I couldn’t cheat on my even if I had the golden opportunity to do so. My wife is a phenomenal woman and she has a heart of gold with diamond exterior. I can’t imagine my life without her.
You're a good man! Nobody deserves to be cheated on. If you're ever unhappy, either work on your issues or leave before meeting someone else, it's only fair. That's my opinion at least!
It is not just looks. It's probably that Kim has more energy, being younger and up to being more fun. For Dave, it must be like "what good is Mary's beauty when she seems to have lost her energy."
I remember when my ex started cheating on me. She even left me for him. They got married and it only lasted 2 years. She found out that the whole time they were married, he was cheating on her. What goes around, comes around.
Love how she said love isent something you turn on and off. It's amazing how many men try to go back to their wife's girlfriends when they chose to destroy what they had to begin with.
Women do the same or worse. Women cheat more than men do. I've told my kids that if they aren't happy with who they're with, break up with them an move on. There's no reason to cheat on them. Unfortunately, a lot of people don't have any morals or self-respect anymore.
The more I watch videos like this, I come to realise that it DOES NOT PAY to cheat on your spouse! Nothing good ever comes from it. And the person you cheat with, people like Dave forget to remember that “if they cheat with you, they’ll cheat ON you”! The grass is not always greener on the other side.
Kim may be a cheater, but she's right: she's doing the exact same thing that Dave did to Mary. It's no different, and Dave should have realized it a long time ago.
Very very true. They sacrifice everything for love and happiness and what do they get back for all that NOTHING in most cases.No gratitude just selfishness
Yes after 2 kids & a bad pregnancy with my daughter my body's not the same at all. I hate it & wish I could get plastic surgery. My hubby is looking elsewhere & called other women fine bitches to his friends. My self esteem & worth went down the tube when I found out. He's been seeing a woman on his job that he calls sweet cakes & I believe another woman. I'm not in a good place right now. I cry alot in secret & some wish I could fly away. So men don't know the damage they cause their wives when they do this to them
@@brandiebrooks7135your confidence shouldn’t be based on a man or anyone else. The best way to get back at them is to be confident of who you are and be your best self. Your worth isn’t based on your looks because youth and good looks are fleeting. At the end of the day, what’s important is what your heart holds “ love” yourself
I was married for 32 years in the beginning I had one son by him and he cheated on me I forgave him later on I had a daughter so now I had a son and a daughter I thought we were happy I guess he wasn't happy because in 2015 I found out he was cheating on me over and over again and he filed for divorce he bounced from women to women and I found out he got married and he had the nerve to ask my daughter as she wanted to go to his wedding of course she didn't want him anyhow he never come to see this kids and they got disability problems doesn't help me Financial wise but you know why it's all good because God took over I'm doing great that's my kids and God the head of my household
If you ask me; that guy Dave didn’t deserve Mary. Any guy who cheats on Mary is without a doubt the dumbest guy that ever walked the planet. She’s way too attractive for him.
I knew a man who had a very good wife. The man found a younger women and she only wanted his money. The women left the man when money ran out. The moral of story the man lost his good wife because he lust for a younger women. Dave found out the hard way that Love do not love nobody , because loving kim was his down fall.
It was lusting not loving. There's no love in adultery and fornication. Not only is it a sin but it is a horrible thing to do to another human being...
@@heidilefevre2680 Thank you for comment. Relationships are built on fulfilling needs the result can be painful regardless of sin, your comment is your opinion.
Men think they're God's special creation and will remain just as they were when they got married. Sad to say they too will age like the wife. Jowls and wrinkles will definitely follow as the years go by. So it's best for them to understand what true love and commitment is and work towards maintaining a happy peaceful home. Good video 👍
Dave have some nerves he told his wife he don't love her not now or in the future. The younger woman he chose leave him and now he wants to love his wife again. Never the first words you say to a woman we are going to believe you can't come back to love again it's not real.
You know what, if she truly had let herself go, you should have surprised her with a shopping trip. If the relationship lost its spark, you should have planned a trip, a roadtrip, (all the things you planned with your mistress) for her to keep the spark going.
I am a personal trainer specialising in women's fitness. I see a lot of divorcees and I can't understand for the life of me why their husbands let them go. you should cherish every moment you spend with your loved one and find the good in them at all times. One thing i would recommend is you block out time to spend with your loved ones. Once a month you have a date night with your significant other and NOTHING should get in the way of that.
It’s videos like this one that gets me to feel good that i because of my religious ways would never cheat on my partner if I had one whether I’m happy with that lady or not.
Mary deserves better than Dave after what he has done and her life starting to go uphill and moved on And for Dave he can’t start the next chapter of his life if he kept re-reading the life.
@@Illumeably Mary deserves better than Dave after what he has done and her life starting to go uphill and moved on And for Dave he can’t start the next chapter of his life if he kept re-reading the life.
Why do men do this? They do their wife dirty, then when it doesn't work with the new person, they go back to the wife thinking she will take him back No it doesn't work like that,
He didn’t deserve his wife back. He got what he dished out & then when he got paid back, it didn’t feel so good. Does marriage mean nothing to people anymore? Vows that are taken are forgotten when you grow tired of your spouse?!! It’s really heartbreaking & I can just imagine how our Lord feels!!😭 What happened to: for better or for worse, richer or poorer, in sickness & in health, ‘until death do we part??!!! ‘ Be sure your sins will find you out!! It’s better to not vow, than to vow & then break them!! Even lusting for someone else is a sin & Jesus said: “When you even look at another person with lust in your heart; it’s the same as adultery”! There’s no hiding things from God; He sees & knows All Things! I take the Bible very seriously!! I really pray that others would also! 👏
I think the more of these messages the better. You never know who needs to see this and is in a similar situation, being left and devastated. These type of positive skits could possibly spread hope to a person who wants to give up.
It doesn't matter how many channels have these wonderful stories! They are what is needed right now! How many reddit channels r there? I think this is a wonderful channel and I wish him luck and prosperity! The actors are great and the stories r important to be heard! GL and God Bless your channel❣😁❤
I stay faithful and loyal. Some people never stay faithful it like written in there gene. Some people are even worst once they become rich the divorce the the old wife for younger and better looking wife.
You have the wrong channel. I stated that they are trying to copy Dhar Man. That motto you just said belongs to him not the one that owns this channel.
It's not good to have lust when you're in a relationship see the grass is not always greener on the other side with a situation like this you just leave that person and go on with life and leave it in God's hand and hopefully that person will change
I LOVE KIM! She was annoying with the whole cheating on Dave thing, but when he confronted her, *WHOO! She UNO REVERSED! NOW THATS A REVERSE!* (ok, lemme chill)
He doesn't love her he's just saying that cause he has no where to go and men who does says that stuff to their girl right after they cheated on them just makes them even more disgusting by being fake coming back saying i love you...well if you did then you wouldn't have cheated on her in the first place
Nicole, you have made an excellent point. Love is mutual and men should learn to love their girls, whatever shape they are. Many ladies lose their shape after giving birth and men should learn to appreciate them no matter what. When they cheat on them, it is just so disgusting and it is even worse when they come back to them saying I love you...well you actually don't.
@@christianhalstead1437 exactly and btw my real name isn't Nicole that's Just my middle name Lol i know that may not be important but for some reason i just thought you should know sorry
you men should know that when a women give birth. she loses her part of her beautiful side to part of the children so if she gives birth and she is not the same like you first date she is still beautiful
I'm too on that line. My partner cheated on me , being in relationship for 11 years and we were about be get married. Its just feels my soul died and everything is null...
You answered your own question. He's a fool. He jumped after a fleeting pleasure without realising what he had on the notion that the grass is greener on the other side, not seeing the cow pat mounds right under the blades.
sometimes i dont get men and woman if ur not happy with him or her why go n cheat if u feel some type of way im old school maybe u should just talk about it before u make a fool of ur selfs that goes for both male n female... like i said im old school woman n i have never cheated in my life ive been throw relationships yes been abused beaten and stayed single for a very long time until i found the man of my dreams and here we are going on 14 years of marriage and i am blessed everyday with 3 amazing kids n a great husband....
I couldn’t cheat on my even if I had the golden opportunity to do so. My wife is a phenomenal woman and she has a heart of gold with diamond exterior. I can’t imagine my life without her.
You're a good man! Nobody deserves to be cheated on. If you're ever unhappy, either work on your issues or leave before meeting someone else, it's only fair. That's my opinion at least!
@@heatherpierce9123 I agree I don't get why people cheat like you said before they should either work it out or just cut things altogether
hippity hoppity your wife is now my property
Good job you have proven yourself to be honest and loyal
Just cheat why are you being monogamous? Like men are supposed to have harems and loads of beautiful women
His wife is such a beautiful lady ♥️. After 10 years your family life means nothing? What about your kids? I’m so sorry but you got what you deserve.
So true!!
faith
His wife is like a model!!🤯🤯
Ikr they don’t want to take responsibility for their actions
It is not just looks. It's probably that Kim has more energy, being younger and up to being more fun. For Dave, it must be like "what good is Mary's beauty when she seems to have lost her energy."
I remember when my ex started cheating on me. She even left me for him. They got married and it only lasted 2 years. She found out that the whole time they were married, he was cheating on her. What goes around, comes around.
Oh well she be alright lol she got what she wanted so I bet she felt stupid after that.
Hope you find someone better
Auuuch
I hate that this happened to you brotha.
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Love how she said love isent something you turn on and off. It's amazing how many men try to go back to their wife's girlfriends when they chose to destroy what they had to begin with.
Women do the same
Women do the same or worse. Women cheat more than men do. I've told my kids that if they aren't happy with who they're with, break up with them an move on. There's no reason to cheat on them. Unfortunately, a lot of people don't have any morals or self-respect anymore.
not Tryna be mean or anything but the younger girl he's been secretly dating is hot and his wife isn't
The more I watch videos like this, I come to realise that it DOES NOT PAY to cheat on your spouse! Nothing good ever comes from it. And the person you cheat with, people like Dave forget to remember that “if they cheat with you, they’ll cheat ON you”!
The grass is not always greener on the other side.
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@@arnoldkumar8497 yep.
I don’t know how she looked when you married her but she looks amazing.
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I'm never going to cheat; I will always be the type of guy that stays loyal and faithful.
😌
Same
Same but I'm a girl
Me too but I am a girl
Yeah it’s the best choice
Hurts my soul when a man leaves his beautiful wife over s scumbag. And then gets stab in the back
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Kim may be a cheater, but she's right: she's doing the exact same thing that Dave did to Mary. It's no different, and Dave should have realized it a long time ago.
@Becky Kennedy I agree with you on that. What goes around comes around
Right!
Dave must be blind! He says Mary let herself go, but she looks good to me.
If my wife looked that bad I would be well happy.
Mary is much more beautiful than Kim even when she "let herself go."
So he think Kim will stay young.... Ent Mary was young a one time...
But there are too many stories like this. It's probably more than looks, younger women also have more energy and more willing to be fun.
She's beautiful.
Husband-you've let yourself go.
Fans- no she hasn't😦
His wife look she could be a model
@@Dragon81205 If U ever know Dhar Mann he says beauty comes from all size and all shapes.
I watch him all the time
His wife is hot he's blind
Lol
When you marry someone never expect them to have the same shape most ladies lose the shape after giving birth
Mildred, you have an excellent point. It can be such a struggle to be in shape. In this case, Dave has a wife who is so pretty beyond words.
Very very true. They sacrifice everything for love and happiness and what do they get back for all that NOTHING in most cases.No gratitude just selfishness
true only I call it growing into their woman body,no longer a girl but a woman
Yes after 2 kids & a bad pregnancy with my daughter my body's not the same at all. I hate it & wish I could get plastic surgery. My hubby is looking elsewhere & called other women fine bitches to his friends. My self esteem & worth went down the tube when I found out. He's been seeing a woman on his job that he calls sweet cakes & I believe another woman. I'm not in a good place right now. I cry alot in secret & some wish I could fly away. So men don't know the damage they cause their wives when they do this to them
@@brandiebrooks7135your confidence shouldn’t be based on a man or anyone else. The best way to get back at them is to be confident of who you are and be your best self. Your worth isn’t based on your looks because youth and good looks are fleeting. At the end of the day, what’s important is what your heart holds “ love” yourself
I love this side chick lmao. She really served him the right way🤣🤣🤣🍾🍾
Yes🤣🤣🤣
I was married for 32 years in the beginning I had one son by him and he cheated on me I forgave him later on I had a daughter so now I had a son and a daughter I thought we were happy I guess he wasn't happy because in 2015 I found out he was cheating on me over and over again and he filed for divorce he bounced from women to women and I found out he got married and he had the nerve to ask my daughter as she wanted to go to his wedding of course she didn't want him anyhow he never come to see this kids and they got disability problems doesn't help me Financial wise but you know why it's all good because God took over I'm doing great that's my kids and God the head of my household
"God is the head of my household". I love that💕
Sending a warm hug to you....keep the courage and keep believing in yourself ❤️
I am making it with gods help .thank you so much
Never Leave someone to be with someone else cause that someone will leave you for some Else
What goes around comes around
@@christianhalstead1437 very true
Love is more important,than beauty!
If someone cheated on their partner they are most likely going to cheat on you in a matter of time.
What bad action you do it will back fire on you .
If you ask me; that guy Dave didn’t deserve Mary. Any guy who cheats on Mary is without a doubt the dumbest guy that ever walked the planet. She’s way too attractive for him.
I love when the side chick pointed out that he cheated on his wife to be with her. 😂
Yes😂😂
Girl let him go, remember his words, feed them back to him.
As the old saying goes "If they cheat with you, they'll cheat on you"
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my name is Mary and this happened to me. My ex left for a younger man. I'm happy and he's miserable. LOL
Its always the Girls named Mary who are the coolest for some reason. Hell I went out with a girl named Mary and I really like her
He came out of the closet?
You mean, your ex is gay?
You gay??
Ir happened to me turns out my ex husband left me and the new girlfriend got married to another guy and broke his heart lol
Great going Mary ! You took charge of your life , I am sooooo proud of you. Let that caterpillar rot in hell , he’ll never become a butterfly.
What goes around comes around.
Always
@@gabrielleelliott500 so true
Whenever u love some one truly u fight for your love
Dave: you've let yourself go.
Me: she lookin hella hot.
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I knew a man who had a very good wife. The man found a younger women and she only wanted his money. The women left the man when money ran out. The moral of story the man lost his good wife because he lust for a younger women. Dave found out the hard way that Love do not love nobody , because loving kim was his down fall.
It was lusting not loving. There's no love in adultery and fornication. Not only is it a sin but it is a horrible thing to do to another human being...
@@heidilefevre2680 Thank you for comment. Relationships are built on fulfilling needs the result can be painful regardless of sin, your comment is your opinion.
Now Dave knows how it feels to have someone cheat on him. Karma does exist
Dont cheat on someone you are just ruining someones outlook on love and making people feel like they are not good enough and everyone is good enough!
You shouldn't harbor feelings of hate towards someone who deceived you, that's deep
Plot Twist: Kim and his wife were freinds and she pooled a huge prank on frank so she could start dating again
No, she wouldn't need to do that. Other guys would be trying to steal her.
Been there and went through this. Move on and live life.
Don't take life and your wife for granted their both beautiful!
The Wife is very beautiful
If my husband did this to me. It’ll be a blessing. I don’t need any crap,like this in m6 life
“If you spend your whole life looking for something better, you’ll never be happy.”
- Someone famous probably
i like how her name is mary and they are married
underrated comment
Men think they're God's special creation and will remain just as they were when they got married. Sad to say they too will age like the wife. Jowls and wrinkles will definitely follow as the years go by. So it's best for them to understand what true love and commitment is and work towards maintaining a happy peaceful home. Good video 👍
The lesson here is love your wife kids and family
Eighteen years this December. And as long as we live.
Dave have some nerves he told his wife he don't love her not now or in the future. The younger woman he chose leave him and now he wants to love his wife again. Never the first words you say to a woman we are going to believe you can't come back to love again it's not real.
She is beautiful 😍❤
What’s the actresses name.
I was glad to see she was satisfied just being herself. She didn’t have to run off and get another man right away. So many look for rebounds
In fact that's what should be happening ecpecially to these unfaithful men
@Christine Ochieng I agree with you. What goes around comes around
You know what, if she truly had let herself go, you should have surprised her with a shopping trip. If the relationship lost its spark, you should have planned a trip, a roadtrip, (all the things you planned with your mistress) for her to keep the spark going.
What goes around comes around and never let anything get you down
I am a personal trainer specialising in women's fitness. I see a lot of divorcees and I can't understand for the life of me why their husbands let them go. you should cherish every moment you spend with your loved one and find the good in them at all times. One thing i would recommend is you block out time to spend with your loved ones. Once a month you have a date night with your significant other and NOTHING should get in the way of that.
This is amazing advice!
@@Illumeably I ensure all my students do this.
What goes around comes right back around love this
It’s videos like this one that gets me to feel good that i because of my religious ways would never cheat on my partner if I had one whether I’m happy with that lady or not.
Good for you! Stay that way!!!👏
Dave needs his eyes checked cmon now. We all need a Mary in our lives 🙂
Amen
4th video KARMA IS A BITCH
Thank God Dave got what he deserved.
Time 2:50AM Mon 8/23/21
Damn
Nick, Dave looks like a dried up skeleton.
Mary deserves better than Dave after what he has done and her life starting to go uphill and moved on
And for Dave he can’t start the next chapter of his life if he kept re-reading the life.
Men will neva learn..noo don't take him back
she should have slammed the door she closed it too nicely, just kidding 😂😂
That would've been hilarious! It would've served Dave right 😂
Yep! Us sisterhood QUEENS wouldn't take that shi@t guuuuh! Please, ha!
@@Illumeably Mary deserves better than Dave after what he has done and her life starting to go uphill and moved on
And for Dave he can’t start the next chapter of his life if he kept re-reading the life.
Why do men do this? They do their wife dirty, then when it doesn't work with the new person, they go back to the wife thinking she will take him back No it doesn't work like that,
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Dave's wife is a very pretty girl, and she is so sweet and innocent. How could a man resist her? You'd want her in your arm's FOREVER!
People aren't gonna look the same as when one got married. Commom sense. It's sad when one does this.
It's not just sad, it also reveals the unfaithful spouse's true nature in broad daylight.
@@SaintHangman true
The grass is not always greener on the other side new broom sweep clean but ole broom know the corner
💯
Vid chronicles, zvoid, life lessons with luis & now this channel is basically a copy of dhar man. Soo many dhar many copies lol
Lol you forgot Supermission and Dramatize Me
@@yogitamangru845 Lmaoooo
Vid Chronicles is better. Dhar mann recycles too many skits and topics
Definitely a Dhar Mann Ripoff to.say the very least 🤦🤦 #nooriginalitywtf
Actually I been a day one dharr fan, and they actually copy vid chronocles
This guy smiling while she crying that heartless
Mary is beyond beautiful!!! Dave done lost his mind!!!
He didn’t deserve his wife back. He got what he dished out & then when he got paid back, it didn’t feel so good. Does marriage mean nothing to people anymore? Vows that are taken are forgotten when you grow tired of your spouse?!! It’s really heartbreaking & I can just imagine how our Lord feels!!😭 What happened to: for better or for worse, richer or poorer, in sickness & in health, ‘until death do we part??!!! ‘ Be sure your sins will find you out!! It’s better to not vow, than to vow & then break them!! Even lusting for someone else is a sin & Jesus said: “When you even look at another person with lust in your heart; it’s the same as adultery”! There’s no hiding things from God; He sees & knows All Things! I take the Bible very seriously!! I really pray that others would also! 👏
@Pat R preach!!! Excellent point.
"You don't look the same" Well, no one does as time goes by!!!
Pl
My thoughts as well.
I would never do that to my wife or girlfriend he's a jerk
@xPeeksDeviouzK ik but i still wouldn't do it
Dave never loved Mary in the first place.
I think the more of these messages the better. You never know who needs to see this and is in a similar situation, being left and devastated. These type of positive skits could possibly spread hope to a person who wants to give up.
I'm a Malay Muslim man age 34, from Malaysia. If I have a beautiful and loyal wife like this I will love her forever for my whole life.
Don't take him back he will cheap on you again
What do you mean let yourself go? She's absolutely gorgeous
It doesn't matter how many channels have these wonderful stories! They are what is needed right now! How many reddit channels r there? I think this is a wonderful channel and I wish him luck and prosperity! The actors are great and the stories r important to be heard! GL and God Bless your channel❣😁❤
I agree
God is good all the time
He got exactly what he Deserve
Cheaters will obviously lie and use excuses for it.
I stay faithful and loyal. Some people never stay faithful it like written in there gene. Some people are even worst once they become rich the divorce the the old wife for younger and better looking wife.
I wouldn't leave her she is so gorgeous
Same
We not just tell stories, we're changing lives.
You have the wrong channel. I stated that they are trying to copy Dhar Man. That motto you just said belongs to him not the one that owns this channel.
It's not good to have lust when you're in a relationship see the grass is not always greener on the other side with a situation like this you just leave that person and go on with life and leave it in God's hand and hopefully that person will change
What goes around comes around😊
Some men don't know what they want his wife is so. Beautiful good for him
I LOVE KIM! She was annoying with the whole cheating on Dave thing, but when he confronted her, *WHOO! She UNO REVERSED! NOW THATS A REVERSE!* (ok, lemme chill)
What goes around comes around.....
Dave must be blind, did he said Mary done let herself go? There's nothing wrong with Mary the problem is him, Dave wanted to do what Dave wants.
She is a very beautiful girl
He doesn't love her he's just saying that cause he has no where to go and men who does says that stuff to their girl right after they cheated on them just makes them even more disgusting by being fake coming back saying i love you...well if you did then you wouldn't have cheated on her in the first place
Nicole, you have made an excellent point. Love is mutual and men should learn to love their girls, whatever shape they are. Many ladies lose their shape after giving birth and men should learn to appreciate them no matter what. When they cheat on them, it is just so disgusting and it is even worse when they come back to them saying I love you...well you actually don't.
@@christianhalstead1437 exactly and btw my real name isn't Nicole that's Just my middle name Lol i know that may not be important but for some reason i just thought you should know sorry
@@mixedgirl18nicole38 Oh ok. Thanks for letting me know that tho😁😁
@@christianhalstead1437 Lol your welcome
I never going to cheat on her I promise ❤
you men should know that when a women give birth. she loses her part of her beautiful side to part of the children so if she gives birth and she is not the same like you first date she is still beautiful
I'm too on that line. My partner cheated on me , being in relationship for 11 years and we were about be get married. Its just feels my soul died and everything is null...
It looks like Dave let his self go lol 😂
That's my girl
Dave, start by loving yourself. Then and only then you can truly love another. A hypocrite can never experience true love, his life is hollow.
Kim is just as bad but she was right calling Dave a hypocrite. Dave is an idiot for leaving a beautiful successful woman, so it's his loss.
Damn dude is so cruel and nonchalant.
This is a copy of Dhar Mann
The devil is a liar what goes around comes around the mistress is always be a mistress. God will condemn this adultery
This fool has a beautiful wife ..& what the HELL is he talking about that she let herself go?
You answered your own question. He's a fool. He jumped after a fleeting pleasure without realising what he had on the notion that the grass is greener on the other side, not seeing the cow pat mounds right under the blades.
I'm actually amazed by the acting great work❤
This channel is like Dhar Man
It's same but diferent meanings so its good.
You get what you give
My ex-husband did the same thing to me
Looks go away, but love doesn’t.
He never take time to talk and try to work out thing before he leaves
sometimes i dont get men and woman if ur not happy with him or her why go n cheat if u feel some type of way im old school maybe u should just talk about it before u make a fool of ur selfs that goes for both male n female... like i said im old school woman n i have never cheated in my life ive been throw relationships yes been abused beaten and stayed single for a very long time until i found the man of my dreams and here we are going on 14 years of marriage and i am blessed everyday with 3 amazing kids n a great husband....