Year 1 of Marriage | Part 3

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  • Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
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  • @missgirlygirl316
    @missgirlygirl316 2 місяці тому +84

    The things Josh said about walking and not sprinting through life because God is good every day???? Wow. That was so impactful on my life. Thank you.

  • @dieudonemomplaisir928
    @dieudonemomplaisir928 2 місяці тому +86

    This is the best documentary podcast on marriage period. As someone who is recently married your trials and tribulations is similar to mine. Like Josh said you can't listen with your mouth open. Don't ever think the whole marriage is going to be perfect.There will be trials but you have to pick the person who will be willing to stand by during the tough times. Isi and Josh Thank You for this ❤

    • @BlackPositivityChallenge
      @BlackPositivityChallenge 2 місяці тому +6

      Newly-Wed here as well. 🤗
      Sending the best of luck and covering over all of our unions.💕🙏🏽☔️

  • @chilloutparis
    @chilloutparis 2 місяці тому +49

    i hope to get married one day and have conversations like this with my future husband 🥰

    • @ashleythegreat_
      @ashleythegreat_ 2 місяці тому +8

      You are the creator of your story/life. Create the life you want. ❤️

  • @artofhersoul
    @artofhersoul 2 місяці тому +41

    Just watched all 3 parts back to back, and as a long-time subscriber who has seen a good bit of y’all’s journey (and have always loved your relationship)…I just have to say I’m so proud of how far you guys have come. ESPECIALLY seeing y’all grow in your relationships with God and seeing how that has evolved you both individually and as a couple for the better. My husband and I just celebrated 1 year of marriage on the 14th and chile…life do indeed be life-ing lol but there’s so much to be grateful for and all glory to God fr. Just as my husband and I often pray over ourselves, I pray that God continues to mold y’all into the man and woman He’s called you to be 🫶🏾 much loveeee

  • @sondramyles1120
    @sondramyles1120 2 місяці тому +11

    I love melanated couples, especially HEALTHY. Congratulations!!

  • @mariacrudup2501
    @mariacrudup2501 2 місяці тому +17

    I cannot continue to say how proud I am of the both of you! In my first year marriage I went through a depression and got through it. I needed medication and that really helped me. Thanks to my loving husband and his patience we have been married now for 31 years. We have three beautiful children together and are still going strong. We have our ups and downs from time to time like any normal marriage but we continue to work together to have a happy marriage. God bless you guys. I know you guys are going to make it as long as you put God first.

  • @sweetyellable
    @sweetyellable 2 місяці тому +46

    When I got married, we had a baby 7 years later. We travel, and I love my husband for that.

    • @nyreedamis8699
      @nyreedamis8699 2 місяці тому +4

      Congratulations! Love that for you both!

  • @user-eb5wq3vi2j
    @user-eb5wq3vi2j 2 місяці тому +5

    I expressed this to the two of you before your marriage in a comment. Josh since you are a college graduate with a very insightful personality I feel you would benefit from totally getting into the working world outside of your relationship. You seem to have a personality to possibly teach children, and since you are active, you could possibly go into the physical education aspect maybe for elementary to middle schoolers. A lot of times men of your age group tend to have a competitive mindset when you have a partner who is doing fairly well financially and I think that's what has caused you strife in your spirit. The key to snapping out of that is to pursue your own career and I believe you need to do that outside of the home. I remember you had that once in retail management but that didn't seem to be your niche but this country needs teachers and I think you fit the script for the kind of teachers needed. I know there are further certifications outside of your BA that are needed but I can't see where that's something you can't accomplish. Let Isi have "her social media thing" and get yourself a 9-5 and let go of trying to compete with her financially. You literally need YOUR OWN CAREER.

  • @chiramcbeth
    @chiramcbeth 2 місяці тому +8

    This was so real ❤ just had our 1st anniversary and that first year was very humbling. When we let God take more control, things got a whole lot more clear and manageable.

  • @chelleclark6212
    @chelleclark6212 2 місяці тому +7

    I got married in March, I'm 34 so there's a few yrs age difference but I learn and grow everytime I hear tou all speak. Long time follower, just extending the love and support to Josh and Isi because it's so admirable to have that open dialogue. "Miami" is "chill talk" in our home and it's allowed so much more openness without judgment. Keep doing these, it's the Lords work esp in this day and age to show marriage is possible and can last if you work toward it. Love you both from afar, continue to prosper🎉❤

  • @ashleythegreat_
    @ashleythegreat_ 2 місяці тому +11

    We have to understand that we aren't taught financial literacy, so please respect these versions of yourselves. We are growing, learning, and money is attracted to us. It will find it's way back. ❤

  • @TheKaRenaLee
    @TheKaRenaLee 2 місяці тому +10

    Honestly I think yall spent yall money on the right things !! Experiences are so important to life !! The high rise, the wedding events, the wedding these are worth paying for !! I remember isi saying she was frugal or something a couple years ago and yall don’t spend money on all that designer and etc so money well spent !!

  • @goindown71
    @goindown71 2 місяці тому +3

    I'm so grateful you were vulnerable enough to share this. I've been here for years and remember how you would reject anyone offering advice about relationships. The factors I feel contribute to your strength is your faith, your commitment to each other and how insightful you both are. I'm not surprised you got (and are still getting) the lesson(s) so fast. So proud of you both. You've always been truly the most authentic couple I've seen on this platform. Speaking your truth is a powerful tool!

  • @SweetNeece23
    @SweetNeece23 Місяць тому

    josh and isi are the realest!!! the transparency, the authenticity, the growth, the love can truly be felt through the screen!!!

  • @ThatgirlNYE
    @ThatgirlNYE 2 місяці тому +3

    Thank you guys for your vulnerability and transparency!!! I’m not married yet, but I’m working towards marriage.

  • @BlackPositivityChallenge
    @BlackPositivityChallenge 2 місяці тому +9

    IMPACT.💕
    OVER.🔃
    INFLUENCE.💅🏾

  • @camcamgreen81
    @camcamgreen81 2 місяці тому +1

    I’m so glad I watched this 3 part series. I love the realness and transparency , you don’t see it alot with some UA-camrs . Thank you for sharing

  • @bnovick3194
    @bnovick3194 2 місяці тому +1

    Josh and Isi, what’s so beautiful is that it seems like you guys had each other in all the complications you guys endured in the first year-and that’s all matters and that is success!!! So be proud of yourselves and how you guys got through because y’all DID and now you guys are living to tell the tale! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @kwabeaadu-poku155
    @kwabeaadu-poku155 2 місяці тому +1

    I love how you both have grown in your relationship with God. Josh, you’re doing well and I can see the work that God has done and is doing in your life. It’s beautiful to see and I thank God for you and I’m praying for you for the long haul. Isi, you’re such a good partner to Josh and I’m also glad to see that you’re on your own journey with God. He’s going to bless your home and I pray you both stick close to Him the entire way. God bless you both!!!

  • @claudiabonheur2984
    @claudiabonheur2984 Місяць тому

    I REALLY APPRECIATE YALL!!! THANK YOU.

  • @uniqueajana
    @uniqueajana 2 місяці тому +2

    love love these conversations !! I first started watching yall from your quality conversations. I’m 3 months into my marriage & I didn’t realize how different it would be. Even though we’ve been together since 16 !! I appreciate the honesty about y’all’s first year!❤

  • @karenpat5680
    @karenpat5680 2 місяці тому +2

    I just went to your channel Isi and watched your first Boyfriend Tag from 8 years ago and the love and maturity was there as well. Your relationship is a Truly Blessed one. God bless you and your family! ♥️

  • @augustchristine654
    @augustchristine654 2 місяці тому +3

    Love you both, so much wisdom and growth. God is Soo good! I would encourage you guys to genuinely pray and fast maybe a 3-day concerning anxiety and depression. God's anointing will break the yokes.

  • @graceegbeama9881
    @graceegbeama9881 2 місяці тому +1

    I just wanted to say. You guys are so cute! Thank you for being so honest! It's very simple what I have to say but, your guy's journey has inspired me and changed my view on a lot of things.

  • @sweetyellable
    @sweetyellable 2 місяці тому +5

    When you have a calling on your life, the devil will always attack you. The devil away want you to look at self. The key to all this keep your focus on the Lord. 1 John 4: 17 AMP. READ THIS EVERY DAY, it will change your life and the way you see things. Love ❤️ you both

  • @aniadawson5801
    @aniadawson5801 2 місяці тому +1

    Josh and isi are such an insightful couple. I have followed you guys since I believe the second year of the couples channel and watching your college sports journeys. Thank you for showing us that taking a break from social media is necessary and sharing what marriage is really about. Please continue to prosper and share with us. Glad you guys are back and starting a new journey

  • @kellyskuisine5420
    @kellyskuisine5420 Місяць тому

    Thank you so much Josh and Isi for sharing your journey with us. I identified so much with your struggles in my year one and I made it, so will you guys. Keep loving each other.

  • @sweetyellable
    @sweetyellable 2 місяці тому +2

    You can’t learn with your mouth open, that’s so good 😊.

  • @Daraax
    @Daraax 2 місяці тому

    The part with what Josh said with not sprinting through the destination is very true and something I needed to hear.

  • @wildonez3076
    @wildonez3076 2 місяці тому +1

    Quality Crew is BACK!! We're family at this point!! I wish we could have helped in some kind of way during this time!!

  • @renedawn8414
    @renedawn8414 2 місяці тому +1

    The best advice I can give, 24 years in… communicate everything, be up front and honest about everything, create a space for your spouse to feel like they can come to you with anything and there be no judgement. And as a wife, the home needs to be a space of peace for your husband. Learn and understand each others love languages.

  • @bnovick3194
    @bnovick3194 2 місяці тому +2

    Josh, we are all worthy ( a better word than deserving) so ask for what you want from God-just know, u might not be ready therefore, he might wait on your behalf. BUT, you are deserving and better said, worthy!!!

  • @crystaldonnisha739
    @crystaldonnisha739 2 місяці тому +1

    I’ve been married for 2 years now and what I learned is not to quench the Holy Spirit I learned to understand the Holy Spirit when he’s speaking to me, but I doubt it when I heard it through someone else specifically my husband and my husband said one day in a argument “you have not learned to trust the God in me” that shook me because I didn’t think of it like that.
    I just took it as my husband is saying something right now that I don’t want to hear and something he wants me to do but the Lord uses people & was trying to get to me through him.
    So basically like isi said listen to your husband.

  • @instrinsiclove
    @instrinsiclove 2 місяці тому +2

    Been so enamored with this series❤ thank you so much for sharing your wisdom

  • @ayannabrinae5869
    @ayannabrinae5869 2 місяці тому

    Im recently married as of may 2024 but ive been watching yall since i was in hs and you guys were in college thank you so much for your transparency with your first year of marriage ❤

  • @sweetpotatoee
    @sweetpotatoee 2 місяці тому

    I truly love this first year marriage Vlog. ISI, I totally understand your expression when you spoke about the woman’s empowerment panel that you attended. Sometimes the Lord uses familiar things in our lives to show us and teach us the growth he would like to see within us. I hope that makes sense and I’m truly love the growth and development that I have witnessed in your Vlogs for both you and Josh, the Lord is always going to find a way for us to truly continue to grow in his kingdom💕🙏🏽💕

  • @tianalondon9019
    @tianalondon9019 2 місяці тому

    Man. Our year 1 was a punch in the face lol we went through so so much from miscarriage to surgeries, to parenting in the pandemic. We’re now in year 6 going into year 7. It was so much but we’re still growing together. It’s not easy but it’s worth it

  • @KISSwithNatty
    @KISSwithNatty 2 місяці тому

    YESSSSS!!!!! We LOVED it! I truly enjoy listening to you all. Such emotional intelligence at your age; you two are rare gems. Please keep being authentic and courageous (courageous because yall aren't afraid to share the not-so-good parts) Your content is soooo relatable!🤗🤗❤️💙
    (I posted this 4 days ago under a random short🤦🏾‍♀️😅😅)

  • @tanetlovesfashion1
    @tanetlovesfashion1 2 місяці тому

    ISI and Josh this segment is sooooooooooo good. I used to love when you did year check ins talking about how things are. ISI and Josh you both were so open this was soooo informative. Thank y’all for this I learned a lot

  • @chisomokafor7262
    @chisomokafor7262 2 місяці тому +2

    Loved this! Definitely want to hear about your experience already living together and getting married. Do you think it played into why you didn’t feel the fire works 2 days post marriage? Thank you for your vulnerability!

    • @ms.trueheart6302
      @ms.trueheart6302 2 місяці тому

      This is such a great view on it hopefully they read and answer this

  • @SincerelyYahmina
    @SincerelyYahmina 2 місяці тому +2

    Been re watching old videos all day preparing for this one 😫

  • @chloejohnson3184
    @chloejohnson3184 2 місяці тому

    Man I love you guys, and im so happy for you! I've heard marriage is a mirror but for sure didnt know what it meant til i was in it. If you haven't dealt with things within yourself ahead of marriage, speaking for myself here lol, it will be like someone just put a spotlight on them. Thankful for the Most High giving us grace to make it through almost 13 yrs so far and wishing you both many many years filled of love ahead ❤

  • @zhaneforrest3713
    @zhaneforrest3713 2 місяці тому +18

    I’ve been waiting 😭

  • @mariacrudup2501
    @mariacrudup2501 2 місяці тому +1

    I just wanted to add another comment. I love listening to gospel and I thought I would share this song with you. It's called I Almost Let Go by Kurt Carr. I hope this blesses the both of you.

  • @dezzzyyy
    @dezzzyyy 2 місяці тому

    I'm so glad you guys are dropping this. These videos are just amazing

  • @christine_muts
    @christine_muts 2 місяці тому +1

    Damn, I'm taking that phrase.
    I'm currently in my "wet season." But I'm embracing that its just a season because I had bottled up a lot over the years and I'm allowing myself to have some recovery time.

  • @BettyHall-r5n
    @BettyHall-r5n 29 днів тому

    Missed you GUYS.

  • @Kaialeslie
    @Kaialeslie 2 місяці тому +1

    This was cool and humble, thank you!

  • @patriciabradford1304
    @patriciabradford1304 2 місяці тому

    Cuz this IS quality 👏👏👏 Definitely have us wanting more and willing to wait 👏👏

  • @Nickyloveslove
    @Nickyloveslove 8 днів тому

    Absolutely beautiful 🎉

  • @muriellem124
    @muriellem124 2 місяці тому +2

    I was waiting for this all week 😭

  • @carlotamonreal5113
    @carlotamonreal5113 2 місяці тому

    always stunned by the growth and y'all's ability to come closer regardless of what comes your way. love these conversations the way you put it into words and the grace you give each other. excited to see y'all more! would love to hear the learnings from the investment storytime and also a deeper look into how to have greater emotional intelligence and emotional conversations, the pre-requisite and intensive course for oneself's introspection, and also how to help/guide men having these conversations. what did you do isi did and helped you josh? as always much love

  • @sweetyellable
    @sweetyellable 2 місяці тому

    It’s just a change of season, in your life. When change come that’s when you turn the page on that book. GOD, started a new chapter and new season. But as long as you go through this together, it’s nothing you both can do together. Read Psalm 121, Psalm 34, Psalm 91. Love you both ❤

  • @heebieejeebieeeez
    @heebieejeebieeeez 2 місяці тому

    Now I am going to rewatch yalls other dating review.

  • @candasbrown9891
    @candasbrown9891 2 місяці тому

    As always, good nuggets. Love y'all

  • @Dimples999
    @Dimples999 2 місяці тому

    I am so proud of yall💯💕💕💕💕

  • @adesuwai3858
    @adesuwai3858 2 місяці тому

    May the peace of Jesus bless your union ❤ Psalm 126:5

  • @KayyLA
    @KayyLA 2 місяці тому

    I would loveeee for y’all to feature on Nice and Neat podcast .. especially Josh

  • @ExclusiveBarbie94
    @ExclusiveBarbie94 2 місяці тому

    Happy Monday 🙂

  • @serenaelijah3490
    @serenaelijah3490 2 місяці тому

    Hey can you guys do a video on roles (spiritual and emotional) in marriage

  • @suitelifeoftenya
    @suitelifeoftenya 2 місяці тому

    i’ve been coming early to y’all videos every time #notificationbellcertified 🥰🥳

  • @anna-kayblake961
    @anna-kayblake961 2 місяці тому +6

    Not me being the first person here 😂❤

  • @Zia_theLibra
    @Zia_theLibra 2 місяці тому +1

    I am nowhere near married. I've been dating for 2.5 years... in my 5th relationship at 2 months and and my longest was 4 months

  • @lovenadia5155
    @lovenadia5155 2 місяці тому +1

    Good Evening,
    Jesus is amazing! Jesus is God. Please speak and spread the good news about Jesus ❤.

  • @TheKaylaChe
    @TheKaylaChe 2 місяці тому +1

    What was the happiness scale at for year 1?

  • @tan.k.j
    @tan.k.j 2 місяці тому +1

    This is wonderful and i wish you would talk to tab and chance

  • @TheKaylaChe
    @TheKaylaChe 2 місяці тому +1

    Do yall feel like yall got married too early?

  • @TheKaylaChe
    @TheKaylaChe 2 місяці тому

    What was the event you were at? With the speakers

  • @Prec736
    @Prec736 2 місяці тому +1

    So early let's gooooooooo🎉

  • @anna-kayblake961
    @anna-kayblake961 2 місяці тому +1

    Not me being the first person here lol

  • @H.Tbenibo
    @H.Tbenibo 2 місяці тому

    Finally!!!

  • @natural_niky
    @natural_niky 2 місяці тому

    💙💕 0:20 🙏🏾

  • @tamarahenderson5241
    @tamarahenderson5241 2 місяці тому

    Love

  • @TheKaylaChe
    @TheKaylaChe 2 місяці тому +1

    Where are yalls minds at for children?

  • @seraaaperaaa7050
    @seraaaperaaa7050 2 місяці тому +4

    Are y’all back or just fcking with me like y’all did vlogmas? Bc of not I don’t really want to waste my time watching y’all for nothing again

    • @RoyaltySarah
      @RoyaltySarah 2 місяці тому +2

      Your comment tells you didn’t listen to a lick of what they’ve discussed in this video and the last few parts.
      They’ve been going through life and explained their struggles.
      And you calling them out on wasting your time? You literally don’t have to be subscribed or a fan you can unsubscribe, your single contribution won’t affect them

  • @shaniekiesutanya7999
    @shaniekiesutanya7999 2 місяці тому

    😊

  • @bluegardian3876
    @bluegardian3876 2 місяці тому

    2:17 made me think about Kevin samuel and his channel in its entirety of why he started his channel. It’s so Effd up that some black women real deal clapped for his death because that was what that man was doing. Some Black Women didn’t want to accept his vulnerability & the truth of how he felt. So by the looks of it today, some of those black women still don’t accept what was said. I truly hate that for black men. Your experiences and expressions of yourself deserve to be heard, shared, and respected period.

  • @123amberdavid
    @123amberdavid 2 місяці тому

    This was beautiful to watch, through the ups and downs you guys were able to communicate and conquer together! I been watching you guys for some years now and I love this! I’ll pray for you guys for continual healthy and loving marriage. 🫶🏾

  • @Hummingbirdrising
    @Hummingbirdrising Місяць тому

    Never stop doing what your doing and stay on the good side because your inspiration for my current relationship. Creating duality in relationships and a realistic lens thank you so much Josh and Isi we are all learning from you @joshandisi

  • @Tsdiquah369
    @Tsdiquah369 2 місяці тому +1

    ua-cam.com/video/CFIn2KJgfS4/v-deo.htmlsi=vFPuKb3uAu5J_qnf
    Have y’all seen Tab & chance wedding day vs marriage video? @ 15 minutes in they speak in ways that affirm y’all 💚👑