PREGNANCY LOSS | Miscarriage at 19 weeks
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- Опубліковано 24 лип 2024
- I hope this video helps those mamas who have suffered a loss. I share my late miscarriage story and how I am coping and dealing with the loss and what helped me get through it. For those who currently are going through a loss I want to let you know that You are not Alone.
This video was not easy to make so please understand how vulnerable this is. I am not seeking attention or pity I just want to help those women who are grieving
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Thank you for sharing your story. I lost my first baby a few weeks ago at 21 weeks. We went in for our anatomy ultrasound and she had no heartbeat. It was so shocking because I had just had a normal OB appointment two weeks ago and she was fine. It has been the most emotionally painful and lonely thing I have ever experienced. I’m so sorry for your loss, but thank you again for sharing. In a way it makes me feel less alone. ❤️
sorry for your loss. Yes this why i shared my story to let other women know they not alone!
I just went through the same. It’s devastating. I’m sorry for everyone’s loss :( thank you for sharing
I’m glad God gave you that comfort and will continue to give you comfort 💙🙏🏼👼🏼
Thank you for sharing your story. This is something that only people who've experienced can understand. It is so painful.
I love this as a great and powerful testimony. God bless you and these verses are so comforting and encouraging.
Last April I had a late miscarriage at 21 weeks gestation I gave birth to a beautiful baby who girl who i named Jessica. And I feel like no one really talks about it and I still feel like people don't know what to say to me even know and when I tried to look up online most people that were telling their stories were mainly 1st trimester and I found it hard wondering if the way I was feeling and thinking was normal. Thank you for sharing your story sending love and hugs to you and your angel baby.
hayley james yes its true its hard to find second trimester loss. And i agree no one has talked about it in person with me they feel awkward.
I know how hard it must have been to make this video but from the bottom of heart thank you for making this video it made me feel less alone.
I was 17 weeks today but came to know that I lost my baby at 14 weeks.
Trying to find reasons by searching videos
@@KavitayeinKahaaniyaan sorry dear,was the baby having movement, this is shocking
Thank You for story, am so sorry for Your loss, I lost my girl in 23 weeks and there are too much unanswered questions, but without God I would be fully devastated, no hope or possibility to try to move on. Good bless You and Your family! 🙏🙏🙏
Im sorry for your lost but im happy you kept god in mind and I hope for the best for you and your family
I feel your pain. I recently went through a miscarrage. May God heal you my sister
cj johnson thankyou
I lost my fourth baby which was my baby girl at 6 mo pregnant. My first 3 babies were boys. She was our fourth baby. It was the hardest day of my life. But,God saw us through it!! A month after I lost her I got pregnant with my fourth Son. God has such a special gift waiting for us in heaven. I'm so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family 🙏
In your case it appears as if you cannot carry a baby girl. I've heard of some women who can only carry one gender. Unfortunately I had 11 miscarriages and the last one I was 19 weeks pregnant. Some women just cannot carrying a baby, it's sad but such is life.
This video made me ugly cry. So much love to you Vera, this was so brave!
kayisfish thankyou. It was very hard to share
Thank you for sharing your story. I just had a miscarriage a week ago and I was as far along as you exactly. It’s heartbreaking and I feel empty... I’m not sure I’m ready to face the world b/c like you said everyone where I live knew about it and were excited! This was our first child..and we have already struggled to get pregnant so yes I just wanted to shout out why us why our baby?! I know there’s a reason and we must believe that God has bigger plans for us. The verses you shared were helpful so I will definitely be writing those down. And I think I will go back to journaling as well to help me heal. Again thank you b/c I know I am not alone.
We named our baby girl Lindy Sophia.
Martha Henry so sorry for your loss. 😞 take one day at a time. Yes journeling helps alot. Ill be praying for the Lord to give you comfort and peace.
So sorry for your loss ❤️
Thank you for sharing and I hope you feel better
Beautiful testimony of your faith . God bless you
Your such a stable mountain ❤
May god bless you
I am so sorry Mrs Vera. I can understand the pain. I have also been through the same. Some of the miscarriage myths most worrisome to women are those that blame a woman's physical activity for the loss of a pregnancy. Activities such as exercise, sexual intercourse, horseback riding, and airplane trips are generally believed to cause miscarriage. Such myths also inherently suggest that bed rest will help prevent miscarriage. Therefore, when a woman miscarries, she is bombarded with feelings of inadequacy. She is a woman who cannot carry a pregnancy to term and guilt (for supposedly causing the miscarriage). However, it is important to remember that during a healthy first-trimester a woman may continue with her normal physical activities without the risk of losing her developing child. For instance, exercise can cause uterine contractions. When this occurs, the contractions may help to expel an already unhealthy pregnancy-one predestined to end early. Exercise merely brings about a miscarriage sooner, helping the body to expel a pregnancy that would have ended anyway. I believe therapy will be the best option at this point. In my case my counsellor at Bio tex was of great help to me. I do hope that to others it will also be beneficial to them too.
I lost my baby girl a week ago today she was also 19 weeks and 3 days. Thank you for sharing and the encouragement
Sorry for your loss
I lost my girl at 19 weeks, 5days almost 20 weeks. Im still grieving. She came Dec 13 2020, She stayed alive for 4 hours. im just so lost. I just hope she knows how much i love her always
I cried watching this😭. I also missed miscarriage but God only gives me strength, through His WORD I feel relieved.. after reading His Word I became Strong and I fully understand that He is in control of everything especially I received God's Word about His promised to Sarah and Abraham I can relate those verses that oneday it will happen in His perfect timing. I love this verse and I always meditate this as well in ISAIAH 55:8-9 it says,
8 “My thoughts are nothing like your thoughts,” says the Lord.
“And my ways are far beyond anything you could imagine.
9 For just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so my ways are higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts.
❤
Im so sorry for youre loss 😔 I lost My baby boy in January this year i was 19 weeks and 2 days pregnant 👼🏻 God bless you ❤️
So sorry for your lost. I hope you will be pregnant soon. Praying🙏🙏🙏.
Thanks I did have my rainbow baby and ge is 2 already
I am so sorry for your loss
I cried watching this ❤️
This is almost exactly happened to me last week at 16 weeks. I had to hold my baby in until i got to the hospital. I had a DNC and I’m still in a lot of pain. My emotions are all over the place and I still have to bury my baby. This is so difficult to deal with. This was my only baby. My daughter was also as big as my hand. 😩😭. This really hit home for me 😣.
So sorry 😞
So sorry😥
@@thembekilentuli4506 thank you both! On the bright side, I am now 36 weeks pregnant with my rainbow baby girl! My previous miscarriage obviously still haunts me but I am grateful to carry my daughter for the time that I was able to.
hi everyone.. i have also same problem and my wife got 4 miscarriages within 19 month.please give some solutions or please recommend any speciality doctor any were in the world...
I am very sorry for your experience. I was just wondering, how could you not want the ultrasound when the nurse didn't detect the heartbeat. I would insist they will find it no matter what. It would make me restless and paranoid otherwise.
Am so sorry for your loss. I lost my son at 18 weeks and it was the most painful thing to go through
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Omg sounds so scary! 19 weeks is late, why is this happening?
Makes me sad and then happy
Do you know if the baby had a defect. Did you get his tissues tested
I had silent miscarriage yesterday I was 19 weeks. thanks for the video .. I am so sad right now... hope I will be better soon
123456 123456 😞😣 So sorry for your loss. You are not alone.
Mrs Vera , thank you. U know wht I am going through . ..
How u able to knw about this.. cause I'm 15 week pregnant.. And I'm not able to go hospital due to this corona..M so concerned about my baby's health..
Sorry for you loss.. may I ask you please, How do you find out and what is the symptoms ?
Mrs Vera what is the symptoms of silent miscarriage?
🥺🥺 I’m so sorry for your loss ... I loss two babies in 2019 back to back then got pregnant again late 2019 for the 3rd time I was so scared I was going to lose my 3rd I’m now 18 weeks 5 days and every day I pray to please let this baby to full term let me meet this baby I’m due June 24th 2020 and I only hope and pray to have my baby boy in my arms
Praying you get to hold your rainbow baby. I understand the fear and anxiety of losing again
I'm glad you turned to God I need to do the same. I am currently going through a lot of emotions.
We are stronger than anything just because we are in his power sight, even our worse nightmare we are never alone... how amazing to be close friends with the most powerful our God and his son Jesus christ ❤ we really have everything...
Amen🙏
I just lost my nephew. My sister had him last night. My heart is ripped out i dont understand why this happened. I am trying to be strong for her but i just lost my baby a year ago and I haven't understood myself.
😭 so sorry
I lost my son at 19 weeks of September 13, 2020, and my heart is broken.
I'm so sorry for your loss. 3 years ago I lost mine on Sept 13 and I promise you there is a light under the dark tunnel.
Im so sorry 💔 I lose my son at 17 weeks on Sept 3 2020. Sending hugs
I lost my daughter on September 11, 2020. I was 19 weeks and 1 day. She was born alive but passed 2 hours later.
Mee too but on 26th September 2020 too badly broken
@@sauvagyananda1 I don't think it changes that,
Is that she may not feel sexy after that happened to her body..
It'll take time, just make her feel loved and wanted
I just delivered my only daughter who was born still Friday at 2:30 am at 20 weeks and 5 days. I am so numb
So sorry for your loss. You are not alone. Get rest snd let urself mourn. Praying for you
I lost my daughter at 19w3 days too.. we're pregnant with our rainbow baby now. I'll hit the same gestation I was when I lost her a week and a day after the anniversary of her due date (she was due April 12, I'll be 19+3 again April 20th). All our genetic tests have come out normal and healthy, and we lost our baby due to a hiking accident so we're so hopefully.
Oh wow csnt believe how so many others lost so late like me. 😑congrats on your rainbow baby. Wishing you all the best! My rainbowbaby is almost 8 months now
@@MrsVera pregnancy loss is a lonely club for how many members there are... Congrats on your rainbow
I just lost my son at 19 weeks. I don’t know how to move forward. I desperately want another baby, but I’m terrified it will happen again.
So sorry for your loss. Give yourself time to heal and mourn. I had 2 healthy babies after my miscarriage
i also lost my baby at 19 weeks and 2 days . they doctors did warn me when i was 9 weeks that i was going misscary weeks went by thought i beat the odds and proved them wrong they dont not tell me why i was going to misscary they only told me it looked i was i asked and they never had answers. when i did misscary and had my baby thats when they decided to tell me the reason. oh they could of gave me a shot or sewed me up since my cervix was weak to hold a baby . what made me angry is when they told me they could of or we should of . i had bleeding episodes went to the emergency room more than once they kept telling me everyting is fine and sent me home
Melissa Santos thats horrible 😣 so sorry for what happened.
I had the same issue and lost my baby boy at 18 weeks.
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Why? He caused this miscarriage?
I’m so sorry
My wife got miscarriage after 11 weeks 5 days heartbeat of child was stopped what is a reason behind this please answer my query
So sorry. Its always different causds. Most times nothing you can control.
I didn’t know how to deal with..we lost him 1 week ago..😢at 19 wk
I'm so sorry 😪. Take one day at a time and let yourself mourn
Im so sorry for your loss. I also lost my baby at 19 weeks 2months ago and it's been so hard to deal with this pain. Thank you for your words, they bring me comfort.
Sorry for ur loss I hope you have lots of support.
I went through the same a month and a half ago. God will help us through this tough time.
I lost my baby boy I was 19 weeks along ,my first pregnancy. I didn’t know I was pregnant either and that’s what makes it so bad 😔 I miss my baby and I said if I get pregnant again I just wanna do all I can for that baby I want a healthy baby and one I can carry to term as well.
So sorry. I pray you will have another
@@MrsVera thank you 😊
Sorry for everyones losses. I lost my son last month at 19+2. I miss my baby so much. Can only kiss his pictures. On my 1st period now but was so sad & in denial so I took a pregnancy test, there are still 2 lines😭 my body is really holding on. his funeral is next week, once his body is at rest I feel like my body will go back to “normal” but my heart is shattered
@@dreafolios6109 yeah it’ll take some time I miscarried mines back in June of this year and then I got my period again in august. I’m quite sure if I had did a pregnancy test in July or some sort it would’ve read positive because your hormones got to come down and of course it’ll take a little minute depending on how far along you were. I was 19 weeks. But my period hit me the first week of August after all the trauma. Take your time honey and no matter what don’t let nobody make you feel bad for grieving your child because ppl have tried that with me. I didn’t even have a funeral or some sort of memorial service because when I was in the hospital they told me there wouldn’t be hardly any remains left of him. But I have pictures and a memory box the hospital did during my stay. And I’m so sorry for your loss you be strong 💕
Thank you & same to you. 💕We both lost our baby’s at 19w😪I’m sorry they told you that but those memory boxes are so beautiful & special especially with their little prints. I’ve put mine up on the wall. I do hate how much everyone’s life has kept going feel angry at that, but I know life has to go on. I want another baby so bad but I know Gods time is the best timing. Stay strong and please reach out as there’s only a few of us that know this pain💔❤️
I lost my son at 23 weeks a little over 2 months and everyday feels the same..
Why 23 weeks? Should already be stable
@@barbieluohu wym stable??
@@shelbiezeigler7203 Normally after three months the baby is stable
I lost my daughter at 23 weeks. She survived 2 weeks. My thoughts are with you.
@@barbieluohu 23 weeks is the cusp of viability. The lungs still aren't developed properly. Many babies have brain bleeds with a premature birth. They are by no means stable at 23 weeks.
This is very sad I also lost my son at 37 weeks, my first baby and a baby I tried for 3 yrs .
So sorry
Am sorry dear
i lost my baby at 25 week😟 💔
So sorry
I can’t believe the midwife let you go home when she couldn’t find a heartbeat at 16 weeks, no, this is not normal and not „too early”, the heartbeat should be strong and consistent as of the 6th week of pregnancy at EVERY checkup. She should have immediately sent you to a hospital. No heartbeat means miscarriage, which means you miscarried at 16 not 19 weeks, or even earlier. It takes approximately 3 weeks for the body to „realize” a missed miscarriage happened and react. I am so so sorry that because of doctor’s incompetency you had to suffer so much. D&C is a much more humane procedure at this stage of pregnancy. I have also lost my first pregnancy and I completely understand what you feel, but I am mad at the same time that they let you go through that, it was really dangerous... Sending lots of love...
That's exactly what I was thinking.
Not finding a heartbeat doesn’t always mean miscarriage. They couldn’t find my baby’s heartbeat at 16.5 weeks using the fetal Doppler. The baby is very small still and I am also overweight which makes it more difficult. They then did an ultrasound and my baby was fine, jumping around and everything.
I had miscarriage on Friday still hard to believe I lost my babyy at 19weeks n 3days
So sorry for your loss 😪😪
Tanks ma’am jst trying to be strong
You must be from Canada 🇨🇦
This kind of pain would at least be shortened if people didnt stigmatize home dopplers. Literally every day I listen to my babys heartbeat because I have bleeding of unknown cause. At some point, there is no way you can NOT find a heartbeat when it is 16 weeks. The only downside to fetal dopplers at home is false reassurance by the heartbeat when you do not feel enough movement. But at that point, you would not need a doppler as the movwments are more important to pay attention to. I do not understand the reason for not wanting to use one before you feel movements. I would have been a wreck when my bleeding started at 13 weeks if I at least didnt get to hear the heartbeat before I got to see my doctor. She actually reccomended I get one to avoid these kinds of situations if it will help me. Poor girl lived with her dead baby inside her for a month or wven more and yet people demonize fetal dopplers . SMH
I want to get one for my twins. But i was tokd it would be very hard to decipher between the two.
@@lovebug8482 that’s very true for an untrained ear. It would tell you there is a heartbeat, but won’t tell you whose so definitely a struggle. With twins, just be very aware of movements for 5 or so months on.
I lost my baby..22week 1day....
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@@MrsVera pray god।।to save all children।।
Be careful posting your happiness to Public there are people with evil eyes and this reason is why I don’t tell the public anything I worry for things like this … illness ,miscarriage you don’t know who is secretly jealous of you this is an Arabic and Jewish superstition in my family keep your life to yourself just something my grandma always told me I had two miscarriages a few years ago I also had a very jealous ex boyfriend who was praying I would not be happy