UPDATE: Video Worked gf Achieved 8/29/24 UPDATE: Single again! Video now relevant again! 9/10/24 Honestly the chances of this video working twice are super low but im happy that in a sea of what has been endless romantic suffering for me my whole life at least it’s here. I made the effort. I can say that. My last girl left me when I was in the hospital, lied to me about the main reason I fell in love with her and treated me like garbage. There are fates worse than being single, but if a woman is smart enough to know I’m offering a good deal. To know that I’d work hard for a family than she knows where to find me. 9/25/24 I have cancer again. My last girlfriend left me because she didn't want to put up with my health issues and she was right. No one will ever love me and I except that now. I dont think anyone could ever love me. Goodbye.
Respectfully, don't just jump at the first girl who gave you the time of day. Slow it down. Especially given your childhood ambitions, you might be over eager and miss some signs you should pay attention to.
I unfortunately have alot in common with Grim. Too bad im in the same boat as you. Im a bit younger than you brother. What made me realize how deep i am in the pit is how alone i am in the military. I go to your channel for badass content and lore. I truly hope this ad works for you man. You sound like a great guy. Praying for you brother.
I am older , and married. I completely understand your situation. Idk what tell young guys . I definitely have had problems. I have problems with employment . And other stuff. I am really glad your alive. Your work has really helped me personally. Just for the entertainment
You’re so right in what you say about being “recharged;” the only times I’ve been fully “unlocked” in my potential was when I was in a committed relationship. “”Do it for her.”” I hope you find perfection in your pair bond. It’s something every good person deserves and few find. Good luck brother.
"The only thing more tragic then dying and leaving people behind, is dying and leaving no one behind." - Someone who's name I forgot and was probably quoting someone else. Now... get out there and go make tribe, make tribe good good my good chaps!.... good. =D
You are one of the strongest men I know of. It takes a real man to put yourself out there and cast off the assuage of others to declare what you want freely, openly, and with sincerity. Iron sharpens iron.
It’s hard to offer any kind of advice, because I don’t really know your situation IRL. All I can say is that, when I found myself single at age 30 I started praying daily to God and the Theotokos asking whether I should go to a monastery, and become a monk or if I should marry, and if so whom should I marry. I am now 33, Happily married, and a proud father to the most joyful little boy I’ve ever known. This isn’t really advice, as I’m sure you’ve already tried everything that’s feasible for you to try as far as meeting a mate goes. However, I would like to encourage you to let God be part of the decision, and have the faithful assurance that God may not always give you want you want, but He will always give you what you need. God bless, and good luck.
I went from weighing 300 lbs to losing it and joining the Infantry. You went through worse than that and deserve the best, brother. I'm pouring a whiskey for you, love from Kentucky.
I wish I could help with some full bodied robust answer, but I’m one of the lucky ones who found the right one on the first try, a rarity among men my age I’ve come to find. The best advice I can give is, want love, be open to love, don’t be cynical in the face of love, but never let yourself be degraded for love. A partner who belittles your worries and fears doesn’t want to be your partner they want to be your overlord. If that makes any sense to you. I hope you find what you’re looking for Grim, you deserve the best brother.
This was definitely inspiration for me to get back into the dating game in hopes of finding the Valeria to my Conan. Keep up the good work, Grim Dark! Hope you find the One!
Grimm I went though a terrible marriage with my first wife who was an American. I love my wife now who I know is the one I was always supposed to be with. We are so unconditionally in love and I know she loves me in the same way. Everything that you're saying you want in a wife is what I found in mine. My wife is from Morocco and we are the most perfect couple ever. Please expand your horizons to the globe.
Now all American women will hate you (so what) LOL. "How DARE you go be progressive expanding your cultural and racial horizons, to find something different than us!" They're 'liberalism' only applies when it benefits them haha 🤣
I think this is a very sweet video. I understand. I been alone ever since my ex was arrested and put in jail. I had a lot of emotional and physical trauma in my life to fight through. I am now 40 years old with no husband or children. I felt like I just suddenly woke up to realize that I let everything in my life slip away. Why did I let him get to me? Why don't I better myself? I been blaming him so much for my hurt that I have not taken a moment to blame myself. I will probably never find someone but I have started to walk an hour each day and work out every morning. At least I am taking the first steps to try and improve my life.
“Having a family is a distraction from serving God” Some are called to celibacy, yes, but not all. Paul, under inspiration of the Holy Spirit, writes that if one is not called to be celibate it is better to be a monogamous husband. I am concerned about that leader and his teaching. Being a good husband and father and raising virtuous children in a godly home is itself service to God.
You may think it's a weird thing to try, but something is better than nothing. Also, I find it cool to see this type of vid, early YT was designed as dating site. That was before everything changed...when the cat nation attacked. Either way, Godspeed pilgrim!
DUDE! I had an idea to try doing the same thing yesterday... I have given up on dating apps because they don't work anymore and I don't find many people I connect with out in the world. I used to go on lots of dates and made many lovers before the pandemic, but since then the apps don't work for me anylonger and I make no matches. Between 2018-2020 I bedded 24 different women, and then that just stopped. I truly wish you luck dude! For reals!
I hope you find someone great through this. I'm a guy in the same boat, never had a gf and never had any opportunities to and meet like minded women with my interests. Here's to you, endeavor to persevere.
Good Luck on your journey. Book Clubs, Cancer Survivor Support Groups, Lifting Groups? I don’t know where you live but we have a lot of women in our gym that lift and play DnD. You definitely cannot get physical with someone online, obviously. You’re obviously are self aware. I remember having similar feelings of being alone and wanting someone as gay young man during the AIDS crisis. Trust me it is possible. You have a bigger pool. You just have to literally put yourself out there. Some people will be lovely. Others cringy and others that just don’t fit. Like a bad puzzle piece. But once in a while you just might get lucky. I wish you all the happiness and don’t stop trying.
HELL NO. I tried books clubs just for something to do when I had just moved. The 2nd thing that was said to me when I walked in was "Just so you know this is not a dating group". I was like "Okay, wtf bitch...all I did was say hello". That told me all I needed to know about how 'welcoming' those things are to guys. You gym seems unique, unlike the vast majority out there. I have a gym that's pretty normal. I lift 5 days a week. All the girls there are stuck up Instagram model wannabe's taking ass shots, while having no ass at all when they aren't bending over for the camera lol. The only guys they are looking for are other Instagram-popular types born with model-tier faces and a bodybuilder physique. I will never have the first and have about 2 more years of consistent training until I get the 2nd. I gotta work for mine, and no girls gives F about hard work or potential. All they care about is are you perfect RIGHT NOW haha.
If you live in/near a big city, I HIGHLY recommend daygame. Yes, the space is filled with weirdos but that shouldn't stop you from approaching people. Just be honest, empathetic and fun. That's how I met my wife, and we're going on 6 years. I think politely approaching people on the street is the winning strategy for guys nowadays
my girl gave me a check list of simple things that will boost another's interest 1. good haircut, and proper grooming (smell nice) 2. dress well/be a bit more stylish 3. be funny 4. ladies love cake, both meanings
0: Be Physically Attractive All that other shit is just icing on the proverbial cake. I've seen a 8/10 guy in my long distance hiking group in dirty ripped up shorts, smelling like all 5 of the days we were on trail pull more girls by saying "Hi" than any of the rest of do with 100% effort into style, grooming, conversation or whatever. All he does is say 2 words and they get that 'deer in headlights' look with a big smile on their face. One of them drove 4 hours to F his unwashed self in the middle of woods a week later. Next night, paid for a hotel room for them both.
This is very courageus! Hope it works out! My best advice, is to ask your friends girlfriends if they have any single friends? I really get you, had 10+ lonely years before i found the love of my life. Keep looking, she is out there!😊
Hey GD, You are truely an inspiration to me man. Im the ryan ye made the healthy video about about a year or two ago(tho ye got my age wrong, 22 now lol) and its actually been a big help. Imma be blunt, im autistic/ADHD, ive been fat my whole life and my weight had been fluctuating like crazy the past year, ive little to no friends of social life and one i do ive been avoiding out of just a spiraling pit of anxiety and maybe depression. I aint doing good money wise, still live and most like will always be living with family as the house crisis and economy here in Ireland is far from good. Idk why im ranting about all this but what im getting is that ive been lonely and self loathing all my life. But cause people like you im slowly getting there. I wish you all the best my friend; in both recovering and your journey for love. God bless and take care bud🙏👋🇮🇪❤
I’ve got many similar factors as you my brother. ADHD/Autism and overweight. Just know that it will get better. I’ve felt like I have been spiralling down and as every day blends together. I felt like my life is slipping away from me. But I found that person. Through a book forum of all places. And I’ve never been more happy in my life. I’ve been hitting gym. And just that alone, has helped me so much. Mentally and physically I’m still struggling with money and dealing with shitty situations going through the housing market and job shit. But the small things are building up for a foundation. I turned 25 recently. And apparently this is when your brain boots to 100% when your frontal lobe develops or whatever. You’re young. And you have the world ahead of you. You’re deserving of all things good in life. And just know that you’re not alone.
An interesting move, but 100% better than doing nothing about it. So a candidate has already been found. This feels very weird to me, but that of course doesn’t mean, that it’s doomed to fail. Some of your statements make you sound the most naive, I’ve ever heard you, while I wouldn’t say you’re wrong. Make sure that you explore the true meaning of a hopefully very real connection beyond your current assumptions. Relationships aren’t the same to everyone, their meaning changes over time and with the love and effort invested into them. After two relationships of over ten years each, I’ve pretty figured out what‘s right for me. It isn’t what I expected, it’s different, but much better than my own silly ideas. I wish you the best while exploring this most new chapter of your life. Becoming a good father is next and nothing will compare to it, if you take it seriously (which you doubtlessly will).
Nothing wrong with this buddy. I got high hopes for you bro. Youll find a spouse. Nothing wrong with not wanting to be alone. Did you ever see they streamer who said he was ugly, and found a wife from that? Like regardless bro theres someone who will mesh with you my man. Approaching 30 is a very scary thought alone. Absolutely valid to expunge your choices. You're a creative, youre a survivor. This wont keep you down man.
It takes balls to post something like this, and I mean this in the best way possible. You're a handsome, intelligent guy with interesting hobbies I'm sure you'll be able to find someone homie.
I relate to this feeling you describe. I've so often been told that I'm too intense or too much. People say to be just yourself but then they say it's too much. So I spend my time alone in the study.
That was beautiful dude, Love the meteor analogy of a human life, sincerity is living, and fear of being cringe keeps us from being sincere Didn’t expect to hear this kind of thing from a guy I learnt about Conan from, but it was refreshing, keep giving like you do and it will come to you
Kings don’t get their queens before, they’re kings. You have wars to fight, mistakes to make, money to get, material things to gather. Build your empire brother, you WILL find your queen among your conquests. Could take days could take years. You’re a young warrior. Stay strong and build yourself up.
Yes they do, because they are born looking like Princes. Guys born looking like peasants will always look like a peasant. HE is the one that won't find a queen until he's works his entire life to be a King. Until then, no one fucking wants him lmao. Good thing for Half-Off is he has that Prince-type face. He'll be good, he ain't fat so he doesn't even have to hit the gym. Us peasants though, screwed until we get rich and find our Goldigger haha. Love doesn't exist for a guy who was cursed (by birth or injury) to be ugly, only 'conditional relations'.🤣
Homestly can i say this is super smart this is literally...an ad and even if people make fun of it.... logically its statistically going to work more than just wallking up too a woman. Ik this is outta pocket but uh....hey maaybe try it yall lol
I felt this to my core, if i was a woman I'd aready be on a flight headed in your direction. Best of luck. May you form a power couple that can shake the pillars of heaven
That's the difference. You're not. Women see this as "desperate" and "Creepy" They really don't want some dude with emotions no matter what they SAY. Watch what they DO. If that is what the average woman wanted, Half-Off would be having no issues finding someone.
I recently found your channel in regards to Conan content and have been listening when I can. Then I saw this and the big C related videos. I have to say, this has given me an urge to reply for some reason. Lots I want to say but I've paused for a few reasons. Some main ones probably are: I don't want you or anyone else to take anything wrong. There's no inflection, emotion you can hear, facial expressions etc. Just text which people tend to take however they are already feeling and associate in. Second, I don't like giving advice, and don't want anything I say mistaken as advice for anyone who reads and for some odd reason thinks what I said may be useful only for it backfire down the road etc. I also don't like comparing experiences, both with cancer and relationship stuff because I've very much of the mind of no matter how similar experiences are, end of day I am not you and vice versa so for example something you might be able to shrug off, I would have a much harder time so it's weird to say stuff like "You'll be fine, I went through it and I'm fine" type of thing. Lastly, I also don't want to make a wall of text which it's already turning into. I have a ton of stuff swirling in my head I want to touch on. All that said, I will say I am firm believer things happen for a reason and that one can find silver linings in most things. I hope you only have good health going forward, and can turn this experience into something positive not just for you, not just for your future partner but other's as well. Even though it may sound odd, though even in your own words this video isn't the norm, you do have strangers like myself who are there to listen and who are rooting for you and others. There's a saying from a story called Water Margin that is something like this "Within the bounds of the four seas, all men are brothers."
This grimdark man found his partner in crime in a wierd place. My wife is my biggest fan, my best friend, and my soul mate. I'm 52yo and I wish you luck.
I don't have any idea who the F your religious guidance is, but depending on your faith, family is very nearly the singular most important part of life, and honoring your faith through duty and sacrifice to create, grow, strengthen and provide for your loved ones as fellowship. I simply cannot imagine many earnest leaders suggesting the creation of a family is a "distraction from service to god"; I don't know your situation or relationships, but those are the words of a con artist where I come from.
My Friend Conan did not choose a Cimmerian woman and neither should you, find your Zenobia, and find her outside your own culture. As you said you are a Tribal man find a ,tribal, family oriented state, Ethiopia, Philiphines, Russia (once this chaos passes), Belarus etc . There are also many women who wanted to leave these places if you are interested in ,liberating them, . It is a gamble, but then again what isnt ? Best of luck to you my friend !
This video its not just a proof of being a letter to find love its a letter of love for your own self may sound a little bit awkward in your mind but its so geniune in terms of feeling and thought that if i heard this irl i would fall for you ngl, no homo.
@@GrimDarkHalfOff My glads, im really happy for you aswell!! Im really amazed that your deepest thoughts revealed got really paid back, cheers for you and the gf!!!! 🙏🙏🙏
Liked and shared to my network. If you're a lady with a good heart and adventurous spirit, watch his stuff and take a chance. You'll find an interesting, kind, thoughtful and handsome man. No harm in just saying hi. Do it!
It's ok I just gave up man. Also passport is NOT the answer! If you want vapid, soulless, casual sex or a woman who just wants you for material reasons then it is true. I currently live in Japan and have never been more alone.
I wish you the best of luck in finding a loving partner and I will say she will arrive in your life eventually if it is what you truly want. I recommend you might want to try out some dating apps to meet people though, this channel is too manly to have many women watching.
Life is short and the primary function of biological life is procreation. Those are just facts... Info - You can take a walk. Right now, on the side walk, it is entirely possible that there will be a viable partner there.
REH days 2025? there's mostly men, but the women there are our "tribe"; you will find someone Grim, if you're around the DFW metroplex area I think i can help a warrior/poet find a companion
Im gonna level with you man i dont think a single women follows this channel. You should get on Bumble, pick your battles, and dont set your standards to high. Maybe try getting out of the house to large social gatherings like a bar or comedy club maybe even a cancer support group. Just keep at it and dont jump head first into the first girl that comes around. And be yourself living a lie is hard
UPDATE: Video Worked gf Achieved
8/29/24 UPDATE: Single again! Video now relevant again!
9/10/24 Honestly the chances of this video working twice are super low but im happy that in a sea of what has been endless romantic suffering for me my whole life at least it’s here. I made the effort. I can say that. My last girl left me when I was in the hospital, lied to me about the main reason I fell in love with her and treated me like garbage.
There are fates worse than being single, but if a woman is smart enough to know I’m offering a good deal. To know that I’d work hard for a family than she knows where to find me.
9/25/24 I have cancer again. My last girlfriend left me because she didn't want to put up with my health issues and she was right. No one will ever love me and I except that now. I dont think anyone could ever love me. Goodbye.
Respectfully, don't just jump at the first girl who gave you the time of day. Slow it down. Especially given your childhood ambitions, you might be over eager and miss some signs you should pay attention to.
No fucking way
Congratulations!🤘😎👍
LET'S GO GRIM DARK🎉
Congratulations mate
Nothing more Grim Dark than having a wife
and then getting (Half Off) in the divorce
Listen when someone at church says a family is a distraction from God that's most likely not a real church
True
Agreed!
Oh good I'm not the only one irked by that bombshell
I read that as his request being politely deflected. However, as no guidance was offered apparently, then yes it does seem a bit problematic.
Just want to second this. Don't let bad advice like this push you away from Christianity or church.
I unfortunately have alot in common with Grim. Too bad im in the same boat as you. Im a bit younger than you brother. What made me realize how deep i am in the pit is how alone i am in the military.
I go to your channel for badass content and lore. I truly hope this ad works for you man. You sound like a great guy. Praying for you brother.
Thanks brother, it's a goal that many share, but few work towards
@GrimDarkHalfOff do you have your passport Bro?
@@GrimDarkHalfOff indeed. I hope you're recovering well from your surgery by the way. I can't believe I didn't even mention it earlier lol
Hey, brother, knew that feel all too well. You'll find someone. Just don't date in the military. Lol. More trouble than it id worth.
Interesting fact, this is actually the original reason UA-cam was created.
oh yeah I remember that now. It was originally a dating site.
I wish it never changed. Maybe I'd have someone by now.
I am older , and married. I completely understand your situation.
Idk what tell young guys .
I definitely have had problems.
I have problems with employment . And other stuff.
I am really glad your alive.
Your work has really helped me personally. Just for the entertainment
Well I hope it continues to help you into the future!
Ladies, I can confirm this man knows a lot about Conan, go for it!
You’re so right in what you say about being “recharged;” the only times I’ve been fully “unlocked” in my potential was when I was in a committed relationship. “”Do it for her.”” I hope you find perfection in your pair bond. It’s something every good person deserves and few find. Good luck brother.
Woah! Grim Dark is looking for a Grim Wife?! 👀
100% If she's out there I'll take her and fight for her
@@GrimDarkHalfOff best of luck to you, may you find your Belit. (Though hopefully she isn’t slain by a winged ape man… 🦍)
@@KGdorah1964 I named my Chocobo that in FF14
His buttery voice will have them all weak
Thus begins Half Off's Love Quest.
"The only thing more tragic then dying and leaving people behind, is dying and leaving no one behind." - Someone who's name I forgot and was probably quoting someone else.
Now... get out there and go make tribe, make tribe good good my good chaps!.... good. =D
You are one of the strongest men I know of. It takes a real man to put yourself out there and cast off the assuage of others to declare what you want freely, openly, and with sincerity. Iron sharpens iron.
I got a sister i want to get rid of.
😂
It’s hard to offer any kind of advice, because I don’t really know your situation IRL. All I can say is that, when I found myself single at age 30 I started praying daily to God and the Theotokos asking whether I should go to a monastery, and become a monk or if I should marry, and if so whom should I marry. I am now 33, Happily married, and a proud father to the most joyful little boy I’ve ever known.
This isn’t really advice, as I’m sure you’ve already tried everything that’s feasible for you to try as far as meeting a mate goes. However, I would like to encourage you to let God be part of the decision, and have the faithful assurance that God may not always give you want you want, but He will always give you what you need.
God bless, and good luck.
I went from weighing 300 lbs to losing it and joining the Infantry. You went through worse than that and deserve the best, brother.
I'm pouring a whiskey for you, love from Kentucky.
I wish I could help with some full bodied robust answer, but I’m one of the lucky ones who found the right one on the first try, a rarity among men my age I’ve come to find.
The best advice I can give is, want love, be open to love, don’t be cynical in the face of love, but never let yourself be degraded for love. A partner who belittles your worries and fears doesn’t want to be your partner they want to be your overlord. If that makes any sense to you.
I hope you find what you’re looking for Grim, you deserve the best brother.
This was definitely inspiration for me to get back into the dating game in hopes of finding the Valeria to my Conan. Keep up the good work, Grim Dark! Hope you find the One!
Thanks brother that means the world to me
Grimm I went though a terrible marriage with my first wife who was an American. I love my wife now who I know is the one I was always supposed to be with. We are so unconditionally in love and I know she loves me in the same way. Everything that you're saying you want in a wife is what I found in mine. My wife is from Morocco and we are the most perfect couple ever. Please expand your horizons to the globe.
Now all American women will hate you (so what) LOL. "How DARE you go be progressive expanding your cultural and racial horizons, to find something different than us!" They're 'liberalism' only applies when it benefits them haha 🤣
I think this is a very sweet video. I understand. I been alone ever since my ex was arrested and put in jail. I had a lot of emotional and physical trauma in my life to fight through. I am now 40 years old with no husband or children. I felt like I just suddenly woke up to realize that I let everything in my life slip away. Why did I let him get to me? Why don't I better myself? I been blaming him so much for my hurt that I have not taken a moment to blame myself. I will probably never find someone but I have started to walk an hour each day and work out every morning. At least I am taking the first steps to try and improve my life.
“Having a family is a distraction from serving God”
Some are called to celibacy, yes, but not all. Paul, under inspiration of the Holy Spirit, writes that if one is not called to be celibate it is better to be a monogamous husband. I am concerned about that leader and his teaching. Being a good husband and father and raising virtuous children in a godly home is itself service to God.
Yeah he’s very aggressive so I’ve basically soft left that church without telling anyone
You may think it's a weird thing to try, but something is better than nothing. Also, I find it cool to see this type of vid, early YT was designed as dating site. That was before everything changed...when the cat nation attacked. Either way, Godspeed pilgrim!
DUDE! I had an idea to try doing the same thing yesterday... I have given up on dating apps because they don't work anymore and I don't find many people I connect with out in the world. I used to go on lots of dates and made many lovers before the pandemic, but since then the apps don't work for me anylonger and I make no matches. Between 2018-2020 I bedded 24 different women, and then that just stopped.
I truly wish you luck dude! For reals!
I hope you find someone great through this. I'm a guy in the same boat, never had a gf and never had any opportunities to and meet like minded women with my interests. Here's to you, endeavor to persevere.
Good luck Brother 👍. Our hopes and dreams travel with you!
Good Luck on your journey. Book Clubs, Cancer Survivor Support Groups, Lifting Groups? I don’t know where you live but we have a lot of women in our gym that lift and play DnD. You definitely cannot get physical with someone online, obviously. You’re obviously are self aware. I remember having similar feelings of being alone and wanting someone as gay young man during the AIDS crisis. Trust me it is possible. You have a bigger pool. You just have to literally put yourself out there. Some people will be lovely. Others cringy and others that just don’t fit. Like a bad puzzle piece. But once in a while you just might get lucky. I wish you all the happiness and don’t stop trying.
HELL NO. I tried books clubs just for something to do when I had just moved. The 2nd thing that was said to me when I walked in was "Just so you know this is not a dating group". I was like "Okay, wtf bitch...all I did was say hello". That told me all I needed to know about how 'welcoming' those things are to guys. You gym seems unique, unlike the vast majority out there. I have a gym that's pretty normal. I lift 5 days a week. All the girls there are stuck up Instagram model wannabe's taking ass shots, while having no ass at all when they aren't bending over for the camera lol. The only guys they are looking for are other Instagram-popular types born with model-tier faces and a bodybuilder physique. I will never have the first and have about 2 more years of consistent training until I get the 2nd. I gotta work for mine, and no girls gives F about hard work or potential. All they care about is are you perfect RIGHT NOW haha.
If you live in/near a big city, I HIGHLY recommend daygame. Yes, the space is filled with weirdos but that shouldn't stop you from approaching people. Just be honest, empathetic and fun.
That's how I met my wife, and we're going on 6 years. I think politely approaching people on the street is the winning strategy for guys nowadays
Love you man, love your videos. So proud of ur progress and confident in your power
my girl gave me a check list of simple things that will boost another's interest
1. good haircut, and proper grooming (smell nice)
2. dress well/be a bit more stylish
3. be funny
4. ladies love cake, both meanings
NEVER.
SKIP.
SQUATS.
AMEN 😤
0: Be Physically Attractive
All that other shit is just icing on the proverbial cake. I've seen a 8/10 guy in my long distance hiking group in dirty ripped up shorts, smelling like all 5 of the days we were on trail pull more girls by saying "Hi" than any of the rest of do with 100% effort into style, grooming, conversation or whatever. All he does is say 2 words and they get that 'deer in headlights' look with a big smile on their face. One of them drove 4 hours to F his unwashed self in the middle of woods a week later. Next night, paid for a hotel room for them both.
My friend I wish you well with your quest. To find the woman who makes you happy.
This is very courageus! Hope it works out! My best advice, is to ask your friends girlfriends if they have any single friends? I really get you, had 10+ lonely years before i found the love of my life. Keep looking, she is out there!😊
This is brilliant. BE DIRECT.
Hey GD,
You are truely an inspiration to me man.
Im the ryan ye made the healthy video about about a year or two ago(tho ye got my age wrong, 22 now lol) and its actually been a big help.
Imma be blunt, im autistic/ADHD, ive been fat my whole life and my weight had been fluctuating like crazy the past year, ive little to no friends of social life and one i do ive been avoiding out of just a spiraling pit of anxiety and maybe depression. I aint doing good money wise, still live and most like will always be living with family as the house crisis and economy here in Ireland is far from good.
Idk why im ranting about all this but what im getting is that ive been lonely and self loathing all my life. But cause people like you im slowly getting there.
I wish you all the best my friend; in both recovering and your journey for love.
God bless and take care bud🙏👋🇮🇪❤
Amen brother, same to you in every part of your life!
I’ve got many similar factors as you my brother. ADHD/Autism and overweight.
Just know that it will get better. I’ve felt like I have been spiralling down and as every day blends together. I felt like my life is slipping away from me. But I found that person. Through a book forum of all places. And I’ve never been more happy in my life.
I’ve been hitting gym. And just that alone, has helped me so much. Mentally and physically
I’m still struggling with money and dealing with shitty situations going through the housing market and job shit. But the small things are building up for a foundation.
I turned 25 recently. And apparently this is when your brain boots to 100% when your frontal lobe develops or whatever.
You’re young. And you have the world ahead of you. You’re deserving of all things good in life. And just know that you’re not alone.
An interesting move, but 100% better than doing nothing about it.
So a candidate has already been found.
This feels very weird to me, but that of course doesn’t mean, that it’s doomed to fail.
Some of your statements make you sound the most naive, I’ve ever heard you, while I wouldn’t say you’re wrong.
Make sure that you explore the true meaning of a hopefully very real connection beyond your current assumptions.
Relationships aren’t the same to everyone, their meaning changes over time and with the love and effort invested into them.
After two relationships of over ten years each, I’ve pretty figured out what‘s right for me. It isn’t what I expected, it’s different, but much better than my own silly ideas.
I wish you the best while exploring this most new chapter of your life.
Becoming a good father is next and nothing will compare to it, if you take it seriously (which you doubtlessly will).
Nothing wrong with this buddy. I got high hopes for you bro. Youll find a spouse. Nothing wrong with not wanting to be alone. Did you ever see they streamer who said he was ugly, and found a wife from that? Like regardless bro theres someone who will mesh with you my man. Approaching 30 is a very scary thought alone. Absolutely valid to expunge your choices. You're a creative, youre a survivor. This wont keep you down man.
You ever see that person who won the lottery? Yeah, using an example of EXTREME LUCK is not a way to make someone feel like they have a chance.
When Grim Dark is trying to find that half-off whitch he lacks in his life.
Man, this ad speaks to many of the same experiences I as a man have felt, 22 and still never been in a romantic relationship.
It takes balls to post something like this, and I mean this in the best way possible. You're a handsome, intelligent guy with interesting hobbies I'm sure you'll be able to find someone homie.
You got this Grim Dark!
I relate to this feeling you describe. I've so often been told that I'm too intense or too much. People say to be just yourself but then they say it's too much. So I spend my time alone in the study.
That was beautiful dude,
Love the meteor analogy of a human life, sincerity is living, and fear of being cringe keeps us from being sincere
Didn’t expect to hear this kind of thing from a guy I learnt about Conan from, but it was refreshing, keep giving like you do and it will come to you
It's worth a shot
I respect that he's willing to open up about something very personal to him, and on the internet. Like I said I respect that.
Good luck in this endeavor Mister Halfoff
Kings don’t get their queens before, they’re kings.
You have wars to fight, mistakes to make, money to get, material things to gather.
Build your empire brother, you WILL find your queen among your conquests. Could take days could take years. You’re a young warrior. Stay strong and build yourself up.
Yes they do, because they are born looking like Princes. Guys born looking like peasants will always look like a peasant. HE is the one that won't find a queen until he's works his entire life to be a King. Until then, no one fucking wants him lmao. Good thing for Half-Off is he has that Prince-type face. He'll be good, he ain't fat so he doesn't even have to hit the gym. Us peasants though, screwed until we get rich and find our Goldigger haha. Love doesn't exist for a guy who was cursed (by birth or injury) to be ugly, only 'conditional relations'.🤣
Godspeed, my man. Powerful stuff.
Passport is your best bet sir.
Homestly can i say this is super smart this is literally...an ad and even if people make fun of it.... logically its statistically going to work more than just wallking up too a woman. Ik this is outta pocket but uh....hey maaybe try it yall lol
Good luck to you Half Off! may you find your Grim Dark Lady.
I felt this to my core, if i was a woman I'd aready be on a flight headed in your direction.
Best of luck. May you form a power couple that can shake the pillars of heaven
That's the difference. You're not. Women see this as "desperate" and "Creepy" They really don't want some dude with emotions no matter what they SAY. Watch what they DO. If that is what the average woman wanted, Half-Off would be having no issues finding someone.
Praying you find someone, brother.
I recently found your channel in regards to Conan content and have been listening when I can. Then I saw this and the big C related videos. I have to say, this has given me an urge to reply for some reason. Lots I want to say but I've paused for a few reasons.
Some main ones probably are: I don't want you or anyone else to take anything wrong. There's no inflection, emotion you can hear, facial expressions etc. Just text which people tend to take however they are already feeling and associate in. Second, I don't like giving advice, and don't want anything I say mistaken as advice for anyone who reads and for some odd reason thinks what I said may be useful only for it backfire down the road etc. I also don't like comparing experiences, both with cancer and relationship stuff because I've very much of the mind of no matter how similar experiences are, end of day I am not you and vice versa so for example something you might be able to shrug off, I would have a much harder time so it's weird to say stuff like "You'll be fine, I went through it and I'm fine" type of thing. Lastly, I also don't want to make a wall of text which it's already turning into. I have a ton of stuff swirling in my head I want to touch on.
All that said, I will say I am firm believer things happen for a reason and that one can find silver linings in most things. I hope you only have good health going forward, and can turn this experience into something positive not just for you, not just for your future partner but other's as well. Even though it may sound odd, though even in your own words this video isn't the norm, you do have strangers like myself who are there to listen and who are rooting for you and others. There's a saying from a story called Water Margin that is something like this "Within the bounds of the four seas, all men are brothers."
As someone who is not direct with women, this video opens my mind up a bit. Thanks
God bless you my brother in Christ.
Big props to you for making this video. Honest and inspiring.
Good on you mate for having the courage to admit this.
Being honest I think alot of us are in the same boat. 💪🔥
as somone who's very lonely, good luck. I hope you find happiness.
Wow I've never seen anything like this before. I commend it.
This grimdark man found his partner in crime in a wierd place. My wife is my biggest fan, my best friend, and my soul mate. I'm 52yo and I wish you luck.
Glad you made it brotha 🎉
Honestly I think this was pretty manly.
I don't have any idea who the F your religious guidance is, but depending on your faith, family is very nearly the singular most important part of life, and honoring your faith through duty and sacrifice to create, grow, strengthen and provide for your loved ones as fellowship.
I simply cannot imagine many earnest leaders suggesting the creation of a family is a "distraction from service to god"; I don't know your situation or relationships, but those are the words of a con artist where I come from.
5:05 same bro ❤
My Friend Conan did not choose a Cimmerian woman and neither should you, find your Zenobia, and find her outside your own culture. As you said you are a Tribal man find a ,tribal, family oriented state, Ethiopia, Philiphines, Russia (once this chaos passes), Belarus etc . There are also many women who wanted to leave these places if you are interested in ,liberating them, . It is a gamble, but then again what isnt ? Best of luck to you my friend !
go get 'em bud, good luck.
185 cm is almost 6'1 and not 5'11". Sorry, it just stood out to me.
If it works for you then it works for you.
This video its not just a proof of being a letter to find love its a letter of love for your own self may sound a little bit awkward in your mind but its so geniune in terms of feeling and thought that if i heard this irl i would fall for you ngl, no homo.
@@GrimDarkHalfOff My glads, im really happy for you aswell!! Im really amazed that your deepest thoughts revealed got really paid back, cheers for you and the gf!!!! 🙏🙏🙏
You’ll find her Grim good things come to those who wait
One thing I want to add. 5'11" is closer to 180 cm
You’re like me then, wanted a family since you were young. You can do it!
A comment and like for the algorithm! Good luck man!
I feel ya Grim, I'm in the same boat.
Liked and shared to my network. If you're a lady with a good heart and adventurous spirit, watch his stuff and take a chance. You'll find an interesting, kind, thoughtful and handsome man. No harm in just saying hi. Do it!
That’s very sweet and kind of you - much love friend
@@GrimDarkHalfOff P.s. Assuming US-based. Can you give a general region your in maybe? People are asking.
@@JaxWylds I'm in East Texas
@@GrimDarkHalfOff Too funny! Born and raised in Tyler but escaped to EU 20 years ago. My network reaches TX for sure, so who knows! 💪
@@JaxWylds sweet
damn. me and you have way too much in common. glad it worked out bro !
Godspeed my guy.
Based giga chad.
It's ok I just gave up man. Also passport is NOT the answer! If you want vapid, soulless, casual sex or a woman who just wants you for material reasons then it is true. I currently live in Japan and have never been more alone.
Qapla' and good hunting, sir.
Hey Grim will you give us an update if anything comes from this?
Regardless of what comes your way, best of luck!😎👍
This shit is "to my future girlfriend" tier. First step on your journey to either become a lolcow, end up in jail or maybe both
Just a comment to bost the algorithm.
LMAO dude you're awesome putting a dating out on your youtube
Already met her too!
Based.
Will my application do?
much appreciated brother haha
I wish you the best of luck in finding a loving partner and I will say she will arrive in your life eventually if it is what you truly want. I recommend you might want to try out some dating apps to meet people though, this channel is too manly to have many women watching.
good luck to you and everyone else
Good luck! I’m your age, in the same position.
Life is short and the primary function of biological life is procreation. Those are just facts...
Info - You can take a walk. Right now, on the side walk, it is entirely possible that there will be a viable partner there.
Best of luck!
Respect
REH days 2025? there's mostly men, but the women there are our "tribe"; you will find someone Grim, if you're around the DFW metroplex area I think i can help a warrior/poet find a companion
185 cm is 6′ 1″
hope you find someone bro
Im gonna level with you man i dont think a single women follows this channel. You should get on Bumble, pick your battles, and dont set your standards to high. Maybe try getting out of the house to large social gatherings like a bar or comedy club maybe even a cancer support group. Just keep at it and dont jump head first into the first girl that comes around. And be yourself living a lie is hard
I’m gonna level with you, it already worked
Too bad you're not gay and I'm not 20 years younger. Good luck with finding your Valeria.
L comment
Good luck!
Just go outside and meet someone in real life man
(You'll only attract very strange people on the internet. Good luck)
Are you home gym person? Because if you are, one good place could be going to gyms and trying there. I made friends ( and foud love interest) there.
Yeah get a dog and go places to walk it.