When I went to college at 17 years old, I had two goals; earn a degree and find a husband. I was off the market within five months of entering college. He couldn't afford a wife at 19, and I had the luxury of time so I waited. He got on his A-game and earned his degree the semester before I graduated. He set up a home for us. We worked together to build a life and family. Married for 23 years so far. Marriage doesn't just happen, we have to pursue it, and work at maintaining it.
This is awesome! I think marriage does happen when a woman gets herself together and makes finding a husband a priority. I married at 31 but it was after wasting time in my 20s and getting myself together mentally.
Kevin is so right. I was told to go to school and I don't need a man. My grandma who was born in 1913 always said find a husband so she taught me young to cook and clean and serve. When I got my degree, a man couldn't tell me sh!t. I regret that. So I went must of my adult life dating here and there and focused on advanced degrees and my career. Those degrees and my 6 figures never kept me warm in a cold lonely bed. I'm married now but I wasted so much time. That's my regret in life. And the sad part is I know at least 20 women who want what I now have, but my husband didn't have what I had, and a few tried to discourage me and turned their noses up. Had me second guessing myself. What I noticed is that our independence makes us look down on our brothers and disrespect them and have such disdain for them. It's sad. It's like we have to be reprogrammed to respect our men and realize material things and money don't mean squat if you're going through life alone.
@Lou Lou and it seems you are also everywhere to notice people who are everywhere. How many times an individual chooses to comment is absolutely none of ur business!!!
I have a 53 y/o cousin, who sports a mouth filled with gold and platinum blond hair, - and an aggressive nature - who loves to talk about what she’s willing and unwilling to take from a man. She filled her daughter’s head with the same BS and now they’re both bitter, haggard, and single. Saddest part about the duo? The daughter had a man who fell madly in love with her and wanted to marry her about 13 yrs ago. Mom talked her out of it. A lifelong chicken head.
@@asfhjjs6620 easier said then done. That chicken head culture is REAL. Her daughter is a sweetheart but her propensity towards being a “jump off” is second to none.
I’ve got cousins and aunties just like this. I had to distance myself from them before I ended up like them. Fortunately I followed my instinct to separate rather than remaining close to them for the sake of “family”.
Avoiding pregnancy and having agency with what happens with your body is a privilege women in the west have, but are hardly aware of in comparison to their counterparts in other parts of the world. All the tools/power to NOT have a kid for a bum or a man you are not ready to marry, yet you still did. And then really have the nerve to complain about the consequences after. I don’t understand.
This needs at least a thousand likes. How do you let this happen to your body?!?! I keep thinking they must’ve been held at gun point and locked in a basement...
When I was in law school, one day I overheard some Black female law students in the lounge talking about how they were attracted to "educated or intellectual hoodlum"-type brothers. I asked myself 1) what the hell is that?!? and 2) would I ever hear white Jewish women, or Arab or Asian women saying they equivalent? What is wrong with us?!?
Our young men need to hear all his vids. This will change the game. Most of us make our mistakes when we are you. Many older guys cang articulate this knowledge to the younger ones. But it will change the game if we all knew and understand this
I asked my wife one day while listening to this channel, when u went to college (we met in college) what did you want to accomplish while there? She said her intentions were to find the man she’d marry and the father to her children. We’ve been together since, 29 yrs 💪🏾 Lots of ups n downs. But we stuck together and have made a great life with each other and our boys.
She had the right idea. She ( among these ,JACKALS, HYENAS and WILDERBEASTS) of today's time are so lost its tragic. It proves women can not handle impowerment.They don't comprehend humily ,patience, or accountability .You guys are one of the FEW couplez in the WORLD that understands the true meaning of marriage...GOD bless you both.
I went to college to get my degree. The one time I tried to have a boyfriend that guy was a waste of skin. I'm very thankful I met my husband after graduate school.
Highly educated doesn't mean you are a good person or that you are smart or that you are successful. I don't know why women can't shut the f up about their education when it literally couldn't matter less if they are 'highly educated' or not .
A woman will easily forsake her wedding vows (80% of all divorces in the US are initiated by women*), but she will wear the title of "single mother" as a badge of honor...sad times.
@Proud Habesha and don’t disregard the this other factor, “why do men cheat”? There’s a lot of reason why ppl cheat, don’t blame one person and look at the other side on another perspective.
My boy had a female like this. Masters with lots of debt. Early 30's putting pressure to get hitched. He winded up kicking her to the curb because she was entertaining other guys.
@Proud Habesha Most women won't have it? You mean women who brag about how good they are at cheating?? 😂😂. You keep thinking all those women are innocent victims if you want 😂😂
His conclusion at the end, is my mother’s fate. She played the victim, independant, single mother card all her life. Now she is 65yrs old, working in pharmacy retail, tired, bitter, and alone. Luckily, I got out before it was too late, and didn’t get stuck in the same trap. Listen to him ladies - this man speaks truth! ✨
I’m 17 years old, and right now I’m staying with my single mom. I plan on going to college to get a degree and find a husband. My mom also played the same role and I saw right before my eyes her try and date in her 40s a younger man but it didn’t work out. I’m glad i was introduced to Kevin’s channel this young! he really does speak the truth!!
Well not bitter, had high valued men. The independent woman was pushed down our throats. Well dying alone, not really, there will be others with me. But I will be the best me. In shape, beautiful, and be the best version of myself. Thats all I got according to Kevin lok
You never say “I feel” and you never say “I think” before anything. In fact, keeping one’s mouth shut tends to be the smartest move in my book. Your actions should be doing too much of the talking for you to get a word in edgewise.
I know it may be hard to believe, but a lot of us want just that. All my life, I've heard women (especially black women) complain that men are trash. But what I noticed was...the guys they kept choosing were trash. The guys they could have built a future with, were always boring and lame in their eyes.
Agreed. With his work i may just marry a black woman. Of it doesnt clean up i off to South America. I have lived in multiple countries so i know the women families and lifestyle. We all need therapy and alot of work on both sides. Unfortunately we dont have much time. Also the forecast of economy here is horrible.
I appreciate him telling me what to watch out for. I see nothing but women talking about what they want. It's like they decided, since I dont understand men, I'm only going to worry about my own wants and needs.
My husband is an extremely kind, giving, tolerant man (this is how people would describe him.) He is the best dad and grandfather: he enjoys games, trips to the park, cooks with them, and does bath and story time. I asked him if he would marry a woman with kids. He said, "no." No hesitation. Too many issues. It's hard enough raising your own children, let alone someone else's.
@@falsehoodbasher7240 go drink the kool aid, yeah they deal with men they think they’re above and shit on all day not men worth a shit. Because men worth a shit aren’t dealing with that shit
I can’t lie, this is very true. I’m blessed to have been able to get married to a great husband and I’m 29. We’ve been married for 2 years but when I was getting masters degree I was already engaged with the actual wedding date to my husband before I finished the program. We have to remember that sometimes marriage is more important than school.
@trigremlin not figured out mentally psychologically figured out. Like he’s rendered some of the most disrespectful high self opinion women to silence and uncomfortable laughter. He uncovers their most sensitive nerve and pluck the shit out of it. Then they hang up in submission. I know leaving that’s why I listen to you because you make good points. Nah chick don’t even try it. That how you came in. 😅
Accountability is a woman's Kryptonite and it shows throughout this livestream. Anytime Kevin explained why she's responsible for her own situation, she does mental gymnastics and go back to blaming men. Fascinating. 🤨
It is fascinating indeed and a large reason I tune in to watch his show. He drops more bombs than the US in Syria. I even tell my wife, “you got to hear this shit” and even she is blown away by these women. 😂
That lack of accountability is why I don't even date at all anymore. Even the "decent" women fight against accountability. I can't be bothered with someone who will blame every problem on me.
I was climbing the corporate ladder (it’s an endless bullsh!t game) when I met my husband We got married and I started to work from home to be a better wife. Nothing is better than not having a masculine work role, being able to workout, clean, and do business while greeting my husband with joy when he comes home.
Why can’t other women understand this. Catering to your natural womanly instincts and strengths only makes you more valuable as a woman. You live such a happier and fulfilled life.
But to the feminist, that is glorified servitude. They don't think the man going to work is servitude. The money and stuff just appears outta thin air. We(both sexes) are slaves the our environment, government, family, religion, etc. Let's stop acting like one sex has it easier than the other. The man serves the work place...the woman serves the home...why is that so complicated? Yes we can both do each others jobs. But it more than obvious we have a definitive role in this world. Just like the worker bee. We are all worker bees. Not the queen.
I'm in the military, the benefits are insane, free housing, health, dental, education, cheap life insurance, plus va benefits, that girl that turned down the dude in the navy to get a english degree made the biggest mistake of her life with that
I enrolled in an MBA program after I got married. My husband asked me “what’s the point?” I really couldn’t answer. I dropped out after I had my son. Maybe I’ll finish but it really doesn’t matter. Family is the focus now.
That's great your fine now and focus on family, however, if it's something you truly want and desire you may regret it later. People have to be self sufficient especially in case of a death, divorce, or disability.
@@anitaknight3915 I was just getting it cause I was in a leadership role at the time. I’m employable otherwise. I get your idea of seeing it as an insurance. Just in case.
@@1230mkelly it is not fear base thinking. Fear based would be staying out of fear you can't make it alone or find anyone better. Once again you would be incorrect per usual the men attacking women on here and their points if it isn't in alignment with yours.
@@katpod86 I gotcha sweetie!! It wasn't really necessary for you or needed to secure employment. I will tell you a masters is a really huge sacrifice of time, energy, and money. Sometimes I even question if it was worth it but the investment in myself and passion to help others is, yet it was burdensome. You miss years that you could've made money, dated, or had a child. That part I do think about for women.
Shoutout to the callers. Y'all never fail to disappoint. No matter if y'all call in with agreements when KS clearly say disagreements only, dodging taking accountability, or getting saluted by KS as he plays Taps and send y'all on your way. Y'all the real MVPs 😂😂
It’s hilarious and somewhat unbelievable. Someone tried to claim Kevin was paying women to embarrass themselves but you can’t make this Shit up. The funniest thing is a woman who calls agreeing and praising Kevin, but he still ends up giving them the business with regards to their life. Women understand these situations when it’s someone else especially their son, but again it’s a coping mechanism because they still have their own problems but they refuse to personally take accountability
@@Diamond-xl1vs what are u not understanding bout this? Women always give the same excuse as to why they left but never can say what they do wrong. Hearing both sides would be better, cus I guarantee you just off the conversation she had with Kevin and how annoying it is to talk to her, it’d be hard for any man not to go find something better to smash
Had a friend, his wife divorced him citing the same things. I learned 2 things: abusive = not sitting quiet while she screamed at him. Cheated = she cut him off from sex because she was always mad at him. Like for 17 months.
@truthhurts,if my wife cheated I m’m ghost. But after listening to Kevin and keeping black families together, I would seriously try to work it out. On the understanding that I owe her one of course. She said just tell her when I’m going to do it. I told her I’m sure I wouldn’t be informed when she hypothetically cheat so I don’t owe you any courtesies. She said but you could be cheating the rest of the marriage if you don’t get caught. I told her she could have been cheating the entire marriage and just now getting caught. She said if she didn’t know before she understands now cheating is just not worth it.😅
Kevin I’m a PHD and you are ON point about black women prioritizing time. I’ve been married for 10 years but I made sure my body stayed on point and I honestly never talked about my education. More than anything I focused on both my education and dating so I ended up with both. Black women don’t know how to date. All of my friends are single and ask me constantly how do I always end up with good men. Well I make sure my body stays together. Also you have to know when to hold and fold🤷🏽♀️ praying for y’all black single ladies but y’all better stop telling these men to accept you as you are, especially at 200 pounds, because your going to stay single. I’m 41 and stay in the gym. Ain’t letting nothing go
So they ask you how you "always end up with good men"?? But didn't you first say you were MARRIED for 10 years? What "good men"? Or you are still dating than?
In other words I've been passed around by other races of men and those men don't want me either. So now she has to come back to black men but it's too late we don't like other races of men left overs.
@@kobbyscratch5799 bad advice. Don't be friends with those who don't value you. If you are scared to share something with your friends, they aren't your friends. You are in bad friendship relationship
This was me..., open box item, scared to get married. I met my husband who is 8 years older than me. We got engaged and was married 9 months later (dream wedding for real). He didn't care about my property, education, or money. He wanted a wife. He's a HENRY, we have a beautiful home and we are financially secure. I asked him if I could go back to school out of respect and he said yes. So I'll be a married Ph.D. LOLLOLOL
Kevin: (*Gives an entire lecture of holding her accountable.*) Lady: "You're talking about a single man or a man with his own baggage?" Kevin: (*Immediately hangs up*) Me: I feel you Kevin. No accountability.
LOL Bro....i watch this ALL the time and be like, "Kevin nice".....cause i'd hang up on 90% of the callers! but him not hanging up and enduring through the argument (which should be a healthy debate, but most callers delusional) with his stats, facts and tact intellectual capabilities is what make Kevin special and needed.
When Future said "I get to have an NFL star [Russell Wilson] coach *MY* son play football" that shit hit home hard! You'll never catch me raising another man's kids.
Step is a prefix that means orphan. If you are a true stepfather, the other father is dead. So I don't know what guys who do this are now. We need a new word for it. I suggest we put it to a vote. Leave your suggestion below lol.
Women say that they were engaged but never married as an accomplishment 🤦🏾♂️ like a person saying they went to college but didn’t graduate we don’t care ma Lmaooo
I always knew I wanted to be family focused growing up and I kept it in mind as I grew older I got my degree in child development and worked as an early childhood teacher for a few years. I figured having that knowledge could be useful with my own children. Once I started dating someone more seriously I transitioned into being a nanny for a professional high earning family and I focused solely on grooming myself to be a housewife. The community I worked in was full of millionaires and housewives and I really paid attention to how they conducted themselves I’m engaged now and my fiancé always says that me being family/children oriented was something he liked and with that he wants me to stay home after marriage which is a dream in itself. Kevin is right! You must do things with purpose and intent otherwise you won’t be prepared for the blessing once it shows up
I actually a number of PhD holders. All of them, of either sex, are articulate, thoughtful, and speak professionally. They don't interrupt, talk over, or raise their voices. None of the women on this show who claim to have a PhD, speak like an educated professional. Claiming to have a level of education that doesn't match your obvious inability to think or speak, isn't fooling anyone.
KS was absolutely necessary for today's toxic climate. He did his part and got the conversation started. His messages conveyed the harsh truth...often deflected by his critics and detractors...but it was time for a "Reality Check." His Legacy is here to stay, and his "HATERS" are begining to realize the nobility of his intentions. Rest In Power to The Godfather!! 🙏
Again, Kevin you are a powerful MOTIVATOR!! I was fortunate to be able to retain my job during the pandemic with less hours, but I’ve thankfully been able to start freelancing & even started a UA-cam channel on online money & personal finance and it’s GROWING! Thanks for the great content and remember bois NEVER GIVE UP ON YOUR GOAL!
@@russbro true, and things do evolve - so maybe there may be room for this type of content on TV Steve Harvey is too nicey nice. We do need someone real and direct to actually help people.
Funny I have this female cousin, who is 40 and she brags about her PHD. Then today she ask me why she can't find a man. I just told her why were you not more valuable with your time.
Women like that really don't understand how hard it is for a man to stay emotionally bonded to a women with this type of masculine energy. No wonder their relationships never last.
Even if ex-husband was 100% wrong, it doesn't change what Kevin saying... Any new man gotta deal with her situation. And her. Or he could find another woman never married and no kids.
I’m going throw my 2cents on why her husband cheated. 1. He honestly wanted to live a single life as a married man. 2. And I’m going with this one for sure...”The sexual part of their relationship went to “0” and he got tired of not having sex. She stated that she as recently divorced, meaning he was in it for years with possibly no problems, but when he got fed up with the lack of physical interaction he tip toed out and didn’t look back. For some strange reason women “feel” like they do not have to be the freak for the husband. He can take care of home, be her shoulder to cry on, and be the father in their kids life, but how dare he want to have sex on the couch or want some personal attention Saturday morning. 🤦🏿♂️. “A happy wife is a happy life, but an empty sack will keep him coming back”. And yes ladies we are that simple. 🤷🏿♂️ Women are emotional, men are physical.
Exactly 💯 they don’t care about us as people and want to get to know us.. however when I date a woman of a different race she is interested in getting to know ME for ME.. all facts bro
@@l.j.russell902 exactly.. I’m a light skin DBZ fan and they don’t like me.. they also make fun of me for having my UA-cam channel on here.. sad world bro
My tribe in Angola, if woman becomes a single mother, she is not allowed to take the children to the next marriage. Kids have to stay with grandparents or forced to stay with the father
I think people misunderstand the motivation for a PhD for a lot of women. They don’t get PhDs to avoid relationships, they get them because they haven’t been successful in relationships. A lot of times when you fail in one area of life you double down on the area you’ve had success to feel good about yourself.
I think this is debatable. It appears to be a generational situation. The women of generations prior did not have access to education. I think it's reasonable to suggest that many wanted an education, however, were not allowed socioeconomic conditions. Consequently, when access to education became readily available, many parents, particularly mothers, pushed education on their daughters. In other words, living life through their children and encouraging them to take advantage of opportunities they were once denied as women. We went from one extreme to the next.
Friends of mine have used the PHD or second masters degree as a way to meet new circles of influence, hoping for love as well as a promotion or pay raise.
I’m 27 my fiancé is 36 and he showed me your show I’ve been watching for about 4-5 months and I am engaged because of you I changed some of my ways I listen to you every day even if they are old posts I’ll re-listen to a show just to hear and learn it again! I wish women would help and talk about how to praise men!
It’s true I was told men are supposed to do everything for you!! I always knew that felt wrong but watching Kevin opens my eyes. Listening to all his stuff and continuing to I love it!
Sitting Herr listening to this and it takes me back to my Grandmother. On her death bed she says to me, "I wish I never had divorced your Granddad." RIP Grandma.
Yo! Your opening monologue was hilarious!!! I had it happen to me.. a 👧 from college 27 years ago hit me on FB. Heavy, kids and all the bullshit.. She used to play hi post and wasted her best years on school. Got 2 kids, unmarried to a cokehead who died of a heart attack at 44 and left nothing! Bunch of degrees and a damn fool. But they can hold that PHd .
The woman talking at 1:18:02 is just Chaotic! Listen to the back and forth her and Kevin have. That chick just says whatever comes to her mind, and the more she talks the more confusing everything gets. Now only does she come with a kid, she also comes with nonsense and chaos. And these women always think it's somebody else fault that they single. And you can't tell them that they ain't a noble woman for leaving a marriage where they always say the man "Cheated". They think they should get the Nobel Peace Prize for leaving the marriage because there was so called "infidelity" let them tell it.
@@JT-bt6jy yeah there are a few. Mainstream media are ruining alot of women's minds. They run a constant campaign of division to divide us. Still not as bad as US media thou. Lucky I've got a fit feminine and cooperative feonsay!
I love the fact that raising someone else's bastard children matters. Its a concept that women and liberal society has tried to stifle. Women want no consequences for their actions, having a bunch of kids out of wedlock matters.
@@KeepinItOneHunnnid Definitely, and Kevin points that out, often. I love how he asks them why they would have this losers baby, and now bad-mouth him. Zero accountability.
@@olaakande5581 you’re right. many black women are entitled and “feel” like men should accept their baggage aka kids, but not the other way around. Ppl need to be humble, and accept what they actually qualify for 😩 lol
@@Saiuriyon I’m an African guy who has lived in NY all my life. The amount of single middle aged black American women is alarming. U don’t see Caribbean & African women saying they don’t need or want a man. That’s a sole black American female concept. I just wonder is being single at 42 really empowering to black women? Lol i don’t get it lol
@@olaakande5581 you’re absolutely correct. I’m getting married to a wonderful black man in 6 weeks, and i can feel the saltiness from single aunties, older lonely black American women that i know...that are up in age with nothing in life, but a dog and kids to show for it. No man in sight. From childhood, i knew that wasn’t gonna be me lol. I wish more black American women would be more humble, take accountability, and drop the attitudes, entitlement and delusion. You don’t see women of other nationalities acting like this. They get husbands lol
God help you Kevin and grant you more grace to deal with these toxic the world has produce. I feel so stressed just listening to the bs. Bless you man.
@@leonelorozco2514 Kevin has a Lot of Good points but don’t let him fool you 100 percent this is a “ Christian “ but the advice of adultery being fair is not what a Christian should Say that cheating High. Value husband is going to End up in Hell
When I went to college at 17 years old, I had two goals; earn a degree and find a husband. I was off the market within five months of entering college. He couldn't afford a wife at 19, and I had the luxury of time so I waited. He got on his A-game and earned his degree the semester before I graduated. He set up a home for us. We worked together to build a life and family. Married for 23 years so far.
Marriage doesn't just happen, we have to pursue it, and work at maintaining it.
These are honest questions. Are you loud mouth? what has made your marriage strong? Would you agree for him to have a side chick?
Spread the message to your lost sisthren
This is awesome!
I think marriage does happen when a woman gets herself together and makes finding a husband a priority. I married at 31 but it was after wasting time in my 20s and getting myself together mentally.
@@katpod86 These are honest questions. Are you loud mouth? what has made your marriage strong? Would you agree for him to have a side chick?
@@josephdunn4388 no I’m soft spoken, communicating and understanding each other makes the marriage strong - absolutely not for the side chick.
My ex was an accountant. The last thing I said to her was how can you be an accountant but refuse to take accountability for *anything?*
My guy, you should've been on Def Comedy Jam years ago. 😅🤣
🤣🤣 well darn
Sounds like every female accountant I've ever met.
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@@longbeachmaumba7059 You're 2 for 2, fam! 👏🏽💯😅🤣
Kevin is so right. I was told to go to school and I don't need a man. My grandma who was born in 1913 always said find a husband so she taught me young to cook and clean and serve. When I got my degree, a man couldn't tell me sh!t. I regret that. So I went must of my adult life dating here and there and focused on advanced degrees and my career. Those degrees and my 6 figures never kept me warm in a cold lonely bed. I'm married now but I wasted so much time. That's my regret in life. And the sad part is I know at least 20 women who want what I now have, but my husband didn't have what I had, and a few tried to discourage me and turned their noses up. Had me second guessing myself. What I noticed is that our independence makes us look down on our brothers and disrespect them and have such disdain for them. It's sad. It's like we have to be reprogrammed to respect our men and realize material things and money don't mean squat if you're going through life alone.
Fact, life is about people, just choose them wisely, character first before material.
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Thank you for telling the TRUTH.
"Check out the degree on that woman!" Said no man ever.
"Yo Guys, I'd really like to know what's in her pocketbook?"
Hahahahaha good point.
@Lou Lou and it seems you are also everywhere to notice people who are everywhere. How many times an individual chooses to comment is absolutely none of ur business!!!
I searched FetLife, still no dudes turned on by a degree
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woman doesn't want to get married: "Shes not ready"
man doesn't want to get married : "Dump him sis"
That's exactly how it goes. I've already decided that marriage isn't for me.
@Lou Lou a bot reposting comments on a bunch of videos.
@@vanderumd11 Nah man he's legit
The "woman doesn't want to get married" is not always the same situation
@@tilly3851 Make sure you give us the good spin
I have a 53 y/o cousin, who sports a mouth filled with gold and platinum blond hair, - and an aggressive nature - who loves to talk about what she’s willing and unwilling to take from a man. She filled her daughter’s head with the same BS and now they’re both bitter, haggard, and single. Saddest part about the duo? The daughter had a man who fell madly in love with her and wanted to marry her about 13 yrs ago. Mom talked her out of it.
A lifelong chicken head.
That sounds like jealousy
Tell your cousin to keep her mom out of her relationship. Seriously. Her mom sounds bitter and she wants her daughter to join her
@@asfhjjs6620 easier said then done. That chicken head culture is REAL. Her daughter is a sweetheart but her propensity towards being a “jump off” is second to none.
I’ve got cousins and aunties just like this. I had to distance myself from them before I ended up like them. Fortunately I followed my instinct to separate rather than remaining close to them for the sake of “family”.
@@beac8238 awesome. All fam ain’t family. Sometimes family is where you feel the safest
Avoiding pregnancy and having agency with what happens with your body is a privilege women in the west have, but are hardly aware of in comparison to their counterparts in other parts of the world. All the tools/power to NOT have a kid for a bum or a man you are not ready to marry, yet you still did. And then really have the nerve to complain about the consequences after. I don’t understand.
This needs at least a thousand likes. How do you let this happen to your body?!?! I keep thinking they must’ve been held at gun point and locked in a basement...
Somebody dial 911, she murdered some people. 💯🔥
When I was in law school, one day I overheard some Black female law students in the lounge talking about how they were attracted to "educated or intellectual hoodlum"-type brothers. I asked myself 1) what the hell is that?!? and 2) would I ever hear white Jewish women, or Arab or Asian women saying they equivalent? What is wrong with us?!?
@Robin Yes sister and that's so sad
Because if they got with competent men they couldn't play victim and receive government handouts.
This man has definitely changed the game this is the birth of a new revolution for men. Thank you Kevin!
The tide is turning for men, but it will take time, and I thank Kevin also. Best wishes Marcel
Every man in America needs to be listening to this dude
Just Curious 🤨
What’s the game change for men ??? This is how woman always have been or the fact that men have been played all these years 🤷🏾♀️🙄
Agreed
Our young men need to hear all his vids. This will change the game. Most of us make our mistakes when we are you. Many older guys cang articulate this knowledge to the younger ones. But it will change the game if we all knew and understand this
I asked my wife one day while listening to this channel, when u went to college (we met in college) what did you want to accomplish while there? She said her intentions were to find the man she’d marry and the father to her children.
We’ve been together since, 29 yrs 💪🏾
Lots of ups n downs. But we stuck together and have made a great life with each other and our boys.
Well done🙂✌🏾🙏🏾
She had the right idea. She ( among these ,JACKALS, HYENAS and WILDERBEASTS) of today's time are so lost its tragic. It proves women can not handle impowerment.They don't comprehend humily ,patience, or accountability .You guys are one of the FEW couplez in the WORLD that understands the true meaning of marriage...GOD bless you both.
I went to college to get my degree. The one time I tried to have a boyfriend that guy was a waste of skin. I'm very thankful I met my husband after graduate school.
"Highly educated " often just means highly programmed by the system.
Highly educated doesn't mean you are a good person or that you are smart or that you are successful. I don't know why women can't shut the f up about their education when it literally couldn't matter less if they are 'highly educated' or not .
Real
NAILED IT
@Rasul Samad it easy not to have debt with a few scholarships
Systems guard dog
A woman will easily forsake her wedding vows (80% of all divorces in the US are initiated by women*), but she will wear the title of "single mother" as a badge of honor...sad times.
HaA JUSStlikeawuuman
All of them blame divorce on the men and come up with the same excuses. I don't belive not even one women.
@Proud Habesha and don’t disregard the this other factor, “why do men cheat”? There’s a lot of reason why ppl cheat, don’t blame one person and look at the other side on another perspective.
My boy had a female like this. Masters with lots of debt. Early 30's putting pressure to get hitched. He winded up kicking her to the curb because she was entertaining other guys.
@Proud Habesha Most women won't have it? You mean women who brag about how good they are at cheating?? 😂😂. You keep thinking all those women are innocent victims if you want 😂😂
Eggs on life support 😂😂😂😂 I lost it when he played the flatline noise
here i am just the man for you.
Lol 🤣 yeah that was hilarious, Im going to draw that picture
“Back then you didn’t want me now you’re fat you’re all on me” 😂😂 🔥 bars
😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣 Your crazy
Lol
Where is the time stamp?
Haha so true
🤣🤣😭😭💯💯💯
“Back then, she didn’t want me. Now she fat, she all on me.” That’s a classic... Mike Jones!!! 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
I totally read that in the Mike Jones voice haha
Lol. I said!
Back then hoes din want me now I'm hot they all on me. My friends call me Mike Jones after I lost 80 pounds and became an engineer 😂😂
"my eggs in there". THE REFRIGERATOR? SMH
His conclusion at the end, is my mother’s fate. She played the victim, independant, single mother card all her life. Now she is 65yrs old, working in pharmacy retail, tired, bitter, and alone. Luckily, I got out before it was too late, and didn’t get stuck in the same trap. Listen to him ladies - this man speaks truth! ✨
I’m 17 years old, and right now I’m staying with my single mom. I plan on going to college to get a degree and find a husband. My mom also played the same role and I saw right before my eyes her try and date in her 40s a younger man but it didn’t work out. I’m glad i was introduced to Kevin’s channel this young! he really does speak the truth!!
@@rachelblakley5164 You’re lucky to have found this channel and open to receiving his messages. I wish you all the best 💕
My Mom played that role also and now she is quizzical that my sisters have a husband's. I had to tell her that they didn't want to be lonely like her.
Well not bitter, had high valued men. The independent woman was pushed down our throats. Well dying alone, not really, there will be others with me. But I will be the best me. In shape, beautiful, and be the best version of myself. Thats all I got according to Kevin lok
I supervise women like your mom 55+ and they are bitter and alone, willing to do anything for a man
I have learned one important lesson from KS, when a woman starts a sentence with “I feel” the next thing out of their mouth will make no sense.
fact
No Lies Detected
Whenever anybody starts a their sentence with "I feel", that's a feeling, not facts or anything else. That's your opinion, its irrelevant
You never say “I feel” and you never say “I think” before anything. In fact, keeping one’s mouth shut tends to be the smartest move in my book. Your actions should be doing too much of the talking for you to get a word in edgewise.
Absolutely no sense
I dont know much about Kevin but, I love that he encourages black men to marry and have all their children in ONE HOUSEHOLD.
I know it may be hard to believe, but a lot of us want just that. All my life, I've heard women (especially black women) complain that men are trash. But what I noticed was...the guys they kept choosing were trash. The guys they could have built a future with, were always boring and lame in their eyes.
@@tizodd6 Facts! Boring women aren't interesting especially when you're a virgin in your late 20's.
Agreed. With his work i may just marry a black woman. Of it doesnt clean up i off to South America. I have lived in multiple countries so i know the women families and lifestyle. We all need therapy and alot of work on both sides. Unfortunately we dont have much time. Also the forecast of economy here is horrible.
I appreciate him telling me what to watch out for. I see nothing but women talking about what they want. It's like they decided, since I dont understand men, I'm only going to worry about my own wants and needs.
Women preach all this love stuff yet have no idea how to display it.
My husband is an extremely kind, giving, tolerant man (this is how people would describe him.) He is the best dad and grandfather: he enjoys games, trips to the park, cooks with them, and does bath and story time. I asked him if he would marry a woman with kids. He said, "no." No hesitation. Too many issues.
It's hard enough raising your own children, let alone someone else's.
Bingo
Yet women with children tend to get married
over never been married women with no kids.
@@falsehoodbasher7240 go drink the kool aid, yeah they deal with men they think they’re above and shit on all day not men worth a shit. Because men worth a shit aren’t dealing with that shit
@@shanejones578 oh damn.
My cousin married a mom
she is a bit bossy but she’s
so friendly and nice!!! Ook
Idk why u said that to me 🤷🏻♀
@@falsehoodbasher7240 “Bossy” is the antithesis of friendly and kind.
I can’t lie, this is very true. I’m blessed to have been able to get married to a great husband and I’m 29. We’ve been married for 2 years but when I was getting masters degree I was already engaged with the actual wedding date to my husband before I finished the program. We have to remember that sometimes marriage is more important than school.
Stating this observable fact today will get you CANCELLED by other women.
God bless!
Congratulations my Sister
Hello Well said
Teach them 👏
This man was such a gem I have literal tears in my eyes never thought I could feel him his way about a stranger he had so much more to give
These women all know Kevin has them figured out but they keep looking for loopholes
@trigremlin not figured out mentally psychologically figured out. Like he’s rendered some of the most disrespectful high self opinion women to silence and uncomfortable laughter. He uncovers their most sensitive nerve and pluck the shit out of it. Then they hang up in submission. I know leaving that’s why I listen to you because you make good points. Nah chick don’t even try it. That how you came in. 😅
Accountability is a woman's Kryptonite and it shows throughout this livestream. Anytime Kevin explained why she's responsible for her own situation, she does mental gymnastics and go back to blaming men. Fascinating. 🤨
These callers turn into NFL RBs and be pulling spin moves, jukes and stiff arms 😂😂
Quite fascinating 🧐
It is fascinating indeed and a large reason I tune in to watch his show. He drops more bombs than the US in Syria. I even tell my wife, “you got to hear this shit” and even she is blown away by these women. 😂
That lack of accountability is why I don't even date at all anymore. Even the "decent" women fight against accountability. I can't be bothered with someone who will blame every problem on me.
Making 6 figures is a dusty’s kryptonite. 🤷🏾♀️
I was climbing the corporate ladder (it’s an endless bullsh!t game) when I met my husband
We got married and I started to work from home to be a better wife. Nothing is better than not having a masculine work role, being able to workout, clean, and do business while greeting my husband with joy when he comes home.
❤️❤️
Strong independent and masculine women don't want to hear this
Why can’t other women understand this. Catering to your natural womanly instincts and strengths only makes you more valuable as a woman. You live such a happier and fulfilled life.
What job do u do from home? Just asking for myself
But to the feminist, that is glorified servitude. They don't think the man going to work is servitude. The money and stuff just appears outta thin air. We(both sexes) are slaves the our environment, government, family, religion, etc. Let's stop acting like one sex has it easier than the other. The man serves the work place...the woman serves the home...why is that so complicated? Yes we can both do each others jobs. But it more than obvious we have a definitive role in this world. Just like the worker bee. We are all worker bees. Not the queen.
I'm in the military, the benefits are insane, free housing, health, dental, education, cheap life insurance, plus va benefits, that girl that turned down the dude in the navy to get a english degree made the biggest mistake of her life with that
100% True!!!
Hooyah.
Kevin repeatedly says money alone does not make you a high value Man. Cause we all know, 80% of Military guys just want their cake and eat it too.
And I'm just being nice with the 80% assumption.
She could've still got an English Degree of she married him. It would've simply been a matter of changing schools.
Kevin: why aren't you married?
First lady: because no one has asked me.
No, its because you have two kids with two different fathers and you're old.
*FACTS* 🔥
🤣🤣
He’s not married because he became more intelligent at the two marriages😀
Except Samuels is totally wrong about older women getting married . Plenty do . He just doesn’t want to admit that his “ theories “ are whack .
@@aqua76239 no he's saying older women shouldn't be looking for high value men. They should settle for average.
I enrolled in an MBA program after I got married. My husband asked me “what’s the point?”
I really couldn’t answer. I dropped out after I had my son. Maybe I’ll finish but it really doesn’t matter. Family is the focus now.
That's great your fine now and focus on family, however, if it's something you truly want and desire you may regret it later. People have to be self sufficient especially in case of a death, divorce, or disability.
@@anitaknight3915 that is fear base thinking vs faith base living.
As a result, I can clearly see why are single and unmarried too.
@@anitaknight3915 I was just getting it cause I was in a leadership role at the time. I’m employable otherwise. I get your idea of seeing it as an insurance. Just in case.
@@1230mkelly it is not fear base thinking. Fear based would be staying out of fear you can't make it alone or find anyone better. Once again you would be incorrect per usual the men attacking women on here and their points if it isn't in alignment with yours.
@@katpod86 I gotcha sweetie!! It wasn't really necessary for you or needed to secure employment. I will tell you a masters is a really huge sacrifice of time, energy, and money. Sometimes I even question if it was worth it but the investment in myself and passion to help others is, yet it was burdensome. You miss years that you could've made money, dated, or had a child. That part I do think about for women.
Kevin has some of the best analogies I've ever heard in my entire adult life.
the master at acronyms
True.. he actually makes you think
Shoutout to the callers. Y'all never fail to disappoint. No matter if y'all call in with agreements when KS clearly say disagreements only, dodging taking accountability, or getting saluted by KS as he plays Taps and send y'all on your way. Y'all the real MVPs 😂😂
For most of them, it's about seeking attention, not knowledge.
passive aggressive asf
It’s hilarious and somewhat unbelievable. Someone tried to claim Kevin was paying women to embarrass themselves but you can’t make this Shit up. The funniest thing is a woman who calls agreeing and praising Kevin, but he still ends up giving them the business with regards to their life. Women understand these situations when it’s someone else especially their son, but again it’s a coping mechanism because they still have their own problems but they refuse to personally take accountability
Hell yeah, they got the juice now .
I don't believe her or any woman who divorces and blames the man. It's always "He was abusive " or he cheated". I want to hear his side of the story.
What?
@@Diamond-xl1vs what are u not understanding bout this? Women always give the same excuse as to why they left but never can say what they do wrong. Hearing both sides would be better, cus I guarantee you just off the conversation she had with Kevin and how annoying it is to talk to her, it’d be hard for any man not to go find something better to smash
Had a friend, his wife divorced him citing the same things. I learned 2 things: abusive = not sitting quiet while she screamed at him. Cheated = she cut him off from sex because she was always mad at him. Like for 17 months.
@@imsmarterthanyou5558
"to smash" damn graphic
you def do not sound like
husband material. couth
@truthhurts,if my wife cheated I m’m ghost. But after listening to Kevin and keeping black families together, I would seriously try to work it out. On the understanding that I owe her one of course. She said just tell her when I’m going to do it. I told her I’m sure I wouldn’t be informed when she hypothetically cheat so I don’t owe you any courtesies. She said but you could be cheating the rest of the marriage if you don’t get caught. I told her she could have been cheating the entire marriage and just now getting caught. She said if she didn’t know before she understands now cheating is just not worth it.😅
Kevin I’m a PHD and you are ON point about black women prioritizing time. I’ve been married for 10 years but I made sure my body stayed on point and I honestly never talked about my education. More than anything I focused on both my education and dating so I ended up with both. Black women don’t know how to date. All of my friends are single and ask me constantly how do I always end up with good men. Well I make sure my body stays together. Also you have to know when to hold and fold🤷🏽♀️ praying for y’all black single ladies but y’all better stop telling these men to accept you as you are, especially at 200 pounds, because your going to stay single. I’m 41 and stay in the gym. Ain’t letting nothing go
Good for you, mam! Love to hear words like yours! 👍
I’m 17 and I need some advice! Time is ticking and hearing all these ladies stories is so discouraging. I don’t wanna be like them. 😭
@@user-kb1ur9ky8b your 17 shut up and just listen
@@Yesssssir29 No need to be rude. I am listening and I’m also asking questions too. What’s wrong with that?
So they ask you how you "always end up with good men"?? But didn't you first say you were MARRIED for 10 years? What "good men"? Or you are still dating than?
I am literally going to show this to my daughter in a few years.
Kevin, thank you. You are doing Gods work.
He really is!
Nice to see a man mention telling his daughter the truth about men. We need to actively prepare our children to have better relationships .
@@truthseeker44 Lol. Nice try.
Yup same here brother a problem for all races I believe
@@truthseeker44 lol you’re a joke
This woman said “I date souls.” These new age pseudo spiritual women are finished.
DONE!
Sounds like she trying to cover up that she's a sausage connoisseur.
In other words I've been passed around by other races of men and those men don't want me either. So now she has to come back to black men but it's too late we don't like other races of men left overs.
😂😂😂😂
Lol
Shoutout to my black mail carriers/truck drivers. We out here making a good living
Yup married to one and I completely submit to him
👌🏽👌🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
What Chelsea said! Wishing you the “marry” best!
@@rickyhodges9572 much love
White ones ain’t so bad either. Be safe my dude
I want to share your channel with some of my PhD single friends, but I fear we would not be friends anymore.😁 One love Kevin❤️
You are what your friends are! If you want to continue to be that person, your choice!
Don't bcos they might be very pissed of with you looool
@@kobbyscratch5799 bad advice. Don't be friends with those who don't value you. If you are scared to share something with your friends, they aren't your friends. You are in bad friendship relationship
You are not a true friend to those so called friends of yours if you can’t tell them the truth.
@@bull.dog. it was a joke.
This was me..., open box item, scared to get married. I met my husband who is 8 years older than me. We got engaged and was married 9 months later (dream wedding for real). He didn't care about my property, education, or money. He wanted a wife. He's a HENRY, we have a beautiful home and we are financially secure. I asked him if I could go back to school out of respect and he said yes. So I'll be a married Ph.D. LOLLOLOL
Exactly. He wanted the only thing of value. *You.* 🔥💯
That is how you do it. Husband first.
The difference is u didn't get a degree thinking it'll help u find a man
God blessed you
Congratulations Mrs. Rich, you are truly living your namesake! 🤗
Thee best show on UA-cam. Factual and hilarious
like waiting for the Cosby show to come on
Every women. “I’m not trying to argue - I agree BUT” and then proceed to antagonize and play stupid while arguing.
boils my blood
Truth
Scary truth
These women are frequently feigning ignorance when they’re cornered!
A disagreement is not an argument . You people are so weird
Kevin: (*Gives an entire lecture of holding her accountable.*)
Lady: "You're talking about a single man or a man with his own baggage?"
Kevin: (*Immediately hangs up*)
Me: I feel you Kevin. No accountability.
LOL Bro....i watch this ALL the time and be like, "Kevin nice".....cause i'd hang up on 90% of the callers! but him not hanging up and enduring through the argument (which should be a healthy debate, but most callers delusional) with his stats, facts and tact intellectual capabilities is what make Kevin special and needed.
Just watched that part and saw this comment ☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️ ... That shyt just kilt me 🤣🤣🤣😂🤣😭
@LaToyia Mackey 😐
@LaToyia Mackey +1
Hmmm.... Anyone still surprised that her man left?
I can’t lie...the eggs on life support segment had me Phkn dyiiiiing LMAOOO!!
Youre so pretty 😍
@@StellaCharm omg thank you sis.
Poor eggs 🥚
Imagine being told: How's your wife and my kids? Ain't no man wants that.
When Future said "I get to have an NFL star [Russell Wilson] coach *MY* son play football" that shit hit home hard! You'll never catch me raising another man's kids.
Damn. Could never do that ever
DAMN 🔥
Step is a prefix that means orphan. If you are a true stepfather, the other father is dead. So I don't know what guys who do this are now. We need a new word for it. I suggest we put it to a vote. Leave your suggestion below lol.
Toxicity personified...
Women say that they were engaged but never married as an accomplishment 🤦🏾♂️ like a person saying they went to college but didn’t graduate we don’t care ma Lmaooo
Loooooooool!!!!
xbox achievements have more value
I always tell women engagements don't count for shit. That's not even 2nd place.
Or say they're educated only because they got a grant but never graduated & never paid the debt off.
I always knew I wanted to be family focused growing up and I kept it in mind as I grew older
I got my degree in child development and worked as an early childhood teacher for a few years. I figured having that knowledge could be useful with my own children.
Once I started dating someone more seriously I transitioned into being a nanny for a professional high earning family and I focused solely on grooming myself to be a housewife.
The community I worked in was full of millionaires and housewives and I really paid attention to how they conducted themselves
I’m engaged now and my fiancé always says that me being family/children oriented was something he liked and with that he wants me to stay home after marriage which is a dream in itself.
Kevin is right! You must do things with purpose and intent otherwise you won’t be prepared for the blessing once it shows up
Tips??
Update
“Ovaries on life support”
lmfao. The Godfather never miss!
@JUICE JAMES lol mad?
Let’s be honest, a nobody trying to have kids at 50. You can talk about ovaries all you want but let’s be realistic.
@JUICE JAMES imagine hating on someone for stating facts from a high school biology textbook. 😂
@JUICE JAMES ma’am... you having more testosterone than others doesent make them feminine lmao.
@@JustEmx Trump did get Baron at 58 year! What the french toast...
"BW want to give BM what they think they should have" That statement is all facts!!
"Women tell u what they think u deserve by their appearance "..that is also facts
@@benten1453 somen has a shallow thought process smh
It's true
FACTS
much LOVE to you dear Brother!! Wow Cant believe what is going on , Sleep in Peace, you changed my mind and helped my marriage!!
Everyday someone speaks truth, we get closer to balance. Sir, you are a triple beam. The Godfather of Truth. Respect
And I say again. The culture needs this man!!👊🏿
Post this 2 TIMES!!!
No question about it.
You're very consistent lol
@Proud Habesha
Ok so why are you on this man's channel then?
@Proud Habesha when we say the The culture we mean our. We ain’t got interested in your culture. You don’t have real culture anyway 🙄
Boy, that "I'm a PHD" kills me every time
it kills me more when he sings it with the song money world, i think it goes, i have a peee h deeee
A women in some podcast actually said that to him, he copied the sound bite "i'm a phd"😂😂😂
@@dinkan3 which one was it
@@stormblessedj I don't remember but one of his earliest podcasts.
I actually a number of PhD holders. All of them, of either sex, are articulate, thoughtful, and speak professionally.
They don't interrupt, talk over, or raise their voices.
None of the women on this show who claim to have a PhD, speak like an educated professional.
Claiming to have a level of education that doesn't match your obvious inability to think or speak, isn't fooling anyone.
PhD = poor history of dating
You're a legend.
Lol....I like☺
Put that shit on a shirt!
Winning
Best show on youTube. God Father smashing the game. "EGGS in the freezer". 😂😂😂😂😄😅 LMFAO hillarious
😭😭😭😭😭😭
KS was absolutely necessary for today's toxic climate. He did his part and got the conversation started. His messages conveyed the harsh truth...often deflected by his critics and detractors...but it was time for a "Reality Check." His Legacy is here to stay, and his "HATERS" are begining to realize the nobility of his intentions. Rest In Power to The Godfather!! 🙏
that monologue about the eggs has to be the funniest shit ive seen in a while
The go-back-to-school thing was gold! So True!!!!! OMG!
Since listening to u it just open my eyes where i can talk to my 2 daughters to do the complete opposite of what i did in my younger years
Again, Kevin you are a powerful MOTIVATOR!! I was fortunate to be able to retain my job during the pandemic with less hours, but I’ve thankfully been able to start freelancing & even started a UA-cam channel on online money & personal finance and it’s GROWING! Thanks for the great content and remember bois NEVER GIVE UP ON YOUR GOAL!
Cant wait until Kevin gets his daytime TV show, its gonna be tight.
He probably go on Sirius, not mainstream. They will cancel him quick in the past culture we live in.
@@dipo2142 I wasn't thinking about that cancel culture BS. You are absolutely right about that. Thank you!
Can’t be this blunt on daytime TV.
@@katpod86 Thats sad cause Oprah show, and the negitve View show BS about men have been on for years.
@@russbro true, and things do evolve - so maybe there may be room for this type of content on TV
Steve Harvey is too nicey nice. We do need someone real and direct to actually help people.
180k views in 21 hours?? You people really love KS! This is golden content thus far, and I am here for it!
Ks waking ⏰ up these ladies one day at a time. Taps 🎺🎺 🤜🏾🤛🏾💯
A lot of them still going back to sleep tho smh
Funny I have this female cousin, who is 40 and she brags about her PHD. Then today she ask me why she can't find a man. I just told her why were you not more valuable with your time.
I have a cousin like that. It's sad really
Can't serve two masters
Marry her she your cousin after all
@@whywhywhywhy7559 So must like incest? Are you ok ?
@@ghosttemplar6989 no, came from a culture where it's normal.
Love ya Kevin. So on point and amusing at the same time
That New York woman was real masculine. She’s rock hard. No wonder why her husband moved out. A life coach? Who isn’t a life coach these days.
Women like that really don't understand how hard it is for a man to stay emotionally bonded to a women with this type of masculine energy. No wonder their relationships never last.
Most NY women are real masculine; she fits right in so she doesn't know the difference
Even if ex-husband was 100% wrong, it doesn't change what Kevin saying... Any new man gotta deal with her situation. And her. Or he could find another woman never married and no kids.
I’m going throw my 2cents on why her husband cheated.
1. He honestly wanted to live a single life as a married man.
2. And I’m going with this one for sure...”The sexual part of their relationship went to “0” and he got tired of not having sex. She stated that she as recently divorced, meaning he was in it for years with possibly no problems, but when he got fed up with the lack of physical interaction he tip toed out and didn’t look back.
For some strange reason women “feel” like they do not have to be the freak for the husband. He can take care of home, be her shoulder to cry on, and be the father in their kids life, but how dare he want to have sex on the couch or want some personal attention Saturday morning. 🤦🏿♂️. “A happy wife is a happy life, but an empty sack will keep him coming back”.
And yes ladies we are that simple. 🤷🏿♂️ Women are emotional, men are physical.
Just became a life coach myself . Haha
"I dont hear many black women, paying attention to who black men are" 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🎯🎯🎯🎯 had to raise a toast to that line‼️
French toast??
And if u don’t fit the rappers, trapper , pro athlete mold, they not willing to adapt and get on the program like women of other races.
They don’t care to. Always listen when a woman tells you who she is.
Exactly 💯 they don’t care about us as people and want to get to know us.. however when I date a woman of a different race she is interested in getting to know ME for ME.. all facts bro
@@l.j.russell902 exactly.. I’m a light skin DBZ fan and they don’t like me.. they also make fun of me for having my UA-cam channel on here.. sad world bro
My tribe in Angola, if woman becomes a single mother, she is not allowed to take the children to the next marriage. Kids have to stay with grandparents or forced to stay with the father
I think people misunderstand the motivation for a PhD for a lot of women. They don’t get PhDs to avoid relationships, they get them because they haven’t been successful in relationships. A lot of times when you fail in one area of life you double down on the area you’ve had success to feel good about yourself.
This. It’s something they can be proud of after the constant letdown of dating
@@LBE-Vanguard exactly
I think this is debatable. It appears to be a generational situation. The women of generations prior did not have access to education. I think it's reasonable to suggest that many wanted an education, however, were not allowed socioeconomic conditions. Consequently, when access to education became readily available, many parents, particularly mothers, pushed education on their daughters. In other words, living life through their children and encouraging them to take advantage of opportunities they were once denied as women. We went from one extreme to the next.
Either way that’s they fault, a lot of folks ain’t been loved nearly to enough to know what to do with love if they ever encounter it.
Friends of mine have used the PHD or second masters degree as a way to meet new circles of influence, hoping for love as well as a promotion or pay raise.
I’m 27 my fiancé is 36 and he showed me your show I’ve been watching for about 4-5 months and I am engaged because of you I changed some of my ways I listen to you every day even if they are old posts I’ll re-listen to a show just to hear and learn it again! I wish women would help and talk about how to praise men!
My boyfriend pointed me to the red pill content. I have changed my ways also. My whole perspective on relationships have definitely changed.
It’s true I was told men are supposed to do everything for you!! I always knew that felt wrong but watching Kevin opens my eyes. Listening to all his stuff and continuing to I love it!
Haha kevin having a good laugh and being goofy tonight ! It’s nice to see this side of him sometimes LOL
It really is.
I love it!
I'm tripping! I missed the live! Dang. Smh.
He used my polite term for "fat" tonight. "Fluffy". Lmao! 😆
need to start calling heffers what they are: land whales
Sitting Herr listening to this and it takes me back to my Grandmother. On her death bed she says to me, "I wish I never had divorced your Granddad." RIP Grandma.
The Greatest Human that ever had a UA-cam channel.
“I’m a life coach” 😂 ..miss, focus on your life first! Choose a struggle.
Thought I was the only one who caught that 😂
I'm glad he's both serious and comical cause you have to laugh ti keep from crying.
Take a bow kevin you have out done yourself 😂
When you can’t be honest in conversation. How do you think you can expect change or correction.
I love his content but I absolutely adore when he’s goofing around 🤣🤣!
You got me in stitches 🤣 but I hate to admit your 💯 right 🤦🏾♀️listen to him ladies 💕
KS had his sound bar bumping tonight 😂
Yo! Your opening monologue was hilarious!!! I had it happen to me.. a 👧 from college 27 years ago hit me on FB. Heavy, kids and all the bullshit.. She used to play hi post and wasted her best years on school. Got 2 kids, unmarried to a cokehead who died of a heart attack at 44 and left nothing! Bunch of degrees and a damn fool. But they can hold that PHd .
The woman talking at 1:18:02 is just Chaotic! Listen to the back and forth her and Kevin have. That chick just says whatever comes to her mind, and the more she talks the more confusing everything gets. Now only does she come with a kid, she also comes with nonsense and chaos. And these women always think it's somebody else fault that they single. And you can't tell them that they ain't a noble woman for leaving a marriage where they always say the man "Cheated". They think they should get the Nobel Peace Prize for leaving the marriage because there was so called "infidelity" let them tell it.
Much love from Australia!!
I’m half black half white,I’m learning so much from you.🙏🏽
QLD.
How is it in Australia fam? I heard women go crazy over there? Is it true?
@@JT-bt6jy it's the best. We have lots of beautiful women.
@@nickc3250 I am talking relationships man. Lot of crazy feminists I heard?
@@JT-bt6jy yeah there are a few. Mainstream media are ruining alot of women's minds. They run a constant campaign of division to divide us. Still not as bad as US media thou. Lucky I've got a fit feminine and cooperative feonsay!
Once you step out of denial... you'll walk into your destiny...
For me personally a woman with children who left her husband is worse than a baby mamma.
The "eggs on life support" bit was BRUTAL! Kevin approached this broadcast with a viciousness never before witnessed!
I love the fact that raising someone else's bastard children matters. Its a concept that women and liberal society has tried to stifle. Women want no consequences for their actions, having a bunch of kids out of wedlock matters.
...and the type of men they're having these kids with makes it matter more.
@@KeepinItOneHunnnid Definitely, and Kevin points that out, often. I love how he asks them why they would have this losers baby, and now bad-mouth him. Zero accountability.
@Proud Habesha Where did he insult kids?
@Proud Habesha bastard means child born out of wedlock. The Lord speaks on this heavy
P-ride
E-go
A-rrogance
S-tubborn
When *PEAS* creep into your relationship or marriage it signals the beginning of the end in that union.
And nobody likes to eat peas! Lol
Dr. Alone! 😂😂😂😂😂 Samuel was one witty savage!
We lost one fine human! 😢
Damn Samuel.. straight ruthless with the truth
A life coach with that energy and reasoning !!!!!
"As the Southerner's always say, I kno dats ryght"; strait wisdom. . .
Damn Kevin you went all the way in on this video!!! 😂 🗣”FINISH HIM!” in my Mortal Kombat voice!!!!
Best "entertaining yet most important informative" talk show out!
I agree! He’s the only one I don’t mind watching for hours
Accountability is key!...
Reality is that unopened door!..
Kevin's kicking the door down with facts!..
OMFG!!! This is why all those girls from the past are contacting me out of the blue??? Nope.
Truth Serum: “Eggs on Life support” & “Open Box Item” ⌛ … ouch!!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Thanks you Mr Samuels 😎
The bombs Kevin dropped on this one....whew chile...💀😩😂
I’ll say this the chick from NY is the first women I’ve seen in 1 year to suggest “maybe I should date a single father”.....it’s about damn time
@@olaakande5581 you’re right. many black women are entitled and “feel” like men should accept their baggage aka kids, but not the other way around. Ppl need to be humble, and accept what they actually qualify for 😩 lol
@@Saiuriyon I’m an African guy who has lived in NY all my life. The amount of single middle aged black American women is alarming. U don’t see Caribbean & African women saying they don’t need or want a man. That’s a sole black American female concept. I just wonder is being single at 42 really empowering to black women? Lol i don’t get it lol
@@olaakande5581 you’re absolutely correct. I’m getting married to a wonderful black man in 6 weeks, and i can feel the saltiness from single aunties, older lonely black American women that i know...that are up in age with nothing in life, but a dog and kids to show for it. No man in sight. From childhood, i knew that wasn’t gonna be me lol. I wish more black American women would be more humble, take accountability, and drop the attitudes, entitlement and delusion. You don’t see women of other nationalities acting like this. They get husbands lol
@@Saiuriyon see that’s sad, them being jealous of u. Man pride is terrible lol. Congratulations on the wedding!!!
Mike Jones! Haven’t heard that song in a long time.
"Back then she didn't want me, now she fat n all on me"! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Who! Mike Jones!
Out of all the suits he wore, this was his most cleanest one😤😤😤
God help you Kevin and grant you more grace to deal with these toxic the world has produce. I feel so stressed just listening to the bs. Bless you man.
Divorced, 34, two children and a life coach?? You cant make this stuff up.
I almost spit out my food when she said that.
It's like a quadriplegic, blind person telling you they're a bus driver.
Kevin is in his 50s, divorced twice and still single. How is he a life coach???????
Easy KS is successfull and women want to marry him. Options and money are real credentials.
@@leonelorozco2514 Kevin has a Lot of Good points but don’t let him fool you 100 percent this is a “ Christian “ but the advice of adultery being fair is not what a Christian should Say that cheating High. Value husband is going to End up in Hell
@@bebornbeyou he is an image consultant not a life coach she said that she is a life coach
My ex was a lawyer. She never listened. It went in one ear and came out of the other which is funny because listening is a fulcrum of her profession.
She was listening.
@@GodIsWatchingYou555 Because you were magically there?