How to Become a Better Negotiator: Crash Course Business - Soft Skills #8

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  • Опубліковано 9 лис 2024

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  • @qimover
    @qimover 5 років тому +134

    Love your enthusiasm and overall personality!✌🏻

  • @joeivanaquino7184
    @joeivanaquino7184 5 років тому +123

    Please Crash Course Archaeology and Crash Course Theology

    • @crashcourse
      @crashcourse  5 років тому +24

      They're on our list :)
      - Nick J.

    • @somedragontoslay2579
      @somedragontoslay2579 5 років тому +5

      @@crashcourse Theology is in your list! You're going wild!

    • @dulcechavez9736
      @dulcechavez9736 5 років тому +1

      Well theology is studied in crash course Philosophy

    • @M4TCH3SM4L0N3
      @M4TCH3SM4L0N3 5 років тому

      @@FlamingBasketballClub Crash Course philology!

    • @workstudy5282
      @workstudy5282 4 роки тому

      @@crashcourse what about crash course investing with the concept of the intelligent investor.

  • @Beakerzor
    @Beakerzor 5 років тому +9

    Awesome video! Garage sales and flee markets (or craigslist and letgo) are awesome places to practice because for a $20 laptop, who cares if you practice negotiations by saying "would you take $15" or "would you trade $10 plus this lamp I have" There's so much less at stake, but you get to practice concentration, consideration, and politeness all while under the influence of negotiation adrenaline. Never pay full price simply because lose the opportunity to practice your negotiation muscle.

  • @piros100
    @piros100 5 років тому +4

    I'm currently int the process of looking for a new position or another job, so this advice is truly valuable. I always had low self-esteem but I'm suspecting that less hard working colleagues in my current team are earning more and enjoy more benefits than I do. so I'll practice for my next interview going through these tips again. ❤❤

  • @cassiepathak
    @cassiepathak 5 років тому +17

    I love that you used Psych references so much! This was awesome.

  • @pisoprano
    @pisoprano 5 років тому +4

    My natural negotiation style is to not ask for more, which I know I’m not “supposed to” do, but when you’re a newcomer in a saturated field and you get rejections for years, you take what you can get.

  • @jeffreybrown8422
    @jeffreybrown8422 5 років тому +5

    She's a great host. Love her energy and focus.

  • @onelove637
    @onelove637 5 років тому +41

    Thank you for this valuable lesson, why dont they teach this at school?!?!?!

    • @nickbrown9895
      @nickbrown9895 5 років тому +4

      My cynical response woud be... because the state does not want to empower you. Memory techniques would have been awesome too.

    • @hadleybayley3870
      @hadleybayley3870 5 років тому +4

      All true. Make university recorded lectures and knowledge out to the public on the internet for free. Also a degree for submitting the work.

    • @carlsczepanski
      @carlsczepanski 5 років тому

      It depends on the school. The school I attend WGU offers a couple of courses that goes over a lot of the topics that she covers.

  • @andrewrichens5733
    @andrewrichens5733 5 років тому +55

    Ah yes the negotiator, General Kenobi

    • @crashcourse
      @crashcourse  5 років тому +3

      Is that a Galaxy of Heroes reference?
      - Nick J.

    • @andrewrichens5733
      @andrewrichens5733 5 років тому +3

      CrashCourse it’s what Grievous says to Obi Wan after he captures him at the beginning of Revenge of the Sith

  • @Mystik3eb
    @Mystik3eb 5 років тому +14

    Goofy Movie references? NOW we're cooking!!

  • @bulldawzer5074
    @bulldawzer5074 5 років тому +25

    Evelyn you are a great host and I love you very much :)

  • @nantukoprime
    @nantukoprime 5 років тому +1

    If you're fresh out of college, a good signing bonus might matter more than salary. Job hopping is common now, and some industries even expect it (which is its own topic). Who cares if you would make more over 3 years, when you might not make 18 months before going to another company? Gone are the days of the 25 year anniversary gold watch.
    Two good, relatively cheap as well, books on negotiation are 'Getting to Yes' and 'Getting Past No', by William Ury. They cover the negotiation as collaboration, and define the different parts of negotiation and signs that a negotiation is breaking down or stalling. I have found that knowing how to reset part of a negotiation can do a lot to fix an error or a stall in communication.

    • @felrece
      @felrece 5 років тому

      Thanks for the book recommendations kind stranger. I'll go take a look.

  • @paintballthieupwns
    @paintballthieupwns 5 років тому +14

    Found her presentation style a bit distracting at first but about half way through I really started to enjoy it :)

  • @alberteinstein6040
    @alberteinstein6040 5 років тому +100

    Instructions unclear : Accidentally became the smartest guy to exist

    • @9308323
      @9308323 5 років тому +1

      You're not Stephen Hawking though.

    • @funkyflames7430
      @funkyflames7430 5 років тому +3

      930 8323 Stephen Hawking is important and amazing and unfortunately passed away, but the very word Einstein incites Genius.
      E=mc^2 is one of or the most well known equation developed my Einstein.
      The two greatest models of physics are General relativity and Quantum Field Theory.
      The former was made by Einstein and the latter relies on special relativity, quantum mechanics, and fields of particles.
      Special relativity itself was finalized by Einstein, the idea that light could also be a particle was Einsteins idea, creating the idea that all waves are actually wave-particle dualities.
      The crazy thing was he did this all by just thinking about how the universe should work without taking many observations at all.
      People literally think that aliens (or some other higher existence) showed him secrets of the universe.
      Albert Einstein is a word for super genius of super geniuses and yet they score his iq at 165.
      He is still a genius today and will probably stay a genius in the eyes of society for centuries to come.

  • @muhammadshahbazbabar91
    @muhammadshahbazbabar91 5 років тому +2

    charming and funny..realy enjoy your videos... they're soo practical and applicable to real life..your videos are really changing my life ..im applying your instructions in just about every aspect of life....always count me among those ppl who r experiencing positive effect in their lives thru Ur videos

  • @hadleybayley3870
    @hadleybayley3870 5 років тому +3

    This was quite seriously the video I needed to hear. Thank you truly!

  • @peepsmelots
    @peepsmelots 4 роки тому +1

    And she quoted Powerline’s best (and only) song ever?! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @TheNanoSan
    @TheNanoSan 5 років тому +2

    Evelyn is actually my favourite host after John (sorry Hank). She is doing a tremendously good job and she is just so likeable! Keep going!

  • @emmarushworth3016
    @emmarushworth3016 5 років тому +5

    The psych reference was on point

  • @brainphd7527
    @brainphd7527 5 років тому +1

    I love all of the Psych references!

  • @scentedcandle7043
    @scentedcandle7043 5 років тому +2

    omg, i'm living for all the HP references

  • @usualexistence946
    @usualexistence946 5 років тому +1

    Awesome Psych reference 👍👍

  • @shan2936
    @shan2936 5 років тому +1

    Very excited for more crash course episodes like this!

  • @LARKXHIN
    @LARKXHIN 5 років тому +31

    Can't even learn about negotiation without someone throwing shade at my Hogwarts House.

    • @drewliedtke2377
      @drewliedtke2377 5 років тому +3

      LARKXHIN spoken like a true Slytherin

    • @niyathi64
      @niyathi64 5 років тому +1

      Honestly, same...and people question why I'm one

    • @Ruskul
      @Ruskul 4 роки тому

      Don't get mad at a simple hufflepuff for accepting JKR's shallow and unsophisticated treatment of the houses. JKR was willing to let traits from 3 of the houses to slide around, but if you are bad, you are in slytherin, which is disappointing.. History shows us there are plenty of tyrants that would have been from all the houses. Just as smart people aren't always ravenclaw, unscrupulous characters don't always belong to slytherin. Loyalty and bravery is only as good as the concepts it backs and in similar fashion being clever and ambitious with a desire to win isn't bad unless it backs a bad cause. There are plenty of noble, brave, and loyal idiots serving a terrible cause, just as there are intellectuals and honest hard-workers.
      There is no virtue or vice limited to particular personality types, and almost any "virtue" can be put to work doing awful things.

  • @lekevoid
    @lekevoid 5 років тому

    Honestly, the first few minutes of the video gave me pause, and I was ready to disagree. But nuances came along and this sounds like pretty darn good advice. Listen till the end. CrashCourse delivers.

  • @jacobgordon2707
    @jacobgordon2707 5 років тому +3

    Great video. Bonus for Psych references

  • @Rappel477
    @Rappel477 5 років тому +1

    Love all the Phsych references.

  • @omranabazaid8820
    @omranabazaid8820 11 місяців тому

    great words to be kept in mind

  • @drewliedtke2377
    @drewliedtke2377 5 років тому +1

    I feel...so good after watching this.

  • @mzWildchild13
    @mzWildchild13 2 роки тому

    Love your HP references. Also, I just watched 4 other negotiating videos and they all were generic and not helpful. Yours was great with specific examples, thanks for the content.

  • @gcfournier3386
    @gcfournier3386 5 років тому

    Evelyn is the best

  • @DKing-pb7hw
    @DKing-pb7hw 5 років тому +2

    This lady is awesome

  • @Slothopia13
    @Slothopia13 5 років тому +1

    love the harry potter references

  • @pigeonfowl474
    @pigeonfowl474 5 років тому +3

    I don't own a business nor am I an adult but I still watch these videos for the theme music.

  • @jeffreybrown8422
    @jeffreybrown8422 5 років тому +1

    Lol and shout out to the writing team for the psyche references. I love that show

  • @Czar4k
    @Czar4k 5 років тому +1

    POWERLINE!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @illuminatty426
    @illuminatty426 5 років тому +4

    Why don't they teach this in college? this is so useful

    • @illuminatty426
      @illuminatty426 5 років тому

      @Anthony P what course?

    • @nekomancer42
      @nekomancer42 5 років тому +1

      @Anthony P I hear that's a good course. ;)
      Many other business schools offer negotiation as well. The negotiation courses at Harvard and Northwestern are particularly well-known, but a similar approach has been widely emulated. Giving students the opportunity to get some sort of practice with negotiation should be a part of any college curriculum because face-to-face practice can make a big difference.

  • @ronaldthomas1484
    @ronaldthomas1484 5 років тому +3

    Thanks, I'll probably forget this advice, but thanks!

  • @BrokenSofa
    @BrokenSofa 5 років тому +1

    This is awesome, you're a great host 😃👍

  • @Gimo03
    @Gimo03 5 років тому +1

    Kudos for the Psych reference.

  • @user-xo4tm4qr1m
    @user-xo4tm4qr1m 5 років тому

    Again, I love your spirit! 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

  • @gsimplecregk
    @gsimplecregk 5 років тому

    man... that voice is so soft. and the pronunciation - the "t", the "s" - never cuts the ear. even when she talks aloud - she is never loud.

  • @randiefournier5861
    @randiefournier5861 4 роки тому +1

    "You're worth a whole lot."

  • @TheWholeVein
    @TheWholeVein 4 роки тому

    I like Evelyn from the internets

  • @somebodyz5874
    @somebodyz5874 Рік тому

    thank you very much

  • @SunyChi
    @SunyChi 5 років тому

    Thank you

  • @degerdi
    @degerdi 5 років тому +9

    The guy I ask for more money from is ex Romanian military from the Cold War era. He stares a hole through my head.

  • @Corporis
    @Corporis 5 років тому +2

    A Goofy Movie reference?! Man, right in the childhood 🥺

  • @chriswatson7607
    @chriswatson7607 5 років тому +3

    hahahah wow! that was so well done and witty! and informative 👏👏👏👏 ☺

  • @lennybaby89
    @lennybaby89 5 років тому

    Great video!

  • @davethomson1950
    @davethomson1950 5 років тому

    I love this video

  • @aafaninfo
    @aafaninfo 5 років тому

    great work you are doing man

  • @kaisahfx1246
    @kaisahfx1246 5 років тому

    just about to negotiate a raise thanks for the advice

  • @Matt-pi9jo
    @Matt-pi9jo 5 років тому

    Cue Collin Abrodcast channel - love how he bargains and negotiates

  • @Pfhorrest
    @Pfhorrest 5 років тому

    UCSB represent

  • @staytheknight
    @staytheknight 5 років тому

    Make sure that when you negotiate take good notes
    And read the entire agreement before you sign anything

  • @RhizometricReality
    @RhizometricReality 5 років тому +6

    You have nothing to lose but your chains!

  • @sabisabi.
    @sabisabi. 5 років тому

    Evelyn??!!!! Its' me - your internet cousin! I can learn and watch Evelyn from the Internets?? The world is too kind!

  • @dkariningufu
    @dkariningufu 5 років тому +1

    Messing up with the brain...
    Seller : How much were you ready to pay for this rare item ?
    Me : Oranges
    Seller : Wait, what, huh, arrrrgh...[Chucking to death]

  • @msbae
    @msbae 5 років тому

    Skip to 0:53 to get past the preliminary stuff and straight to the skills training...

  • @trevorgarfield96
    @trevorgarfield96 5 років тому

    How do you recommend negotiating for salary on an internal job bid

  • @CMF412
    @CMF412 5 років тому +3

    I cannot remember the last time I had heard someone make a reference to the Goofy Movie.

  • @Koldunja
    @Koldunja 5 років тому +1

    Very Very like that.

  • @Jackie-nt6tq
    @Jackie-nt6tq 5 років тому +1

    OMG ITS PSYCH!!!!!!!

  • @nickbrown9895
    @nickbrown9895 5 років тому

    Wish I'd seen this a year ago. I be in a different world by now.

  • @thunder852za
    @thunder852za 5 років тому

    I will say this about employment, I had a case where someone tried to negotiate their salary with my organization. He failed and didn't get the job, why? Because there were about 3 or 4 people waiting to take his place. So I would like to add, think of the size of the organization you are applying to as well as the rarity of your skill set - both determine how much the company needs YOU. I am not saying don't negotiate, but just be careful about jacking up your salary too much, it can backfire dramatically.

  • @cfopcuber7399
    @cfopcuber7399 5 років тому +1

    same

  • @HeyTash
    @HeyTash 5 років тому

    Yoooo EH-vah-lyyyyyyyyn!!!!! 😊

  • @Overthought7
    @Overthought7 5 років тому

    No mention of principled negotiation? Oh well, still some good tips here.

  • @LeeSintheBlindDoge
    @LeeSintheBlindDoge 5 років тому

    Number 8: the last time to negotiate, send in your seconds see if they can set the record straight

  • @Beakerzor
    @Beakerzor 5 років тому +2

    subtitles are only catching 90% of the words for some reason, at 2am I can't use speakers : ( guess I need to negotiate for headphones. hehe, can you please fix the subtitles?

    • @thelonelydirector
      @thelonelydirector 5 років тому

      They're working for me? That's weird. Not sure what the issue is. :(

  • @candykanefpv
    @candykanefpv 5 років тому +1

    Burton TT Showbiz Guster... C'mon son.

  • @benjif2424
    @benjif2424 5 років тому +1

    Is this crash course or pun&commedy time? Both is fine, but mislabeling isn't really.

  • @kannchagurung3364
    @kannchagurung3364 5 років тому

    Can you show accounting history

  • @stecky87
    @stecky87 5 років тому

    Oh, why you do Lassiter wrong like that!
    Also, if Gus could get on a crime w/o jumping a fence, he'd trade Shawn for you in a heartbeat XD

  • @reagandouglas7017
    @reagandouglas7017 5 років тому

    I love the Soft Skills videos! Can y'all make on a video on managing up? I need help with my boss . She is very tradional and kinda old school. HELP! ;-)

  • @lilhellasmoke
    @lilhellasmoke 5 років тому

    UA-cam>>>>>classrooms

  • @Mad_S
    @Mad_S 5 років тому

    Why does it all have to be a competition though?

  • @nemiwoghiren
    @nemiwoghiren 5 років тому

    Super presenter

  • @vigilantsycamore8750
    @vigilantsycamore8750 5 років тому +1

    This might be a weird idea, but how about Crash Course: Debate Skills? I feel like it would touch on similar skill areas to this series

  • @humanrightsadvocate
    @humanrightsadvocate 5 років тому

    Can someone explain the expression, "Thanks, thought bubble"?

  • @SuperCrueda
    @SuperCrueda 5 років тому

    crash course music theory?

  • @sasankv9919
    @sasankv9919 5 років тому

    Last

  • @karfsma778
    @karfsma778 5 років тому +5

    It's funny you think they won't just replace you if you don't take their first offer.

    • @savagetapioca1672
      @savagetapioca1672 5 років тому

      Them: "We pay this much"
      Me: "That's not enough"
      Them: "Woah, fella! Looks you're not a team player"

  • @robisacomedian572
    @robisacomedian572 5 років тому

    What happened to your jacket?

  • @shortstacksport
    @shortstacksport 5 років тому

    Sorry, but this isn't right. People don't latch on to the first number because they think it's important - they latch onto it because they don't know their own market value. People who know how much they're worth aren't likely to accept a number lower than their market value. Uncertainty is the reason for accepting that first offer - not a 'dislike of randomness'.

  • @Cae_the_Kitsune
    @Cae_the_Kitsune 5 років тому +1

    All of this sounds very vague and nonhelpful. You keep referencing things like “resistance point” without no explanation as to what that is, and you keep referencing keeping your intentions hidden without ever explaining why or how that works or how that’s supposed to make any sense.

    • @mariangelafrancini3795
      @mariangelafrancini3795 5 років тому

      There is a part 1 where everything is explained.

    • @Cae_the_Kitsune
      @Cae_the_Kitsune 5 років тому +1

      @@mariangelafrancini3795 That video mentions the term resistance point, but there's nothing about keeping what you want hidden. If anything, that video suggests the opposite. This series is a mess.

  • @nativelatinosfooktrump5348
    @nativelatinosfooktrump5348 5 років тому +5

    🍔I'm like a smart person I know the biggest words believe me I'm a very stable genius

  • @OutlawAladdin
    @OutlawAladdin 5 років тому +1

    If you want to learn something I'd advise look elsewhere. Take this advice and you'll get chewed up in the business world.

  • @paichethan
    @paichethan 5 років тому

    Too lengthy. Some useless blabbering

  • @cloudstrife206
    @cloudstrife206 5 років тому

    What is this nonsense

  • @KplusU
    @KplusU 5 років тому

    Powerline is racist why bring him up.

  • @thecoolerdaniel2726
    @thecoolerdaniel2726 5 років тому +3

    First dislike yay!

  • @Michaelwentsomewhere
    @Michaelwentsomewhere 5 років тому

    > clicks on video about business skills and negotiation
    > host is young, sounds like shes reading out of a college textbook, and talks about "love" and recites poetry.
    Love crash course, but may skip this series

  • @sathishvarankesavamoorthi8963
    @sathishvarankesavamoorthi8963 5 років тому

    Waste of time