First of all, listening to sad songs in such moment seems very artificial to me and I 100% agree that one should face the emptiness later the break up instead of listening to sad songs. In my case I had no mental space for listening to songs or doing any activity cause my head just couldn't do anything else than feeling the deep sorrow at the very moment. And that has helped me in long term. Dealing with your feelings helps in shortening the recovery period and decreases the emotional pain a lot faster. You become emotionally independent and wise. Cornering your emotion will only leave a permanent mark of in your head. You'll be happy fantasizing that you've recovered but you'll feel the lack every time you sit alone. So whenever you're feeling like you wanna cry or you're in deep sadness, feel that. Trust me you'll come back stronger and gain solitude over loneliness. Also I wanna mention one thing that I never felt lonely in my life since I was a kid. Not because I was surrounded by many people. Both of my parents used to be very busy in their career. But even then I enjoyed my own company. For that many people thought I'm an introvert but I'm not. I feel no hesitation in socialising. I have been like this throughout my journey. Primarily I thought it's the self love which is doing it for me but that's because I wasn't introduced to the word called SOLITUDE. But now I know it's solitude and self love at the same time cause theese are two sides of same coin. Maybe I was blessed enough have such capability by default but I wish the same for you. I hope you get over your dark period and regain your peace ❤
In india marriage is like you are aging who will marry you?. You are pretty still single, you should be incompatible then.. its actually you should need someone with whom your vibes, mentality, goals and emotions match even at age of 50 years... it's better to be lonely than to be in wrong company
Psychologist/Loneliness is not for busy people or practical thinkers. Be busy under any circumstance, you will know how to manage your life. Also mostly 90% of friends are for good times, same conversation gets recycled . If you find that 10% of platonic trustworthy friends thats the biggest blessing.
Its hell because we have made it, just listening to concepts like solitude will not change us, one has to practise and imbibe to see the utterly benefits and enjoy it as heaven
after a 5 yrs long relationship Recently I had faced the break up period.. but as mam told in my second relationship i carried the baggage with me ..Even though she was some kind of honest on her side or morely very innocent but at the same very selfish also .. As because im carrying the same baggage from my first relationship.. I want to over the relationship with the second girl also cz on the very first day i was well known that She was more kind of selfish person after that also i decided to change her little bit for me & i will change for her.. After a couple of months I was fully changed but she didn't.. Now i realise that Just because i was scared of the lonelyness. Thats why After having such a toxic situation i always remain quite just cz of the fear of losing and hopefully lastly she cheated on me . She was well known to each and every thing how much i care for her, love her.. she was well aware about that .. i don't know what to do now .. nowadays i get scared while trusting someone.
Solitude and self love...such concepts are really underrated and misunderstood in India.
I hope one day it has same value as that of other things!
self love me khud se shadi how will you justified this chutiyapanti
First of all, listening to sad songs in such moment seems very artificial to me and I 100% agree that one should face the emptiness later the break up instead of listening to sad songs. In my case I had no mental space for listening to songs or doing any activity cause my head just couldn't do anything else than feeling the deep sorrow at the very moment. And that has helped me in long term. Dealing with your feelings helps in shortening the recovery period and decreases the emotional pain a lot faster. You become emotionally independent and wise. Cornering your emotion will only leave a permanent mark of in your head. You'll be happy fantasizing that you've recovered but you'll feel the lack every time you sit alone. So whenever you're feeling like you wanna cry or you're in deep sadness, feel that. Trust me you'll come back stronger and gain solitude over loneliness. Also I wanna mention one thing that I never felt lonely in my life since I was a kid. Not because I was surrounded by many people. Both of my parents used to be very busy in their career. But even then I enjoyed my own company. For that many people thought I'm an introvert but I'm not. I feel no hesitation in socialising. I have been like this throughout my journey. Primarily I thought it's the self love which is doing it for me but that's because I wasn't introduced to the word called SOLITUDE. But now I know it's solitude and self love at the same time cause theese are two sides of same coin. Maybe I was blessed enough have such capability by default but I wish the same for you. I hope you get over your dark period and regain your peace ❤
4:34 right 💯💯💯
Vdo start time
It's me... i just love my self..... i am the best...
In india marriage is like you are aging who will marry you?. You are pretty still single, you should be incompatible then.. its actually you should need someone with whom your vibes, mentality, goals and emotions match even at age of 50 years... it's better to be lonely than to be in wrong company
5:21 right💯💯💯
Psychologist/Loneliness is not for busy people or practical thinkers. Be busy under any circumstance, you will know how to manage your life. Also mostly 90% of friends are for good times, same conversation gets recycled . If you find that 10% of platonic trustworthy friends thats the biggest blessing.
Great and true comment
Bhot kuch sikna ko mila thank you sir my age 16
The time you spent with yourself is now considered loneliness.
Your grandmoms are equally efficient in relationship psychology
Thank you bhai for knowledgeable video. It help me to improve my emotional intelligence and relationships
Thanks yaar❤
Loneliness is your biggest strength
Very informative... It will help a lot
Loneliness after age 40 is hell. Trust me,, people who think solitude and being single is cool,,then think again.
so, let's enjoy it to genzs
Its hell because we have made it, just listening to concepts like solitude will not change us, one has to practise and imbibe to see the utterly benefits and enjoy it as heaven
Exactly
Bhai tu samjha hi nhi kuch jindgi me i swear there are akand bramchari in this world and I am never alone
very well explained...
मे अकेला खाता हूँ क्यूँकी मुझे खाना share करना पसंद नहीं है
Same 🤣
Same here 😅
happens when real when we shers
Mai bhi
Main bhi same
Thank you bhaiya 💕🙌
She speaks so good Hindi. I mean shudh Hindi
kas yea podcast thora pehela banta yarrrr
Bachpan me solitude tha, bade hone ke baad loneliness feel hone lagta hai 😂😢
after a 5 yrs long relationship Recently I had faced the break up period.. but as mam told in my second relationship i carried the baggage with me ..Even though she was some kind of honest on her side or morely very innocent but at the same very selfish also .. As because im carrying the same baggage from my first relationship.. I want to over the relationship with the second girl also cz on the very first day i was well known that She was more kind of selfish person after that also i decided to change her little bit for me & i will change for her.. After a couple of months I was fully changed but she didn't.. Now i realise that Just because i was scared of the lonelyness. Thats why After having such a toxic situation i always remain quite just cz of the fear of losing and hopefully lastly she cheated on me . She was well known to each and every thing how much i care for her, love her.. she was well aware about that .. i don't know what to do now .. nowadays i get scared while trusting someone.
Big fan of you sir u r best sir
Love you so much ❤️❤️ I love your video 👏
Mai bachpan se hi pta ni bahut jyada akela rhta hun pta nahi kyun
Nice podcast 😅
Name of the guest please
Nice ❤️
Sharm nahi,bohot ego boost milta hai,jab akele bahar hun 🗿
Meto akele rehne ke bare me dekh ne ayay tha😢
5:49 right💯💯💯💯
Restaurant wala hua h mere sath
Listen to Heavy metal 🤘 get energized
bilkul ni
Wooooooow
Wrong advice... dnt make these things soo much technical ...i agree proper consultation is necessary bt its not the correct way
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I hate sad songs, yes perfect solution
What about sex। Everything is good but।।।।।
Bolna aasan hai
Listen krishan das 🙌
Meditate kar bro
Yeh bolna bhi asan hai ki "bolna asan hai"
Karna bhi asaan hoga if you repeatedly make it part of ur life.
@@mayusolanki3121 no fap also
बकर बाज़ी और बकरी बाज़ी वही अन्तर है जो ये बंदी कर रही है और जो ये बंदा करवाना चाह रहा है...
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Ranveer sir aap (chatan_bhagat) ko invite kigea✨
Thanks yaar❤
4:50 right💯💯💯