My best friend from age 11 suddenly withdrew her friendship when I got engaged at 28. She was meant to be my chief bridesmaid but she said there was no way she was giving a speech at my wedding. After lots of snarky, passive-aggressive comments from her, I confronted her and she said she was mad at me because I had never supported her relationship when she had dated her ex (he was a jerk (and a former friend of mine) who rubbed everyone the wrong way and then dumped her for no reason months later). Me not being supportive meant I didn't champion the relationship. I never said anything negative, but I was more neutral than positive. I apologised sincerely, but she said it didn't help. She was a bridesmaid, then she disappeared from my life. I saw this scene and wrote her a letter, quoting CC. I sent it. She called me. We met up and talked everything out. We are now closer than ever, 14 years on. She loves my children like they're her own. We spend our Christmases together, travel together, etc.Beaches saved my friendship.
That is a beautiful story, thank you for sharing it. This just happened for me too - only my best friend is with an older married man, who threw her aside three times in the past 8 years, and she is angry with me for not supporting it. I hope in time our story continues happily like yours, but it is terribly painful just now. Your story gave me hope at a time I really needed it. Thank you for this comfort.
Reminds me of Randy Marsh and his family fighting at the dinner table, aided by firearms (in South Park), & of Buffy & Angel fighting, aided by snowfall (in Buffy TVS).
"You took away our friendship without even discussing it with me"! This happened to me. We've been best friends since we were 12. 23 yrs of friendship and then silence with no explanation. 5 years later she calls. I don't know how to forgive that. But I still love her and missed her so much. Can you still love someone and be angry at them? I guess so.
#same No idea, what I did. My BFF blew up on me out of nowhere n threw me out of his house. Even his partner can’t explain what happened. I have tried to reach out n nothing even though I know our friendship will never be the same. I would had preferred he punch me in the face, I am a dude, we throw hands and. That’s that, after we have a beer but throwing me out of his house hit me in a way I can’t never forget. And I love the mf, he is my brother, at the very least I wanna know what was going through his head. Next week on St.Pattys it will be a year. So that’s line... “You took away your friendship without even discussing it with me” has a lot of meaningful power for me.
"You took away your friendship without even discussing it with me! That friendship was more important to me than anything. I trusted it. I believed in it. But you didn't. And now it's gone."
Oh my. This and Terms of Endearment probably the 2 best movies on life’s tragedies well cast well directed and both tear your heart into a million pieces, yet we watch them over and over and learn something new each time.
My best friend passed away after 5.5 years of friendship. I love her like a sister and not a day goes by when I don’t miss her and wish she were still here.
I can so relate to this part of the movie about friendship. It reminds me of my old best friend from my teenage years. She was the best thing that ever happened to me during those years. We met when we were 13 years old. We hit it off right from the start. She was my soul mate. She lifted my spirits and taught me to have confidence in myself. But when we were about 15/16, she decided to gradually take that friendship away. Why, you ask? Because she said I was "preppy" and she didn't like the way I dressed. She wrote that in my yearbook. It still stings when I read it today. And I'm 53 years old. I never got over that. I will never understand how something as silly as how you dress can make someone no longer be your friend. I was still the same person. But that's the way it was back in the 80s. You were either preppy or a "pit" or a punk. I never even considered myself preppy. I wore the clothes my mother bought for me. I liked them. I thought they looked nice on me. I never wore them for a statement. Anyway, that was so long ago but it still breaks my heart into a million pieces. I loved her so much. I still pray for her whenever her name crosses my mind (like right now) because she was the best gift I had in my teenage years. Oh, how I wish things could have been different.
Man, this makes me want to pick up the phone to call my best friend. We had a terrible argument and after months of not speaking... I guess it's time to make things right.
@@marckbrown97 I finally responded to her text message. She called me almost immediately and we talked about our issues and what separated us for the past year. We decided to work on re-building our friendship. Although, I'm slow to fully trust just based on the past experience. I love my friend and I miss her being part of my life. No one can replace her, we've been besties since pre-school.
This movie made a huge impact on my life. I met my best friend Becky when we were 12, I think this came out when we were bout 14. We sat & watched it together & right away we saw alot of ourselves in the charachters, mainly cuz I could sing. My best friend gave me the nickname CC, & she was Hilary and whenever we were together, which was alot we'd watch Beaches. We knew the movie word for word, front to back and knew all the songs, I of course had the soundtrack, lol. We had our ups & downs &
I remember being a little kid when this movie came out and my dad rented it once and was given such a frown when I was with him when he rented it. No one ever understood how I enjoyed it so much more then he did
My best friend and I are still best friends. We met when I was 5 and I am 52 and she’s 54. We got into arguments, but we never held it against each other.
Why? To star in cheesy productions and obsess over yourself for the rest of your life? Her life was pretty empty until she took in the child. Hillary's instincts were correct - go for a stable home and make a family.
You took away our friendship without even discussing it with me' that line hits so hard. I was ghosted by an online friend of 10 plus years out of the blue. I don't know why.
The song made this movie last. I saw it once. Will Watch it again some day. Hershey is beautiful and Midler is an amazing accomplished actress and singer.
Man… so many of us in this comment section going through the same thing. My best friend dumped me earlier this year. We had a fight, and after a couple weeks of taking time apart to deal with our anger, I reached back out to try to get us talking but he wouldn’t answer. I tried for a couple months before I gave up. It’s now been 10 months of not talking. I think of him every day, even when I don’t want to. We were best friends for over 20 years; since we were kids. We were so close. We spoke every single day without fail and now it’s just…. gone. I thought the friendship meant something to him but now I feel foolish for believing that because it was so easy for him to throw away. Sending love to everyone else here who is hurting 💛
Sometimes people are going through depression/ worse. Just imagine you have the chance to talk face to face- u Will meet him VERY soon so prepare yourself, what would u ask him
I met my best friend when i was 17 years . Her name is catherine and shes the best thing that has ever happened to me i love her so much and no matter what has happened good or bad we have dropped everything to go be with each other when it counted the most . We talk everyday n i dont know what i would ever do without her and i pray i never find out . I love you buns your the wind beneath my wings ! ❤
I also met a wonderful girl with the same name- she was the most sensible person in school. She are glasses back then. She never judged me.she inspired me. Wish she was in my life when the chips were down.
Never let other dictate. What you think you need to do. If you patch things up or dont. Trying counts. Especially if it is from the heart. I feel very lost right now myself.
Never understood why this movie is always touted as one of the great friendship movies. That rich girl was a terrible friend! She went after the one guy Bette's character loved. It wasn't like she didn't know.
I agree,it wasn't a great movie.The whole "friendship" thing wasn't really explored.It was like,they meet,they hang out and Hillary croaks.I saw NO real bonding in that movie.
Well technically John never loved CC until Hillary was out of the picture. Look at how he behaved when first meeting CC with the bunny singing thing. There was definitely something there. But the moment he layed eyes on Hillary something was different. He had a sparkle in his eyes that he didn't have 5 minutes ago talking to CC. Hillary and John just had a stronger spark and even when he got with CC he never forgot her. Remember later in the movie when he saw her again? The way he lit up seeing her says it all. And CC saw it too that's why she kind pushed them apart and introduced him to Hillary's new husband. CC loved John from the beginning. But he only liked her as a friend at the time. He had a real connection with Hillary and he really wanted her. But she moved away and they didn't get their chance. It was only then that he started developing romantic feelings for CC. And even then they weren't as strong as the ones he had for Hillary back then.
@@truthseeker9249 Yes, I agree he was interested from the first. But HILLARY knew how much CC loved him. And she did the one thing that would have been the most painful---slept with him.
@@aewtx I mean it's not like she deliberately did it for the sole purpose of hurting CC. She did it because she genuinely liked him back. She felt bad about hurting CC but she really liked John. And life is too short to be missing our on opportunities for happiness. If 2 people are both single they are both allowed to do whatever they want with each other and if someone is jealous or hurt then that's just too bad. Just because someone is your best friend doesn't give then the right to give you the third degree about who you like and who you do things with. Be jealous and be hurt if you want to but that's your problem. Neither one of them was with anyone else so what they did wasn't cheating on anyone. They were 2 single people who wanted each other and that's all that matters.
My best friend of 20 years, who I loved like a sister, got upset at me for something stupid and stopped talking to me cold turkey. It's been 4 years since I've heard from her. So I can totally relate to this scene.
Geesh that totally sucks. She must have had serious stuff going on within herself to just drop you over something stupid. Like unhealed junk within herself. A real & healthy friend wouldn’t just let a friendship drop after 20 years without discussion. The issues clearly on her end. I’m sorry that happened to you 🙁
My best Friend is in a psykward and suffers from psykosis now and refuses to talk to anybody her brother said call that maybe she would talk to me when i asked him about her she answerd the phone to end our friendship saying you dont understand im not the same person anymore dont come wisit me dont call im not in the Body your talking to now i told her i Love her and thats shes perfect the way she is and that she should allways call me IF she ewer needs anything and then she hung Up and never Called after that and refused to talk to me but im gratefull i have had a real best Friend we had so many Good memories we never ewer had a fight in al those years so when i feel that no ones a real Friend i think of her i hope she becomes better but atleast i have had true friendship in life and i dont blame My Friend for feeling like that she cant help it and has had alot of trauma in her life i think shes strong becuse shes Still Alive after al she went through.
My first love did that, post divorce took away his friendship with out an explanation and said some nasty things which was the first time in 38 years he did something. He told me that I had to forgive him because of our history. The comment how can you love someone who breaks your heart . I will have to see.
For awhile there were some yrs we lost touch due to her marriage, her husband was jealous of our friendship. She has 3 kids now, 2 girls & a boy and sadly is in horrible health. She's no longer married but we still don't get to see eachother as much as we'd like, she works all the time. But we've remained best friends thru out it all! She says, U know im gonna die young just like Hilary, I tell her no, I could easily go first. But I think we both know the outcome isn't good, she's even asked me
Yeah! I mean, when i first saw the movie, my dad and i sat down and watched it together. I don't know how i came about having the book but i remember reading it cover to cover. The name in the book is Roberta. The book said that her father was dreaming for a son so when she was born a girl, to ease his dissapointment, he decided to call her Roberta.
@@laurasisson1121 I read Beaches because I'd seen the film, at first I found the plot confusing and so very different from the movie that it almost looked like a different story altogether, like, all those flashbacks, then I re-read it and kind of liked it better... I enjoyed the film much more, though
The notion that Cece is a better friend is absolutely ridiculous. The character herself admits to being selfish, and her own mother rips into her about how she wore everyone out. And Barbara Hershey is lovely and a great actress so I don’t know where the hatred for her comes in either.
I think Hilary should have tried to become like CeCe and maybe she wouldn't be jealous that Cece got the talent. I think Hilary could have some incredible talent like CeCe.
Perhaps “Beaches” is where Sex and the city drew some inspiration from…..except swap out tragic health condition and sad parts with a little bit of slapstick and soft core sexcapades, I guess
To take her kids when she goes, if their not old enough to be on their on. Our lives have so earily taken after our fave movie that I just had to share our own CC & Hilary story, only ours hasnt had an ending yet & I'm so thankful for it. My fave quote from the movie is when CC says, "My memory's long, it's very, very long". And she walks inside & Hil says, "Good, you're gonna need it". Becky, I remember it all, so have no worries if u go first.....
Tina Lancaster Your story is so touching. It made me smile and almost cry at the same time 💜 absolutely beautiful. I hope things will always turn out well for you and your friend
People, who have cynical views about relationships and friendships on this really piss me off!! If you are not prepared to trust anyone, who like to be your friend!! Then, you are really going to be in for a very long and lonely life
You have to make some type of an effort to meet people and make you friends!! I also hate when people whom have no friends, when they say that it is not their fault that they don't have any friends!!!! That really just makes me laugh!! 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
I swear this is another Mandela effect- I distinctly remember CeCe saying, “Well look what the cat dragged in.” Not, “Look who’s here.” Anybody else???
Cici had flaws of her own, but I was always on her side & I think she was a better friend than Hillary. Cici let Hillary stay with her after years of not seeing her. Hillary slept with the guy she knew Cici was interested in, but Cici still forgave her. Hillary had a lot of nerve being jealous of Cici's success.
I think we can assume it hadn't been that long-C hadn't hit her major success yet and H's marriage was already falling apart when they had their falling out.
My friend and I had an argument he hung up on me , on 1/15/22 (I deal with quite a bit of mental issues) and he can’t apparently handle it. And said I talk a lot of bs, and I’m a sarcastic asshole. Guess maybe I am an odd one , some things I don’t let go to easily I sent the dvd to John. All because of this scene I wanted him to see what he threw away all in one day. It arrives today at his address
What did Hilary have on her heart? I know this movie is about Friendship and this is when they became apart and they had a fight! Cece & HIlary had a fight and then they made up! Hilary's father died and that's why she so bitter! There was that moment were she couldn't find a picture of her mother's hands? I didn't understand that part!
Bit late of a reply but Hillary had cardiomyopathy, a disease that affects the heart muscle. Regarding the bit with her mother's hands, it was a small but major detail that she can't remember - it made her fearful that Victoria wouldn't remember such personal things about her after she passes. That's what led her to choose CC to be Victoria's legal guardian because CC is the only person that knew the real Hillary and she can keep Victoria's memory of her going.
"You and your GOD-DAMNED LETTERS!" It just rolls off the tongue and the rhythm is better. For as crazy about money as we are and with the bizarro political climate, it actually makes me laugh that we are still so puritanical about goddammit! I was always told to Let it go, give it up to god. So if i'm saying I won't go hard to damn this bad situation.... Or my bad behavior... I Thought it was a good thing. But then again, I would not go to confession because when if God sees everything.Do we have to tell the priest?And I and I got punished as well aslapped and spanked. I was always a very good boy and did what I was told because my father was someone who excelled at beatings. If they had just explained to me that it was about purging your sins and behaviors...fine. But they tried to make me feel stupid.And I was not going to participate in that shit! For years I was a 'Recovering Catholic'...Recovered now but without sarcasm and zero resentment. I don't make fun of other people's faiths. That's cruel and.
My best friend from age 11 suddenly withdrew her friendship when I got engaged at 28. She was meant to be my chief bridesmaid but she said there was no way she was giving a speech at my wedding. After lots of snarky, passive-aggressive comments from her, I confronted her and she said she was mad at me because I had never supported her relationship when she had dated her ex (he was a jerk (and a former friend of mine) who rubbed everyone the wrong way and then dumped her for no reason months later). Me not being supportive meant I didn't champion the relationship. I never said anything negative, but I was more neutral than positive. I apologised sincerely, but she said it didn't help. She was a bridesmaid, then she disappeared from my life. I saw this scene and wrote her a letter, quoting CC. I sent it. She called me. We met up and talked everything out. We are now closer than ever, 14 years on. She loves my children like they're her own. We spend our Christmases together, travel together, etc.Beaches saved my friendship.
This is a GREAT comment. I really appreciate your sharing it. Wonderful on your friendship, too
That is a beautiful story, thank you for sharing it. This just happened for me too - only my best friend is with an older married man, who threw her aside three times in the past 8 years, and she is angry with me for not supporting it. I hope in time our story continues happily like yours, but it is terribly painful just now. Your story gave me hope at a time I really needed it. Thank you for this comfort.
That's beautiful 🥲🥲🥲
Maybe I can heal a friendship too using this amazing scene.
My best friend and I have been friends since I was was 12. We've fought and have always made up. The love I her is as a sister.
"Hilary...what's yodeling got to do with it?" That line gets me every time . I don't know why. 😆
Me too its such a funny thing to say in the middle of this conversation..my favorite movie of all time 🥰
Why do friends do that were trying to rekindle our friendship n then u bring up yodeling.... Gotta love them!
Lol
It's the way she says it for me. Classic Bette. Funniest actress imo.
Cause it's Bette Midler saying it that's why!!
This isn't a fight. It's aggressive complimenting.
Reminds me of Randy Marsh and his family fighting at the dinner table, aided by firearms (in South Park), & of Buffy & Angel fighting, aided by snowfall (in Buffy TVS).
Ok that reminded me of Toy Story 😂
"This isn't flying...it's falling...with style"
Great Movie and excellent casting and great Songs ! Oh how I miss the 80’s
I love this movie
Just to get them made me feel Important..
That friendship was worth more to me than anything.
I can't even yodel!! That part gets me every time😂
Glad I’m not the only one
@@collinnc2001 you are definitely not!
Yodeling is hard 😂
"You took away our friendship without even discussing it with me"! This happened to me. We've been best friends since we were 12. 23 yrs of friendship and then silence with no explanation. 5 years later she calls. I don't know how to forgive that. But I still love her and missed her so much. Can you still love someone and be angry at them? I guess so.
YES!! I LOVE MY BFF
#same
No idea, what I did. My BFF blew up on me out of nowhere n threw me out of his house. Even his partner can’t explain what happened. I have tried to reach out n nothing even though I know our friendship will never be the same. I would had preferred he punch me in the face, I am a dude, we throw hands and. That’s that, after we have a beer but throwing me out of his house hit me in a way I can’t never forget. And I love the mf, he is my brother, at the very least I wanna know what was going through his head. Next week on St.Pattys it will be a year.
So that’s line...
“You took away your friendship without even discussing it with me” has a lot of meaningful power for me.
Yes me too, I feel you. Over 25 years of friendship, and no explanation. I felt this scene and made me cry!
Did she explain her actions ?? 5 years of silence etc ?
My best friend said some hurtful things to me. And even though im hurt i still love her but cant forgive her… its complicated
"You took away your friendship without even discussing it with me!
That friendship was more important to me than anything. I trusted it. I believed in it. But you didn't. And now it's gone."
Oh my. This and Terms of Endearment probably the 2 best movies on life’s tragedies well cast well directed and both tear your heart into a million pieces, yet we watch them over and over and learn something new each time.
“it looks like a flamingo threw up in here”
Love that part!!
I dont think the club looks that bad.
Definitely in the top five of best films in cinematic history. And I love, love, love this scene.
best movie ever!
Tru dat 👍👍👍👍💖💖💖
My best friend passed away after 5.5 years of friendship. I love her like a sister and not a day goes by when I don’t miss her and wish she were still here.
( so sorry)....😢
I am also very sorry, I know how you feel, lost 2 friends, both died young.
I'm so very sorry. It's so hard to lose a good friend :-((
I'm sorry
I can so relate to this part of the movie about friendship. It reminds me of my old best friend from my teenage years. She was the best thing that ever happened to me during those years. We met when we were 13 years old. We hit it off right from the start. She was my soul mate. She lifted my spirits and taught me to have confidence in myself. But when we were about 15/16, she decided to gradually take that friendship away. Why, you ask? Because she said I was "preppy" and she didn't like the way I dressed. She wrote that in my yearbook. It still stings when I read it today. And I'm 53 years old. I never got over that. I will never understand how something as silly as how you dress can make someone no longer be your friend. I was still the same person. But that's the way it was back in the 80s. You were either preppy or a "pit" or a punk. I never even considered myself preppy. I wore the clothes my mother bought for me. I liked them. I thought they looked nice on me. I never wore them for a statement. Anyway, that was so long ago but it still breaks my heart into a million pieces. I loved her so much. I still pray for her whenever her name crosses my mind (like right now) because she was the best gift I had in my teenage years. Oh, how I wish things could have been different.
Man, this makes me want to pick up the phone to call my best friend. We had a terrible argument and after months of not speaking... I guess it's time to make things right.
I hope that you did and that things are okay now.
I’d love to know how it went, hope you’re okay whatever the outcome was.
@@marckbrown97 I finally responded to her text message. She called me almost immediately and we talked about our issues and what separated us for the past year. We decided to work on re-building our friendship. Although, I'm slow to fully trust just based on the past experience. I love my friend and I miss her being part of my life. No one can replace her, we've been besties since pre-school.
@cj perrin We actually talked! We're in a better place now.
@@phoenixez1734 brilliant, that’s amazing to hear, hopefully it stays that way my friend 😊😊
I'll always love this movie....more than the Notebook!!!!
Yes!
This movie made a huge impact on my life. I met my best friend Becky when we were 12, I think this came out when we were bout 14. We sat & watched it together & right away we saw alot of ourselves in the charachters, mainly cuz I could sing. My best friend gave me the nickname CC, & she was Hilary and whenever we were together, which was alot we'd watch Beaches. We knew the movie word for word, front to back and knew all the songs, I of course had the soundtrack, lol. We had our ups & downs &
Tina Lancaster beautiful story
I remember being a little kid when this movie came out and my dad rented it once and was given such a frown when I was with him when he rented it. No one ever understood how I enjoyed it so much more then he did
Barbara Hershey. The camera LOVES you!
Classic, must have movie.
Im literally in tears!!!
My best friend and I are still best friends. We met when I was 5 and I am 52 and she’s 54. We got into arguments, but we never held it against each other.
Best make up scene *EVER*
Have the courage to be a Cici in life or have regrets
Why? To star in cheesy productions and obsess over yourself for the rest of your life? Her life was pretty empty until she took in the child. Hillary's instincts were correct - go for a stable home and make a family.
You took away our friendship without even discussing it with me' that line hits so hard. I was ghosted by an online friend of 10 plus years out of the blue. I don't know why.
Me 2 …it’s awful people do not love unconditionally like the movies 🤷🏻♀️💔
Yea
Famously the top must see films, acting superb
I love this movie, their friendship is so wonderful in that it endures for this long.
I have never ever forgotten this scene....it seriously made me become a better friend
Damn this movie hits different as an adult! 🥺
This is a powerful scene, they become closer and their friendship becomes stronger.
Bette Midler and Barbara Hershey Is wonderful in this movie. 🤩
I look at Barbara Hershey in this and she was so underrated. She was amazing. Hated her in once upon a time cause she was such a sadistic person.
Wow Tina Lancaster your story and frie ndship with Becky moves me and pulls at my heartstrings. God bless you bothm
The song made this movie last. I saw it once. Will Watch it again some day. Hershey is beautiful and Midler is an amazing accomplished actress and singer.
I really love this movie!!:)
Man… so many of us in this comment section going through the same thing. My best friend dumped me earlier this year. We had a fight, and after a couple weeks of taking time apart to deal with our anger, I reached back out to try to get us talking but he wouldn’t answer. I tried for a couple months before I gave up. It’s now been 10 months of not talking. I think of him every day, even when I don’t want to. We were best friends for over 20 years; since we were kids. We were so close. We spoke every single day without fail and now it’s just…. gone. I thought the friendship meant something to him but now I feel foolish for believing that because it was so easy for him to throw away.
Sending love to everyone else here who is hurting 💛
Sometimes people are going through depression/ worse. Just imagine you have the chance to talk face to face- u Will meet him VERY soon so prepare yourself, what would u ask him
I met my best friend when i was 17 years . Her name is catherine and shes the best thing that has ever happened to me i love her so much and no matter what has happened good or bad we have dropped everything to go be with each other when it counted the most . We talk everyday n i dont know what i would ever do without her and i pray i never find out . I love you buns your the wind beneath my wings ! ❤
I also met a wonderful girl with the same name- she was the most sensible person in school. She are glasses back then. She never judged me.she inspired me. Wish she was in my life when the chips were down.
Such excellent acting and script! Love this movie.
I love this scene. It makes me cry.
Never let other dictate. What you think you need to do. If you patch things up or dont. Trying counts. Especially if it is from the heart. I feel very lost right now myself.
Every time I see this opening scene I think Bette is going to say, 'Well look what the cat dragged in ...' 😆
This brought tears to my eyes love this movie 💞🥰
When Hillary says You did everything you said that you were going to do everything and then that look on cc’s face gets me
This is so me and the current. LOL. What a compelling and beautiful love song.
Two of the best actresses
Never understood why this movie is always touted as one of the great friendship movies. That rich girl was a terrible friend! She went after the one guy Bette's character loved. It wasn't like she didn't know.
Most rich girls like her are like that though. The entitlement is strong.
I agree,it wasn't a great movie.The whole "friendship" thing wasn't really explored.It was like,they meet,they hang out and Hillary croaks.I saw NO real bonding in that movie.
Well technically John never loved CC until Hillary was out of the picture. Look at how he behaved when first meeting CC with the bunny singing thing. There was definitely something there. But the moment he layed eyes on Hillary something was different. He had a sparkle in his eyes that he didn't have 5 minutes ago talking to CC. Hillary and John just had a stronger spark and even when he got with CC he never forgot her. Remember later in the movie when he saw her again? The way he lit up seeing her says it all. And CC saw it too that's why she kind pushed them apart and introduced him to Hillary's new husband. CC loved John from the beginning. But he only liked her as a friend at the time. He had a real connection with Hillary and he really wanted her. But she moved away and they didn't get their chance. It was only then that he started developing romantic feelings for CC. And even then they weren't as strong as the ones he had for Hillary back then.
@@truthseeker9249 Yes, I agree he was interested from the first. But HILLARY knew how much CC loved him. And she did the one thing that would have been the most painful---slept with him.
@@aewtx I mean it's not like she deliberately did it for the sole purpose of hurting CC. She did it because she genuinely liked him back. She felt bad about hurting CC but she really liked John. And life is too short to be missing our on opportunities for happiness. If 2 people are both single they are both allowed to do whatever they want with each other and if someone is jealous or hurt then that's just too bad. Just because someone is your best friend doesn't give then the right to give you the third degree about who you like and who you do things with. Be jealous and be hurt if you want to but that's your problem. Neither one of them was with anyone else so what they did wasn't cheating on anyone. They were 2 single people who wanted each other and that's all that matters.
Cece was a better friend than Hilary. But Hilary admired Cece so much. Together it made them perfect for one another.
This is best friends
Yep 😢 miss Jane. Xx
My best friend of 20 years, who I loved like a sister, got upset at me for something stupid and stopped talking to me cold turkey. It's been 4 years since I've heard from her. So I can totally relate to this scene.
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Geesh that totally sucks. She must have had serious stuff going on within herself to just drop you over something stupid. Like unhealed junk within herself. A real & healthy friend wouldn’t just let a friendship drop after 20 years without discussion. The issues clearly on her end. I’m sorry that happened to you 🙁
@@Goldenrod39 Thank you. I agree with you.
This is a damned good scene!!
My best Friend is in a psykward and suffers from psykosis now and refuses to talk to anybody her brother said call that maybe she would talk to me when i asked him about her she answerd the phone to end our friendship saying you dont understand im not the same person anymore dont come wisit me dont call im not in the Body your talking to now i told her i Love her and thats shes perfect the way she is and that she should allways call me IF she ewer needs anything and then she hung Up and never Called after that and refused to talk to me but im gratefull i have had a real best Friend we had so many Good memories we never ewer had a fight in al those years so when i feel that no ones a real Friend i think of her i hope she becomes better but atleast i have had true friendship in life and i dont blame My Friend for feeling like that she cant help it and has had alot of trauma in her life i think shes strong becuse shes Still Alive after al she went through.
Why do we call power struggles friendship?
I wish I was a cc but sadly I think I’m a Hillary 😢
Bang on.
Stunning impacts!
I wish this was on youtube
My first love did that, post divorce took away his friendship with out an explanation and said some nasty things which was the first time in 38 years he did something. He told me that I had to forgive him because of our history. The comment how can you love someone who breaks your heart . I will have to see.
My favorite scene classic
best scene in the movie!
These are all your wealthy friends a friend sayed to me 2 times in disgust who I grew up with in a private Baptist school.
The two are having a good friendship
For awhile there were some yrs we lost touch due to her marriage, her husband was jealous of our friendship. She has 3 kids now, 2 girls & a boy and sadly is in horrible health. She's no longer married but we still don't get to see eachother as much as we'd like, she works all the time. But we've remained best friends thru out it all! She says, U know im gonna die young just like Hilary, I tell her no, I could easily go first. But I think we both know the outcome isn't good, she's even asked me
I wish I could find the rest of this scene and the next one.
Hillary's name was Bertie in the book, so now when I watch this movie, I'm like BERTIE every time they call her Hill or anything hahah
Yeah! I mean, when i first saw the movie, my dad and i sat down and watched it together. I don't know how i came about having the book but i remember reading it cover to cover. The name in the book is Roberta. The book said that her father was dreaming for a son so when she was born a girl, to ease his dissapointment, he decided to call her Roberta.
I didn't like the book. Did you
@@laurasisson1121 I read Beaches because I'd seen the film, at first I found the plot confusing and so very different from the movie that it almost looked like a different story altogether, like, all those flashbacks, then I re-read it and kind of liked it better... I enjoyed the film much more, though
And my best friend shared me this movie 😊
The notion that Cece is a better friend is absolutely ridiculous. The character herself admits to being selfish, and her own mother rips into her about how she wore everyone out. And Barbara Hershey is lovely and a great actress so I don’t know where the hatred for her comes in either.
Sometimes that's the way I feel about my best friend who lost her mother yet in talking to her ex boyfriend who became between us years ago
Cici was a way better friend
Here for Ta 😚😚
I think Hilary should have tried to become like CeCe and maybe she wouldn't be jealous that Cece got the talent. I think Hilary could have some incredible talent like CeCe.
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They kinda look like 80s Carrie Bradshaw and Charlotte York
Perhaps “Beaches” is where Sex and the city drew some inspiration from…..except swap out tragic health condition and sad parts with a little bit of slapstick and soft core sexcapades, I guess
I thought the same thing...LOL!
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To take her kids when she goes, if their not old enough to be on their on. Our lives have so earily taken after our fave movie that I just had to share our own CC & Hilary story, only ours hasnt had an ending yet & I'm so thankful for it. My fave quote from the movie is when CC says, "My memory's long, it's very, very long". And she walks inside & Hil says, "Good, you're gonna need it". Becky, I remember it all, so have no worries if u go first.....
Tina Lancaster Your story is so touching. It made me smile and almost cry at the same time 💜 absolutely beautiful. I hope things will always turn out well for you and your friend
I would like to tell these things to a former friend of my who ghosted me. I’m still so hurt by it.
It's such a toxic friendship. And we all can relate.
Kelly Millward, please stop talking out of your arse
@@evelynnelavelle2015 Yes Marm. As you wish.
People, who have cynical views about relationships and friendships on this really piss me off!! If you are not prepared to trust anyone, who like to be your friend!! Then, you are really going to be in for a very long and lonely life
@@evelynnelavelle2015 How do you know it will be long as opposed to short? Asking for a friend.
You have to make some type of an effort to meet people and make you friends!! I also hate when people whom have no friends, when they say that it is not their fault that they don't have any friends!!!! That really just makes me laugh!! 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Was this on a bible channel because they took out "Damn" and "hell" and bible channels won't allow those words aired on their network.
I swear this is another Mandela effect- I distinctly remember CeCe saying, “Well look what the cat dragged in.” Not, “Look who’s here.” Anybody else???
Omg Yes! What the heck ?!?
No
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Cici had flaws of her own, but I was always on her side & I think she was a better friend than Hillary. Cici let Hillary stay with her after years of not seeing her. Hillary slept with the guy she knew Cici was interested in, but Cici still forgave her. Hillary had a lot of nerve being jealous of Cici's success.
Wow, 2 metres apart even then!
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How long did their fight last? How much time passed between the fight in the department store and here?
It was at least 3 months because she's 3 months pregnant. But I want to say it was more than that.
@@truthseeker9249 I thought it was around 6 months-1 year.
@@qwertasdcfghjklmo24z Yeah that's what it felt like to me too.
I just has a big fight with my childhood best friend; she even blocked me from all social media platform, im just hoping we will make up one day
Write her an email or sent a letter
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How many years had it been since these two had seen each other?
I think we can assume it hadn't been that long-C hadn't hit her major success yet and H's marriage was already falling apart when they had their falling out.
I assumed it was around 3-4 months.
At this point it was over a year since their fight in NY. Both CC and Hilary gad got divorced and Hilary had found out she was pregnant.
@@stephaniegittinger7980 I thought it had been a couple of years maybe three years
@@JayJay-nc7pr you could be right
My friend took her friendship away after I bought her a birthday present
Mine did after I bought her a very nice souvenir from vacation. I came back and it was all different.
It looks like a flamingo threw up in here but i dont forgive you !!!
Its ok well look whos here. Did you realize my life was in a tolite go home i have nothing to say to you!!!xo u n ur dame letters
How can Hillary say she can't or know how to fight back, she's not strong like CeeCee, but Hillary's a Lawyer?
Good point lol but she didn’t have nearly as much energy and she was progressively getting more ill
Being able to argue the word of law vs a relationship is different skills.
Oh come on! You cut the clip before one of the best parts of that scene when she finds out Hillary is pregnant!!
"You've got so fat!" Haha
True. I was waiting for that too.
My friend and I had an argument he hung up on me , on 1/15/22 (I deal with quite a bit of mental issues) and he can’t apparently handle it. And said I talk a lot of bs, and I’m a sarcastic asshole.
Guess maybe I am an odd one , some things I don’t let go to easily I sent the dvd to John. All because of this scene I wanted him to see what he threw away all in one day. It arrives today at his address
Come to Islam n success
This is not the whole scene.
Thank you so much for forgiving me, BUT I don’t forgive you!! Never a truer word said when 2:15 your let down by ppl who pretend to be your friend.
Love Barbara Hershey but couldn't recognize her all that much in this movie shoulda left that lip injection alone
What did Hilary have on her heart? I know this movie is about Friendship and this is when they became apart and they had a fight! Cece & HIlary had a fight and then they made up! Hilary's father died and that's why she so bitter! There was that moment were she couldn't find a picture of her mother's hands? I didn't understand that part!
She doesn't remember the small details about her mother, and she's afraid her daughter won't remember the details about her.
Bit late of a reply but Hillary had cardiomyopathy, a disease that affects the heart muscle. Regarding the bit with her mother's hands, it was a small but major detail that she can't remember - it made her fearful that Victoria wouldn't remember such personal things about her after she passes. That's what led her to choose CC to be Victoria's legal guardian because CC is the only person that knew the real Hillary and she can keep Victoria's memory of her going.
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That’s not Beth medler
"You and your GOD-DAMNED LETTERS!"
It just rolls off the tongue and the rhythm is better.
For as crazy about money as we are and with the bizarro political climate, it actually makes me laugh that we are still so puritanical about goddammit!
I was always told to Let it go, give it up to god.
So if i'm saying I won't go hard to damn this bad situation.... Or my bad behavior... I Thought it was a good thing.
But then again, I would not go to confession because when if God sees everything.Do we have to tell the priest?And I and I got punished as well aslapped and spanked.
I was always a very good boy and did what I was told because my father was someone who excelled at beatings.
If they had just explained to me that it was about purging your sins and behaviors...fine.
But they tried to make me feel stupid.And I was not going to participate in that shit!
For years I was a 'Recovering Catholic'...Recovered now but without sarcasm and zero resentment.
I don't make fun of other people's faiths. That's cruel and.