Diaspora Marriages Complexities

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  • Опубліковано 11 вер 2024

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  • @Rik-vx8nx
    @Rik-vx8nx 23 дні тому +27

    Women you are cruel on each other this woman was very submissive for years but now she just opened her eyes and realised that there is no marriage. What is it she is doing wrong . If she is in Australia or uk she needs a companion. It is very lonely when you are on your own . Let her go and be happy now that her kids are grown . She did well to wait for her children to be grown before moving on. Respect to you mainini move on with your life and be happy .

    • @DeovolentVB
      @DeovolentVB 18 днів тому

      She deserves to be happy sure ini I support her she.must do what here heart wants
      Sando dzake

  • @bchis8806
    @bchis8806 24 дні тому +6

    Ma marriages evanhu vaku diaspora manzhinji acho ma movies chaiwo 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @NancyNcube-ny2hv
    @NancyNcube-ny2hv 23 дні тому +4

    Second caller chero mukadzokerana amumbogarisani nokuti matojaira chipfambi mose. Saka imi mainini monosvikepi nemu Japanese uyo. Manje ma Japanise vanokwatura pakurova . Unokuvezaveza nezvibhakera akakubata uchimuhurira mira uone . Uchackikwa nemuJapani uyo uzodonhera ku Zim

  • @jamesbond1157
    @jamesbond1157 23 дні тому +5

    The first caller needs to heal First before she can force on her marriage .

  • @myauntybunts7461
    @myauntybunts7461 21 день тому +6

    Advice yamapa first caller ndoyamuchemedza musaforcer vanhu kuregerera before they are ready. Munhu aputsa ndiro haatendwe kuti atenga glue yekuinama

    • @mavismataga4571
      @mavismataga4571 21 день тому

      Munhu haamanikidzwi kuregerera asati ava ready,,,, ktoshungurudza munhu worse ,more.....

    • @rejoiceshereni6449
      @rejoiceshereni6449 4 дні тому +1

      I don't think kuti Doc vakanatsonzwisisa nyaya ya first caller saka ma advice acho aita opposite

  • @dokido258
    @dokido258 22 дні тому +4

    Men cant handle what they do. Zvainaka iye achiita open relationship, the woman gets on board, shes now happy & iye haachade, ayas

  • @PreciousMavingire
    @PreciousMavingire 23 дні тому +3

    Hugs to the first caller am sorry sisi jus try to be strong inguva inodarika Mwari vakusimbisey.

  • @gambizagambiza8022
    @gambizagambiza8022 23 дні тому +2

    God have mercy on us this diaspora yaparadza mamarriage edu, Zimbabwean we adopt maculture evanhu zvinonzwisa tsitsi

  • @user-yg3qk7uc5f
    @user-yg3qk7uc5f 23 дні тому +3

    First caller tete tilder and doctor choga I feel for her but I don't think you did justice to her story. Yes you touched on the possibility of juju having been used against the caller or for the husband , and also if she still loves her husband but the fundamentals which are the lady's health and the probability of the husband having fallen for this other lady or not wanting to break up with her you didn't address them fully. Caller uyu pane paati ndirikurwadziwa kuti murume wangu andipamazve but it's not about the husband she doesn't have total control over him instead iye arikuzvipamazve kuzvipinza mudepression since April achingochema it's not healthy at all, she must focus on herself first. If you listen on how she said she had to dig more about this other lady zvoreva kuti anopedzera nguva yake nesimba kunyaya dzinomupa depression. Pamwe murume wacho haana kumboshandisirwa juju akutodawo mukadzi uyu zvekudaro. The caller was so happy when you mentioned how juju might have led his husband astray , she is in denial that her husband totally cheated on her ,but ka , iye murume wake akapfimba mukadzi uyu ega before juju yacho irikutaurwa. Caller must know that anything is possible, achagona kumuregerera zve iye omupamazve again and again anotofa ka nedepression.

  • @dokido258
    @dokido258 22 дні тому +1

    Ko hapana full title , tizive kuti is this an exciting/shocking episode

  • @nikkie7092
    @nikkie7092 23 дні тому

    Thank you for the great show Tete and Doc.we learn everyday 😊

  • @mnet2912
    @mnet2912 21 день тому +1

    Macases aya arithree have masimiliraties. The programme brings awareness emabusive relationship arikurarama vanhu vari. Its dispeakable the way people treat each other. Kana munhu usingadi munhu famba uyende kwete kutambudzana. This women arikunwa doro kuti ange aine murume wake all the time, zvakaoma. Ndapera simba.

  • @emilymhungu5516
    @emilymhungu5516 21 день тому +1

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 open relationship my foot

  • @godfreychanza3275
    @godfreychanza3275 23 дні тому +1

    Second caller is drama of Nyamavhuvhu

  • @user-wk1vo8ss5d
    @user-wk1vo8ss5d 21 день тому +2

    Aaah kwanai mbuya imi manakirwa nekadora kemujapan muchisiya zibango renyu!! Tibvire apa dzokerai kumurume muchengete mhuri

  • @rebeccamaccamahlanu4601
    @rebeccamaccamahlanu4601 23 дні тому +1

    1st caller sorry my sister
    Time heals
    Trust in the Lord

  • @winnetmakazho
    @winnetmakazho 23 дні тому +1

    Second caller 😂😂😂😂😂 i dnt wven think kuti bmunini vakauya vakadzokera ini kkkkkk hazviko zviya

  • @LadyDee-dt8ne
    @LadyDee-dt8ne 23 дні тому +1

    First caller hugs to you sis 🫂

  • @monnietaah9583
    @monnietaah9583 24 дні тому

    Varume hatina zera navo 😂😂🙌🏾

  • @dazypikai338
    @dazypikai338 23 дні тому +2

    Nhasi pakaipa pano

  • @nyashashamuyarira1848
    @nyashashamuyarira1848 21 день тому +1

    Nhai Mwari nyika zvayatoguma nhaimi kkkk

  • @mskeak6956
    @mskeak6956 23 дні тому +1

    Yahhhh mamwe marriage mafirimu zvedi yohhhhh open rireshenishipu yohhhh

  • @portiachideya2950
    @portiachideya2950 22 дні тому

    Open relationship haibo iyi nyaya iri very complex ahhh handisati ndamboinzwa from our culture

  • @loischingandu9962
    @loischingandu9962 20 днів тому +2

    Leave you will not heal when you are sleeping with the person everyday. Free yourself uchatoita murderer wofira mujeri. He hasn't changed iwoolf in sheep skin. He will hurt you worse than this down the line.

  • @mskeak6956
    @mskeak6956 23 дні тому +2

    Mainini vedoro avo please don’t live for someone nhai. If you are not into alcohol please don’t. Siirai vanwi. Hanti murikuona kuti uyo murume wenyu is not living for you.

    • @gracekhoza5289
      @gracekhoza5289 23 дні тому +1

      😂😂😂nhy hako vakanwa vese anotsiura umwe ndiyan

  • @user-kk2rs2vl6v
    @user-kk2rs2vl6v 24 дні тому +1

    First caller sorry zvako, ndarwadziwa nenyaya yako shame

  • @waynemazhindu9669
    @waynemazhindu9669 21 день тому

    Yoweeee ma African horror movie

  • @fortula.tichwagoramuog8784
    @fortula.tichwagoramuog8784 24 дні тому

    Tete Gilder we appreciate your efforts and most of all your staying natural!

  • @lucychitsike2694
    @lucychitsike2694 23 дні тому +1

    2nd caller its like drama hakuna zvakadaro

  • @suzannechibaya8731
    @suzannechibaya8731 22 дні тому

    Guys tiri maZimba not vekwatirikugara, 2nd caller yooo 🙌🏿🙌🏿

  • @gracekhoza5289
    @gracekhoza5289 23 дні тому +1

    iiiiih shame first caller kunzima sorry sis iNkosi izowapholisa amanxeba akho🙏

  • @tmaktmak1464
    @tmaktmak1464 23 дні тому +1

    Ma marriage aya akaoma, vamwe varikuhurirwa vachibatirwa Mishonga uku vamwe varikungonwiswa doro mu Joni umo. Pakaipa

  • @tanyamilewski5700
    @tanyamilewski5700 23 дні тому +1

    Third caller is in denial 😂 he is an alcoholic ma’am. If your life is only fun when you drink and you get fired for drinking on the job and lose money/property that’s an alcoholic. Plus he doesn’t participate in home life he barely functions

  • @charitymukodza1540
    @charitymukodza1540 22 дні тому

    It's ahh for me,,, tete tilder on second caller

  • @CraigSani-b2i
    @CraigSani-b2i 12 днів тому

    I had thought I have seen it all but yooo Mwari chihuyai henyu zvakwana open relationship?kuita Chishakwe all in the name yekufadza murume aaayyiii

  • @lindimasoch6676
    @lindimasoch6676 23 дні тому +2

    Zvakaoma mainini siyanai nedoro

  • @godfreychanza3275
    @godfreychanza3275 23 дні тому +1

    Chakafukidza dzimba Marata 😏

  • @NancyNcube-ny2hv
    @NancyNcube-ny2hv 23 дні тому

    Second caller MADIMONI AYO .....REPENT AND COME TO GOD AND YOUR CULTURE

    • @dokido258
      @dokido258 22 дні тому

      World is global & so much is out there, stop, just stop small minded ness😂🙄

  • @mavismataga4571
    @mavismataga4571 21 день тому +1

    Ummmm ndoshaya kut mkadzi uyu why kuva polite ? Hooo inyaya yema business amunawo amakatanga ikoko? Haaaaa manje Diaspora haidaro mchafira mahara

  • @gracempofu526
    @gracempofu526 23 дні тому +1

    Mwari dai varangarira Zim yanaka mwana we Zim adzoke kumsha bt azogara bicoz hunhu hwedu wakaenda nema kungwa takato adapt ma culture asiri esu tibatsireu Ishe takubatira chirungu pamsoro nkti takuswera navo😭
    Avo kunwa doro bicoz kuzama kufadza murume zvareva kti Doro ndiro ratova Mwari wenyu mumba umoo tsvakai Mwari munamate anotozosiyao

  • @bchis8806
    @bchis8806 24 дні тому +1

    Second caller unorwara nepfungwa chete, handisati ndambozvinzwa izvozvo, hanzi open relationship???? plus usanyangadza zita ramwari iwe uchiita zvinhu zvinosemesa kudaro (cutural crisis) nxaaaaa

    • @desmond-011
      @desmond-011 24 дні тому +1

      Dai vakangorambana zvakanaka kwete kuswera kurarama 20 years muchinyeperana even business racho rinozfamba here manje

  • @user-gg7hm8ql9t
    @user-gg7hm8ql9t 22 дні тому

    Hie tte

  • @SRJ419
    @SRJ419 21 день тому +4

    Haa Dr venyu is biased towards men

  • @user-fc8qk8lr3g
    @user-fc8qk8lr3g 22 дні тому +1

    Pasi parohwa nenyundo

  • @maryagneskaingwe6286
    @maryagneskaingwe6286 24 дні тому

    Why don't you do project home do some thing big don't jive him chance the woman is the problem

  • @bchis8806
    @bchis8806 24 дні тому +1

    Second caller: ipfambi chaiyo, vana vake vachadarowo, rinenge movie chairo, plus chikoro chishomesesa, hama dzako dzinoziva here kuti ndiho hunhu hwako, hanzi ndine mabhizimusi apo unoita support work ???? A bit confusing.

    • @NancyNcube-ny2hv
      @NancyNcube-ny2hv 24 дні тому

      Kkkkkkk wamgona wena kkk

    • @desmond-011
      @desmond-011 24 дні тому

      Ndepapi panzi anoita support work

    • @bchis8806
      @bchis8806 24 дні тому +1

      @@desmond-011 nyatsoterera uhwe, kubva patangira nyaya

    • @ROGUE406
      @ROGUE406 23 дні тому +3

      Second caller vanosarudza Chishona chekuteedzera - vanogamuchira Shona iri convenient to her, vachiramba Shona iri inconvenient to her. Nice

    • @tracylyson1371
      @tracylyson1371 23 дні тому

      ​@@desmond-011ataura paatanga kudaira foni akati ndiri kuita support worker buys ne shopping

  • @bchis8806
    @bchis8806 24 дні тому

    First caller vanenyaya havo, asi vakazhangandira a bit, plus vanenge vasingazive zvavanoda havo.

    • @ROGUE406
      @ROGUE406 23 дні тому +2

      Its not easy, hey. Things are never black and white: real life happens in grey spaces. It takes a person with high self-awareness to figure out clearly what to do in such circumstances.

    • @priscambodza9658
      @priscambodza9658 23 дні тому +2

      Kuzhangandira l disagree she is very calm after all she went through