Host agah ... Poori Koshish kr rahy h k joint family system theak nh h.... Jb k guest agah is k opposite reaction de rahy hain..... Any ways boht hi practical and best program ...
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Salamun alaikum Bohot hi achche se aap ne Marefat di he, khuda ham sab ko Toufikata aata kre ke pehle ham insab bato par amal kare aur hamre bachcho ko bhi us tarha se Tabiyat kare jis tarha aghaa aap ne itna achche se jo bate batayi he.. Alhamdulillahi Allaa kulle haal💐💐 Jazkllah khair Sabeel media all khuda aap ko imam ke janeesahro me samil kare Ameen
Assalam o alikum agha Sahab......shadi KY bad ak couples KO kasy rehna chaiye UN ki Kia zimydariyan Hoti Hain .......ak dosry KY hoqoq KY bary mn batain......wait karyn gy agli video Ka
salam apka ye programme ane wali generations ke lie inshallah mufeed hoga ye kuchh sawalat the jo maine kiye hai taki inka jawab sabhi logo tak pahunchei mamnoon misham jinki sirf betiyan hai or bete nh h or betio ki shadi ho jaye to unke maa baap ka khyal kon rkhega wo bina apne shohar ki ijazt na milne pr apne maa baap ke akhrjaat kaise uthayei ? joint family or betiyan apne shohr k ghar mei reh kar uski ijazat k bina koi job bhi nh kr skti hai to aisi condition mei lrki k bude maa baap ka kon khyal rkhega? kya ittehad or ittefaq ek ghar mei rehne se hi hota hai ? or hamare imamo ki zindagi mei hamne dekha hai ke imame hassan as ka ghar alag tha or imame hussain as ka ghar alag tha lekin mahallae bani hashim yani mehalla ek tha but also unmei ittehad tha ? joint family mei reh kar devar or jheth se parda karna mtlb din ke km se km 10 ghnte full hijab mei reh kar sare kam krna khatoon k liye sakht hai jaisa ki ap jnte hai ke hamare yaha makano ka structure kis trh ka hota hai kaise bane hote hai jbki wo alag reh kar apne ghar mei comfortable reh skti h or dil halka or batei or mashwara to ham ek doosre ke ghar jakar bhi kar skte hai sharing bhi ham kr sakte h unke ghar jakar de sakte hai kya joint family ideal hai ? konse imam joint family mei rehte the apne bhaiyon ko or bv ko ek ghar mei rkhte the ? apk kis base pe keh reh h ke khuda k nazdeek joint family ideal hai koi hadees ya ayat plz bataiye ? or bachhe pe jo joint family mei toxicity bad jati hai uska kya ? kyu k rishtedar lagatar apke bachho ko target kr rhe hote hai kyu k sab deen pade hue nhi hai? hadees bataie or imamo ki zindgi se bataie k joint family ideal hai ? ap or ham educated h pr jo bude hote h ya uneducated hai to unko samjhana possible hota hi?
Jo Islam c sekha ma jb bachon ki shadi kron gi tu un ko portion ki space Don gi kitchen laundery rooms .interfere ni kron gi .ta k bachy apny lehaz c mamlat agy la k chalain.insan ko apni responsibility ka ehsas khud hona chahye ye k ultimate reality ha sb bachy equal ni hoty ; ma na 20 years guzary ar ab b guzar ri hn sacrifice sirf ma hi kr ri hn koi aya gya kuch b karna .is ka nuqsan apny bachon ko ma prha hi ni saki q k sas ki priority rotie sfai ar ejaradarie. Eik entertainment life ho saktie ha but 35:14 jhn chuhlian gebat led down ho sakta mager khuda ko yaad rakhny k liy time ni milta.mil Jul k sath sath reh lain mager apny apny ghar apni zumedari utha k maa baap jasy b hn un ko zaror apny sath rakhain q k wo hi asal ma app ki ikjlaqi ar deenie zimedarie ha
Sab log chahte h bahu shadi k baad apne ghr (mayke) ka rehen sehen., waha ka khana sab kuch chodkkr sab sasural k tariqe apnaae... Kya yehi shadi kehlati h...? Aur agar yehi shadi h to ldke walo ko ldkiya bachpan s apne pas hi paal lena chahiye, so that wahi ka sab kuch wo shuru s seekhe,.. Leaving ur own family, friend circle, society, ur choices, ur desires is worst thing in marriage
Meri bhabhi b alg ho gyi h .... Ab un se bchy handle nh ho rahy akely.... Na hi budget maintain kr pa rahy hain wo.... Bcho ki health daily basis pr weak ho rahi h.... Kia kr skty hain hm...
mujhe aisa lgta hai ke mard hamesha sirf apne matlb ki bat karte hai for an example they use to say k khudmat sas sasur ki lrki pr farz nh h lekin akhlaq la taqaza hai okay i understand but lrki ke maa baap yani lrke k sas sasur bhi hote h tab ye akhlaqi khidmt kidhr jati h jitne bhi fawaed apne batayei h joint family mei reh ke har ek nuclear family mei reh kar bhi possible hota hai but jo nuqasanat hote h joint family mei reh kar unki koi bharpai nh hai
Molana sab plz answer me app ka podcast incomplete ha q k bht c cheezain app na elaborate ni ki ; dever jeth khan c aik jaga reh sakty hn khan shriat ki pabandie ho saktie thi ; mjy kisi sahabi ya nabi ki shariat ya masoomien c sabat krain.hn ab maa baap ki baat ha tu wo ulad ki zimaedarie ha un k sath Acha raviya ka saber ka swab ha; but is relation ma. B space honi chahye .jasy meri sas hr baat ma interfere krti hn ar ma apny dil ma ye kh daitie hn khuda tu daikh ra.sath b ma hi rehtie hn.app ko ima masoomien ki examples daini chahye jo k app na sb dunyavie examples di hn
Ager islam may joint family system promote krta hai tu iran may nuclear system kyu hai? Joint family is the core reason why wife and husband are frustrated and are going towards haram, because of lack of space and lack privacy.
Joint family is just a South Asian concept. If you look at other Muslim countries especially Iran, they prefer nuclear family system. Why haven't our Imameen ever suggested to live in joint family set up? If there's so much toxicity among family members, no one respects anyone's boundaries and if there is a lot of interferences then it can never work instead it would adds more issues and frustrations among husband and wife. Also, boys family feels entitled to live with their sons until the end but if someone has daughters only then our society doesn't let the girl to live with their parents after marriage, shouldn't rules be the same for both set of parents? In today's world and age joint family brings more problems than solutions as everyone ends up interfering with the newly married couple. In laws are usually quiet rigid and they want the girl to "apni jagah khud banao" rather than giving her time and space to adjust naturally. Also, all the home chores and responsibilities are assigned to the new bride instead of dividing the chores. If proper balance isn't maintained (which rarely happens) then this setup is doomed to work. Also, why does it have to reach to the point where people start suffering from mental health issues before they are separated. Why can't we, by default give the new couple a separate space to live in which they can start a new family with new traditions and rules of their own. The rules and traditions set by the in laws worked for their time and family dynamics. When a girl and a boy marries, they are family of their own so they should have the right to decide what should or shouldn't work for their home environment. You can't live with outdated rules of previous generation. This is why it's important for the new couple to start a separate set up of their own. They don't have to cut off with the family instead both can spend equal time with their parents and love and respect stays the same. This podcast is quiet in favor of joint family but doesn't address the issues faced by the girl who enters a new family.
Very important and knowledgeable issue in the society
Thank you Sabeel podcast talking about recent issue that seems in the social media time life ...
Solution yai hai k mentally change karain, aik cultural behavior ban Chuka hai Jahan women's targeted Hain bohot.
yes we need to change our EnvirOmint this is very impact our society
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Host agah ... Poori Koshish kr rahy h k joint family system theak nh h.... Jb k guest agah is k opposite reaction de rahy hain..... Any ways boht hi practical and best program ...
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Bht acha silsila hy Apka podcasts ka, momineen K liye ek naimat Hain APK Sabhi channels,, ek request krni thi K Imam E zamana a.s K Bary m podcasts ka silsila start kren plz, HM sb apny wqt K Imam K mazeed qareeb hona chahty Hain, shukriya
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Excellent session
Good topic
It was really very helpful for me
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A truly informative podcast and great analysis by Maulana Azeem Sahab🙌🏻
Good questions asked and replied best
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Bohot hi achche se aap ne Marefat di he, khuda ham sab ko Toufikata aata kre ke pehle ham insab bato par amal kare aur hamre bachcho ko bhi us tarha se Tabiyat kare jis tarha aghaa aap ne itna achche se jo bate batayi he.. Alhamdulillahi Allaa kulle haal💐💐
Jazkllah khair Sabeel media all khuda aap ko imam ke janeesahro me samil kare Ameen
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Stay blessed...
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Jza kallah...Most important topic
Very good session... We need such sessions more.. Spl for men's their responsibilities and support towards family development and financial management
And also for women to be patient in the joint family system
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Assalam o alikum agha Sahab......shadi KY bad ak couples KO kasy rehna chaiye UN ki Kia zimydariyan Hoti Hain .......ak dosry KY hoqoq KY bary mn batain......wait karyn gy agli video Ka
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salam
apka ye programme ane wali generations ke lie inshallah mufeed hoga
ye kuchh sawalat the jo maine kiye hai taki inka jawab sabhi logo tak pahunchei
mamnoon misham
jinki sirf betiyan hai or bete nh h or betio ki shadi ho jaye to unke maa baap ka khyal kon rkhega wo bina apne shohar ki ijazt na milne pr apne maa baap ke akhrjaat kaise uthayei ?
joint family or betiyan apne shohr k ghar mei reh kar uski ijazat k bina koi job bhi nh kr skti hai to aisi condition mei lrki k bude maa baap ka kon khyal rkhega?
kya ittehad or ittefaq ek ghar mei rehne se hi hota hai ?
or hamare imamo ki zindagi mei hamne dekha hai ke imame hassan as ka ghar alag tha or imame hussain as ka ghar alag tha lekin mahallae bani hashim yani mehalla ek tha but also unmei ittehad tha ? joint family mei reh kar devar or jheth se parda karna mtlb din ke km se km 10 ghnte full hijab mei reh kar sare kam krna khatoon k liye sakht hai jaisa ki ap jnte hai ke hamare yaha makano ka structure kis trh ka hota hai kaise bane hote hai jbki wo alag reh kar apne ghar mei comfortable reh skti h
or dil halka or batei or mashwara to ham ek doosre ke ghar jakar bhi kar skte hai
sharing bhi ham kr sakte h unke ghar jakar de sakte hai
kya joint family ideal hai ? konse imam joint family mei rehte the apne bhaiyon ko or bv ko ek ghar mei rkhte the ?
apk kis base pe keh reh h ke khuda k nazdeek joint family ideal hai koi hadees ya ayat plz bataiye ?
or bachhe pe jo joint family mei toxicity bad jati hai uska kya ? kyu k rishtedar lagatar apke bachho ko target kr rhe hote hai kyu k sab deen pade hue nhi hai?
hadees bataie or imamo ki zindgi se bataie k joint family ideal hai ?
ap or ham educated h pr jo bude hote h ya uneducated hai to unko samjhana possible hota hi?
Salaam
Holy prophet saw aur 1st lmam as konse system me rehte the?
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Jo Islam c sekha ma jb bachon ki shadi kron gi tu un ko portion ki space Don gi kitchen laundery rooms .interfere ni kron gi .ta k bachy apny lehaz c mamlat agy la k chalain.insan ko apni responsibility ka ehsas khud hona chahye ye k ultimate reality ha sb bachy equal ni hoty ; ma na 20 years guzary ar ab b guzar ri hn sacrifice sirf ma hi kr ri hn koi aya gya kuch b karna .is ka nuqsan apny bachon ko ma prha hi ni saki q k sas ki priority rotie sfai ar ejaradarie. Eik entertainment life ho saktie ha but 35:14 jhn chuhlian gebat led down ho sakta mager khuda ko yaad rakhny k liy time ni milta.mil Jul k sath sath reh lain mager apny apny ghar apni zumedari utha k maa baap jasy b hn un ko zaror apny sath rakhain q k wo hi asal ma app ki ikjlaqi ar deenie zimedarie ha
Sab log chahte h bahu shadi k baad apne ghr (mayke) ka rehen sehen., waha ka khana sab kuch chodkkr sab sasural k tariqe apnaae... Kya yehi shadi kehlati h...? Aur agar yehi shadi h to ldke walo ko ldkiya bachpan s apne pas hi paal lena chahiye, so that wahi ka sab kuch wo shuru s seekhe,..
Leaving ur own family, friend circle, society, ur choices, ur desires is worst thing in marriage
Es topic p tu 4-5 episodes tu bantay he hai har issue p baat karein plz
Meri bhabhi b alg ho gyi h .... Ab un se bchy handle nh ho rahy akely.... Na hi budget maintain kr pa rahy hain wo.... Bcho ki health daily basis pr weak ho rahi h.... Kia kr skty hain hm...
what about living with devar who is namehram it's not easy to manage proper sharai hijab in joint family system it's so difficult practivally
Khoon jalane valo ke sath reh sakte hai??
mujhe aisa lgta hai ke mard hamesha sirf apne matlb ki bat karte hai for an example they use to say k khudmat sas sasur ki lrki pr farz nh h lekin akhlaq la taqaza hai okay i understand but lrki ke maa baap yani lrke k sas sasur bhi hote h tab ye akhlaqi khidmt kidhr jati h
jitne bhi fawaed apne batayei h joint family mei reh ke har ek nuclear family mei reh kar bhi possible hota hai but jo nuqasanat hote h joint family mei reh kar unki koi bharpai nh hai
Molana sab plz answer me app ka podcast incomplete ha q k bht c cheezain app na elaborate ni ki ; dever jeth khan c aik jaga reh sakty hn khan shriat ki pabandie ho saktie thi ; mjy kisi sahabi ya nabi ki shariat ya masoomien c sabat krain.hn ab maa baap ki baat ha tu wo ulad ki zimaedarie ha un k sath Acha raviya ka saber ka swab ha; but is relation ma. B space honi chahye .jasy meri sas hr baat ma interfere krti hn ar ma apny dil ma ye kh daitie hn khuda tu daikh ra.sath b ma hi rehtie hn.app ko ima masoomien ki examples daini chahye jo k app na sb dunyavie examples di hn
Ager islam may joint family system promote krta hai tu iran may nuclear system kyu hai?
Joint family is the core reason why wife and husband are frustrated and are going towards haram, because of lack of space and lack privacy.
So true these ulemas fail to code imams sayings about joint family.
No where in Islam it’s recommended for people to live under one roof!!!
Exactly. Even if you see other Muslim countries even there people are living in nuclear setup.
Joint family is just a South Asian concept. If you look at other Muslim countries especially Iran, they prefer nuclear family system.
Why haven't our Imameen ever suggested to live in joint family set up?
If there's so much toxicity among family members, no one respects anyone's boundaries and if there is a lot of interferences then it can never work instead it would adds more issues and frustrations among husband and wife. Also, boys family feels entitled to live with their sons until the end but if someone has daughters only then our society doesn't let the girl to live with their parents after marriage, shouldn't rules be the same for both set of parents?
In today's world and age joint family brings more problems than solutions as everyone ends up interfering with the newly married couple. In laws are usually quiet rigid and they want the girl to "apni jagah khud banao" rather than giving her time and space to adjust naturally. Also, all the home chores and responsibilities are assigned to the new bride instead of dividing the chores. If proper balance isn't maintained (which rarely happens) then this setup is doomed to work.
Also, why does it have to reach to the point where people start suffering from mental health issues before they are separated. Why can't we, by default give the new couple a separate space to live in which they can start a new family with new traditions and rules of their own. The rules and traditions set by the in laws worked for their time and family dynamics. When a girl and a boy marries, they are family of their own so they should have the right to decide what should or shouldn't work for their home environment. You can't live with outdated rules of previous generation. This is why it's important for the new couple to start a separate set up of their own. They don't have to cut off with the family instead both can spend equal time with their parents and love and respect stays the same.
This podcast is quiet in favor of joint family but doesn't address the issues faced by the girl who enters a new family.
Very nice podcast❤
Its all about controlling nafs 😮... Were we all fail and problems arisr
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