How to be classy | For Black Women

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  • Опубліковано 11 лип 2024
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    Hello, welcome to Cocoa Styling, a place where you can find styling tips for dark skin women. This video is part of mi dissecting styles series.
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    I’m a certified stylist and a fashion designer as well as a woman of color, and my job really helped me out figuring some things out and I would love to help you guys as well. If you have any questions don’t hesitate to comment down below or DM me @cocoastyling and you’re also welcome to suggest video topics.
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  • @nakkie326
    @nakkie326 3 роки тому +358

    1. Less is more
    2. Always dress for the occasion
    3. Avoid skin tight clothes
    4. Avoid spandex
    5. Don't show too much skin (relative)
    6. Invest in basic color pieces
    7. Wear the right dress size
    8. Wear the right jewelry
    9. Watches
    10. Learn to walk in heels
    11. Always do your hai
    12. Keep your nails in good condition
    13. Wear the right make-up
    14. Wear your colors
    15. 5 minute no makeup makeup look
    16. Etiquette and manners (listen to the video)
    17. Smile (listen to the video)
    18. Turbans (listen to the video)
    19. Wigs (listen to the video)

  • @latajanee4410
    @latajanee4410 3 роки тому +535

    I’m glad I found this because I’m trying to dress class and not boujee. That’s a cute style too but I’m getting older and trying to make a wardrobe that I won’t have to replace every few years

    • @cocoastyling
      @cocoastyling  3 роки тому +15

      I'm so glad!

    • @beautifulqueen748
      @beautifulqueen748 3 роки тому +4

      Amen to that

    • @MissDopeful
      @MissDopeful 3 роки тому

      Girl!!!!

    • @indigo6485
      @indigo6485 3 роки тому

      I feel you on that

    • @maxinefowler1186
      @maxinefowler1186 2 роки тому +11

      My Mother taught Me this. I guess Mothers don't do that anymore. My Mom wore a mink coat to go shop for Groceries. I am Black, and I went to work for the World's largest Airline. Next, I worked for a Bank, the Man that hired Me said I am glad that airline showed you Black Women how to dress. I said my Mother taught Me, he laughed said that's a fairly tale. I said no, stop being condsending.

  • @deegoldendust1677
    @deegoldendust1677 3 роки тому +154

    It’s nice to see my photo being represented in such a elegant way. Who would’ve known I had to be on the cover of someone’s UA-cam video. All-around great video

  • @samanthamponela6466
    @samanthamponela6466 3 роки тому +365

    It's been hard finding videos that show black women. Thank you so much!

  • @PeukinsPoint
    @PeukinsPoint 3 роки тому +119

    Love that you specified the difference between boujie/classy.

    • @MeMe-ht2hd
      @MeMe-ht2hd 3 роки тому +12

      Correct, for the young female who watches this or older and might not know the difference these examples sets them up for success, because they know what to avoid and what to aim for based off these visuals.
      Cocoa Styling, does an superb job, I wish her health to continue to bring these videos to us.

  • @ItsMeTotally
    @ItsMeTotally 3 роки тому +190

    This is much needed in the day-and-age of Cardi B and Megan the Stallon who I both enjoy but do not like them to be representing of all black women. We need balance as white women and every other group to be shown not ONE WAY as black women. Not all of us are sexualized and actually many of us want quality gentlemen as well.

    • @cocoastyling
      @cocoastyling  3 роки тому +20

      Yes! That's why I like my Style series, all sort of different styles and aesthetics with examples that look like us

    • @ItsMeTotally
      @ItsMeTotally 3 роки тому +6

      @@cocoastyling Thank you, and please keep doing what you are doing. I support this channel 100%.

    • @leannewheeler5351
      @leannewheeler5351 3 роки тому +6

      @kj 100% truth!

    • @codishaa
      @codishaa 3 роки тому +2

      Amen

    • @lisas9462
      @lisas9462 3 роки тому +1

      @kj Neither is this influencer.

  • @JustOnePageAway
    @JustOnePageAway 3 роки тому +23

    I appreciate you including the beauty of natural hair.

  • @saramyles4750
    @saramyles4750 3 роки тому +86

    can you do a version of this video for plus sized women ... ive noticed that sometimes wearing loose fitted clothes can make plus size women look bigger

  • @alexandrajames3174
    @alexandrajames3174 3 роки тому +77

    This channel was much needed and I hope it continues to grow.

  • @latoyairaborofficial
    @latoyairaborofficial 2 роки тому +16

    Soooo glad you mentioned that it’s ok to wear your natural hair. I’ve been trying to find classy hairstyles that don’t make me look like a teacher Or a toddler. Do you mind creating a video about how to wear your natural hair in a classy manner?

  • @pamhatch160
    @pamhatch160 8 місяців тому +2

    This was an amazing tutorial. I am clearly a white woman . Most of my girlfriends are black women so I wanted to watch and see the styles recommended. I took away classy styles and advice for myself as well . What a beautiful video. I'll share with my girls too. Thank you Cocoa.

  • @softshell812
    @softshell812 3 роки тому +18

    My tips are: if you have a clothing staple that's good enough quality to hang on to for a while: GET IT TAILORED! $15 Investment will make you look so much more polished. Also, DIP NAILS. Short or almond, chill and neutral dip nails take 20 mins.

  • @yupthatsme89
    @yupthatsme89 3 роки тому +29

    I'm so glad I found this channel. I'm to enhance my wardrobe for my 20s.

  • @_CDeville
    @_CDeville 3 роки тому +71

    I’m so obsessed with channels like this!!🥰🥰

    • @kaylahreed8899
      @kaylahreed8899 3 роки тому +1

      What other do you know of?! I love this one as well

  • @shameshaj5984
    @shameshaj5984 3 роки тому +26

    Lots of Love My healthy beautiful Women!☀️

  • @renatamitchell9535
    @renatamitchell9535 3 роки тому +3

    I love a classic look that never goes out of fashion. Thanks for this video. 💝

  • @queenofthesouth4205
    @queenofthesouth4205 3 роки тому +7

    Great video. Thank you for showing us at our best.

  • @PinkYellowGreen2023
    @PinkYellowGreen2023 Рік тому +1

    Love this video!!! Black women come in a variety of ways! Time to let the world know

  • @yvettekirkland5950
    @yvettekirkland5950 3 роки тому +1

    I agree with everything. Loved this!

  • @cnashford2
    @cnashford2 2 роки тому

    I was brought to your channel thanks to my love for the dark academia aesthetic. Your videos are so great! Thanks. - a new subscriber

  • @wendyrs1087
    @wendyrs1087 3 роки тому +11

    Black women so beautiful

  • @viviancovington7813
    @viviancovington7813 Рік тому

    Absolutely brilliant! So helpful. Thank you.

  • @adorablebelle
    @adorablebelle 3 роки тому +15

    1. Less is more
    2. Always dress for the occasion
    3. Avoid skintight clothes
    4. Avoid spandex
    5. Don't show too much skin
    6. Invest in basic color pieces (she offers color analysis for black women!)
    7. Wear the right dress size
    8. Wear the right jewelry
    9. Watches
    10. Learn to walk in heels
    11. Always do your hair
    12. Keep your nails in good condition
    13. Wear the right makeup
    14. Wear your colors
    Bonus Tips on...
    No makeup makeup look
    Etiquette and mannerisms
    Smile
    Turbans
    Wigs

  • @janeecelamadieu1136
    @janeecelamadieu1136 2 роки тому

    I love classic style but I also love the Academia style and classic glam styles too

  • @Cristina.Antoniuc
    @Cristina.Antoniuc 2 роки тому +2

    Keep going girl. It was aesthetically pleasing to watch. We absolutely need more content from you 😍🌹

  • @Queenshar40
    @Queenshar40 3 роки тому +5

    Happy I came across this!

  • @oluwademilade6863
    @oluwademilade6863 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you so much for this .

  • @indriadrayton1132
    @indriadrayton1132 3 роки тому +5

    I love understated outfits...

  • @Asteriyea
    @Asteriyea 3 роки тому +5

    Love the pictures you selected to demonstrate your points. Keep up the good work!

  • @JanelleMac
    @JanelleMac 2 місяці тому

    This is great advice! I just subscribed! ❤

  • @gypsymoon474
    @gypsymoon474 3 роки тому +1

    Yes!! 🥰❤️ I love these tips!!

  • @Bond_MrsBond
    @Bond_MrsBond 2 роки тому

    Wow this video makes me feel so good🥰🥰 thank you!

  • @cecel_reis
    @cecel_reis 2 роки тому

    i appreciate this channel so much

  • @deniseoates7147
    @deniseoates7147 3 роки тому +4

    Very good content and with melanin skin women in mind, very valuable information. I really like the selection of pictures used. Thanks for sharing and blessing to you and all in the many days to come,

  • @So_IJustGotHere
    @So_IJustGotHere 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you for creating this channel. So excited for more videos to come

    • @cocoastyling
      @cocoastyling  3 роки тому

      Welcome!
      I'm so glad you like my videos:)

  • @juliennelomocso6294
    @juliennelomocso6294 3 роки тому +4

    came across your channel and i am in love ❤❤❤ this is so revolutionary! 😍
    I hope this channel grows!

  • @naomia472
    @naomia472 3 роки тому +12

    First time on this yt channel just subbed and liked. I absolutely loved this video it made me feel fantastic!! Like a queen! Thank you Mrs cocoa!❤️

  • @Wooddweller
    @Wooddweller 3 роки тому +10

    I am so tempted to change my style to the classic style. I am 30 and no longer a teenager but I am having such an issue with trying to grab the attention of my future husband. Wherever he is.

    • @AbdulKareem-uy6hk
      @AbdulKareem-uy6hk 3 роки тому +2

      My Sister, you will find him. Less is more. Quality Gentlemen attract feminine, articulate and well dressed women. The key is to be confident in your skin and attire...

    • @MologadiMakhafola
      @MologadiMakhafola 3 роки тому

      He will find you with the classic style. Mine did 😍

  • @Victoria-up6vz
    @Victoria-up6vz 3 роки тому +4

    Girl, I just subscribed ❤️💃🏾💃🏾

  • @CC-pu6qn
    @CC-pu6qn 3 роки тому +4

    This is my first video, subscribed. I’m light skinned but I’m here for this. Any type of black female empowerment, I’m here for it!

    • @cocoastyling
      @cocoastyling  3 роки тому

      Welcome! And thank for your support:)

  • @msmarvellous9597
    @msmarvellous9597 3 роки тому +9

    Thank you 💕

  • @FeliciaFollum
    @FeliciaFollum Рік тому

    Ok that last Boujee style with the lock knots was sooo cute!!

  • @looksbysellox
    @looksbysellox Рік тому

    lOVE IT, Thank you

  • @ashgas1898
    @ashgas1898 2 роки тому

    I love your channel!

  • @maserati925
    @maserati925 3 роки тому +1

    Good video, most of these tips I have learned from my mom🙂

  • @TheChefSteph
    @TheChefSteph 3 роки тому +1

    Very insightful video with great tips!

  • @kristelk5802
    @kristelk5802 3 роки тому

    Thanks for the video. It was awesome

  • @taj6090
    @taj6090 3 роки тому +86

    Suggestions for tips on other styles
    - Dark Academia
    - Preppy
    - Romantic
    - Edgy
    - Boho

    • @cocoastyling
      @cocoastyling  3 роки тому +11

      Thanks! I will definitely work on those as well

    • @angellover02171
      @angellover02171 3 роки тому +2

      @@cocoastyling maybe cottage core as well

    • @angellover02171
      @angellover02171 3 роки тому

      @Baddie Kayladoll is it?

    • @SisterSister18
      @SisterSister18 3 роки тому +2

      It’s weird because I’m such a creative person that emboy all styles I can’t just pick one.

    • @thecomplexion7524
      @thecomplexion7524 3 роки тому +1

      Sporty

  • @Phinanollytv1
    @Phinanollytv1 2 роки тому

    Wow I really love this

  • @Pursuitofsimplicity
    @Pursuitofsimplicity 3 роки тому +3

    Excellent. Please keep up the good work. It is needed.

  • @TULIP.1689
    @TULIP.1689 3 роки тому +7

    Great video! I am streamlining my wardrobe to be all classic. To do a classic style you can wear things that skim your figure but DO so tight it looks like you were poured in. If it’s gaping or pulling anywhere it is TOO tight!
    Focus on good quality basics. Less is more with this style. You can find great pieces second hand. Window shop the better stores so you can recognize the labels if you happen to thrift. Quality is better than quantity. You don’t need labels and too much flash with it. You don’t need designer necessarily especially when you’re starting out. You could even sew your own clothing and it would be just fine.
    Stay OUT of the leggings, hoodies and the like. You can wear slimmer sneakers preferably in a solid colors. Unless you are doing something active stay out of the athletic wear.

    • @cocoastyling
      @cocoastyling  3 роки тому +1

      Those are great tips!💖
      Quality over quantity is definitely important in this style, but that doesn't mean it has to be expensive, especially with timeless pieces, they are easier to find.

  • @shaniyaweaver1072
    @shaniyaweaver1072 3 роки тому +8

    This was surprisingly helpful. Thank you

  • @JayLeiRay
    @JayLeiRay 3 роки тому +3

    This was so helpful 😍

  • @ShesooBreezy
    @ShesooBreezy 2 роки тому

    Love this game, queen. 👸🏾👸🏾👸🏾 💯💯💯 💎💎💎💎

  • @codishaa
    @codishaa 3 роки тому +1

    I needed this video. Thank you

  • @veronicapurcell6239
    @veronicapurcell6239 3 роки тому +12

    These looks are so functional, and versatile while being quite beautiful. Very much enjoy and appreciate all the care tips. Thank you so much for sharing.

  • @amplyfesociety2570
    @amplyfesociety2570 3 роки тому +16

    Truly enjoyed this video.

  • @Bezvlel
    @Bezvlel 3 роки тому +1

    This is such an excellent video

  • @shirleyowens9936
    @shirleyowens9936 3 роки тому +2

    Love it!!❤️

  • @susannakitto5655
    @susannakitto5655 3 роки тому +6

    I liked and subscribed before watching anything

  • @unapologeticyogi9439
    @unapologeticyogi9439 3 роки тому

    Subscribed! Blessings queen.

  • @Rosefleur5346
    @Rosefleur5346 3 роки тому +3

    I Love this video , thank you .

  • @milliemi4759
    @milliemi4759 3 роки тому +1

    Great! Video and advice. Thanks so much for sharing. I think I'll subscribe ☺️

  • @thanksmudyira3547
    @thanksmudyira3547 3 роки тому +3

    The best video i do not need to watch other videos now.

  • @fashiontisiconic586
    @fashiontisiconic586 2 роки тому +1

    I loved this video 👍🏾👾

  • @bcoral8101
    @bcoral8101 3 роки тому +10

    I'm completely biased, but wow...black women are fine AF

  • @nubi688
    @nubi688 3 роки тому +2

    GREAT VIDEO!

  • @Phinanollytv1
    @Phinanollytv1 2 роки тому

    Thanks for the video 📹 please do more on how to look simple and classy to a luxury event 😊 I have already subscribed to your channel

  • @stoneychi8648
    @stoneychi8648 3 роки тому +1

    *Just got this recommended after watching Anna Bey and I'm glad*

  • @carolnewman8590
    @carolnewman8590 3 роки тому

    Thank you!!!

  • @DearNiquo
    @DearNiquo 3 роки тому +5

    This an amazing channel. I am obsessed.

  • @elizabethngato4643
    @elizabethngato4643 3 роки тому +27

    I could listen to you talk for hours🔥

  • @tinaswisphers3433
    @tinaswisphers3433 3 роки тому +44

    Thank you for creating this video! and this channel dedicated to black women! this means so muuchhh!! ive been searching for a channel like this!! also your accent is so pretty!!

    • @cocoastyling
      @cocoastyling  3 роки тому

      Thank you!

    • @normajean7882
      @normajean7882 3 роки тому +2

      Every race of women. Telling. the black woman how to dress. What colors not too wear on their dark skin what you know with your accent. Scared too help the white woman because millions of them need help. But you are looking at their best and our worst. I don't need you. Go figure

    • @lisas9462
      @lisas9462 3 роки тому +1

      @@normajean7882 Thank you because I agree. Within the first few minutes of the video I knew that this wasn't a blk influencer. But she uses the name Cocoa styling for blk women and even gives a reply that she is blk. OK...Rachel Dolezal.

    • @cocoastyling
      @cocoastyling  3 роки тому +2

      @@normajean7882 Well, if you read the description you would know that the reason why I made the channel is that I am both black and a fashion stylist.

  • @FaonaBonne
    @FaonaBonne 3 роки тому +3

    This was helpful

  • @mindfulkento
    @mindfulkento 3 роки тому +13

    Hi ! I found your channel yesterday and I subscribed immediately because I love the content and the fact that you are focused on black women.
    Can you do a video about accessories please. I am a fan of accessories more than clothes. But sometimes I have the impression of doing too much or badly associates them.

    • @cocoastyling
      @cocoastyling  3 роки тому

      Sure! They are also a very important part of an outfit

  • @naydrasnowfield8404
    @naydrasnowfield8404 2 роки тому +25

    I’m 17 and even though I wanna dress classy, I don’t wanna look too serious for my age. Do you think this would be right for me?

    • @cocoastyling
      @cocoastyling  2 роки тому +9

      The classy style work for everyone, however, you can mix it with a few preppy elements to make it a bit more youthful.
      This is my video on the preppy style:): ua-cam.com/video/m2dXieb7ETw/v-deo.html

    • @naydrasnowfield8404
      @naydrasnowfield8404 2 роки тому +1

      @@cocoastyling thank you so much!!!

  • @Renoclark
    @Renoclark 2 роки тому

    Pretty good channel, keep up the good work

  • @DriveByConversations
    @DriveByConversations 3 роки тому +2

    Really good tips thanks 😊

  • @whatscbg4875
    @whatscbg4875 3 роки тому +23

    Well done. Beautiful esthetic.
    Classy. Black. Beauty. 💜

  • @pinkcarterinc.
    @pinkcarterinc. 3 роки тому

    Great content 💕💕

  • @mkalinecpf5206
    @mkalinecpf5206 3 роки тому

    I think this is wat l really wanted, l having struggling with colour match 4 my skin

  • @lyfeasmemecsit6203
    @lyfeasmemecsit6203 Рік тому

    🤎Thank you !🤎

  • @AMaudeThing
    @AMaudeThing 3 роки тому +1

    Great I came across your Chanel. Cool tips.

  • @aspiringfemininity8626
    @aspiringfemininity8626 3 роки тому +10

    This was an excellent video.

  • @matifadzagondo157
    @matifadzagondo157 3 роки тому +1

    I love your channel 🥺

  • @shante4954
    @shante4954 2 роки тому

    Great job

  • @empoweredwoman1021
    @empoweredwoman1021 3 роки тому +4

    I so happy to find you. Please do videos for older women.

  • @krys_tal1845
    @krys_tal1845 3 роки тому +7

    just found this channel, love

  • @mariedunkley4750
    @mariedunkley4750 3 роки тому +1

    This is so Great!! You’re a sweetie so classy! Thank you for these great tips! Love seeing my people with such chic styles.

  • @_tshepiiyy
    @_tshepiiyy 3 роки тому +4

    Just found this now... New subbie😊💕

  • @MeMe-ht2hd
    @MeMe-ht2hd 3 роки тому +15

    Thank you , for saving our community in the day-and-age of the trashy look becoming so mainstream. The more regular black women explore this classy look it changes what we attract, how we feel, and what could be. I have noticed since I dress more classy people actually treat you better, and the people I attract now are of more quality.
    Who wouldn't want an upgrade? Let's get her channel to a million subscribers, send these videos to your friends, family members anyone who can benefit and grow, it's only a copy and text away, Let's go girls!

  •  9 місяців тому +1

    please post more we need youuu sis 🫶🏾❤️🤣

  • @TheGetRight
    @TheGetRight 2 роки тому

    as a man i loved this video

  • @natasya0618
    @natasya0618 3 роки тому +1

    So beautiful

  • @shakejackson7513
    @shakejackson7513 3 роки тому +7

    Wear what makes you feel good!!

  • @rosaryofthecross7149
    @rosaryofthecross7149 3 роки тому

    Love it

  • @slimgirls78
    @slimgirls78 3 роки тому +1

    Excellent video. I have subscribed.

  • @1432amer
    @1432amer 3 роки тому

    Can you do a self care, hygiene series?

  • @AbdulKareem-uy6hk
    @AbdulKareem-uy6hk 3 роки тому +7

    As a Married gentleman (outsider), I hope I may contribute to this wonderful channel....
    Ladies, less is more. Quality Gentlemen attract feminine, articulate and well dressed women. The key is to be confident in your skin, attire (clothing that fits well to your body type) and most of all have impeccable etiquette...

    • @iusedtolovecheesecake2205
      @iusedtolovecheesecake2205 2 роки тому +1

      This is a true statement; however there are so few quality men.

    • @AbdulKareem-uy6hk
      @AbdulKareem-uy6hk 2 роки тому +1

      @@iusedtolovecheesecake2205 , interesting observation. However, that said, I believe it is down to upbringing and a lack of Masculinity and traditional values...
      The quality men are out there. I meet them daily....

    • @iusedtolovecheesecake2205
      @iusedtolovecheesecake2205 2 роки тому +2

      @@AbdulKareem-uy6hk I agree with the first statement, but the second is a little difficult for you to gauge. Keep in mind you know those men a friendship basis. You aren't looking to date them, so there will be characteristic flaws that you're oblivious to.

    • @AbdulKareem-uy6hk
      @AbdulKareem-uy6hk 2 роки тому +1

      @@iusedtolovecheesecake2205 , ***disclaimer*** I never mentioned these men I see daily are my friends.
      Secondly, both male and female, usually judge ones character based on mannerisms and the way one conducts themselves.
      Thirdly, how do women today judge a good character? What is one's definition of a quality man today?
      Lastly, perhaps the "few quality men" today are either Married or those that are single may also find it a challenge in meeting quality women 👀

    • @iusedtolovecheesecake2205
      @iusedtolovecheesecake2205 2 роки тому

      @@AbdulKareem-uy6hk of course, any logical person judges a person overall on mannerisms etc. Also keep in mind you can also meet a person's representative as well.
      I've dated a man whom everyone would give him praises on his kind gestures, his outgoing personality, his "big heart" little did people know he was suffering with a personality disorder and a whole host of other issues. He kept these things under wraps. No one believed he was like this.
      A good quality man is a man who's honest with himself and what he wants. A man of integrity, one who's selfless, you get the point.
      I can agree, trying to find someone of quality is like a needle in a haystack. Too many people again, put forth their representative to use you for personal gain. Neither side trusts the other.

  • @arimorr
    @arimorr 3 роки тому +41

    Just got to this channel! I love it. Is it best to pick out a particular style? I didn't realize until now that I had an affinity for dark academia, Boho, unisex clothing. As I am getting older I have heard that I should pick a particular style, but I don't want to put myself in a box. I do however, want to dress more classy and feminine.

    • @cocoastyling
      @cocoastyling  3 роки тому +17

      The best style to chose is your own personal style! You can take inspiration from lots of aesthetics, you don't have to commit to a particular one. I will say that understanding the basics of the styles and aesthetics that you like can help you give them your own personal touch:)