t do a veil moment on her either! I feel that they should have had separate appointments in order to support one another and have their own special moments! The first dress on Molly was a show stopper and I thought that it fit her like a glove. That said, she turned that dress down but her friend would have looked exotic in it. I thought the first brides dress pics weren’t very pretty at all.
Molly looked ethereal in frst dress.. it was made for her..
Can't agree. Found the dress plain and dull and way too big for her. Her choice was an excellent dress for her.
I loved that first dress on Molly with the beaded bodice. I didn't like any of the other dresses. But they looked happy and I love that they both found dresses they loved. 🙂
That dress was pretty
YESSSS that dress was so sexy but she couldn’t handle how fancy it was and where’s Lori and randy???
I feel like the ethical thing to do would've been to stop filming when she started having a panic attack.
I’m sure they got permission to play the footage, they were making sure she was alright. But those who document it is critical that they do stay calm and continue to document through any kind of surprising happenings. As long as there was other help to be had which there was plenty.
I agree.
But of course they never would as that becomes their angle 🤷♀️ Instead of focusing on two best friends having a shared appointment with no jealousy, no one-upmanship & lovely supportive mum’s
Finally two Genuine friends! And two lovely mothers!
I wanted them to get the cameras out of Jade's face while she was having a panic attack :( that probably didn't help at all.
On a positive note, their friendship seems so lovely, and there wasn't an ounce of jealousy or drama, which I loved!
David was SO premature by asking Jade if she's saying yes. She's clearly uncomfortable and got pressured into it before she was ready/ decisive.
That's this entire show. I got married 2 years ago and tried on way more than 2 dresses per shop, at multiple stores in more than one country which probably was excessive, but if I'm spending $2000 on a single dress, I'm going to be sure I've tried everything there is and made sure I found the best one. I loved the first few dresses I tried but then as I tried more beautiful ones, I was so happy I didn't commit to the first ones because some of the ones I tried later were way more beautiful and better quality! I hate how as soon as a bride likes something they try to force her to commit
@momera, you know that most of the dresses are edited out from the show (and we are just watching the episodes themselves edited to clips too so there is even less dresses here) and that most brides have tried on dresses elsewhere (she has not nor some brides but that’s not the typical bride here).
I agree, she did not have her aha moment and the dress was sadly not very flattering, she was beautiful and deserved a much more suited dress.
I knew I found my wedding dress when I didn’t want to take it off! 😂😂
I feel so bad for her she seemed so scared!! Love the first dress for the girl with orange hair.
I did too.
Molly
The illusion neckline on Jade's dress looks hideous.
Hopefully they could order the illusion in a color that blends in with her skin tone more.
@@gidgetgetscrafty yeah right
Thank GOD! Someone mirroring my thoughts.
@@shwetaj7359 I didn't like it either. It almost looks like she's wearing a cheap t-shirt on top.
Yes, it’s awful. Especially with her skin color when it makes such a contrast.
Two beautiful women, two incredibly unflattering dresses. :(
My thoughts exactly
Agree
OMG YES!!!!!!!
Exactly my thoughts.
It's like they were pressured into saying yes, due to each others presence.
Better go one by one, then together. It didn't help them at all
Alterations?? Maybe they could help?
The neckline on jades dress is too tacky god....
I know right, I'm staring at it the whole time
I love that pearl bodice dress so much, but no one ever picks it.
Perhaps it is waiting for you?
The fact that these woman can share their special day and couldn't imagine doing it with out each other without being jealous is amazing! True friends right there!! They looked gorgeous!
I love that these friends are the true definition. No sense of competition or jealousy. Just support, compassion, and sincere care for the other. Beautiful to see a real solid friendship, and their moms are just as adorable and seem to have the same type of friendship. ❤️
This appointment is so... chaotic. None on them had as much staff attention as they needed
Honestly, I find SYTTD UK has the worst staff EXCEPT FOR GOK. If Gok isn’t in an episode, then it’s a shitshow. Gross!
@@Icykrissy yeah, I agree. But I'm not british, maybe their nation just behave like this and it is normal for them? I'm sometimes wondering if I'm a bit too harsh for mr Emanuel's episodes.
Just because you don't see everything that happened, doesn't mean it did not happen. I found it incredible, that in such a short time the found both the brides the dress, that was probably the most becoming to them in the whole store. They sparkled on outshone the sun.
@ Kristina Savic Gok is in Lancaster episodes.
@@Icykrissy Gok is not associated with the UK version. He is with the Lancashire version.
The Dando London dress selected by Jade was meh.. I'm surprised they loved it so much. It didn't look flattering at all.
And the ball gown looked amazing on Molly!
Well..as long as the brides are happy 🤷♀️
With proper alterations I’m pretty sure it would look more flattering and great on her!
@@emillyrose8884 I agree. It made her waist bigger.
Never saw an episode, where they found such excellent dresses so fast, so completely what the brides wanted and making them look so stunning. So what on earth are you talking about. Jade's dress was a dream come true. But that ball gown made Molly way too big. That third dress, that she chose, was Much better on her. Made her the most beautiful bride of England!
I love Jade’s consultant, she was so sweet, especially when Jade was having a panic attack. She was like “it’s okay, I’ve got you”, and handled the situation just right. Also, I’ve seen her in past episodes and her hair is gorgeous, such a lovely person ❤️
Molly looked gorgeous in first dress
It was beautiful on her
Having suffered with panic attacks, I so felt for this bride. What lovely friends and family . 🌸🌿
I loved the first pearl ball gown. Wish she had opted for it but guess not all love a ball gown
Same! It was sooo flattering on her and so elegant
“It’s slightly too formal”
Girl... it’s your *WEDDING.*
Meaning: it should have a bit of a frolic splash to it. It is a party, after all. Joi de vivre. She found it and she looked Amazing in it.
That’s what I thought at first as well, but some women really like the boho look or something along those lines.
Molly's first is incredibly beautiful, I would not have tried anything else, that dress is a dream
finally a pair a best friends who can get married around the same time and be happy for each other rather than competitive
I love that both the friends and the moms can share this experience. It makes it extra magical. Love it!
Molly looks so pretty. The first dress and that hair she looked like a Princess😍
What a beautiful friendship these two beautiful women have. Such respect and love they show to one another.
I loved the beaded ballgown and the more formal gown. Both of the second dresses looked like sacks. I guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
I'm sure they'll look better when they're tailored to fit the girls. Not everyone can find a sample that fits perfectly.
I think jade would have looked nice in a lace simple fitted number as to not overwhelm herself. That way she feels comfortable and relaxed yet still elegant.
They did her dirty with that thumbnail lmao
Underrated comment
😂😂😂 omfg they really did.. I couldn’t stop laughing
I'm 42 & single...and the idea of marrying someone gives me panic attacks too. I totally get it! Bless her.
Honestly, if they could make the skirt of the first dress Molly tried on smaller, it would be PERFECT! She looked so "dainty" and pretty!
That's exactly what I was thinking. At Randy's shop they often take out a layer of tuille (whatever...to make it not huge) because outside of the outsized skirt that dress was everything on her....
They both look stunning. Glad they aren’t competing or trying to outdo one another. Lovely brides. 💜
The dark haired gal sure didn’t seem very happy in that ugly dress.
Ahhhh Lmaooo 💀😭
this is unnecessarily rude
lmaooooo😂
That panic attack was a bit of a surprise!
Lol
Oooh man the first dress Molly wore was gorgeous 💜💜💜💜💜💜
Oh, she needs to go back to the pearl top dress...it's absolutely wonderful on her!
The first dress fit like a glove on Molly, I'm gobsmacked to see they didn't give it some serious thought. They dress was her soul dress. She had the picture perfect Disney princess look right on with the beaded first dress.
It’s dumb to do them together. They each need to be the sole focus.
They didn't mind and especially for Kade it was needed to have her best friend going through the same, it helped her.
Since it was the particular wish of both brides, it seems you are truly wrong. Besides, they both left with incredible dresses, that fitted their wishes and personality to the t.
Jade not kade
Homegirl Jade is not trying to get married lmao.
As someone with severe anxiety, ptsd, etc., I wish this hadn't been labeled as a 'freak out'. Its hurtful to have someone say you're 'freaking out' as opposed to 'having a panic attack or 'having an anxiety attack. Please be mindful of your choice of words. It broke my heart to watch her try to keep it in, and the ensuing embarrassed apologies. Been there, done that, its awful.
Oh fuck's sake if they said was having a panic attack, this place would be full of people saying "you can't call everything a panic attack, that's a disorder, don't call everything that if you're not diagnosed" etc.
@@imakefoodhappen your empathy is overwhelming. Thanks so much for your thoughtful input and respect for people that don't classify as 'normal'. We truly appreciate your understanding and general care for fellow humans. Shame on me for not appreciating the thoughtless wording in the description of this video. I had forgotten that people like me are 'less than' and have no right to complain about dismissive adjectives and verbs that downplay the seriousness of our issues.
Didn’t like either of the dresses they chose, but it’s not my wedding 🙈
Agree... both dresses meh... too quick to choose..
Found both of the dresses excellent and outstanding choices for these young woman. Jade the most beautiful bride in Malta and Molly the most beautiful bride in England.
I liked the 1st dress Molly tried on
4:57 aw they just mirrored each other, you can tell how close they are. So cute.
Panic attacks are so hard. I feel for her. Support is so important. I love how nice and lovely everyone was to her.
Molly would totally choose the First dress all they have to do is have a veil
😂😂
Yeah. The veil is always the magic.
Omg the redhead molly in the first Princess dress looked gorgeous ! Wth
I lovedddd the first dress on Molly
I can’t believe how obsessed with this show I’ve become.
Loved the first dress, really outstanding. These two young ladies are such good friends, it's a delight to see them interact. Many years of happiness for both their marriages and friendship.
Every bride in say yes to the dress: he makes me laugh
I'm indian we dont wear white gowns and yet I cnt stop watching this
Same girl same......not me dreaming to have a wedding like that -_-
Lol same, but it also depends on who I’m getting married to and what they want.
Me too and i am already married 😀😀
Im Indian too
We wear white gowns
I wore one for my wedding and every other girl in my family wore one too
But very modestly
We are Muslims
My mum wore a red dress and I wore a matching red one :)
love how these two friends were totally cool with a double appointment and similar dresses but that one other set of friends got pissed that one tried on a dress with buttons on it😂
“But I’m having buttons!” 😂😂 She was a bit over the top about buttons.
Poor girls a commitment-phobe. Don't blame her really, when you've been single for too long you kinda get used to it, you accept it as your norm and then when you suddenly find someone who wants to settle down with you it can be the scariest thing ever.
They both made the correct decision. Each bride chose the dress that complimented them best. Beautiful gowns, beautiful brides.
Why does he always go in for the kiss? The brides never want it!!!
I love their relationship. This is a perfect friendship, and a friendship everyone needs... No one is toxic and they look absolutely gorgeous in their dresses 💛💛
How come Jade’s dress had a lace panel while Molly’s didn’t? It looked so much better without it because it was so light
Jade probably wanted a lace panel to feel more covered since she's Indian and it should be modest.
@@elsandstorm8997 that’s bullshit lolll
@@elsandstorm8997 it “shouldn’t” be anything because of just her race
they weren't the exact same dress. notice two different prices were displayed. the lace was different, and the trains were different.
@@user-xc9di1ko4tMaybe go do some research before making yourself look silly. Indians typically take religion and modesty very seriously so it only makes sense. Yall take everything so personally its super annoying
I’m seeing a lot of different comments but coming from someone who has a panic disorder hear me out. I feel like she was genuinely overwhelmed with all the stimulus. She seems like an anxious person based on how she was hesitant to say yes to her dress without her friend bc it would’ve felt weird for her. She was without her friend in the dressing room for her very first wedding dress and she was so overwhelmed with emotion and stimulus with no one to verbalize it to immediately from her close circle of people. This triggered a panic attack. I truly feel so bad I understand how having a panic attack can make the whole situation seem worse bc then you feel like burden to others, bless her little soul and bless her friend who is so wonderful. They are beautiful friends inside and out
I can understand her freaking out because I would too. Imagine loving having the freedom to live as you want and having no one else control your movements, never having to consider or checking in on anyone other than yourself, and now making ths giant life long commitment. Quite normal, and once the jitters fly away at the wedding, she'll be ok.
Im happily divorced and not looking to get married ever again BUT i would like to feel that moment. My dress was from ross and i didnt like it. Would like to see what my style would be
Haha same never been married and never want to lol
Go for a try on!
@@salina8653 It's not really that easy. Unless you're willing to make up a whole bunch of details about your fictional wedding and really commit to the lie, they probably won't agree to give you an appointment.
It's refreshing to see a totally supportive entourage.
I would like to shop there for my wedding dress but I’m too young to get married lol
😂😂
Omg same
How old r u
How old r u??
I’m 14
That poor girl, I’m glad she worked thru it and found her dress, and I loved the other girl’s last dress. 💚💚
Wow…finally! All mature and supportive women!
Why is she having a panic attack 😂 does she low-key not want to get married
My heart really goes out to the bride who started having a panic attack... Poor baby🥺♥️
I love the dress Molly Picked, you could see that it was her style compared to the others where she kinda faded off. And look how these two best friends were all supportive and got along, as a person who also suffer from anxiety I would have loved to have my best friend and me trying dresses at the same time and make it a friendship bonding moment instead of me standing alone and getting an anxiety attack. This episode was so heartwarming! ❤️
I think the girl isnt ready to get married, it also was weird to hear her just say 'we get along' when she was talking about her fiance
If I was picking out a dress, I would want David to assist me. I really like his positive personality.
These two friends are so supportive of one another,mit warms your heartL lovely episode!
I love that they were so supportive of one another instead of competitive. And they didnt do that stupid thing where they put both brides in the same dress and they both end up wanting it.
The girls need to go one at a time. It feels like a comparison when they stand together
That first one Molly wore is my favorite dress I've EVER seen on this show across all series. Idk but I love it. Wow! I bet it's because of her shape in it and it wouldn't do the same thing on me but it was literally MADE for her 😍
And jade, poor thing. You deserve this moment girl ❤️❤️ I feel for her so strongly. You got this sunshine
I feel so bad for Jade. Panic attacks are awful :(
I adored the first dress Molly tried on...
ok but the locations where all the UK brides get married in are GORGEOUS!!!
Anybody else who doesn't read title anymore for syttd? Just the time of upload? To see if its new and u haven't watched it? 🤣🤦♀️
So nice to see real frienship and the both got dresses that loke amazing.
We don't even know the brides, but Jade in that second dress, it was indeed as her friend said: "It's you." It was unbelievably becoming. She would become the most beautiful bride in Malta for quite some time. Then Jenny comes in her third dress, and I'm completely sure, she will be the most beautiful bride in England.
Well done, everyone. Those dresses fit them incredibly. Of so many dresses in the store to find the right ones so quickly, means they've got a keen eye and a good ear.
Loved the mothers! Such nice ladies and so supportive. So taken in by it all themselves. Wonderful episode.
The first dress that girl with red hair wore was stunning on her.
I feel so bad that Jade had a panic attack, but I totally understand that, I get them too. Besides that tho, this is one of the most wholesome episodes I’ve seen, the moms are so precious and so are the girls
Nothing better than mommy and a bestie to go shopping 💖💖💖 especially when the support is that strong 💖 Congratulations & hope you both have an amazing Future!!!
Yeah, she had a panic attack because she doesn't want to make a bad decision. She likes the idea more than the action. Extreme anxiety.
Everyone needs a bff relationship like theirs!!
I wish they hadn't said she "FREAKS OUT" in the title, as if she threw a fit or something, rather than having a panic attack.
Jade looks indian!!!
Finally! i was waiting for this comment
I think it's likely she's of Indian descent but her family has been in the UK for generations because her mum speaks English like a native Brit. That's common in the UK I think.
Probably mixed raced
@@monkiram Yeah, you're right.
I'm a brit, born and raised, and it's not uncommon at all to have people of other backgrounds and ethnicities living in the UK for generations.
Sometimes they still "look" (although idk it feels weird to say that but okay) like they're a completely different ethnicity/from a completely different country while actually being, like, the 6th generation to be born in the UK or something. XD
Sometimes their grandparents might be so traditional to their original culture and not deviate from it much, but their grandkids are so painfully British they don't even seem related anymore besides appearances.
I think it's the ton of eye makeup she had on---impossible to tell anything when everything's fake.
They're so sweet and supportive of each other 💕
I feel like a stylist with they way I binge watch this series 😭😭
She tried a wedding dress for the first time!? I have worn so many wedding dresses since I was a kid.
Both of their hairs are shiner than my future
SYTD UK? more like say yes to illusion necklines
First episode I've seen where the dresses were just terrible
Well it won’t be the last Bc it happens very often 😂