He's in Africa and I'm in America, and he's right. I say good morning or just speak and say hello to a black woman and they are not courteous at all and do not reciprocate in kind. However I do want to marry a black woman, so I'm positioning myself spiritually, financially, mentally and physically for Mrs Right
+@ananmai8700 : Thank 😊 you beloveit for seeing 👀 from both sides of the coin 🪙 👏 🙌 because clearly Zack seems to have self-hate issues 😳 😮😢 +@regmonmusic : EXACTLY my 👉 point 👈 l was thinking about the Willie Lynch syndrome AKA Stockholm Syndrome also. Zack seems to be of that Willie Lynch mindset 🤔 +@Nickademas1 : Zack is only seeing 👀 things from a male point of view "ONLY".....!!! Black ⚫️ Women as well as the Black ⚫️ Men have gone through systemic racism and oppression for the past 500 years as the woman but from his perspective he's not seeing the whole picture that we have suffered together as a people and oppressed by the dominant race and as a people our mindsets have been "DESTORYED" by This Worldwide Racist system and only seeing 👀 from the Male's 👉 point 👈 of view is not right and unfair we as a people have lived together suffer together through this racial bigoted system that has controlled us for 500 years and Zack is being one sided and very selfish......!!! SMH......!!! 😩😫😭😢😥😤😡😠🤬
So sick of conversations where we demonise each other, romanticise the oppressor and act like other races don't also have issues wirg their men/women. They dont trash their own for the worlds entertainment, they get therapy, pastoral care, counselling or move on.
This is so true. Stockholm syndrome. This is so sad. All other races have perfect lives. Whatever about rich blCk men marrying down with white women. Please. Zack was rejected multiple times.
Why isnhaving honest conversations always termed by black people as "trashing black people" ? Why are you always concerned about how white people see you?
I have seen black women savagely criticize black men by putting them down and saying she would never date a black man, there were only comments of support and encouragement even from people not black people, but when a black man gives his opinion and does the same thing, he is said to be denigrating black women. I have seen white and even Arab men criticize their wives' behavior very brutally and even that they usually make comparisons and believe me no one has said anything against them or called it denigration. Lol.
I think it is very wrong for him to use his platform to discuss such a personal issue. I have travelled the world and this moral corruption is in every race. The divorce rate among non blacks is sky high, the unmarried non blacks is on the rise. It is a modern problem not a black problem. Look at the fentanyl deaths in the US among non blacks. u think those women were functioning as good women or wives or mothers while high on drugs.?
My Brother if you don’t like to date black women that is completely up to you, we also know manners carry you far in this world, however I could not trade my black queen for any other, we grew up in the west they don’t fascinate us, it’s a mind set Bro, fix up.
I am married to my black queen and when I met her she was the regional manager of the bank I was working in as a security guard. We fell for each other and 4kids and 10yrs later I have my own security company
@@raygreen7628 Would a male bank manager date a female security guard? Maybe yes ... Maybe no. Sometimes both males and females look for financial compatability or at least ambition. Is your 9 out 0f ten ratio based on actual research data?
@@zackmwekassaenglishchannel2081 with this mentality I wonder which black man you expect marry your sister....you are too big of a man to be this small minded... please stick to your usual theme on this channel so you don't lose subscribers
Zack go to the UK and you will find white ladies with 4-5 children ..a rainbow nation..all those children are mostly from 4-5 blackmen and most of those fathers are long gone..
@leonardmatjila2325 if he is talking about Africa as a woman living in Africa what he is saying is a lie, yes gold diggers are everywhere, including Africa, but Zack is wrong, Africa is a poor continent, with poor men yet the divorce rates in African countries are low, a lot of African men are not rich but they are still able to find a woman and marry, where is he meeting these women? Looks like he wants women who look like ig models not ordinary African women, many African woman are selling vegetables on the streets to support their poor husbands, and they are selling second-hand clothes to help support their husbands before he starts complaining about African women loving rich men, African men need to improve their finances because most African men are poor.
Do you have a source who can give figures showing that black men in England do what you accuse them of more than white men or should we believe you because you are a divine source of truth ?
@@ValTyalin Nothing to do with slavery, that's why he clarified that he was talking about Africa so stop projecting yourself. People have their opinions and not everything always has to do with the stupidity of slavery or anything historical. And this kind of argument only comes out when a black guy gives his opinion. Lol
I think this whole debate is silly. If you prefer white women, that's cool. But bashing all black women and justifying why you prefer white women is not it. Black men are just as broken as the black women, a lot of successful black men marry white women as a "i made it statement" it's an inferior complex, same as some black women that marry white men. Love who u love, but white is not a prize. When you hate yourself, you hate anything that looks or reminds you of yourself and where you come from.
The white man protects and serves his daughters, but his bed bench / concubines is something that he desecrated and defiled. Is it not more shameful to have his concubines as a queen than his daughters?
Woman like to talk about treating them like a queen. I swear that line annoys me. She wants to be treated like a queen but what is she bringing to the table? Most of them can't cook, keep a house or even know how to build a home. How about growing with a man? Both parties building together? They want someone already made and become in love with what he have and not him. I beg
It is disapponting when a host invites a guest and instead of dialogue the host just talks and talks. This lady obviously had a lot of sensible things to say but she was not given a chance even though she graciously tried.
I new white women who specifically fished for rich black men...I'm disappointed in your view point with this but I can see the way you speak with a lot of passion sounds like you are talking from your personal experience.
Zack is only seeing 👀 things from a male point of view "ONLY".....!!! Black ⚫️ Women as well as the Black ⚫️ Men have gone through systemic racism and oppression for the past 500 years as the woman but from his perspective he's not seeing the whole picture that we have suffered together as a people and oppressed by the dominant race and as a people our mindsets have been "DESTORYED" by This Worldwide Racist system and only seeing 👀 from the Male's 👉 point 👈 of view is not right and unfair we as a people have lived together suffer together through this racial bigoted system that has controlled us for 500 years and Zack is being one sided and very selfish......!!! SMH......!!! 😩😫😭😢😥😤😡😠🤬
@regmonmusic : EXACTLY my 👉 point 👈 l was thinking about the Willie Lynch syndrome AKA Stockholm Syndrome also. Zack seems to be of that Willie Lynch mindset 🤔
Zack, brother, what a depressing conversation but it is needed. The issues you addressed could have been had in the US! What made it more depressing was the attitude you both had toward your people (men v women). You said white folks don’t do certain things. They do. You said white women don’t do certain things. They do. Too many destructive generalities about black people. You said the white woman isn’t as strong as the black woman; so it’s okay that the black woman should take on the extra duty of working AND homemaker?! Sadly it seems that neither of you love black people enough. Zack, what you revealed about yourself in this discussion is the VERY SAME THING that you accuse your fellow Afrikans of doing: not supporting, loving and sticking together. That you don’t see yourself marrying a black woman is shocking. However, it does clarify certain attitudes that have come out in your commentary that made me wonder. It’s a Mind Game.
It’s unfortunate he feels that way. It appears he’s painting all Black women with the same paintbrush. Not all Black women look down on Black men either. I’ll agree there are some silly young females out there that are as he says, but not all are that way.
@@zackmwekassaenglishchannel2081 Zac it sounds like you just hating on black women because you generalized all black women. I say hello to black men, even if I make more money. You prefer white women just say that without bashing 50% of black people.
You are right..However most black women these days have a burning desire to be in control of and lead their families which is counterproductive they’re also fill with pride and more ego than men..let’s talk about attitude..lastly black women behavior in public is appalling at times the way they dress and act..black women are not presenting themselves as wives so how can they find husbands
It is funny how he doesn't want her to put all men in the same box; however, he is willing to put black women all in the same box. Black man like this is such a turn off. It's shameful, and It doesn't matter if he sees things differently now. It sounds like he still has the same-belief about the matter based on this conversation. Isn't it sad how black men are the only men of any race who will say to the world that they don't want their race of women? Self-hate is evident.
Yes, he is so disappointing and disgusting. I used to think he was intelligent but not so much now. It’s ridiculous that our men love telling the world that they don’t like us.
And they are the only race of men who have failed their communities and countries, white men built Europe, Asian men are building Asia, the black men are fleeing Africa on boats to the white man's country instead of building their own. This is a defense mechanism they don't want to take responsibility for their failure, so they either blame racism(whitemen) or black women 🤷🏿♀️
And they are the only race of men who have failed their communities and countries, white men built Europe, Asian men are building Asia, the black men are fleeing Africa on boats to the white man's country instead of building their own. This is a defense mechanism they don't want to take responsibility for their failure, so they either blame racism(whitemen) or black women 🤷🏿♀️
I am a 56 years Brown Man, I sided with the Woman what Zack has as his host, I cannot sided with Zack because he was determined NOT to marry his own people or even dated one of them, His Black & Caucasian they have in this world????? Zack, prefer to dated Caucasian woman, Caucasian woman told me, she date someone if he has a job, Every or MOST Caucasian women asked me what I do???? that is telling themselves if they will dates me or not...Do not THINK Caucasian are that Innocents...Black's women DO NOT hesitate to tell you, Caucasian ask what you do for living is the very SAMETHING...
@@michaeljotoyajackson7294 AGAIN, I am a Brown label as a Black man age 56 years, I am SOMEWHAT offended by Zack remark, "he do not like Black woman, creating a video gearing to Blackness, yet still, he NEVER like Black woman, Black woman vs Caucasian woman, has the very SAME agenda, Black woman comes out DIRECTLY ask if he has any money, Caucasian woman ask WHAT you do for a living, SAMETHING, I know Zack have income from UA-cam, obviously, where is taking his paycheck to??? his Caucasian family, TOTALLY Disrespectful to the Black race, WHY Sport Black players, married to the Caucasian women???? Because that is WHAT in front of their Face ALL the Time, Off the Buses, Caucasian, Chinese women, is RIGHT there taking their numbers, who's willing to give them their numbers, ONCE have SEX with them, have to marry them or else they will sue the players, ETC. I am STOPPED following him, unsubscribed, Let us USE our COMMON-SENSE, if Zack do not like Black woman, then he NEVER like the woman that give birth to him. I NEVER knew my mother, my father had many wives, ALL the Son's stayed with him, my sisters they with their mothers, I SUPPORT BLACKNESS ESPECIALLY BLACK WOMEN, HMMM @michaeljotoyajackson7294 AGAIN, I am a Brown label as a Black man age 56 years, I am SOMEWHAT offended by Zack remark, "he do not like Black woman, creating a video gearing to Blackness, yet still, he NEVER like Black woman, Black woman vs Caucasian woman, has the very SAME agenda, Black woman comes out DIRECTLY ask if he has any money, Caucasian woman ask WHAT you do for a living, SAMETHING, I know Zack have income from UA-cam, obviously, where is taking his paycheck to??? his Caucasian family, TOTALLY Disrespectful to the Black race, WHY Sport Black players, married to the Caucasian women???? Because that is WHAT in front of their Face ALL the Time, Off the Buses, Caucasian, Chinese women, is RIGHT there taking their numbers, who's willing to give them their numbers, ONCE have SEX with them, have to marry them or else they will sue the players, ETC. I am STOPPED following him, unsubscribed, Let us USE our COMMON-SENSE, if Zack do not like Black woman, then he NEVER like the woman that give birth to him. I NEVER knew my mother, my father had many wives, ALL the Son's stayed with him, my sisters they with their mothers, I SUPPORT BLACKNESS ESPECIALLY BLACK WOMEN, HMMM
@@michaeljotoyajackson7294 The MOST Painful thing about it, he is having a Black show channel, that thing DISTURB ME, how can someone is Black or Brown, he has share hatred for Black women???? other races, they LOVE Fame, when a Black's is Famous, they RUSH to them created their FAKE Smile, making Babies with them, then few years later they file for divorce, those Black's advance illiterate dumbest fools, NEVER SEE or saw that, AN ENEMY IS ALWAYS MY ENEMY PERIOD... I AM 56 YEARS, Brown Man, I unsubscribe, He should have NEVER showcase on Social Media, other Black decent women, would say, they not good enough, MOST Black's, ONE Black young woman, she had to pay a divorced WITH NO kids, over 50K, pre-months, she RUNNING back to the Black Community, they said "YOU MADE YOUR BED, YOU SLEEP IN IT".
I’m so disappointed by his excuses. He should just says his preference is non black women rather than “putting everyone in the same box” his own words. I have to unfollow.
Not all black women are like this or as Zack described. There are some who welcome compliments, can reciprocate a salutation, have a decent conversation, aren’t materialistic, and have their priorities in order. We do exist. If you want a white woman, that’s your preference. However, don’t rule out all black women due to a few bad experiences.
You formed an opinion about the black women from the less than 10% that goes to club??? Dude, do you realize that majority of the the women don't step in clubs, bars etc??? And most of the time, the descent ones step in those establishments with their significant others. How do you expect the descent ones to give you attention when either they are meeting their spouses at the club or waiting for them there? You can go to the snowbunnies. Love is love right?
@@Vesselsforlove You just have to unsubscribe but Zack has never done anything to please the masses or to have subscribers. They always give his opinion and encourage people to unsubscribe if they can't accept that he doesn't think like them.
This is disturbing to me why do we continue this generalizing all black women. I enjoyed your channel until now. If your channel is going to turn into black men & women against each other I won't be watching smh
Self hate is so deep for both the black man and the black woman. Egos and shallowness are quite enormous too.This is a relevant and pitiful conversation at the same time.
I have seen black women savagely criticize black men by putting them down and saying she would never date a black man, there were only comments of support and encouragement even from people not black people, but when a black man gives his opinion and does the same thing, he is said to be denigrating black women. I have seen white and even Arab men criticize their wives' behavior very brutally and even that they usually make comparisons and believe me no one has said anything against them or called it denigration. Lol.
Yes Zack I do understand our black women are crazy, but we are the real men to put them straight. When we see them acting up, we tell them the evil they are committing, that sometimes can change someone’s mind by telling them the right way. Yes, lots of black women also do marry outside their race too. Both sides do the same thing and it is wrong. We have been destroyed mentally by our oppressors. We need to know who is our strength Zack, that is God, through his son Christ. Come back to Zack. That fear you have against black women, love towards them will conquer them Zack. Not your ways Zack. 👇🏾 1John 4:18 There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.
I just unsubscribe to your channel sir. Out of your heart, your mouth just spoke. My goal is to support my people. Black man black woman black child first.
Exactly the point. That is why i mentioned to Zack about the white man's system of white man, white woman, black woman, black man. The black man you noticed is on the bottom. He is there for a reason. He is the real threat to white supremacy, privilege. So in this system we are struggling and fighting each other.
The stereotype of the French-speaking African does not exist, what are you talking about? Zack gives his opinion based on his experience. Whether you like it or not, just unsubscribe.
@@marcuselvard5922 You and Zack can snow bunny hop to your heart's content. Nobody cares. Just don't defame black women to justify your actions. How do you promote blackness by being anti black at the same time? Some black men need to check their internalised racism.
Oh, damn,I really hate to hear this. He sounds like red pill dudes. You can't tell from his reporting videos he has this type of damage. Well I know my 1 little subscription doesn't mean anything, however, my integrity and who I support does.
@borncritic7122 I am always so happy to support my African brothers and sisters and yes you love who you love, I get that but why do they always step on black women to justify dating out and make these grand announcements? THEN they turn around when things fall apart and want the support of BW ... perfect example that black actor for assaulting a yt woman, I think his name is Jonathan - dont even care - notice the actress Meghan Good is the clean up crew because he now needs BW support to get him back in good graces now that there is a fall out. KMT. my one subscription isn't that important either but no need to support someone like this.. my opinion.
@NinaKarle I wish I had the answer, I'm just tired of black women, wherever they are, being the shit under guys like this shoes. It makes you wonder how they view their own mothers, sisters and daughters. I really liked this guy's videos, thought he was very intelligent, but like they say, let them talk long enough and the real person shows up. His views will pick up after this, all the incels and passport bros will flood. I will not give these type of men or women the time of day. I'm done with these types. One thing for sure, you know if shit ever hits the fan, you can't count on him. And for that, I thank him.
As an African woman, I am leaving, African women still deal with abuse and adultery from their husbands, and we have to sit and take because a woman is glue to the family, once she leaves she is the problem seeing Zack speak like this about all black women is disappointing.
@NinaKarle you are right, there is also a story of a black man footballer from West Africa who abandoned his wife after he started playing in one of the big leagues in Europe, the white woman he married divorced him, took all his assets and left him poor, after he was poor again he went back to the black woman he abandoned.
I am an AA woman married to an AA man 25 years we have one child; thus, black love 🥰 is attainable. EDIT - My husband was sleeping on his grandmother’s couch when I met him; hence, he was broke but I could since he was a good man. We worked hard as a couple and inspired each other to do better and be better.
Wonderful. The picture you are painting was a reality for most black families in the 90s going backwards. This was every black family aspiration. It is normal, was achievable and a lot of strong black families built like that. The problem started with the destruction of the black family in USA. A deliberate calculated move. It is now rolled out to Africa. The black man despises himself so much that he runs from self by marrying white. Now they think having money means you should marry white. voluntarily transferring their wealth to the system. Then the other group of men do not know how to handle wealth and success. They squander what they have labored for with the first wife on side chicks or marrying a second 3rd wife in the name of culture. They effectively undermine wealth transfer to the next generation. When they marry white they do not dare practice polygamy. They are too messed up to know and understand what they are doing to themselves. The definition of white by American standard is anyone without a drop of black blood in them. So imagine what cycles of generational abuse these men are creating. Yet it is easy to heal our own selves from the root. respect ourselves and our women. learn our own true identity and values that build us. Protect ourselves our children and our future. The love of things more than the love and value of self is black demise. It is in us to change the narrative. we are not lesser beings. we have just been programmed to think so.
You lost me with "I don't see myself with black woman". Have you ever seen lions messing or interbreeding with other cats like tigers etc in the wild or not? Y'all better take heed, "The mixing of seeds with heathens or serpent seeds is forbidden" . if you I were you , I will retract the above ASAP, because that is a bit disrespectful to your parents.
This is perhaps the problem for many. Because he said that so for you, they denigrated black women whereas when black women criticize black men while saying they will never date, the entire comments section supports and encourages them. I have a lot of example videos. I mean I may not agree with him but that's his right and his opinion.
Zac, this happens in all races. What we are failing to do is listen to each other. Both men and women need each other. The world is a different place now. We need to adapt to it
It’s the nature of all women to choose the best man possible to protect her. Zack here is a tip! Just listen and ask questions when you talk to any woman. Black or White.
Why? when a white man talks trash about white women, other white women don't feel personally offended... They dont care because if the shoe doesn't fit, they dont wear it. so why would you feel offended ? does the shoe fit? (is it the truth that hurts you)
@@PutsOnSnowBoots He's making a general statement. Are all Black people crooks or lazy as some race would want to paint us? It's obvious some of you have problems at home and with self, so now hate yourself and race.
@@PutsOnSnowBoots That is what I am saying. There are even Arabs who criticize their women in dirty ways and treat them with the worst insults I have ever seen and yet only black women should not be criticized by black men. But when black women do it, you'll see people from all walks of life come out to support them.
Zak you are having a double standard here. The same way you are painting all black women as rude is the same way she is also painting all men with same brush. How ever the issues you are bringing up reflect the poor dynamic that exists between the black men and women in the west and unfortunately on the continent as well. This is an issue that needs to be addressed by having an honest conversation and healing ourselves so we can function well. If this is not done the state of the dynamic you are talking of now, will undermine all the work you do in raising awareness in the way white people treat black people world wide. There is more to why black people are not marrying than you are saying on this show. You both are barely scratching the surface and not looking at the root of this matter. When it comes to white women, the tend to marry the well to do black men. The nature of the content of your channel around colonial history is undermined by what you are saying here in this discussion. You have work to do on yourself Zak so does the lady you were talking to and the black society as a whole. Zack what do you mean when you say black women are strong and need no help as given to white women in the household chores? Which class of white women do black actors and athletes marry?
So true. This idea that European women are chasing average and mediocre African men is a myth some men like. All women want a well to do men. What we as men should be asking is how do we gain power, ie money, better image, more intelligence etc. Auguring with women of any demographic accomplishes nothing.
I’m gonna be respectful in point of view about you. I’ve been listening to most of your videos. Most of them decent reports of what’s happening in Africa. Cause I intend to migrate, so I listen to many videos like yours. I don’t think you realise the things you say about your own race is quite mentally detrimental to us blacks. Cause we have been through horror in all history, still till to this day. I will tell you, it is hatred towards your race by saying you will never marry a black woman because they have attitude, and disrespectful towards their men. Yes, you can discuss the matter by saying it is wrong of them, and their mindset must change. But don’t promote division with your words, because words are powerful can cause much damage, be careful. We have been through a lot as a people. Other race don’t disrespect their own nation like this, only black people do this on a major scale to their own. Slavery and colonisation brought PTS syndrome upon us, and that has been passed on through us unknowingly. You have to seat and think about this in a whole, not just caring about yourself and your life only, it is selfish. God said if you marry outside your race it is hatred. You might have to look into your family history and the negative things black women have said to you, heal yourself. You’re being very emotional about this. And I know you will hate my comment and take it off. But think about what I’ve said. You have to love your people, again ‘you can’t say you love your people, saying you won’t marry a black woman.’ That’s evil, and hatred which brings division and resentment amongst us. I have much more to say but I will see what you have to say in reply. I think you’ve spent too much time abroad from your homeland. Another thing; you don’t change who you truly are or your mentality because of negative things people say to you, that’s destructive to you, and it means you can be manipulated easily. Because I can see that right through by just looking and listening to you. You have painted a positive image from your words of the white woman. A race which hates your own. I hope you’re not proud of yourself sir by saying this.
Unbelievable man… I’m watching this video again cause I was busy at the first time. I really find something here disturbing. From both sides actually. I hope Zack that we can be your guest on your show one day. I think you need a little education about this topic, especially history of our people.
@@rocta-1 : I agree whole heartily. What's very disturbing is that Zack truly believe that is why black athletes marry white women...No sir it is by design. The owners/org grooms a white women for the purpose to know what the black athletes likes or dislike which starts a crafty conversation. The black man is in "awe" that she is compatible and knows where he is coming from. NOT. It is only to keep the money out of the black community.
Self hate at its finest! This shows a ws mindset putting other nations women over your own. This was prophesied our men and women would deal with strife amongst each other. Zack (and men), you wash your woman in the water of the Word and present her back to yourself spotless. I love my wife, my queen. How can other nations respect us when we don't respect ourselves. There's problems on both sides, both sides need healing. Neither side is blameless! Sad and surprising I really like your channel, I suggest Zack you do some soul searching on why you don't love yourself (our women).
It is unfortunate and unexpected to see someone like you generalize all Black women but at the same time paint all white women as well as their community as the creme de la creme. To me it does not quite make sense that you would have a channel revolving around colonial history but at the same time uplift the women of the community you are speaking ill of. It is hypocritical. Def can not support this channel going forward.
This is just a personal experience that his truth while he is expressing himself the Queen is educating him in the way of a well rounded sister who can handle real situations that are common and relevant could he express it better probably but this is real proof none of us are perfect and we are all.on a learning curve blessed love to you.
I know too many Black men like him, practically all of them, that disparage white people on the regular, then uplift their women at the same time. They talk about community, the diaspora etc, then marry and have children with, pass their wealth off to a white woman. The women of their community are not absolved of taking part in their destructive history, many were even more evil. Some Black men will literally ruin their lives to be with them, I have seen it so many times. Many will put us down despite us being the most educated, speak the most languages, have the most businesses, most dual degree having, home owners, perfect credit, natural bodies that other women have to get surgically, work out regularly etc, and still find a way to disrespect us for just existing. It is ridiculous. @@silicasankofa4098
Malcolm X: The most disrespected person in America, is the black woman. The most unprotected person in American is the black woman; speech in 1964. This is unfortunately all over the world. As a supposed pan African, it’s unbelievable and truly heartbreaking to hear your views on black women. With these toxic views you would never have been able to sit with the greats. When your sin is your skin you won’t ever win.
@@dianesmith3327 If it's a snow bunny he wants. SO be it. We know how it will end it up. Wait for when they argue. What will fly out her mouth towards him Rhymes with trigger.🤨and im SURE100% sure that there will be more than two racis💩 family members just waiting for the chance to make him a statistic....He wont find it hard to find his Becky .You know they are thirsty for black men. Just don't piss her off and don't come running back looking support and help from us. SO very disappointed you can't imagine. Read him so wrong. Didn't see that coming at all. Wow😓💔💔💔💪🏾
Keep hiding behind victimhood and don't address the apprehensions presented, you think Malcolm X would support, encourage or even marry the Black women of this generation? Or do you think you can gaslight men to just be with disrespectful and unempathic rude women just cause they have same skin color?
I dislike this mentality of looking for relationships outside our community and waiting till we are 35 to get married. Strong relationships are the foundations of any strong community. But remember when you are in the 'West' dynamics between African men and women are not healthy due to the environment.
If the environment isn’t fostering stable families. It is practical men will find partners elsewhere. I prefer black women but I refuse to limit myself to only black women. All of my close friends have married abroad mostly in continental Africa. My brother has a Kenyan wife. Another brother a Moroccan wife. I’ve spent time in Egypt and Morocco. Plan to visit Kenya in June. More than likely I’ll marry in Kenya. A lot of the guys in my circle black American men are marrying out. Mostly they are seeking black wives from the diaspora. I’ve spoken to a Turkish Muslim woman for marriage too. I will explore all of my options.
@@charlesirby1643 fair enough, its okay to look for a wife in Africa just be sure you can afford such a commitment and you avoid spreading negativity stereotypes about African American women.
I don’t have to spread stereotypes of black women. They do a fantastic job of that by tarnishing their own image. I’m not sure what you mean by such a commitment. Do you think men who aren’t economically mobile are traveling abroad looking for a wife? . I can’t speak for continental African men. The guys I know who are traveling abroad are upper middle class to working middle class black American men. My brother makes 110k yearly he married a Muslim Moroccan woman. My brother who married a Kenyan woman earns 80k. Only 14% of American men earn 75k. I earn in the 70-75k range as a journeyman plumber. Do you honestly think men travel to spread stereotypes? These guys are more concerned with enjoying their trips. Those men only responded after black American women tried to sully their reputation by accusing them of being predators. To be frank most passport bros aren’t traveling to Africa to they are going to Asia or Latin America. The men in my family prefer black wives so they decided to go to Kenya, Gambia and Morocco to find Muslim wives. I’ll find the best woman irrespective of nationality or ethnicity.
@@charlesirby1643 Maybe the problem is the loudest 'passport bros' on this platform seem to not be concerned with finding long term relationships. But i will trust you have clear intentions with women from different countries. Regardless it is good that you are financially stable as i think that is a foundation we men forget to build before we start chasing women. Best of luck in all your endeavors.
Is this how African men see Black women me and my entire African American family looks forward to seeing your posts but this bashing of my people don't need to have to explain anything you've already made a bee line to the door it is so disheartening... This is like watching you say why you don't like black women..I don't have 3 baby daddies.. I have 1 husband we both think we hit the lottery for almost 19 yrs. God has brought us this far and many more years to come. We don't do or speak badly on our race that's the job of everyone else. We can't afford to do this to our own..
@@rexona1178 Im with you on that...but we don't because the ENTIRE world don't like us we don't have to be at each other the way they do. We teach all three of our kids not to especially in front of mixed company..
I had to pause video to chime in my thoughts. Zack on this one I have to disagree with you. Your way of thinking and how you perceive women to be are very PRIMITIVE! First of all you put in all black women in the same bucket if you have a preference to dating non-melanated non-black women then that's fine that's your preference but don't base your preference or your comments about black women based on your experience alone. The other thing is the young lady that's on your podcast is correct oftentimes when you hear a woman say something like oh I have a boyfriend or I've got a man even if someone is innocently speaking to her it's a defense mechanism because she could be constantly bombarded or every time that she's public or wherever it's the same type of BS she gets coming at her somebody is trying to holler at her get her number her social media IDs whatever so saying I got a man or not interested it's just an automatic self-defense. My last point is this it's not that a woman or a man for that matter puts down somebody that might be on a lower socioeconomic status than them but recognize that there's nothing wrong with a high-valued woman wanting a high-valued man and vice versa there's absolutely nothing wrong with it. Everyone should just stay in their lane if a man is just a regular Joe blow working at clicks McDonald's Target Walmart or whatever then he has to understand his lane and his level and stay in his lane and vice versa for the women because I agree with the young lady it's not fair for someone that's at a certain level to have to stop reach back to try and pull up a man to get to her level cuz he's not even at her level or ahead of her it's not a black woman's it's not any woman's responsibility to raise a grown ass man that's what his mother and his father are there for so Zach you really talking out the side of your mouth
Your views are definitely going to go down after this video my brotha but i will still support your channel no matter your opinion about black women and oh yeah, you cannot compare all black women as the same sir!✌️🙏🙏🙏
Zak I always watch your videos and support your channel, but as a Black man from West Africa living in the UK for over 30yrs I am shock and disappointed to know the real you! For a start as Pan Africans we surround ourselves with those on the same mission, meaning who is next to our struggle the black woman. In the same way we have black women who I will not even bother with we also have black men just equally bad. Relationship is a investment for the long term. A REAL black man fights for the single black woman he chooses to be with, just like I did over 24yrs ago and happily married. What comes easy goes quickly. 1.For a start you keep interrupting your female guest not giving her to speak instead you speak over her. 2. Working as a bouncer I DO NOT expect you or any bouncer to be complementing women coming into the club. You should do your job and be polite to make sure all the women and men are safe in the environment. 3. Do unto others as you want others do unto you. You will never allow your daughter to go to the club but will keep her at home to study (Which I agree with you 100%) but you want other women to fall for your complement and who knows what will happen next, you get their number and sleep with them? You know the environment that is why you will never let your daughter off the leash! Also any man or woman who goes to a club to look for a date is a loser and not serious about starting a relationship! 4. You kept interrupting your co host that she is generalising - you fell foul MORE of the same thing you are accusing her off - GENERALISATION! 5. All the black men I know who married white women or non black have divorced or separated, due to the white woman, not able to handle stress in difficult situations, she looking older than the black man and she is losing confidence or the black man wakes up in the morning and sees a woman who is fast becoming old due to the non-melanin. 6. Who wants to marry a KARREN! My friend from Africa who was messing around with a white woman many years ago. She trapped him by getting pregnant, he asked her to abort the pregnancy, she refuse and kept pestering him until he cave in 8 months into the pregnancy and went live with her. Today they have 2 children. They are not together, she is making his life hell and the other day she came round demanding the passports for the children as she want to travel with the kids on holiday during school term. He did not open the door for her, she stood outside and scream. Next minute the police came round to his place of work and arrested him and he spent the night in jail accused of physically abusing her - LIED! He was released with no charge and no repercussion for the white woman. So for any black man like you or black woman who feels that marrying out of your race is the best way forward - GO AHEAD and GOOD LUCK! As someone who has married for a long time, there is NO such thing as LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT! You love someone after you have been together MARRIED for a time, gone through the thick and thin and still come out fighting together against ALL attacks. So Zak you want to marry a white woman - go ahead, but do not call yourself a Pan African. There is a REASON why there are MALE and FEMALE in every race! It means STICK TO YOUR KIND!
Zack is only seeing 👀 things from a male point of view "ONLY".....!!! Black ⚫️ Women as well as the Black ⚫️ Men have gone through systemic racism and oppression for the past 500 years as the woman but from his perspective he's not seeing the whole picture that we have suffered together as a people and oppressed by the dominant race and as a people our mindsets have been "DESTORYED" by This Worldwide Racist system and only seeing 👀 from the Male's 👉 point 👈 of view is not right and unfair we as a people have lived together suffer together through this racial bigoted system that has controlled us for 500 years and Zack is being one sided and very selfish......!!! SMH......!!! 😩😫😭😢😥😤😡😠🤬
No it's not, your talking about black women in the club, the gold digger, and the one with 3 kids for 3 different men. Men do this all the time, and nobody judges. Men spray children all over the place. No body judges.
But you work, right? The problem are these dudes that aim for higher earning women so they can sit on the couch all day or take naps and work on “ideas.” I wouldn’t have an issue with a man who earned less than me so long as he has a job and good work ethic. If I make $100k and he makes $65k that means WE make $165k that’s how I see it. There are some leechy lazy guy out there sup hate working and want a woman to foot all the bills. That is disgusting. Not a man who makes less.
There are so much other themes and subjects to talk about, but why is it that Black men and women can only speak about themselves and not concentrate on what matters. For example, how the future generations are going to live. What are the goals? The goals should be family and education.
It's not only African women it's most women in the world are . I don't know if it was just conversation. This is almost the same conversation from the West's far right . So my question is this Africa unite . How do we do that when the foundation of our society is so fragmented. A man can find their partner or a women can also and it's solemnly an individual choice. We have self hate .Both rhetoric and narrative is about power and control . Materialism is the demise of our continent.
Africa can never and will never unite. I don’t want it to. I don’t relate to Africans as someone from a specific part of Africa well I’m also half Arab from my dad. We are not brothers and sisters. In all honesty fxck the idea of africa uniting. It should be split into smaller subcontinent. We are nothing alike.
Zack I love you my brother and i understand some of the points you were making. Thank you for standing up for black men. I'm gonna side with that beautiful sister on your panel. It really comes down to this Zack. The white woman is in a more calmer setting. What i mean by that is she never really had to struggle like black people or black women. It's called white privilege. What you are not realizing is that black women are the most educated and they actually worked hard for it. No one gave it to her. She worked hard. Studied hard and got her education so i think they support us but they want us to be better. I know here in America we have our problems with them but some of us understand that it comes from a place of love. It's tough love but love, nonetheless. This subject matter on the issue we have with sisters stems from racism and sometimes we don't dig deep enough to realize it. The black woman had to scrap and fight to get where she is. And they love their black brothers. They prefer to be with us because they love us. But a lot of us aren't holding up our end of the deal. Unfortunately, the black woman also needs to understand that there is a system of hierarchy in the corporate world: white man, white woman, black woman, black man. The white man has to do his best to keep the black man on the bottom so he could possibly lose all self-esteem and worth. And yes, it carries over into our relationships with black women because they want us to achieve and be better. A lot of us are really trying but the system is there so we are butting against it. A lot of times we fail. But we do have to get up, dust ourselves off and continue to fight. The black woman wanna know that you are trying, you're fighting. They need men and not boys who quit. It's really stems from a system. At least here in America. Most black men here understand it. And the black woman knows it's but we have to stay together. I'll use this analogy. I came on a slave ship, shackled in the hull of this ship coming to America. Next to me, suffering as I am is the black woman. She went through the suffering with me. She is the only one that understands me. Knows my pain and sorrow. I wanna be with the person who really understands me and is compassionate towards me. The black woman is the only one who will truly love me and understand what I'm going through as a black person. Please let that beautiful sister know i support where she is coming from. And I'm just a 9-5 brother who doesn't make a lot of money. I have dated white and Asian women but I know they don't understand my struggles and in a way it's not their fault because they are from other cultures, other races. The black woman loves us.
Brother... I love my black brothers. I would love to end up with a black brother. All I've received is hurt , abuse, disloyalty, non commitment, liars etc etc. I'm sure there's amazing black men out there... But , it's highly likely I'll get commitment and true love from a white man.
There are good black men and there are good black women. Find each other. He wants women to wasting there time with unambitious man. White women also want ambitious men. When black men get with white women they work extra hard. Black athletes want white women because they are lifted up at society and they want to show the white man they can get their girl. The psychology is deep. This conversation is rudimentary.
So disappointed in you zack you seemed to know so much about Africans and the injustices put upon them, world wide, but you cant connect the dots and critique the negative impact on the people. Putting all black women in one group is ridiculous. Wishing you well and that you will learn. I hope you don't get Johnathan majored.
Zack is behaving like some blk men don't do the same thing. Some blk will look at an African descendant woman if she is not light, with what they call good hair. Some black just conceive in their minds they don't want a blk woman. Why they hate themselves so they do not want dark skin children
Yes Beloved... Life Happens... So glad the Sis*Star is on point and represented Black Women accurately... Zack is putting Black Women in the same box and not representing Black Women who happen to be your supporters... I couldn't listen to this show... Speak life into Black Women Zack... Heal yourself first Zack🌹
Life happens with three different men who are still alive, yet you keep repeating the same cycle no it seems like you just repeating the same mistakes that's why that happens.
Which also leads to another question.... are you married or in a relationship, Zack? Did your snow bunny agree to marry or date you before or after your career as a fighter? Would she have still decided to be w you if you did not make your earnings in that way? What if you worked on a farm, not owned it? Ask yourself that....
Zack, you are a very intelligent man with immense worldly knowledge. But you have missed an essential truth on this topic. My mother was a Black woman. My now ex-wife is a Black woman. I have three daughters that have grown into Black women. There is NO OTHER woman on this planet that will ever rise above the Black woman in my visions. I've got to just make sure that I have the wisdom and discipline to pick the right Black woman for me. Yes, that is a growing challenge. Yet there are over 800 million females of African ancestry on this planet. I can find a good Black woman for me.
Dude zack is not against black women's is just explaining an experience that he went through,Zacks mother and sister are black, and why black people used to get offended easily? Did you follow the 40 munites podcast carefully??
Listen and learn from the following story. MY MZUNGU WIFE LEFT ME HOMELESS AFTER 20YRS OF MARRIAGE..I HAVE ENDED UP HOMELESS IN AMERICA @Kenya Diaspora Media USA. Those brothers who say white women do not care about your money. Listen and learn, they study you and are smart at what they do do to rill you in. Learn to build healthier relationships as black people. It is achievable, just take care of where things are going wrong.
Soooo the few times he's had bad experiences with black women, we're all like that? My Black Kimg doesn't make more than me but he treats the way I deserve to be treated and he still provides with what he has. It's a partnership. I love on him all day. money is not the only way you can show a woman security.
I remember speaking to an African from Zimbabwe who told me that he can only date a white woman because they are more beautiful. Each time i see him, i feel embarassed. My black wife is the best thing that ever happened to me.
This is based on westernized dating behavior. I hope doesn't poison the well of A f r I k a n s on the continent. If others float on the A continent with line of behavior and thinking of relationships it is the destruction of mankind.
I personally know enough traditionally minded, humble, honest, prime, degree educated, fertile, healthy, shapely and beautiful black women to start a dating app. As a man married to a black African woman myself, I find there are no shortages of good black women who will stay locked in once you’ve won their hearts. That being said, I’m well travelled and quite successful in my field. Then again, I presume you are too? Yet you haven’t met enough high quality black women to not have such an opinion despite your negative experiences?
Actually, there is. If you live in a large city, rudeness is more likely to keep you safe than softness, which may be viewed by men with mental health issues as weakness. Sadly, we no longer live in a world where all men can take 'no' for an answer (we probably never did). Do what you must to be safe, ladies.
Women take it from me at 63 years old you can be quite happy being single. Having my own business i don't have to depend on anyone but myself. I enjoy my grown children and being a grand mother. Having a man won't make you happy but peace of mind will. Learn to love yourself stop chasing the carrot. Men will be with you today and gone tomorrow. Get off the emotional roller coaster you will be much happier in the long run. Being a Queen does not mean you will have a king. I love my life and would not change a single thing.
Divorced ? thank you for the comment. We are glad your happy. But we promote here families that are united like in most african countries not divorce. Father, mother and children. Not single
The first marriage at 16 was abusive. So we divorced. Married again at 50, but he was unfaithful, so we divorced.l would have loved to have found love, but it was not meant to be. My children are 46, 45, and 44. I have 11 grandchildren, so the Most High has blessed me tremendously. I have a peaceful loving family. My job has been to be the provider for my family. I had to raise my kids by myself and not rely on a man. All it took was the Most High by my side.
@zackmwekassaenglish 29:06 channel2081 As black women, we carry a heavy load. We are strong because we have to be. We realize there are not enough good men for every good woman. It is sad to see people are choosing partners based on income.
true. There's a good man out there. I got the right woman to be where I am today from college, and she was there at the lowest and never gave up our vision. an empire is not built in one day.
I'm so taken back by his reactions and stories. I raise you sir, THOUSANDS of black women who start at the "bottom" with black men. Only to have them either, never reach a higher potential, or decide they want to level up to someone "better", after this woman has been riding with him, encouraging him, supporting him, and praying for him, maybe even becoming his wife and building a family with him. To state that white women, or any other race of women, don't go after men for money is delusional. I've known plenty of white women who've admitted that their husband's were nothing much when they met them, but they decided to build him up into what they wanted him to be. When he wants to leave, she already has plan in place to extract her "years of service." One women even admitted that when they have bad disagreements, she's not fighting for him to stay because she loves him so much, but mostly because she doesn't want to lose the lifestyle she's been encouraging him to build for her and her children. She doesn't want to work, she would rather be cheerlanding and pump him up, and do whatever she needs to so that she can keep her lifestyle. But you stay strong and ride with the other women.✊️
Thanks Zac! For letting black women know who you are. It's called inappropriate contact with the customer. The white woman was humoring you because she thinks that you are slow for trying to talk to her. You cannot ever put a white woman against a black woman in anything. The had different experience in ever way for the past 400years. Period! Anyhow Zac, this very disappointing.
If all of that is true, how do you justify BW constantly comparing BM to WM? Because both BM and BW went through everything together. According to BW and simps, BW has no blame. It doesn’t make sense.
Just so you know you can't be for the black community and date outside of your race. There are black women all over the world, why not travel and explore rather than turning your back on your race this comment is based purely off the title.
As an African American woman I'm extremely disappointed by your opinion. You need to pray for healing to help you forgive black women for the hurt you feel.
Why do you assumption that BW hurt ? It could be preference ? Yet if BW say the same thing you see herself with Wm .. the sisterhood celebrate ( hypocrites ) you go girl . I’m North African man my preference is North African women , East African and Angola Cape Verde, .. however other women are not my preference and I might not be there .. none of them hurt me .
don't forget the wyt women are after your middle leg....they have heard that once you go black you cannot go back so to them any black man is a prospect...and you are a tall drink of water so yes they will be nice. stop putting black women in a box....Jonathan Majors just learnt his lesson and so will you with your mentality. props to this lady...she repped black women well.
Men and women are hard wired to chase, problem is personal understanding and politeness in individuals. But as long as any knock backs are amicable it should be resolved quickly. Dented pride, pick yourself up and dust yourself off.
Zack I think this issue will forever be debated . Ego and Social Engineering, has Contributed to the state of Relationships all round. There was a time when you couldn't introduce a Man to your family unless he could financially look after you as a Woman, Equally Men's families were reluctant in encouraging them to marry a poor Black woman. Great Topic I'm in my 60's and we had this conversation during the70's and 80's not much has changed.
you never gave that lady enough chance to converse as a host, some of her opinions could have been elaborated more but were cut short cos you interrupted you talked more cos you already concluded by your experiences shame I feel for her she was slow and calm for the topic whilst you were the opposite. This is a good topic but I think its a debatable one with more black women and men from different financial backgrounds so we teach and learn and also understand each other on different levels so we love one another as blacks. And also culture and traditions included. Much love ✌🏾
Mr. Zack, your view on Black women as a whole is bias & disappointing. It's no different than the European saying all Black people are the same. Perhaps you are seeking a good woman in a place where good women don't frequent. Rare jewels are hidden. Forgive the woman that broke your heart and make way to love yourself. Advice coming from a Black America women, married to my high school sweetheart 40yrs. We built everything together with love & respect. Possibly your gentleman qualities lack when interacting with women of standards. Go back & Review the interview with the sister, study your responses when she spoke to you vs her behavior when you spoke to her. ❤
@zackmwekassaenglishchannel2081 women are emotional beings by nature, not by the countries they reside in. I'm in America, and America is not in me. 💛 Honey attracts bees 💩 draw flies
The woman who have 3 different children by 3 different men most likely invested time and energy in those men and every last one left her with a child. As a older woman I have seen this happen to my sister's many, many times. Don't let no one tell you how to live your life.. Make better choices for yourself. You can stay with a man until he's fifty or more and he will look back and try to find himself a young. There's nothing wrong secured yourself while you a young woman.
I think black women are cautious of being disrespected. I think our culture has deteriorated with no restrictions just down to basics. We should interact with respect and appropriate boundaries for the women.
Zack, i admire your politics very much, especially on African Unity. But my brother dont write off our african sisters because of their race. I would prefere African women but the personality of a woman is also important in choosing a partner. Think it is we progressive people who must educate our women to see us as good family men. My wife for 22 years is black and i have absolutely no complaints.
A lot of black professional fighters date outside their race, celebrities, athletes... which is unfortunate but it def stems from the trauma of colonialism in Africa and slavery in the west to make us uphold the values of europeans (luxury, status, lighter skin, blonde hair, suit & tie, etc.) opposed to traditional African clothing, spiritual practice, African food, African medicine, African rights of passage etc. • Capitalism has forced people to make decisions on monetary basis. • One question though how do we expect to rebuild Africa and the African culture(language, spirituality, etc) without the black African woman & the black African man? Both are the foundation of a strong Africa. • Kwame Nkrumah did not have an African black wife, but his contribution ideologically and politically to Africa was great non the less. Chiek Anta Diop had a black African wife & after her passing had a white wife, his contribution to African history and science on a global scale was great. Saying this to say we should not discount/judge each other for personal preferences, but rather for our values, political interest, and ideology. Does he or she have work in / have the best interest for the African people & continent. This is what the pan-African framework is about, the ideological and political interest of wanting the best for Africa. Many good examples to use but most people who have this dialogue on social media and the internet lack the political education & historical context to understand the source of our issues and to understand that we as African people are supposed to be contributing to move Africa forward redeeming her and regaining our dignity as a people and we would not need to have this conversation.
No, they date outside their race because the majority of women of their are not willing to put up with them when they are still struggling. They only want them went they have made it out in life. 🙂
@@zackmwekassaenglishchannel2081 we have a much greater chance dating our black African woman while we are struggling than a woman outside of our race while we are struggling. The black African woman identifies with our struggles while the woman outside our race cannot. This is why the athletes and celebs get the non black woman “AFTER” they become successful. Ultimately it boils down to personal preference and what an individual prefers should be respected.
Thank you sir for your great insight! I grew up in Ohio and my school was known for producing many D1 athletes. From middle to high school if the whites knew a certain black athlete would go pro they would be on this individual like there was no tomorrow. Unfortunately when the guy never made it to pro the whites would leave his side and go marry a white guy and call it a day. Lol. What Zack is saying is almost a joke. Glad I grew up around many successful Africans married to African people. I went to college in the DMV finished . Our people are marrying each other so essentially that doesn’t matter what he says. What many of us wish is the likes of Zack would just be respectful towards our people and just date and marry whom they want. That is all. Know need to bring us down as a community to uplift another community. It’s embarrassing
@dextermartin7998 Yes sir you do, a poor African man has a higher chance of marrying an African woman than a white woman, I see it all the time in my country and many African nations, even wheelbarrow pushers can find wives who respect them, his inability to attract a good woman is on him not the women but he is too prideful to see that. He is delusional, if he thinks a wealthy European woman will look his way when he is poor, especially a poor African, I guess all the poor black men fleeing to Europe on boats will find wealthy white women to marry them lol.
Instead of having an honest conversation, she’s very combative. Not understanding your point of view, but responding immediately without thinking. But if a woman likes a big car and a big man, she’s entitled to pick what she wants.
She is a living demonstration of why marriage as an institution is less possible in our community. Marriage requires particular mindsets and support from the wider community, unfortunately this mindset has been eroded by femism etc. Our women were sold some unsustainable ideas and they bought them wholesale.
She was very defensive. That's what I noticed and expected, because women don't want to hear that they do anything wrong, so they rather rush to defense.
He's in Africa and I'm in America, and he's right. I say good morning or just speak and say hello to a black woman and they are not courteous at all and do not reciprocate in kind. However I do want to marry a black woman, so I'm positioning myself spiritually, financially, mentally and physically for Mrs Right
Thank you
+@ananmai8700 : Thank 😊 you beloveit for seeing 👀 from both sides of the coin 🪙 👏 🙌 because clearly Zack seems to have self-hate issues 😳 😮😢
+@regmonmusic : EXACTLY my 👉 point 👈 l was thinking about the Willie Lynch syndrome AKA Stockholm Syndrome also. Zack seems to be of that Willie Lynch mindset 🤔
+@Nickademas1 : Zack is only seeing 👀 things from a male point of view "ONLY".....!!! Black ⚫️ Women as well as the Black ⚫️ Men have gone through systemic racism and oppression for the past 500 years as the woman but from his perspective he's not seeing the whole picture that we have suffered together as a people and oppressed by the dominant race and as a people our mindsets have been "DESTORYED" by This Worldwide Racist system and only seeing 👀 from the Male's 👉 point 👈 of view is not right and unfair we as a people have lived together suffer together through this racial bigoted system that has controlled us for 500 years and Zack is being one sided and very selfish......!!! SMH......!!! 😩😫😭😢😥😤😡😠🤬
Marriage should not be a priority for most women. Everyone does not have to marry. It is a mistake to make marriage your focus in life.
I agree
it the same with brown womans🤣 i think it seem to have be Thing in the modern World
So sick of conversations where we demonise each other, romanticise the oppressor and act like other races don't also have issues wirg their men/women. They dont trash their own for the worlds entertainment, they get therapy, pastoral care, counselling or move on.
This is so true. Stockholm syndrome. This is so sad. All other races have perfect lives. Whatever about rich blCk men marrying down with white women. Please. Zack was rejected multiple times.
Why isnhaving honest conversations always termed by black people as "trashing black people" ? Why are you always concerned about how white people see you?
I have seen black women savagely criticize black men by putting them down and saying she would never date a black man, there were only comments of support and encouragement even from people not black people, but when a black man gives his opinion and does the same thing, he is said to be denigrating black women. I have seen white and even Arab men criticize their wives' behavior very brutally and even that they usually make comparisons and believe me no one has said anything against them or called it denigration. Lol.
Correct 😡😡😡
I think it is very wrong for him to use his platform to discuss such a personal issue. I have travelled the world and this moral corruption is in every race. The divorce rate among non blacks is sky high, the unmarried non blacks is on the rise. It is a modern problem not a black problem. Look at the fentanyl deaths in the US among non blacks. u think those women were functioning as good women or wives or mothers while high on drugs.?
He's telling her not to put every Black men is the same box but he's doing it to black women
This guy is a clown
@@rda-gama2567 bye
Yes
his position was past tense
Desperate men do desperate things 😪
My Brother if you don’t like to date black women that is completely up to you, we also know manners carry you far in this world, however I could not trade my black queen for any other, we grew up in the west they don’t fascinate us, it’s a mind set Bro, fix up.
I am married to my black queen and when I met her she was the regional manager of the bank I was working in as a security guard. We fell for each other and 4kids and 10yrs later I have my own security company
Your story is good, but it doesn't change the fact that 9 out of 10 black women bank managers would not date a security guard.
@@raygreen7628 Would a male bank manager date a female security guard? Maybe yes ... Maybe no.
Sometimes both males and females look for financial compatability or at least ambition.
Is your 9 out 0f ten ratio based on actual research data?
We need to see the pictres to believe.
Thanks for sharing
@@zackmwekassaenglishchannel2081 with this mentality I wonder which black man you expect marry your sister....you are too big of a man to be this small minded... please stick to your usual theme on this channel so you don't lose subscribers
@@raygreen7628SHE AND HE HAD TIME TO GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER HE MET ONE OF THE QUALIFICATIONS... "PROTECTOR"
Zack go to the UK and you will find white ladies with 4-5 children ..a rainbow nation..all those children are mostly from 4-5 blackmen and most of those fathers are long gone..
Yep! I grew up over there. PTSD (Post-Traumatic Slave Disorder) is real for many of us who
haven't reached a level of mind emancipation.
Clearly u didn't watch the whole video, He said He's talking about Africa not countries outside Africa🙄
@leonardmatjila2325 if he is talking about Africa as a woman living in Africa what he is saying is a lie, yes gold diggers are everywhere, including Africa, but Zack is wrong, Africa is a poor continent, with poor men yet the divorce rates in African countries are low, a lot of African men are not rich but they are still able to find a woman and marry, where is he meeting these women? Looks like he wants women who look like ig models not ordinary African women, many African woman are selling vegetables on the streets to support their poor husbands, and they are selling second-hand clothes to help support their husbands before he starts complaining about African women loving rich men, African men need to improve their finances because most African men are poor.
Do you have a source who can give figures showing that black men in England do what you accuse them of more than white men or should we believe you because you are a divine source of truth ?
@@ValTyalin Nothing to do with slavery, that's why he clarified that he was talking about Africa so stop projecting yourself. People have their opinions and not everything always has to do with the stupidity of slavery or anything historical. And this kind of argument only comes out when a black guy gives his opinion. Lol
I think this whole debate is silly. If you prefer white women, that's cool. But bashing all black women and justifying why you prefer white women is not it. Black men are just as broken as the black women, a lot of successful black men marry white women as a "i made it statement" it's an inferior complex, same as some black women that marry white men. Love who u love, but white is not a prize. When you hate yourself, you hate anything that looks or reminds you of yourself and where you come from.
BRAVO!
Well said and articulated. You hit it right on the head
Thank you for saying that it is very true 👍🏿 ❤
Well said and on point!
This is very obviously not how I feel! I'd not trade my queen for THE WORLD 🌍
The white man protects and serves his daughters, but his bed bench / concubines is something that he desecrated and defiled. Is it not more shameful to have his concubines as a queen than his daughters?
Preach sir
Your queens are money hungry bro 😂😂😂😂Lol 😂they already traded you for money
EXACTLY. Men always saying that but the women will trade them in a hoy second for better life.@@furebiakis4646
Woman like to talk about treating them like a queen. I swear that line annoys me. She wants to be treated like a queen but what is she bringing to the table? Most of them can't cook, keep a house or even know how to build a home. How about growing with a man? Both parties building together? They want someone already made and become in love with what he have and not him. I beg
It is disapponting when a host invites a guest and instead of dialogue the host just talks and talks. This lady obviously had a lot of sensible things to say but she was not given a chance even though she graciously tried.
Amen to that! And he was rudely interrupting all the time.
And some men in the comments are calling her combative.
I new white women who specifically fished for rich black men...I'm disappointed in your view point with this but I can see the way you speak with a lot of passion sounds like you are talking from your personal experience.
A Willie Lynch colonized mind is a very tragic thing indeed. 🤦🏽♂
Zack is only seeing 👀 things from a male point of view "ONLY".....!!! Black ⚫️ Women as well as the Black ⚫️ Men have gone through systemic racism and oppression for the past 500 years as the woman but from his perspective he's not seeing the whole picture that we have suffered together as a people and oppressed by the dominant race and as a people our mindsets have been "DESTORYED" by This Worldwide Racist system and only seeing 👀 from the Male's 👉 point 👈 of view is not right and unfair we as a people have lived together suffer together through this racial bigoted system that has controlled us for 500 years and Zack is being one sided and very selfish......!!! SMH......!!! 😩😫😭😢😥😤😡😠🤬
@regmonmusic : EXACTLY my 👉 point 👈 l was thinking about the Willie Lynch syndrome AKA Stockholm Syndrome also. Zack seems to be of that Willie Lynch mindset 🤔
Stop taking up for a group of women who view you as less than. Your black queens all over social media praising men of other races.
Okayyyyyyy he is disgusting 🤮
Zack, brother, what a depressing conversation but it is needed. The issues you addressed could have been had in the US! What made it more depressing was the attitude you both had toward your people (men v women). You said white folks don’t do certain things. They do. You said white women don’t do certain things. They do. Too many destructive generalities about black people. You said the white woman isn’t as strong as the black woman; so it’s okay that the black woman should take on the extra duty of working AND homemaker?! Sadly it seems that neither of you love black people enough. Zack, what you revealed about yourself in this discussion is the VERY SAME THING that you accuse your fellow Afrikans of doing: not supporting, loving and sticking together. That you don’t see yourself marrying a black woman is shocking. However, it does clarify certain attitudes that have come out in your commentary that made me wonder.
It’s a Mind Game.
Thank you!
Good enough ❤
It’s unfortunate he feels that way. It appears he’s painting all Black women with the same paintbrush. Not all Black women look down on Black men either. I’ll agree there are some silly young females out there that are as he says, but not all are that way.
Next time Watch the entirety of the video before commenting.
Thank you
@@zackmwekassaenglishchannel2081 exactly 😂😂😂, some people just watch the introduction and run to comment
@@zackmwekassaenglishchannel2081 Zac it sounds like you just hating on black women because you generalized all black women. I say hello to black men, even if I make more money. You prefer white women just say that without bashing 50% of black people.
You are right..However most black women these days have a burning desire to be in control of and lead their families which is counterproductive they’re also fill with pride and more ego than men..let’s talk about attitude..lastly black women behavior in public is appalling at times the way they dress and act..black women are not presenting themselves as wives so how can they find husbands
It is funny how he doesn't want her to put all men in the same box; however, he is willing to put black women all in the same box. Black man like this is such a turn off. It's shameful, and It doesn't matter if he sees things differently now. It sounds like he still has the same-belief about the matter based on this conversation. Isn't it sad how black men are the only men of any race who will say to the world that they don't want their race of women? Self-hate is evident.
Yes, he is so disappointing and disgusting. I used to think he was intelligent but not so much now. It’s ridiculous that our men love telling the world that they don’t like us.
And they are the only race of men who have failed their communities and countries, white men built Europe, Asian men are building Asia, the black men are fleeing Africa on boats to the white man's country instead of building their own. This is a defense mechanism they don't want to take responsibility for their failure, so they either blame racism(whitemen) or black women 🤷🏿♀️
And they are the only race of men who have failed their communities and countries, white men built Europe, Asian men are building Asia, the black men are fleeing Africa on boats to the white man's country instead of building their own. This is a defense mechanism they don't want to take responsibility for their failure, so they either blame racism(whitemen) or black women 🤷🏿♀️
I am a 56 years Brown Man, I sided with the Woman what Zack has as his host, I cannot sided with Zack because he was determined NOT to marry his own people or even dated one of them, His Black & Caucasian they have in this world????? Zack, prefer to dated Caucasian woman, Caucasian woman told me, she date someone if he has a job, Every or MOST Caucasian women asked me what I do???? that is telling themselves if they will dates me or not...Do not THINK Caucasian are that Innocents...Black's women DO NOT hesitate to tell you, Caucasian ask what you do for living is the very SAMETHING...
@ananmai8700 : Thank 😊 you beloveit for seeing 👀 from both sides of the coin 🪙 👏 🙌 because clearly he seems to have self-hate issues 😳 😮😢
@@michaeljotoyajackson7294 AGAIN, I am a Brown label as a Black man age 56 years, I am SOMEWHAT offended by Zack remark, "he do not like Black woman, creating a video gearing to Blackness, yet still, he NEVER like Black woman, Black woman vs Caucasian woman, has the very SAME agenda, Black woman comes out DIRECTLY ask if he has any money, Caucasian woman ask WHAT you do for a living, SAMETHING, I know Zack have income from UA-cam, obviously, where is taking his paycheck to??? his Caucasian family, TOTALLY Disrespectful to the Black race, WHY Sport Black players, married to the Caucasian women???? Because that is WHAT in front of their Face ALL the Time, Off the Buses, Caucasian, Chinese women, is RIGHT there taking their numbers, who's willing to give them their numbers, ONCE have SEX with them, have to marry them or else they will sue the players, ETC. I am STOPPED following him, unsubscribed, Let us USE our COMMON-SENSE, if Zack do not like Black woman, then he NEVER like the woman that give birth to him. I NEVER knew my mother, my father had many wives, ALL the Son's stayed with him, my sisters they with their mothers, I SUPPORT BLACKNESS ESPECIALLY BLACK WOMEN, HMMM @michaeljotoyajackson7294 AGAIN, I am a Brown label as a Black man age 56 years, I am SOMEWHAT offended by Zack remark, "he do not like Black woman, creating a video gearing to Blackness, yet still, he NEVER like Black woman, Black woman vs Caucasian woman, has the very SAME agenda, Black woman comes out DIRECTLY ask if he has any money, Caucasian woman ask WHAT you do for a living, SAMETHING, I know Zack have income from UA-cam, obviously, where is taking his paycheck to??? his Caucasian family, TOTALLY Disrespectful to the Black race, WHY Sport Black players, married to the Caucasian women???? Because that is WHAT in front of their Face ALL the Time, Off the Buses, Caucasian, Chinese women, is RIGHT there taking their numbers, who's willing to give them their numbers, ONCE have SEX with them, have to marry them or else they will sue the players, ETC. I am STOPPED following him, unsubscribed, Let us USE our COMMON-SENSE, if Zack do not like Black woman, then he NEVER like the woman that give birth to him. I NEVER knew my mother, my father had many wives, ALL the Son's stayed with him, my sisters they with their mothers, I SUPPORT BLACKNESS ESPECIALLY BLACK WOMEN, HMMM
@@michaeljotoyajackson7294 The MOST Painful thing about it, he is having a Black show channel, that thing DISTURB ME, how can someone is Black or Brown, he has share hatred for Black women???? other races, they LOVE Fame, when a Black's is Famous, they RUSH to them created their FAKE Smile, making Babies with them, then few years later they file for divorce, those Black's advance illiterate dumbest fools, NEVER SEE or saw that, AN ENEMY IS ALWAYS MY ENEMY PERIOD... I AM 56 YEARS, Brown Man, I unsubscribe, He should have NEVER showcase on Social Media, other Black decent women, would say, they not good enough, MOST Black's, ONE Black young woman, she had to pay a divorced WITH NO kids, over 50K, pre-months, she RUNNING back to the Black Community, they said "YOU MADE YOUR BED, YOU SLEEP IN IT".
@@michaeljotoyajackson7294 nope. His choice is not self hate
I’m so disappointed by his excuses. He should just says his preference is non black women rather than “putting everyone in the same box” his own words. I have to unfollow.
Not all black women are like this or as Zack described. There are some who welcome compliments, can reciprocate a salutation, have a decent conversation, aren’t materialistic, and have their priorities in order. We do exist. If you want a white woman, that’s your preference. However, don’t rule out all black women due to a few bad experiences.
nah most black woman are like this
@@ongyc2062Yes. Most are like her.
Everybody has their experience
I agree
Most black women, not all. If the probability is 90% that I will get a negative experience, why would I still go ahead?
You formed an opinion about the black women from the less than 10% that goes to club??? Dude, do you realize that majority of the the women don't step in clubs, bars etc??? And most of the time, the descent ones step in those establishments with their significant others. How do you expect the descent ones to give you attention when either they are meeting their spouses at the club or waiting for them there? You can go to the snowbunnies. Love is love right?
we didnt talk about about the club only. You only retained the club part.
We talked about verious exemples
Thank you
You didn't pay much attention, did you? He didn't GO TO clubs-----he worked there as a bouncer!
Zack, you talk about black issues to get pay. However, your heart is elsewhere. It's hard to look at you right now.
@@Vesselsforlove You just have to unsubscribe but Zack has never done anything to please the masses or to have subscribers. They always give his opinion and encourage people to unsubscribe if they can't accept that he doesn't think like them.
This is disturbing to me why do we continue this generalizing all black women. I enjoyed your channel until now. If your channel is going to turn into black men & women against each other I won't be watching smh
Bye bye
I can't did he say bye bye wow I hope and pray he finds his queen to change his mind
White women not building your UA-cam Channel though. God Bless you brother Zach
Self hate is so deep for both the black man and the black woman. Egos and shallowness are quite enormous too.This is a relevant and pitiful conversation at the same time.
I have seen black women savagely criticize black men by putting them down and saying she would never date a black man, there were only comments of support and encouragement even from people not black people, but when a black man gives his opinion and does the same thing, he is said to be denigrating black women. I have seen white and even Arab men criticize their wives' behavior very brutally and even that they usually make comparisons and believe me no one has said anything against them or called it denigration. Lol.
Yes Zack I do understand our black women are crazy, but we are the real men to put them straight. When we see them acting up, we tell them the evil they are committing, that sometimes can change someone’s mind by telling them the right way. Yes, lots of black women also do marry outside their race too. Both sides do the same thing and it is wrong. We have been destroyed mentally by our oppressors. We need to know who is our strength Zack, that is God, through his son Christ. Come back to Zack. That fear you have against black women, love towards them will conquer them Zack. Not your ways Zack. 👇🏾 1John 4:18 There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.
we need mental healing, epigenetics is real. Until we heal from our collective wounds we will NEVER come together as we should.
I just unsubscribe to your channel sir. Out of your heart, your mouth just spoke. My goal is to support my people. Black man black woman black child first.
It's called divide and conquer. A simple concept, but it works
Exactly the point. That is why i mentioned to Zack about the white man's system of white man, white woman, black woman, black man.
The black man you noticed is on the bottom. He is there for a reason. He is the real threat to white supremacy, privilege. So in this system we are struggling and fighting each other.
If worked on him
Black Queens forever snow bunnies never
That’s common with all women, not only black women.
No he needs to sing the black man anthem ' it's the black woman fault'.
Right, he can move forward with others, I promise you BW won't miss you.
Why is he comparing BW with WW? We must be compared with Whiteness to determine if our way is normal.
all the single moms running things boss up yourself lol@@Renrens-LionessofJudah
@@Renrens-LionessofJudah He gives his opinion like any woman on the networks who says the same thing about black men. Stop crying.
I too am disappointed to see that Zack fits the stereotype of a francophone African. Black skin, white mask. He's a bit of a Frantz Fanon.
Embarrassing
The stereotype of the French-speaking African does not exist, what are you talking about? Zack gives his opinion based on his experience. Whether you like it or not, just unsubscribe.
@@marcuselvard5922 You and Zack can snow bunny hop to your heart's content. Nobody cares. Just don't defame black women to justify your actions. How do you promote blackness by being anti black at the same time? Some black men need to check their internalised racism.
Oh, damn,I really hate to hear this. He sounds like red pill dudes. You can't tell from his reporting videos he has this type of damage. Well I know my 1 little subscription doesn't mean anything, however, my integrity and who I support does.
@borncritic7122 I am always so happy to support my African brothers and sisters and yes you love who you love, I get that but why do they always step on black women to justify dating out and make these grand announcements? THEN they turn around when things fall apart and want the support of BW ... perfect example that black actor for assaulting a yt woman, I think his name is Jonathan - dont even care - notice the actress Meghan Good is the clean up crew because he now needs BW support to get him back in good graces now that there is a fall out. KMT. my one subscription isn't that important either but no need to support someone like this.. my opinion.
@NinaKarle I wish I had the answer, I'm just tired of black women, wherever they are, being the shit under guys like this shoes. It makes you wonder how they view their own mothers, sisters and daughters. I really liked this guy's videos, thought he was very intelligent, but like they say, let them talk long enough and the real person shows up. His views will pick up after this, all the incels and passport bros will flood. I will not give these type of men or women the time of day. I'm done with these types. One thing for sure, you know if shit ever hits the fan, you can't count on him. And for that, I thank him.
I would happen to agree.
As an African woman, I am leaving, African women still deal with abuse and adultery from their husbands, and we have to sit and take because a woman is glue to the family, once she leaves she is the problem seeing Zack speak like this about all black women is disappointing.
@NinaKarle you are right, there is also a story of a black man footballer from West Africa who abandoned his wife after he started playing in one of the big leagues in Europe, the white woman he married divorced him, took all his assets and left him poor, after he was poor again he went back to the black woman he abandoned.
I am an AA woman married to an AA man 25 years we have one child; thus, black love 🥰 is attainable. EDIT - My husband was sleeping on his grandmother’s couch when I met him; hence, he was broke but I could since he was a good man. We worked hard as a couple and inspired each other to do better and be better.
Nice, bravo 💪
Wonderful. The picture you are painting was a reality for most black families in the 90s going backwards. This was every black family aspiration. It is normal, was achievable and a lot of strong black families built like that. The problem started with the destruction of the black family in USA. A deliberate calculated move. It is now rolled out to Africa. The black man despises himself so much that he runs from self by marrying white. Now they think having money means you should marry white. voluntarily transferring their wealth to the system. Then the other group of men do not know how to handle wealth and success. They squander what they have labored for with the first wife on side chicks or marrying a second 3rd wife in the name of culture. They effectively undermine wealth transfer to the next generation. When they marry white they do not dare practice polygamy. They are too messed up to know and understand what they are doing to themselves. The definition of white by American standard is anyone without a drop of black blood in them. So imagine what cycles of generational abuse these men are creating. Yet it is easy to heal our own selves from the root. respect ourselves and our women. learn our own true identity and values that build us. Protect ourselves our children and our future. The love of things more than the love and value of self is black demise. It is in us to change the narrative. we are not lesser beings. we have just been programmed to think so.
You lost me with "I don't see myself with black woman". Have you ever seen lions messing or interbreeding with other cats like tigers etc in the wild or not? Y'all better take heed, "The mixing of seeds with heathens or serpent seeds is forbidden" . if you I were you , I will retract the above ASAP, because that is a bit disrespectful to your parents.
This is perhaps the problem for many. Because he said that so for you, they denigrated black women whereas when black women criticize black men while saying they will never date, the entire comments section supports and encourages them. I have a lot of example videos. I mean I may not agree with him but that's his right and his opinion.
I always looked at Zack as pro black until today... Black family on attack😢..
Zac, this happens in all races. What we are failing to do is listen to each other. Both men and women need each other. The world is a different place now. We need to adapt to it
It’s the nature of all women to choose the best man possible to protect her. Zack here is a tip! Just listen and ask questions when you talk to any woman. Black or White.
Listening to how this man feels about BW in general in a disgrace
Why? when a white man talks trash about white women, other white women don't feel personally offended...
They dont care because if the shoe doesn't fit, they dont wear it.
so why would you feel offended ? does the shoe fit? (is it the truth that hurts you)
So Was this TREATMENT
@@PutsOnSnowBoots He's making a general statement. Are all Black people crooks or lazy as some race would want to paint us?
It's obvious some of you have problems at home and with self, so now hate yourself and race.
@@PutsOnSnowBoots That is what I am saying. There are even Arabs who criticize their women in dirty ways and treat them with the worst insults I have ever seen and yet only black women should not be criticized by black men. But when black women do it, you'll see people from all walks of life come out to support them.
The world has changed. Fight all you want bw are going to get exposed for their wickedness
Zak you are having a double standard here. The same way you are painting all black women as rude is the same way she is also painting all men with same brush. How ever the issues you are bringing up reflect the poor dynamic that exists between the black men and women in the west and unfortunately on the continent as well. This is an issue that needs to be addressed by having an honest conversation and healing ourselves so we can function well. If this is not done the state of the dynamic you are talking of now, will undermine all the work you do in raising awareness in the way white people treat black people world wide. There is more to why black people are not marrying than you are saying on this show. You both are barely scratching the surface and not looking at the root of this matter. When it comes to white women, the tend to marry the well to do black men. The nature of the content of your channel around colonial history is undermined by what you are saying here in this discussion. You have work to do on yourself Zak so does the lady you were talking to and the black society as a whole. Zack what do you mean when you say black women are strong and need no help as given to white women in the household chores? Which class of white women do black actors and athletes marry?
Well said @ hopeespe...
So true. This idea that European women are chasing average and mediocre African men is a myth some men like. All women want a well to do men. What we as men should be asking is how do we gain power, ie money, better image, more intelligence etc. Auguring with women of any demographic accomplishes nothing.
That's why you don't feel sorry for you Black men. Karen pretends to love you and the minutes things don't go her was she create accusations on y'all.
I’m gonna be respectful in point of view about you. I’ve been listening to most of your videos. Most of them decent reports of what’s happening in Africa. Cause I intend to migrate, so I listen to many videos like yours.
I don’t think you realise the things you say about your own race is quite mentally detrimental to us blacks. Cause we have been through horror in all history, still till to this day.
I will tell you, it is hatred towards your race by saying you will never marry a black woman because they have attitude, and disrespectful towards their men. Yes, you can discuss the matter by saying it is wrong of them, and their mindset must change. But don’t promote division with your words, because words are powerful can cause much damage, be careful. We have been through a lot as a people.
Other race don’t disrespect their own nation like this, only black people do this on a major scale to their own. Slavery and colonisation brought PTS syndrome upon us, and that has been passed on through us unknowingly. You have to seat and think about this in a whole, not just caring about yourself and your life only, it is selfish. God said if you marry outside your race it is hatred.
You might have to look into your family history and the negative things black women have said to you, heal yourself. You’re being very emotional about this.
And I know you will hate my comment and take it off. But think about what I’ve said.
You have to love your people, again ‘you can’t say you love your people, saying you won’t marry a black woman.’ That’s evil, and hatred which brings division and resentment amongst us. I have much more to say but I will see what you have to say in reply. I think you’ve spent too much time abroad from your homeland.
Another thing; you don’t change who you truly are or your mentality because of negative things people say to you, that’s destructive to you, and it means you can be manipulated easily. Because I can see that right through by just looking and listening to you.
You have painted a positive image from your words of the white woman. A race which hates your own. I hope you’re not proud of yourself sir by saying this.
Unbelievable man… I’m watching this video again cause I was busy at the first time. I really find something here disturbing. From both sides actually. I hope Zack that we can be your guest on your show one day. I think you need a little education about this topic, especially history of our people.
@@rocta-1 : I agree whole heartily. What's very disturbing is that Zack truly believe that is why black athletes marry white women...No sir it is by design. The owners/org grooms a white women for the purpose to know what the black athletes likes or dislike which starts a crafty conversation. The black man is in "awe" that she is compatible and knows where he is coming from. NOT. It is only to keep the money out of the black community.
Self hate at its finest! This shows a ws mindset putting other nations women over your own.
This was prophesied our men and women would deal with strife amongst each other.
Zack (and men), you wash your woman in the water of the Word and present her back to yourself spotless.
I love my wife, my queen.
How can other nations respect us when we don't respect ourselves. There's problems on both sides, both sides need healing. Neither side is blameless!
Sad and surprising I really like your channel, I suggest Zack you do some soul searching on why you don't love yourself (our women).
I am so disappointed. This actually hurt my feelings.I started to trust him.
Unsubscribe, i just did
Bye bye
Peace ✌🏾 Salam Shalom, bye
unsubscribed
@@divinegirl5670Bye bye. 😊
It is unfortunate and unexpected to see someone like you generalize all Black women but at the same time paint all white women as well as their community as the creme de la creme. To me it does not quite make sense that you would have a channel revolving around colonial history but at the same time uplift the women of the community you are speaking ill of. It is hypocritical. Def can not support this channel going forward.
This is just a personal experience that his truth while he is expressing himself the Queen is educating him in the way of a well rounded sister who can handle real situations that are common and relevant could he express it better probably but this is real proof none of us are perfect and we are all.on a learning curve blessed love to you.
🎯
I know too many Black men like him, practically all of them, that disparage white people on the regular, then uplift their women at the same time. They talk about community, the diaspora etc, then marry and have children with, pass their wealth off to a white woman. The women of their community are not absolved of taking part in their destructive history, many were even more evil. Some Black men will literally ruin their lives to be with them, I have seen it so many times. Many will put us down despite us being the most educated, speak the most languages, have the most businesses, most dual degree having, home owners, perfect credit, natural bodies that other women have to get surgically, work out regularly etc, and still find a way to disrespect us for just existing. It is ridiculous. @@silicasankofa4098
I am with you on this one EbsSeven, I am strongly disappointed. He cannot fully stand for the community when he hates it's daughters.
He is a sell out
Malcolm X: The most disrespected person in America, is the black woman. The most unprotected person in American is the black woman; speech in 1964.
This is unfortunately all over the world.
As a supposed pan African, it’s unbelievable and truly heartbreaking to hear your views on black women.
With these toxic views you would never have been able to sit with the greats.
When your sin is your skin you won’t ever win.
Perfectly said!
So disappointing😓👎🏾
Absolutely the truth. It's so unbelievable that he compares white women to us.
@@dianesmith3327 If it's a snow bunny he wants. SO be it. We know how it will end it up. Wait for when they argue. What will fly out her mouth towards him Rhymes with trigger.🤨and im SURE100% sure that there will be more than two racis💩 family members just waiting for the chance to make him a statistic....He wont find it hard to find his Becky .You know they are thirsty for black men. Just don't piss her off and don't come running back looking support and help from us. SO very disappointed you can't imagine. Read him so wrong. Didn't see that coming at all. Wow😓💔💔💔💪🏾
Keep hiding behind victimhood and don't address the apprehensions presented, you think Malcolm X would support, encourage or even marry the Black women of this generation? Or do you think you can gaslight men to just be with disrespectful and unempathic rude women just cause they have same skin color?
I dislike this mentality of looking for relationships outside our community and waiting till we are 35 to get married. Strong relationships are the foundations of any strong community. But remember when you are in the 'West' dynamics between African men and women are not healthy due to the environment.
If the environment isn’t fostering stable families. It is practical men will find partners elsewhere. I prefer black women but I refuse to limit myself to only black women. All of my close friends have married abroad mostly in continental Africa. My brother has a Kenyan wife. Another brother a Moroccan wife. I’ve spent time in Egypt and Morocco. Plan to visit Kenya in June. More than likely I’ll marry in Kenya. A lot of the guys in my circle black American men are marrying out. Mostly they are seeking black wives from the diaspora. I’ve spoken to a Turkish Muslim woman for marriage too. I will explore all of my options.
@@charlesirby1643 fair enough, its okay to look for a wife in Africa just be sure you can afford such a commitment and you avoid spreading negativity stereotypes about African American women.
I don’t have to spread stereotypes of black women. They do a fantastic job of that by tarnishing their own image. I’m not sure what you mean by such a commitment. Do you think men who aren’t economically mobile are traveling abroad looking for a wife? . I can’t speak for continental African men. The guys I know who are traveling abroad are upper middle class to working middle class black American men. My brother makes 110k yearly he married a Muslim Moroccan woman. My brother who married a Kenyan woman earns 80k. Only 14% of American men earn 75k. I earn in the 70-75k range as a journeyman plumber. Do you honestly think men travel to spread stereotypes? These guys are more concerned with enjoying their trips. Those men only responded after black American women tried to sully their reputation by accusing them of being predators. To be frank most passport bros aren’t traveling to Africa to they are going to Asia or Latin America. The men in my family prefer black wives so they decided to go to Kenya, Gambia and Morocco to find Muslim wives. I’ll find the best woman irrespective of nationality or ethnicity.
100 percent , just look at whats going on with jonathan majors
@@charlesirby1643 Maybe the problem is the loudest 'passport bros' on this platform seem to not be concerned with finding long term relationships. But i will trust you have clear intentions with women from different countries. Regardless it is good that you are financially stable as i think that is a foundation we men forget to build before we start chasing women. Best of luck in all your endeavors.
Is this how African men see Black women me and my entire African American family looks forward to seeing your posts but this bashing of my people don't need to have to explain anything you've already made a bee line to the door it is so disheartening... This is like watching you say why you don't like black women..I don't have 3 baby daddies.. I have 1 husband we both think we hit the lottery for almost 19 yrs. God has brought us this far and many more years to come. We don't do or speak badly on our race that's the job of everyone else. We can't afford to do this to our own..
I think many black people dont share those views. My black woman is the best things that happened to me.
@@rexona1178 Im with you on that...but we don't because the ENTIRE world don't like us we don't have to be at each other the way they do. We teach all three of our kids not to especially in front of mixed company..
@@rehannameme i have really thought why Zack could say that. Cant get my head around what he said
I had to pause video to chime in my thoughts. Zack on this one I have to disagree with you. Your way of thinking and how you perceive women to be are very PRIMITIVE! First of all you put in all black women in the same bucket if you have a preference to dating non-melanated non-black women then that's fine that's your preference but don't base your preference or your comments about black women based on your experience alone. The other thing is the young lady that's on your podcast is correct oftentimes when you hear a woman say something like oh I have a boyfriend or I've got a man even if someone is innocently speaking to her it's a defense mechanism because she could be constantly bombarded or every time that she's public or wherever it's the same type of BS she gets coming at her somebody is trying to holler at her get her number her social media IDs whatever so saying I got a man or not interested it's just an automatic self-defense. My last point is this it's not that a woman or a man for that matter puts down somebody that might be on a lower socioeconomic status than them but recognize that there's nothing wrong with a high-valued woman wanting a high-valued man and vice versa there's absolutely nothing wrong with it. Everyone should just stay in their lane if a man is just a regular Joe blow working at clicks McDonald's Target Walmart or whatever then he has to understand his lane and his level and stay in his lane and vice versa for the women because I agree with the young lady it's not fair for someone that's at a certain level to have to stop reach back to try and pull up a man to get to her level cuz he's not even at her level or ahead of her it's not a black woman's it's not any woman's responsibility to raise a grown ass man that's what his mother and his father are there for so Zach you really talking out the side of your mouth
Your views are definitely going to go down after this video my brotha but i will still support your channel no matter your opinion about black women and oh yeah, you cannot compare all black women as the same sir!✌️🙏🙏🙏
Zak I always watch your videos and support your channel, but as a Black man from West Africa living in the UK for over 30yrs I am shock and disappointed to know the real you! For a start as Pan Africans we surround ourselves with those on the same mission, meaning who is next to our struggle the black woman. In the same way we have black women who I will not even bother with we also have black men just equally bad.
Relationship is a investment for the long term. A REAL black man fights for the single black woman he chooses to be with, just like I did over 24yrs ago and happily married. What comes easy goes quickly.
1.For a start you keep interrupting your female guest not giving her to speak instead you speak over her.
2. Working as a bouncer I DO NOT expect you or any bouncer to be complementing women coming into the club. You should do your job and be polite to make sure all the women and men are safe in the environment.
3. Do unto others as you want others do unto you. You will never allow your daughter to go to the club but will keep her at home to study (Which I agree with you 100%) but you want other women to fall for your complement and who knows what will happen next, you get their number and sleep with them? You know the environment that is why you will never let your daughter off the leash! Also any man or woman who goes to a club to look for a date is a loser and not serious about starting a relationship!
4. You kept interrupting your co host that she is generalising - you fell foul MORE of the same thing you are accusing her off - GENERALISATION!
5. All the black men I know who married white women or non black have divorced or separated, due to the white woman, not able to handle stress in difficult situations, she looking older than the black man and she is losing confidence or the black man wakes up in the morning and sees a woman who is fast becoming old due to the non-melanin.
6. Who wants to marry a KARREN! My friend from Africa who was messing around with a white woman many years ago. She trapped him by getting pregnant, he asked her to abort the pregnancy, she refuse and kept pestering him until he cave in 8 months into the pregnancy and went live with her. Today they have 2 children. They are not together, she is making his life hell and the other day she came round demanding the passports for the children as she want to travel with the kids on holiday during school term. He did not open the door for her, she stood outside and scream. Next minute the police came round to his place of work and arrested him and he spent the night in jail accused of physically abusing her - LIED! He was released with no charge and no repercussion for the white woman.
So for any black man like you or black woman who feels that marrying out of your race is the best way forward - GO AHEAD and GOOD LUCK! As someone who has married for a long time, there is NO such thing as LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT! You love someone after you have been together MARRIED for a time, gone through the thick and thin and still come out fighting together against ALL attacks.
So Zak you want to marry a white woman - go ahead, but do not call yourself a Pan African. There is a REASON why there are MALE and FEMALE in every race! It means STICK TO YOUR KIND!
Too much of information thanks though.
@@deekibonga Then don't read it
Absolutely beautiful intellectual comment.❤
I love every word you stated 👍you hit it on the nail 👍great point respect love my black family❤️❤️🌟
@mrk0ng47 I think you misunderstood my comment here .I appreciate the information you gave it full of experience and insight 👍
This is very disappointing and insane Zack.
Zack is only seeing 👀 things from a male point of view "ONLY".....!!! Black ⚫️ Women as well as the Black ⚫️ Men have gone through systemic racism and oppression for the past 500 years as the woman but from his perspective he's not seeing the whole picture that we have suffered together as a people and oppressed by the dominant race and as a people our mindsets have been "DESTORYED" by This Worldwide Racist system and only seeing 👀 from the Male's 👉 point 👈 of view is not right and unfair we as a people have lived together suffer together through this racial bigoted system that has controlled us for 500 years and Zack is being one sided and very selfish......!!! SMH......!!! 😩😫😭😢😥😤😡😠🤬
This just a Conversation please don't take it personally
No it's not, your talking about black women in the club, the gold digger, and the one with 3 kids for 3 different men. Men do this all the time, and nobody judges. Men spray children all over the place. No body judges.
This guy is a Cancer
My wife earns more than me and she still respects me very much.
But you work, right? The problem are these dudes that aim for higher earning women so they can sit on the couch all day or take naps and work on “ideas.”
I wouldn’t have an issue with a man who earned less than me so long as he has a job and good work ethic.
If I make $100k and he makes $65k that means WE make $165k that’s how I see it.
There are some leechy lazy guy out there sup hate working and want a woman to foot all the bills.
That is disgusting. Not a man who makes less.
This channel is not for me.
he is a traitor
bye bye
Same thing, men should ask questions why some men have kids from different women :)
Mixed/coloured children are the most hated trampled upon people on planet earth. God is watching bcause they too are His creation
WHO IS PAYING YOU TO WASTE AIR TIME SPACE 👹
you’ve NEVER SEEN YOURSELF ? not all women are the same.
I love my Black wife.❤
No one cares because no one asked you to stop loving him.
There are so much other themes and subjects to talk about, but why is it that Black men and women can only speak about themselves and not concentrate on what matters. For example, how the future generations are going to live. What are the goals? The goals should be family and education.
As you said “We can’t put everybody in the same box”
Yep!! There's also the downside of Jungle Fever
Can you show me where "Black" is on the map?
Your title shows that you are still operating on a childrens level.
It's not only African women it's most women in the world are . I don't know if it was just conversation. This is almost the same conversation from the West's far right . So my question is this Africa unite . How do we do that when the foundation of our society is so fragmented. A man can find their partner or a women can also and it's solemnly an individual choice. We have self hate .Both rhetoric and narrative is about power and control . Materialism is the demise of our continent.
Qqq😊
Africa can never and will never unite. I don’t want it to. I don’t relate to Africans as someone from a specific part of Africa well I’m also half Arab from my dad. We are not brothers and sisters. In all honesty fxck the idea of africa uniting. It should be split into smaller subcontinent. We are nothing alike.
🕊I think the two of you should consider each other with a serious loving open mind AND WIN🙏🏾🔥🥰
Dude as a black woman I'm unsubscribing...no more cool points for you😘
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Me too girl! Eww!
I just did as well
He just got a new subscriber
The truth hurt 😄
Zack I love you my brother and i understand some of the points you were making. Thank you for standing up for black men. I'm gonna side with that beautiful sister on your panel. It really comes down to this Zack. The white woman is in a more calmer setting. What i mean by that is she never really had to struggle like black people or black women. It's called white privilege. What you are not realizing is that black women are the most educated and they actually worked hard for it. No one gave it to her. She worked hard. Studied hard and got her education so i think they support us but they want us to be better. I know here in America we have our problems with them but some of us understand that it comes from a place of love. It's tough love but love, nonetheless.
This subject matter on the issue we have with sisters stems from racism and sometimes we don't dig deep enough to realize it. The black woman had to scrap and fight to get where she is. And they love their black brothers. They prefer to be with us because they love us. But a lot of us aren't holding up our end of the deal. Unfortunately, the black woman also needs to understand that there is a system of hierarchy in the corporate world: white man, white woman, black woman, black man. The white man has to do his best to keep the black man on the bottom so he could possibly lose all self-esteem and worth. And yes, it carries over into our relationships with black women because they want us to achieve and be better. A lot of us are really trying but the system is there so we are butting against it. A lot of times we fail. But we do have to get up, dust ourselves off and continue to fight. The black woman wanna know that you are trying, you're fighting. They need men and not boys who quit.
It's really stems from a system. At least here in America. Most black men here understand it. And the black woman knows it's but we have to stay together.
I'll use this analogy. I came on a slave ship, shackled in the hull of this ship coming to America. Next to me, suffering as I am is the black woman. She went through the suffering with me. She is the only one that understands me. Knows my pain and sorrow. I wanna be with the person who really understands me and is compassionate towards me. The black woman is the only one who will truly love me and understand what I'm going through as a black person.
Please let that beautiful sister know i support where she is coming from. And I'm just a 9-5 brother who doesn't make a lot of money. I have dated white and Asian women but I know they don't understand my struggles and in a way it's not their fault because they are from other cultures, other races.
The black woman loves us.
Thank you
Brother... I love my black brothers. I would love to end up with a black brother. All I've received is hurt , abuse, disloyalty, non commitment, liars etc etc. I'm sure there's amazing black men out there... But , it's highly likely I'll get commitment and true love from a white man.
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There are good black men and there are good black women. Find each other. He wants women to wasting there time with unambitious man. White women also want ambitious men. When black men get with white women they work extra hard. Black athletes want white women because they are lifted up at society and they want to show the white man they can get their girl. The psychology is deep. This conversation is rudimentary.
Oh by the way all my children were from the same man, my husband. Not all black women are the same.
So disappointed in you zack you seemed to know so much about Africans and the injustices put upon them, world wide, but you cant connect the dots and critique the negative impact on the people. Putting all black women in one group is ridiculous. Wishing you well and that you will learn. I hope you don't get Johnathan majored.
Zack is behaving like some blk men don't do the same thing. Some blk will look at an African descendant woman if she is not light, with what they call good hair. Some black just conceive in their minds they don't want a blk woman. Why they hate themselves so they do not want dark skin children
“Tire of a tractor”….WOW…I’m out!
With me, I love my black women
Yes Beloved... Life Happens... So glad the Sis*Star is on point and represented Black Women accurately... Zack is putting Black Women in the same box and not representing Black Women who happen to be your supporters... I couldn't listen to this show... Speak life into Black Women Zack... Heal yourself first Zack🌹
Life happens with three different men who are still alive, yet you keep repeating the same cycle no it seems like you just repeating the same mistakes that's why that happens.
Which also leads to another question.... are you married or in a relationship, Zack?
Did your snow bunny agree to marry or date you before or after your career as a fighter?
Would she have still decided to be w you if you did not make your earnings in that way? What if you worked on a farm, not owned it?
Ask yourself that....
Zack, you are a very intelligent man with immense worldly knowledge. But you have missed an essential truth on this topic. My mother was a Black woman. My now ex-wife is a Black woman. I have three daughters that have grown into Black women. There is NO OTHER woman on this planet that will ever rise above the Black woman in my visions. I've got to just make sure that I have the wisdom and discipline to pick the right Black woman for me. Yes, that is a growing challenge. Yet there are over 800 million females of African ancestry on this planet. I can find a good Black woman for me.
Dude zack is not against black women's is just explaining an experience that he went through,Zacks mother and sister are black, and why black people used to get offended easily? Did you follow the 40 munites podcast carefully??
People are free to choose what gells with them regardless of colour we all bleed red blood
Listen and learn from the following story. MY MZUNGU WIFE LEFT ME HOMELESS AFTER 20YRS OF MARRIAGE..I HAVE ENDED UP HOMELESS IN AMERICA @Kenya Diaspora Media USA. Those brothers who say white women do not care about your money. Listen and learn, they study you and are smart at what they do do to rill you in. Learn to build healthier relationships as black people. It is achievable, just take care of where things are going wrong.
Soooo the few times he's had bad experiences with black women, we're all like that? My Black Kimg doesn't make more than me but he treats the way I deserve to be treated and he still provides with what he has. It's a partnership. I love on him all day. money is not the only way you can show a woman security.
he is trying to find excuses to justify to marry white women because he hate black race
There’s no partnership in marriage/love. It’s a role. This mindset is a recipe for failure. We’re not partners we have roles in relationships.
I love your Pan-African content. without Black Women there is no Pan Africa. I love Black women more than anything. Take care
He asked was that a reason to put everyone in the same box. But at the same time he was putting every black woman in the same box. Go figure that out.
I remember speaking to an African from Zimbabwe who told me that he can only date a white woman because they are more beautiful. Each time i see him, i feel embarassed. My black wife is the best thing that ever happened to me.
This is based on westernized dating behavior. I hope doesn't poison the well of
A f r I k a n s on the continent. If others float on the A continent with line of behavior and thinking of relationships it is the destruction of mankind.
I personally know enough traditionally minded, humble, honest, prime, degree educated, fertile, healthy, shapely and beautiful black women to start a dating app.
As a man married to a black African woman myself, I find there are no shortages of good black women who will stay locked in once you’ve won their hearts.
That being said, I’m well travelled and quite successful in my field. Then again, I presume you are too? Yet you haven’t met enough high quality black women to not have such an opinion despite your negative experiences?
In anyway there is no need of being rude to a guy who is just appreciating any lady. you can just listen and say no am okay. just simple.
Actually, there is. If you live in a large city, rudeness is more likely to keep you safe than softness, which may be viewed by men with mental health issues as weakness. Sadly, we no longer live in a world where all men can take 'no' for an answer (we probably never did). Do what you must to be safe, ladies.
Black women are the highest statistical victims of violence. Your point is so soft and easily destroyed.
Women take it from me at 63 years old you can be quite happy being single. Having my own business i don't have to depend on anyone but myself. I enjoy my grown children and being a grand mother. Having a man won't make you happy but peace of mind will. Learn to love yourself stop chasing the carrot. Men will be with you today and gone tomorrow. Get off the emotional roller coaster you will be much happier in the long run. Being a Queen does not mean you will have a king. I love my life and would not change a single thing.
Divorced ?
thank you for the comment. We are glad your happy.
But we promote here families that are united like in most african countries not divorce.
Father, mother and children. Not single
Single by choice I would imagine? Maybe the options have dried up. Time to caress that money
The first marriage at 16 was abusive. So we divorced. Married again at 50, but he was unfaithful, so we divorced.l would have loved to have found love, but it was not meant to be. My children are 46, 45, and 44. I have 11 grandchildren, so the Most High has blessed me tremendously. I have a peaceful loving family. My job has been to be the provider for my family. I had to raise my kids by myself and not rely on a man. All it took was the Most High by my side.
@zackmwekassaenglish 29:06 channel2081 As black women, we carry a heavy load. We are strong because we have to be. We realize there are not enough good men for every good woman. It is sad to see people are choosing partners based on income.
ZACK, she his Well articulate she got some points right 👉 I give her credit for well done 👍🏾 bravo sister
true. There's a good man out there. I got the right woman to be where I am today from college, and she was there at the lowest and never gave up our vision. an empire is not built in one day.
I'm so taken back by his reactions and stories.
I raise you sir, THOUSANDS of black women who start at the "bottom" with black men. Only to have them either, never reach a higher potential, or decide they want to level up to someone "better", after this woman has been riding with him, encouraging him, supporting him, and praying for him, maybe even becoming his wife and building a family with him.
To state that white women, or any other race of women, don't go after men for money is delusional. I've known plenty of white women who've admitted that their husband's were nothing much when they met them, but they decided to build him up into what they wanted him to be. When he wants to leave, she already has plan in place to extract her "years of service." One women even admitted that when they have bad disagreements, she's not fighting for him to stay because she loves him so much, but mostly because she doesn't want to lose the lifestyle she's been encouraging him to build for her and her children. She doesn't want to work, she would rather be cheerlanding and pump him up, and do whatever she needs to so that she can keep her lifestyle.
But you stay strong and ride with the other women.✊️
🤣🤣@ "build him up"... Most men looking for partners end up with dependents
@@thabomashiane8265its sad that men like him are lazy
It's the "build him up" for me.... Y not build yourself up instead of becoming a tall and curvaceous toddler?
This is not new, continue pointing fingers... Men are going to places like Thailand to get wives,the so called passport bro's
Most women do nothing but spend his money not help him make it.@@thabomashiane8265
Thanks Zac! For letting black women know who you are. It's called inappropriate contact with the customer. The white woman was humoring you because she thinks that you are slow for trying to talk to her. You cannot ever put a white woman against a black woman in anything. The had different experience in ever way for the past 400years. Period! Anyhow Zac, this very disappointing.
Thank you, I think Zak has really exposed who he really is.
If all of that is true, how do you justify BW constantly comparing BM to WM?
Because both BM and BW went through everything together. According to BW and simps, BW has no blame. It doesn’t make sense.
Yes 😢😢😢
Just so you know you can't be for the black community and date outside of your race. There are black women all over the world, why not travel and explore rather than turning your back on your race this comment is based purely off the title.
As an African American woman I'm extremely disappointed by your opinion. You need to pray for healing to help you forgive black women for the hurt you feel.
Why do you assumption that BW hurt ? It could be preference ? Yet if BW say the same thing you see herself with Wm .. the sisterhood celebrate ( hypocrites ) you go girl . I’m North African man my preference is North African women , East African and Angola Cape Verde, .. however other women are not my preference and I might not be there .. none of them hurt me .
don't forget the wyt women are after your middle leg....they have heard that once you go black you cannot go back so to them any black man is a prospect...and you are a tall drink of water so yes they will be nice. stop putting black women in a box....Jonathan Majors just learnt his lesson and so will you with your mentality. props to this lady...she repped black women well.
Men and women are hard wired to chase, problem is personal understanding and politeness in individuals. But as long as any knock backs are amicable it should be resolved quickly. Dented pride, pick yourself up and dust yourself off.
The worst one is when all the guys want the same woman. Ce la vie!
So basically, she’s not denying what he asserts, she’s saying the behavior he’s referencing is ok or justified.
that's how it goes.
its OK if they do it. NOT ok if anyone else does.
Men do this to too
She's not very smart and not empathic, typical.
Still subscribed. The problem is avoiding toxic people regardless of origins.
I WILL BE UNSUSCRIBING NOW!
Zack I think this issue will forever be debated . Ego and Social Engineering, has Contributed to the state of Relationships all round. There was a time when you couldn't introduce a Man to your family unless he could financially look after you as a Woman, Equally Men's families were reluctant in encouraging them to marry a poor Black woman. Great Topic I'm in my 60's and we had this conversation during the70's and 80's not much has changed.
Sooo disappointed, is all I can say! You fooled us, really, with all your talks of Oneness!😮😢
Why are you putting us in one box most of us don't go clubbing
you never gave that lady enough chance to converse as a host, some of her opinions could have been elaborated more but were cut short cos you interrupted you talked more cos you already concluded by your experiences shame I feel for her she was slow and calm for the topic whilst you were the opposite. This is a good topic but I think its a debatable one with more black women and men from different financial backgrounds so we teach and learn and also understand each other on different levels so we love one another as blacks. And also culture and traditions included. Much love ✌🏾
He must like his own voice too much.
Mr. Zack, your view on Black women as a whole is bias & disappointing. It's no different than the European saying all Black people are the same.
Perhaps you are seeking a good woman in a place where good women don't frequent. Rare jewels are hidden.
Forgive the woman that broke your heart and make way to love yourself. Advice coming from a Black America women, married to my high school sweetheart 40yrs. We built everything together with love & respect. Possibly your gentleman qualities lack when interacting with women of standards.
Go back & Review the interview with the sister, study your responses when she spoke to you vs her behavior when you spoke to her. ❤
No woman as ever broke my heart. Let keep the dialogue intellectual not emotional like it typically done in America
Thank you
@zackmwekassaenglishchannel2081 women are emotional beings by nature, not by the countries they reside in. I'm in America, and America is not in me.
💛 Honey attracts bees
💩 draw flies
Zack you need to listen to hear not to just respond. Peace and blessings
@@zackmwekassaenglishchannel2081 You are just close minded.
Was almost dipping into a somber mood until she said. "And later what happens..."
Zack: "Yeah, what happens?" 👀😂
Great channel
The woman who have 3 different children by 3 different men most likely invested time and energy in those men and every last one left her with a child. As a older woman I have seen this happen to my sister's many, many times. Don't let no one tell you how to live your life.. Make better choices for yourself. You can stay with a man until he's fifty or more and he will look back and try to find himself a young. There's nothing wrong secured yourself while you a young woman.
Most relationships started as fun . Most guy's didn't want kids, the woman caught feelings
I think black women are cautious of being disrespected.
I think our culture has deteriorated with no restrictions just down to basics. We should interact with respect and appropriate boundaries for the women.
What boundaries, didn't you watch Oprah make money off degrading bm.
Zack, i admire your politics very much, especially on African Unity. But my brother dont write off our african sisters because of their race. I would prefere African women but the personality of a woman is also important in choosing a partner. Think it is we progressive people who must educate our women to see us as good family men.
My wife for 22 years is black and i have absolutely no complaints.
A lot of black professional fighters date outside their race, celebrities, athletes... which is unfortunate but it def stems from the trauma of colonialism in Africa and slavery in the west to make us uphold the values of europeans (luxury, status, lighter skin, blonde hair, suit & tie, etc.) opposed to traditional African clothing, spiritual practice, African food, African medicine, African rights of passage etc.
• Capitalism has forced people to make decisions on monetary basis.
• One question though how do we expect to rebuild Africa and the African culture(language, spirituality, etc) without the black African woman & the black African man? Both are the foundation of a strong Africa.
• Kwame Nkrumah did not have an African black wife, but his contribution ideologically and politically to Africa was great non the less. Chiek Anta Diop had a black African wife & after her passing had a white wife, his contribution to African history and science on a global scale was great. Saying this to say we should not discount/judge each other for personal preferences, but rather for our values, political interest, and ideology. Does he or she have work in / have the best interest for the African people & continent. This is what the pan-African framework is about, the ideological and political interest of wanting the best for Africa.
Many good examples to use but most people who have this dialogue on social media and the internet lack the political education & historical context to understand the source of our issues and to understand that we as African people are supposed to be contributing to move Africa forward redeeming her and regaining our dignity as a people and we would not need to have this conversation.
No, they date outside their race because the majority of women of their are not willing to put up with them when they are still struggling. They only want them went they have made it out in life. 🙂
@@zackmwekassaenglishchannel2081 we have a much greater chance dating our black African woman while we are struggling than a woman outside of our race while we are struggling. The black African woman identifies with our struggles while the woman outside our race cannot. This is why the athletes and celebs get the non black woman “AFTER” they become successful. Ultimately it boils down to personal preference and what an individual prefers should be respected.
Thank you sir for your great insight! I grew up in Ohio and my school was known for producing many D1 athletes. From middle to high school if the whites knew a certain black athlete would go pro they would be on this individual like there was no tomorrow. Unfortunately when the guy never made it to pro the whites would leave his side and go marry a white guy and call it a day. Lol. What Zack is saying is almost a joke. Glad I grew up around many successful Africans married to African people. I went to college in the DMV finished . Our people are marrying each other so essentially that doesn’t matter what he says. What many of us wish is the likes of Zack would just be respectful towards our people and just date and marry whom they want. That is all. Know need to bring us down as a community to uplift another community. It’s embarrassing
@dextermartin7998 Yes sir you do, a poor African man has a higher chance of marrying an African woman than a white woman, I see it all the time in my country and many African nations, even wheelbarrow pushers can find wives who respect them, his inability to attract a good woman is on him not the women but he is too prideful to see that. He is delusional, if he thinks a wealthy European woman will look his way when he is poor, especially a poor African, I guess all the poor black men fleeing to Europe on boats will find wealthy white women to marry them lol.
Instead of having an honest conversation, she’s very combative. Not understanding your point of view, but responding immediately without thinking. But if a woman likes a big car and a big man, she’s entitled to pick what she wants.
ohh...she is the combative one?...really???.BM truly have a problem with superiority over the BW....I am glad BW are no longer standing for this BS
What you really mean is you are broke, and not successful, and you are jealous of the men who are.
She is a living demonstration of why marriage as an institution is less possible in our community. Marriage requires particular mindsets and support from the wider community, unfortunately this mindset has been eroded by femism etc. Our women were sold some unsustainable ideas and they bought them wholesale.
She was very defensive. That's what I noticed and expected, because women don't want to hear that they do anything wrong, so they rather rush to defense.
Me as a African man my perforce is black women i’m I will ever date outside my race. But soon I will get married to an African woman.
I agree with you with a lot of stuff but not on this one ,white women never experienced slavery or colonialisation
Thanks for letting me know your truth. I no longer want to follow you or your content. ✊🏿✌🏿