10 Dumb Mistakes Smart Couples Make (with Rabbi Bentzion Shafier) | THAT'S AN ISSUE podcast
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- Опубліковано 27 чер 2024
- In this episode, Rabbi Shafier explores how to strengthen your relationship, even if you and your partner are experiencing different realities. We discuss specific ways to communicate effectively, understand and embrace your spouse's emotions, and appreciate each other genuinely.
The Rabbi reveals the ONE THING your husband wants from you more than anything else, and it's not what you think. Similarly, he shares the ONE THING that will make your wife happy, and it's DEFINITELY not what you think.
He also covers the ONLY way to change your spouse so that you can finally get what you need in the relationship.
Get the Rabbi's amazing book (and more) here: bit.ly/3Jo0OdX
Rabbi Bentzion Shafier is the founder of theshmuz.com, author of the books Stop Surviving and Start Living, Finding, Keeping Your Soulmate, The Torah Lifestyle and Two Minutes to Bitachon and 10 Really Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make. He is also the man behind the Shmuz itself, a forty-five minute weekly shiur that has been loved around the globe for over ten years. He is responsible for delivering cutting-edge Torah content through live webinars, videos, articles and more and can be contacted at rebbe@theshmuz.com.
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This video should be mandatory viewing in chossen and Kallah classes!! Thanks so much for sharing ❤
This is an excellent interview. Rabbi Shafier has addressed very key points and literally has hit the nail on the head regarding the gross misunderstanding of how relationships actually work. Not in theory, but in practice. This is really worthwhile to watch if you want to improve your relationship with your spouse.
1:02:10 The Rabbi’s advice summarized. Great stuff
I read the book THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES by Gary Chapman to determine what my wife’s primary love language is, then I started implementing her primary love language and the outcome was amazing. I was filling up her love tank and I always recommend this book.❤❤
The rabbi is awesome.
Please have him back.
Great episode.
"That's strange." (20:05) I'm definitely going to work on thinking that way instead of getting triggered and/or taking things personally. Thank you.
The rabbi is awesome
The rabbi is awesome ❤
The rabbi is awesome!!
Wonderful episode. Thank you!!
Many thanks for this informative and transformative discussion!
@23:30 - it says in Shulchan Aruch that before yuntif, you have to buy the kids presents and the wives jewelry. In Kesubos, it lays out the responsibilities of the husband in onah.
Wow, I learned so much! Thank you for this interview!
The rabbi is awesome and so are you
The rabbi is awesome ❤
The rabbi is awesome!
Amazing to hear. Thank you
Wonderful guest... I'm getting his book today. Thanks and best regards from Mexico City.
Agreed. Spectacular. Thank you all.
Thank you Rabbi Shafer.
Gold.
Great episode!!!
תודה רבה על השיעור כבוד הרב!
The rabbi is awesome and impressed.
Commitment, love, and learning to love together.
Hollywood has it backwards; meaning, love is the glue once the marriage is established based on divine determination of said message.
“That’s strange…” a good observation to open dialogue to understand the partners reaction/interaction (non-judgmental but just an observation)
Cool fact that a lot of people don't know that the Lubavitcher would have tea with his wife every night!!!
It usually was sometime around 4am
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Awesome
My God my God ,praise God.😢😢😢
The Rabbi is awsome
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"that's strange" is one way. "yes dear!" also does it.
“Hollywood got it 100% right by backwards” 12:20
The first item that should be addressed is to keep men intact to make the connection.
Does there not exist some objective measure of proper / improper behavior such as consideration? It seems that there is a great emphasis on acquiescence based on the gender difference escape clause.
Excellent question which should have been addresses!
So what can people do before marriage to prepare?
In my opinion is working on thinking that the opinion with which you disagree can be also rational and it can be valid
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The rabbi is the robbery is awesome
Thats guts to say that yeshivas and bais yaakovs educate the wrong way
It’s 💯 true tho.
Not about everything but some specific things