THIS IS WHY I WANT TO DROP-OUT OF UNIVERSITY...
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THIS IS WHY I WANT TO DROP-OUT OF UNIVERSITY...
unfortunately momina, not everyone is privileged and equipped enough to acquire the same opportunities as others without grades. Good academic grades acts as an asset to earn scholarships to pursue dream colleges and universities hence removing burden from one’s parents. Secondly, prioritising our education is the only way out of this country for us. Through good grades we get a pathway to explore the world and fulfil our dreams which otherwise won’t be possible. You might have seen 12th fail and that’s a good enough movie to prove how marks opens so many gates for people. There are two options: either work hard in your prime years till 25 and enjoy later or enjoy right now and work hard afterwards
exactly
momina does understand this perspective as well but she's telling you k
a)prhai is very important and it helps you in keeping safe like job k sense mein and agar apko business krna hai tu job k sath side by side you can do that
b) god forbid, kisi k ache grades nahi aye so if they can afford to go to good uni directly its fine aur nahi afford kr skte tu ap ek gap year le k options explore kr skte hain. Aur apne options explore krne k sath side by side ap income generate kr skte hain jo na serf youtube balk you can earn via freelancing doing any small business like momina started with noodle woodle jo start mein serf ek thela tha. Income genrate krne k sath you can save to go to good uni and keep generating that or you can only do what you're passionate about in dono mein se jisko jo sahi lage
agreed. my parents were pretty well off when i was a kid but fortunately i was a bright student too even tho i am not one now. unfortunately we had to go through massive financial crises just when i about to get admission and honestly if i didnt had good grades i wont be able to secure a seat in a public uni with full aid.
Dropping out of higher education is always a mistake. The professional life of the future is highly specialised, and will demand highly specialised skills and knowledge. Trust me, I’ve been living in Norway my entire life, a country that is a template for many countries future. Here, if you’re not highly educated, you’re most likely to stay on the lower levels of society, both economically and socially.
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O'Levels result araha hai! I wish everyone gets what they wish for!
Thank you 💕
yess thank u hope u get a good result too
@@user-di6wt1op1o Amen! U too sis!
@@RaeAH8 Welkom! Bus sabke A*s ayen Inshallah!
@@NomNom2819 Inshallah
I took a gap year too when I was 20 and trust me that year transformed me too much I mean in a better way!! ❤️ I got independent. Mental growth happens when you get out of your comfort zone
I agree with what you said about the gap year, I too feel like it transformed me into a whole new person (in a good way) I used to be very shy and I gained so much confidence after working in an online school. I was able to make decisions for myself and in that year I decided how my life will look like, what degree I want to pursue and if I want to start a business or do a 9-5. I'd recommend people to take a gap year if they are feeling a bit lost. It really did wonders for me.
I actually took gap year because everybody said kay it will make you a different person and I actually changed but in a bad way😭 I was so depressed and stressed out throughout my gap year and it was the worsttttt experience everrrr
So my advice would be kay never think kay jo cheez aglay ko faida ya nuqsaan day rahi hai wo aapko bhi same experience kernay ko milay is liye sochhhh samajh kay steps lo and please don't be afraid to take bold steps khud kay liye takay aagay koi regret na ho
@@jeedefinitely that's actually true, because I've seen people taking gap year and then stressing out on what's next and how everything will turn out for them but if you keep yourself busy, find a new hobby and discover new things I don't think it will bother you then. You are basically utilizing that time to come out of your comfort zone and yes I do feel like gap year is not for everyone, do what you think is best for you
I feel like our society has somewhat made education a standard. People really judge others by their educational backgrounds and which colleges and universities they attended, which should not be the case. I have seen many well-mannered and empathetic individuals in our society who are not highly educated. On the other hand, I've encountered educated people who lack basic manners and empathy.
having a degree doesn't necessarily make you a better person than others. At the end of the day , obtaining a degree is all about acquiring skills to earn a living. If someone finds another path to make money or pursues a different passion, there should be nothing wrong with that. People should focus more on becoming better, well-mannered humans rather than enforcing these so-called standards on younger generations.
@@rabiarehmein I don't think so there is a very strong relation of studies and manners. It is something very basic, you get it from your parents your family and your community.
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hi i wish i could comment in vm but anyways.. ive both perspectives so prhai is important because it gives you that exposure to build network or friends you want to do business with later on or just to learn in person/virtually. Not just that, prhai also shapes you as a person (mentally unstable yes- but like a whole new different personality). When u do prhai you can change the way you educate your kids and that’s how society would change so it’s important for women to get educated esp to be aware of their rights and responsibilities and potential.
But one can debate that it’s important but it’s not the only way of life. There are more things to learn- like skills that help you in today’s day and age or even like you said knowing yourself as when you know yourself you know god and your own true potential. And mind you- you don’t need a busn degree to do business. Just u do u
i loved reading this ❤
conversation topic: 1) Why is their is a race you have to catch up in life? 2) how to overcome the age limit that is acknowledged by society for a women to get married in Pak ?
According to my personal experience of taking a gap year, I wouldn't suggest anyone to take it until and unless you have an idea of what you are planning to do and how you would implement on it. I belong to a middle class family and I didn't think of repercussions back then for example despite getting internships, I couldn't do those cause of conveyance issues. I was in constant pressure of getting into a uni and was having doubts of over my academic capabilities despite being a good student throughout. It was emotionally draining too being at home all day and finally when i took part in a summer workshop program i felt how much one can crave for such things so its not easy specially if you think that there might not be a very strong support system around of ppl motivating you.
Plus diet gets impacted too during gap year. I got certain health issues. I did get into a very good university after that, though I would say if you plan to take a gap year for e.g to get into your dream university, then its better to continue with any other good university and simultaneously prepare for your dream university test but ofc everybody's circumstances are different, do what best suit you, I just shared my experience. Its generally harder to take gap year if someone is from a middle class family and there is constant pressure.
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It takes alot of courage to follow the path you have followed , honestly i am the person who is having summer vacation right now and these same questions are in my mind although i am still finding the answers but this video is really helpful. AT LEAST i am not the only one who suffers this!!
for me taking a gap year is like telling your relatives come attack me but you are too brave! MashaAllah! i always wanted to start my own business but afraid to take risks but I guess business is all about taking risks right?! wanna know how you convinced your parents i guess having a conversation with them is most helpful ofcourse
University is really a baggage and so much of time waste, 4 years undergraduate degree, monotonous lifestyle, same cycle of useless assignments and presentations, paying millions to teachers who would just mere narrate slides to you in the class, 75% of compulsory attendance. I mean its just rubbish....
a gap year can only benefit u if u have supportive and chill parents. unfortunately with most desi strict parents u wont be privileged enough to have the opportunity to travel w ur friends or even live a life of freedom.
Apke k lie prhai priority nh islie apne gap year lia us m apne kafi kuch seekha...that sounds so great. Lakin wo sb apne ghr bethy bethy nh sekha hoga of course .. us k lie apne travel kia ap logon se milen and all that... BUT for a person who can't travel around like you who can't leave his house because of of- course some reasons us k lie usy pasand ho ya na ho pr prhai hi priority h.. Apne apna business khola jo k ksi male support k bagair mumkin nh tha... Lakin kuch families m aise itni azadi itna support nh hota... Thats why prhai is the only way for them to get out
so true
Okay so someone's like me...I completed my O'levels back in 2020 at 16 years old with expected grades and gave accounts in oct 20 got an A* which was very overwhelming when I got U in school everytime. Then out out of nowhere I decided to go for ACCA and got a decent scholarship on that as well. Everything was going well until 2022 when due to some reason I left my studies then took a gap year but there was was a heavy dose of depression for me.
But that got me closer to my faith and I understood things which I would never have done with my stupid studies.
Then I recovered and restarted my studies with Alevels.
Allah knows what's coming further for me but I'll never regret or feel bad for anything that has ever happened to me.
Alhamdulillah ❤
quite literally in the same boat
Almost the same happend with me , ill went to Fast Nu but cant quite whelmed with the uni because of over burden of studies and decided to go to another university which let me to live my life on a easy note , during this process i took a 8 months gap but that seems to go on even more depressing way as time passes but now im joining my uni from a week ahead and have no regrets and that depression and consciousness in my free time let me focus more on myself, my goals n life 🤜
@@ahmadmursal8360 hey im from fast nu as well and you r right the pressure is insane here and i want to quit too,.. i wanted to ask about your transition to other uni did you have to start from scratch? can u elaborate what issues you faced while transitioning?
That's all well and dandy, but the way the books on her shelf are stacked and are all exactly the same size. It tickles my brain so well!
I have always been an A+ student throughout school and my 1 year at a university abroad. However, due to my circumstances I had to move back to Pakistan and transferred to another university here. Despite completing my first year with decent grades (which I was not expecting at all but as you said weightage matters A LOT unlike in the US, I was pleasantly surprised with my result). However, this transition really made me realize how much I miss my personal growth now as Pakistan's education system is really different from what I had adjusted myself to during my 5 years abroad. I do not know how an introverted person like me should go out of my comfort zone especially when i feel extremely out of place. So for me, grades are not the only thing I really want my independence back but being in a sheltered environment here, there are restrictions. I also had to compromise on my choice of major as the university I enrolled in did not offer Psychology. I opted for an anthro/socio major instead but I wonder if it'll be as interesting as the things I studied in my previous uni yk? I guess I am oversharing stuff but the video spoke to me and as u said there is room for discussion in the comments. What would u suggest as I envy people like u who take risks and are confident enough to explore themselves❤
Much love Momina
I LOVED this video. You touched base on such a controversial topic and im here for it!! ❤
In my opinion, education should be the 1st priority for everyone because it may not give you the luxurious life but it may give you a new perspective to look at your life.
But don’t you think we get that perspective through meeting new people, travelling around and also learning new skills through different courses that are available?
@mominamunir but you're not taken seriously by people if you're not educated enough. This approach of meeting, travelling and interacting might work for the short term but in actuality you have to keep up with the knowledge. Might I add that not all are privileged enough to go out travelling and meeting new people and gaining knowledge through higher education is our only way of proving ourselves and our opinions worthy so that we are respected and given intellectual attention
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Except the fact that education CAN give you a luxurious life. And it may or may not give you a new perspective to look at life. All it depends is on the type of person you are and your circumstances. For eg. Most people are from a middle class family and they cannot financially afford to take gap years. They have their parents waiting for them to “succeed” For people like these, unfortunately they have to secure that 9-5 first. However once you finally make it, you realise that making money is an entirely different game. You don’t necessarily need a degree to make money, but you can’t easily make money without a degree or proper education. University life isn’t for everyone while others crave that routine. In the end, it truly depends on the type of person you are and your definition of success.
@@harmlesscatMEOW Indeed! That's the sad truth, majority of the students think life after university is all roses, with a land cruiser right outside your house as soon as you get a degree. The real struggle and harsh reality of job market begins once you step out of the university.
ok why do we realize this so much later in life that grades do not define your worth or it doesn't matter at all after a few years, koi nhi pochta ap k kitny marks aye thy but when we are in school, college in that moment society makes you feel like that grades are what makes any student superior than others, in school toppers are treated so much differently than others that it makes other students jealous and greedy and to have what they have.
and in all these years of struggle, you finally realize that life is much more than a degree or straight A grades.
been on a gap year since i was 19 (same as you lol), im 21 now and finally joining a university at the end of this year inshaAllah, i have changed a lot during these 2 years, went through some bad experiences but i guess everything's for the best. I wouldn't say i wasted 2 years but you always wonder how life would've been if you made different choices, khair point is life is very unpredictable and its okay to not live a conventional life, baki Allah khair kre sab k liye.
same.. i’m taking admission in an online university but i feel like i will left behind.. i really don’t know what to do like everyone is studying in popular university and i’m choosing online one due to my financial issues..
I was feeling lost so decided to take a gap year at 19 and then felt more lost than Ever!!!! Obviously when u saw everyone around getting admissions going abroad and then u start questioning yourself what u did ? But I think that ITS OKAY now even after feeling all that lost I tried some online works, explore myself got much time to know exactly whats happening and what i want and thats the only thing I want to tell anyone struggling if you are getting admission in any of the university then don't step back get that admission . And if you want to Take a gap year then don't just waste that time especially (Girls) Do something in that period get a job , start business work on yourself but just Don't waste that time so that u wouldn't be regretting !!
hey? i too took 2 year gap and it just shaped me nicely like i know what kind of person i am and what type of people i like and all that, now i’m taking admission in online university( virtual university) and i’m planning to do teaching along with that to earn for myself and my family as we are facing financial issues too, my father is the only bread earner so yeah he can’t afford this but my dreams are too big like i know what i want to do, so with that i wanted to take admission like in an known university like “hamdard, bahria, iqra” etc.. but i can’t, so am i making the right choice? i feel like everyone is doing this and that i feel like i will get left behind.. what do you say about it? ( i’ve no one to tell my fears or thoughts like this please answer?
The most awful part is that even the people who are passionate about studying and learning are just getting burnt out. Our system is so messed up like the ways they make you learn these days (projector pe slides laga do or professor perh lay) is just insane man. 2 years into medschool and haven’t learn a single thing in class, and this isn’t just me it’s like the 80% of us. Too much perhai to do all of which you can only do at home unfortunately (due to unavailability of other methods at university) and they demand us to have a 75% attendance. What for??? Lack of public libraries, lack of affordable resources, lack of visual learning. We have a longggg way to go. Amazing decision of choosing to stay home and take a degree
In my opinion, as I'm running towards grades, scope of a degree I completely lost touch with my soul. I don't know what I love to do! So that I can take risk to follow up my things. I would rather choose a better degree or myself. But this race is so much complicated that I'm stuck. I know myself I'm a hard worker but that never pay for me ! I never got good grades recently without taking a gape from mdcat I started applying for CS of course I have to go for maths and I did so well in it but results come after that was bitter for me ! I think I'm lacking that same risk factor to take it and enjoy your self beyond those grades and scope world. I think I should follow my self not the degree or scope . I should find my self and stick to that ! ❤
You said right every person have it's own experiance of life. Every person have a different though of living a life.
I'm 36 married and with kids. Being a man I believe one must have a backup in life if you failed in your life, you must have a skill set so that you can stand again. It's OK if you fall in your carrier. It's OK if you're having hard times with your business or work. A skill set is very important in life, with studies or without studies.
I loved this video. Every person has a different story but academics these days has become a rat race. You just gave me a direction on how to find myself and honestly after this video I have a made a good image of gap year. 🤣 I might also discover myself after this degree ends (only 6 months left) need prayers.❤️
I also took a gap year in 2018 and fought with society and depression only. It was a disaster for me.
I agree academics shouldn't be priority in this economy because education really doesn't guarantee jobs and if you have its alooot of hustle. Pak economy demands a business mindset , best thing about education is that it gives different ppl to experience with!
Parhayi is the only option for us in our country you just got a boost because you made a UA-cam channel earlier which earned you popularity & your business got recognition. You really got successful because of the step you took wayyy back in your life when you were in school. I have been following you since day one. You have always been so vocal & straightforward but things are though for the rest of us people. Judt like i dropped out of my uni to go & work abroad because i have a option & i do think degree is non worthy if you are not putting & practical effort in your life. For the people complaining. Guys you can always start a side hustle with your 9 to 5 or your degree it just requires a master plan & ofcourse what momina said you gotta recognize yourself about what you want how will you workout what's gonna work for you.
I believe having a university degree is subjective to your situation. For most of us it opens up new avenues and creates networking opportunities. And also we finally get to study what we've wanted. In your case, this is v different because of the opportunities you had before signing up for the degree, and the nature of it is also v different. So ofc to each their own.
Loved watching this video of yours. Do upload more.
My parents really wanted me to be a doctor.I was good at studies till Inter and then my mind was to become an army officer.
I didn't made it to army and later enrolled in a university started my bacholers in animal sciences.Now i didn't really like it all as I pursed my path towards freelancing which is a good source of money for me making me financially stable.Just praying that my last year go well and this semester result as well.I guess after 12th there's no education at all,its you and career what you wanna be.Almost 80 percent people have different careers what thay studied for 16 years.
Love and work hard be independent.
In the end here in Pak Education is gonna give you a third class job .
Jo baat hai degree is a formality for society. It is not a priority but a necessity to get done with. Obviously no one should come before YOU whether it be grades, universities but living in Pakistan Something safe and sound should be a requirement🎉❤
Sis! Hats off to you legit. Im gonna start my alevels from Aug or September maybe and i was so confused about .. LATER ON.. like what will happen after alevels and if i dont get good grades then you know "alevels ky backy pakistan mein khawar hoty han" wala phrase from others are scaring the shii outta me. Because i dont even know "who the heck am i" or "what i really wanna purse". You gave me a motivation idk how but you just gave me hope. Thankyou
happy to see you back!❤
Totally agreed with the point that gap year actually changes your life. I took a 5 months break after doing my Alevels and those 5 months were literally life changing and I got to know so much about myself that I feel like I would've not known if I had not took the 5 months break. However, due to the constant pressure from around me I ended up getting admission into my university but now that I think about it, I wish I would have taken a whole gap year and further explore my world.
Yes, education is important but being aware of yourself and your capabilities are also equally important. In my opinion, they both go side by side.
I feel like education is built for the average mind, one who is confused in their career but has some direction, but still isn't able to fully organise and learn for it, thats why i believe people who make such ambitious achievements and achieve goals are those who are dropouts because they aren't confused about their careers, they know exactly how to navigate and learn to achieve their goals and know that they will in one way or the other achieve them to some extent and hence don't need further education. Theres my little amateut opinion as a 18 yr old in first sem of uni lol
same here momina. I want to understand Quran with tafseer ,I also want to do others things too which i think i am capable of But this parhai which im 100 percent sure will not benefit me in my field doesn't let me do these things.
Hi momina. I need a little suggestion from you. I have a hobby of writing short stories in english. But i don't know about any platform where I can post my writings and get money in exchange. I dont have any insta or facebook ID where I can post it.I have not talked to my family about this yet. That's why i am asking you to give me some suggestion regarding any such platform. I hope you will read my comment and reply :)
hey we hv similar interest try content writing, ghost writing somewhat along those lines
in my opinion although i do agree w what u said theres another side to all this. U could easily not rely on studies bcs u did have yt and were successful on multiple platforms and did have a little bit of earning. For most people if they start something of their own theres a great chance they might fail, and they wouldnt have any money to rely back on and would eventually have to go back to studying to get a decent job since its impossible to get a good job w out a degree.
As you mentioned they are two kinds of people one who loves taking risks and one who loves stability and that’s absolutely true i will say education is not an option it’s a priority for some like me it’s my passion I would say it vary person to person like we have heard everything is not best at every thing we can not judge a fish by it ability to climb a tree like wise a degree is not everything it about passion and what you love more likely where you find yourself more peaceful
You were a Busniess person, that is why it worked out for you but someone with a sharp brain (like someone who wants to maybe do CSS) should definitely not take a break especially at university level. They’d probably end up confused and left behind.
“Dont work for money let the money work for u” its a famous quote from book rich dad and poor dad but the thing is it is not always as easy as it is for u to start a business and it will goo boom like i meant u had a youtube channel so basically u had the platform for advertisement so it goes smoothly but not everyone can do this even if they start makeup brand they will not have that reach to let business work smoothly it will take them years to reach there idk if u getting my point or not but it’s not easyy but I totally agree with u that parhayi is not THAT imp apna own kerna is MORE imp and its like u have backup plan
Me being a first year university student, can totally agree with all of this as I've done my o levels and a levels with the same pressure, it was truly very hard and about you mentioning how you love to take risks in order to explore is something I am going through right now but don't have the courage or mind to do something about it because I really don't know what to do as I did not get a chance to take a gap year but I hope I do find the answer to whatever Im feeling right now :/
momina you're a lifesaver!! i just started studying for olevels (privately ; no school) and i've been TERRIFIED so i really needed this video! i love you so much, thank you so much for posting this & i'm SOO excited for the weekly videos, i could literally listen to you talk for hours.
Good luck!!
Flunked up with my CS o level P2 ☠️
honestly the struggles lies between passion or studies mostly us as students fail to even know if we’re passionate about something or good at something that could be our stability in life we follow the path of education cuz that’s what we’re been told but honestly you’re inspiring us to actually explore ourselves to know
Okay, I agree with you to a certain extent Momina but the university experience is something that truly shapes you into an adult. Four years of university teach you a lot. You meet people from different backgrounds, work in groups, you learn from others behaviors and you are constantly challenged. So, it's not just about the degree it's the experience that comes with it.
Considering momina she is already meeting people. She has met new peeps
I completely agree that being around people can give you tons of experience!
This is first time on this channel. I decided to listen this but when I saw the comments it's low-key triggering me . That's the sad truth of Pakistan and that is also the reason Pakistan Education system will never change because of this low mindset because the people in education system know that people are willing to get destroyed just have good marks and job it doesn't matter if they actually get good education or not. The Education everyone is talking about is just destroying your mental health and nothing else. People are saying that the these good grades are their only way out but then tell what next then because all get is good marks not the actual knowledge and education. The out everybody is talking want your real knowledge not your good grades yes it may take you out but it will take you no where. I literally have a example of today first mind you I am from one of prestigious University of Pakistan . Today our Teacher asked us simple question that we should probably should have learn in 10 or 11 but everyone including the highest GPA student all were blank even we have a separate course for that question us link to this semester but everybody was blank and today is the last class of our second year. If this what you and your parents think is successful I really think you need to revaluate your life. The making your parents proud is every child dreams so do I but does I have to cost my happiness dor this? And what other and society want me to do just to still talk bad about me even when I did what thing fullfil the definition of "success" people will never satisfied no matter what you do. They always find a way to find fault in you. I know it's hard to do things according to our own will and I know things like dropping out is not everyone can do but having that low mindset is disgusting at least have a better mindset. That's is the reason people of Pakistan go nowhere they all are Just trying to fit in a particular standard while mentally and emotionally destroying their self. These all are nothing when your heart is not content with it. Not try to find yourself and fullfil your dreams and go saying things like If these not happen I would do these and I would do that. Failure is first step of success and if you can't handle success you will never reach success. And there is indeed whole another world aside of this academic world. Academic education is important but it depends of if it is actual giving you education or just teaching you how to pretend to have success. And having basic education is important but nothing is more important than your self.
Finally someone with same mindset! I took 2 years gapyear and it helped me to continue my own studies and i can focus more than before. Don't make your whole life your whole existence study focus on yourself first live your life and make study a part of your life. Well said momina proud of you and wish you good luck for your business.
Unfortunately not everyone has the luxury to take risks. Because inorder to start a business you require money.Not every 18/19 years old would have this much money to start something of their own. Belonging from a middleclass family you have no other option but to be good enough academically. Inorder to less burdenize your parents we have to go through a lot. That's why people like me have to be good at school/college/university....This is only how we could do something for our parents from economical point of view.
May be later on we guys could also start a business of our own. I know it would be a slow rise but still it is something
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More power to you girl, kids are really preassurised these days, they lose themselves😊
This was good to hear!
I know education is hard, I'm in this realm too right now that I want to drop out because my business marketing degree is giving me torture BUT education is necessary, yes it's hard but the knowledge it has given to me, and the future career I want can only be possible through this degree. So any student reading this, stay in university, hardships come and go, try to stay calm and continue your education.
"It takes a while to get there" Thats so true, and this was such an insightful video !!
Well said momoo! Your my inspiration 🙌🏻❤️✨
Hello momina I completed my intermediate recently and I am planing to take a gap year to explore my self but every one around me thought that I will be a trauma for me but I really Wan to take a gap year can you plzzz make a video about how we should spend our gap year which skills we should learn can you plzz give a road map ❤
Aray ap zinda hain? After very long I see a video of yours. Good to see ya
yes i took a gap year too
As an FA\FSC student I must say the peer pressure is much higher in A\O Levels and also the academic stuff too
You are right ,,,,, Degree is just a paper that is not a real knowledge
guys you really have to chill with the long paras in the comments
she is just like talking about what she feels and what she is going through
SO CHILL!!
Yes I agree with you Momina. Just focusing on parhai and nothing else will take you nowhere in life. Even if you apply for job, the one who just did parhai and nothing else will find it hard to get a job in a reputable company.
Btw, I'm your batchmate from Nixor, and it's really nice to watch these kinds of videos of yours .
Hey please make a video about the online university you enroll in and why and your degree please cuz coincidentally I wanna do the same degree as well
the most relatable video i have ever watched. I'm in the 3rd year of my bachelor's degree, I realized this really late this is not what i actually wanted to do but something else and i regret a lot that i wasted my time on it.
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As much as i love studying and really want to make most out of my degree, I agree to your opinion of TAKING A GAP YEAR. YES! I was someone who knew from the very beginning that I am for Media Sciences and Media sciences is for me. Unfortunately, due to lack of guidance and the peer pressure of joining an university ASAP, i chose some other degree (that too in one of the toughest unis of pakistan) and it came out totally different than my expectations. Till today I feel like i was not made for this but i'm somehow making it through, accepting it as my fate and working hard obviously. Long story short, gap years should be normalized because this is the only time you get to decide what to do with your life. Once you are into a 4-5 year degree program, YOU CANNOT GO BACK!!
just want to appreciate you for being you and being real🎀💗
Momina i totally agree with you 💯💯
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The gap year thing is soo truee like i want to take a gap year after im done with my college and learn new things and build new hobbies but the thing is that yhat im afraid if my parents would even allow me for the gap year... What should i do
P.S: im going for mbbs so I really need the gap year
Best video I have watched at this time❤ i relate so much to this but im kinda late thinking like this . Im in last semester of uni and i feel exactly the same that i need to drop out that it isn't what can define my potential. I have my fyp pending and i have barely managed to get to the last exam of my degree. Ive been a good student just above average. But i just dont feeeeel the neeeed to focus on studies or even fyp. When i don't feel the need i have just no intrinsic motivation to do it. People say its kinda stupid to not complete what i spent 4 years on but its just my heart doesn't want to do it anymore and i can't force myself to do Bs Ai .
Make videos like this more often......this really helped! As I also took a gap year myself and I can relate how difficult it could be for an individual. Khair all the best for your businesses ......
Parhai shouldnt be the first priority. Magar logon ko hota hae kai agr humnai parhai na ki toh dosrai humain hakarat ki nazar sai dekhain gai. ( Kai iss nai toh abhi tak metric nahi kea . Etc.)
Parhai shouldnt be the first priority. Parhai chor kar kabhi bhi continue kar saktein haen magar zada tar logon nai karna wuhi hota har job sab kar rahay hon.
Hey wanted to ask the online degree you are doing is it a 3 year program. I personally think the same even though till this date i have done exceptionally well in my o/alevels and right now i have almost 3cgpa in 1st year with barely studying in electrical engineering, but for the past 2 year i have lost the joy of studying (not learning). I do love to learn about business, self help etc. and am hoping to take the business route. Its just that degree to me is also a formality sort of stuff. And personally too much of my time gets wasted in university for which i am also looking to switch from comsats to fast whilst changing my major. In the end it's the things that makes you feel fullfilled is what that matters and i think even with the difficulties you feel fulfilled if you are following your purpose whatsoever that maybe for you.
In which online university you are studying??? Kindly answer
hi momo , i must say there's never "gap" - i don't call it a gap year because it is such a crucial time where you sit with yourself and find your passions , your strengths and your calling. to whoever reading this , you are exactly where you are meant to be , you've got time and you'll be at best ! love and light ❤
hi momina, i just wanna say that this is really comforting bcs o levels ka result aane laga hai and i was so stressed lekin somehow i am really comforted now. thankyou so much for that.
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Hi,i totally agree with all your points and also about the year gap,for me my o level result will be releasing aswell and my family have been giving me pressure and bas want me to go any random university for them what matter is bas miljaye koi b university ,i was never a topper but yes i would say i always and always gave my best for this exam i gave myself honestly the breakdown i faced uffff,after giving my exam i had time to boost myself and to improve my mental health magar when it comes to saying i want a year gap because i want to explore and all ,i get loads of cursing alot of traumas they just say that if i take a year gap all of my friends will be on top and i will be down ………its hard to describe honestly I’m doing part time tutoring aswell ,i really hope i could take my own decision please pray for my good result 💗💗💗💗
finally momo you upload vlog😢❤
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Im in 10th grade, and honestly the stress is real. I'm beyond concerned for my cies because lets just say my grades in 9th grade weren't exactly what i was aiming for and now Im questioning my entire existence. Would matric have been easier? should i just drop out and unalive myself? My whole life revolves around school and Ofc when you have brown parents it just becomes worse. I want to leave my country and live alone, thats all i want, to escape this world im living in right now
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Hey, I am in beacon house it’ll be my first year after this summer break. I am gonna opt for computer InshaAllah, can you please make a video on how to go through O/A levels because in first year obviously you don’t know how is everything gonna be. I’ll be looking forward to your video :)
Love your videos btw🤍
As you said parhai is nowadays all about chatgpt, googled for a just a piece of paper called degree does that really helps you out in real life no you are okay and fine with or without it world is evolving and i don't think now parhai is more necessory i think Pakistan should introduce more activity schools like music school, swimming school, art school so you just don't have to hustle up in your teenage feel anxious about what to opt as profession jis ki ye b guarantee nae k after this degree you'll get a stable job or not.
i LOVE this!
Would love your podcasts🥺🙏🏻
Knowledge and academics has far more to do than merely just getting a degree. When Allah says in the Holy Quran (as a prayer for muslims),
“My Lord! Increase me in knowledge.” (20:114)
This ayat indicates us, acquiring knowledge, studying, thinking, has far more to do, than just acquiring knowledge for earning.
Hi momina!! Love your vlogs ❤
Great video, you expressed yourself well.
i love you momina thanks for existing.
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Boys and girls aisi bato pr yaqeen na kre ye wo log hai jo literally hum tv pr acting kr rhe the kch din pehle to aqal to takno me hi hogi ya to prh lo ya drame bazi kralo ama aba ke pese pr ayashi krte hai ye log. Do not get demotivated. These type of people demotivate you of not putting your best in unis. Uni is an important time in a person life and he should give his best. Software engineer bno sab chup chap ye sab dhakosle bazi hai. Stay strong and stay focused.
No hate or offense to anyone. Just giving my opinion
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It's been quite a while since I last saw you, Mominah. I think the last time I visited this channel was back in 2021. Best wishes! It's wonderful to see how you've grown!❤
thank you!!!
I am currently going into 11th grade and it was my first time giving CAIE'S and they did go really good‼️‼️I HOPE EVERYONE WHO IS GETTING YOUR RESULTS THIS YEAR WILL ACE IT AND GET THE GRADES THEY WANT, IN SHA ALLAH🫶🫶✨️✨️
But dont you think it is sometimes difficult to make your parents understand this