Racism and bullying in American schools? What are cons of living in USA!
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- Опубліковано 10 лип 2024
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Your questions are very good , well thought of. I stayed for more than 10 years, lived in Washington DC as well as Silicon City, took decision to come back to India by simply asking one question, if the money is not the criteria what would you do? stay back in US or go back to India. I got my answer and came back, it was that simple for me. It's been 4.5 years I came back, never regretted about my decision, never thought of going back. This is my janm bhoomi and this will be my karm bhoomi too. I just saw the news today that one guy from Andhra Pradesh was died in an accident and his friends ran fundrasing campaign and send his corpse back to home. And this happened many times too, why do we need to ask for donation in this situation?
Don't you feel bad about this? I feel that if we have a choice to come back then we should, leave the opportunity to other new comers , early career stage people. What do you think?
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Nice to see ur thoughts Mr. Bhargav I appreciate ur Decision. I also tell u ki There are very few people either well settled or Students who think like you and take such decisions that u make and it is our fortune that we are a part of this Grateful country and it is our duty to make our Country a World Leading Country 🇮🇳🇮🇳 Jai Hind.
Hardly 1% of people come back......! Rest settle there only. Don't know why? Probably Money & ease of daily life!!!!!
Yes absolutely true very large no. people of India who are leaving India Very Fastly for their better life but But what will happen to those who are living below the poverty line in my Great India wo to phir bhi marenge. So that's why we something thought together ki how can we make life better for those poor people.
everybody's life and situations are different. You just can't generalize and judge people for their decision. Yes, H1B-Marriage-Home-GC-Citizenship is a trap, many people once get in cannot get out for various reasons. Good for you, you took a decision and stuck by it, not many are that fortunate. Doesn't matter where you live, if you are not happy about it and worse you have no control over situations, life sucks!
I came to the US in 2002 and then got an opportunity in 2012 exactly 10 years to return to India.. it coincided well with the Trump / Modi times and spent 10 years in India and then in 2022 got another opportunity to come back to the US... 2023 and I am in NC now and I think that life in India has a lot more benefits today, when compared to 2002..
US in 2002 vs US in 2023 - Not much has changed...
India in 2002 vs 2023 - Huge difference....
1-21 years in India
21-31 in US - Pros.. Growth and Money and success / career
31-41 in India... Growth and Money and success / career + Family / Friends / Food
41-43 in US.... Children are US citizens to this might be a good option for them in terms of building career...
45+/.. Definitely will move to India.... as I feel elder life is much better there vs here (Plus I get to take care of ageing parents)
I feel that my older life is much better in India.. Looking forward to spend my life there and find better purpose !
P.S: From our kids perspective.. quiet funny that they have all of their know-how from India and been here for nearly 6 months and they still are very proud of being Indian and the perception remains that they have much more knowledge than an ABOVE AVERAGE american kid.
Hope the perception remains. I know A LOT of US born Indian kids who spent 10+ years in India, and came back for high school / undergrad. And they ALL have this attitude of being smarter than top kids here in US. That perception SOON goes away once they get to 11th, 12th and on to college. There are couple different types of intelligence. For eg., emotional intelligence, intelligence to think outside the box (not bookish knowledge, follow rules by the book), creative intelligence, etc.
The biggest mistake people make in gauging intelligence is using bookish knowledge for testing themselves and others, testing facts like what /where is Iran, Iraq , spelling of something, speed in solving arithmetic questions, etc., which becomes irrelevant as you get older and get into jobs. Those are knowledge ( which is now available at your fingertips) not intelligence. I have know way too many kids coming from India, become isolated, with few friends, as they get older. Perhaps this sense of superiority initially has something to do with it.
So so information getting from video plus your thoughts. But i would like to ask would you like to return to India if you have had no relatives living here ?
@@gayatrisrinivas6342 in my personal view.... Last decade in India is much different than the previous generations including my own... I know that I had more knowledge but still in many ways was inferior due to lack of confidence... But if I take my son, he is already gelling well with the American kids and plays the common sports like wiffle ball or flag football and does much better than many .. my daughter has such understanding of the systems and respect for teachers that they find it extremely rewarding... N she tells me how she is unique in her own way...
One thing is for certain... Having experiences in India vs here in the US has taught them things that they wouldn't have otherwise learnt.... But obviously not everyone will be in the same situation
@@MANOJSHARMA-bu8yv my answer is yes... Because I am personally more connected to India than US.... But would be different for different ppl... My answer is a simple yes. I would spend my later life in India no matter what..
@@mitulzaveri1981 It depends on at what age kids moved from US to India , how many years they stayed in India, and at what age/ grade they came back. I am talking about kids who left US when they were in elementary and came back to US when they are in high school. Lot of growing happens during middle school years. At this age, they form perceptions about themselves, start to have an identity in relation to their peers, etc. Those perceptions become wrong when they come to
US. Very few kids who come back to US in 10,11, 12 grades are able to gel well with their classmates. It of course depends on kids personality as well. You are talking about ur kids playing wiffle ball. So, they are still young.
One of the really nice vlogs I have seen in a long time, just so real! Both Shilpa and Gagan seem to be a very level headed couple and very grounded. This vlog was so much different from the usual house tours, flight journeys etc. etc. Keep it up Akash!
India Facilities have improved Tremendously along with all round Digitalisation. Speciality Medical facilities are far more accessible and easy when compared to US, UK and Canada
Education stilll remains shit!
Speciality Medical facilities where in India? In Bihar, UP, Jharkhand, Chattisgarh?
@@samanthamccormick1505 Right .AIIMS is super speciality. Bhubaneswar, Patna , Rishikesh, Jodhpur-so many AIIMS are there.
Absolutely 💯 I agree with you like medical facilities of India and even others are so good nowadays
@@samanthamccormick1505 We can Rightly claim world class facilities in finger tips for almost all Urban areas in India and really value for money in 4 Metro cities, Pune, Kochi , Bangalore and Hyderabad . even Rural and Semi urban areas such facilities available 2-3 Hrs away. This is the best possible at this GDP level of growth. There are 14-16 AIIMS already operational in most states
100% Agree with the couple’s view . The q&a session was very informative for newbie’s here is USA, also people who might want to migrate here. Janmbhumi- karmbhumi, yeah that’s how we see these very distinct countries , but will always will love and respect equally.
I think 10 saal pehle bhot difference tha US aur India me
But ab itna nhi h and infect for safety and people living comfortably and happy india is much better
First time came across your channel . Thanks for bringing this couple’s view point 😊
Racism is systemic and institutional. The interviewer misunderstands "racism" as individual bigotry. This is very common. I'm an American Indian living in India. I lived in Wisconsin 1966-2020!
The air pollution is very challenging in Indore.
What is an American Indian? Are you from a Native American tribe or are you white who lives in India? Even Hindus are very racist to others and to their own.
Shilpa has very good communication style and skills. She handled all questions that would make me go silent in public with aplomb. Situational awareness is very important while living in the USA. Every situation needs different handling. Overall population in general are very individualistic here. Generic rules do not apply to people in USA. Hollywood and Bollywood movies are made for entertainment in order to earn money. They are not meant to be real. If one is relocating from living in India the only thing that is different is self-reliance. In India everything gets done for an average person. Here in USA average person does everything himself/herself.
Getting a 25 lakhs package in india is better than Getting a 100k(80lakhs) package in USA
My sister came back from USA , she worked there for 2 years but she just didn't liked it after some time .
wahan p kya problems thi ??
Good. Glad she came back and I hope she brought along many Indians with her too.
Because she is a emotional person not practical.
@@livinghope1561 and happened to be best decision cuz she's happy
And most of us who grew up with friends and neighbors and have homes for generations at one place don't like going abroad, they feel home where they always meet their people
Very good video. After staying in US for around 8 years, I came back to India. Main reason was family and aging parents and it is my responsibility to take care of them. One main question I have is regarding school shootings, every few months I read news about school shooting in US. How Indian parents cope up with that fear? Second question I have is gender education in US/Canada schools and I am not comfortable my kids getting that fed so early in their life.
I think one very important con here is the medical and dental costs in the US. If you face a medical issue then the cost is too much.
Just this week I spent so much money on my dental problem.... Sucks it's too high even after a high amount of insurance I need to pay a very big amt just for tooth extraction 😢
so u want to earn in crores and want medical in paisa 😂🤣
@@ZoroX1 what’s the point replying to you seems like you already know eveything 😊
@@purvakmistry2128 I hear you. I have had multiple dental surgeries due to a fall I had in childhood and the subsequent dental work in india which was not done correctly and now I had to face the consequences. The cost made a huge dent in my pocket saying that though the dental work here is exceptional and there is rarely much pain or complications.
@@jyotiranibhatjambhe2819I am no one for you..i adviced don't came india..this is worse country for women
....and India's societal structure will kill you internally...i faced each and every day.
Really appreciate your success out side of India and its purely on merit basis.
Hat's off to all Indians who are working away from motherland to support and protect to his/her family and very honestly it's required lots sacrifice on personal and social front.
What’s the use of you don’t have establishment where you can’t show your performance that u have to go to US n show
Bro you are promoting to be a parasite, Rome wasn't built in a day nor was US....India is being built, sad that you chose not to be part of it..
You make very informative and interesting video.
I am so excited to see your video every Saturday😊😊❤
‘Dhobi ka kutta na ghar kana ghaat ka’ is the story of Indians living in USA. You try to imitate Americans throughout your life and feel pride that your children don’t know Indian culture.
Yes
Wha log better salaries or better opportunities ke liye jate hai or sirf usa nhi baki countries bhi jate hai kyu kuch countries hai jha india ke mukable jyada safe hai. Culture apna koyi nhi bhulta aaj kl wha bhi kafi Indians society hai joh sare festivals manate hai Jake dekha kro or india ab india bhi acha nhi rha jitna tum sochte ho. Nhi hai akin toh roj news ati hai usko pd liya kro
'feel pride that your children don’t know Indian culture.' For that you don't need to go to the US. Right in INdia itself most people are super happy to imitate the west. I have been living in the US for more than 2 decades. Fantastic life. Live 15 minutes from one of the best beaches of the world. ZERO pollution. ZERO slums. Great weather right through the year.
I am a multi-millionaire who came with nothing in the pocket, loans taken to complete my studies [Two Masters degrees]. Not ONCE have I ever encountered corruption in the US. NOT ONCE. The police officers address us with utmost respect using 'Madam' / 'Sir' etc. Don't blindly believe everythign you read in the INdian media - Life in the US is fantastic.
I have seen videos of a lot of people who return from teh US posting how life in USA is bad and how life in india is wonderful. There is only one issue with that - Most everyone putting those videos are pepople who could NOT get green card in the US.
99% of those who get greencard/US citizenship, do NOT go back to INdia. I know of people with Green Card who went back ['we want our kids to not forget INdian culture']. Most of them came back. Exceptions are those who have aged and aging parent and/or properties that parents can no longer manage by themselves.
Also remember, India is the second largest population on the planet, largest population by some estimates. Indias culture will not vanish because Indians want to go abroad. India is not Sri Lanka or Bhutan, with small population.
It may make you feel better about yourself by writing stuff like: ‘Dhobi ka kutta na ghar kana ghaat ka’ is the story of INdians living in the US. Good for you if it makes you feel better about your own life. AFter all we all have a right to feel nice about ourselves. If writing negative stuff about Indians living in the US makes you feel happier, go for it.
@@samanthamccormick1505 not good for hindu Indians. The person is not referring to Christians.
@@scientistswife HOw is life worse for Hindu INdians than Christian Indians in the US? Just dont keep blabbering anything that comes to mind. Get out of the gutter of Hindu Muslim and Hindu Christian. You fill your head with that garbage and believe me that is all you will see in everything.
looks like they are being cautious and diplomatic to be safe
Their answers are always the same.
I didn't feel that at all.
Very apt observation. I think they are justifying their being in America for their own conscience. Indians (browns) do face discrimination. If they are in skilled jobs they have to fight for promotion. Socially the whites don’t mix easily with the browns. I am not even talking about bullying in schools. Discrimination is a part of the human nature.
i don't think so.
their human nature of adjusting is what you are sensing as cautious
It is normal.
Good people.
@@rajendrakumarduggar1835 Indians are racist against Indians too. Bullying occurs in India too.
It’s definitely not hard to go back to India. I guess it’s only the money that holds Indians back.
If de-dollarisation wave starts in a more aggressive manner, then IT indistry may lose its charm in US. Rupee itself will appreciate if the BRICS currency trade starts. We might have to look at staying back in India. Maybe things will change in about 5 years from now!
lol been hearing similar argument for 30+ years. Same with arguments about the Middle east - Middle East is going to collapse. Oil is going to be over and Middle East will have all the people begging on the streets and INdia will become Superpower and rule the world. Nice to hear such fantasies, that never die. Meanwhile just go and look at the long lines in front of foreign embassies in India. People start lining up from the previous night outside embassies for a visa to escape India.
@@samanthamccormick1505 nothing is eternal which includes economies too.We luve in a changing world.
@@samanthamccormick1505 the ones who want to escape are the ones who couldn’t hack it here. You could be one among them. And now you’re rushing towards social validation for your actions. It’s your life. Do as you please.
I have been to over 15 nations and I found India to be the best in several ways that suits my needs. I have many classmates in US who aren’t leading a decent lifestyle despite a good pay due to high cost of living. At the same time my other friends in India are living life king size while not sacrificing a great family life.
So it’s best you reassess your thoughts on how life in India sucks. It might have sucked for you. But that’s not the case with many.
@@abraham_george I am sure that for the 56% of lepers of the world who live in INdia, things are not so rosy. I am sure that for the thousands of farmers who commit suicide in INdia each year, things are not so rosy. I am sure that for the 55% of Mumbai's population that lives in slums things are not so rosy. India has the second largest number of poverty stricken people in the world, I am sure they are not living a lavish life as you and your friends.
Wow, what a coincidence that EACH of your many friends who live in the US are having a miserable life. While EACH of your friend in India is living a king size life.
Friend, there is a reason why social metrics are relied upon. Because everything else is subjective and descends into my d_ick is bigger than your d_ick kind of discussion. Those social metrics tell you how many farmers are committing suicide. What the poverty levels in INdia are.
@@lifeisbeautiful7824 Philos0phical statements like yours, are feel good fluff, that help us numb our pain at being the nation with the highest poverty stricken people in the world. Only people and nations who do not have the confidence in their own actions to pull themselves out of poverty rely on such statements to heal their pain ['World changes. Nothing is eternal. Middleast rich countries will become poor. Europe will become poor. US / Canada will become poor. INdia will become Number 1].
No, the thing is that at any Indian school you will see hell lot of students bullying each other like anything but it never comes in the news.. In abroad the culture of bullying is very less than India but the people over there are very vocal and active in social media that is why we get the news.
Bahut achha laga aesey talk dekh k ..aisa hi talk show dekhaye jo waha se relate kare..kya kya face karna padta hai..
US was good 10 years back .. now living in India is better
Thank you for this video. I was looking for some answers. This video helped me to take the decision
i am over 80 and came to usa for long stay as there was no other choice - my children are here and my wife passed away -i do not have anyone else in india to give support in my old age - living in usa is ok but medical expenses are too much - in india it is much easier to clinical reports and medicines but here there is lot of formalities and to get a simple blood report it takes two days- and in india it has become far easier to get things done because of computerisation
You can't complain because you get world class medical facilities. Everything comes at a price and if you're not a citizen than obviously you have to bear more.
Wahan problems sabko hai..waapis aana kisiko nahi hai...and that gives u answer of which is a better place
Try to gather different life journeys about h4 holder wives. Those were working professionally before in India. That definitely helps others to make difficult different decisions on topics like
1. going back to India.
2. Experience of waiting for work permit
3. Personal life
4. Understanding ith partner
5. "Reality" of people of Indian community in USA.
6. Older indians vs new Indians in the USA.
Hey! as someone who is coming to the US this fall, this video was extremely helpful and I got a better understanding of what "life in usa" actually looks like.
Big fan of your work akash keep up the good work.
Liked this video.
No drama, no acting ..
Everything from their heart ❤️.
Thank You.
Loved the video. Thank you so much for this. I was thinking to move to USA soon after my CPA
India 🇮🇳 is a good country but the Indian system and government and some politicians can do something better.
Bro.. I agree with the statements given by those residents... Life is very short...everyone has to get best out of it...
Yes Absolutely True
Great that u brought this topic Bravely
My experience. Had been to US three times, three years, each stay was less than 60 days. Now I come from Kerala where the quality and standard of living is better than in other states in India. I never had thought to migrate to US, i dint have to. I had all the good life in Kerala. But a person living in Indian cities like Mumbai, Delhi, Kolkata... He might really feel a far more better standard of living in the US. I worked in Mumbai for 6 years and I really couldn't imagine settling down there. It was really a chaos . So I think a lot of migration happens because people find better standard of living comparatively. Of course better pay as well.
Stop living in myth, quality of life in Kerala is not better than all states of India, no way
Himachal Pradesh has best quality of life in India
Please stop this myth
@@Playerone1287 as u please..
@@vivek6187 you guys are being fooled by your politicians and social media influencers that south is better than north, just read more and you'll see the truth
@@vivek6187usa has a better pay scale then india. Usa has a better education system than India. Usa has a better lifestyle than india. It's truth.
I visited Kerala many times, beautiful state, Trivandrum is beautiful city than any other cities like Mumbai, Delhi etc. Only thing is India is overpopulated so evrything is getting worse.
Administrative Inefficiency is the major problem we face in every situations in India. If those who can handle this problem, definitely we can improve the situation here.
Things are much improved now a days in India. With privatization and digitalization efficiency is also improving now.
If you have decent money, there’s no place like India… the country has changed a lot recently. There might not be apparent racism abroad, but you’re still an outsider.
Ha bahut change Hui hai dikh rha hai kitne changes aye hai. Na education system change hua abhi tak , competition abhi bhi uthna hi hai gadho ke jaise, or bhi bahut kuch chize hai joh abhi bhi waisi hai or unko badalna bahut muskil hai
Agree, I can see many things are better in India when compared to US.
Nothing has really changed for good in India. In fact, things r getting worse in India
I don't think so
Disgusting life style in india
Littering,peeing,splitting etc ...where ever u want
& the most irritating one horning (by vehicles)
Sticking the pamphlets and other wallpapers to the metro pillars and other public places really horrible 😢 , Littering the lakes and rivers
Some times really I feel like helpless, we are living in such a shame less society....
@@yashhemrajani5608 you are right… but see the number of applicants for each exam… 10 lakh people appear for a upsc exam which has barely 100 seats, so yes competition is really high in India. Getting a decent job abroad is easier. But just take your mind 15 years back… India was actually poor! Now, even people with mediocre pay are thinking big as the country will reward them if they work hard enough.
Bro India is much better in many aspects than US. I am also staying in the US since a decade.
It's only happening in recent past. Before there was no comparison between US and India in respect to ease of living and money. Still India has a long way to catch up.
@@anandsails Bro US can never match up the the life experience in India.... ever... but India can as you said....and it will US has crossed its expiry date...
Staying in the US for a decade - India is better 😂
Hypocrite!!!! Indians are hypocrites
I have seen that when people move to another state or country due to job or business, they never like return to their own country or state.
Even when their family member die, they still don't pay visit.
No offence to anyone but
My opinion is based on incidents that have happened in my life. One of them involved my Bua ji, whose only son left his elderly parents after getting married and moved to Bangalore. Another incident involved my friend's husband, who made derogatory remarks about India and its people, calling them 'filthy.' The last incident happened in my neighborhood, where a family member settled in the US and didn't come back to pay a visit when his mother and brother passed away. I find it hard to understand what kind of people are living in this world.
That's his karma in fact he has to go away from matrubhoomi. Jai Bharat. Don't worry about such people.
Those who leave dharma and bhoomi are shatrus. Dont think about them. They pay for their consequences eventually. So wait for the next chapter you will witness it.
That’s your Bau Ji’s son. May be he would have done that even he was next door. Forget about different state or the country. People who love their family visit them even if they are on a different planet.
@@scientistswifewah joh log country chhod dete hai woh shatrus hai wah kya soch hai. Log india safety ke chalte, paise ke chalte, education ke chalte chhodte hai kyunki baki countries mai india ke compare mai yh chize achi hai. Per kisi ki death per wapis na ana woh galat hai
Tbh, it’s the first generation immigrants who do that. My parents 3rd and first generation immigrants visited India every other year. My mom visited her nanny in a very remote village in Bihar so it depends on the efforts you make.
Good job, brother !
All of you are seems gud family member in this discussion🎉🎉🎉
There is more discrimination in India than here in USA! Social status, cast system, class system, skin color etc is more of an issue in India!!
Telugus, Punjabis, and Gujaratis will never come back. One way ticket
Well-adjusted family, most people are not adjustable and adaptable with every situation and people, this is when they go through such situations or racism.
So true
Great discussion and amazing insights. Thanks a lot for the video!
Came back after staying 5 years in Houston. Best decisions ever and now happily searving Indian education at IIT.
That's a real genuine interview
Jab tak life straight forward chal Rahi hai tab tak tho india ho ya usa Farak nahi padta. India me system se ladna is so frustrating . I lost my husband 5 years back still I am struggling to get death settlement from various banks . Dust is the single most deterrent factor . It also depends which city u r relocating to. Life in metro or tier 1 cities is horrible in India . You have to fight corruption , inefficient staff , diverse language challenges on a daily basis . Let us accept the fact that 80 % of the time ( outside your job or neighbourhood) you are interacting with lower middle class Indians . They are indisciplined , lack of commitment , untrustworthy and dishonest . Life in India cannot be judged only on the basis of digitalisation. Especially for senior citizens there is no comfort . We have to remain home bound all the time . There is no facili for people with disabilities . The list can go on.
I am very sorry to hear that. Which city do you live in ? is it a gated community ?
you cannot expect a good life and system in india till 2035 honestly . and you are living in a developing country , things which you mention can only be possible when india becomes developed like old people or disable . dont expect things like that before 2040 ,
@@vedantvijay1 cool so don’t defend when people move to the US
@@AkshayKumar-fj3ksand don't defend when people are in india
Are waah!! Indore 😍😍… bht zyada change lagta hai indore mein har baar.. 😀
I saw a car with number plate MP-09.. Its a vibe I think, I was over the moon happy to see an Indori parked next to me.. 🙈
Doesn’t matter how many years we stay here, ♥️ is in India!
The moot point is money, If you don't have money US is better otherwise you can lead a very peaceful life in India.
Na Baap bada na bhaiya sabsey bada 💵 Dollar hey bhaiyaa....😊😮😂😂
Nice Video. But I personally feel Texas, that too specially Dallas is a different world in itself. It has a huge Indian population so one will definitely not face any racism. I think you should talk to people who live on the east coast or Midwest. You will hear a lot of stories about gun voilence, racism, missing India stories. Harsh weather conditions and about many other cons. Just last week i heard a story of kid being bullied for getting Indian food at school for its smell. That’s why Indians here try to move to communities, schools or states where there’s more Indian population just to feel safe. There are sweet people too I don’t deny. Life here is easy. But so is in India when it comes to house help and convenience. I visited india last month and my god it has changed tremendously for good. The QR code and UPI made me feel I’m an uneducated. Was really happy to see the progress. It’s been 5years now in the US and even now it’s hard to see our future here. And don’t make me start on family values, cultural aspects etc.
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For People who don’t have money in india, US is best.
But if you come from money in India, no better place to live!
Very nice vlog and thanks Gagan and Shilpa. Relevant for many including myself.
One big question for us living here in the US for the last 8 years is: how do we take care of our aging parents! That’s the biggest guilt for me and this one is the key driver why I am thinking of considering going back to India….. any thoughts?
It is good that you are considering this option, because our time with parents is limited 😢. If you have enjoyed your time here in US and earned a good amount, U should go back n spend the rest of the time with them as well.
Should come back to your parents. They need you
Your kids come first…. You may help them by keeping in touch , and by sending money periodically so that their expenses are met 🙏
get a full time maid / cook for parents Mishra ji. It would hardly cost 20k rs a month, about 350 USD a month.
Also, there are many gated communites in India in every city, they have better roads, new modular kitchens, anti skid tiles, etc. My grandparents are 87 and live in Bhopal
@@sunitajoshi3228 which world u r staying ? Who said parents are not important. People like u r disgusting
My family member stayed here in USA for many years and got job transfer back to india in same company. Parents adjusted in india but kids kept complaining. Finally the first son is back here in USA for masters and second one is preparing to come back. They could not adjust to india easily and were waiting to come back to USA. According to them India can not be compared to USA for living.
That was a great video! Do upload more such Q&A sessions!
Finally he made this video which I asked for
Toh chalo phir USA tum bhi jald se jald
@@jontyrhodes4155 pese? 🤓
Racism is in India too, So don't decide by racism
Dallas California new jersey etc are Indian communities.
Life is USA is comforable than India. Yes, Now India also changed, no relationships. value to money 😢
abe visa lagwao yr.....
Accha, tell me names of races in India then?
@@LearnWithVikram7 Do some research. You will find Dravidians, Aryans, Asian and God knows what else. Also, the caste systems.
@@HowieHoward-ti3dxu need to understand genetics first. The "races" you mentioned aren't really races. Indians are mostly mixed rather than belong to particular races like white, African American, Hispanic
etc.
Main toh high caste ka hoon fir bhi school main racism face karta hoon
Competition. It's actually changing, but still very true. As always, one of the most genuine and no-nonsense UA-camrs.
No it’s not changing at all in India
True. Kids from this generation are more focused on what they wanna do, rather than ugly comparisons
bhai isi topic pe mujhe video chahiye tha , thank you very much,
Bhaiya, A quick question. Example: After living 10-15 years in the USA if I haven't got a green card, and due to government rules if I asked to go back, (H1-B nai laga) then what will happen? Do my wife and children also need to come back to India?
Please give your response. Thank you.
Beautiful interview 👍
I think you guys did not touch an important topic. Immigration hassle. The couple in the video seems never been through the H1B hassle like Indian who came to India since last one decade. The H1 stamping every 2 year that need to be done for Indians who frequently visit India . The difficulty of moving to a better job in terms of profile and salary or change job while being on H1B and the uncertainty of getting greed card. The hardships for Indian who came to US in last 10 years is quite different from Indian who came before that. People who came to US before a decade or so are mostly all wonderful experience .
USA is far better than India... 1.) Life is simpler.
2.)Job opportunities are more.
3.) You don't have to struggle to buy your own house.
4.)Less bullying.
5.) Equal opportunities for all(No caste system).
6.) Medical facilities and health security is far better like in an emergency it would hardly take 15mins for the ambulance to come.
7.)Less pollution.
8.)LGBT friendly.
9.) Systematic environment.
10.)A proper balance in professional and personal life.
First time I watched your vlog and loved this not only bcoz the questions but bcz it's reality and mostly indians hi indians ko neecha dikhate he... It's their choice their comfort their decision...to stay wherever they want to live.. like some comes to India for study and stays in India doesn't mean they don't want to go to their country but they are bount to fulfill their responsibility and after having kids it becomes difficult for parents to adjust their children in different environment... Really appreciate this video... And one more thing staying far doesn't mean that you don't love your parents... Coz this happens in India too like delhi person need to shift Bangalore for job and that too without parents and even after staying in India they don't meet their parents in one to two years... And still don't mean that they don't love their parents... No offense for staying in India or anywhere else for your life 😊
I am in Houston TX for 35 years corporate senior marketing consultant
In the midwest the racism was more obvious. I think the couple is telling you the rosier side of their story. Midwest has racism but one has to ignore it.. Gagan must be a vital employees otherwise I can't believe the supervisor would offer him a ride home and drive opposite from where she lived. Both of them appear to be such nice people..
Smart couples.♥️🔥
If you are a dark skin indian woman you will face less racism in Us than in India ! Our colorism culture very present in indian film industry is a matter of national shame !
Who said theres no bullying in india. If your dark skinned girl no one talk to you and make you feel insecure. no confidence. Here skin colour abd caste matters
germany is better in terms of work life balance and safety and no visa issues. Even UK, Switzerland is better.
Stay in India. Europe and the west don't need your curry and spices.
My cousins kid studies in California from last 10 years. She never talked about facing racism.
In which grade do they study
I loved your episode
if you have salary above 1lakh/month in india ... then you can live better lifestyle compared to usa .. so basically it's all depend on your capabilities ...
You wrong man ..
@@dineshkm7832 How so?
Please elaborate. Just want to know. Not challenging you
@@anirprasadd even in 2 lakh u vl not get road , light , hospital. .. kachra
Desh hai sab mila kar , 158 rank hai desh ki .. kota and jansalhya is looking india .. mera Kya I m in USA .. yes obc hu
Absolutely written
I am at a loss to understand that these folks did not face racism in US for 15 years ?? Come on.. I spent just 2 years in US and found that racism is a part and parcel of US. I remember I was singled out, stopped and searched in NY to Jersey city penn stations 3 times in span of 4 months while 2 of my white friends were waiting on side. It was humiliating for me and embarassing for them so say the least. That was back in 2008. I also remember during security for flight travel to Florida from NJ, the airport security officer was so racist that he was picking and choosing people of colour for 'extra security check' and that too in utterly rude manner. One would be appallingly surprised to trust these guys after having seen news of Capitol attack by white supremists, multiple deadly attacks on black and people of colour and the whole racially charged corporate culture with few exceptions.
You must be the unlucky one. I have lived in 6 states for over 45 years and never once experienced racism. While in India visits, I have actually been discriminated based on caste a couple of times.
@@xxxx-tb4de your username speaks volumes about who you are and what your agenda is.
I am in US for 30 years and lived mostly amongst Americans when there were not many Indians and have NOT faced racism. Sorry, you faced racism.
That is not racism, police officer is being extra careful and doing his job. If he did not harm you then it's not racism. Try to adjust sometimes.
I think there more rude people all over the world than in USA.
Only reason i'd not like USA is rich people, their culture includes lot of show off and self obsessed people in their work and Not having good community.
@@shrin210 I won't be surprised if you haven't seen any racism in US because perhaps you don't even realise it is happening or you have some complex. When the security search happens why would one exclude white men in a group if one is indeed serious about security ?? With this logic black or people of colour would always hand over 'objectionable' stuff to their white colleagues/friends and happily escape the security !! How ridiculous !! Have you ever seen on any airport that only specific type of people going through security? Even pilots, cabin crew goes through same level of security as any other passenger. The same rule should apply at railways station. I am not here to prove anything, I have just stated my experience and I am not that naive nor fool to not realise whether particular action is racism or not. I have also seen some of the fabulous white individuals in US and not for a moment suggesting that there is shortage of balanced/unbiased white folks in US/UK. But racism is the reality that is proven time and again by series of events happening with non-white people which entire world acknowledges.
Tiny population of 1%, paying 6 times Taxes does command due respect.
Their rising percentage and increased activities in social & political arenas will propel them further to become local leaders.
Rising global influence of their motherland will certainly add to their repect level in U.S.
What's in store for them 10 years ahead?
Hopefully, they will pack up baggage, regain their original Passport & come back home
Racism in India is worst. Those who go to US, realise that they are being discriminated, while the same person or their like practice worst type of exploitative racism at home. Double standards.
so in south korea..
every country has racism bruh...
Watched ❤👌
Damn good video
Listen to all but obey your own consciousness
Thanks for this video. Please settle back in India and enjoy the life. Send me to US as your replacement
If you like to live a life in set channels then US is great. But if your life is out of normal or you like to live out of normal or your civilization question comes to your mind then US is difficult. Cultural wars in US will make life very difficult for Indians as their kids will get embroiled in it. We are very resistant to issues like corruption racism etc. Once GC backlog issue is resolved Indians can setup own civilization ecosystem. I do my part by approaching university to teach Hindi. Many Americans learning Hindi.
100 % sure they will regret about their decision in long term.
There are both good and bad people in u.s.a. I live here in US and most of the people I talked to worry about something. The important thing is how safe you feel and everyday safety is very concerning for our family. There is an increase in gun violence and racism against Asians. Most of the Americans are good people but there are bad people also here because of their bad upbringing.
Worst part is the accessibility of guns to those bad people
Very risky to live anywhere in US
please come with more video like this
People always think for their country. I am not being mean but sometimes people do not come back to their country as they get paid very well if compared to India , also if it was about me then I would never go out in other country for work but yes as a tourist i would visit but never live there.
NRI here, going back to india, just staying for 1-2 years to get some savings and then returning.
Very nice video akash bhai and very nice couple
with respect to all the comments regarding the Pros and cons of living in U.S. the Indians must learn from the Gujaratis how to Live life anywhere in the world.This Diaspora given the oppurtunity make the Best of their life anywhere in the world.Even if given an oppurtunity he will open a convenient stores in Alaska and move on.I as a sr living in U.S. have seen them as a very hard working lot They are very courteous and keep their opinions to themselves.They respect the local community and mingle with them and that is the reason most of the Motels in U.S. are owned by them.
The mass shootings happening anywhere, anyplace, out of the blue,
has been more concerning.
Warning: Please do not show license plate of the vehicle or remove it ASAP for privacy reason.
Even today,in India things are not easy.
This lady is saying like peanuts bullying is far more serious it can happen any where not only in USA but also in India the child faces severe mental trauma it is not so easy peasy job like sending An email at the comfort of your home they are friends now kind of thing , you didn’t face it being out there don’t normalize bullying Nd it’s not normal for kids to be rude no generally kids re friendly being rude is not a nature of kid ! Don’t fall for these american school normalize bullying thing, the scars remain for decades and can change the behavior of a child their thinking their enquire life choices due to the trauma they faced
Life is easy in US !! Hearing it for a first time from someone .. most of people says something else
Great information
Pls don't forget that Your Modest success in USA is courtesy the Exceptional Education in India
Exactly… I was surprised to know most of the teens in USA don’t really know their president, which continent USA is in and a lot more… there are many videos on UA-cam which shows this shallow general awareness. The chaiwala in India has some supreme GK!
100% my story:)
Agree
All life savings goes for insurances and medical…..in US. Old age with loneliness ……
Why you never put up a video or talk about the terrific mass shootings or gun crimes in USA?
You should make us Indians aware that there's something called 2nd amendment, guns are legal here and school shooting is common 🤌
Don't just put up the positives, show some negatives as well. You live in Texas, you might have heard about Uvalde school shooting...
Gun rkhna switzerland or Czech mai bhi hai wha bhi legal hai fir wha toh nhi hote Abe mai mst rho koyi bina mtlab kuch nhi krta jab tak Bina mtlab kisiko.ungli na kri jaye
@@yashhemrajani5608 bina matlab ek teenager ne Uvalde Texas me primary school me around 18 children ko marr dala 🙄
@@tm---saare indians thein kya
@@yashhemrajani5608 bhai ita defend kr rhe usa ko i guess you are planning to move there:)
@@sahiljonglekar7950efend ki bat nhi hoti sach sach hota hai apni country bhi achi hai per jis chiz mai usa acha hai woh acha hai jhut bolke or apni country ko sabse upar dikhana sirf ek dhoka hai illusion hai or kuch nhi kuch chizo mai acha bhi hai india or kuch chizo mai bura bhi same bhi America or ha mai plan kr rha hu
I have been to Dallas 3 times... I went to see discovery centre and John F Kennedy 6th floor dallas museum
There is no racism in chennai against north Indians or vice versa… and you guys see northeast Indiana just like your fellow state people
😂😂
Thnx.