5 Things I Wish I Knew BEFORE Coming to America (as an Indian)

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  • @whyme5024
    @whyme5024 Місяць тому +25

    Let me make it short and sweet: if you cannot by yourself clean house, cook, wash clothes, maintain the garden and take care of your children by, DO NOT LEAVE INDIA.

    • @nareshkumar3526
      @nareshkumar3526 Місяць тому +1

      Thanks for saving my precious time.😊

  • @learningearningskillsvlogs7877
    @learningearningskillsvlogs7877 Місяць тому +4

    Video tips summary
    5 things know before come usa
    1.Do your work yourself like maid work grocery service
    2.Nany fee 4000 monthly
    3.expenses cost mortgage house
    4.missing Indian culture custom family members
    Home sickness
    5.hospital doctor expenses fee with appointment
    Health insurance high cost
    6.transport expensive cost

    • @Shaivaite_mulnivasi
      @Shaivaite_mulnivasi 29 днів тому

      Usa is only for those who earn 10thousand dollars per month not less than that u can survive

  • @rohitkulshreshtha448
    @rohitkulshreshtha448 Місяць тому +5

    true... salary zyada hai to expenses hi almost us salary ke jitne hain.... aap to theek hai.. appke kids jo hain.. puri tarah cousins and mama chacha se dur ho jaate hain... rishtey almost khatam ho jaate hain... plus friends in US are very PROFESSIONAL.. khaao peeyo nikal lo types.. they are not friends in need(80% of times)...so best thing is that whole family-- parents, brothers and sisters all settle in USA slowly and gradually.... i know a few friends and relatives who settled here with whole clan(chachey, taaye, mausi etc... but it all happened gradually)... but lonliness is a major concern.... but safety and law and order is a big plus...all said and done. Sukoon bahot hai US mein... akelapan sath mein free free free :-)

  • @laxmiburmee6923
    @laxmiburmee6923 Місяць тому +3

    Really true.Whenever I visit my children in US,I become dependent on them as I can’t move around on my own due to transport problem whereas in India I manage to travel on my own.Though some positives are - clean & unpolluted environment ,adherence to traffic rules & safety of pedestrians.Overall quality of life is good & human life is valued.Rajat,could you please give us an insight into how the medical system works here & also I would appreciate if Shilpa could share her journey from India to US.I have been thoroughly enjoying all your vlogs,especially the ones with Hazel & your parents.Lots of love to dear Hazel.

  • @Pradeepchauhan-jx1wz
    @Pradeepchauhan-jx1wz 22 дні тому

    Her way of speaking is bery good..specially smile

  • @jollybbjolly5016
    @jollybbjolly5016 Місяць тому +3

    Jo Maaza Araam India mai hai ... Woh pure World mai nahi ... India Mai life is very Easy life ...

    • @chbh112
      @chbh112 29 днів тому

      But india mein hum jaise logon ko girls se door rehna padta hai na.Because girls are very difficult in india to impress aur unse door rehna bhi the life is not easy

  • @ekkahaniramakizubani
    @ekkahaniramakizubani 28 днів тому +1

    Very honest opinion! Stay blessed always 👍🙏

  • @meenu5304
    @meenu5304 Місяць тому +3

    Most complicated and important inputs Rajat and Shilpa Ji. Ithna advanced country me bhi aisa system hai abhi. Good for new comers. Thanks for the vlog 🙂🙂🙂🙂

    • @ouramericandream1183
      @ouramericandream1183  Місяць тому

      Thank you, we wanted to show the reality for those planning to come here

  • @priyankasharma1475
    @priyankasharma1475 Місяць тому +9

    Please make a video on Shilpa's career mean what's her work profile and how she got the job, how she came to USA etc.

  • @amarsingh-mx2kw
    @amarsingh-mx2kw 28 днів тому +2

    You are living in America, and I believe both of you are working. Even so, if you can’t afford a servant, cook, or maid, it seems like you might be facing challenges. This suggests that your job might be comparable to labor-level jobs in India. In India, someone earning one lakh per month can typically afford to hire a servant, maid, or cook.Who is better?

  • @NareshKumar-xu2ks
    @NareshKumar-xu2ks 29 днів тому

    I was aware of western culture, practice, very expensive life.and so on as I have worked in central Govt offices of Govt of India. Most of my colleagues and known to me persons were assigned to foreign assignments on deputation during their course of their service. When they came back after their assignments completed in foreign countries, they use to share their experience in that particular country. From USA to Australia, East to West and North to South covering all countries of our mother Earth.

  • @akkshhey09
    @akkshhey09 Місяць тому +1

    Thanks for these tips! Waiting for your buying used car video!

  • @prachichavan3212
    @prachichavan3212 Місяць тому +1

    Thankyou for information ❤❤

  • @manishapathak1749
    @manishapathak1749 Місяць тому +1

    Very nice & informative video.as always

  • @kiranrajput6554
    @kiranrajput6554 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you for information brother🙏....

  • @khemchand4057
    @khemchand4057 Місяць тому

    Thanks brother nice information

  • @Calijyot
    @Calijyot 25 днів тому

    Healthcare is 👎 so much waiting to see a specialist like months of waiting but doc is available at your doorstep in India and you can change doc easily . Both places have their pros and cons but nothing beats closeness to extended family . No matter how much you earn that vaccum is always there . Glad you covered the reality Shilpa and Rajat !

  • @shobharani5413
    @shobharani5413 Місяць тому +1

    Congratulations to both ur blessed with baby .

  • @shivaraml5692
    @shivaraml5692 26 днів тому +1

    Cribbing is the birthright of Indian Americans. Life is a mix of good and bad. Therefore make informed choices.

  • @NoMatterWhat27
    @NoMatterWhat27 18 днів тому

    To understand American healthcare system, there is a free course on Oxford learning program. It will clear many things.

  • @somesakhi
    @somesakhi Місяць тому +3

    both of you are extremely lucky . Shilpa got US Citizenship in a plate. Rajat was lucky that he married Shilpa. i do not know how and why Shilpa Married him.

  • @indupathak3539
    @indupathak3539 Місяць тому +1

    An appreciation comment 😇- Shilpa di is looking really cute today. Bhot accha glow hai chehre par 😊
    God bless you both!

  • @PreetBrar777
    @PreetBrar777 Місяць тому

    Very Informative Blog..Keep it up ..Bless You Both.❤❤

  • @Amjadikhan0
    @Amjadikhan0 Місяць тому +1

    please make one video on healthcare. which insurance is good ( for new comers ).I know you have discussed in one video but make separate video caption should be on healthcare insurance . we want to learn more from shilpa sister.

    • @ouramericandream1183
      @ouramericandream1183  Місяць тому

      Sure, noted. Meanwhile watch this video on how medical system in US works ua-cam.com/video/3Nvb8jtLYqQ/v-deo.html
      and if planning to buy a visitor insurance ua-cam.com/video/FLoVZyKY35E/v-deo.html

  • @Zeeshu.2284
    @Zeeshu.2284 Місяць тому +2

    Rajat bhai all categories visa video hifi visa for doctor and neuro surgeon doctor and whats benefits me and family 😊😊😊❤

  • @rohinighorpade8927
    @rohinighorpade8927 Місяць тому

    I’m staying in DC
    Last year Durham NC
    No problem of public vehicle
    You also mentioned it
    I

  • @ganapatihegde1024
    @ganapatihegde1024 28 днів тому

    You can hire a lawn mower guy for mowing the lawn.

  • @raneenazimagilani4340
    @raneenazimagilani4340 Місяць тому

    Yes so true 👍👍i faced house help problem😂😂now got adjusted but took a long time medical too ? Whatever u said in the vlog all does matter

  • @rupadutta9583
    @rupadutta9583 Місяць тому

    Very good information rajat shilpa ji thanks

  • @livewithseema8415
    @livewithseema8415 20 годин тому

    Shilpa aap bohat hee innocent hoo.

  • @nagendrashukla3775
    @nagendrashukla3775 Місяць тому +1

    भाई भारत ही सबसे अच्छा है । जय जय श्री राम।

  • @sunnysinghsatoshi85
    @sunnysinghsatoshi85 27 днів тому

    thanx power couple. i am coming soon.

  • @kashishgoyal1414
    @kashishgoyal1414 Місяць тому +1

    Which health insurance is best for students if we are coming from india??
    Suggestion-if possible plsss make a video for students like what documents we need to havd make after coming to usa and things we have to do before coming to usa etc.....

    • @mesbahulhoda9539
      @mesbahulhoda9539 Місяць тому +1

      International student office at your school will guide you with that.

    • @ouramericandream1183
      @ouramericandream1183  Місяць тому

      Also check tourist insurance before you get another insurance in USA ua-cam.com/video/FLoVZyKY35E/v-deo.html

  • @ASmi.._re24
    @ASmi.._re24 28 днів тому

    India acha hai lekin jitna india me tech field ka competition din par din bad raha hai..wo soch ke i dont think india will provide them much after they complete the degrees in tech..am also a btech student..but have planned only to take degree from the college..hope will come usa for masters🥹

  • @BhanuPartapSingh-be4mc
    @BhanuPartapSingh-be4mc 28 днів тому

    Sir,you are talking about america,what about London,is the same situation there, please reply?

  • @radharanjankumar5361
    @radharanjankumar5361 Місяць тому

    Gupta sir aap india me public transport hai lekin kitna croud hota hai kitna scnacher hote hai delhi ke metro me kitna bhid hota hai aap jis post pr hai aur jitna sallary kama lete hai jis se BMW car aur etni mahngi house ofrod kr pa rhe hai kya india me kr pate utna luxury life ye bataye sir

  • @cookathomeyummyfood5457
    @cookathomeyummyfood5457 Місяць тому

    Nice information.

  • @ml-ci8hd
    @ml-ci8hd Місяць тому

    भाई जी मै भी यहां पर यही सब बात महसूस कर रहा हूं

  • @anuradhashodangi9974
    @anuradhashodangi9974 Місяць тому

    By the way Rajat… in india also these home delivery 🚚 apps do take their delivery charges / handling charge etc. nothing is free…

  • @archanasharma7374
    @archanasharma7374 Місяць тому +1

    Kitna bhi saach bata do Rajat fir bhi log abroad aane ko bahut excited rahte haan😊

  • @mesbahulhoda9539
    @mesbahulhoda9539 Місяць тому +1

    Sometimes I wonder if Indians in India do any housework when they have employed a maid, cook, driver etc

  • @Ankisal88
    @Ankisal88 Місяць тому

    Please give examples of technology which you know is not available in India? Mostly people travel to India for medical needs from US.

    • @ouramericandream1183
      @ouramericandream1183  Місяць тому

      Nice idea, i will make a separate video on this. People go to India for medical since it is cheaper for them as compared to here. People also come to US for medical treatment from India.

  • @ritugoyal7413
    @ritugoyal7413 Місяць тому +4

    East or West India is the best

  • @somesakhi
    @somesakhi Місяць тому

    i bet you, even if someone would have told you all the things you mentioned, you would definitely have come to US. Nobody of age 20-25years can understand all these issues well .information about how to manage these issues you mentioned is more prevalent .

  • @rv8044
    @rv8044 Місяць тому

    Rajat ji I read in Frisco Desis group today that a lady and her two accomplices are hypnotising older Indian parents taking a walk and robbing them of their gold chain. Please talk about it in your next video and warn others, especially people in Irving, Frisco and Coppell.

    • @ouramericandream1183
      @ouramericandream1183  Місяць тому +1

      Yes i am aware of these too, thanks for the idea. I will make a video on this.

  • @shiv-shaktigeetagupta8323
    @shiv-shaktigeetagupta8323 Місяць тому

    Good video 😊

  • @shaikmohammedkhaja1359
    @shaikmohammedkhaja1359 Місяць тому

    Is 30$ is enough in California per hr.how much will be expensive for bachelor and couple

  • @anupamarastogi9213
    @anupamarastogi9213 Місяць тому

    Very good vlog

  • @Theayushji527
    @Theayushji527 28 днів тому

    How did you got your green card?

  • @vamseekumar9968
    @vamseekumar9968 Місяць тому

    Very nice video

  • @arvindgautam1809
    @arvindgautam1809 Місяць тому

    Bhai India hi best hai aaj ke time... Jo saving tumhari waha ho rhi hai utna hi hum save kar lete hai...

  • @shalakagangal9654
    @shalakagangal9654 Місяць тому +1

    Inspite of having maids in india its a big headache to maintain these maids. They dont do quality work and don't work sincerely lack professionalism and cleanliness. Its really waste of money on maids in india.have to keep watch on them train n supervise them all the time. I think having good heavy duty home appliances is always good. Atleast there is no dust n pollution in usa like india so its ok if u dont clean ur house daily.
    Good infrastructure quality life good education system r some things lacking in india.

  •  23 дні тому

    Also violence in America mass shootout… I live in USA 35 years

  • @punammathur1636
    @punammathur1636 Місяць тому

    Means you guys are lower middle class there same here in India many people can’t afford

  • @ajayladani322
    @ajayladani322 29 днів тому

    🎉

  • @CheerfullSunny
    @CheerfullSunny Місяць тому +6

    India vs Other Countries - some other differences:
    1. In Indian people don't like to do their house chores. Instead they want comfort and hire maids then waste their saved time on sash bahu TV serials. Globally, people do their own chores.
    2. In India, people plan to retire after 60 and do nothing. Instead they create nuisance in their child's married life. Globally, people work with something to keep their body & mind active after 60 years of age. Japanese work beyond 90 years to stay happy and feel their worth in society.
    3. Globally, adults gets married, choose their partners. In India (& China) parents have taken the responsibility to get their kids married. Then make their married life hell.
    4. In India, parents or elders have no clue or plans what to do with their life after work & raising kids. Globally, people live on their own.
    5. Indian sages gave the wisdom of silence, maun. Indians spend their time with gossips and miss that when aboard as people mostly live on their own.

    • @bl8863
      @bl8863 Місяць тому

      Agree!!

    • @smitathite4066
      @smitathite4066 Місяць тому

      Perfect observation...this is well said elder people don't know what to do with their life.

  • @adityarauniyar8081
    @adityarauniyar8081 11 днів тому

    Shidha baat humlog hai kanjush bachani ka hal jante h that's ok

  • @RkR2001
    @RkR2001 29 днів тому

    INDIA Vs USA labor costs koi comparision Nahin .

  • @anupamarastogi9213
    @anupamarastogi9213 Місяць тому

    Bhai india is the best

  • @deepagaur256
    @deepagaur256 Місяць тому +1

    Dr. neeche baithe hote hai😀

  • @ribumom9474
    @ribumom9474 Місяць тому

    Where r u from? I sm from michigan

  • @pallavsenofficial
    @pallavsenofficial Місяць тому

    Rajat bhaiya informational video banane ka try kia pad shilpa didi ne comedy video bana diya..😂❤😅🎉

  • @SantBains
    @SantBains Місяць тому

    very easy to go back to india nobody will ask you
    Only problem is when you come back to usa....

  • @Ankisal88
    @Ankisal88 Місяць тому

    Vaekal (vehicle)chahiye apko 😅

  • @danish.malhi.1932
    @danish.malhi.1932 Місяць тому

    Pls reply jarur da

  • @aprajitaroy9058
    @aprajitaroy9058 8 днів тому

    Kya aap pehle nhi jante the ki aap apne mata pita ko apne bhai behan ko apne relatives ko apne culture ko miss kroge kya nhi jante the aap km se km ye sn to aap jrur jante the na

  • @rajukumarsharma-h1r
    @rajukumarsharma-h1r Місяць тому +2

    Bhaiya i am only in class 9 so i request you to make a video of suggestions that what to do after class 9 to come to usa please bhaiya and didi😢

  • @mohammedabdulaziz5949
    @mohammedabdulaziz5949 Місяць тому

    Rajat sahab, we, cybersecurity fellows need more videos on cybersecurity jobs in usa pleasee. Security clearances, which jobs in cybersecurity are in demand for freshers like soc, how to apply which companies are hiring, interview process etc

  • @thesatnambajwa
    @thesatnambajwa 29 днів тому

    India me be itna easy nahi hai..

  • @arunwahale9973
    @arunwahale9973 Місяць тому

    Please compare with minimum wages of India & USA. You will realize quite poor to India

  • @raulAlbiyol
    @raulAlbiyol Місяць тому

    Guy America is gonna be unstable after 2-3 years there is a lot of chaos coming, forget inviting people there rather you should plan to come back and settle in Bharat. Or if you plan to stay buy some metal to protect you and your dear ones..

  • @pallavsenofficial
    @pallavsenofficial Місяць тому

    Rajat bhaiya shilpa didi ko bolne do ki mai mu shilpa.. humesha mere wife shilpa 😕😒

  •  23 дні тому

    If you don’t have good insurance u r in trouble

  • @vikasalandikar922
    @vikasalandikar922 Місяць тому

    To ayye kyo. Vapas jao

  • @deepakgaur4965
    @deepakgaur4965 29 днів тому

    Your wife is beautiful 👍
    Namaste

  • @komalsaxena2145
    @komalsaxena2145 Місяць тому +1

    ghar se bahar niklo toh sbkuch apne matlab ka milna jaruri nahi! struggle Toh hai hi, for better opportunities and for better money 😂
    Agreed on all points, I really like BC ka transit, inki badi frequency hai buses ki. haan but cars toh hain hi logo pe!
    nice vlog! India me convenience hai yar! har chiz me lekin udhar k apne disadvantages hai!
    if you can, can u make a video on type of visas available in US

    • @ouramericandream1183
      @ouramericandream1183  Місяць тому +1

      Sahi bola, India ke bhi apne disadvantages hain isliye vo pick karo ki aapko kya chaiye and kya nahi. Noted on your suggestion. Abhi to main yaha ka election process cover karne vala hun.

    • @komalsaxena2145
      @komalsaxena2145 Місяць тому

      @@ouramericandream1183 that will be great 👍

  • @SantBains
    @SantBains Місяць тому

    Bachay hamara aur palagi nanni usa wali...??? Why

  • @kapilhintya7507
    @kapilhintya7507 28 днів тому

    Aise hee logo ko asliyat se rubroo karvatein raho aap. Aur fehkoon ko expose .kayeon ke zindagi sanwar jayegee specially lmc and middle class. Mindset bane janta ka kee bharat ko better karna hee behter hai.

  • @OneStop4Deals
    @OneStop4Deals Місяць тому

    What would you do if you knew this already lol

  • @swastimukherjee6030
    @swastimukherjee6030 Місяць тому +1

    Very nice informative video...all valid points.But I want to mention that because I 've lost my mother last December😭....due to doctor's negligence 😭 Bitter Truth of India.80% of doctors have no humanity and dedication for their patients.😡 Only money matters.Though my 4 cousins r doctors....2 settled in abroad 2 are in India.There doctors are so humble❤ and dedicated towards their patient.

    • @ouramericandream1183
      @ouramericandream1183  Місяць тому

      Sorry to hear, her love is with you always

    • @Sonia.Singla
      @Sonia.Singla Місяць тому

      God give you strength to bear this loss. Me too lost my mom due to doctor's negligence 2 years ago in one of the best hospitals in india. It all depends.

  • @Vishnyc
    @Vishnyc Місяць тому

    Vote Trump! ♥️♥️♥️

  • @SRbones
    @SRbones Місяць тому +1

    Yes, indeed !! You can survive in india with low disposable income, you can survive in india with one person income but you can end up broke in the US with all of the same situation, safety is a hoax in the USA you can end up dead by a cop on a racial ground, you can live a great and good life (I mean high living standards) in india with above average house hold disposable income.

    • @AC-jg2dg
      @AC-jg2dg 25 днів тому +1

      Dead by a cop? The Indian media has been blasting a lot of fake US news. Don't Indian cops thrash and demand bribes just to pass through?

  • @madhvibandhe1912
    @madhvibandhe1912 Місяць тому

    Byke aur scooty nahi.chalta kya bhaiya waha

    • @ouramericandream1183
      @ouramericandream1183  Місяць тому

      Bike is only for fun. Commute ke liye nahi use karte log, scooty is rare

  • @hariomkumaravlogs
    @hariomkumaravlogs Місяць тому

    China is far better than dangerous USA 😂😂

  • @kiranrajput6554
    @kiranrajput6554 Місяць тому

    Job lene k related video bnao brother

  • @kiranrajput6554
    @kiranrajput6554 Місяць тому

    Beti kasi hai apki

  • @kiranrajput6554
    @kiranrajput6554 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you for information brother🙏....