My Best Friend Is Spoiled & Jealous! | KARAMO
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- Опубліковано 19 жов 2024
- Dana says her bestie Bonita is "spoiled" and jealous of Dana's success. Bonita says that's ludicrous and says Dana excludes her from her life, she even skipped out on Bonita's most recent birthday. These friends are hurting but miss each other. Can Karamo help them get back to one?
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Dana missed her birthday AND house warming & she still showed up to support her stage play while basically being excluded and sent to the audience.
Right that says a lot idk why people are confused. It’s clear the relationship is one sided
What if she wasn’t a good actor? 🤣 what if all she wanted her friend to do was to watch all her hard work💀
@@ajayyamour745 y’all love making excuses for ishtty people
@@ajayyamour745 then she should’ve told her that, no?? I mean if it was me, I would’ve rather my friend tell me so than to leave me in the dark and have me feel a way that could’ve been avoided.
@@princessb9998 it’s a hypothetical 🤣 regardless I’m not gonna be up and arms about not being in a play my friend has going on..as a friend imma support ANYWAY I can.. 💀 the audacity to be upset you weren’t selected for someone’s play is insane…
As soon as I heard Dana say “I don’t cater to women” I knew she was gonna be in the wrong bc I’ve never heard a sentence like that in my life!! Women are meant to support and uplift other women, it’s not “catering” to each other.
Right, that threw me 🥴
Preachhh. That statement was very weird. I don't think is jealousy, but I think Dana likes to be catered to is why she used that word, and she sure don't reciprocate as she honestly stated.
Yes! That threw me off
shes actually the spoiled one
Right! Then didn’t attend her bday or housewarming parties, but made it her business to attend the boyfriend’s bday party? I guess she was catering to her man by attending that event. I don’t need those type of friends.
dana the type of person that wants everyone to give up everything for her but won’t give nothing to anybody else there’s always an excuse .
She’s a narcissist
I agree 💯
That’s correct✅
Righttt💯
basically she needs to make peace with herself that she'll never get married lmao
Not sure why Dana is jealous, but she DEFINITELY IS.
Definitely have some type of issue with her…she’s not being 100% about how she feels
Because most narcs are super insecure.
She’s definitely jealous! It’s all in her body language.
Heavy on the jealous 💯with all she complained about she never showed up for her friend but even tho her friend felt away about how she moved she still always showed up for her!! Dana not telling the truth about how she feels
Are we sure Dana is the jelous one or the doctor!!
When Dana said she don’t have to explain her whereabouts for The Dr. birthday I was done with her right then! She selfish jealous and inconsiderate; she missed her birthday because it was her moment to shine same instance as the house warming party. I would’ve been done with Dana a long time ago because the nastiness is what gets me and will forever do so…
Exactly 💯
Right. That was cold, and her intention was clearly to hurt her.
I don't think she's jealous because both of them are successful, but I do think she inconsiderate and selfish.
@@Chomba27ablethat says nothing. Maybe she’s jealous of the person she is, the attention she gets, the light she Carrie’s; that, you cannot hide.
@nyorkiacupid4988 I know what you mean, but that's my opinion. 😊
Dana is a narcissist period! She plays the victim so well.
Absolutely!!!!
Definitely....
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No she doesn’t what she shows is a very evil jealous friend o don’t like her
Yes she is
Dana is spoiled as hell. I see why she’s jealous, because her friend exudes fabulous confidence and energy.
Exactly Exactly 🎉🎉
Dana operates in confusion just like her top. One day she is cool like the jean side and the next she is in the darkness only thinking of herself.
true , nicely said
I literally cackled! 😂😂😂😂
Exactly. Just like that shirt one sided. 🤮😂
@@barbaracarley3601 you guys have me dying....that shirt was confusing as hell.😅😅😅
@@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr Yes indeed. The shirt was confusing just like her. Enjoy your day. 😂😂
Dana, you are DEAD wrong sis and you are a awful friend
Dana is. Dr. Bonita did not have to get her sponsorship for the play.
Period !
Definitely
She looks shiesty
Dana has an underline jealousy that she won't acknowledge. Her hardness comes through. We all could think that it's because of the Dr. in front of Bonita's name, but we won't know the truth. Either way, both women are pretty, smart, and successful. Hopefully they can both figure it out or move on.
Yes sis
Doctor of what ? She doesn’t even seem educated
@@ForeverYoung20092 damn how she don't
She seems more educated than Dana....she is graceful and articulate and do not doubt her educational level.
Yeah I don't think it's the Dr. There's something else there
It’s time to let the friendship go ❤❤
They probably will let go...Dana is too much.
This is why I do not call everyone friend......that talking on the phone everyday, twice a day....that sounds like the beginning of any relationship....then after a while, you do not have so much to share, so you talk whenever.....Have lunch occasionally and because their boyfriends are friends they become closer...... that's it.
It's what's in your heart.
100%
What friendship. Friends don't exclude one another from important life events. Dana is sooo full of it.
They act more like they in a relationship 😂
Dana to me is a brat. Dr. Bonita is the classy one. I find that Dr. Bonita is more willing to make amends but Ms. Brat there is quick to point out mishaps instead to doing her part. Why does it take long for her to carry her end of the negotiation ? Dr. Bonita needs someone outspoken like Dana but respects her more.
Facts …. Ms Bonita is going to be just fine bc she seems to be a real one … Dana on the other hand will surround herself with minions or yes ppl that simply cater to her ego …. bottom line, Dana will be miserable until she comes to terms with who she really is 🤷🏻♀️
Her outfit is like an illusion... every time they do a close-up of her, I keep thinking she's halfway into putting a button shirt on 😂😂
It's as confused as her.
@@bumblebee4280 😂😂😂😂
Good one!
😂😂😂😂
Yeah wassup with tht outfit lookn cray cray
Chillllleee I'm glad someone said something.. I was confused af
Dana is the type of friend that exclude you from shit on purpose and have her other friends in on it too she’s a mean girl simple as that and I feel that she’s jealous of the other woman but can’t admit to it so she play victim and claim that the other woman is jealous of her instead…Dana is only keeping that woman around to keep tabs on her life and to compete
Exactly!
Yup!
Well said 😢
@@letsbefruitful5457 Thank you!
Facts
Dr.Bonita, generous, beautiful classy lady, let this friendship go. This is a one sided friendship, let it go. Dana is exhausting and HER and her friends seem jealous of Dr.Boita, yes she's a Dr. swallow that.
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Dr Bonita needs to back away, slowly.....she does not want to anger Dana....I watch ID and TVone.... jealous friends can be dangerous.
Dr.Bonita DONT WALK, RUN from this Relationship. From the moment Dana opened her mouth I could tell that it's her way or no way. There was no Self accountability until Karamo told them both to speak one at a time letting each other know what they need feom one another. Everything Bonita expressed she was so dismissive towards. Honey this is a prime example of why I limit my social interaction/friendships. They are too grown to be dealing with this.
At the top of the show, Dana said she missed Bonita's birthday party because she had something to do, but later she said she was sick...okay girl 🙄
And to mention the fact she claimed she don’t have to explain herself to nobody but then later explained why she didn’t go to the birthday party
@redvixo And did you notice that she described Dr.B as kind of reserved and mild-mannered in comparison to her when it comes to personalities and Dr. B described their personalities as being very similar. That's very telling to me because Dr. B seems to think that she was drawn to Dana because they were on similar levels regarding their personalities. Yet, Dana tries to make it seem like she was drawn to the friendship because their personalities were kind of opposite to each other and allowed them to mix well together. She very skillfully made to "dim" Dr. B's light in that moment by giving herself a more appealing description while giving her best friend a very general description.
I also thought that was some b******* for her to say that she doesn't have to explain herself to anybody as well. Because if you feel that way Dana, then why do you feel Dr. B owes you an explanation for her distancing herself.
It seems to me that Dana is not only jealous of but also intimidated by Dr.B for being on the same level as her in life and not willing to admit it. I think she surrounds herself with people who she feels aren't as successful as her so she can feel admired. And with Dr. B, she cant shake the fact that her friend is just as admired in her line of work. Shes not used to it. Karamo asked them if they felt like they were in a competition with one another but its Dana who is in the one sided competition with Dr B. Because you can tell Dr. B genuinely wants to be there and enjoy Dana's successes. But Dana doesnt really care to be a part of her successes. I might even go so far to say that Dana is probably like that with all her female friends and generally does not truly enjoy being a part of anything where she can't be center of attention. Which would explain why she felt no remorse for missing her so called best friends birthday and house warming. She knew she wasnt going to be able to "steal the show." She literally said "I dont cater to women " and her best friend is being placed in the same category as any woman in her life. What Dr.B was asking for was not beyond what is typical of a best friend relationship. Dana knows this but she literally is PROJECTING her true feelings on to Dr. B!
1. Insinuating jealousy on Dr. B's behalf when shes jealous
2. Saying she doesnt cater to women when she in fact wants people to cater to her.
3. Calling Dr. B spoiled when she is the one who is spoiled and self centered
Dana doesnt really see this friendship as a best friendship because she doesn't even know how to be a genuine friend. I think she felt obligated to start the friendship because their significant others are friends and has been trying to find subtle ways to push Dr. B away so she doesnt have to deal with being fake with her anymore. And shes trying to control the narrative as to why their friendship didnt work out by calling her spoiled and jealous. The saddest part of it all is that Dana might truly think Dr B is jealous of her because thata what a classic narcissist will do. Those delusions of grandeur will have a narcissist thinking and projecting some bogus ass stuff. Lol. I think Dr. B knows this friendship is over because she knows Dana isnt going to change but was willing to put on a good face for the show. I hope she does part ways with Dana because her energy just oozes negative and toxic.
This friendship is exhausting.
😂😂💯
And obviously not worth the effort … some friendships are not meant to last a lifetime …. this seems to be one of thm, imo 🤷🏻♀️
Dana the one jealous who invites all they friends and leave one in the audience girl bye
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Yes Dr. Bonita sounds like a real friend whereas Dana just wants to be the only one shining. She may be jealous.
Bye Dana… you are the jealous friend. She couldn’t even get a word out, without you over talking her or being in denial of your own fault… have several seats…
It seems like Dana disregards her friend 's important events on purpose. She calls her spoiled and states that she doesn't cater to women, which tells me that she perceives her friend as someone who people indulge, and that's what she's not going to do. By "missing" her friend's events she sends a message of... girl...bye. All those other people may be thinking about you, but I'm not. What got me is "I had more important things to think about than my bridal shower." In other words, your best friend's feelings were hurt because she wasn't included in your bridal shower, and you cannot validate her feelings because you think she's spoiled. Dr. Bonita it's time to give up that friendship if your friend cannot acknowledge your feelings when she does hurtful things.
Dana’s face when he kept emphasizing DOCTOR was just hatery 🤣
The more he said DOCTOR, the angrier she got. Beautiful on the outside w/an ugly heart/soul. SMH
Reason why you should always listen to both sides because Dr. Bonita is right
Dana is definitely the jealous one. Her friend just seems tired of her being selfish and I don’t blame her.
Same here 😂😂😂
It sounds like Dana is actually jealous Dr., and is being very deliberate about excluding her hoping for a specific, hurt reaction from her. How is your best friend not invited to the bridal shower or debut of your screen play? There are a lot of contradictions from Dana, in my opinion, and Dr. seems more genuine to me.
I totally agree with everything you posted here. Dr. Bonita should find someone outspoken like Dana but not sketchy.
Thank you
Amen Brittany. You are so right with that.
Dana she’ need Jesus
Dana is a lot to handle even on this stage. I can only imagine how tiring she is in real life. Why would a so-called friend call their friend names?
50 year old? she looks the fuck good! 😍
Black don’t crack 👏
@@ToriabIt cracks when it is not taken care of.
nah fr
Right!!!
she def looks at least 50, dude 😂
Dr. Bonita its time to move on, Dana is a selfish friend.
Nothing worse than a one sided relationship 😴 KEEP THE HALFASS away from me.
I have different friends/ acquaintances for different needs.
I Match the energy n call it a day. Go with your gut, and stay graceful. Alot of folks get joy seein you hurt. This energy you could be putting into yourself, reading a book, self care etc.
Your best friend might be in another state/ country. Its sooo many ppl you havent met in life yet 🤷🏽♀️
Amen 🙏🏾 Very well said 🗣️👏🏾♥️
@@chonkygato put yourself first 😍
Dr. Bonita shines bright. Beautiful, smart, and charismatic . ❤❤❤
We clearly see who really is the problem here its Dana.
Shaggy.... everyone saw it.
Absolutely🤔😂😂
Dana is the spoiled one and is showing signs of narcissism. She wants the Dr to support her and all of her success and not return the favor. It also sounds like this other group of friends Dana has may also be jealous of the Dr. This one sided friendship that, most likely, will not work out.
Dana put herself on a pedestal and wants a one sided friendship. She deals with you when she feels like it and if she dont, you can stand in the back till she's ready for you.
I use to have a friend like Dana and finally realized a decade later she was a one sided friend only when it was convenient and cut all ties.
There’s no way Bonita is 50 😮. Hopefully, they’re friendship continues.
No please.
That Dana person is jealous and mean. I know she could change, not likely if she still has this friendship.
I want Bonita to make friends with someone better.
Why would you want to keep a miserable person around as your “friend”?
I was hoping she changed cause I didn’t want the pettiness to ruin it like it has with a lot of people. But it’s probably better for them to move on the separate ways.
That’s a one sided friendship that run it’s course a long time ago…I want her to find a friend who will reciprocate the friendship
Noo that so called friendship needs to end asap 😂cause it's not a real friendship ..it's like an competition!!
The only time the doctor is being invited somewhere to Karamo Show which is foul. It's funny how the doctor comes out and got Dana sponsorship for her play and she did that and did not have to do that. Dana is absolving herself from her bad behavior.
No need to hold on to someone or anything that doesn’t serve a purpose in your life. Friendships have stages, this friendship is at its end stage. Let it go and walk away
She got on a half blue gene jacket because she's half a friend. 1st off she is not jealous of you because look at her! She's very much poppin! 2nd you cant be narcissistic and expect people to want to be around you. Eventually they going to back away. Friendship goes both ways.
Why drag the Jacket into thiss😂😂
@@BettieFrempong😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
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It’s like she wants the Doctor beneath her.
She doesn’t want Dr. Bonita to take her shine bc she knows she shines bright.
EXACTLY! Perfect example is Dana having Dr. Bonita sitting in the audience with all the other ticket buyers, forced to look UP at her on stage while she looked down on Bonita in the audience. Dana is not a friend to Bonita at all and she suffers from the exact same inferiority complex Dr. Bonita tried to distance herself from.
Dana is a bad friend, period. She doesn't take ownership and a liar. B4 she came on stage she said she didn't come because she was busy. Now she said I was sick.
Dana is WRONG!! Point blank and needs to do some serious self-evaluation.
Don't Beg No One To Be Your Friend💯😮💨✌🏾
They look alike and act alike. Dana just can’t admit that she’s acting spoiled and jealous. Also, she’s being petty because Dr. Bonita isn’t begging for her time, she’s allowing Dana to be her.
Dr. Bonita - You already know what needs to be done here. But for confirmation, tell her you don’t think you want to be friends anymore. Her response will tell you everything you need to know.
Dana has an excuse for everything. Being a “friend” is showing up and being there for them no matter what! She seems to really lack in that area.
Dr. Bonita is NOT the problem!! Dana IS the problem!! I learned from an early age, that females are drama NOT all of them, but enough of them for me not to have so many in my circle. When I say, I learned as a teenager and it is still true to this day. I used to tell my daughter to stop calling everyone her friend within a few weeks or months, she is so giving and does not meet a stranger, BUT she has learned several times over what mama was trying to tell her. To be called a friend is EARNED!!!
I know who’s the problem DANA. Girl you are a horrible friend!! This friendship is over, move on!!
Dana girl bye… Bonita move on please she’s not a real friend
@karmo we need a 6 months later. A follow up to see how their life's have been
Karamu really should had advised Dr.Bonita to stop being gaslit into staying in a one-sided friendship and advised Dana to go get therapy
Dana was really easy to dislike. She’s the one I stay away from in life. Someone is gaslighting. Someone seems like she does not want to be friends. Dana is not a friend and does not want to be friends. Bottomline Dana does not want the friendship. Dana is hostile and nasty. Let it go.
Dana is SELFISH she is not a giver.. I like Karamo highlights the importance of having to put work into our platonic relationships just as much as we do in our romantic relationships. Women need to understand a friendship needs to be nurtured! It’s apart of the sisterhood 💕
Hunni I hope ms Dana reads these comments & gets it together. She definitely has jealousy energy spewing from her words & her aura...
I love the way you talk to people. Hope you are here for a long time. We need this. Hopefully it will help people learn how to love each other more.
Karamo missed the boat on this one.
10:05 Big mistake on Karamo's side. He was interrupting VERY IMPORTANT message and skipped it just a second after as he was busy with expressing his thought.
Dana does not feel empty. She is unhappy that her friend is no longer available in a way that she used to.
It was a projection on his part. IMO the problem is not lack of healthy communication etc. but serious character flaw on Dana's part. She constatntly creates the toxiness. She calls her "friend" names and suggest that only her friend needs to change. She is unable to listen, attacks and interrupt, lie (reasons for being unable to be present) and does nasty manipulative things to hurt or degrade her friend (power play and excluding, missing her friend's birthday and housewarming parties without the need to explain herself etc.)
I cannot see one toxic thing on her friend's side. Only hurt feelings and realisation of being disrespected and used.
It's too hard to be friends like this. I would walk away. They both have other friends.
Exactly. Seems too much to even deal with. Life is too short.
The way Dana came out the gate swinging when this lady is supposed to be her “best friend” was extremely telling. Dana’s not a friend at all. She came on this show to promote whatever stage play she has going on & that’s essentially it. She’s obviously the jealous one & she’s projecting onto Dr. Bonita.
It's nice to watch a talk show where people are not arguing and fighting
Sorry but I c the Dr to be a good friend but Dana not so much. She seem to act as if the world revolves around her. This friendship won’t last in my opinion because I do c signs of jealousy
My SO CALLED best friend does this. I just consider her a FRIEND now. She will show up for everyone else, except me. And had NERVE to say, i act as though she isn't suppose to have other friends. That made no sense to me because i have other friends. SOME friends, and best friends don't care about your feelings. It used to hurt, but not anymore. When you start to feel like like you're more of the friend in the friendship, let it go!!
DANA is actually the spoiled, jealous, petty, and aggressive one. I could never be friends with a woman like that.
I love his gentle tone. He's so soothing
Y’all already said it all about Dana! I hope the other lady is reading these comments
A competitive friendship....been there done that
Bingo
they needa just let ts go rn
dana is a whole mess! it’s as if she was projecting…she seems to be the spoiled one…not necessarily sure about jealous though? I stan, dr. bonita! 👏🏾
I’m glad we can all agree that Dana is def the problem!! She is dismissive to everything her friend is saying and clearly does not like her lol. 7 years is not a long time of being close with someone so she doesn’t deserve to be included?? Bonita girl, please free yourself - this whole apology was forced. It’s okay to grow away from ppl.
Dana ain’t shit when it comes to a friend 😂
Dana IS DEFINITELY in competition with the Dr. The Dr. seems like a real friend, she deserves better.
Dana act like my aunty.. it’s cool when they do but it’s a problem when you do it!
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Dana is great by hiding her jealousy.
I don’t like the one in the glasses attitude
Dana is crazy and delusional! She is the type of “friend” I wanna avoid in life. Dana is the one that’s jealous! That’s why she is excluding her friend!!!
They both were fly, wish we had their social media tags
If someone copy my haircut that’s a clue of jealousy.
Exactly! Hair cut, hair color, clothes, car, etc...
I’m screaming 😂
@@904baybeecakes 💄
I'm crying needed this laugh I'm literally in tears😂😂😂😭🤦🏽♀️
I went through something similar with my bestfriend of 20+ years l had to cut it off it became to much🤦🏽♀️🤷🏾♀️✂️ she acted like Dana l still love her and wish her the best!!
Same
When she said she didnt show up to the friend's birhday celebration & said she didnt have to explain why, that was a red flag.
Karamo your the best at what you do. Such a Good listener. Always listen and understand both sides
Dana’s the problem. Next topic….😅
Bonita drop Dana. Dana thinks she is better than you and that she is the next Tyler Perry. Dana is full of herself. You deserve better!
She’s sleeping with her husband “they don’t even talk like that nomore” why you worried ? & how you know ? why show up to everything he has but not her ? She’s ridiculous & disgusting. Love Dr . Bonita you look dam* good to be 50 too !!
Oop!
People are in your life for a reason and a season.The "REASON" is over and the "SEASON" has ended!Thank you,Casey Grimes-Finley,Chicago,Illinois
You better say that💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 the first time I heard that quote was by Judge Star Jones on DC
It's so true.
I really feel that this friendship has run its course only because the older we get we are stuck in our ways and our tolerance for behaviors change. We make moves based on the actions and character we see in each other. When you are young the term friend don't hold as much weight but when you get older you are looking for mutual loyalty and respect. I should never have to beg to be acknowledged in a friendship, I would go silent real quick.
Karamo you have a special way of fixing broken hearts and relationships, I just want to thank you for make those sad faces smile again. Thank you
Dana is full of it her attitude is the issue the pink jacket is beautiful ❤️
My gosh what beautiful 50 year old queens 👸🏽👸🏽 They looks like siblings. I think their personalities clash because they are so alike. They need to just stop competing & love one another. It’s really hard to make friends for women, but they can salvage their friendship
Wow there in their 50’s , they look great
this friendship is a seasonal lesson for both.
Dana is the kind of women that wants undying support but when it comes around to supporting you its i have things to do 😒😒😒😒 shes not a real friend 🤷🏿🤷🏿🤷🏿
RUNNNNNN, Dr. BONITA!!!!! Dana is competing with you!!!
They were both such beautiful and successful women. The doctor being 50 with that skin?! Wow 🙌🏽
IT'S ME..I'M THE PROBLEM, IT'S ME. (A Taylor Swift song)...this fits Dana perfectly.
Okkkkk Kempire 😂😂😂… love it ! Best comment!
Dana is intimidated with Bonita.. Bonita has a sweet spirit, and Dana is accustomed to being the leader amongst women that she's friends with. Bonita is supportive of Dana. Even in the photo, Dana has her back to Bonita and Dana's not a compromiser. I hope Dana can work on her underlying jealousy and intimidation, because it appears they can be good friends if she does the work. God bless their friendship. ❣❣❣
Dana is silently in competition with her friend… I can sense it. That’s probably why she doesn’t want her around certain things. She feels insignificant around her. That’s sad.
Lmao wtf Dana. I had a friend like her. I stepped back and stopped trying and the friendship sank overnight.
7:07 idk why that was so funny😂😂😂 my birthday was the day I was born
When Dana said, "her husband's 50th birthday", I was like "damnnn she with a 50yo?" (not that it's a problem).. then later when she said she was 50, I was so shocked.! I hope I look that good by then.
She looks amazing for 50
I do not know anyone with wrinkles at 50.....not even non melanated ppl.
@@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr I DO😂
I would of liked to hear the husbands view on this situations.
They have no view.... that's how men are...If they are gentlemen, they do not want to anger their mates and they do not want to say anything negative about their friend's mate.....so they will not deal with women mess.
Great point
When I heard Dana say “I don’t need to give a reason “…I knew she was the problem