This is a reminder that EVERYONE INCLUDING MEN can struggle with mental health not just females , poor Alex .😞 He pushed his own feelings trying to keep everything and everyone else in track. I’m glad that they are letting him talk he needed to express him self.
Yoatzi expected toooooo much from him… she literally went through a traumatic experience with her ex and soon after she got pregnant with Alex … and I think she wanted Alex to do everything and mend her wounds but he was a new dad and still learning and she came in like BAM and also with Travis. That is HER kid and he still does everything for her and him…
Exactly! She expected too much from him and kinda put him through that depression because he felt overwhelmed and not understood 😢 I hope Alex finds someone better that actually loves him for who he is inside and out. He is such a great guy
If this where a genuine podcast they would’ve brought it up a long long time ago . But something’s are meant to stay between them like influencers say 😃
I feel like Alex already puts a lot on the plate! He was put in Yoaztis life to give her strength from her past trauma. Sometimes people come into your life in episodes for a reason and leave when it’s the right time. You know?
It’s obvious that Alex wants to be with Yoatzi but Yoatzi is rushing things in the sense that marriage will define their relationship. They have been on and off for 6 plus years but not in a committed relationship so you can’t expect a ring to feel like your relationship is serious. I think it’s great that Loui was the meditator because he sees both sides but holding them accountable to reality. A baby, a ring will NEVER define a relationship you need to work for it and cherish it. I wish you both the best of luck and if being together is what’s down the road then your efforts will show.
He ain’t gotta problem getting married, mans wants to have his bag to provide, did you not listen? His girl has her bag, pretty big one too so if he’d like to be up to par then good for him. Y’all need to rewatch and reassess smh
Y’all didn’t have to share this much with us especially how people are 🩷but as a supporter I appreciate you guys sharing. This gave us a better understanding. Love you guys!!!!💜 I’m glad we got to see more Alex too!!!!
ALEX didn’t have to step up and take care of Travis but HE DID! and that’s amazing to me from being a single mother, it’s hard to find a man that WANTS to step up but these things that y’all are having trouble with can be work through because if you were thinking marriage then it’s through up and downs and marriage is hard but you guys can tell y’all love each other! Yotzia I pray you find healing from your past trauma and self heal. Praying for y’all! Y’all got this!
Jesse wasn’t a bad dad yotzia kept her baby daddy away from his son & still is keeping her son away . Fucking sad everyone is showing so much love to Alex for stepping in as a step father when the real dad wants to be in his son life !!
I love that you talk about men and mental health cause people forget that Dads can get PPD/PPA as well. Not just moms. Thank you for being open and vulnerable and bringing that up.
I have been married for 5 years now but prior to that I was with my husband for 6 years and I thought the same as yoatzi. A few months ago me and my husband talked about this same conversation why some men don't want to get married. And he actually told me the same thing that Alex said. He said he knew he wanted to get married to me. However, he didn't feel like he was financially ready yet. And we went into more in depth in the conversation and now I understand my husband's point of view. About being stable and being where you want to be before getting married etc. 😊
I love how Louie validates both their feelings! There’s so much love there. I hope everything works out at the end because you guys are amazing parents❤️
I must say ive seen both videos that alex and yoatzi posted but this video by far is the best one. I love how louie was able to dig a bit deeper into the sitation and held them both accountable for things that they both did wrong, the communication couldnt have been better both yoatzi and alex were able to open up on a deeper level in this video i feel, props to louie for making it a safe space for them to be able to both equally express them selves & hopefully everything works out for them. You can tell there honestly is love there in between the two
Alex did have a point about not diving into your feelings because you will get things done but like Louie said you will eventually crack. Everyone needs to find the balance of their feelings which is why so many people go to therapy. But not dealing with your feelings is what men are technically trained to do and why they eventually crack and especially in a relationship.
Thank you for this episode! Ahh Louie the therapist. Thank you for showing us & explaining to us Yoatzi & Alex's relationship, from their perspective & yours Louie. I didn't know Yoatzi knew Alex before he went on social media.
Take a shot everytime Louie says “POV” lol no but I really enjoyed this raw episode like how Louie was there for both of them little therapist moment !!
I honestly think it’s the peer pressure. I felt the same way. Specially when I would see everyone around me get engaged and married and that would make me wonder why not me. Like is someone wrong with me… I fell into pressure that looked like if I wanted to rush things although my relationship was for years and years already. I learned that everyone’s timing is different. I say this also because I remember watching another podcast where an influencer talked about the pressure to be like the rest influencers like getting a BBL and dressing like them. At the end she didn’t get a BBL but she talked about how the pressure is real. I love you guys!!! ❤Wish you all the best!
Currently in my feels listening to this episode. 🥺 This is my current experience right now except with 3 kids. Parenthood & mental illness is such a crazy journey to navigate. I'm hoping the best for you two. 🫶🏼
This honestly made me understand yoatzi so much better. Because before I wouldn’t understand the reason why she wanted to get married but now I understand it’s because she wants to someone to be fully committed to her and not just cause she wants a wedding. 😢
im so glad yoatzi brought up the reason with wanting to have the “marriage title” is to feel that your partner is committed to you. which is such horrible mentality to have bc your partner could be 10000% committed to you, but just needs more time and we’re over here thinking they dont want to fully commit to us. alex explained the answer perfectly and i truly understand how it feels to be in yoatzi shoes
It’s be the PuTaSsss who be hating 😭😭 but So happy you guys are finding yourselves first and giving yourselves the space needed while making the babies happy and out of the drama🥺💕 I hope you guys the best! LOVE YOU GUYS!!! 💜💜💜💕💕
Relationships & marriage means going through mistakes and experiences together and that sometimes leads through rocky situations, arguments, etc. but thats the beauty of it, after some time you’ll see your growth but the whole point of it all is to never give up on eachother. We grow together and it isnt easy. And especially seeing someone like what alex said he went from one person to 2 to 3. It was all at once.
ALEX IS A GREAT MAN PERIOD!!!!! ANY WOMAN WOULD BE LUCKY TO HAVE SUCH A GREAT BOYFRIEND, PARTNER , FATHER. FROM WHAT IS OBVIOUS YOATZI BASICALLY BROKE UP QITH HIM. FOR BEING A BETTER FATHER TO HER KIDS THAN A BOYFRIEND! FEEL LUCKY YOU HAVE A MAN THAT STEPPED UP!!!!
My assumption... She has a fairytale vision of the marriage title and a lil immature for being the older 1 she wants him to be more financially stable and perfect as if she is and she's confused af still finding herself so idk why all the pressure is on him if he's doing what he can she's not taking any self accountability cus she feels she made it already...I think she wants a open relationship OR wants to have fun and fuck around lmao.. if she was willing to start talking to him before fully leaving her baby daddy idk.. if she wanted a family she would fight for their love, they can work on themselves and still be together if she would help him grow as much as he's helping her grow
Louieeee you’re a therapist honeyyyyy! Take your time guys if things are meant to be they will be. Just my two cents I understand the kids are in between but the low key flirting and still often seeing each other can also suppress you getting better -distance and STRICTLY speaking only of kids can do wonders. Blessings
I think at the end of the day both Alex and yoatzi are very much mature and as a mom I definitely understand yoatzi but at the same time I’m able to understand Alex because at one point my husband and I weren’t always on the same page up until we learned we had to communicate in order to make things get better and to be better parents to our kids ✨🫶
For Yoatzi I feel that your relationship with Alex could have grown and it can still flourish with your patience and teaching Alex as you go. It can become a great freindship or a greater soon wife & husband one day. Please keep trying and maybe in the future this can go somewhere 🎉❤
Yoatzi- I see growth in you, and I think there’s still a lot more self healing to be done, because then we can be self damaging to our relationships , love, family and friends. But I see love between you too. And it takes a real man to love and raise a son that isn’t his.I have a man like that my self and I’m continuously working on my self to make sure that I don’t ruin the most precious thing I have, my family. Don’t let social media or those expectations on what your life “should” be by now . This is your life , take it day by day
Everyone is different, as long as every decision is made out of love, you will find the right answers to build a strong relationship whether that’s romantic or a kick ass co parent ship😌
35:55 & 37:37 is where the summary of the issue is in my perspective, You seem like good people and are on the right track so as long as y’all don’t drag extra s (other partners) into this situation you’re good. God & your kids first and everything thing else will fall in place, whether you’re meant to be together or not. Proud of all three of you for keeping it friendly and family vibes🤍
Men and women have their own “timeline” on marriage, Men want to be financially ready to be able to support you and the kids Vs Some women wanting to get married after 5+ years etc. but it is hard supporting each other when your main priority shifted to the kids.. I hope you guys can find your way back to each other. ❤ love you guys been here since 2014 🥰🫶🏼 love to see you guys grow!!!!!
Loved this episode ! Cheering for Yoatzi and Alex ! I hope you two are able to figure it out and have a beautiful relationship or co parenting relationship 🤍
Awwwww i love how louie is being a therapist and asking questions that are juicy i think but i just wanna say don't worry about what anyone thinks they are just haters and jealous of you guys
As a female I see her not being able to take the heat back and handle it when she hears it from him probably lol so she can't trust him now but he can say the same thing about her since she pursued him first
Cutting social media and family/friends out of our life was the best thing for me and my bfs relationship because i was struggling alot looking around seeing everyone married and kids with houses and cars and I thought I was behind in life I would cry trying so hard to be like them until I started to just live in the moment and let us go at our own pace we are so much happier now ❤
Hi Louie yoatzi and Alex this episode was the best I have been engaged for 1 year and I always had a vision of when I wanted to be married by. My fiancé and I started planning but financially we couldn’t keep up. My fiancé came to me and told me how he wanted to plan this wedding and enjoy it and not be stressed out. After hearing how much he wanted to slow down the plans because he wanted that day and process to be special , I was able to appreciate and respect his reasonings. I saw his intentions were not because he didn’t love me but that he wanted to remember this day for the rest of our lives and for it to be perfect. Keep working hard keep working at the relationship and thank you all for sharing I love you guys ❤️💜💕
Louie You Nailed It about Libras...I'm a Libra and You described Me to the T! And It Sucks when We are a Spiral of Emotions! Louie Therapist of the Year ❤
I real hope yoatzi and Alex make it they are great people yes there is always ups and downs in a relationship but I hope you guys can work on your problems so when you guys get back together you guys are strong as a rock Keep pushing together and your relationship will only get stronger
i ABSOULTELY appreicate y'all talking about men's mental health because it's such a taboo topic for men even more so for mexican/latino/hispanic men who have to uphold this macho man persona which supresses and minimizes men's mental health extremely. feeling unlike yourself, where you are just numb and going through the motions of a rountine and not feeling pleasure/interest in things you like, IS depression. if you know someone who has depression or is in a depressive episode please reach out, talk with them, and support them more than anything. give them that reassurance that they need to hear.
Everyone has different time lines and not everyone’s relationship starts the same way. Personally I have been with my man 11yrs, but I would have never married this man in my early/mid twenties. We were both so young and going through person growth. Now im in my early 30’s and I feel like we’re getting to that point of taking the next step. Marriage is not a game, and everyone’s relationship is different. Nobody should be pressured by anyone to take that step. Props to you guys and I hope you stay close always and stay in each others lives🤍🤍🤍🤍❤️❤️❤️❤️
I feel like Yoa expected more out of Alex when it came to being in a relationship since they knew each other for so long and it’s understandable. And they probably did get lost in between friends to being a couple to parents… but hopefully they can come back together as they always did. ❤️
Overall I loved this because everything that they wanted to say was said and I loved it. I really enjoyed everyone talking about what they needed too. Talking about once in a life time, LOUIE I saw you in SF and I was so shocked and I didn’t go back and say hi! I have so much regret in my heart hopefully I get to see you in person again 😭😭 To end off I really enjoy this podcast and everyone did amazing💜💕❤️
*the fact that Alex and Jessie (Travis dad ) were friends is crazyyyyyy Alex knew about them just wanted fame for himself, and seeing lies from Alex is just funny knowing that he already knew about them like por favor*
I’m a Libra and I’m exactly like that too. I hit rock bottom a couple months after having my daughter and it was hard to get back up. That was 3 years ago and thankfully I’m good, I’m happy and healthy now ❤
As a parent I see how things could just go wrong from yoatzi already being a mom till Alex being a first time dad how hard it could be but I hope you guys can really work things out
it’s easy to fall into depression and get lost in it especially in the beginning stages of parenthood. You have to talk through it and put in the work with your partner so you guys won’t fall apart.
Sometimes life can takes it turn and not go the way you wanted even if you have the money and then you don’t. I was engaged 3 months prior to my husband now had a stroke. Getting married was put on hold for 4 years because we end up loosing our money due to husband lost job and all our savings went into paying rent and I didn’t make enough to cover for all expenses. We end up loosing our house to renting a room and eventually we got back onto our feet and my husband now health got better and we both end up with better jobs and boom we got married. We didn’t even have kids at the time so I never thought when I will see myself married, with two beautiful kids and homeowners after the tragedy.
So raw and personal ty for sharing this. The perfect relationship doesn’t exits. Me and my husband had our son one yr into dating we were 19yrs old and we lived separately for 4 years before we moved in together then 2 yrs into living together got married and purchased our first home we did it all backwards and now have a 12 yr relationship with 2 kids ❤️ patience babes
Wait… I think watching panchos interview with Jesse (Yoatzi’s ex) things that they are saying line up with what Jesse said?? I think Yoatzi may not realize where she may be wrong in the relationship. Bc from the way Alex is expressing himself as far as lk “how they met” & they’re relationship.. it seems toxic too. Alex seems lk a good guy & honestly Jesse too. Not saying Jesse wasn’t wrong but like Jesse said in the interview men don’t really express or talk to someone when they’re relationship doesn’t feel right. Idk lol maybe Yoatzi needs time to focus on herself learn to love herself & find her person. Wishing them all the best ❤
No wonder the relationship is how it is.. we get to hear how it started and it probably was not giving relationship vibes haha more like friends w/ benefits and that will never work. Hopefully things are different this time and if its meant to be it will find its way ❤
Im a libra and im definitely like this and my family tells me to not always worry about everyone else and to worry about myself, but it’s just hard I don’t even know how to do that 😅
That’s crazy that you guys came into all this self awareness about the relationship, and I love that Louie is such a balanced person to give advice to both. Loved this deep podcast on y’all I didn’t know journey of you guys Maybe in future once you guys can focus on your own happiness and love fill that cup and can try again and let it overflow into each others 💕 Sooo side note this will mindblow you guys soo not a lot of people are into Astrology cause it doesn’t really resonate. But that’s cause tropical mainstream astrology isn’t connected to the constellations a astrology more accurate and follows the sky true sidereal astrology :) soo Alex would know himself as a tropical libra but he was born under the virgo constellation me too Oct 17 which is the servant, someone very busy body, moves health, knowledge seeker, synthesizer, witty all those virgo quality and I think yoazti would be a sidereal libra actually loves love, art, beauty, intellect, funny, diplomat ruled by venus planet of besuty. And Louie is a leo he hits the dates a true kinggggg lol you can tell the difference in a tropical leo sidereal leo like Louie and a tropical leo sidereal cancer like bretman you tell aggressive fire passive aggressive water lol soo for the energy rant but it goes deep it’s soo fun sidereal astrologer here :)
I loved listening to this! I think every relationship goes through this when you first have your kid and don’t put the time into your relationship. That’s when people give up and say well they aren’t for me but like you guys said you will go through alot and have to decide if it’s worth fighting for. Good luck to them 💕💕
right person, wrong time… if it’s meant to be then I wholeheartedly hope you guys come back to each other and if it isn’t meant to be as painful as it may be, that’s also okay 🤍
This is a reminder that EVERYONE INCLUDING MEN can struggle with mental health not just females , poor Alex .😞 He pushed his own feelings trying to keep everything and everyone else in track. I’m glad that they are letting him talk he needed to express him self.
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Yoatzi expected toooooo much from him… she literally went through a traumatic experience with her ex and soon after she got pregnant with Alex … and I think she wanted Alex to do everything and mend her wounds but he was a new dad and still learning and she came in like BAM and also with Travis. That is HER kid and he still does everything for her and him…
Exactly! She expected too much from him and kinda put him through that depression because he felt overwhelmed and not understood 😢 I hope Alex finds someone better that actually loves him for who he is inside and out. He is such a great guy
You two expect too little
100%
Alex is a GOOD MAN. He wants to provide for his family.
He doesn’t have a job
@@michellefranco5251doesn’t he do social media ? And trainer?
@@michellefranco5251he does tho.
@@michellefranco5251 he does, and money isn’t the only thing you can provide for your family. food for thought.
We definitely need to do this again! Haha thanks for having me on 🙌🏻💙
Idk about everyone but I ADMIRE ALEX! he took on a major role. And yoatzi im so sorry but you were very selfish in that relationship!
@@lauratellez2033girl u didn’t make sense keep what u think to urself nobody need that negativity
@@lauratellez2033 lmao were you in the relationship??
@@lauratellez2033this ain’t gonna make him want you love
@@lauratellez2033Facts!
Now yoatzi needs to do this with Louie and fern 🫣
tea
I would watch as well! That episode would have so many views
Yess
This is Alex having the mature mentality and a lot of men don’t have that mindset. I applaud him for that!
I wish you guys would pod twice a week 😭 I always look forward to this
FACTS BROOO
But can we have Fernando 🌶️ in the hot chair next 😅❤
That's what I was thinking! I wonder when they gonna bring it up
If this where a genuine podcast they would’ve brought it up a long long time ago . But something’s are meant to stay between them like influencers say 😃
We needa like this uppppp!!!!
YES I SECOND THIS
Hot seat not hot chair lol
I feel like Alex already puts a lot on the plate! He was put in Yoaztis life to give her strength from her past trauma. Sometimes people come into your life in episodes for a reason and leave when it’s the right time. You know?
I just love how Louie doesn’t take sides and understands both of them I love them 💜💜💜💜
It’s obvious that Alex wants to be with Yoatzi but Yoatzi is rushing things in the sense that marriage will define their relationship. They have been on and off for 6 plus years but not in a committed relationship so you can’t expect a ring to feel like your relationship is serious. I think it’s great that Loui was the meditator because he sees both sides but holding them accountable to reality. A baby, a ring will NEVER define a relationship you need to work for it and cherish it. I wish you both the best of luck and if being together is what’s down the road then your efforts will show.
He ain’t gotta problem getting married, mans wants to have his bag to provide, did you not listen?
His girl has her bag, pretty big one too so if he’d like to be up to par then good for him. Y’all need to rewatch and reassess smh
Bottom line she needs to work on herself so she’s not so desperate to want to keep a man when he’s trying to figure things out too
Y’all didn’t have to share this much with us especially how people are 🩷but as a supporter I appreciate you guys sharing. This gave us a better understanding. Love you guys!!!!💜 I’m glad we got to see more Alex too!!!!
you guys always say ur not smart but yall articulate yourselves so well
ALEX didn’t have to step up and take care of Travis but HE DID! and that’s amazing to me from being a single mother, it’s hard to find a man that WANTS to step up but these things that y’all are having trouble with can be work through because if you were thinking marriage then it’s through up and downs and marriage is hard but you guys can tell y’all love each other! Yotzia I pray you find healing from your past trauma and self heal. Praying for y’all! Y’all got this!
Jesse wasn’t a bad dad yotzia kept her baby daddy away from his son & still is keeping her son away . Fucking sad everyone is showing so much love to Alex for stepping in as a step father when the real dad wants to be in his son life !!
I love that you talk about men and mental health cause people forget that Dads can get PPD/PPA as well. Not just moms. Thank you for being open and vulnerable and bringing that up.
I have been married for 5 years now but prior to that I was with my husband for 6 years and I thought the same as yoatzi. A few months ago me and my husband talked about this same conversation why some men don't want to get married. And he actually told me the same thing that Alex said. He said he knew he wanted to get married to me. However, he didn't feel like he was financially ready yet. And we went into more in depth in the conversation and now I understand my husband's point of view. About being stable and being where you want to be before getting married etc. 😊
I love how Louie validates both their feelings! There’s so much love there. I hope everything works out at the end because you guys are amazing parents❤️
I must say ive seen both videos that alex and yoatzi posted but this video by far is the best one. I love how louie was able to dig a bit deeper into the sitation and held them both accountable for things that they both did wrong, the communication couldnt have been better both yoatzi and alex were able to open up on a deeper level in this video i feel, props to louie for making it a safe space for them to be able to both equally express them selves & hopefully everything works out for them. You can tell there honestly is love there in between the two
This !!!
Alex did have a point about not diving into your feelings because you will get things done but like Louie said you will eventually crack. Everyone needs to find the balance of their feelings which is why so many people go to therapy. But not dealing with your feelings is what men are technically trained to do and why they eventually crack and especially in a relationship.
I was waiting for the episode to go live to clean my house rn lmaooo
Literally sameee
Same here but for me to cook lol
Same frfr 😂😂😂😂😂
Girl me too! The fact that we need podcasts to get motivated to clean/cook 😭😭😂
Moooood
I can see the love Yoa and Meh have for each other and I sincerely hope they work it out
Why do they call him meh?
Thank you for this episode! Ahh Louie the therapist. Thank you for showing us & explaining to us Yoatzi & Alex's relationship, from their perspective & yours Louie. I didn't know Yoatzi knew Alex before he went on social media.
Take a shot everytime Louie says “POV” lol no but I really enjoyed this raw episode like how Louie was there for both of them little therapist moment !!
Why was I thinking this 😂😂😂
I honestly think it’s the peer pressure. I felt the same way. Specially when I would see everyone around me get engaged and married and that would make me wonder why not me. Like is someone wrong with me… I fell into pressure that looked like if I wanted to rush things although my relationship was for years and years already. I learned that everyone’s timing is different. I say this also because I remember watching another podcast where an influencer talked about the pressure to be like the rest influencers like getting a BBL and dressing like them. At the end she didn’t get a BBL but she talked about how the pressure is real. I love you guys!!! ❤Wish you all the best!
1000% agree !
Having a bby is hard it can either break or make your relationship stronger
Currently in my feels listening to this episode. 🥺
This is my current experience right now except with 3 kids. Parenthood & mental illness is such a crazy journey to navigate. I'm hoping the best for you two. 🫶🏼
This honestly made me understand yoatzi so much better. Because before I wouldn’t understand the reason why she wanted to get married but now I understand it’s because she wants to someone to be fully committed to her and not just cause she wants a wedding. 😢
Thursday’s are always my favorite day of the week 🩷💜 I always look forward to the weekly podcast!!
Is easy to get lost in parenthood . Hopefully you guys can come together one day
Take a shot every time Louie says “From my POV” 🤣🤣
Yoatzi remembering the shade of lipstick she was wearing is so funny 😂😂😂😭😭
im so glad yoatzi brought up the reason with wanting to have the “marriage title” is to feel that your partner is committed to you. which is such horrible mentality to have bc your partner could be 10000% committed to you, but just needs more time and we’re over here thinking they dont want to fully commit to us. alex explained the answer perfectly and i truly understand how it feels to be in yoatzi shoes
The maturity in this video is amazing! & also Louie lowkey gives really good advice! ❤
Finally, I kept refreshing the page waiting for it to upload😂 Love the podcast guys. It’s the reason I look forward to Thursdays❤️
It’s be the PuTaSsss who be hating 😭😭 but So happy you guys are finding yourselves first and giving yourselves the space needed while making the babies happy and out of the drama🥺💕 I hope you guys the best! LOVE YOU GUYS!!! 💜💜💜💕💕
Relationships & marriage means going through mistakes and experiences together and that sometimes leads through rocky situations, arguments, etc. but thats the beauty of it, after some time you’ll see your growth but the whole point of it all is to never give up on eachother. We grow together and it isnt easy. And especially seeing someone like what alex said he went from one person to 2 to 3. It was all at once.
ALEX IS A GREAT MAN PERIOD!!!!! ANY WOMAN WOULD BE LUCKY TO HAVE SUCH A GREAT BOYFRIEND, PARTNER , FATHER. FROM WHAT IS OBVIOUS YOATZI BASICALLY BROKE UP QITH HIM. FOR BEING A BETTER FATHER TO HER KIDS THAN A BOYFRIEND! FEEL LUCKY YOU HAVE A MAN THAT STEPPED UP!!!!
My assumption... She has a fairytale vision of the marriage title and a lil immature for being the older 1 she wants him to be more financially stable and perfect as if she is and she's confused af still finding herself so idk why all the pressure is on him if he's doing what he can she's not taking any self accountability cus she feels she made it already...I think she wants a open relationship OR wants to have fun and fuck around lmao.. if she was willing to start talking to him before fully leaving her baby daddy idk.. if she wanted a family she would fight for their love, they can work on themselves and still be together if she would help him grow as much as he's helping her grow
Take a shot each time Louis says “POV” lol
Good podcast you guys! Louis is a good mediator!
Louieeee you’re a therapist honeyyyyy! Take your time guys if things are meant to be they will be. Just my two cents I understand the kids are in between but the low key flirting and still often seeing each other can also suppress you getting better -distance and STRICTLY speaking only of kids can do wonders. Blessings
YAY FINALLY A NEW PODCAST Episode 🎉 this is why I love Thursdays ❤
I feel bad that Alex’s dad thought that way about having many ladies but good for Alex on being a healthy change! I love that! I hope they work out ❤
Y’all always come through during lunch hourrrrr 🤩
I think at the end of the day both Alex and yoatzi are very much mature and as a mom I definitely understand yoatzi but at the same time I’m able to understand Alex because at one point my husband and I weren’t always on the same page up until we learned we had to communicate in order to make things get better and to be better parents to our kids ✨🫶
Y’all saved my life , I was so bored waiting for them to finish my oil change lol
For Yoatzi I feel that your relationship with Alex could have grown and it can still flourish with your patience and teaching Alex as you go. It can become a great freindship or a greater soon wife & husband one day. Please keep trying and maybe in the future this can go somewhere 🎉❤
I kept refreshing😂😂 had to get my thursday dose of pretty not smart❤😂
Yoatzi- I see growth in you, and I think there’s still a lot more self healing to be done, because then we can be self damaging to our relationships , love, family and friends. But I see love between you too. And it takes a real man to love and raise a son that isn’t his.I have a man like that my self and I’m continuously working on my self to make sure that I don’t ruin the most precious thing I have, my family. Don’t let social media or those expectations on what your life “should” be by now . This is your life , take it day by day
Louie word of the century :Optometrist, doppelgänger
Everyone is different, as long as every decision is made out of love, you will find the right answers to build a strong relationship whether that’s romantic or a kick ass co parent ship😌
I hope they both come back to each other and have their happy ending ❤️🩹
35:55 & 37:37 is where the summary of the issue is in my perspective, You seem like good people and are on the right track so as long as y’all don’t drag extra s (other partners) into this situation you’re good. God & your kids first and everything thing else will fall in place, whether you’re meant to be together or not. Proud of all three of you for keeping it friendly and family vibes🤍
Watching this during school !! Thursdays are always a great day 💖💜
Men and women have their own “timeline” on marriage,
Men want to be financially ready to be able to support you and the kids
Vs
Some women wanting to get married after 5+ years etc.
but it is hard supporting each other when your main priority shifted to the kids.. I hope you guys can find your way back to each other. ❤ love you guys been here since 2014 🥰🫶🏼 love to see you guys grow!!!!!
Loved this episode ! Cheering for Yoatzi and Alex ! I hope you two are able to figure it out and have a beautiful relationship or co parenting relationship 🤍
Awwwww i love how louie is being a therapist and asking questions that are juicy i think but i just wanna say don't worry about what anyone thinks they are just haters and jealous of you guys
“now i can see why he left” lmfaoo 😭😭
The whole knowing each others dirty laundry is a set up for disaster that’s what happened here being “bffs” and telling each other everything.
As a female I see her not being able to take the heat back and handle it when she hears it from him probably lol so she can't trust him now but he can say the same thing about her since she pursued him first
Cutting social media and family/friends out of our life was the best thing for me and my bfs relationship because i was struggling alot looking around seeing everyone married and kids with houses and cars and I thought I was behind in life I would cry trying so hard to be like them until I started to just live in the moment and let us go at our own pace we are so much happier now ❤
Hi Louie yoatzi and Alex this episode was the best I have been engaged for 1 year and I always had a vision of when I wanted to be married by. My fiancé and I started planning but financially we couldn’t keep up. My fiancé came to me and told me how he wanted to plan this wedding and enjoy it and not be stressed out. After hearing how much he wanted to slow down the plans because he wanted that day and process to be special , I was able to appreciate and respect his reasonings. I saw his intentions were not because he didn’t love me but that he wanted to remember this day for the rest of our lives and for it to be perfect. Keep working hard keep working at the relationship and thank you all for sharing I love you guys ❤️💜💕
Louie You Nailed It about Libras...I'm a Libra and You described Me to the T! And It Sucks when We are a Spiral of Emotions! Louie Therapist of the Year ❤
Yes!! Men also go through depression, always wishing you guys the best. ❤❤ hope you guys find yourself back again to be in a relationship
I real hope yoatzi and Alex make it they are great people yes there is always ups and downs in a relationship but I hope you guys can work on your problems so when you guys get back together you guys are strong as a rock
Keep pushing together and your relationship will only get stronger
Alot has changed since the “break” for the better, for example MEH has new shoes🤣🤣🤣. Love you guys❤️🫶🏽
Louie being all therapist for themmmmmm
This was very healing. Thank you Louie for asking juicyyyyyy questions! lmaoooo
i ABSOULTELY appreicate y'all talking about men's mental health because it's such a taboo topic for men even more so for mexican/latino/hispanic men who have to uphold this macho man persona which supresses and minimizes men's mental health extremely. feeling unlike yourself, where you are just numb and going through the motions of a rountine and not feeling pleasure/interest in things you like, IS depression. if you know someone who has depression or is in a depressive episode please reach out, talk with them, and support them more than anything. give them that reassurance that they need to hear.
Louie being a couples therapistuhhh
Everyone has different time lines and not everyone’s relationship starts the same way. Personally I have been with my man 11yrs, but I would have never married this man in my early/mid twenties. We were both so young and going through person growth. Now im in my early 30’s and I feel like we’re getting to that point of taking the next step. Marriage is not a game, and everyone’s relationship is different. Nobody should be pressured by anyone to take that step. Props to you guys and I hope you stay close always and stay in each others lives🤍🤍🤍🤍❤️❤️❤️❤️
Love how yoa n Alex still have a good relationship
I feel like Yoa expected more out of Alex when it came to being in a relationship since they knew each other for so long and it’s understandable. And they probably did get lost in between friends to being a couple to parents… but hopefully they can come back together as they always did. ❤️
Awe yoatzi take care of Alex's heart ❤️
Time for Yoa for bring FernyFerrrnnnn 🤪❤
Omg loved when Louie talked about feelings how they should be taken into consideration ❤❤❤❤
Along with Louie we all want what’s best for you both. Weather is together or apart. ❤❤❤
Overall I loved this because everything that they wanted to say was said and I loved it. I really enjoyed everyone talking about what they needed too. Talking about once in a life time, LOUIE I saw you in SF and I was so shocked and I didn’t go back and say hi! I have so much regret in my heart hopefully I get to see you in person again 😭😭
To end off I really enjoy this podcast and everyone did amazing💜💕❤️
Yoatizi should of seen that coming then , she kknew it was a unhealthy relationship since the beginning 😫😫😫 being w other people is crazy 🤣
*the fact that Alex and Jessie (Travis dad ) were friends is crazyyyyyy Alex knew about them just wanted fame for himself, and seeing lies from Alex is just funny knowing that he already knew about them like por favor*
I’m a Libra and I’m exactly like that too. I hit rock bottom a couple months after having my daughter and it was hard to get back up. That was 3 years ago and thankfully I’m good, I’m happy and healthy now ❤
As a parent I see how things could just go wrong from yoatzi already being a mom till Alex being a first time dad how hard it could be but I hope you guys can really work things out
Yall can talk about Alex and Yoatzi but Louie Ate as an interviewer 🤟🏻🤟🏻❤️❤️❤️
it’s easy to fall into depression and get lost in it especially in the beginning stages of parenthood. You have to talk through it and put in the work with your partner so you guys won’t fall apart.
Sometimes life can takes it turn and not go the way you wanted even if you have the money and then you don’t. I was engaged 3 months prior to my husband now had a stroke. Getting married was put on hold for 4 years because we end up loosing our money due to husband lost job and all our savings went into paying rent and I didn’t make enough to cover for all expenses. We end up loosing our house to renting a room and eventually we got back onto our feet and my husband now health got better and we both end up with better jobs and boom we got married. We didn’t even have kids at the time so I never thought when I will see myself married, with two beautiful kids and homeowners after the tragedy.
So raw and personal ty for sharing this. The perfect relationship doesn’t exits. Me and my husband had our son one yr into dating we were 19yrs old and we lived separately for 4 years before we moved in together then 2 yrs into living together got married and purchased our first home we did it all backwards and now have a 12 yr relationship with 2 kids ❤️ patience babes
Btw my husband a libra too 😂! Very indecisive
i peeped yoatzi looking in the view finder it was so cute her seeing everyone’s reactions I love herr
Wait… I think watching panchos interview with Jesse (Yoatzi’s ex) things that they are saying line up with what Jesse said?? I think Yoatzi may not realize where she may be wrong in the relationship. Bc from the way Alex is expressing himself as far as lk “how they met” & they’re relationship.. it seems toxic too. Alex seems lk a good guy & honestly Jesse too. Not saying Jesse wasn’t wrong but like Jesse said in the interview men don’t really express or talk to someone when they’re relationship doesn’t feel right. Idk lol maybe Yoatzi needs time to focus on herself learn to love herself & find her person. Wishing them all the best ❤
No wonder the relationship is how it is.. we get to hear how it started and it probably was not giving relationship vibes haha more like friends w/ benefits and that will never work.
Hopefully things are different this time and if its meant to be it will find its way ❤
Friends w benefits may not work for you love, speak for yourself 😉
Sneaky link vibes lol
Alex dropping the ball 😂 and his frown got me dead
Im a libra and im definitely like this and my family tells me to not always worry about everyone else and to worry about myself, but it’s just hard I don’t even know how to do that 😅
LOUIE BEING THE LEO FRIEND THAT WE ALL NEED 🥹😭❤️
The amount of space that Alexs manspreads takes up is a big as the space Yoatzi and Louie take up. 😭
“GOO TOOO PAHTT TWOUHH” got me 😭😭
That’s crazy that you guys came into all this self awareness about the relationship, and I love that Louie is such a balanced person to give advice to both. Loved this deep podcast on y’all I didn’t know journey of you guys Maybe in future once you guys can focus on your own happiness and love fill that cup and can try again and let it overflow into each others 💕
Sooo side note this will mindblow you guys soo not a lot of people are into Astrology cause it doesn’t really resonate. But that’s cause tropical mainstream astrology isn’t connected to the constellations a astrology more accurate and follows the sky true sidereal astrology :)
soo Alex would know himself as a tropical libra but he was born under the virgo constellation me too Oct 17 which is the servant, someone very busy body, moves health, knowledge seeker, synthesizer, witty all those virgo quality and I think yoazti would be a sidereal libra actually loves love, art, beauty, intellect, funny, diplomat ruled by venus planet of besuty. And Louie is a leo he hits the dates a true kinggggg lol you can tell the difference in a tropical leo sidereal leo like Louie and a tropical leo sidereal cancer like bretman you tell aggressive fire passive aggressive water lol soo for the energy rant but it goes deep it’s soo fun sidereal astrologer here :)
So we all clean our house on thursdays ? 😂💜
My husband went through something similar, especially going from a single man to having a family of 4. We need to do better for our men.
I loved listening to this! I think every relationship goes through this when you first have your kid and don’t put the time into your relationship. That’s when people give up and say well they aren’t for me but like you guys said you will go through alot and have to decide if it’s worth fighting for. Good luck to them 💕💕
right person, wrong time… if it’s meant to be then I wholeheartedly hope you guys come back to each other and if it isn’t meant to be as painful as it may be, that’s also okay 🤍
Been waiting for a new episode so i could enjoy more the cooking while i listen to you guy's. Love the vibes
I refreashed UA-cam 5 times just to be early ANOTHER EPISODEEEE!!!
I’m a libra too , and we put everyone else before me and yes sometimes it’s a lot and I forget about myself !
Not Louie the therapist!!! I need to book an appointment for my relationship problems lol