Thank-you for sharing the different ways of wrapping a head scarf. I'm from Malaysia, and Muslim women here have another style of wrapping scarf. It's so interesting how every Muslim country has different ways of wrapping which are distinctive and unique. I personally love the turban style you described, it's very much like the African culture way of using head scarves. If I visit Iran would I be able to wear my head scarf in this style or would it not be allowed? I'm curious, are there specific ways that Persian women in Iran need to wear their head scarves?
Narjis. Is it possible to get me some of these beautiful Iranian headscarves? Or do I have to travel to Iran to get these? How are you? How can I contact you? I wish to speak with you in private.
1.Would you mind stopping calling my name with that "J" please? Thank you. 2. Any international shipment to or from Iran is a whole problematic procedure. 3. Thank you🧡 but I'd rather not speak in private to anyone over here.
@@NarsFromMars 1. Why? Is that not your name or do I pronounce it wrongly? 2. That sucks. Maybe I should visit Iran when I can. 3. I understand. What is your reason for this? I am a friendly and outgoing person. Love to meet new people from around the world. If you ever feel like talking, know that you are mostly welcome. Lots of love, Adonia.
Hey you.... To be honest with you, I love your headscarf 😍 but just letting you know im doing good and going to gym (if you would like i can upload videos of me at gym doing my workouts) Im also looking for a new job my current job is slow and im getting stressed being a team lead and the only staying because i have a crush on a 22 yr old coworker (im 32😂 😉) but if she has no interest in me i will be definitely moving jobs.
Don't ever apologize, Narges jon, you are so helpful to all of us!🙏💐 In truth, I love wearing a rusari when I am in Iran, especially the shaal!:) It gives a woman a special air of fashion, dignity, and mystery (as was once the case in Europe)!:) The only difficult aspect of it for me is that, since I originate from a cold climate - I become hot very quickly, which, in turn, further exacerbates my anxiety!🙈 Another surprising fact I find in Iran is that clothing has no inside labels (material description), making it very difficult for me to choose something, as I am allergic to any non-natural material:( (And one last funny impression: each time I return from Iran to the West (after having gotten used to the hijab), and see western women again - I think to myself: "jendehaaaaand!!!"!!!😉😂🤣)
All you said make absolute sense. Plus, the obligation is the problem; I mean I love, say, chocolate, but if they make consuming chocolate obligatory I would definitely object! And that last word!!!!😆😆😆😆
I’m so sorry for what you have to go through in Iran. I’m deeply sorry and my heart aches when I think about all Iranian men on women who want to live their lives as they wish. My deepest sympathies from Turkey…
I came across this video today, think you look beautiful with your scarf on. Beside protecting your head from too much heat directly on your hair and scalp (UV rays can severely damage your hair), scarfs are also way to show your appreciation towards Allah (SWT). Don’t you think so ? Or do you feel too much burden with wearing scarf? Just curious
Hi there. Salam! Thank you for the beautiful scarve styles! I am a recent convert to Islam. And I started to wear the hijab a while ago. I am from the Netherlands. I can use these scarf styles ( with an undercap of course) thank you.
Salam baby🙋🌷 As a 'not-a-fan-of-religions-in-general' I hope you find solace in Islam or whatever you choose. There's too much going on in everyone's life, and generally speaking I don't think most human beings deserve to go through so many problems.
@@NarsFromMars I understand your point of point of view. Not everyone is religious. But after doing my research, I truly believe a creator/ God does excist. Otherwise life would be meaningless. Wouldn't it? For me I am convinced. By the archeological, historical and scientific evidence. Remember that prophets like Jesus and Muhammad were real people. Peace be upon them both. And they did a lot of good things for the world and the people. Great prophets. Great leaders0. This is my opinion. However, I do not believe in forcing my religion upon anyone. It is between us and God if we want to follow him or not. For that he has given us humans a free will. I am also against mandatory hijab. We should wear it by free will. For God. Not for a goverment or people. It must come from the heart. Otherwise it will be meaningless. So yeah, altough I am a believer in God, I respect other people too. Their lives. Their choices. I love to wear my hijab. But I dont like goverments annoying people. And that goes for all goverments . Let women decide what to wear. Whether they want or do not want to wear hijab. Have a nice day narjis 😉❤
I thank Allah He made me love and appreciate Islam. I'm a european revert. Don't think it's " freedom" in western countries. If you choose to cover yourself as a believing woman you become a target for all the atheist haters. Even from goverment. My life experience is exactly the oppsite of yours. I left my roots for a muslim country because of this and it saddens me. I could return but as long as they are not tolerant with what i am and believe i don't want, as i want to return to Allah with a sound heart.
Everyone has a right to their opinion. I'm not much of a believer but I don't FORCE my views, style, etc on others, and basically this is what i believe and want "do anything you want as long as it doesn't hurt me", but the opposite is always the case here. Religious lunatics like most of my relatives want to impose their beliefs on you, comment rudely on everyone's style that's not "compatible" with their beliefs. PLUS, if you force people to wear scarves (like our regime does) AND at least provide them with a decent life, it'll be something, but you keep people miserable and force them into practicing what they don't believe in???? Example: I have an MA in translation studies but I've been jobless for more than a year now. Suppose i didn't have parents to live with, what in the world would i do???????? Obvious: i had to live IN THE STREET. If there is a god he/she MUST be very angry with corrupt politicians who pretend to care about religion.
@@NarsFromMars those who pretend to be religious but in fact are not and oppress people are the worst. And if they die like this without repenting, they will be in the deepest of hellfire.
Asallaam Alaykum sister. I am also a revert sister to Islaam. I agree with you for the full 100%. God created us. He has sent the prophets. And God's way is the only Good way. I want to go to heaven. So if you love God, you obey God. That's how it works. God bless you!
It IS beautiful. Here's the thing: I love chocolate, milk shake, etc, but if consuming any of those ON A DAILY BASIS was obligatory I'd definitely object, you know.
The rectangle thing sounds like the German word Schal (meaning scarf) And in rural Germany grandmas also often wear the babushka style :D Thank you for the video. I hope I will visit Iran soon and these loose headscarf styles are very pretty 🤗
Hi my dear, thank you 🌺 Exactly, we call that "shaal", too, which could mean a neck scarf too. Thanks for your interest in Iran.....i hope things are better when you're visiting....
Salam 😊 Thanks for sharing here. Ya iam wearing the 1st style for my foursquare head scarf in cotton material. And true that was difficult for me to handle when i wore silk material hehee especially when it's windy hehe. I wanna ask, should i wear alwys hair clip on my hair to make my head scarf stay ? How many hair clip ? Or do i need to use hair spray or wear inner ?
Salam,Nars!! Hope you're doing well insha Allah!! I'm a Bangladeshi but was born in Iran... So, l almost know a lot about Iran.. Lots of love and respect from Bangladesh!! Stay safe and stay blessed!! ^ v ^
Because the neck will be showing (which it shouldn't) and the police+ my religious parents+ nosy religious people on the street won't give you a good time!! It's very rare among us iranian women. But as I said they seem to be ok with it when non-iranians do it....
@@NarsFromMars Okay. And what if you wear the turban style with a high turtle neck for example? They left me alone in moroco and turkey with this style. There was no problem at all.
@@NarsFromMars That sucks. I would never judge you for that. It is your choice. As if God only judges our pious looks... no. The heart is what matters most.. people should mind their own business. Am I God? Who am I to judge you? While I am a sinner myself. Again people should mind their own business. I DO however love watching your video's. Where do you live in Iran my dear? I live in the Netherlands. And my name is Adonia which means in Hebrew and Greek : God is my lord. So yeah... its fitting me as a person..😉😆
Salaaaam, thank you azizam🥰 I'm honest on this channel: I don't recommend visiting Iran to those who have dual citizenship (I mean Iranian+ any other nationality).... You might have heard about Nazanin Zaghari......
@@NarsFromMars I heard about this problem! I only have British citizenship. My Persian father not in my life & is now an American citizen. My mother is born in Egypt. Is it ok to tell airport customs / police I’m Egyptian origins if people ask? Or should I say I’m originally from somewhere else? My heart goes out to Nazanin every day. That poor woman has suffered too long. Such a brave & courageous lady. I also feel for her incredibly supportive husband & their daughter.
@@ThatLondonLady no Iranian citizenship, so it's ok. You're British, so I don't think it'd be necessary to explain anything. Hope things change for the better over here. The situation is utterly EMBARRASSING.
@@NarsFromMars anyway, these boogers should not dare demanding anything from the Iranian people. In the case of Arabia, the hijab is part of the tradition and there is at least some kind of do ut des: the people dress and behave accordingly and get welfare money and personal slaves as compensation. But in the case of Iran, the Mullas have done NOTHING for the Iranian people and still demand that one respects them (shame on Western diplomats that don‘t use their immunity). There are some similarities with the mandatory Manchu queue in Qing China: a constant reminder of the humiliation of living under a foreign regime. Of course, no man wears a queue in China nowadays, and the Manchu supressors as a people have ceased to exist as a people.
@@yogatonga7529 And no one notices this: the Iranian climate isn't very kind towards hair/skin, so even if wearing the scarf was a choice, eventually women would choose to cover their hair, even if not with a scarf the way we wrap it now, but when it's obligatory it puts people on the defensive.
@@NarsFromMars im curious why the government has become relaxed over the issue, at least in tehran. is there a specific reason for not militaristically enforcing the chaddor on ALL & allowing so much hair to be exposed?
@@EspritArkitekt I don't know. I delete some comments because I don't want to get into trouble. No freedom of speech here, although I HAVE risked a lot by touching upon certain issues here on this channel.
@@blackflag6976 I didn't mention whether I've left it or not.....and I don't discuss that over here.... You're welcome to have your guess and leave any mean comment you want though, homie🙂
@@NarsFromMars Well, if you are not a fan of religions it means you don't believe religion to be true or something good. You may not officially be an agnostic because of family/government pressure but in your heart you don't believe Islam to be the true word of God and good for society.
@@NarsFromMars nope not at all it should be a personal choice between her God and her husband. No one should be forsed to do anything against their will. Unfortunately we live in a broken world where money/power speeks and he who makes the money sets the rules. All we can do is stand in spirit against corruption, supremacy and hate. But i doubt things will change in the end we are all but a pawn in a game some people play to amuse themselves.
Thank-you for sharing the different ways of wrapping a head scarf. I'm from Malaysia, and Muslim women here have another style of wrapping scarf. It's so interesting how every Muslim country has different ways of wrapping which are distinctive and unique.
I personally love the turban style you described, it's very much like the African culture way of using head scarves. If I visit Iran would I be able to wear my head scarf in this style or would it not be allowed? I'm curious, are there specific ways that Persian women in Iran need to wear their head scarves?
Narjis. Is it possible to get me some of these beautiful Iranian headscarves? Or do I have to travel to Iran to get these? How are you? How can I contact you? I wish to speak with you in private.
1.Would you mind stopping calling my name with that "J" please? Thank you.
2. Any international shipment to or from Iran is a whole problematic procedure.
3. Thank you🧡 but I'd rather not speak in private to anyone over here.
@@NarsFromMars
1. Why? Is that not your name or do I pronounce it wrongly?
2. That sucks. Maybe I should visit Iran when I can.
3. I understand. What is your reason for this? I am a friendly and outgoing person. Love to meet new people from around the world. If you ever feel like talking, know that you are mostly welcome. Lots of love, Adonia.
@@AG-wb3db 1. Because my name is Narges, not Narjes, G for go, for example.
2. Thanks for considering a trip to Iran.
3. Can't explain.
Hey you.... To be honest with you, I love your headscarf 😍 but just letting you know im doing good and going to gym (if you would like i can upload videos of me at gym doing my workouts) Im also looking for a new job my current job is slow and im getting stressed being a team lead and the only staying because i have a crush on a 22 yr old coworker (im 32😂 😉) but if she has no interest in me i will be definitely moving jobs.
Don't ever apologize, Narges jon, you are so helpful to all of us!🙏💐
In truth, I love wearing a rusari when I am in Iran, especially the shaal!:) It gives a woman a special air of fashion, dignity, and mystery (as was once the case in Europe)!:) The only difficult aspect of it for me is that, since I originate from a cold climate - I become hot very quickly, which, in turn, further exacerbates my anxiety!🙈
Another surprising fact I find in Iran is that clothing has no inside labels (material description), making it very difficult for me to choose something, as I am allergic to any non-natural material:(
(And one last funny impression: each time I return from Iran to the West (after having gotten used to the hijab), and see western women again - I think to myself: "jendehaaaaand!!!"!!!😉😂🤣)
All you said make absolute sense.
Plus, the obligation is the problem; I mean I love, say, chocolate, but if they make consuming chocolate obligatory I would definitely object!
And that last word!!!!😆😆😆😆
@@NarsFromMars I understand, azizam, people always appreciate the privilege of a choice:)
Yes, my knowledge of Farsi is 'multifaceted' :)😉😉😉
I’m so sorry for what you have to go through in Iran. I’m deeply sorry and my heart aches when I think about all Iranian men on women who want to live their lives as they wish. My deepest sympathies from Turkey…
Hello and thank you 😊🌷
I came across this video today, think you look beautiful with your scarf on. Beside protecting your head from too much heat directly on your hair and scalp (UV rays can severely damage your hair), scarfs are also way to show your appreciation towards Allah (SWT). Don’t you think so ? Or do you feel too much burden with wearing scarf? Just curious
Yes the scarf DOES come in handy sometimes. The major problem is its being obligatory over here.
Hi there. Salam! Thank you for the beautiful scarve styles! I am a recent convert to Islam. And I started to wear the hijab a while ago. I am from the Netherlands. I can use these scarf styles ( with an undercap of course) thank you.
Salam baby🙋🌷 As a 'not-a-fan-of-religions-in-general' I hope you find solace in Islam or whatever you choose. There's too much going on in everyone's life, and generally speaking I don't think most human beings deserve to go through so many problems.
@@NarsFromMars I understand your point of point of view. Not everyone is religious. But after doing my research, I truly believe a creator/ God does excist. Otherwise life would be meaningless. Wouldn't it? For me I am convinced. By the archeological, historical and scientific evidence. Remember that prophets like Jesus and Muhammad were real people. Peace be upon them both. And they did a lot of good things for the world and the people. Great prophets. Great leaders0. This is my opinion. However, I do not believe in forcing my religion upon anyone. It is between us and God if we want to follow him or not. For that he has given us humans a free will. I am also against mandatory hijab. We should wear it by free will. For God. Not for a goverment or people. It must come from the heart. Otherwise it will be meaningless.
So yeah, altough I am a believer in God, I respect other people too. Their lives. Their choices. I love to wear my hijab. But I dont like goverments annoying people. And that goes for all goverments . Let women decide what to wear. Whether they want or do not want to wear hijab. Have a nice day narjis 😉❤
Thanks for sharing the video. Respect from India !!!
Must be difficult in hot seasons....
Don't even get me started on that!!!
Dear Nars
Thanks for sharing
various styles of scarf.
What a shame. So many beautiful Iranian woman forced to hide their beauty.
And die because they're not wearing the scarf 'properly'. #mahsaamini
I thank Allah He made me love and appreciate Islam.
I'm a european revert.
Don't think it's " freedom" in western countries.
If you choose to cover yourself as a believing woman you become a target for all the atheist haters. Even from goverment.
My life experience is exactly the oppsite of yours.
I left my roots for a muslim country because of this and it saddens me.
I could return but as long as they are not tolerant with what i am and believe i don't want, as i want to return to Allah with a sound heart.
Everyone has a right to their opinion.
I'm not much of a believer but I don't FORCE my views, style, etc on others, and basically this is what i believe and want "do anything you want as long as it doesn't hurt me", but the opposite is always the case here. Religious lunatics like most of my relatives want to impose their beliefs on you, comment rudely on everyone's style that's not "compatible" with their beliefs.
PLUS, if you force people to wear scarves (like our regime does) AND at least provide them with a decent life, it'll be something, but you keep people miserable and force them into practicing what they don't believe in????
Example: I have an MA in translation studies but I've been jobless for more than a year now. Suppose i didn't have parents to live with, what in the world would i do???????? Obvious: i had to live IN THE STREET.
If there is a god he/she MUST be very angry with corrupt politicians who pretend to care about religion.
@@NarsFromMars those who pretend to be religious but in fact are not and oppress people are the worst.
And if they die like this without repenting, they will be in the deepest of hellfire.
@@yusralouhi2788 Hope there IS a hellfire, some people, and their dumb-nut fans, deserve it soooo badly.
@@NarsFromMars 😅
Asallaam Alaykum sister. I am also a revert sister to Islaam. I agree with you for the full 100%. God created us. He has sent the prophets. And God's way is the only Good way. I want to go to heaven. So if you love God, you obey God. That's how it works. God bless you!
Thanks for sharing such styles but do not apalogise for hijab.Do people say sorry who roam nearly naked all over the world?
I missed hijab in Iran! Its so beautiful and fashionable! 😍
It IS beautiful. Here's the thing: I love chocolate, milk shake, etc, but if consuming any of those ON A DAILY BASIS was obligatory I'd definitely object, you know.
Hey I've seen anashid huseyni wearing that turban scarf on instagram
On Instagram, yes. You rarely see an Iranian woman on the street with the turban style.
thank you for this video. I will be in Iran in February 2022 for three months. this is very helpful!
Hi there🙋🌹 I hope you have a good time here in Iran 🥰🌺
@@NarsFromMars i will - thank you!
Thank you, I learned it! Maybe it will be useful one day!😁 At least to choose a gift for someone!!😉
But if you're a rapper some day, DON'T follow ASAP Rockie's babushka trend☺️
The rectangle thing sounds like the German word Schal (meaning scarf)
And in rural Germany grandmas also often wear the babushka style :D
Thank you for the video. I hope I will visit Iran soon and these loose headscarf styles are very pretty 🤗
Hi my dear, thank you 🌺
Exactly, we call that "shaal", too, which could mean a neck scarf too.
Thanks for your interest in Iran.....i hope things are better when you're visiting....
@@NarsFromMars I hope so, too. Thank you :) ruzi khubi dashtah bashid
@@sif_2799 merciiiii, shoma ham hamintor🥰
This is very helpful! Thank you
😊🌺
Salam 😊
Thanks for sharing here.
Ya iam wearing the 1st style for my foursquare head scarf in cotton material. And true that was difficult for me to handle when i wore silk material hehee especially when it's windy hehe.
I wanna ask, should i wear alwys hair clip on my hair to make my head scarf stay ? How many hair clip ? Or do i need to use hair spray or wear inner ?
1 pin would do the trick ny friend 🙋🌷
@@NarsFromMars and you, do u wear inner before head scarf ? 😊 i didn't wear inner anyway 😀 thanks.
@@LilyCinderella no I don't 🌺
سلام سپاس گذارم خیلی خالب بود.
سلام برسون ازانگلیس
مرسی عزیزم لطف دارین. خوش بحالتون که ایران نیستین😅🌺🌷
Salam,Nars!!
Hope you're doing well insha Allah!!
I'm a Bangladeshi but was born in Iran...
So, l almost know a lot about Iran..
Lots of love and respect from Bangladesh!!
Stay safe and stay blessed!! ^ v ^
Oh hello there Marjan🙋 I hope some day I can visit Bangladesh....
@@NarsFromMars Insha Allah!! Kheili Mamnoon!!Hee hee..
@@marjanislam8562 Merci azizam🥰
Why can’t you wear it as a turban?
Because the neck will be showing (which it shouldn't) and the police+ my religious parents+ nosy religious people on the street won't give you a good time!! It's very rare among us iranian women.
But as I said they seem to be ok with it when non-iranians do it....
@@NarsFromMars Okay. And what if you wear the turban style with a high turtle neck for example? They left me alone in moroco and turkey with this style. There was no problem at all.
@@AG-wb3db then other Iranians- religious ones- would give you weird looks. Not worth the trouble.
@@NarsFromMars That sucks. I would never judge you for that. It is your choice. As if God only judges our pious looks... no. The heart is what matters most.. people should mind their own business. Am I God? Who am I to judge you? While I am a sinner myself. Again people should mind their own business. I DO however love watching your video's. Where do you live in Iran my dear?
I live in the Netherlands. And my name is Adonia which means in Hebrew and Greek : God is my lord. So yeah... its fitting me as a person..😉😆
I love it especially the neck tyieng type
Honestly scarves are sometimes fun to wear, and I do enjoy them sometimes, the only problem here is that you HAVE TO wear them....
@@NarsFromMars yeah dear
Sorry for what?
I wear my hijab proudly because I am a mouslima . It does not make me hot .
It shouldn't be obligatory. That's all I'm saying.
what do you feel about your hijab doesn't matter to us really.
Beautiful ❤️
🌺🌺🌺
Thank god Im a boy😂
Indeed!!
😂😂
Great tips! I am half Iranian from U.K & I hope to visit Iran some day.
I wish you & all Iranian people freedom 🙏🏼❤️
Salaaaam, thank you azizam🥰
I'm honest on this channel: I don't recommend visiting Iran to those who have dual citizenship (I mean Iranian+ any other nationality)....
You might have heard about Nazanin Zaghari......
@@NarsFromMars I heard about this problem! I only have British citizenship. My Persian father not in my life & is now an American citizen.
My mother is born in Egypt. Is it ok to tell airport customs / police I’m Egyptian origins if people ask? Or should I say I’m originally from somewhere else?
My heart goes out to Nazanin every day. That poor woman has suffered too long. Such a brave & courageous lady. I also feel for her incredibly supportive husband & their daughter.
@@ThatLondonLady no Iranian citizenship, so it's ok. You're British, so I don't think it'd be necessary to explain anything.
Hope things change for the better over here.
The situation is utterly EMBARRASSING.
Isn‘t apostasy a graver „crime“ than not wearing the hijab?
Well.....of course if they KNOW someone has lost their faith yes.
@@NarsFromMars in dubio pro reo, one of the most important principles of every state founded on justice and the rule of law.
@@NarsFromMars anyway, these boogers should not dare demanding anything from the Iranian people. In the case of Arabia, the hijab is part of the tradition and there is at least some kind of do ut des: the people dress and behave accordingly and get welfare money and personal slaves as compensation. But in the case of Iran, the Mullas have done NOTHING for the Iranian people and still demand that one respects them (shame on Western diplomats that don‘t use their immunity).
There are some similarities with the mandatory Manchu queue in Qing China: a constant reminder of the humiliation of living under a foreign regime. Of course, no man wears a queue in China nowadays, and the Manchu supressors as a people have ceased to exist as a people.
@@yogatonga7529 And no one notices this: the Iranian climate isn't very kind towards hair/skin, so even if wearing the scarf was a choice, eventually women would choose to cover their hair, even if not with a scarf the way we wrap it now, but when it's obligatory it puts people on the defensive.
@@NarsFromMars the black chador is just scary though and rather ugly and doesn‘t even have a real long tradition.
I wish u showed this high bun open hijab worn in tehran
In some very rich upper class neighborhoods in Tehran sometimes there CAN be no Hejab.....
@@NarsFromMars im curious why the government has become relaxed over the issue, at least in tehran. is there a specific reason for not militaristically enforcing the chaddor on ALL & allowing so much hair to be exposed?
@@NarsFromMars really? interesting & strange. who are they even trying to prove this to?!
why will u delete this comment?
@@EspritArkitekt I don't know.
I delete some comments because I don't want to get into trouble. No freedom of speech here, although I HAVE risked a lot by touching upon certain issues here on this channel.
@@NarsFromMars do they check things like YT? I mean do they know who u are in order to surveil u online?
Would you wear it if you travel to a country outside Iran? Are you a Muslim or agnostic?
Not a fan of religionS, in general. Emphasis on the 'S', as you see so many Iranians go "oh, Christianity is so PRESTIGIOUS...." And I'm like.....🙄
@@NarsFromMars Oh I see... What made you leave Islam? Is it because it is forced by your family?
@@blackflag6976 I didn't mention whether I've left it or not.....and I don't discuss that over here.... You're welcome to have your guess and leave any mean comment you want though, homie🙂
@@NarsFromMars Well, if you are not a fan of religions it means you don't believe religion to be true or something good. You may not officially be an agnostic because of family/government pressure but in your heart you don't believe Islam to be the true word of God and good for society.
@@NarsFromMars I'm curious and would respectfully like to know if you were visiting Europe or North America would you still wear headscarf or no?
Thank you! I fly to Tehran and I need to now how I wear this scarf
Hope you have a good time here in Iran 🙋☘️
I think they look great.
😊😊😊😊
@@NarsFromMars Salam cheetory?
@@lukehemsworth3686 salam. Not well of course
Please don't apologize for having modesty.
It shouldn't be obligatory.
@@NarsFromMars nope not at all it should be a personal choice between her God and her husband. No one should be forsed to do anything against their will. Unfortunately we live in a broken world where money/power speeks and he who makes the money sets the rules. All we can do is stand in spirit against corruption, supremacy and hate. But i doubt things will change in the end we are all but a pawn in a game some people play to amuse themselves.
@@ShereeOliver God and husband?!! Every woman should be free to choose whatever she wants for/in her life.