Elsa Lulya it’s heartbreaking, it happened to me. She was my best friend for 12 years, she ghosted me for 3 years. When she did call me, she was months away from passing. She was diagnosed with liver and lung cancer. I’m glad I had the remaining time with her.
She was already stressed and heartbroken. She just had an opportunity to truly express it. Stress can be bad for fetuses. But healing and godfathers can be so v good.
Yeah but now she's going through even more emotional turmoil trying to deal with it and process it. Plus going on this show, anticipation and the outcome is really stressful. She needs to think of her baby or babies. Everything in the world can wait if it can wait until after the baby is born.
I love her. When she said: "How could you... chose him over me" to her gay friend ❤️ She showed how much their friendship really meant to her. She wasn't hurt about her ex actions or about her friend having a relationship after with her ex. She was hurt after so many years her friend chosed to believe to a trash like her ex and leave her behind 💔
Julia's ex can feel love and emotions. Psychopath: "diagnostic features such as superficial charm, high intelligence, poor judgment and failure to learn from experience, pathological egocentricity and incapacity for love, lack of remorse or shame, impulsivity, grandiose sense of self-worth, pathological lying, manipulative behavior, poor" He did show bad behavior and manipulated the situation. Also didn't care if it hurt them.... wow. Psychopath and Sociopath sound so similar and defined similarly. But yet so different...
That gay guy doesn't care about their relationship, you cant throw away 15 years like that, something wrong with this. Edit: thank you for all the likes dam
He was ghosting her because he slept with her ex. That's not right, but it's understandable. If I slept with my bestfriend of 15 year's ex boyfriend and baby daddy (I would never do some nasty shit like that), I would be scared to see them, too.
I feel like they shouldn’t have added that sad music, if they let the scene go out without music, it would’ve been a bit more affective on the emotion.
I can’t imagine how heartbroken Jordan must have been sitting at that comedy show, watching the person she thought was her love using her trauma as a joke, feeling good about himself.
@@___xoxo___if someone confides in you in private about their personal life, and tells you you stuff they struggled with, that’s a very big trauma for you, what gives that person the right to make jokes about that? he could have asked her in the beginning, hey, is it okay to make these kinds of jokes? i agree with her, it was never his place
@@___xoxo___like imagining getting to know/ dating someone, and your mom or dad dies while u are dating that person, you confide in them, heartbroken, and the next thing you know they are making jokes about it at a comedy club, would u be okay with that? it’s fucked up
@@rinelenny4946 I'm not homophobic for your information. Actually homophobia is really irrelevant and a lot of people do suffer with homophobia. I just have a pet peeve when a guy that is gay just acts like that sorry. Some of these guys just have the most snotty feminine attitude. Sorry bro👣👣
Right like he hid it. He genuinely can't comprehend that the things you do are an indicator of who you are, and of your character. Then he's insulted that it's the reason she ghosted him like how dare she 👿 he just wanted the final word I swear he wanted to be the one to dump her bc he felt emasculated
He's saying she could have communicated, anyone who ghosts anyone is a coward. Who tf cares anyway he's a comedian, that's what they do make fun of any and everyone lol. Get over it
i mean safe spaces as they are used now are largely detrimental to human psychological development anyway , these people werent being openly judgemental and they must have felt that enough to come clean about themselves
I cried. I know how hard it is to have one as well as to lose a child (still born) and the fact that she had to go through it alone is heartbreaking. Even if the others are scripted, that one just seemed too real. Especially with their reactions.
@@katelynrenaeoyler7572 I'm so sorry you've experienced that. I have experienced a miscarriage as well, I find it difficult to imagine a woman making something like that up. wouldn't be the first time, unfortunately, but still.
My heart absolutely broke for Destiny, she is so strong and shows incredible maturity for forgiving Russell. And Russell's struggle of finding himself is also very real and heart-breaking, it isn't easy not knowing who you are. I feel for both of them and I hope they're both much happier now despite going their own ways at the end of the day
People handle things differently. The idea that everyone should be the same level of upset has literally gotten mothers falsely accused and convicted of killing their children, it’s a shitty way to judge how someone actually feels. Some people don’t cry until they walk away, some people don’t cry at all. It doesn’t mean anything.
I felt that to my core when baby girl said, "I Still Have The Pictures, The Ultrasound Everything." Mad me ball in pain for her. As a mother and someone who lost a pregnancy I totally understand this agony. Nothing no woman should ever go through 💔😭
Cried that was so passionate the poor girl. Even her sister you could tell was hurt by it when the subject came up. When they brought up the baby before she came she was so hurt by that. One of the most painful things a woman can experience I am sure.
I had the same reaction. My husband and I recently lost our second child to a miscarriage in September of last year. It happened one week before we were supposed to have our first ultrasound. Lately, our 5 year old has been saying she wants us to have a baby.
@@theusareview7960 You can develop an emotional bond with a damn rock. How others see it doesn't dictate your emotional connection to it. This got nothing to do with abortion so go one somewhere else. Mind you this comment is old as hell
Classic abusers utilize isolation. Devon split up Delmond from Julia, his anchor. Devon slips in to fill the emotional gap that HE CREATED for Delmond. Devon cries to that Julia hurt him, meaning it looks like Devon is the vulnerable one, not the manipulative one. Delmond feels that emotional gap and of course clings to the Devon because they are both seemingly hurt by the same person. Devon takes advantage of how intensely intimate that experience is, inching it towards an even more intimate (romantic) relationship. Delmond is so ashamed that he can't face her and thinks so much time has passed that surely she's better off without him.
@It's Mrs. Bossy Trick You're missing that Shay didn't know Brittney wasn't aware that she wanted to be serious with Greg, she felt betrayed and assumed her friend explicitly chose to go for the guy that was with her best friend, plus she was more emotionally vulnerable because she was pregnant at the time. Yes, it would've been better to talk it out with her before just deciding to ghost her but she isn't perfect, her friend also had the flaw that she didn't want her to be friends with other people and they are happy now so I'm pretty confident not making up would have been a mistake.
My best friend of 6 years ghosted me for 5 years and just messaged me to be my friend again out of the blue 3 days ago like nothing ever happened. She told me she was jealous of my family and her family was manipulating her to hate my family... girl bye. I done 5 years without you.. i got married last year and I’m moving on with my life.
Peridot pooh, my best friend was having sex talk with my bf and I confronted her but she got upset about me reading her messages. We are stills friends but on a level. No one really knows y we aren’t best friend anymore
Russell and Destiny. My heart just aches for them. Destiny went through a life changing event without the one person that should have been there. She has shown maturity and grace by forgiving Russell.
@F A the reactions sure are real. Destiny was really crying, you can tell because one of her eye lashes were coming off because of her tears. Then the female host, her lip muscles were pressing downwards when Destiny was crying after revealing she had a miscarriage. The host was trying really hard not to lose her composure, but failed. Even I cried because of how genuinely traumatized the miscarriage left Destiny. Maybe its a feeling we as women feel. I am not even a mother, but I can only imagine carrying a life for a few months to then lose it. The most painful thing is, she probably lost it due to the stress of Russell ghosting her all the sudden. Not against Russell, his side of the story is also very painful. Its just a very sad outcome for these two.
he didn't own up to what he did properly. he repeatedly claimed that he thought it was good for the future kid for him to not be there. he said he didn't want the kid to not have a dad to be proud of... but how is the dad leaving as soon as he hears of the pregnancy supposed to help with that? he left because he was scared of the responsibility like everybody else who is about to become a parent, and he didn't own up to that. it wasn't about the kid's future, and him being gay was secondary. primarily he didn't want to be a parent.
Russel was even worse than Ross. He lied to his boyfriend, got his girlfriend pregnant when he was pretty sure he was gay, he didn't even explain or properly break up with her, said that he didn't want his kid to be ashamed of him even though supporting his girlfriend even if he isn't attracted to her is much more admirable than just leaving. He's such a horrible person, but Destiny was so mature to forgive him. Ok, now that I finished that entire portion it does seem like he's genuinely sorry for being so selfish. He did seem to feel bad for what he did, which is good. Hopefully he's continuing to improve himself. Poor Destiny though, what a horrible horrible thing to do through. Getting ghosted by her boyfriend and then losing her baby, ugh I hope she's doing ok.
I think it's trying way too hard to be catfish. I feel the same way I can watch it for a little bit but then it just gets more and more unpredictable as it goes on
russell and destiney's story absolutely broke my heart. she clearly tried to remain very stoic but when she broke down, saying she still had the ultrasound pictures and everything, it was pure pain. and russell, even though what he did was terribly wrong, when he brought the baby a gift not knowing what had happened and saying "we have a baby now", i just felt like crying bc i'd seen the comments and knew destiney had a miscarriage. so terribly sad 💔
If you ghosted me you aren’t a friend and never will be. That’s my mindset in 2020. I’ve given so called friends second chances after ghosting me and found out they were all users. Fair weather friends...
Yes, same here. I'm such a forgiving person. The year before last my best friend whose birthday is on May 13th never told me happy Birthday, which was on may 10. I excused her behavior as being busy with her 2 kids. This year it happened again. I even text her the night before my birthday and no response. Well, among other thing's I will truly "ghost" her. I hope you get the same courage to not let people mistreat you. You should be with friends that bring out the best of you and who make you happy.♥️😊
Wait wait - so the last one, this man really ghosted her instead of just talking to her like a human being and then had the nerve to say she was immature?? 😂🤦🏼♀️
I HIGHLY doubt it's because she's a "sex addict"..... he must've lost interest/love for her or found another "more attractive" girl or something that he doesn't wanna admit because he didn't wanna seem like hes the asshole. So instead made her seem "low". It's like... idk I don't believe that guy... I'm on the girl side for this one 🙄
I can’t believe the first dude so superficial only cares about his own needs and feelings. Girl you don’t need that type of energy in your life. He will hurt you again girl
Giovanni is a beautiful confident young woman who is comfortable with her sexuality. He obviously couldn't measure up and fakes a trip to the other side of the country instead of being a man. . .Dante is very small minded, if you catch my drift.
@@jonathanclarke5763 bruh the fact that she was so surprised shows he didn't express to her it was an issue; he said her high sex drive was the reason for the ghosting so i bet he never spoke to her about it. If they had talked it out like adults she could've been ok with that
I really want to slap him. When he said "I thought we had open communication" and got cheesed she didn't explain why she wanted to leave... Like dude do you not smell your own shit??? What an ass hole. Dumbass is going to give her shit for not telling him why she's leaving yet he's totally okay to expose her life , things she trusted him with & their sex life? What a trash human, truly.
I don't. He never said her name. She already knew he was a comedian. When it comes to comedy nothing is off limits. I will admit that talking about that stuff is mean but comedy is meant to make bad situations funny so people can laugh at there problems rather than dwelling on them and be depressed. My dad left me also but If somebody made a joke about it I would probably laugh. I had a girlfriend who was funny she made jokes about our sex I laughed. It's not meant to be a dick😂😂😂lol
He literally said nothing actually offensive. The “call me daddy” thing has been going on for years. He was trying be funny and newsflash, a lot of other men respond well to that kind of humor. She’s a child for not just bringing it up to him. What adult ghosts someone after 6 months of dating?
@@josiahwilliams3552 does she makes jokes about your personal family problems in front of a lot people?the daddy joke is not good.talking about those peoblems hurt its not something you can think about it in a funny way and make jokes when its not about you
He didnt tho. He made a joke about her calling him daddy and he didnt know if he was ready for it. She took it to mean something else. Like us women do is twist shit.
The "comedian" was inconsiderate of her feelings, she had every right to ghost him, and hes a slimeball. Thats letting people into your bedroom, the public shouldn't know what goes on in your bedroom, period!!
I thought he was wrong but I agreed with him, if you are in a relationship you should have open communication. I think she should've dumped him still but I would've done it right at that show.
Actually, I disagree, @K Harper and @misa kei jane I don't think He was wrong. He could have mentioned it but unless He was showing He the whole routine, I don't think that's how comedian work. I have so many my friends that do it for fun or professionally, and alot of them refer to real life things such as relationships, current or otherwise. He didn't say anything personal about her, wasn't bragging to his mates or putting her on blast on social media. So many comedians draw on their real lives to make their comedy. She never went once to his comedy. She kept him a secret. Literally her best mate didn't know who he was. Not that any of that has got much to do with it but it kinda does. She a acts like he was sooooo special to her. Really? He didn't even know she dated girls. He definitely liked her waaaaaaaayyy more than she liked him and I feel that she made the comedy thing an excuse to leave him and still feel good about it. I dunno, just my opinion. She would have had a point if he'd revealed ANYTHING personal about her. That would have made him a complete douche, but he didn't. 😊
@@orgasmicshopper5326 but she said they talked about it before he did his rputines, she said he could talk about anything BUT that, because she was dealing woth the trauma at the time and wasnt in a place where she could laugh about it, and he did it anyway. So hes still in the wrong. He violated his partners trust and privacy by doing the one thing she told him not to do.
So....what about EVERY OTHER comedian that's done that? We can hold some Joe Blow to that standard but not OTHERS?!?!? I get family issues (I've got TONS...haven't seen my bio dad in nearly 30 years), but for real? If we're gonna be offended, hold EVERYONE to the same standard.
I totally agree with the second girl. Having daddy issues is not funny. Abandonment is real and it messes up with your life forever. My dad also abandoned me and my 6 siblings when I was 4 years old. It did caused damaged in my marriage but I never knew that was the reason why until I went to marriage counseling. Don't joke about other's painful feelings and experiences.
Ross was too immature for Jordan. He said I'm going to use this to get the girls I really want.....jokes are jokes but when you are feeling a girl enough to say she's the one you don't joke about her pain.
It's Mrs. Bossy Trick - There is literal video evidence-and the reason why she has those daddy issues is because she doesn’t have a dad. Yeah, it’s a joke, but that’s disrespectful that he’s joking about his girlfriend’s issues.
That matter could have been resolved in person. It's even more immature to disappear without any explanation. Despite what some people may think, closure is a right, and not giving it is an inexcusable act of cruelty. They are both shitty people.
A comedian jokes about any and everyone, even they damn selves LMAO. No one is safe. Regardless, if she was butt hurt about it she could have easily communicated that to him smh
@@Ashley-og9tiAnd he could have communicated that he was going to take a private issue that not many people knew about it, and that he planned on not only making it public, but also taking the piss out of something that caused her great trauma and distress.
Its really inappropriate to joke about someone personal to you without asking their permission as a comedian. He was in the wrong. He is clearly a noob in relationships and a dude lol
2nd story: one of the first things he told the staff about her was "she called me daddy" like it was his prize, full knowing that it was a real issue for her!!! So even after the stand up he would talk about that like it was the best thing about *him*. He is the real "Nice guy"
@@johnnybird5466 it is true they were only dating for a few months and she was calling him daddy so it's not that sacred a title. On top of that he didn't share anything specific about her and simply mentioning a father and "a new girlfriend" in the same context is not an immediate connection to anyone else who doesn't know her personally
She should’ve told him it bothered her instead of acting like he stabbed her heart out like he genuinely didn’t see a problem with it because ITS A JOKE its not a diss which she isn’t understanding like yeah he hurt her feelings but he also DIDNT EVEN KNOW like theres only so mich blame you can put on one person before looking at yourself too bc no one is perfect
@@Brokebasturd dude he purposefully never wanted her to come see his lame ass stand up shows because he was making disgusting “jokes” about her. If he ever in those 9 months had taken the time to reflect on himself he would’ve figured out the problem. Seeing her boyfriend disrespect her and ridicule her like that on stage and making a whole ass crowd laugh must’ve been traumatic. I wholeheartedly support her decision to ghost his sorry ass.
There is something exploitative about having a 6 month pregnant woman break down like that on camera and no one intervenes. Fair enough, she applied for the show, but couldn't they have told her off-camera, rather than the entertainment factor. I'd be worried for her stress levels (if these are legit true cases & not actors) to find out the father of her baby slept and was in a relationship with her best friend/like a brother & she was cast aside after 16 years, would be mighty distressing.
I couldnt agree more, if this is in fact real, that poor fucking woman. Under any circumstance that is awful to have to deal with but she's 6 months pregnant too, this should be a time in life where people help her to feel less stressed an shit and she's going through this.. I feel so bad for her, her emotions looked so hard to deal with in that moment. And I suspect for a long time afterwards, I don't know how I'd deal with that tbf 🤷♀️
These shows on mtv lunga beach wild and out sweet 16 16 and pergo this show catfish that are all fake there for entertaining people only I mean people can get catfish but it's all fake fun to watch
The last one got me! How can he say she is immature but you ghosted her for being passionate about you. Not talking about issues seems more childish to me.
He talked about a specific occasion on the beach when she pulled his pants down, implying he didn't like it. No one is obligated to tolerate sexual harassment just cuz their partner is "passionate" about them. Wtf? You just don't do that to someone. He is a person, not a sex doll.
@@morningstar4873 Agreed, at first I thought he was being immature cause I didn't catch it at first when he said it but her behaviour is not acceptable at all. Still, I think he should've talked to her about it instead of just ghosting her.
@@no_one2197 if I was sexually harassed like that I wouldnt bother talking to my bf. I wouldnt talk to him again. The thing is, he didnt show his emotions (cuz men are taught to put on a brave face) but he talked about a specific occasion - he didnt delve into it because he was immediately shut down and knew that no one would listen. But you dont know whether he felt violated or not. I know I would.
No, they probably *DON'T* know why you ghosted them. That's actually kind of part of the definition of ghosting. If they'd known why you cut them off, it wouldn't have counted as ghosting. If you really had a good reason for cutting those people off, you shouldn't have had any problem communicating that to them-even from a distance, e.g. online or via text message (followed immediately by blocking, if necessary, so you wouldn't have to deal with their reaction).
Jackie Yang it’s not really personal though. a LOT of people don’t have fathers and he never said her name. she’s taking it so personal. that’s such a stupid fucking reason to ghost someone. it would have been so simple to tell him it wasn’t appropriate, even if she chose to end the relationship anyways. neither one of them is right in this situation. he didn’t mean to be insulting when he made those jokes but he should’ve asked for permission anyways. ghosting was such an immature fucking decision instead of being an ADULT and talking about her issue with it.
sorrynotsorryforbeingbias for real lmfao she’s getting mad for no reason. i’m glad he chose to ghost. there was nothing wrong with what he said. she didn’t even TRY to mend the situation by telling him it upset her. she completely ghosted and expected him to know why without telling him and then getting mad when he didn’t know as if she didn’t sneak into the comedy show of his that she attended without telling him
misses elise the point is that you shouldn’t have to tell someone it’s inappropriate to talk about people’s personal business and make it a joke . a lot of people don’t have fathers and everyone feels different about it . it was harder for her than other people and her mother could have abused her and she wished she had her dad you don’t know .
calynn childs I mean yeah we get it u have daddy issues but so many people do. What he did was inappropriate but u gotta be really immature to just ghost somebody without a reason. She has no problem solving skills and she doesn’t need to be in a relationship
Guys will say anything and play it off like "it was just a joke." Super disrespectful of him to say that kind of stuff about her and not even feel like it was wrong
@Martine Davis dude she knew she was pregnant with his baby! I don't care if they were together or not you don't mess around with your supposed best friend's baby daddy come on now
IDC if she was currently with the guy or not. Any guy your "best friend" has been with is OFF LIMITS. Girl code. I could never trust her again. She says it was just pics but she was sneaky about that so how does the other girl truly know that nothing happened? I wouldn't believe it.
Have you seen the one with the women who was ghosted by the father of her child when he found out she was pregnant? I've never wanted to punch anyone more than that
Part of me thinks this is fake but then again people really are this petty lmao. I think the stories are real and that they just have them follow a script when they finally meet. So that it's not messy. Like person 1 speaks, then person 2 kind of deal
Delmond as a real friend almost family all he had to do was confront and speak to Julia instead of listening to a manipulative person like Devin. That poor woman was going through so much. Julia sending you love 💕
Even if you don't find the alleged comedian's routine to be out of bounds, consider the full context: Dude knew NONE of her friends after 6 months of dating, kept her from his comedy career and disclosed her sexual history and experience on national television without her permission. He is every neckbeard nice guy who ever decided that being inexperienced also somehow makes him immune to being a harmful jag. There are tons of ways of joking about heavy issues, but his was not that. It was a piece of a larger pattern of self-absorbed behavior. If you're defending him, you're not defending comedy. You're defending navel gazing cowardice.
@@samarawhite9025 these people had issues that could’ve been fixed with communication. if after vocalizing their feelings they came to an agreement to cut contact, then so be it. Cutting someone off just because you can’t express how you feel ain’t it. But I agree. Some people are incapable of coming to terms with people and leaving that behind is the only option in some cases.
@@Mars4shortt Oh yeah, I agree that THESE people could have just had better communication but I was just replying to your initial comment bc it implied that with communication ghosting wouldn't be a thing. You got what I meant though lol we are on the same page.
Good god that situation with destiny is horrendous. He wasn’t ready to be a dad...okay but it takes two to create a baby and he just dropped his responsibility and left her to it. Sexuality issues or not, you don’t just ditch your unborn child.
I'm with Jordan on this one. Just because it's labeled a "comedy" show doesn't mean you can cross lines. He clearly doesn't understand that sort of level of maturity. What he was doing was mad disrespectful anyways. Those weren't even things I'd even consider to be jokes, just cringy and rude :/. She made the right decision. Hey you live and you learn though, sometimes you gotta learn the hard way. Hopefully he at least recognized this later on. We all make mistakes, it's the ability to own up to it and show the effort to change which will ultimately keep a strong relationship. Good luck to both of them :)
Tbh my dad was hella abusive and never there and then died. I have daddy issues. I don’t think ghosting someone is right. She should’ve broken up with him and told him why he’s wrong. No one knew who she was anyway.
@Scorpio Bradley what you find funny I might not find funny and vice versa. The only way I can know is if you tell me, if I rock with you and give a fuck about your emotions - I won't say it my ghee. She is a grown ass woman and she doesn't have the balls to say what's going on in her mind. She acts like a child and doesn't talk to him... she's bugging b. He's a comedian everything he says is intended to be funny, not hurtful. Intent is important in the comedic world. If you took what I said as sociopathic, you need to grow the fuck up my ghee
What a childish back stabbing evil person Del is. He so easily crushed his chosen family. With a straight face he watched her break down and crumble while pregnant. That stress can cause issues with the pregnancy. Del appears like such a terrible shallow person in this show.
I'm sorry but I am not surprised by his dramatic response to her not showing up to her party. I think he resented her all this time and wanted an excuse to be mad at her. He chose not to listen to his friend and instead listened to her ex boyfriend. He also wanted her to be mad because he slept with her the x.
The fact that Brittney claims to be her “best friend” but sent pictures AND still talked to him, regardless if she wasn’t dealing with greg he’s always gonna be apart of her life because he’s her baby’s father she was WRONG and I wouldn’t trust her to be around me after that. 🤷🏻♀️
I think he kept trying to tell himself that was the reason because he knew the real reason killed not only him but her as well. Plus he did think she was talkin shit about him during that time .. why he believed him is beyond me
The second story, the guy just has one of those "faces," the punchable kind... Soon as he mentioned how he got the girl's contact in the beginning... 🚩🚩🚩
The one with the comedian, he'd be feeling just as bad as her if she was telling a room full of people about his small package, how inexperienced he is in bed and can't please her, or about how he was just practice for the man she actually needs. Its crazy how these people take personal lives of someone they supposedly love and put them on blast and say ohhh it's just a joke chillllll. It aint a joke, tell something about YOUR own damn life.
You don’t know that, he’s a comedian , he never said her name who she was you people are sooooo soft now a days, I would have been upset about the jokes just not being funny at all.
@@andregoree1037 some jokes aren't funny, it's pretty easy to figure out who someone's partner is with how much Social media has grown. I do know that because he'd be so butthurt if the roles were reversed
Andrè Goree I admire her for just ghosting him, that took a lot of restraint. If someone did that too me and said everything he did about their sex life and her daddy issues I would have been waiting for him leave to show that little pusay what crazy was. He is that “nice guy” every girl needs to watch out for.
The funny part about Devon was when he blamed his ex girlfriend for him not having a job and being homeless. What does your girlfriend breaking up with you have to do with your career? Pretty sure you were just using her for her apartment and not working. Sad when he lost his sugar momma
This is what happens when you give a balding-struggling-stand up-virgin comedian a chance! Gurll, I'm proud of you. I would have taken him on blast on that very show. You were so patient to hold all that for so long!! The audacity of this man- I-
he should’ve told her he didn’t want to instead of being like yeah. he consented to it. he didn’t even tell anyone he wasn’t with her anymore. he’s obviously a shitty dude and i hope he doesn’t get another girl after the whole world probably has seen this. literally communication is key. if my boyfriend told me he didn’t wanna have sex i would be 100% ok with it and it seemed like she would be too.
Hold up homie is mad that his Latina woman wants sex a few times a day....WHICH ANY MAN WOULD KILL FOR. Like he couldn’t just say dude we can’t be fucking 2 times a day
The first story breaks my heart. This poor lady is pregnant as hell learning all this shit about her best friend and their relationship. She's a champ, especially for forgiving him.
As soon as they interviewed this first girl's ex, I was like...oooh oooh! I know what happened!!! 🤣🤣🤣
Me too
Right
I did too!😂😂😱😱
Same here
Exactly!
Ended up here because I thought it was "Catfish"
Stayed because it was interesting
Omg me too
Same
Me too
Same 🤣🤣
Same lol
DONT APOLOGIZE FOR NOT GOING TO THE PARTY HE WAS BEING SELFISH AND NOT UNDERSTANDING
Fr boy no one cares that you're gay 🙄
Lol ikr
“here with all my real friends celebrating ME” its a difference between being the subject of the party and basically asking to be worshipped.
@@jonathantorres363 what
@tori it’s his anniversary of coming out as gay not a relationship anniversary
I am WAY MORE emotionally invested in the friend ones than the dating ones
literally samee
Yah
Same
Same but people tell me that’s weird.
@@xthe.gasping.willowx9216tells me you’re a healthy human being.
Devin said that Julia was using him... ummm how? Homie didn’t even have his own place 💀
He was just using her at that point
that’s how narcissistic people think.
he’s lame and dirty
Snm he said she left him high and dry so how did she use u?
Classic Narcissistic Abuse. He will never take responsibility or have remorse.
Y’all imagine getting ghosted by someone you considered family.
My best friend of 9 years recently ghosted me. I dont know why
My sister & my brother...left the family and we’ve been strangers ever since
It happened to me aswell . After 8 years
Elsa Lulya it’s heartbreaking, it happened to me. She was my best friend for 12 years, she ghosted me for 3 years. When she did call me, she was months away from passing. She was diagnosed with liver and lung cancer. I’m glad I had the remaining time with her.
I "ghosted" my dad and brother. I've told them they're arrogant and treat me like shit for years. Then I got tired and stopped talking to them
she needs to not be stressing as much as she is, being pregnant.
She was already stressed and heartbroken. She just had an opportunity to truly express it. Stress can be bad for fetuses. But healing and godfathers can be so v good.
Yeah but now she's going through even more emotional turmoil trying to deal with it and process it. Plus going on this show, anticipation and the outcome is really stressful. She needs to think of her baby or babies. Everything in the world can wait if it can wait until after the baby is born.
It killed me when she said she still had the pictures
Hormones. It makes sense. I have 3 kids, 5 pregnancies.
I guess she needed somebody and for her friend she was ready to go through all that
That poor girl thought it was because she didn't attend a silly party. That poor girl. So heartbroken 💔
My heart feels so heavy for the girl with the 15yr friendship with the dude who slept with her boyfriend
Fr. I was actually tearing up watching it
That is messed up, i teared up
Julia is one of those unfortunate women who does not have a gaydar. Her ex Dev is not straight, it was very obvious during his interview.
I love her. When she said: "How could you... chose him over me" to her gay friend ❤️ She showed how much their friendship really meant to her. She wasn't hurt about her ex actions or about her friend having a relationship after with her ex. She was hurt after so many years her friend chosed to believe to a trash like her ex and leave her behind 💔
Thank You because I didn’t have one hour to watch!
Soon as he said “ wait what did he tell you “ I knew he slept with her man !!!
Mhm same.
Yup lol
For me it was the comments on his FB 😂. Then "what he tell you " o yea for sure 😂😂😂
He don’t even care julia. Baby bye
Me too i knew it they were bumming
im sry but del's nose contour is bothering me a bit too much.
Sh!t looking like a boxing glove thumb🤣
Sanjana Vaddadi I can’t stop looking at it 👀
Now I can't unsee it.
Shocking job
He doesn’t know his shade or how to blend! Lol
Julia's ex is the villian here, he tried to destroy their bond to punish her for leaving him. This dude is a pyscopath
He totally wanted to see her just to be the one to “dump her”
Julia's ex can feel love and emotions.
Psychopath: "diagnostic features such as superficial charm, high intelligence, poor judgment and failure to learn from experience, pathological egocentricity and incapacity for love, lack of remorse or shame, impulsivity, grandiose sense of self-worth, pathological lying, manipulative behavior, poor"
He did show bad behavior and manipulated the situation. Also didn't care if it hurt them.... wow. Psychopath and Sociopath sound so similar and defined similarly. But yet so different...
Devin is a 'hobo- sexual'...he sleeps with people so that he has a place to stay...smh😑
Agree
Predatory behavior
That gay guy doesn't care about their relationship, you cant throw away 15 years like that, something wrong with this.
Edit: thank you for all the likes dam
Benjamin1669 I’m thinking maybe they were friends out of obligation and proximity bc it is def strange to ghost your friend of 15 years
@Torchy Brown Dated him for 2 months also.
@@sidthekid456 maybe he just felt reallly guilty
He was ghosting her because he slept with her ex. That's not right, but it's understandable. If I slept with my bestfriend of 15 year's ex boyfriend and baby daddy (I would never do some nasty shit like that), I would be scared to see them, too.
Carmen Lynn What?
Bro when she said she had a miscarriage and he just hugged her. Bro. I’m balling my eyes out.
Me too!!😔
Hurt people hurt people. And broken people steal pieces of other people to fix themselves
Same dude 😭😭
Same here
I feel like they shouldn’t have added that sad music, if they let the scene go out without music, it would’ve been a bit more affective on the emotion.
Julia is 6 months pregnant. She didn't need to be going through that right now but I guess she needed closure.
Frl i cant beleive she really went with all that drama at that time
I can’t imagine how heartbroken Jordan must have been sitting at that comedy show, watching the person she thought was her love using her trauma as a joke, feeling good about himself.
@🦋Timileyin Destinee🦋 you can tell her to
@🦋Timileyin Destinee🦋 he's an asshole that didnt respect her deep stuff. fuck him
@@___xoxo___if someone confides in you in private about their personal life, and tells you you stuff they struggled with, that’s a very big trauma for you, what gives that person the right to make jokes about that? he could have asked her in the beginning, hey, is it okay to make these kinds of jokes? i agree with her, it was never his place
@@___xoxo___like imagining getting to know/ dating someone, and your mom or dad dies while u are dating that person, you confide in them, heartbroken, and the next thing you know they are making jokes about it at a comedy club, would u be okay with that? it’s fucked up
I'm sorry but the first story you dont just do that to your REAL friends period
This show exposes how messed up people can be lol
Yuck this guy's a nut. I can't stand the over feminine thing he's trying to do. I don't know how she could stand to be around him that's him
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@@Makingmoney4u homophobia is sooo 1960s dude
@@rinelenny4946 I'm not homophobic for your information. Actually homophobia is really irrelevant and a lot of people do suffer with homophobia. I just have a pet peeve when a guy that is gay just acts like that sorry. Some of these guys just have the most snotty feminine attitude. Sorry bro👣👣
@@Makingmoney4u you....just described homophobia....
“You could’ve told me not to say those jokes” bro she didn’t even know about the standup to begin with???
Looked like an idiot.. Probably was his first time too
Right like he hid it. He genuinely can't comprehend that the things you do are an indicator of who you are, and of your character. Then he's insulted that it's the reason she ghosted him like how dare she 👿 he just wanted the final word I swear he wanted to be the one to dump her bc he felt emasculated
@@RachelDoesntknow he has that vibe honestly, the whole time i was just like. The problem is him probably.
He's saying she could have communicated, anyone who ghosts anyone is a coward. Who tf cares anyway he's a comedian, that's what they do make fun of any and everyone lol. Get over it
@@Ashley-og9ti Negative miss. They say comedy is time + tragedy, my boy just a prepubescent all around. Moron got the timing all wrong and fucked up.
Loosing a baby is so traumatic. His abandonment was just cruel
fax 📠
She probably fell in a depression and it was too much on her and it hurt the baby 🥺🥺
nobody owes you anything
"We can arrange a safe space..."
20 cast and crew in the studio 👁 👄 👁
Lmfao that emoji face always kills me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Right
i mean safe spaces as they are used now are largely detrimental to human psychological development anyway , these people werent being openly judgemental and they must have felt that enough to come clean about themselves
This dude playing victim after ghosting his pregnant girlfriend that he cheated on with another guy? He is not a good person
I dont think devin is the father of julias baby. They broke up 7months ago, and shes 6 months preg
_Unicornicorn uhhhh they’re talking about the two people at 46:55. Obviously 🙄
@@ted6607 oops, hadnt finished watching the video at that point. My bad
I don’t think he was trying to play victim, I think he just really wanted to be there for the baby and right his wrongs.
Is he the baby daddy?
That miscarriage one hit hard man..
I cried. I know how hard it is to have one as well as to lose a child (still born) and the fact that she had to go through it alone is heartbreaking. Even if the others are scripted, that one just seemed too real. Especially with their reactions.
@@katelynrenaeoyler7572 I'm so sorry you've experienced that. I have experienced a miscarriage as well, I find it difficult to imagine a woman making something like that up. wouldn't be the first time, unfortunately, but still.
I cried and people in the comments talking about it's fake nawl I felt that
I cried too
I felt so bad for the guy trying to do right and finding out that the baby is no longer. Like I saw the hurt in both of them.
My heart absolutely broke for Destiny, she is so strong and shows incredible maturity for forgiving Russell. And Russell's struggle of finding himself is also very real and heart-breaking, it isn't easy not knowing who you are. I feel for both of them and I hope they're both much happier now despite going their own ways at the end of the day
i clicked on this too fast i thought this was catfish 😂🤭
Saaaame.. but then I watched the whole thing 😅
Seloy Neyrinck-Duncan : sAaaamee 😂😂
Keana Daneshmand same lol
Right! 😂
Seloy Neyrinck-Duncan Same 😂
This is the darkest thing I ever seen! Its hilarious. "Call him, call him".
" I cant call him"
"Why cant you call him?" "Cause his in jail"
"Oh" 👁🐽👁
This is fake
the drama bro got me : 👁️👄👁️
There are always instigators to every drama scenario...
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 its the pig nose for me 🤣
The first guy didn't shed one tear about his friend. You can tell he means more to her than she does to him x
I'm so sorry about this 😢. Hope you are doing okay
lol he doesnt need to cry to show that he cares for her....
There’s nothing wrong with that lol most of the people don’t like to show tears because they feel vulnerable and weak
People handle things differently. The idea that everyone should be the same level of upset has literally gotten mothers falsely accused and convicted of killing their children, it’s a shitty way to judge how someone actually feels. Some people don’t cry until they walk away, some people don’t cry at all. It doesn’t mean anything.
I don't think he can shed a tear after all the plastic surgery. 😀😀😀
I felt that to my core when baby girl said, "I Still Have The Pictures, The Ultrasound Everything." Mad me ball in pain for her. As a mother and someone who lost a pregnancy I totally understand this agony. Nothing no woman should ever go through 💔😭
Cried that was so passionate the poor girl. Even her sister you could tell was hurt by it when the subject came up. When they brought up the baby before she came she was so hurt by that. One of the most painful things a woman can experience I am sure.
I had the same reaction. My husband and I recently lost our second child to a miscarriage in September of last year. It happened one week before we were supposed to have our first ultrasound. Lately, our 5 year old has been saying she wants us to have a baby.
i’ve never been pregnant and that still hit me. i can’t imagine the pain she was/is going through. i hope she’s healing
It's literally a collection of cells aint it what u guys say
@@theusareview7960 You can develop an emotional bond with a damn rock. How others see it doesn't dictate your emotional connection to it. This got nothing to do with abortion so go one somewhere else. Mind you this comment is old as hell
Devon is a user. Delmond and Julia got played by him.
Glad they friends again
Smells like it.
Nah everyone was telling the truth about each other and they made devon the bad guy
Classic abusers utilize isolation. Devon split up Delmond from Julia, his anchor. Devon slips in to fill the emotional gap that HE CREATED for Delmond. Devon cries to that Julia hurt him, meaning it looks like Devon is the vulnerable one, not the manipulative one. Delmond feels that emotional gap and of course clings to the Devon because they are both seemingly hurt by the same person. Devon takes advantage of how intensely intimate that experience is, inching it towards an even more intimate (romantic) relationship.
Delmond is so ashamed that he can't face her and thinks so much time has passed that surely she's better off without him.
First guy: I called it. I knew the ex bf was gay the moment I saw when they met up with him. Man, I watch too many of these shows.
I thought the same thing! I was getting gay vibes the minute I saw him
Oh from the moment I heard about Devin I was like yup. They slept together
He easily could’ve been bisexual, it’s not just gay or straight.
Definitely bisexual or pansexual but definitely a manipulator.
"Because he's in jail..." "Oooohhh... ._." LMAO. same reaction sis. whelp..
Lmaooo
@It's Mrs. Bossy Trick You're missing that Shay didn't know Brittney wasn't aware that she wanted to be serious with Greg, she felt betrayed and assumed her friend explicitly chose to go for the guy that was with her best friend, plus she was more emotionally vulnerable because she was pregnant at the time. Yes, it would've been better to talk it out with her before just deciding to ghost her but she isn't perfect, her friend also had the flaw that she didn't want her to be friends with other people and they are happy now so I'm pretty confident not making up would have been a mistake.
Like oooooooo awkward ctfu
My best friend of 6 years ghosted me for 5 years and just messaged me to be my friend again out of the blue 3 days ago like nothing ever happened. She told me she was jealous of my family and her family was manipulating her to hate my family... girl bye. I done 5 years without you.. i got married last year and I’m moving on with my life.
PERIODTTT
Facts
Peridot pooh, my best friend was having sex talk with my bf and I confronted her but she got upset about me reading her messages. We are stills friends but on a level. No one really knows y we aren’t best friend anymore
Burn 🥴🥴😂👏🏾
@@imafamilyguyfamilyguy7890 girl why are you even putting up with that, now Everytime you have a new man you gotta wondee
I don't like the black & white reunion effect
Loveigh Ladey makes them look like shit lmaoooo
Ik I hate it to 🙄
they had to do that to make the gay dudes contour blend 😂
@@Jacqueline888 LMFAOOOOOOOOOAOAOOOAOAOOAAOAAOOO
Ya reminds me of the bad ass kiddsss on Maury in the confessional
Russell and Destiny. My heart just aches for them. Destiny went through a life changing event without the one person that should have been there. She has shown maturity and grace by forgiving Russell.
@F A the reactions sure are real. Destiny was really crying, you can tell because one of her eye lashes were coming off because of her tears.
Then the female host, her lip muscles were pressing downwards when Destiny was crying after revealing she had a miscarriage. The host was trying really hard not to lose her composure, but failed.
Even I cried because of how genuinely traumatized the miscarriage left Destiny. Maybe its a feeling we as women feel. I am not even a mother, but I can only imagine carrying a life for a few months to then lose it. The most painful thing is, she probably lost it due to the stress of Russell ghosting her all the sudden.
Not against Russell, his side of the story is also very painful.
Its just a very sad outcome for these two.
I was crying, I get him but my heart hurts for her
Yeah that was so big of her
he didn't own up to what he did properly. he repeatedly claimed that he thought it was good for the future kid for him to not be there. he said he didn't want the kid to not have a dad to be proud of... but how is the dad leaving as soon as he hears of the pregnancy supposed to help with that? he left because he was scared of the responsibility like everybody else who is about to become a parent, and he didn't own up to that. it wasn't about the kid's future, and him being gay was secondary. primarily he didn't want to be a parent.
Russel was even worse than Ross. He lied to his boyfriend, got his girlfriend pregnant when he was pretty sure he was gay, he didn't even explain or properly break up with her, said that he didn't want his kid to be ashamed of him even though supporting his girlfriend even if he isn't attracted to her is much more admirable than just leaving. He's such a horrible person, but Destiny was so mature to forgive him. Ok, now that I finished that entire portion it does seem like he's genuinely sorry for being so selfish. He did seem to feel bad for what he did, which is good. Hopefully he's continuing to improve himself. Poor Destiny though, what a horrible horrible thing to do through. Getting ghosted by her boyfriend and then losing her baby, ugh I hope she's doing ok.
I like the idea of this show and but there’s something about it off for me
Acting 😂😂😂
I think it's trying way too hard to be catfish. I feel the same way I can watch it for a little bit but then it just gets more and more unpredictable as it goes on
Same
Yeah way too scripted.
the hosts seem a bit off to me too
russell and destiney's story absolutely broke my heart. she clearly tried to remain very stoic but when she broke down, saying she still had the ultrasound pictures and everything, it was pure pain. and russell, even though what he did was terribly wrong, when he brought the baby a gift not knowing what had happened and saying "we have a baby now", i just felt like crying bc i'd seen the comments and knew destiney had a miscarriage. so terribly sad 💔
If you ghosted me you aren’t a friend and never will be. That’s my mindset in 2020. I’ve given so called friends second chances after ghosting me and found out they were all users. Fair weather friends...
Yes, same here. I'm such a forgiving person. The year before last my best friend whose birthday is on May 13th never told me happy Birthday, which was on may 10. I excused her behavior as being busy with her 2 kids. This year it happened again. I even text her the night before my birthday and no response. Well, among other thing's I will truly "ghost" her. I hope you get the same courage to not let people mistreat you. You should be with friends that bring out the best of you and who make you happy.♥️😊
You invest to much in ppl. Enjoy life, it's very short.
Same here! That includes family members too!
@@bethanywilhelm4451 omg my birthday is May 10th! I'm the same, I will give chances but when I'm done..... I'm done.......
When God removes someone from your life, let them stay gone.
This is literally the Fisher Price version of Catfish lmao
Nina 😂😂😂😂 the knockoff version of Fisher Price at that!
Lol
you had me at Fisher Price......lol
Where’s your chill button? 😂😂🤣🤣😂😂😅
It’s two different concepts
Wait wait - so the last one, this man really ghosted her instead of just talking to her like a human being and then had the nerve to say she was immature?? 😂🤦🏼♀️
Right 💯
When he called *her* immature I almost choked on my drink! Delusional mate, just delusional 🙄
I’m so surprised she didnt hit him w. The fact that he ghosted her after calling her immature like girl! You better tellimm!
He definitely looks like a jerk, but she does seem pretty irrational
I HIGHLY doubt it's because she's a "sex addict"..... he must've lost interest/love for her or found another "more attractive" girl or something that he doesn't wanna admit because he didn't wanna seem like hes the asshole. So instead made her seem "low". It's like... idk I don't believe that guy... I'm on the girl side for this one 🙄
Destiney , girl your strength is something I have never seen before. I seriously am wishing you the best in life because you deserve it!
I can’t believe the first dude so superficial only cares about his own needs and feelings. Girl you don’t need that type of energy in your life. He will hurt you again girl
Dante: “our maturity level is just very different.”
Boy you ghosted you’re girl because it was easier than talking!
Giovanni is a beautiful confident young woman who is comfortable with her sexuality. He obviously couldn't measure up and fakes a trip to the other side of the country instead of being a man. . .Dante is very small minded, if you catch my drift.
@@jonathanclarke5763 bruh the fact that she was so surprised shows he didn't express to her it was an issue; he said her high sex drive was the reason for the ghosting so i bet he never spoke to her about it. If they had talked it out like adults she could've been ok with that
@@jonathanclarke5763 yea i felt i could relate to him even though im a girl because in that situation i would feel the same way
He was right. She is way more mature
@@jonathanclarke5763 that isn't the issue. Be mature and say it instead of ghosting and putting the sole blame on the other person.
bruh the comedian guy really did not deserve her i genuinely feel really bad for her
I really want to slap him. When he said "I thought we had open communication" and got cheesed she didn't explain why she wanted to leave... Like dude do you not smell your own shit??? What an ass hole. Dumbass is going to give her shit for not telling him why she's leaving yet he's totally okay to expose her life , things she trusted him with & their sex life? What a trash human, truly.
I don't. He never said her name. She already knew he was a comedian. When it comes to comedy nothing is off limits. I will admit that talking about that stuff is mean but comedy is meant to make bad situations funny so people can laugh at there problems rather than dwelling on them and be depressed. My dad left me also but If somebody made a joke about it I would probably laugh. I had a girlfriend who was funny she made jokes about our sex I laughed. It's not meant to be a dick😂😂😂lol
you can just tell what a creep that dude is, idk how she managed to stomach dating that creature lmao
He literally said nothing actually offensive. The “call me daddy” thing has been going on for years. He was trying be funny and newsflash, a lot of other men respond well to that kind of humor. She’s a child for not just bringing it up to him. What adult ghosts someone after 6 months of dating?
@@josiahwilliams3552 does she makes jokes about your personal family problems in front of a lot people?the daddy joke is not good.talking about those peoblems hurt its not something you can think about it in a funny way and make jokes when its not about you
The female host is such a good negotiator the way she got them to agree to meet up every time lmao
Never make jokes about someone's trauma. Gross
I know omg.
You’re right.
And then playing it as "aah, U should have told me :(", like she should teach a grown man to respect
Pathetic
It’s different when you’re making jokes about your own trauma. This is bullying but he’s too cowardice to do it in front of her
He didnt tho. He made a joke about her calling him daddy and he didnt know if he was ready for it. She took it to mean something else. Like us women do is twist shit.
The "comedian" was inconsiderate of her feelings, she had every right to ghost him, and hes a slimeball. Thats letting people into your bedroom, the public shouldn't know what goes on in your bedroom, period!!
I thought he was wrong but I agreed with him, if you are in a relationship you should have open communication. I think she should've dumped him still but I would've done it right at that show.
Actually, I disagree, @K Harper and @misa kei jane I don't think He was wrong. He could have mentioned it but unless He was showing He the whole routine, I don't think that's how comedian work. I have so many my friends that do it for fun or professionally, and alot of them refer to real life things such as relationships, current or otherwise. He didn't say anything personal about her, wasn't bragging to his mates or putting her on blast on social media. So many comedians draw on their real lives to make their comedy. She never went once to his comedy. She kept him a secret. Literally her best mate didn't know who he was. Not that any of that has got much to do with it but it kinda does. She a acts like he was sooooo special to her. Really? He didn't even know she dated girls. He definitely liked her waaaaaaaayyy more than she liked him and I feel that she made the comedy thing an excuse to leave him and still feel good about it. I dunno, just my opinion. She would have had a point if he'd revealed ANYTHING personal about her. That would have made him a complete douche, but he didn't. 😊
@@orgasmicshopper5326 but she said they talked about it before he did his rputines, she said he could talk about anything BUT that, because she was dealing woth the trauma at the time and wasnt in a place where she could laugh about it, and he did it anyway. So hes still in the wrong. He violated his partners trust and privacy by doing the one thing she told him not to do.
K Harper yuyyuyuyyyy
So....what about EVERY OTHER comedian that's done that? We can hold some Joe Blow to that standard but not OTHERS?!?!?
I get family issues (I've got TONS...haven't seen my bio dad in nearly 30 years), but for real?
If we're gonna be offended, hold EVERYONE to the same standard.
Also, ghosting is the most immature, cowardly way to end a relationship. Using the excuse that you're trying to avoid drama is bs.
I soooo agree. Essentially the ghoster is a coward and actually doesn't love anyone.
Yea only good reason to do it would be someone being repeatedly toxic and refusing to work on it. That's abusive.
@@sazude2 They don’t love them selves to begin with
Exactly, you trying to hurt the other person.
That you see that he's phone case its a baby battle
I totally agree with the second girl. Having daddy issues is not funny. Abandonment is real and it messes up with your life forever. My dad also abandoned me and my 6 siblings when I was 4 years old. It did caused damaged in my marriage but I never knew that was the reason why until I went to marriage counseling. Don't joke about other's painful feelings and experiences.
@🦋Timileyin Destinee🦋 why she call him daddy if she so sensitive bout it
This is soooo fake but i still watched all 59 minutes of it 😩🤦🏾♀️🤣
It’s the ‘Rona, we ain’t got nothing else to do 😂🤷🏽♀️
TWANation for real🤣🤷🏾♀️‼️
Don’t say that omg 😱 me too 🤣🤣😂🤣
I’m eating this all up 😭😭
So true
Ross was too immature for Jordan. He said I'm going to use this to get the girls I really want.....jokes are jokes but when you are feeling a girl enough to say she's the one you don't joke about her pain.
It's Mrs. Bossy Trick - There is literal video evidence-and the reason why she has those daddy issues is because she doesn’t have a dad. Yeah, it’s a joke, but that’s disrespectful that he’s joking about his girlfriend’s issues.
That matter could have been resolved in person. It's even more immature to disappear without any explanation. Despite what some people may think, closure is a right, and not giving it is an inexcusable act of cruelty. They are both shitty people.
@@JacksonBegleymusicguy Ah you're probably right. I'm sure both sides could use a little work and alot of healing.
A comedian jokes about any and everyone, even they damn selves LMAO. No one is safe. Regardless, if she was butt hurt about it she could have easily communicated that to him smh
@@Ashley-og9tiAnd he could have communicated that he was going to take a private issue that not many people knew about it, and that he planned on not only making it public, but also taking the piss out of something that caused her great trauma and distress.
Devin was mad because she didn’t want to take care of him
That guy is a douchebag. I wouldn't be friends with him.
fUN FACT: Devin, now has a new baby mama and works at Home Depot.
Nicole Mills whats the social media for devin?
Its really inappropriate to joke about someone personal to you without asking their permission as a comedian. He was in the wrong. He is clearly a noob in relationships and a dude lol
Consent though,
2nd story: one of the first things he told the staff about her was "she called me daddy" like it was his prize, full knowing that it was a real issue for her!!! So even after the stand up he would talk about that like it was the best thing about *him*. He is the real "Nice guy"
If she has such heavy daddy issues maybe she shouldn't go around calling any rando bf daddy
@@naylaw1928 Even IF thats true, which its not, that doesn't make it right for him share it in a stand up routine.
@@johnnybird5466 it is true they were only dating for a few months and she was calling him daddy so it's not that sacred a title. On top of that he didn't share anything specific about her and simply mentioning a father and "a new girlfriend" in the same context is not an immediate connection to anyone else who doesn't know her personally
She should’ve told him it bothered her instead of acting like he stabbed her heart out like he genuinely didn’t see a problem with it because ITS A JOKE its not a diss which she isn’t understanding like yeah he hurt her feelings but he also DIDNT EVEN KNOW like theres only so mich blame you can put on one person before looking at yourself too bc no one is perfect
@@Brokebasturd dude he purposefully never wanted her to come see his lame ass stand up shows because he was making disgusting “jokes” about her. If he ever in those 9 months had taken the time to reflect on himself he would’ve figured out the problem. Seeing her boyfriend disrespect her and ridicule her like that on stage and making a whole ass crowd laugh must’ve been traumatic. I wholeheartedly support her decision to ghost his sorry ass.
There is something exploitative about having a 6 month pregnant woman break down like that on camera and no one intervenes. Fair enough, she applied for the show, but couldn't they have told her off-camera, rather than the entertainment factor. I'd be worried for her stress levels (if these are legit true cases & not actors) to find out the father of her baby slept and was in a relationship with her best friend/like a brother & she was cast aside after 16 years, would be mighty distressing.
I couldnt agree more, if this is in fact real, that poor fucking woman. Under any circumstance that is awful to have to deal with but she's 6 months pregnant too, this should be a time in life where people help her to feel less stressed an shit and she's going through this.. I feel so bad for her, her emotions looked so hard to deal with in that moment. And I suspect for a long time afterwards, I don't know how I'd deal with that tbf 🤷♀️
No one is going to tell her not to cry
Completely agree and she’s better off without him as a friend!
Jesus Christ the show is so fake.
These shows on mtv lunga beach wild and out sweet 16 16 and pergo this show catfish that are all fake there for entertaining people only I mean people can get catfish but it's all fake fun to watch
The last one got me! How can he say she is immature but you ghosted her for being passionate about you. Not talking about issues seems more childish to me.
Someone who has a lot of insecurities
He talked about a specific occasion on the beach when she pulled his pants down, implying he didn't like it. No one is obligated to tolerate sexual harassment just cuz their partner is "passionate" about them. Wtf? You just don't do that to someone. He is a person, not a sex doll.
Scientifically women mature faster and it really showed
@@morningstar4873 Agreed, at first I thought he was being immature cause I didn't catch it at first when he said it but her behaviour is not acceptable at all. Still, I think he should've talked to her about it instead of just ghosting her.
@@no_one2197 if I was sexually harassed like that I wouldnt bother talking to my bf. I wouldnt talk to him again.
The thing is, he didnt show his emotions (cuz men are taught to put on a brave face) but he talked about a specific occasion - he didnt delve into it because he was immediately shut down and knew that no one would listen. But you dont know whether he felt violated or not. I know I would.
When she mentioned the miscarriage, it always makes me cry
I wish I could hug her 😢
What’s the purpose of sending a final text in front of each other??? This is so silly 😆
Right lol
Idk but im guessing its so they dont change their answer after they hear the others decision? idrk
Magia i melissa 🤔Maybe when it’s gets to that part they should both be in two rooms with their own exits and separated by one door in the middle
they need that final commercial break...
Exactly!
Use me as "I'm here because of quarantine" button
to chase down someone that ghosts you is weird behavior. i know we all want closure. but chill out. imma keep watching though.
"Imma keep watching though" 😂😂 same though 😅
I think that's called stalking :)
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Me😂
Your comment is my feeling about this all summed up
That miscarriage episode destroyed me 😭😭😭
Honey listen! Had me tearing up 😖
I'm thankful no one has called me to be on this show...they know why I ghosted them lol.
Ngozi-Grace word... 😂😂😂 same sis
right, as they should !
No, they probably *DON'T* know why you ghosted them. That's actually kind of part of the definition of ghosting. If they'd known why you cut them off, it wouldn't have counted as ghosting.
If you really had a good reason for cutting those people off, you shouldn't have had any problem communicating that to them-even from a distance, e.g. online or via text message (followed immediately by blocking, if necessary, so you wouldn't have to deal with their reaction).
Akil Alleyne 100% this! This is why I have no more drama! I just say whatever is wrong and be done
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I agree with the gal from the second story. Stand up should not include personal things without permission. That’s just respect.
Jackie Yang it’s not really personal though. a LOT of people don’t have fathers and he never said her name. she’s taking it so personal. that’s such a stupid fucking reason to ghost someone. it would have been so simple to tell him it wasn’t appropriate, even if she chose to end the relationship anyways. neither one of them is right in this situation. he didn’t mean to be insulting when he made those jokes but he should’ve asked for permission anyways. ghosting was such an immature fucking decision instead of being an ADULT and talking about her issue with it.
I don’t get why she’s was getting mad at him for the daddy issue thing like you called him daddy??
sorrynotsorryforbeingbias for real lmfao she’s getting mad for no reason. i’m glad he chose to ghost. there was nothing wrong with what he said. she didn’t even TRY to mend the situation by telling him it upset her. she completely ghosted and expected him to know why without telling him and then getting mad when he didn’t know as if she didn’t sneak into the comedy show of his that she attended without telling him
misses elise the point is that you shouldn’t have to tell someone it’s inappropriate to talk about people’s personal business and make it a joke . a lot of people don’t have fathers and everyone feels different about it . it was harder for her than other people and her mother could have abused her and she wished she had her dad you don’t know .
calynn childs I mean yeah we get it u have daddy issues but so many people do. What he did was inappropriate but u gotta be really immature to just ghost somebody without a reason. She has no problem solving skills and she doesn’t need to be in a relationship
The one with the miscarriage i literally BALLED MY EYES OUT 🥺😪😭
I literally just got to that part, I'm crying right before I gotta head to work 😭
Bawled
The baby clothes and her ghosting him again is just so tragic
I cried sooo much...I feel so weak watching that
Someone stop cutting the onions that one hurt me so bad😭😭
Oh wow Julia's ex manipulated them both to get back at her. I'm glad they're friends again..
Guys will say anything and play it off like "it was just a joke." Super disrespectful of him to say that kind of stuff about her and not even feel like it was wrong
Why would you send a picture of yourself in a bra to a man your "best friend" been involved with
@Martine Davis dude she knew she was pregnant with his baby! I don't care if they were together or not you don't mess around with your supposed best friend's baby daddy come on now
Cos you're trifling.
IDC if she was currently with the guy or not. Any guy your "best friend" has been with is OFF LIMITS. Girl code. I could never trust her again. She says it was just pics but she was sneaky about that so how does the other girl truly know that nothing happened? I wouldn't believe it.
I’m not hating but this whole thing seems fake
Aiden Brito all of it is fake.
Especially the first one
In the first one the blonde girl is looking over at a screen or something that probably provides the script
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Very fake
Ghosting a woman after finding out she’s pregnant. Didn’t think men still did that.
That’s the LOWEST of the LOW
The last dude was a jerk. I think he preys on vulnerable women & then gets sick of them & bounces. He seems immature.
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@@itstheGodinmeSC Is that his name?
Yeah he's an idiot and I don't think he understands what sex addiction is...
Deadass my biggest fear is a guy pretending your the one and then ghosting you cuz he got bored
@@iwuverzyou1 Exactly no one has time for that. He's a sociopath.
The girl who had the miscarriage I'm soo sorry to her
Maybe I’m alone in this but the first one felt real to me 😭 I was so sad for Julia!
You’re not alone on this one sis 😔
People really ghost because they are deceptive
I burst out in tears
Have you seen the one with the women who was ghosted by the father of her child when he found out she was pregnant? I've never wanted to punch anyone more than that
felt real to me too
The comedian - from the first sec. his smirk.. i would RUN.. he is a typical creep!!!
Part of me thinks this is fake but then again people really are this petty lmao. I think the stories are real and that they just have them follow a script when they finally meet. So that it's not messy. Like person 1 speaks, then person 2 kind of deal
This comment makes alot of sense..... Need more likes. I was really enjoying the show untill I started reading comments stating that it's fake.
"he didn't say anything else?" was the moment I knew he slept with her man
The moment I knew was when he was commenting on his post online lol.
Delmond as a real friend almost family all he had to do was confront and speak to Julia instead of listening to a manipulative person like Devin. That poor woman was going through so much. Julia sending you love 💕
We used to call this show “it’s not my place to talk about it” because every episode could be 3mins if the friends were the least bit helpful.
This entire thing is alarming.. everyone involved seems psychotic to me. The hosts seem to be enablers for views.
Loso Ono that's what these producers want, fucked up morons who want their 5 mins of fame, muppets.
Yup
At the time 17:37 it had me dead 😲😂😂😂😂😂😂
29:10
Exactly!!!1
Even if you don't find the alleged comedian's routine to be out of bounds, consider the full context: Dude knew NONE of her friends after 6 months of dating, kept her from his comedy career and disclosed her sexual history and experience on national television without her permission. He is every neckbeard nice guy who ever decided that being inexperienced also somehow makes him immune to being a harmful jag. There are tons of ways of joking about heavy issues, but his was not that. It was a piece of a larger pattern of self-absorbed behavior. If you're defending him, you're not defending comedy. You're defending navel gazing cowardice.
Most "nice guys" are misogynist jerks. I dated one.
The wild thing is, if people would just learn to communicate, there wouldn’t be a need for “ghosting”
Hi can we talk? 😊
Even after communication some people need to be ghosted and cut contact from.
@@samarawhite9025 these people had issues that could’ve been fixed with communication. if after vocalizing their feelings they came to an agreement to cut contact, then so be it. Cutting someone off just because you can’t express how you feel ain’t it. But I agree. Some people are incapable of coming to terms with people and leaving that behind is the only option in some cases.
@@Mars4shortt Oh yeah, I agree that THESE people could have just had better communication but I was just replying to your initial comment bc it implied that with communication ghosting wouldn't be a thing. You got what I meant though lol we are on the same page.
That’s the problem. People abusing the block feature instead of being mature enough to talk
Good god that situation with destiny is horrendous. He wasn’t ready to be a dad...okay but it takes two to create a baby and he just dropped his responsibility and left her to it. Sexuality issues or not, you don’t just ditch your unborn child.
I'm calling it 3 minutes and 52 seconds in her ex-boyfriend is gay and Dale slept with him
I was thinking the same
I called it too!
I'm with Jordan on this one. Just because it's labeled a "comedy" show doesn't mean you can cross lines. He clearly doesn't understand that sort of level of maturity. What he was doing was mad disrespectful anyways. Those weren't even things I'd even consider to be jokes, just cringy and rude :/. She made the right decision. Hey you live and you learn though, sometimes you gotta learn the hard way. Hopefully he at least recognized this later on. We all make mistakes, it's the ability to own up to it and show the effort to change which will ultimately keep a strong relationship. Good luck to both of them :)
It's obvious why he was single
Tbh my dad was hella abusive and never there and then died. I have daddy issues. I don’t think ghosting someone is right. She should’ve broken up with him and told him why he’s wrong. No one knew who she was anyway.
Comedy is subjective
@Scorpio Bradley what you find funny I might not find funny and vice versa. The only way I can know is if you tell me, if I rock with you and give a fuck about your emotions - I won't say it my ghee. She is a grown ass woman and she doesn't have the balls to say what's going on in her mind. She acts like a child and doesn't talk to him... she's bugging b. He's a comedian everything he says is intended to be funny, not hurtful. Intent is important in the comedic world. If you took what I said as sociopathic, you need to grow the fuck up my ghee
Comedians make fun of any and everyone. Get over it
What a childish back stabbing evil person Del is. He so easily crushed his chosen family. With a straight face he watched her break down and crumble while pregnant. That stress can cause issues with the pregnancy. Del appears like such a terrible shallow person in this show.
And sit there and let her apologize for some dumb party fully knowing he slept with her man.
Exactly! He didn't even look sorry. He relished taking her mans
Right?! All that because she didn't come to his party. 🙄 He needs to grow up. He's not going to change.
I'm sorry but I am not surprised by his dramatic response to her not showing up to her party. I think he resented her all this time and wanted an excuse to be mad at her. He chose not to listen to his friend and instead listened to her ex boyfriend. He also wanted her to be mad because he slept with her the x.
The fact that Brittney claims to be her “best friend” but sent pictures AND still talked to him, regardless if she wasn’t dealing with greg he’s always gonna be apart of her life because he’s her baby’s father she was WRONG and I wouldn’t trust her to be around me after that. 🤷🏻♀️
Oh yeah Dante’s maturity is way higher than Giovanna’s. Pretending to get on an airplane to get out of breaking up
“Because you didn’t come to my party” what are you, 5 years old??? Come on
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I think he kept trying to tell himself that was the reason because he knew the real reason killed not only him but her as well. Plus he did think she was talkin shit about him during that time .. why he believed him is beyond me
The second story, the guy just has one of those "faces," the punchable kind... Soon as he mentioned how he got the girl's contact in the beginning... 🚩🚩🚩
Yea right in the suckhole kinda punchable face
I HATE HIMMMMM omg
It seemed like the hosts accepted that guy’s excuse for skipping out on his child. Being gay is not an excuse not to love and support your child.
Dante was a great portrait of irresponsible, young guys who don't give shits about anything and anyone
Agreed
he was literally so whack
Yess! I hated him, “yOu’Re a SeX aDdicT”... boyyyyyyyyyy stfu don’t flatter yourself, you must was boring and it wasn’t shit else to do with you.
So wanting sex with your significant other...is an addiction....what a twat. And that poor girl had high hopes for him.
I feel for Destiny. I cannot imagine her losing her baby. I’m praying for both of them.
The one with the comedian, he'd be feeling just as bad as her if she was telling a room full of people about his small package, how inexperienced he is in bed and can't please her, or about how he was just practice for the man she actually needs.
Its crazy how these people take personal lives of someone they supposedly love and put them on blast and say ohhh it's just a joke chillllll.
It aint a joke, tell something about YOUR own damn life.
Periodt
You don’t know that, he’s a comedian , he never said her name who she was you people are sooooo soft now a days, I would have been upset about the jokes just not being funny at all.
@@andregoree1037 some jokes aren't funny, it's pretty easy to figure out who someone's partner is with how much Social media has grown. I do know that because he'd be so butthurt if the roles were reversed
Andrè Goree I admire her for just ghosting him, that took a lot of restraint. If someone did that too me and said everything he did about their sex life and her daddy issues I would have been waiting for him leave to show that little pusay what crazy was. He is that “nice guy” every girl needs to watch out for.
@@sarahjulia89 🤣🤣🤣🤣he’s a comedian your thinking wayyyy to deep about this what’s there to watch out for shitty jokes
When someone ghost you let them stay dead
The funny part about Devon was when he blamed his ex girlfriend for him not having a job and being homeless. What does your girlfriend breaking up with you have to do with your career? Pretty sure you were just using her for her apartment and not working. Sad when he lost his sugar momma
I would already be scared if someone was ghosting me.
It's happened to me, but I learned to move on, it's tough, but, there's other fish in the sea
nothing is funny about trauma.
the miscarriage broke my heart
This is what happens when you give a balding-struggling-stand up-virgin comedian a chance! Gurll, I'm proud of you. I would have taken him on blast on that very show. You were so patient to hold all that for so long!!
The audacity of this man- I-
He looks like the Son of Sam.
@@sonyasunnymartinez6328 he sort of does.
Omg, Giovanna dodged a bullet, her guy is a weakest man on the planet, no spine at all
he should’ve told her he didn’t want to instead of being like yeah. he consented to it. he didn’t even tell anyone he wasn’t with her anymore. he’s obviously a shitty dude and i hope he doesn’t get another girl after the whole world probably has seen this. literally communication is key. if my boyfriend told me he didn’t wanna have sex i would be 100% ok with it and it seemed like she would be too.
If the tables were turned y'all be calling Law & Order SVU 😹😹😹
Hold up homie is mad that his Latina woman wants sex a few times a day....WHICH ANY MAN WOULD KILL FOR. Like he couldn’t just say dude we can’t be fucking 2 times a day
shes WaY out of his league, she WILL meet someone WAY better
i wonder what is her ig...for science
The first story breaks my heart. This poor lady is pregnant as hell learning all this shit about her best friend and their relationship. She's a champ, especially for forgiving him.
Del has to change whichever "beauty" guru he's been watching.
Was it wrong that I was fixated on that hair net? Horrible. Kept reminding me of my grandma. Yuck.
I swear - it’s giving sweaty makeup
Rachel and Travis are the cutest hosts ever. The facial expressions of both throughout the show are priceless.